Ajouter "The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment | Huberman Lab Podcast #59"

In this episode, I discuss the psychology and biology of desire, love and attachment. I explain how childhood attachment types are thought to inform adult attachment styles to romantic partners, and I describe some of the major theories of human mate selection, relationships and infidelity. Additionally, I explore the neurobiology and proposed subconscious processing underlying desire, love and attachment, including the roles of empathy and “positive delusion.” I outline how self-awareness can shift one’s relationship attachment style towards securely bonded partnerships. Finally, I describe specific tools and supplements that have been researched to increase libido and sex drive. Throughout the episode, I explain the science and key mechanisms underlying romantic love and outline tools for those seeking to find a strong, healthy relationship, or for those wanting to strengthen an existing relationship. 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Book Links Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139?hvadid=241584142530&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9028797&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=162209221728194164&hvtargid=kwd-878912541&hydadcr=15492_10339794 Right Brain Psychotherapy: https://www.amazon.com/Right-Brain-Psychotherapy-Allan-Schore/dp/0393712850/?hvadid=346678714779&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16597875227370056394&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028797&hvtargid=pla-573668170707&adgrpid=72499260920&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=346678714779&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16597875227370056394&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028797&hvtargid=pla-573668170707 The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718/?hvadid=312674999652&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17290471525837439185&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028797&hvtargid=pla-434109122391 Other Links The Gottman Institute Love Lab: A Research-Based Approach to Relationships: https://www.gottman.com/love-lab/ New York Times - The 36 Questions that Lead to Love (1/9/2015): https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html Timestamps 00:00:00 Desire, Love & Attachment 00:02:59 Odor, Perceived Attractiveness & Birth Control 00:08:04 Thesis, AG1 (Athletic Greens), InsideTracker 00:14:13 Romance: Balancing Love & Desire 00:19:00 Animal Studies, Vasopressin & Monogamy 00:22:06 Strange Situation Task, Childhood Attachment Styles 00:32:52 Adult Attachment Styles 00:38:50 Secure Attachment 00:41:23 Autonomic Arousal: The “See-Saw” 00:50:39 Tool: Self-Awareness, Healthy Interdependence 00:53:11 Neurobiology of Desire, Love & Attachment 00:58:02 Empathy & Mating & the Autonomic Nervous System 01:10:02 Positive Delusion, Touch 01:15:20 Relationship Stability 01:21:22 Selecting Mates, Recognition of Autonomic Tone 01:38:28 Neural Mechanisms of Romantic Attachment 01:47:43 Autonomic Coordination in Relationships 01:56:13 Infidelity & Cheating 02:08:56 “Chemistry”, Subconscious Processes 02:12:44 Tools: Libido & Sex Drive 02:20:20 Maca (Maca root) 02:25:58 Tongkat Ali (Longjack) 02:28:56 Tribulus terrestris 02:33:14 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify/Apple Reviews, Sponsors, Patreon, Instagram, Twitter, Thorne Please note that The Huberman Lab Podcast is distinct from Dr. Huberman's teaching and research roles at Stanford University School of Medicine. 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