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self-esteem voice is also interconnected00:00:05
self-worth is even more of a state00:00:07
always primary in any communication00:00:09
I listen to these people and understand damn it like I do00:00:12
ok it turns out I'm talking to me00:00:13
it seemed I wasn't very honest, you00:00:15
very toxic audience towards00:00:17
toxic you are toxic to yourself Yes I am00:00:19
screwed up Yes they told me I was an idiot well00:00:21
Okay, maybe now he will eat me00:00:23
because well, someone needs to be imprisoned00:00:26
energy must go out to the person who00:00:28
records a video and still needs it00:00:30
some kind of diet is right I'm telling00:00:32
people friends Hello everyone And today on00:00:36
my channel about the health of interesting I00:00:38
unusual let's say the goose is not a doctor00:00:40
a psychotherapist is not a psychologist but a life coach00:00:43
speech voice and public speaking all00:00:47
before Kasparov the man who is00:00:48
founder of the largest project00:00:51
by voice and speech the voice can be correct00:00:54
said the Voice maybe and another plus00:00:56
all this beauty, smart and human00:00:58
which carries the Bosphorus about this separately00:01:02
in general, basically the story sed Hi I'm00:01:05
I really want you to reveal to us today00:01:07
told me some of my secrets00:01:10
you are so beautiful you can do it like this00:01:12
enveloping I've been watching you00:01:14
I watched your performance as you can00:01:15
talk maybe some advice00:01:17
practice applicable techniques I'm waiting for me too00:01:21
I think our conversation will happen today00:01:22
useful to absolutely every viewer00:01:25
and thank you to the listener for the invitation00:01:27
Today we will consider the topic of voice and speech00:01:28
the truth from different sides And about life about00:01:31
we will talk about work with confidence00:01:32
interesting let's go Seda yes Well hi I am00:01:37
I'm very glad that you are on my channel I'm very00:01:39
I'm glad I found the time to come. I know you00:01:41
after a long00:01:42
long trip I left everything and00:01:45
came to us so thank you very much00:01:46
I want to ask probably the most important one00:01:50
question so that our listeners and00:01:55
the audience understood why it was so important00:01:58
today's conversation is important for everyone00:02:00
Please tell me why voice is important00:02:04
Not only the voice is important, speech is also important00:02:07
Because these two elements of manifestation00:02:09
man they always go together00:02:10
together it00:02:12
synergy there is no other way to say it Because00:02:15
when you appear in space00:02:17
a person is judged by you not only by00:02:19
clothes not only by watch rings and00:02:21
so on We are people, adult sparrows on00:02:24
you can't get through the chaff, you open your mouth and00:02:25
everything becomes clear to you00:02:27
Level of education is self-confident00:02:30
or there is nothing to talk to you about how much00:02:33
you're standing again, everything is being read00:02:35
literally from the first sound and00:02:38
depending on how you show up00:02:40
And how do you carry yourself into the world?00:02:42
accordingly you get something from him00:02:44
As they say, we don't get what we get00:02:45
we deserve and what we managed00:02:47
agree And how we do it with words00:02:49
voice through mouth matters matters00:02:52
meaning agree please tell me here00:02:55
voices are different and in general From what00:02:59
depends on the voice of a person and now you speak00:03:02
at the first glance at anyone00:03:05
You can understand a person a little here's what00:03:07
you can understand what the voice depends on00:03:09
the voice depends on the truth on a number of factors00:03:12
It's hormonal, naturally00:03:15
testosterone is more important than it00:03:18
more than a little more bass player00:03:20
velvety volumetric sounding voice00:03:22
first next physiology next00:03:24
nationality of a number of nationalities00:03:26
has its own characteristics, someone sounds00:03:28
more so here's the ear What's interesting Well00:03:31
I know for sure that the Caucasus is more like this00:03:35
Oh voluminous and women including further00:03:39
The way your parents said it00:03:41
in particular, mom will also influence that00:03:43
how do you sound because the first voice00:03:45
which we hear in the womb Yes he00:03:47
passes through the amniotic fluid and so on00:03:49
further, but still this mother’s voice and00:03:52
further if your mother is, for example, a Fairy00:03:54
the flowers you grow are all in this fluor00:03:56
girls say that's how you are00:03:58
you adjust, you start mirroring you00:04:00
it seems that this is your speech norm00:04:02
plus the sociocultural background in which you00:04:06
you grow up if girls, for example, are not allowed00:04:07
appear silently quieter man in charge00:04:11
then she will conduct at the level of physics00:04:14
like this, huddled and naturally on00:04:16
voice level, that is, a huge Spectrum00:04:18
factors work your position then00:04:20
schools anything we reflect from00:04:24
other people and we depend in many ways on00:04:26
manifestation of how he reacts to us00:04:28
Therefore, yes, yes, there is a lot of things, there is a base00:04:30
Of course, it can be adjusted further00:04:32
But you said that you can understand about00:04:35
person in the first five minutes very00:04:38
a lot here Come on, we're with you for the first time00:04:40
see you today come on what do you think about me00:04:42
I understand, I really want you00:04:44
add such a whip something like that00:04:46
leather dominatrix because she came in00:04:48
such where what Because if you were00:04:51
so girly Hello let's start yes Well00:04:54
everything is clear Everything about you is clear at once00:04:58
so it’s not surprising that00:05:00
you, that is, I am a madam, you are a madam in general00:05:02
These are dominators, it’s clear what you have00:05:04
huge staff, it’s clear that you have big ones00:05:06
international projects it was logical00:05:08
it would be strange if you were all here00:05:10
such that there are people who are like that00:05:12
people talking means that what 5000:05:15
at 50 No With them everything is the same, but for example here00:05:18
this girl or young woman who00:05:20
chooses the format here I am always from me00:05:23
there everything is decided by a little Renata00:05:25
Litvinova Yes on minimal wages and it’s Okay for her00:05:28
but you would, for example, live in this format00:05:30
I couldn’t because you need everything so much00:05:31
let's quickly start working Everyone00:05:33
we sat down and worked. Your nature is different00:05:37
your aesthetics are different because you're a girl00:05:39
who talks like that, she rather00:05:41
I'm used to negotiating in a different way00:05:43
maybe she can somehow butter something else up for her00:05:45
they carry it like they give it to a cat00:05:47
change your voice a little to00:05:49
learn the mind to femininity00:05:52
add oh my god you sexy00:05:54
such a rush to add there Where else00:05:57
convinced00:05:58
a person who talks like that00:06:02
so you showed that this is still a person with00:06:04
a certain character, that is, a voice00:06:05
speaks about a person, it's character, it's yours00:06:09
values are your motives these are yours00:06:11
softness or vice versa hardness That is00:06:13
if you are really fragile fairy tender00:06:15
girl this is wonderful and very important00:06:18
be in contact and in agreement with your00:06:22
nature when we play this to00:06:23
when we were little everyone gave it to us like this00:06:25
people history you can play too much and00:06:28
forget yourself And when you understand, well, to me00:06:30
It’s easier to negotiate in this tone Yes00:06:32
great This is my base but if for example I00:06:35
I see that this voice makes people a little00:06:37
they shrink and think that I’m going to beat them00:06:39
I'll go Okay, how can I add softness?00:06:41
maybe in intonation maybe in00:06:43
smile because I don’t yell at them00:06:45
But for some reason it seems to them that I am like this now00:06:47
I'll just tear it up in a rag And when you know00:06:49
about myself I know my physiology I know00:06:52
your volume parameters I know how to do it00:06:54
it is advantageous to emphasize also with speech and00:06:55
with my voice I know how I can influence00:06:58
at a person in a certain tone with a pause and00:07:02
these are my tools this is my box00:07:03
gears Everything then all the doors are in front of you00:07:05
open Can I ask you a personal question? Tell me00:07:09
please why am I here00:07:12
I know a lot of people00:07:14
hate listening to their voices listen00:07:18
your voice somewhere in the recording and so on00:07:21
That is, I perform a lot and when I00:07:24
They always send the video for approval.00:07:26
I let my assistants watch I don't00:07:27
I can I can't listen to myself I think00:07:29
I have a terribly nasty nasty voice00:07:31
why does it seem like this to so many people?00:07:35
for the most part Yes, this is a common story00:07:36
When you listen to your voice and you00:07:39
I like it already Yes, but I've gone my way00:07:42
when we listen to ourselves in the moment Yes00:07:45
look I'm talking and I not only hear myself00:07:48
I also feel what is happening to mine00:07:50
with my body when I talk I feel it00:07:52
resonance vibration how ligaments work00:07:55
what's wrong with the larynx, how does the voice fit the body?00:07:57
spills I feel it for the first time00:08:00
turn And when we listen to ourselves on recording00:08:01
It's like we're just the tip00:08:03
let's cut off this bodily wealth00:08:06
no because of this it seems to us that it is not00:08:08
we But it's still the same annoying ones00:08:11
haters my comments are for me00:08:14
the last ones there maybe Well, how did I start00:08:16
actively shoot YouTube actively shoot00:08:19
reals just under every rice under every00:08:23
with my YouTube video they write to me Natalya00:08:25
it's impossible to watch you because you00:08:28
you gesticulate a lot, poor things00:08:30
I'm just looking at you now00:08:32
You also gesture, that is, I can’t00:08:34
when I tell something I can't00:08:36
sit like this Well I can’t I don’t know why00:08:39
maybe someone writes what it is00:08:41
showing uncertainty about what you mean00:08:44
you say, but I know for sure that I00:08:46
I'm absolutely sure If I say something I00:08:49
I'm absolutely sure of this00:08:50
one hundred percent Well I can't00:08:54
talk without gestures and just This00:08:56
it's not one, it's not two, it's not 10, it's not that00:08:59
even haters are my normal people00:09:01
subscribers they write Natalya you can00:09:03
Gesture a little less00:09:05
greatly distracts your hands from what00:09:08
you say that's a very good question I00:09:11
I usually agree with the commentators and00:09:13
I say yes everything is exactly as you saw00:09:15
you know better, of course, but if you dig into00:09:18
the depth of this topic, we see that gestures00:09:20
This is a continuation of you this is a continuation00:09:22
the result of your emotional speed00:09:25
and internal mobility of nature00:09:27
aesthetics if you're so crazy00:09:30
empress it is logical that there will be gestures00:09:32
so first second topic of conversation00:09:34
when it's something deep when you00:09:36
you hardly talk to your loved one00:09:38
you will be like at an Armenian wedding No00:09:41
it will be a very low key wedding00:09:43
they will be very reserved and neat00:09:45
calm gestures or lack thereof00:09:47
second third event format00:09:50
if we have a large hall No wait here00:09:53
video on YouTube Well, we have different people00:09:55
look When, for example, there is a big hall and there00:09:57
we need to take up a lot of space we see people00:09:58
We, of course, include broad gestures A00:10:01
during filming we don’t see people and00:10:05
you start working What is called and00:10:07
for yourself because of that guy because you00:10:09
it is necessary by all means to produce some00:10:11
effect to attract Yes there is, but it’s visuals and00:10:14
so on and so on yes someone00:10:15
literally reads it on his fingers And now00:10:16
let's think if you're human00:10:18
emotional and we tell you not00:10:20
gesturing you distracted what we will have00:10:22
your hands don't move and it starts00:10:24
move your face, for example, and your eyebrows00:10:27
starts writing, don't move your eyebrows and00:10:29
in the end they write Well, well, imagine, Yes, here it is00:10:32
you twisted your hands and didn’t use your nose00:10:34
wiggle your ears too And in the end you00:10:37
it turns out that only the mouth moves00:10:39
tense because emotions go nowhere00:10:40
they come out and you start somehow00:10:42
eyes and all sorts of energy should00:10:45
your body always helps you get out00:10:48
when speaking you can’t cut it off Why00:10:50
People00:10:51
because for the most part people are not in00:10:54
at peace with your body Look at00:10:56
those around us are not on those around us now00:10:58
in general it is very difficult for people to speak00:11:00
people and B find it difficult to manifest themselves physically00:11:03
Here they are in this pipi position Yes00:11:05
this is the pose of a football player00:11:08
covered ourselves and here's Hello or00:11:10
grandma knits this is my favorite pose00:11:12
grandma knits further and further than the range No way00:11:19
this is the whole range because we don't know00:11:21
How come we weren’t taught this anywhere and00:11:24
so the person who is free00:11:25
It manifests itself too much for us. It’s not necessary.00:11:28
without making it so distracting distracting Yes00:11:31
because I don’t do that, I’m starting00:11:34
I don't like comparing myself to you00:11:36
it's all hard for me, but it's00:11:39
it's not about you, it's about me as a viewer00:11:41
Why do I react to the fact that a person00:11:43
appears but the same story Too00:11:46
bright eyes remember how office romance00:11:50
I call this at all I didn’t wear it00:11:52
about good boots you should take Yes00:11:53
you need to take good boots, I understand that00:11:56
there is no need to pay attention to this00:11:57
it's all a matter of taste if you're into it00:12:00
it’s comfortable if I help you with your gestures00:12:02
I can't imagine nor gesticulate00:12:05
I know even if I say something in a webinar00:12:07
me yes, that is, I don’t read I don’t have00:12:10
some kind of prompter I don't have abs I00:12:12
just there for 3 hours with a person00:12:14
I'm talking I can't sit like this00:12:17
if I sit like this I won't do anything00:12:18
tell Of course you're alive00:12:20
you take it from yourself and give it away, it’s normal00:12:22
everything is with you Yes, here I am after all00:12:26
on my channel I talk about health Yes and00:12:28
I'm very interested, I understand that the voice00:12:32
this is a very important tool but we00:12:37
We’ll talk about this later. It’s still important to me.00:12:40
Does our body somehow affect00:12:44
the state of our body and the most00:12:46
the main thing is that what we eat affects our voice00:12:49
especially if if we are considering this00:12:51
topic in the context of ordinary everyday00:12:54
communication, for example, some kind of speech00:12:56
important conversation Here we are now with you00:12:58
let's drink some water and that's okay00:13:01
I know that I know that coffee yes yes Okay00:13:04
for ligaments there are a number of products that00:13:07
really worth excluding when we00:13:09
we are talking about some long conversation00:13:11
technology cold hot yes Tea coffee00:13:14
it's all individual it's all00:13:17
individually again because00:13:19
for some people coffee doesn't work at all for me00:13:20
there was a wonderful colleague on the radio who00:13:22
brewed myself this grain00:13:24
the coffee boy ate a marshmallow and walked away00:13:27
5 minutes later it’s on air and nothing’s wrong with him00:13:30
it was good we couldn't let us00:13:33
Well, because00:13:35
soreness here are the tannins that00:13:37
found in these products they cause00:13:39
this is quacking and you are sitting on the air and00:13:42
there are a million people listening to you00:13:44
nothing can be mounted plus milk00:13:46
which causes00:13:47
this is an unpleasant education yes yes00:13:52
sweet milk nuts apples This is it00:13:56
they also call such a basic set00:13:59
you may or may not be coughing00:14:01
but if for you this is for example the first00:14:04
performance or first something important00:14:06
the meeting is not particularly worth it Then you00:14:08
you won't know what to do with yourself00:14:11
ok, but they say, for example, before00:14:14
performance you need to sip some cognac for00:14:16
in order to warm the ligaments00:14:18
warm it up, it's better to do some00:14:20
useful useful warm up and everything will be fine00:14:24
alcohol has a good effect on ligaments00:14:27
the voice is again very individual00:14:29
we know a huge number of examples00:14:30
when singers and speakers really00:14:33
crushed 50 g of cognac and I wouldn’t go00:14:37
afraid in terms of ligaments I would00:14:39
feared in part of the brain and00:14:40
relaxed because we are00:14:43
we drink these 50 grams not to00:14:45
adjust the connections to worry00:14:47
give but I've never done that It's just me00:14:50
I heard that many people do this yes yes but00:14:52
no, it's better to just drink warm water00:14:55
at room temperature it will be much00:14:56
it's better to do a warm-up because00:14:58
alcohol is definitely not worth anything00:15:00
warm up someone of course will say And I00:15:02
did it again but the result00:15:05
we can't do one person00:15:06
extrapolate to everyone else But00:15:08
raw eggs, this is the whole story, but those who00:15:11
not afraid of salmonellosis it seems already00:15:13
It's okay, you can drink it if you're very00:15:14
I want to00:15:17
again a number of points, for example in00:15:20
critical days for girls who sing00:15:22
and they talk to them a lot, for example, not00:15:24
it’s worth overworking the ligaments because00:15:25
practically yes yes yes I know for sure that00:15:28
if a girl falls in the choir they are on period00:15:31
these days are simply crossed out from00:15:33
rehearsal process because it's big00:15:36
load on ligaments A in normal00:15:38
of course no everyday communication00:15:40
we won't have a hemorrhage, but we00:15:42
Let's really push ourselves a little00:15:44
more And if, for example, you have this00:15:45
the day of the webinar then you will tense up 10 times00:15:48
more than usual and we just need to talk about it00:15:49
I know you have an amazing voice and00:15:53
I don’t know how it will be in the recording Well here it is00:15:55
when I talk to you00:15:57
sound director but I mean when with00:16:00
you communicate with you, you start these00:16:02
using your voice means creating different things00:16:04
vibration drawings draw you00:16:06
I really want to listen to you Tell me00:16:08
please how do you eat00:16:10
Do you have any non-systems in general?00:16:15
you have some restrictions that is00:16:16
You follow if you have a recording you somehow00:16:18
you're holding yourself back, yes, that's how you are00:16:20
you are definitely trying to tell me00:16:22
long gone before recording coffee tea00:16:25
yes yes coffee no I'm basically a carrot you00:16:28
me now but you're fine00:16:30
I just00:16:32
I give you everything well, definitely not00:16:36
sweets even if you really want milk00:16:39
Well, I'm away from her for other reasons00:16:40
refused. It's not traumatic for me.00:16:42
but I know that it’s difficult for people. But how?00:16:44
this is without coffee without sweets after00:16:46
Yes please00:16:47
a lot of water so that there is still mucous membrane00:16:49
wet00:16:51
Well, that is, milk yes Before the performance00:16:56
crackers anything that can hurt00:16:58
mucous membrane00:16:59
hedgehogs seeds nuts there Dasha apples00:17:01
interesting, I understand this voice00:17:04
after all, the tool is still very important00:17:06
and how to use it in everyday life00:17:10
some methods can be achieved00:17:12
what you want is a great question first00:17:15
what you should pay attention to is00:17:17
voice depth height What does depth mean00:17:20
Height height00:17:22
That is, when you want to take a man out00:17:25
to get emotional just throw him a tantrum00:17:27
of course you turn on this top and00:17:29
you start drilling into his brain and raping him00:17:31
the same brain through the ears it works00:17:34
bad but for some reason many persist if00:17:38
we want everyone to hear00:17:40
understood it’s worth thinking about this one00:17:41
chest resonator first we talk00:17:43
then from the heart secondly to such voices00:17:47
listen and they have more00:17:49
effect for example Hello friends00:17:50
come on in Or for example Anatoly let's00:17:53
we'll talk to you Anatoly Let's00:17:55
hysterical I don't want to talk to you00:17:57
This is the first and this is about our00:17:59
relaxation and that’s what our mood is about00:18:01
connectives or not further Rate of speech speed00:18:04
when we start talking fast often00:18:06
out of excitement or something like that00:18:08
In a stressful situation, we don’t hear ourselves00:18:10
b we can’t control and00:18:12
adjust and we are carried somewhere like this00:18:15
itself a story when we slow down with us00:18:17
more space to be00:18:19
in contact with a person ask a question00:18:21
take a pause and the one who asks questions00:18:24
pauses, plus this00:18:26
the voice somehow becomes automatic00:18:28
bigger in the eyes of the interlocutor next00:18:31
when you support the visual00:18:32
Contact And when you jabber this00:18:34
impossible to do you save yourself from00:18:37
words of parasites of this garbage in speech00:18:40
because we can't afford00:18:42
look at the beautiful eyes of your interlocutor00:18:44
No our internal our internal00:18:49
an intellectual will not allow Remember Everyone00:18:51
times when it appears in our speech00:18:52
some kind of dirt And for it it is born exactly00:18:56
in those moments when we were distracted but oh00:18:58
we think about something in parallel Yes, everything is the same00:18:59
as soon as we unfastened from the person00:19:01
let's go further Intonation and pauses and00:19:06
accents Intonation for example rising00:19:07
when we Hello Zay let's go Yeah When you00:19:11
boss you can't do that00:19:12
talk00:19:13
Well, go to the carpet Yes, how are you doing?00:19:17
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men I have a question00:31:39
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behave with a person, be it a man00:32:01
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question: What is valuable to him in this00:33:56
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why are you a rehabilitation specialist and not a proctologist?00:34:00
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in my opinion this is not about speech, not about voice00:34:50
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starts to happen That is, you come in00:34:58
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this is so scary this is very deep00:36:08
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people and I constantly convince people that00:37:42
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argumentation because argumentation00:38:24
naturally let's start with the man00:38:27
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necessary00:38:34
let him go in peace, let him eat in peace00:38:37
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And in order for me to understand, I need to read it00:39:26
analyze go smoke what you need00:39:29
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you underline the markers and seem to speak00:39:33
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everything else can just be in the background and so on00:39:42
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the whole stream of what pours out of you00:39:52
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this is what we replace Big Macs with Yes, sugar00:39:58
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person on what he will take away from the dialogue00:40:10
with you he won't remember 15 minutes of text00:40:12
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men also for example you want a husband00:40:19
convince me to buy this car Isn't it you00:40:22
convince you to buy a Tiffany painting there00:40:25
for example, how to convince a good choice00:40:27
good choice but let's not forget that00:40:28
any communication is public00:40:30
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that is, it is necessary with men in the morning00:40:41
agree first. We need to look at00:40:43
state when he died at work00:40:45
brought your carcass home and you got a beer00:40:48
wait I want to talk to you00:40:51
we need to talk he no longer he no longer00:40:54
determined at the end of the day will always be difficult00:40:56
especially if it was a hard day so00:40:58
I really need to test this one and monitor it00:41:00
after lunch00:41:01
maybe it will be better depends on00:41:04
men what's up with him00:41:05
everything is digested as with the audience00:41:06
the truth is that it is necessary at the beginning and at the end00:41:09
your speech your speech enter00:41:12
the most important weighty arguments are here00:41:15
right at the very beginning we come in trump card00:41:17
and in the final too because in the middle00:41:19
Everything will just go to waste, he won't00:41:21
will focus and miss00:41:23
here again Yes, convey from the point00:41:25
in terms of benefits for him Why for him00:41:27
it's beneficial that you need a picture00:41:29
It’s clear to him what it’s like00:41:32
self-presentation of an expert you are wonderful00:41:34
doctor What's in it for me? What's in it for me00:41:37
I certainly agree with this and will be with00:41:39
to be friends with you I always thought that00:41:41
It's better to talk in the evening sometime00:41:42
you come home in the evening and now I understand00:41:44
that when I come home tired at 1000:41:47
o'clock in the evening the whole thing attacks me00:41:49
family and start mom then mom everything Natasha00:41:52
I need this Natasha, I’m sitting there thinking00:41:54
Leave me alone, I don't want anything00:41:55
everything is unconditional00:41:57
everything is definitely individual, well conditionally00:41:59
if it's Friday and it's relaxed00:42:01
evening Yes, I love everyone, go hug00:42:03
cool perfect time please tell me00:42:06
how come00:42:08
delivered speech beautiful voice00:42:10
helps you get a job About this00:42:13
beautiful story Look Imagine yourself00:42:15
in the role00:42:18
you're interviewing a person you don't know who we are00:42:21
so good00:42:23
Imagine you are company X which00:42:26
looking for the best in the world to join his team00:42:29
advertising expert Yes, a person who00:42:33
makes coffee, so it’s Mega important for you and00:42:35
someone appears in front of you who00:42:37
says Hello, my name is Oksana00:42:39
no matter Ivan Anatoly Efrosine I'm watching00:42:42
Anatoly is your favorite name Well, it’s necessary00:42:44
someone Excuse me Anatoly usually Oleg00:42:46
Oleg yes Usually the hero of stitches of pies00:42:48
Oleg Yes Fedor Yes Fedor My name is Oksana00:42:51
My work experience My work experience is 20 years00:42:54
Now I’m already a leader and this is Bodrum00:42:56
Oksana talks in a pioneering voice00:42:58
that he has been managing projects for 20 years and this00:43:00
a little in our head does not correlate with00:43:02
thus00:43:03
20 years of experience Yes, because after all00:43:07
it will probably be a little different and we00:43:10
we fall into the trap of templates and clichés00:43:11
for example, a psychologist should not walk00:43:14
blue hair there with a mohawk00:43:16
tattooed doctor with tattoos Yes00:43:18
there's something there Psychologist And something got divorced00:43:20
psychologist what? Where is the logic?00:43:23
If I'm a male gynecologist, what do I not?00:43:25
children I should hang myself Now we too00:43:28
we fall into these cognitive traps00:43:30
distortions and think and remember about it00:43:32
important especially memory for which00:43:35
you are interviewing for the position because00:43:38
if you walk like a leader then the conclusion is00:43:40
so yes, good afternoon, still swallow00:43:43
I'm so worried about noisemakers Yes, this is it00:43:45
won't come in at all because then you're for00:43:48
I'm lost as a person I trust00:43:50
How should you come and say hello?00:43:52
we are following the voice Yes hello I am00:43:55
Oksana Well this is a short basic00:43:57
self-presentation is not just Oksana Oksana00:43:59
and Oksana Ivanova and you continue to give out00:44:01
her self-presentation she can be00:44:03
any But I’m definitely not talking about this00:44:06
the story about I Am is one of those00:44:08
common mistakes Because when it’s not that00:44:11
It’s impossible As Nina said beautifully00:44:13
Zverev is the Lord God Yes,00:44:15
The appearance of Christ to the people better than I am00:44:18
the doctor can't say that, well, you can but00:44:21
imagine that I listen to people every day00:44:24
who are somewhere First she00:44:26
is a doctor and at night she00:44:28
is Little Red Riding Hood after all00:44:31
it's still not worth it Yes, I'm a doctor or00:44:33
the last 20 years or for 20 years now I00:44:36
doing this and that on my00:44:38
account opening patents clients students00:44:42
and so on And this is a little different That00:44:45
there is your voice for example on00:44:47
in an interview, he gives you away. What do you have?00:44:49
actually inside Yes, this is again00:44:51
your excitement Why are you worried we00:44:53
everyone We're all worried We're all worried but how are we00:44:56
we know how to cope with this anxiety00:44:58
it is impossible no matter how much experience you have00:45:00
didn't come don't worry it's ours00:45:02
normal condition but my value is00:45:05
that I'm worried, how I deal with it00:45:06
I get stained but I continue00:45:08
talk and don't think and don't think about what00:45:11
Oh I'm all stained Oh my God Everyone is watching00:45:13
on them no00:45:14
Normal story man covered00:45:17
spots cope allergic reaction00:45:19
on Cortisol, the stress hormone when we00:45:21
we get nervous and get covered in spots00:45:23
means we need kidneys00:45:25
check that's great so good ok00:45:28
Like a delivered speech and the right voice00:45:31
helps manage subordinates00:45:36
but of course it’s about Trust Yes00:45:38
improve00:45:40
lead00:45:42
everything is correct the word manage is not00:45:45
I like the good stuff Well, I just have it00:45:48
big team I manage them00:45:50
you definitely know how it’s chess, yes00:45:53
online offline and you need to arrange everyone and00:45:56
here teach me how to manage effectively00:45:59
with the help of a given voice and we00:46:02
we always trust the voices that sound00:46:04
here from here from the chest, that is, again Here00:46:07
yes, everything is very simple there00:46:09
level of nature and some such past00:46:11
instincts yes because if we talk00:46:13
quite high and a little like a mouse00:46:16
then we are rather small We are rather00:46:18
performers or hysterics are better with her00:46:20
don't butt heads, I'll do everything right here00:46:23
just not that is necessary low00:46:26
his voice is not low, it's more like Hmm00:46:28
the middle register is more likely from the chest then00:46:31
there are disks, this is Anastasia00:46:35
and the diaphragm is what I understand that00:46:38
you understand, that is, I heard this00:46:39
it's the chest register when we sound00:46:41
from the chest we will not go into hard00:46:43
terminology Well yes that's what it's called00:46:45
speaking from the chest it is clear that we00:46:48
talking about cords and the voice resonates in00:46:51
chest area, it resonates in the head and00:46:54
in the larynx it’s all clear here rather00:46:56
about diversity Because if we00:46:58
found this low note and on it00:47:00
nothing will happen yes but when can we00:47:04
switch a little higher and Anastasia00:47:07
Pavlovna, how are we doing with the reports, by the way?00:47:09
Peter Please bring it to me too00:47:12
switched and behind this And it’s interesting00:47:14
observe if you are the person who knows how00:47:17
manage your condition and that too00:47:19
important and means you know how to manage it00:47:21
people including Yes, from these00:47:23
markers and the total is added up00:47:24
I definitely have an impression of you00:47:26
a huge number of beautiful00:47:28
leaders who don't bother00:47:29
with things like speech voice they are 2000:47:33
for years this is how they worked and how they work00:47:34
everything is worth it everything works everything everything00:47:37
everything seems to be great, but they took it and00:47:39
they take other qualities rather than workers00:47:41
Now we live in a world where00:47:43
the ability to present yourself is incredibly important and00:47:46
especially when you find yourself in a new one00:47:48
the team matters how you behave00:47:50
submit because this is how it is00:47:52
they would have hesitated there, they would have hesitated, everyone would have given00:47:55
slack Everything is clear So it’s possible somewhere00:47:58
it means you can squeeze it somewhere Well00:48:00
Let's agree on what we are if we are not our own, what00:48:02
Well, look, I understand for sure that the voice00:48:05
this is an important ability to talk00:48:06
important but if00:48:09
it's so important if you don't have it00:48:12
at the level of some kind of reflex yes00:48:14
acquired then it turns out00:48:16
Constantly need to control yourself No00:48:18
this is not about control dear man I am not00:48:20
I agree you need to be able to listen to yourself and00:48:23
hear this is what we don't do we00:48:25
we lose our temper, do you know the four stages?00:48:28
which a person goes through when learning new things00:48:31
At first this unconscious00:48:33
competence when we don't know the Self00:48:36
I don’t even know we live We live appears here00:48:37
The coach says listen, you're missing out.00:48:39
this and this and this zone of conscious00:48:42
incompetence I already know what I need00:48:44
something is missing I'm going to study then I00:48:46
I practice and it’s conscious00:48:49
competence and I really follow00:48:51
behind the way I say this And what do I have00:48:53
depth height fast not fast and then00:48:56
unconscious competence That is,00:48:58
automatic Here you are thanks to your Experience You00:49:01
has been on automatic mode for a long time, that is, in the very00:49:03
at the beginning you spend on top so00:49:05
ok Yes everything Yeah let's go00:49:07
conditionally the rule is at the start of the webinar and00:49:11
then it seems to be on its own and it seems to you that00:49:13
well, I can’t control you00:49:15
no need for you to have it built00:49:17
automatically and it's really so basic00:49:20
settings that become basic00:49:22
I didn’t learn this. Where is this from?00:49:24
came experience experience plus remember how you are00:49:27
talked 12 years ago00:49:29
I was cooking00:49:35
soap the floors, I was giving birth to children00:49:38
normal woman that's why you were a fairy00:49:40
or no you never had it all the same00:49:43
there was some kind of base and then it changes00:49:45
your status appears more00:49:47
self-worth is logical You are in space00:49:49
you begin to take up more space and your00:49:51
your voice automatically sounds different if00:49:54
I wish you could continue washing the wood chips now00:49:56
floors but you would be different in manifestation00:49:59
it would be different too, but here I am for you00:50:02
told me when you and I00:50:03
you were talking under the cast uh about that00:50:05
that I am now launching a personal course00:50:07
brand and we have now created a channel00:50:11
telegram channel where there is such a small one00:50:13
community Well, how small 6,000 people00:50:15
little woman No but I mean00:50:18
that this has just begun I want it00:50:20
community to develop so that specialists in00:50:23
in the field of healthy lifestyle, not only doctors but also00:50:24
nutritionists coaches trainers cosmetologists00:50:27
pharmacists are all who somehow00:50:30
psychologists relate to medicine were in00:50:33
one community and we are now with the guys00:50:35
we talk about what their fears are00:50:37
what they are not afraid of, what prevents them from going out00:50:41
this media space What prevents them00:50:43
monetize your expertise They are the same00:50:46
everyone wants to earn money yes I see I do00:50:49
I read their stories and I see that there is very00:50:50
a large number of cool literate00:50:52
specialists experts in their niche but they00:50:55
they're afraid to go into the media, even if they're not pros anymore00:51:00
Media they are afraid of interviews they are afraid00:51:03
shoot a story they are afraid there is a girl there00:51:06
just yesterday on my live broadcast00:51:08
I asked Natalya a question about you00:51:09
I admire that's how I'm like you're me00:51:12
I say, well, let's start with what00:51:14
Are you afraid? She says I can't through.00:51:16
get over yourself I'm afraid that I'm there00:51:19
I'll screw it up as she says Yes and I won't00:51:23
I can connect two words, although with speech00:51:25
literate, listen like a person00:51:26
talking That's how it is with us00:51:29
specific niche healthy lifestyle just wanted00:51:32
say it like this00:51:34
specialist And not only teachers also00:51:37
exactly the same Yes some00:51:40
narrow specialists who cause00:51:42
kindness to people, policemen, teachers and doctors00:51:45
How are these people still not afraid?00:51:47
public speaking that is, I can00:51:50
I can only say based on my experience00:51:52
your own you are like a voice coach00:51:55
speeches and public speaking You are very00:51:58
a lot I know you course Yes there is for00:52:00
the kind of people that guys want by the way00:52:02
there is a wonderful course I heard reviews00:52:05
very cool about the fact that people don’t even00:52:08
working with you personally I don't know you00:52:09
you advise a huge staff of trainers A00:52:12
you rarely consult personally for love00:52:14
out of love, but I heard reviews that00:52:18
people are not even with you but with some00:52:19
talked to your coaches that they just00:52:22
absolutely delighted Guys, who is this for?00:52:23
actual Welkom put the link in our00:52:27
podcast on everything One page and on it00:52:30
course so here you are Having so much experience00:52:33
Tell me where to start00:52:35
Absolutely awesome Expert00:52:38
there's a competent doctor inside, but he's not00:52:41
can overcome00:52:43
This is not an easy topic, how can one become a doctor?00:52:46
I say firstly because everything00:52:48
related to medicine let's be honest you00:52:50
very toxic audience towards00:52:51
toxic you are toxic to yourself00:52:54
Well, I told you what I have00:52:57
probably more than everyone behind the scenes00:53:00
the impostor syndrome was pronounced, he was00:53:03
terrible I'm just worked out now00:53:05
impostor I already have this00:53:07
Thank you God But that's how it was00:53:09
this toxicity starts when I'm on00:53:12
I look at myself and think no, this is bad00:53:13
not enough Okay then I look at00:53:15
someone and I think I mean where did you get this00:53:17
and doctors with doctors or how to say so00:53:22
unless they're doctors00:53:25
It is very difficult for experts to communicate, for example00:53:27
with doctors because doctors00:53:30
and so on That is, already the first00:53:33
stress factor I will go out they will tell me that I00:53:35
idiot and basically Okay they have the right to00:53:39
no one stops but here it is necessary00:53:41
ask yourself what is my target audience?00:53:43
who am I as a healthy lifestyle expert, I’m going to tell you00:53:46
this is for doctors or people who turned on00:53:49
button turned on my Stories all that00:53:52
anything and they came in with some kind of request00:53:54
some kind of problem with exactly the same thing00:53:56
my husband faced a request Well, what am I00:53:59
I'll just say it and say Yes00:54:01
just because you're not a doctor now00:54:04
you enlighten your own, you enlighten those who00:54:06
doesn't know anything about it at all so00:54:08
if you please, it’s enough to speak simple00:54:10
tongue And it’s worth noting on your nose00:54:13
on all parts of the body your task is to be00:54:15
educator and initially give yourself00:54:20
permission to speak somewhere simple00:54:22
tongue Don't be smart But if you want00:54:25
be an expert exhort for experts00:54:26
Okay that's another story but of course we are00:54:29
we want to reach out to the masses, that’s why00:54:30
the first thing to say is simple and it’s every day00:54:33
we repeat to ourselves I tell people00:54:35
people my audience second by far00:54:39
need to00:54:40
do it so that you can do it yourself00:54:42
interesting, we have two two vectors00:54:45
I'm scared I won't go or I'm interested00:54:48
how to make it interesting for you00:54:50
you cook deeply and for a long time in your topic00:54:53
y'all there Try to surprise yourself00:54:56
dug up some research00:54:58
watched some interview somewhere with00:55:00
you disagree with something, you want it00:55:01
share and it will be such a tie00:55:03
informational guide to further implement your00:55:05
expertise and show what you think00:55:07
further preparations on this matter, but00:55:10
It’s obvious that we need to prepare, the question is how00:55:11
you even have to go to Stories, yes00:55:13
Definitely Look at this story too00:55:15
public speaking is now possible until00:55:17
you need to be in Stories for minutes somehow00:55:19
start somewhere start with the question you00:55:22
you will come with approval from some00:55:23
provocation further at this moment you00:55:25
you can invest several00:55:27
good ideas and somehow finalize that is00:55:31
if you do this, well, like this, here I go00:55:33
In short, here I choose jeans and at the same time00:55:35
I'll tell you here. Here's a minute for you00:55:37
they'll smear but it won't go anywhere00:55:39
garbage for this minute We must prepare And00:55:42
when you start cooking first at 1500:55:44
seconds then by 30 to a minute you have00:55:47
this experience is growing Oh cool, I left, I didn’t00:55:50
bleated there what a gloomy goat yes I00:55:52
I've dealt with it quite well00:55:54
you were great, you're getting started00:55:57
get ready yes yes00:55:58
at least write down on napkins why I am00:56:01
I'll start the same story I'm still00:56:04
when I record an audio message in our00:56:07
channels and to our students I at least00:56:09
on a napkin I write 3-5 points that00:56:12
I definitely need to say And like this00:56:14
give an example because my thought00:56:16
will take me over there and then I can 1000:56:19
just rewrite the audio and spend a lot00:56:21
time instead of once00:56:23
prepare I'm already Strelny Sparrow00:56:25
I know how it’s done Yes, it seems to me00:56:27
I'm also so experienced already Wow, no00:56:28
I'm writing I'm just saying hello hello00:56:30
Well, I try without the words of parasites, but here we go00:56:33
it saves me it helps me Yes and I00:56:36
I would recommend it as soon as possible00:56:37
fail so that it happens to you00:56:39
this negative experience you had yes A00:56:40
as long as you need it, you get vaccinated And00:56:43
when you learn to deal with it00:56:45
Phew you have what is called a history00:56:48
I can already do this too Yes I can00:56:50
screwed up Yes they told me I was an idiot well00:56:52
It's okay, well, if someone liked it00:56:54
And who said that I'm an idiot? Who's that one over there?00:56:57
My colleague who is sitting may not00:56:59
jealous or who have nothing at all00:57:01
does but tries to make me look like a face00:57:03
lands Okay this is not a relevant audience00:57:06
we try in such situations to sit down and00:57:10
sit down to earn the love of everyone and all this00:57:12
impossible Does a person who needs00:57:14
wants to go to webinars and seminars00:57:17
wants to do something to communicate with people00:57:20
Does such a person need to go through00:57:22
some kind of training I think so00:57:25
minimum to systematize00:57:27
what he knows by instinct somehow00:57:29
it has merged with what is in00:57:33
technology is still a methodology00:57:34
technology how to do it correctly00:57:37
structure, maybe he will later understand that00:57:39
cool structure great but i want00:57:40
in another way it's like any correct one00:57:43
the artist who gets first00:57:44
classical education and then goes00:57:46
draw whatever he wants but he has00:57:48
there is a certain Base base Yes the foundation is00:57:51
very important thing maybe He will understand00:57:53
that there is no need at all, I will invent my own00:57:56
way of speaking for God's sake but to understand00:57:58
in general, different genres of what is happening in00:58:01
world and the logic of the story and how00:58:04
arrange Arguments and what they are00:58:08
hooks attention what is sensory language00:58:10
How to be This is when you00:58:12
you don't just talk to a person00:58:14
level Oh, I was so scared and you00:58:16
you describe it was so scary that I00:58:19
I was all nervous, I couldn’t breathe00:58:21
I just had a flow down my back and we00:58:23
we start all this together with you00:58:25
experience this is it and then we00:58:27
we understand I am an accomplice of more epithets00:58:30
more you yes these are action verbs this00:58:33
everything that helps me get through this00:58:35
this one is yours that is more colorful Yes yes00:58:38
I'm telling you I'm in your head00:58:40
I draw Yes, all storytelling is based on this and00:58:42
all stories are constructed as exercises for00:58:44
expanding your vocabulary is not easy00:58:46
say yes it's easy00:58:48
that you didn't like the essay00:58:51
I didn't like this movie00:58:54
this will also get out of your head00:58:55
some new sensations and descriptions of these00:58:58
sensations yes He pisses me off I mean pisses me off00:59:01
like what Spectrum what palette and it00:59:03
doesn't irritate you What's there00:59:06
we are still indignant I hate him I and00:59:09
next I'm just boiling Wow, how beautiful00:59:11
she is angry I am angry The lady is angry00:59:15
When you have a completely different context you00:59:19
she said that everything was built on this00:59:21
tourist styling Yes, that's it00:59:23
for human treatment Yes for accommodation00:59:26
the story is correct00:59:28
constructing an interesting question is great00:59:31
Kolobok Here's a story in any story00:59:34
in general, people love stories, let's start with this00:59:36
we are tailored and sharpened to sit down00:59:39
by the fire and what happened next00:59:42
this is how I spent the summer as we went somewhere00:59:45
let's go it's all history in history00:59:47
There is always a hero Remember Kolobok Harry00:59:50
Potter's chronicle there is a Bible of course00:59:52
there is a hero there I have a goal He is00:59:55
this goal somehow goes and always meets00:59:58
that there is definitely an obstacle on the way Yes he is01:00:01
somehow he digests them somehow01:00:03
changes and comes out victorious David and01:00:06
Goliath grazed his sheep and herded But if01:00:08
it was a story about David who01:00:10
Soviets would not be interested01:00:11
Goliath appeared and here he is and here he is goodbye01:00:14
thousand just an action movie with Stallone in the lead01:00:16
the roles are beautiful and we wait and think and what01:00:19
it will end we empathize For us it is01:00:21
a legitimate way to experience something01:00:23
without plunging into it in reality Why01:00:26
we love horror films for example yes there01:00:28
someone somewhere sawed something with a saw01:00:31
scary We ate more popcorn with this Wow01:00:34
we drove the blood and everything is fine, but it’s not01:00:36
really Yes emotional swing but this01:00:39
not really like that here when you01:00:41
you tell us how we had an Expert01:00:43
we had such a complicated case01:00:45
clinical case01:00:53
some kind of emotional01:00:55
history depending on what01:00:58
audience if these are your colleagues you01:00:59
you won't, why? Well, here I have mine01:01:01
the audience is patients maybe there01:01:03
I have colleagues but I still get my bearings01:01:05
wonderful So he contacted me01:01:08
man woman does not care about diagnosis01:01:10
such and such request such and such and you01:01:12
Can you imagine how this influenced for example01:01:14
on her or his ordinary life because01:01:17
that we don’t understand anything about diagnoses But01:01:19
the fact that my hand is starting to be taken away from me01:01:21
I can’t pat a child on the head01:01:23
imagine and I'm getting scared01:01:26
I'm starting to think about how this is oh how01:01:28
You can’t pet a child. So what next?01:01:30
was And how you saved him oh Everything I already01:01:33
I got involved and it makes me feel01:01:34
interesting, this is also important, of course01:01:37
this is a story from a dry card01:01:38
diagnosis such and such paresis of something01:01:40
turns into a whole tragedy And how are you01:01:43
like a specialist like a master you help01:01:45
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improve your voice or presentation all together01:02:20
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he doesn’t even know where to start01:02:34
come to your course there you will give it to him01:02:36
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interview I know that you have a huge01:02:45
the number of participants on the course and the truth01:02:48
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basically people come to us for this course01:02:59
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they really come for the tools01:03:03
for voice and speech and this is one of the layers a01:03:06
the second layer is just the story about01:03:07
self-worth because we say not01:03:10
only in this place we talk to ourselves and01:03:12
for example, to make a self-presentation01:03:14
It’s not enough to train your voice, but for this you have01:03:17
we need daily exercise01:03:18
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this is a question of questions and teach01:03:25
extract meaning and value from yourself Yes01:03:27
unpacking01:03:29
Because when they appear in front of us01:03:31
adults and most of them are01:03:33
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Then I'll tell us the kids came. It was01:03:42
It’s just the level of motivation God wrote to me01:03:44
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My name is Artem, I really want to01:03:48
I need it and he's in the voice box for me01:03:53
gave out such information Why does He need01:03:55
to me and who he wants to be when01:03:57
grows up and he wants to spend some01:03:59
events and being a public figure01:04:01
the children are very, very active, very smart, yes01:04:04
Well, yes, of course, adults and01:04:07
when you ask a person Tell me about01:04:09
myself I Well I am01:04:12
you get tired of working for 20 years and what and when do you01:04:17
you say Okay, here's a tool for you, come on01:04:19
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strengths01:04:22
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sit down and take inventory01:04:29
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is it me or actually Yeah well that's the first step01:04:35
we have just started so you can01:04:38
start talking to yourself about selling yours01:04:40
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buns nose that is, we get the person01:04:48
Yes, we get out of a person his strength01:04:51
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psychology this is actually this01:04:57
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no real psychology01:05:02
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maybe I knew the tools too01:05:11
you just don't know that it's a tool and01:05:13
I'm sure you have a huge amount01:05:15
coaching tools you just don't01:05:17
I know what they are called as such and when01:05:19
the person suddenly realizes that oh so I'm not on01:05:21
he found himself in the trash heap already completely in01:05:24
you convey to your friend at the very beginning01:05:26
just showing guys we are your mirror01:05:28
look, we help you get out of01:05:31
the most interesting thing and say this01:05:32
you all we do not convince anyone we01:05:34
show that it's you just look at01:05:36
himself finally and he understands Yeah cool01:05:38
that is, I can open my mouth and I’m for it01:05:40
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we can't imagine ourselves01:05:44
talk and go on and on about it01:05:46
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storytelling metaphor structure01:05:52
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I never in my life imagined that01:05:59
speech development course on voice development01:06:02
so many people can come, come on01:06:06
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4000 people is a lot01:06:10
guys, believe me, I have courses and different marathons01:06:13
I've been doing this for many, many years, it's a lot01:06:15
yes, I was stunned when I was somewhere01:06:17
I read in the reviews What is your problem?01:06:19
the number of people that is01:06:20
number of people need manifestation01:06:22
manifestations yes yes even now very01:06:24
interesting time people finally realized that01:06:26
it can be not just a function not01:06:29
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chief specialist Or maybe01:06:33
a person who is not only in hiring, but also01:06:36
works for himself I'm not only a doctor in01:06:37
clinic But I can do something else somewhere01:06:39
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this is a request from a huge number of people01:06:45
for this demand because01:06:47
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I’m a healthy lifestyle expert and I’m telling you guys about this01:06:51
you're all so talented, you're all so talented01:06:53
this is a very cool idea you tell me now01:06:56
I told you straight I have to do this for myself01:06:58
Now I’ll write it down somewhere and record it01:07:00
a person needs to be initially given01:07:02
at the very first stage this self-worth01:07:04
What happens next?01:07:06
in parallel every morning with us01:07:07
the voice exercise opens and here it is01:07:09
a man wakes up and does different things01:07:11
practices need to be done by everyone Yes, this is true01:07:14
Mast so that you have this in your database01:07:15
then you have a call from the group Where in01:07:18
safe environment is very important you with01:07:20
as a coach you practice this or that01:07:22
public speaking We have one of01:07:24
very interesting weeks when we01:07:26
learn to accept criticism01:07:28
and withstand if someone is against it because01:07:31
that a huge number of people are afraid01:07:33
basically open your mouth, what if I01:07:35
someone will say something and so we announce01:07:37
rules of the game guys this week On01:07:40
this practice can we have a person01:07:42
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is following the process now you are criticizing01:07:47
then you change then you get criticized01:07:49
what do you feel what are your arguments01:07:52
you use it as everyone understands it Wow and I01:07:55
somewhere I can throw it out and somewhere I can01:07:57
protect yourself and the person also adds01:08:00
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expert then we will learn to tell01:08:04
stories to make self-presentations and in general01:08:06
and the whole end of the sixth week and the course01:08:08
lasts 6 weeks people when they come to01:08:10
people when they come to us01:08:12
graduation they talk about wow me01:08:15
life has changed and it is always possible01:08:18
measure in money because it's X201:08:20
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increase in raise I went agreed A01:08:27
this is very important I'll go and ask maybe01:08:29
they won't give me but goodbye I01:08:31
got a new position job I01:08:34
launched my project I've been wanting to for three years01:08:36
do something on instagram I was scared01:08:39
I didn’t do anything, but here it’s finally because01:08:41
that you understand that you can01:08:43
you have the right to talk, you do it yourself01:08:45
the right to take it no one can give it to you01:08:47
you can only take it yourself and yes you01:08:50
you accept that there are people who will01:08:51
beat you, smack you, press it01:08:54
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it's so difficult what are you talking about01:08:58
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on Instagram and until recently you01:09:04
you know some post for example which I01:09:08
I think it’s super written, I wrote it myself01:09:10
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cool comment Natalya is so01:09:15
well done thank you everything is there And one01:09:18
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99 and 9 percent of comments are good01:09:26
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I'm always very strong now of course01:09:30
I’m already immune to everything, but that’s it01:09:33
what are you talking about? This is of course very01:09:35
important I probably all my healthy lifestyle01:09:37
experts first come to you and then to01:09:41
pumping up your personal brand Where did you get it from?01:09:43
in general, this is basically what I learned01:09:45
it may also have gone through some01:09:47
interesting learning or maybe life01:09:49
forced, that is, tell me where it all started01:09:52
started started with that worked01:09:54
as a journalist I lived in Belarus all my life01:09:56
I lived my life there, I grew up there01:09:58
Mogilev regional center and I worked at01:10:01
radio for several years then on TV and I01:10:03
went its way from a man wildly01:10:05
complex and insecure01:10:07
before who I became that's why you came to01:10:10
radio you already had some skills01:10:12
or did you come I just came as an intern01:10:14
there's a vacancy there for a man01:10:16
who can do something there other than coffee01:10:19
of course, yes, some surveys01:10:20
to carry out something like this and I learned01:10:23
enough yes something yes something like this I01:10:25
I went to a good school01:10:26
good certificate I say great why01:10:29
no matter what, and most importantly, no one will01:10:31
sees me as a very person01:10:33
complex at that time in his01:10:34
appearance Thank God no one sees me01:10:36
the broadcast won't put him in prison either, no need to, I will01:10:39
just do surveys, write correctly01:10:40
answers calls it was great01:10:42
and then it turned out that there are always frames01:10:45
not enough, let's go with the girl01:10:47
let's work out, study for a short time and quickly01:10:49
put on the air and it was wildly stressful and01:10:51
so when people say this to us01:10:54
I'm afraid of this game, the guys were swimming01:10:56
we know I know all this very well and yes01:10:59
I was in this formative stage01:11:01
radio when I got used to myself and thought01:11:04
Radio buzz is really very interesting01:11:06
peace when you hear the Voice of a person and01:11:09
can you imagine what he looks like? Especially01:11:10
when you know that you are a radio host01:11:13
somehow I'll see him finally He01:11:15
probably looks like Brad Banderas01:11:17
Pete and everyone combined you come and there01:11:19
Well, it's like a man, yes a man, a man, but this01:11:24
I wonder if this is the magic of the voice and then01:11:27
TV happened I was invited and transferred01:11:30
Or rather on TV and there was also a separate one01:11:32
wild fear when they put me in the frame I01:11:35
I don’t know how I feel bad there at all01:11:37
that is, like an Armenian girl in general01:11:39
sits in Belarusian and talks about the news01:11:42
some very scary I'm going through all this01:11:45
passed and in many ways that’s what they say01:11:46
this is how the steel was tempered and then for many years01:11:49
later when I already had my own01:11:50
programs already and awards and everything was very01:11:52
good fine It coincided with this01:11:56
period let's say my life and completion01:11:58
it coincided with my divorce and somehow01:12:01
synchronously two stages completed I01:12:03
moved to Moscow when I met01:12:05
already with my current husband Well and yes01:12:07
everything started over here because I01:12:10
took all my past experience01:12:11
television and repackaged it into that01:12:14
what I do now but certainly then01:12:16
there were not 4000 people on the course then01:12:18
just a desire to share and help people01:12:20
declare oneself manifest oneself speak01:12:22
because as a journalist I remember you01:12:24
you're approaching a cool expert, here he is01:12:26
I just spoke there somewhere from the podium01:12:29
very boring and crooked you see Tell me01:12:31
I'm afraid to marry my suede or marry here01:12:35
they Well, it was very disappointing when01:12:37
such people and heroes were actually lost01:12:41
people didn’t know and I wanted people01:12:43
who have something to say had this01:12:45
opportunity and allowed ourselves but like this01:12:47
and my project began How many years ago01:12:49
It was. It was around 18, that is.01:12:54
you're enjoying yourself better than what you do, and you too01:12:57
love reading these reviews01:13:00
when we get together for graduation01:13:02
especially when we receive letters01:13:04
letters, postcards right here in boxes01:13:06
It's because my God thank you that I can01:13:08
do this because when a person01:13:10
suddenly allows himself to live his life in01:13:13
at any age it's incredible but you're in01:13:16
to some extent probably also a doctor I think01:13:19
that yes, probably yes, you are not just a spouse01:13:21
Doctor It seems to me that it is also transmitted01:13:26
you talked about self-presentation and01:13:30
In general, in principle, they say that 90% success01:13:34
this is a presentation, how to present yourself, what is success01:13:37
self-presentation That is, as people01:13:39
who get a job who01:13:41
they want to go out like you and me already01:13:43
talked to the media space which01:13:44
want to present themselves to someone01:13:49
at work or a man or in general01:13:51
principle01:13:53
everyone, the success of self-presentation is the most01:13:55
make the presentation itself correctly01:13:57
must answer the question why am I with01:14:00
I will continue to communicate with you that I am from you01:14:02
I'll get it What's the use Yes myself01:14:04
the presentation is not technical01:14:06
no one cares about my characteristics01:14:08
I have Tony's edition, which one?01:14:11
I didn’t study well at the tractor school01:14:14
The end result is what I will give you or01:14:17
who am I helping? But here is the basic one, if these01:14:19
according to the structure of the presentation itself, a person01:14:21
says his name tells who he is01:14:23
that he's like 10 years old I've been helping people with01:14:26
This is the kind of request they ask me01:14:27
when the tail kidneys conditionally fail01:14:30
the fur falls off, also stands on end and01:14:33
I have, for example, an author's01:14:35
technique or my team and I help01:14:37
in this way, achieving these01:14:39
results are all I need01:14:41
you know and that will be enough01:14:43
for me to relax say oh and I would01:14:46
man, be it work, it will be absolutely01:14:49
communication with an interlocutor with a man in general01:14:51
Funny I have an interesting story01:14:53
wonderful lawyer Nadiya and she somehow01:14:56
I met a guy on Tinder when01:14:57
Tinder was still in use and he invited her01:15:00
on a date and somehow immediately they understood01:15:02
that they won’t have anything in vain there?01:15:04
I was wearing makeup in vain, what were I going to do and he asks01:15:07
her question: Well, tell us about yourself. How are we doing?01:15:10
once it was a week we worked01:15:11
self-presentation and she gives him01:15:13
self-presentation that she is a lawyer01:15:16
contacts about some questions says01:15:18
Listen, I need it right there01:15:20
Gestalt is not closed and he bought it from her01:15:23
some Yes, these moments of Contact01:15:26
if you can say yes And here they are01:15:28
we worked for a while and then went to01:15:30
date made money Well in the end that's it01:15:33
it worked out no In the end it didn’t work out but01:15:34
they worked long enough then01:15:36
there she applied herself for a date, it’s like01:15:40
once the story is that you never01:15:41
you know when life will give you an opportunity01:15:44
manifest yourself to make it happen01:15:47
with some good result they say01:15:50
what people especially women love01:15:53
ears How true is this but women01:15:57
they love a beautiful voice, what’s there to hide? Yes01:15:59
if we say Yes, that's right Javier01:16:01
Bardem is straight01:16:03
but an interesting thing in different periods01:16:06
cycle We react very differently to01:16:07
male voices Yes when we are females01:16:10
ready to reproduce I must say01:16:12
in the voice of Nikolai Drozdov, then it’s just for us01:16:14
I still like it01:16:16
to01:16:18
when everyone has already reproduced or not01:16:21
have already multiplied more calmly, more softly already01:16:24
tenderness care Yes this is interesting01:16:26
watch this For us it is01:16:28
masculinity testosterone now me01:16:30
will take Wow you're not the love itself Well in01:16:33
reality we understand what is behind the voice01:16:34
there may be nothing left to hide, but here it is01:16:37
this reaction is yes because if the guy01:16:39
just a little bit like this01:16:41
somehow I still have this question I can’t help but01:16:44
ask Like a doctor yes tell me please01:16:46
how working with voice helps our01:16:49
the body either interferes or does not01:16:51
helps So is it a myth or in general it01:16:54
about general endurance about correct01:16:56
breathing about feeling good Because01:16:59
what are you talking about this is not the place you are01:17:00
speak with your whole body and so that you01:17:02
the bands were tuned and sounded and01:17:05
gave out the right good sound of yours01:17:07
the body must be collected, that is, you01:17:10
must breathe properly enough01:17:13
may be diaphragmatic breathing or01:17:14
mixed conventionally with the stomach we say01:17:16
trainers say to breathe with your stomach01:17:19
when your tummy swells when you inhale01:17:21
I often speak in the stupid language of a woman01:17:25
breathes through the chest and this is the other side01:17:28
Because when we inhaled our breasts01:17:31
here everything is tense under01:17:33
everyone, but it often happens when we01:17:35
We are starting to change the stereotype a little01:17:37
breathing then and breathing in quotes with the stomach and01:17:41
then they'll kill me in the comments now01:17:42
why Well, because we don’t breathe with our lungs01:17:44
stomach obviously but the coaches say01:17:46
breathe with your stomach then we relax01:17:49
this is the upper shoulder girdle Yes, we have01:17:52
clamped larynx clamped we are freer and01:17:56
gesturing, including breathing01:17:58
we are quite autonomous, that is, I can01:18:00
talk at the same time pick up01:18:02
air and don't grab it, don't suffocate it01:18:05
will be that is, you need to breed for01:18:06
breathing sensor breathing again01:18:08
situation in life or when you don't have01:18:12
you can follow here and not follow there01:18:13
it's like posture I don't pay attention No it's very01:18:17
it's important you know why because I tell you01:18:18
I also told you today what happened after01:18:21
any performance even by the way01:18:24
it must be something01:18:25
eight-hour performance after any01:18:27
performances My voice is shaking This01:18:29
it has always been like this and many people are there01:18:33
I have many artists, singers, different singers01:18:36
whoever I'm talking to They say01:18:37
that I'm breathing incorrectly, that is, I need01:18:39
Anyone keep an eye on this01:18:41
It’s advisable to breathe properly anyway01:18:44
belly Yes when she is in the spirit of women Yes01:18:48
and men most often breathe this way01:18:50
moreover, how did you consult with01:18:53
us specialists with doctors girls before01:18:55
certain point before01:18:57
the cycle begins, they too Well, that's how children are01:18:59
children breathe when we look at children01:19:01
Yes, we have children, we remember how it is01:19:04
then during the period of hormonal changes01:19:06
the body prepares to bear a child and01:19:08
we begin to breathe on horseback but we somehow01:19:10
we miss this moment and don’t notice it01:19:13
We already catch ourselves in the fact that I’m breathing.01:19:15
so yes Well, plus to everything the girls have a belly01:19:18
will stick around. This is not very good and01:19:20
stuff like that but it's cooler01:19:22
and in fact, if you don’t inflate the fur01:19:26
take a small breath Here even in01:19:27
in a tight dress it won't be noticeable01:19:29
you somehow breathe there, that is, this01:19:31
correct breathing which is the opposite01:19:32
relaxes us so the body should be01:19:35
energetic and strong enough to01:19:37
play this sound so we have it01:19:40
was not slack plus correct01:19:42
body position Even if you are sitting in01:19:44
chair as you will be out of your body01:19:47
make a sound if you're crouched like that01:19:49
it's a story if you have a muscle corset01:19:51
leaves you wanting cheap, you don't want to01:19:54
bring you to this stand from which the sound01:19:57
it will be like a pipe, like an organ, beautiful01:19:59
spread body is an organ that is01:20:01
if I have problems with sitting down01:20:03
voice Most likely I'm breathing incorrectly yes01:20:05
Yes Interesting breathing body position01:20:08
has its general tone Look at us01:20:11
we've been talking to you for a long time and01:20:13
you're like a professional, you got me hooked01:20:16
in my own voice I probably don’t know or01:20:18
serving and you hold completely mine01:20:21
attention I even forgot all my questions01:20:23
which I wanted to ask myself, I’m already watching01:20:25
I asked everyone because I'm interested01:20:27
tell me how to keep your attention01:20:30
That's how you how you do it How01:20:31
keep your interlocutor's attention when you01:20:34
you tell him something, not he you01:20:35
I realized that I need to ask questions01:20:37
person and so on Well, that's when you01:20:39
you're telling me something about how to keep it01:20:40
some tricks in your voice Tell me how you are01:20:43
you do it You're just absolutely one and a half01:20:45
you hold my attention for an hour I say01:20:47
I even forgot all my questions, I don’t ask01:20:49
I have a task before me somehow01:20:51
It seems to be possible to lure you into it on its own01:20:54
because I'm talking to you my01:20:56
the main task is to be in dialogue with you01:20:57
this is important This is the first Second after all01:21:00
working with intonation and speech tempo01:21:03
so that the speech is varied so that it01:21:05
the announcer was so ugly01:21:07
Dear Natalya Let's talk about it01:21:10
it will be nice but yes but in 5 minutes01:21:12
you will disconnect and say so bring it in01:21:14
another expert should still speak01:21:16
be as alive as possible and pay attention01:21:19
I'm talking to you with my body tilted01:21:22
heads Yes, I'm gesturing this complex01:21:26
left Yes yes yes we close the gestalt I01:21:29
maximum with you And in my opinion01:21:32
dialogue develops when we01:21:35
deep ego massage in public01:21:37
Let's move on to involvement and01:21:39
immersing another person when I'm not01:21:41
I sit and don’t say I’m the coolest one here01:21:44
just the way you speak, in what voice, well01:21:46
and how you move your gestures position01:21:50
your body is important too people01:21:52
holds back yes plus eye contact i01:21:55
I'm constantly calibrating so are you here or01:21:57
somewhere you switch off because how would I01:22:00
fine we didn't talk enough01:22:02
We've been recording an interview with you for a long time and01:22:04
It’s difficult for you to keep your attention at all01:22:06
I need to listen, it's very interesting01:22:08
today but listening is always very difficult01:22:10
that's why I try to listen to yours01:22:14
replicas so that we have equality01:22:16
dialogue and you also had space01:22:18
for this disconnection from listeners01:22:21
from the role of listener and introduction to the role01:22:23
speaker Well, that is, in order to01:22:25
the person listened to you. You must not only01:22:28
speaks beautifully and correctly but competently01:22:30
also help with the body body voice01:22:33
intonation pause Yes so that it would be Wow01:22:36
surprise as soon as the speech turns into01:22:39
monotonous, even if beautiful, flow Everything01:22:41
we are disconnecting, I already want to go to yours01:22:43
course if I say absolutely no jokes01:22:45
sincerely Well, for example a person Well no01:22:48
doesn't want to know that he's lazy01:22:50
after all, there are some homemade ones for that01:22:52
to train all these01:22:55
the instruments you were talking about01:22:57
maybe some interesting books01:23:00
can you recommend something?01:23:02
there are dictionaries as some kind of helpers01:23:05
specifically in technology yes Of course if for now01:23:09
there is no possibility of money, strength and so on01:23:11
so you can come to me people01:23:13
who know that there are people who01:23:15
know that I won't be there every day01:23:17
there are such wonderful ones to train01:23:19
we won't get results01:23:21
anyway you have to work if you want a beautiful one01:23:23
go squat on handsome dad01:23:25
There are no options at all, but it’s possible01:23:27
say that metabolism and apply01:23:28
parsley to the moving eyelid also works01:23:30
or read meditations unconditionally If01:23:33
we need some result, we need to lead it01:23:35
into a habit so that the body gets used to it, that is, 601:23:38
weeks For example, we have enough for that01:23:39
to somehow rebuild yourself and01:23:42
learn to control your voice if not01:23:45
maybe, but I want to, visit me on insta01:23:47
Yes, there are exercises to practice all this01:23:50
you can look further You can Well01:23:52
of course, read books on public speaking01:23:54
skill01:23:55
a huge number and a great question01:23:58
workers I would recommend everything01:24:00
connected with Ted Ted Ted and Tedex Yes they are01:24:03
different just read this and it’s cool01:24:06
Zhanna Abitbolia has this magic01:24:09
French phoniatrist she is bitbol01:24:10
power of voice blue gold written01:24:13
interesting book The problem is that01:24:15
theory and practice They often do not01:24:18
combined If you read and go01:24:19
practice somewhere networking meeting01:24:22
mom moms club anything then01:24:25
yes then you set yourself a task01:24:27
class I have the opportunity01:24:29
speak out what I will say And how and01:24:31
so they look at me and I stand there and01:24:34
here it flows as it will be and then you01:24:37
get ready then you think about it01:24:39
see other speakers Listen to the class01:24:41
analyze But this is the work that01:24:43
you will have to do nothing yourself01:24:46
good will not happen but the puncture itself01:24:49
will always happen, that's good too, that's experience01:24:51
that's an interesting thought, I didn't even think about it01:24:54
I was thinking about what I should01:24:57
some kind of fakap will definitely happen and you01:24:59
you stop being afraid, you gain experience01:25:01
they will cope with this fakap01:25:03
I’ll always remember you one way or another01:25:05
a huge number of moments when01:25:07
something went to remember some things01:25:09
I don’t want it when something goes wrong like you01:25:12
I wanted to seem to prepare everything with faith01:25:14
But it's normal to question how we do this01:25:17
we live01:25:19
very interesting Tell me what is your favorite01:25:23
first public appearance before01:25:26
live audience it was Moscow it was01:25:29
one of the first trainings that I remember01:25:31
it was very terribly worried because01:25:34
that it was just the end of the day it was01:25:36
it was some kind of business event01:25:39
probably five years ago It was yes yes01:25:42
Miroshkino is still born01:25:44
and 6 I'm lying 6 It was very scary there01:25:48
owners of some steamship factories01:25:50
adult uncles and aunts end of the day all01:25:52
tired and here I am like the voice of a leader of something01:25:56
I'm going out01:25:57
there is no such voice Everything was fine01:26:00
but I'm still such a Thumbelina girl01:26:02
some skirt was funny01:26:03
and I came out in the finals at the end of the day and01:26:08
a woman spoke in front of me, I don’t remember her01:26:10
I just remember that she annoyed everyone01:26:12
when she was asked questions she did01:26:14
she said the worst mistake, but I01:26:17
I already told you about this, but this one01:26:19
wording I already spoke Russian01:26:22
So you're stupid I told you all about it01:26:24
I didn’t hear it and I can’t say that A01:26:27
if you're really 15 times a person01:26:28
said, for example, to a patient at an appointment, and he01:26:31
he still asks you that too You can’t say Well, you have your own. They can01:26:34
be for a relationship relationship with01:26:35
partners wanted to tell patients but01:26:39
anyway, be careful when saying this01:26:41
in general you need to be more careful so that you01:26:43
this skill was not developed as01:26:45
remember when you call any01:26:47
call center asking stupid questions01:26:49
35 times and how to connect you None01:26:51
a normal operator won't tell you01:26:54
said To do this you need to do this01:26:56
and he will tell you to cross himself 50 times01:26:58
will gather and there was this one in front of me01:27:00
woman who but I already said I already01:27:03
I said this is very bad, that is, people01:27:05
they don't get an answer to their question01:27:07
they get nervous and then I come out so fresh01:27:10
meat skirt Yes I'm wearing a bell skirt01:27:11
girl Fairy of flowers and straight final01:27:15
asked the final question01:27:17
the man is so handsome and mature01:27:19
over 60 he had such a straight voice now01:27:22
he will eat me because, well, someone01:27:25
I have to devour the energy, I have to come out01:27:28
I'm leaving Hello Hello01:27:30
I announce the topic there and ask him01:27:33
What's your name? Is it some kind of convention?01:27:35
Anatoly is still Fedor Petrovich Yes,01:27:38
colleagues noticed how wonderful01:27:39
the sonorous voice of Fyodor Petrovich, here He is01:27:42
asked questions everyone turned around01:27:44
and here is the voice of the leader This is about01:27:46
this and something I somehow mixed mine there01:27:48
topic with him He got so excited and sat there01:27:52
praised yes And now I remember this moment01:27:54
when I already started learning to get out01:27:57
difficult situations But then there was a puncture01:27:59
which I did not take into account because all people01:28:01
serious men sat in the front rows01:28:03
very So interesting and they don’t01:28:06
they don’t react to me, that is, they look and01:28:08
They don’t even nod, zero reaction, but I’m used to it01:28:11
that there should be some kind of reaction01:28:14
Because that’s how I react myself, and then01:28:16
silence I think so now I think so now01:28:18
I'll do it I did it now I'm just kidding01:28:21
zero reaction and at some point I01:28:24
disconnected from the entire hall by allowing01:28:25
mistake and focused only on them01:28:28
Yes, you can’t do that, you have to touch everyone01:28:30
people in the hall and then they come up to me01:28:33
I think everyone will now say that it was01:28:35
everything is terribly bad, can I come with you?01:28:39
I think I'll take a photo Yes he will later01:28:40
will post this photo and say that everything happened01:28:42
I speak badly Yes of course we don’t01:28:44
liked01:28:46
that is, not all people are like her for me01:28:49
nod and listen we that's what it was for01:28:52
then it was a revelation to me that what is it like01:28:55
It's true that everyone is different, although it's obvious01:28:56
and don't forget about what you have01:28:59
you can’t leave everyone behind and go off to please01:29:02
someone specific the speaker should01:29:04
touch communicate with absolutely everyone01:29:07
task But for example, very often this01:29:09
sometimes for some reason all people think that I01:29:11
I know everything about gynecology, proctology,01:29:14
oncology01:29:16
I know a lot but I'm honest When for example01:29:21
asks me something I don't know Let01:29:23
this is 7 thousand hall I will say sorry01:29:25
please I don't know but I will definitely01:29:27
tell me But if, for example, you can’t01:29:29
there are situations to say that not01:29:31
you know how to get out of here correctly01:29:34
such unpleasant ugly situations with01:29:37
using voice using delivery That is01:29:39
how not to get into a puddle when you01:29:41
you really don't know something01:29:42
example when I want to say that you are not01:29:45
you know, for example, I'm sitting in some01:29:47
companies where you need to produce cool01:29:49
the impression on people is such as01:29:51
companies Yes And these are the ones who ask And you01:29:54
don't know? You need to show yours01:29:56
can check01:29:57
Well, most likely I’m not sure, you need to rely on it01:30:01
you can say that based on your01:30:03
experience and Experience of my team I will say the following01:30:06
What experience do you rely on?01:30:09
team Nobody knows01:30:11
but still you shouldn’t play around because01:30:14
that in any company there is someone01:30:16
some Gray Cardinal who will say01:30:18
that he is a plumber but in fact he is neither01:30:20
never a plumber, but your colleague and him01:30:22
just from this sphere and he will do everything01:30:23
know Therefore yes we can say that01:30:25
based on our experience of fellow partners and01:30:28
so on if in a confident voice01:30:30
You definitely have some kind of vision01:30:33
there is probably a topic for this01:30:35
true maybe maybe maybe01:30:40
and no Yes but I don't think that's the question01:30:42
would arise in a person who is not at all01:30:45
topic yes that is that you can say01:30:47
Listen, this is not my profile at all.01:30:48
my clinic is not a mistake for you if01:30:51
for example at public speaking01:30:53
in the hall they ask me something, I say01:30:54
Guys, I don’t know, look, the logic is simple. We01:30:58
we live in the illusion that you are a doctor, but otherwise01:31:01
what is an ophthalmologist and a gynecologist - what is it like?01:31:03
there would be two different offices and two different01:31:05
class We somehow forget just like01:31:07
lawyer Yes there is for some reason01:31:11
Well, you're a psychologist, we have it all in01:31:15
the head needs one thing, including people01:31:16
enlighten what as it were01:31:18
gynecologist and proctologist It’s kind of like01:31:20
close but it doesn't seem like anything special01:31:22
scary If you don't know yes yes yes Well01:31:25
for example, there is Anastasia in the hall01:31:27
Stepanovna, she’s just a specialist01:31:29
can I impromptu the address right now?01:31:32
yes you ask, did you have one like this?01:31:35
history or colleagues here I know there are01:31:37
senior colleagues You are more in the subject I01:31:39
after all, an expert in this field and we are not01:31:42
we say that I don't know we say that I01:31:43
The expert is here and this is a floor above but01:31:47
we have colleagues colleagues Tell us how01:31:49
colleagues will unanimously pick up the microphone and say01:31:51
Thank you for giving me the opportunity, here we go01:31:53
actually in non-biology we have genetics01:31:55
So01:31:56
light Very interesting conversation Thank you01:31:59
you are very incredibly interested, I know that01:32:01
it's not only interesting for me it's01:32:04
it will be interesting for our viewers01:32:07
listeners This is really very01:32:09
It was an exciting 2 hour journey01:32:10
and I think I could still be with you01:32:13
talk and talk because01:32:15
this is incredibly interesting for me personally because01:32:16
that I deal with this every day but I01:32:19
Now I understand even more how much01:32:21
the voice is an important instrument in general01:32:25
principle for the life of every person for01:32:27
communication with friends to influence01:32:31
masses to influence men, that is, for01:32:34
influence on children and so on This01:32:36
really probably like that01:32:38
underrated by some side01:32:40
instrument and everyone understood what it was01:32:42
really important but didn't understand01:32:43
how much I now want yours too01:32:45
course No, I want to come to you for love I want01:32:47
where in love I'm happy Come on Come on01:32:49
study because it seems to me that I01:32:52
can really be done with help01:32:55
some experience of communicating with people01:32:59
because I communicate every day I01:33:01
I learned something but something I definitely didn’t01:33:03
I know and it seems to me that if I am now you01:33:06
tell me something like this01:33:07
interesting I can do even better yes thank you01:33:09
you were so incredibly interesting and01:33:12
I believe that every person who us01:33:15
look, I should come to your course01:33:18
learn how to present yourself01:33:20
learn to do personality unpacking01:33:22
I like my own self, not self-esteem, but01:33:25
the value itself is so interesting You01:33:26
turned my question around and said no01:33:29
self-esteem and value itself is also very01:33:31
great note thank you so much and01:33:34
Friends01:33:35
who doesn't know how to talk yet, who wants to01:33:38
learn to talk you know and01:33:41
you understand that under a lying stone there is no water01:33:43
flowing Come all to My beautiful01:33:46
interlocutor for the course Who doesn’t want to take the course01:33:48
look at her Instagram By the way01:33:51
very cool rice I like how you are01:33:53
you're filming I'll get ready now too01:33:54
everyone realls and I will talk too01:33:56
these are the voices Thank you thank you01:33:59
for an interesting solution today01:34:00
I really learned a lot about myself01:34:02
Thank you for example the situation that women in01:34:07
depending on the cycle reacts to01:34:08
male voice is just right for me01:34:10
Revelation today is why I observe01:34:13
diary keep introspection Thank you01:34:16
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