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worrying and start living
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author dale carnegie chapter four 7
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rules for developing a mindset
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that will bring you
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peace of mind and happiness first paragraph 9
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words that can transform your
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life the great philosopher marcus aurelius who
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ruled the roman empire said
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our life is what we really think about her
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if we think about happiness we
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feel happy if we are
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visited by sad thoughts we are sad
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if there is fear in our thoughts
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we are afraid
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once an English psychiatrist conducted an
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experiment, he invited three men and
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ordered them to squeeze the dynamometer
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with all their might, the experiment was carried out with
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three different conditions where the
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experiment was carried out under
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normal working conditions of the subjects the average
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grip strength was 45 kilograms
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then the experiment was carried out after the
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subjects were subjected to
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hypnosis at the beginning they were told that they were
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very weak as a result they could
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only survive 13 kilograms this is less than 3 of their
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normal strength During the third
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experiment, Hatfield inspired the subjects
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that they were very strong, after which each
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of them managed to survive on average 64
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kilograms when the mind was filled with
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positive thoughts about strength
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melts away indeed physical strength
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increased by almost 50 percent
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such incredible strength of our
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mentality william james psychologist
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believes that we we cannot immediately
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change our emotions with the help of
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willpower alone, but we are able
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to change our actions if you are sad,
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you cannot immediately cheer up, but
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if you sit,
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move and talk with a cheerful expression, you will
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involuntarily perk up, so when
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you are sad, first of all, smile straighten your shoulders with
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all your heart,
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breathe deeply and
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try to sing a verse and with some
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funny songs,
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if you don’t know how to sing, whistle because it is
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physically impossible to remain sad and
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depressed if we put on the mask of a
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happy person, the
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second point is the desire to settle scores is
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very expensive
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when we hate our enemies we give
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them power over us they influence our
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sleep as a result of which we cannot sleep
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appetite our health and our happiness
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our enemies would dance for
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joy
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if they knew how much anxiety,
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torment and trouble they cause us
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our hatred does not harm them but
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it turns our days and nights into a nightmare
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and we may not be so holy
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as to love our enemies but for the sake of our
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own health and happiness
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let's at least forgive them and
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just forget about their existence
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third point if you do this you
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will never worry about - for
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ingratitude, don’t expect gratitude from anyone,
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then if someone suddenly
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thanks us, it will be a wonderful
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surprise, but if we don’t receive it, we
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won’t be upset, I’ll give one example:
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Andrew Carnegie, in his will, left a
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million dollars to his relative, but
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the relative began to curse him and that’s it
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because Andrew left 365 million
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dollars for
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charities and bequeathed to him only a
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measly million
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if we want to find happiness, let's
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stop thinking about gratitude or
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ingratitude and let's do
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good deeds for the inner joy
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that we experience in helping
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homeless animals, we don't expect from they are
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grateful, we do this from the bottom of our
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hearts, remember that gratitude is a
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character trait that must be
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cultivated, so if we want
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our children to be grateful,
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we must teach them this fourth
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point, would you give what you have for a
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million dollars?
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One day a guy opened his own business and
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went broke after which he had to
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close, he walked with his head down to the
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bank to take out a loan until he
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got a job. On the way, he
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met a man without both legs who was
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traveling to meet him on a wooden
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cart, while pushing off the ground with
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wooden blocks, when he caught up with a guy, a
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homeless man said what a wonderful morning isn't
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it and then the guy realized how much
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wealth he owns
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he has legs he can walk it
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gave him a surge of strength to move on
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why don't you stop right now
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and ask yourself the question why the
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hell am I bothering
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focus your attention on the
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incredible
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their wealth that we own, you would sell
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your two eyes for a billion dollars,
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what amount would you demand for your
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both legs and for your hands
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and for your hearing, mentally add up all your
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wealth and you will understand that you would not give
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what you have for all the wealth of many
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millionaires combined or would give
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write in the comments but we don’t appreciate it
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we rarely think about what we have but
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always worry about what we don’t have
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every morning when you wake up
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remember everything you have fifth
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point find yourself and be yourself
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remember that There is no other
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person on earth like you, don’t try to play the role of
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who your parents,
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friends or anyone else imagine you to be, explore your
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strengths, choose your style of clothing,
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make new friends if you feel uncomfortable with the previous ones,
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raising your children explains what is
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right and what is wrong, but don’t impose your
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lifestyle
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Angela on 3 says the most unhappy
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person is the one who longs to become someone
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and something else something the person who
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is in his physical and
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mental make-up
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if we have any physical
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defects we also try to hide them
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if a person has protruding
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teeth, then in public he will
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try in every possible way to hide them, but you
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shouldn’t be ashamed of it, it’s your
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appearance and you can’t change it, so accept yourself
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as you are and others will accept you, don’t
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imitate others, find yourself and be
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yourself sixth point
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if you got a lemon, make lemonade out of it,
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if trouble befalls you, then
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ask yourself a question and what lesson can I
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learn from this trouble, how can I
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improve my situation, always turn the
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minuses into pluses, so one day a farmer
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bought a farm and realized that he had made a mistake, the
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land seemed useless not suitable on
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it it was impossible not to grow fruits and
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raise pigs on the site there were only
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oak trees and there were rattlesnakes and he
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thought why not benefit from
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rattlesnakes
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and he began preserving the meat of
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rattlesnakes; the poison obtained from the teeth of the snakes
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was sent to laboratories and
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used for manufacturing
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antitoxic immune power radke
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snake skin was sold for exorbitant amounts of money it
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was made into women's shoes and
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handbags and canned rattlesnake meat
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was shipped to customers all over the world
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the most important thing in life is not to
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make the most of your
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successes every fool is capable of it, what
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really matters is the ability to
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extract benefit from losses it requires
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umar this is the difference between an
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intelligent person and a fool the seventh point is
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how to cure melancholy in 14 days
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alfred adler used to tell his
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patients suffering from melancholy
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the following you can be cured in 14
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days if every day you think about what
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you can do someone pleases
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why if you do a good deed every day
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it has such an amazing
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effect on the one who does it
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because the desire to
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please others does not allow us to
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think about ourselves and this is the
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main cause of anxiety fear and
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melancholy caring for others not only
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distracts you anxiety for yourself, it will
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also help you make many
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friends and get a lot of pleasures in
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life pay attention to the
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people around you
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thank or give a compliment to
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the saleswoman where you constantly buy
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goods ask the hairdresser where he
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studied how many years he has been working with this you
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lift people's spirits you make them
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important every person needs although would be
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in a little human attention to yourself
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Chapter 5
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how to protect yourself from anxiety and
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criticism point one remember that no one
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ever beats a dead dog the more
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significant a person is, the more
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satisfaction people
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insult him receive when they attack you
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or criticize you unfairly remember that
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this is often done because it
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gives you insult or a sense of
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self-importance, often it
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indicates that you
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have achieved something and deserve attention, many
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people feel a cruel sense of
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satisfaction by insulting those who have
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education
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or more success than them; second point,
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do this and criticism will not bring you
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grief; most of them we take
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minor grievances and insults
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too close to the heart, act according to the
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dictates of your heart, you will still be
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judged no matter what you do
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when you become a victim of an
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unfair condemnation, just
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laugh, you can answer a person who is
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rude to you in response, but what can you say to a
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person who only laughs third
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point stupid things I've done
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keep a journal in which you write down the
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stupid things you've
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done then sit down in the evening and
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ask yourself
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what mistakes did I make this time what
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did I do right and in what ways
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could I have done better what lessons
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can I learn from this experience with With the help of
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this self-analysis, from year to year you
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will make much fewer mistakes,
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large organizations, on the contrary, gather
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their employees and ask them
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to criticize the company in order to identify the
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shortcomings of their activities Chapter 6 6
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rules, compliance with which will
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prevent fatigue and anxiety The
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first point is how to add an hour to
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each day of your active in life,
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fatigue is often a cause of
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anxiety, so preventing
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fatigue helps prevent
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anxiety, and so to prevent
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fatigue, anxiety, oddly enough, you
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need to rest more often, rest before you
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feel tired, if you
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have time, then take an hour in the middle of the day
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to sleep, a
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short rest has such a
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great restorative ability
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that even a five-minute nap will help
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prevent fatigue if you can
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sleep an hour from 5 to 6 or at seven o'clock in
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the evening then in this way you can
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add an hour to your active life
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because sleeping for an hour before
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dinner + 6 hours of sleep at night for a total of 7
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hours is more beneficial than eight hours
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continuously you on the second point why you
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get tired and how to overcome fatigue
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scientists have found that mental
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activity in itself cannot
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tire you, in other words, our brain can
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work just as well and as quickly at the
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end of an 8-hour or even 12-hour
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working day as at the beginning,
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psychiatrists claim that in most
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cases, fatigue is the result of a
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mental and emotional state;
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boredom;
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resentment; feeling of not being appreciated;
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feeling of the meaninglessness of your work;
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haste and anxiety; all these are emotional
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factors that reduce the
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performance of an office worker;
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to avoid this, learn
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to relax when you do work;
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relaxation means absence of
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any tension and effort, think about
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something pleasant and gradually
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relax, first let
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the muscles of your eyes and face relax,
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feel how the energy is directed from the
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facial muscles to the center of your body, let
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your body be as pliable as an
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old sock, do this several times a
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day
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so that the third point has become a habit:
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how a housewife can avoid
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fatigue and still look young
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Dr. Rose Helper Ding said that in
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her opinion one of the best ways
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to relieve anxiety is to tell about
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your troubles to someone you
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trust; experiencing loneliness and the
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desire to hide your troubles from
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others leads to enormous nervous
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tension we all feel the need
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to share our worries with someone to
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share our worries
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we need to feel that there is someone in the world
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who is ready to listen to us
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and is able to understand the
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fourth point 4 good work
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habits that will help you overcome
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fatigue and anxiety skill 1
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clear your desk of all
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papers except those that are related
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to the problem at hand, just the sight of
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being littered with letters, unanswered
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reports and memos causes
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confusion, stress and anxiety, the
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constant reminder of a million
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unfulfilled tasks and the lack of time
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to complete them can cause you
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not only stress and fatigue
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but also increased blood pressure,
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cardiac dysfunction and stomach ulcers
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second skill do things in order of
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importance get up as early as possible
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or you can take time in the evening and
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plan your tasks for the next
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day so that you do them in order of
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importance third skill
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when a problem arises in front of you,
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solve it immediately if you have
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the facts necessary to make a
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decision without postponing the decision for later 4
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skill learn to organize work,
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delegate responsibility and
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exercise control if a person does not
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delegate his work and tries to
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do everything himself, then soon he will drown in a mass of
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different things
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he will be overcome by a feeling constant rush
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anxiety anxiety and tension 6
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point how to overcome boredom causing
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fatigue anxiety and feelings of resentment
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It is well known that our emotional
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mood causes fatigue to a much greater extent
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than physical
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stress Dr. Barmak suggested a
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group of students to perform a series of tests
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which, as he knew, could not
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interest them as a result the students
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felt tired and drowsy
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complained of headaches and
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eye strain became irritable in
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some cases even
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stomach upset was observed this was not
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imagination a study was conducted on the
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metabolism of these students the
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results showed that the
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body's blood pressure and
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oxygen absorption actually decrease when a
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person is bored but the entire metabolism is
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immediate improves as soon as a person
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begins to feel interested in work and
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enjoy it
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sixth point how to get rid of
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anxiety about insomnia
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we spend a third of our lives in sleep,
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however no one knows what a dream
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represents in reality
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and how much sleep each
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person needs one lawyer had insomnia,
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instead of tossing and turning all night and
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bringing her to a nervous breakdown, he began and
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worked,
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he soon became one of the best lawyers
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because while the rest were sleeping,
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he worked and at the same time felt
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fine, this man lived until he was 81 years old,
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although he almost never slept well but
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if he had been nervous and worried about
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insomnia, perhaps he would have ruined his
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life. One of the best remedies for
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insomnia is grueling
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physical work. No one has ever died from
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insomnia. If the body needs
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rest, he will make a person fall asleep even
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if he is standing,
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like and be sure to leave any
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comment under this and the rest of the videos
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