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Speak young, the peace of the Lord Jesus, we are

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starting another edition of the program the

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days of my Youth, this

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weekly content that is broadcast through

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our YouTube channel, in fact, we

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are already heading towards 2 million, we are

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still starting, that's right but we

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get there and you, young man, are part of this

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Achievement, the one we already had and the one

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we are going to have too, this is a blessing

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now look, you can be

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watching us on YouTube but you can also

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be watching us on our channel

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channel 126 on the digital system banda caú

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Ah, you who already have an antenna installed

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in your house, eh, via the D2 satellite, right,

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Star One in Bratel, welcome to the

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church that is Maranatha to our

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content and today's content is

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content aimed at our young people

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it's a conversation it's a chat

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that we have here and we

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always address topics that are of interest

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to young people involved in the daily lives of

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our young people, whether these topics are

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of a doctrinal nature,

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right? from a spiritual, biblical point of view, they are

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from everyday life, from personal

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professional life, always having the word of

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God as the basis for what we are

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going to deal with today and now you see who

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is here in the studio, right, we are together

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here in the studio, we have my colleague

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Andreia Such peace from the Lord Andreia, the

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peace from the Lord Pastor Josias, a joy

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as always to be here with you, Amen,

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well, we have a group of young people here

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who will introduce themselves in a little while, right?

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And they are our guests, right?

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We welcome them with joy here and the

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young pastor Luí Eugênio who is here

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with me, right Luiz, who is already a partner in

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several contents that we do here, right

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Luiz, we are there in the battles, in the

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battles, peace, Lord, welcome, sir,

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peace, sir, everyone there, brothers, very

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well, andr, Speak a little bit about the

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young people we have here today, well today

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we have Ana Luisa Sara Débora

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Henrique Davi and Samuel, I'm not going to

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introduce the name of the church, pastor because

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today we have a different program, they're going to

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ask a lot of questions, so they're going to

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talk more today, okay? good pastor Okay

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then tell me something André What

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is the theme of today's program today is a

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very interesting topic pastor dating

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engagement and marriage I am sure it

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will be a very useful topic that will

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enrich the lives of young people of all ages

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Young people from Brazil from abroad are going to be a

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very big blessing, finally we come to

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this topic, right? Yes, the long-awaited

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topic of engagement and marriage, and look, I just want to

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tell you something, this

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is the topic, right? he because of the wealth of

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details of the because

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of the amount of doubts of material

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that was sent and that was brought as

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being something important to be

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said here today we today begin a

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sequence of two special programs That's

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right why what what will be different

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today in this program and next week

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is that we will take advantage of all the

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time in the program to address the

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questions and answers that Pastor

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Luí will bring, the young people will collaborate,

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we will talk here about the topics,

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so Eh in an exceptional way, in

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this edition of this week and

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next week, for example, we will not have

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the participation of young people from abroad, right,

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that Speak Youth section that we have, we

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will not have Speak Pastor either,

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we will not have exceptionally

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in these two programs so that we

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can spend all our time with the topic, which is

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a very interesting topic, I'm

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sure you'll like it a lot. So

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we're going to do the following, eh, I'm going to

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start Luiz by asking the first question,

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ok, that's the question, of course, everything What

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we address here is based on

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the word of God, right? We live by the word, we

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live the word, we

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live the biblical doctrine, because, and the

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word says the following that we

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believe it has in it, in the word of God,

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eternal life, so that's why we

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live this way, so, uh, what does the

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Bible say about dating, good,

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good, my brothers, the peace of the Lord, to all of

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us, let's start here at this stage of

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talking about this subject, a subject

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It's necessary for the moment and

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important for young people and for

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us pastors too, so let's

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address this issue now, the issue of

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dating in the Bible, there's no mention of

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this name dating, right?

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The question was, let's

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say, it was the

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family needs of the time, right, so sometimes there was

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parental consent, I

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have, I have an example of the

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person himself, remembering Abraham when he sent

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for a wife for his son who

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was the same Same family as his, right?

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We remember young people too, Rebeca,

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she also

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accepted. They asked her, are you going, are

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you going to meet your

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future husband? She agreed to go, so there was

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also the idea of allowing

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someone to leave someone, for example, like

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her, eh?

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I said I could go, I wanted to go, right?

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So marriage had this whole

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issue, now there was also the issue,

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marriage was not a matter

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of romance, a matter of necessity, right,

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in the family. So there is no such thing as dating

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because it was more a matter of

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commitment and the dot the dot is a value

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that was paid to be able to have that in fact

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that is the issue with the Dot to this day in the

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Middle East they do this I

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remember I was working in the

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Middle East and there was a guy

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working with me even a gentleman it's

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interesting because it's a business like that

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for us, it seems strange,

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a different culture, right? It's a

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different culture, the guy was

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65 years old at the time and he was buying a young woman,

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paying a dowry for a 17

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year old girl, I said boy, are you going on this adventure,

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I said he was willing there was saving

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money working to buy to

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pay for that Dowry there having that young woman

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in the Middle East There is this issue to

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this day, right, there is that Uhum but the practice

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of dating was carried out until that time until

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1900 it was unknown at that time there was

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one normally o o The boy paid

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a visit to his family, it was the

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main way to have contact with her

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and plan the wedding there, right, already

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thinking about that and not thinking about dating,

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but then we see that with

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the Industrial Revolution and with the

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issue of luminism. things changed

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even after the 30s with the

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issue of vehicles, the whole issue

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of the revolution, there was a change in the

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conception of this relationship

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between young people for dating because the

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radical change came with the issue of the

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automobile, other issues of Freedom

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began to having more then there was a

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change in the concept of dating and getting

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married so what happened

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in the 70s 60s around 60s 70s

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transformed this radical Transformation the

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culture brought changes that affected

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young people and we can say it brought losses

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because there

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was an exaggeration but there was a

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balance, right? So also society

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with the radical change in the way of acting

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with regards to

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young people's families, this wall of separation

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that could be exaggerated, but they are

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traditions that if they remained in the

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families, they were broken. and with this issue

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of the new stage of the world of the

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industrial revolution of the Enlightenment of

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reason being dominating, people

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began to question many things,

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right? and women started to

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go to the job market, women

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started to have more autonomy, so there

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was this conflict of interest, then

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we can say it is and became a

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matter of seeking more happiness,

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personal satisfaction is more than a

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material issue in marriage and

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even dating and marriage, right? So

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from this change we can say

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there were many changes also in the

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gospel because this in any way

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affected the churches this change in the

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world affected the churches So this

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change that before the word dating did not

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exist and that marriage dating was

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more like a procession of the boy to

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arrive at the girl's house and having more

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contact with the family, so

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this issue changed a little due to this

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revolution, now this certainly had

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consequences for youth in

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general because there

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is a, there is a, as is always

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said, Speaking in Manaí, there is a, a

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vacuum between the too much freedom and

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too much prison when a person this can

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happen many many problems that

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can be issues can be

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good issues or can be bad too

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So it depends on the limits established

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Because everything has limits in life the sea has

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limits the moon has limits the sun has limit,

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life has a limit and from these

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revolutions many things began to

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lose their limits, so then

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the problem started to arise, right, but the limit must always

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be there, that's why the Bible says don't

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remove the ancient Marks, there are Marks

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that cannot be removed like that In

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any case, removal brings a lot of

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problems, right? So dating does

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n't have this term in the Bible, but there was always

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this question of how the young man

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gets to the girl, how he gets to

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her family, everything was for the family, right,

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pastor, then this explanation

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very interesting history We

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would like to know today Currently,

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how can you define what

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good dating is today? Dating

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is very young. The issue of dating is

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the following, young people sometimes have lost

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a little of this issue that was

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previously ancient. between the parents who

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defined the parents who defined the parents

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who intermediated this entire

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relationship, the parents there was a

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very strong interference, although many

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families have this to this day, later we

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will be able to explain this up front, but the

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young person After this freedom that there was

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with the With all this revolution that

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took place in society, they became the

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protagonists of their own history,

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they went through this,

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before, there were timetables for dating,

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there were all issues, regulations, I

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remember when I started dating my

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wife, her mother This has been married for 41 years

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and her mother was watching and

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said, oh, the time has already been given,

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I don't even remember the time, it

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was 9 o'clock, so I had to leave,

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even though there wasn't much conversation,

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not always there about controlling the family

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there already had that control at that

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time, no, that's not so much back in 1900,

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no, ISS, I got married in 82, right, so I already

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had that control, and maybe

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some families T still today, but also at the

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time, I have to reconsider,

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also at the time, there was 17 years old It's a minor, right?

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So there had to be a father and a mother who

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had to be there, now today

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many barriers have been broken and this

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is the big problem with

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youth dating, dating has

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become one that doesn't have many

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rules but biblical rules for the servant

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of God, there is still no change in the

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Bible, this issue, this issue, so that's what

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we're going to address

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here, the need for young people to observe.

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This whole issue of dating, which

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is a preparation, we understand it as

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preparation for building a home. of

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marriage is nothing else, if it's one

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it's a phase of getting to know each other

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that this phase of getting to know each other may be, it

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may or may not continue, right,

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so it's perfectly illicit, dating,

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dating, it's normal to have the relationship, there's

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no problem within the

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parameters that later on we can

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better explain how these couples

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that we can say to the servant of

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God, right? Eh, so dating comes from the

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Spanish expression está jun, is in

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love, the expression the translation of the word

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that ended up forming the name dating which is

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dating itself, the word

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dating originated, so this whole issue,

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we're going to explain what it looks like, eh,

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the precautions that you should take When young people

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think about dating, for example, they have

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to understand the following. Sometimes

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young people start dating and It's already advanced in

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some things that dating is not for

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that dating, for example, is not for young people

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to get, eh, to combine accounts with each

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other, finances for each other,

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dating is not for young people, alive,

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carnal intimacies are not for that eh

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Sometimes there are young people who want to wear a

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commitment ring dating author alliance here

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that my commitment to you something that

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is not necessary there are young people who want to

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do it but there is no need for that

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so you have to understand dating the

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young man cannot negotiate

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biblical principles right, Timothy, the

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apostle Paul spoke of Timothy, I know

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who has believed, so the purity of the relationship,

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this whole issue must be observed

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Because if the young man does not have

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firmness As I said according to Timothy 1:2, I

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know, has believed, his faith has that

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prevails over your lover, you

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can't let the thing

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be distorted into something that

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will turn into an intimacy that is excessive,

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an intimacy that will take away your

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spiritual life, it will harm you,

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so you have to think about all of this.

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dating is

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necessary dating is important but

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dating has to have some limits it has to

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have some necessary limits, right

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at this time Luiz, uh, you talked about

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culture, right? The cultural issue So you, of

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course, are cultural changes, cultural

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adjustments, imports another

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day in one in another program here

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we talked about Halloween, right, it's a

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party that isn't even part of our

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Brazilian culture but was imported here and

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we explain all this in a program, it's

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family, God's project, but

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there are these adjustments There are these

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changes, oh, like everything you

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said, but I just want to highlight a

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point that you drew attention to here, which is

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that the word does not change, right, the

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holy spirit of God continues to lead

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a church for eternity and young people

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are part of this church, sure, so

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to the extent that you are in communion

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with the holy spirit of God, the

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holy spirit establishes the

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standards, the limits, right, even with a

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cultural change that is

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happening faster and faster, right, things that

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took 50 years to happen are

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happening today In a year, right, in half the year,

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cultural changes already take place, so

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anyway, this is important, and

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Pastor Luí Eugênio's words are really

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good, Clara, in relation to this, you know,

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understand, I'm saying this so

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you can understand the following. sometimes and

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Children for parents, right, no,

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my parents are from the last century, that's

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right, I'm from the last century, Luí

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Eugênio, from the last century, André, I don't think so,

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right? André was born in that century,

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but this group here was born after

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the year 2000. for sure, right, so they're

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all young, right, ah, it's from the century, my father,

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the parents are from the last century, but the

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holy spirit is from eternity to

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eternity and he's going to lead a

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church, right, and to the extent that he

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establishes the limits of what he is The

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culture of the world is from the world to the world

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and has its judgment

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established Let's start now with the

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questions from the studio, it existed, it existed

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in the past, this book still has in

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its steps that Faria Jesus, right, at the time of

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Youth, there was a lot of this, eh, the

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young man He wanted to go to a certain place he

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has to know if he can take

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Jesus where he is going too and he has to

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know all this so you are going to do

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something the Lord Jesus can

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accompany you what you are going to do well if he

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can it's all right There's no problem,

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right? André, you said you wanted to put

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young people to work, Luí already started

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talking, he's the first young person and reading tips, right?

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I saw this

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book, right, my father had the book at home,

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I read it and everything else and this phrase

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stuck in my head In His Footsteps what

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would Jesus do What decision would Jesus

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make in the face of a situation that is there

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but

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we are eager to know What do the

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young people want to ask? I'll ask Sara

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to start, she will introduce herself and ask

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her first question, the peace of the Lord,

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I'm Sara from Pastor Heber's church in M da Praia

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and my question is how

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the pastor should act When it comes to dating

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a young person, he should consult something

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like this, not the guidance, we have had

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this guidance since the beginning of the work

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for many years, you know, the pastor doesn't

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consult about dating, he doesn't go into

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this aspect, this ancient guidance of the

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work should guide the young people

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obviously look for the pastor, the pastor

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must guide these young people but he won't

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consult, so it's a question of the

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young person's action with his parents

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and now, obviously, the pastor won't be there, he

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will have to always

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evaluate how he is doing. that

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young man's relationship, the young man will date, and then, for

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example, he can, for example, guide the

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young man who is very young and wants to date, so the

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pastor has to check it carefully.

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what he wants, he wants to

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date, well he's going to date, everything's fine,

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so the pastor will have to evaluate

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his situation because dating for

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work in the church. Wow, it's not dating for the sake of

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dating, it's a different type of dating than

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many people think, right?

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he will guide

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young people, he will consult you, no, he will

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consult you, because the consultation has to be

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an experience for a young man who wants to

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date and will consult you, hey, I

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remember, I remember one of the boys who

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consulted the Lord, he arrived to mother,

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mother, I, you, sir, allowed me to go to

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my colleague's house. The mother allowed, allowed,

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but I don't allow it,

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so you won't go No. So there are

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things that now you have to understand, the

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following, young people, it's always good to seek

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guidance from the pastor. dating

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in secret f dating in secret that the

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pastor goes may not talk to the

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pastor the pastor is a man who is there in

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front of the church he will help you he will guide you

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eh So look, you are a young man there

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is no problem if you look for

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your pastor and talk to him you

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obviously want a B from the Lord

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in your life in the work you want to be used

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so you there is no problem and you

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have to look for the pastor and ask for

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guidance about your life now you have to

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remember the following this The young man's issue

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with dating is a lot of what will

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interfere in his life, it will be his

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family, his family He should

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talk to his father, his mother,

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especially the young woman, the young man too, that's

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good, it's good that the parents can

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help many children are not there in these

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decisions and in the issue of their lives

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now it is very important that they think

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about dating they seek an experience

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with you on this subject heh I

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always say sometimes I talk to

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some young people he says like this pastor we

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are not dating we are praying

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It's very good we're praying but I Car I

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found out then someone found you

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kissing us what heart is that there but I

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'm praying praying Oh no this one I did

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n't know this one I didn't know

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so it's a prayer it's a prayer isn't it

00:21:05

praying but you are praying how then if it

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really is the consultation repeating the

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pastor should not come in to consult or if nothing about

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this subject I speak even more

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I have I have a certain care eh the

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pastor for example he prays for a couple

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of young people ok dating he prays for a

00:21:24

young couple and he goes to pray and he goes he did

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n't consult you he didn't consult

00:21:29

you but he goes what he's going to

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do he's going to take it and go eh he even has to

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be careful for him to pray for the young man

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that the pastor doesn't want since Senor

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won't consult, I would like him to pray for us

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here now and the pastor will hand over Dom over

00:21:43

there to that young man over there that they are

00:21:44

dating, that's the problem if he hands over

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a gift he may have even had a gift but

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he's careful to give Don

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because gifts are serious things you

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give a gift you go pray for a young man

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who's dating you give a gift to the

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young couple there this Gift can

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help it can complicate the young man's head

00:22:01

it's better me me na na conception, that's why

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the preo advises the pastor not

00:22:06

to interfere in this, right, I think the

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interference is not consulting and not

00:22:10

wanting to stay, the pastor will pray PR for

00:22:12

both of them to bring owners to avoid this, then

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avoid this, it accompanies administers

00:22:17

exactly in families, right? what

00:22:20

must be done David wants to ask a

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question peace of the Lord Jesus to everyone eh

00:22:27

My name is David I'm from the Church of Boav

00:22:29

Vista in São Mateus in the north of the

00:22:31

state of Espírito Santo pastor there is

00:22:33

Pastor Ademir goltara my question is

00:22:37

how many years I can I can start

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dating and there is an ideal amount of time

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to pray for a relationship,

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don't look,

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we have to understand the following

00:22:50

question of how many years and this is the

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important question with the

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Industrial Revolution with the Enlightenment Everything that

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happened in the world, people lost the

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reference. In the past, there were these

00:23:00

references, right?

00:23:12

Calvin, even until he was 30 years old, he did

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n't even think about marriage, right? Then there's

00:23:18

Lério who also married a

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person who, at his time, I remember that

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Luther married a nun, right,

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so he talked like that and I did

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n't think that way. about getting married he arranged

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marriages for many fresas who ran away

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from the Convents but he himself didn't think about it

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but what if his wife Catarina

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he had with her He looked at her

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like that she looked at him we've already married

00:23:41

everyone S he's left here, I think so he

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married he ended up marrying her and

00:23:45

the marriage soon worked out, right, although today a

00:23:47

marriage like that, no, I don't know if it

00:23:50

would work because he said it well,

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Catarina was very good, she helped him a lot in what he

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had to do

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because without Catarina he wouldn't be what

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Léa he was but he said the

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following, oh, I got married but I didn't love

00:24:01

Catarina So that's the problem, right?

00:24:04

marriage without love isn't difficult, isn't it?

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without obeying your

00:24:12

parents the Bible says Honor your father and your

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mother Ephesians 6 from 1 to 2 eh the son knows Make

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the father happy the foolish son right he

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brings sadness to his mother proverbs

00:24:24

talks about proverbs 10:1 talks about

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this the Bible doesn't stipulates the age for

00:24:29

starting dating but we

00:24:31

observed that after the

00:24:35

industrial revolution or even young people in our

00:24:36

environment, young people aged 10 12 13 14

00:24:40

dating is as follows, we don't have

00:24:43

an established age But one thing is

00:24:45

certain Sometimes there are young people who is coming out

00:24:47

of adolescence and already wanting to make a

00:24:50

commitment, it's a conversation with your parents

00:24:53

and it's a good idea to talk to your pastor

00:24:55

because there isn't an established age,

00:24:58

right, to this day we don't have that and I don't think

00:25:00

the presbytery will ever have one to set

00:25:02

an age. for this there is no age

00:25:03

now each situation the situation for

00:25:06

example like I don't know how

00:25:09

old Jias married his wife I married

00:25:10

my wife was 17 years old there are people

00:25:12

who get married at 17 years old she was 17 she

00:25:14

was 17 I was 23 years old in the ep So,

00:25:16

look, we got married, I had to ask for

00:25:18

permission from the mother and young people, so

00:25:22

each situation has to be evaluated, right,

00:25:23

but one thing is certain, young people cannot

00:25:27

rush into relationships that won't

00:25:30

produce anything, right, so

00:25:32

we recommends that the young person evaluates

00:25:36

what benefit this relationship that he wants to

00:25:38

date will bring to him.

00:25:50

No, no, don't rush into a decision

00:25:52

like this because dating whether you want it or

00:25:55

not, it seems like a very, very

00:25:57

simple thing, but it often brings wounds,

00:26:00

sometimes, right, because you start dating too early, there's

00:26:02

already that

00:26:04

disappointment that you may have early on, it can

00:26:07

complicate your life. of him in the future because it's

00:26:09

a disappointment it seems like he doesn't have there are

00:26:10

disappointments that can't be easily cured didn't

00:26:13

you see so the recommendation is that he doesn't

00:26:17

start dating early he doesn't think

00:26:19

structure his life spiral the work

00:26:20

establishes the following oh the Lord gave a

00:26:23

spiritual gift eh, about the issue of

00:26:25

dating, you spoke next, in Don

00:26:29

S, he showed three

00:26:31

situations,

00:26:33

spiritual life, eh, professional life and

00:26:37

sentimental life, profal, ah, it showed in the

00:26:40

vision that a young man reversed this

00:26:42

spiritual gift, he first started

00:26:43

sentimental life, then

00:26:46

spiritual professional, he put vi I saw you gave

00:26:48

a vision that was ordered,

00:26:51

first spiritual life, then

00:26:55

professional life and then sentimental life, the

00:26:56

order that you showed

00:26:58

in the vision was that order, first

00:27:01

spiritual, then professional, and then

00:27:03

sentimental, this sequence

00:27:05

showed you that it was necessary because the

00:27:06

Young people wanted to take away this order, right? You could

00:27:08

take away this order, so young people sometimes

00:27:11

want to date, they want to

00:27:14

start dating too soon, they

00:27:17

don't have a structured spiritual life, they don't

00:27:20

have a structured professional life, there's

00:27:21

nothing about you, but

00:27:24

okay? I want to start by inverting

00:27:26

this whole biblical order that you

00:27:28

revealed in our midst, which is first

00:27:30

spiritual, professional and then

00:27:33

sentimental, that's what you revealed at the

00:27:34

beginning, right? We have two

00:27:37

biblical references that occur to me now, right?

00:27:40

of

00:27:43

young people who were extremely

00:27:46

successful and and and who achieved the

00:27:49

blessing of the Lord and who placed in this

00:27:52

order one was Joseph and Joseph already had a

00:27:56

teenage dream he had experience with the

00:27:58

teenage gentleman and everything else after

00:28:00

he went through what he went through in Egypt he was

00:28:02

placed as Governor in Egypt, so

00:28:05

he started working, right, and then he

00:28:07

started a family, another, another, another

00:28:09

biblical situation is that of Jacob, he was also

00:28:12

someone extremely successful, to the point that

00:28:15

he arrived at Esau, so God

00:28:16

gave me everything, Esau said, I have a lot,

00:28:18

like, you have a lot, but I have everything

00:28:20

but what was the sequence in

00:28:22

his life spiritual life he has he has the

00:28:24

dream there with his head placed on the stone

00:28:27

there is a Prophetic application he had a

00:28:30

meeting with you he fell in love,

00:28:33

right, normal thing for young people that he what he did was

00:28:36

work for 14 years, right? And God gave

00:28:40

him the blessing so that he could

00:28:42

start a family and be very happy. It's

00:28:44

Isaac's meeting with Rebeca.

00:28:51

I ask you, will you

00:28:53

meet him? She said I will, I will go, she

00:28:54

said, I will go, because it was her decision, right?

00:28:56

She was when she found him, she looked at

00:28:59

him, she must have typed with veld, she looked at

00:29:01

him and looked at her.

00:29:05

looking at them, they also looked at each other

00:29:06

like that. Then she put Vel back in

00:29:09

and he was praying when he looked there,

00:29:11

ready, the meeting between the two began, it

00:29:13

was in his prayer, in the look of both of them

00:29:15

there, we began to imagine even TR you

00:29:18

You know there are young people who sometimes

00:29:19

complain pastor I don't know what but the

00:29:21

young man he I always say young with his

00:29:23

head down he doesn't look at anyone he looks

00:29:25

at him he puts his head down I don't know if he doesn't

00:29:28

want to or But it's all right, ok everything is ok

00:29:30

now now I remember it being

00:29:33

his look with Rebeca Fi a look was a

00:29:36

wonderful look he wasn't either of them

00:29:37

He especially because everything that has the hand of the

00:29:40

Lord, right is the Lord is programmed everything

00:29:43

interesting that she decided to meet

00:29:44

with You haven't even seen him, you haven't seen him, you

00:29:47

spoke to her there, you must

00:29:49

have certainly spoken to her with that decision, right?

00:29:58

decided, she understood that it was

00:30:01

God's project, right? She understood

00:30:03

that it was God's project and she lived

00:30:05

God's project, it was the best thing,

00:30:07

there is something, there is an opportunity that

00:30:09

should not be

00:30:13

missed, right? It's opportunity and what the arrow

00:30:16

launched and what the other person has the third one

00:30:18

who doesn't believe you the word DIT that

00:30:20

you don't have things that you can't fly,

00:30:22

right you Lu, so there are things that there are

00:30:24

opportunities in life that people

00:30:26

can't miss, right? Let's go There, pastor, I

00:30:28

just wanted to make an observation that this gift that

00:30:31

you talked about about the young man's life, right,

00:30:34

that it was the Lord's guidance that he

00:30:36

first seek professional life spiritually

00:30:38

and then dating had a

00:30:41

big impact on me when I was young and I followed

00:30:44

exactly this way shape and everyone was

00:30:46

impressed I was in college

00:30:48

but you're not going to date anyone because

00:30:49

for me it was like that only after my

00:30:51

professional life I got a job the

00:30:54

right position then yes dating and marriage

00:30:58

I made exactly this recipe and super D it

00:31:01

really is a blessing, right? It makes me

00:31:03

sad when Andreia talks about when I

00:31:05

was young, if it was when she was young,

00:31:08

we lost,

00:31:10

huh, but come on, Henrique, you can ask

00:31:12

your question, peace of mind, my name

00:31:15

Henrique from the church in Praia da Costa 4

00:31:18

Ministry of Pastor Diniz, I'm even going to

00:31:21

prune one There are few words here to avoid being

00:31:23

canceled on the internet nowadays, you

00:31:25

have to be careful But anyway, no one

00:31:29

wants to date someone who is

00:31:30

aesthetically

00:31:32

impaired Oops, I liked the euphemism

00:31:35

aesthetically impaired

00:31:37

very well, I just tried to warn you, but anyway,

00:31:40

what's the harm? That's it, looking only

00:31:42

at external beauty, looking only at

00:31:44

appearance, I have, I have the

00:31:47

idea that everyone has beauty,

00:31:48

even sometimes someone has a

00:31:51

different ear, a

00:31:53

different head, and it's a beauty, you see

00:31:55

a lot, that's it. you know that you

00:31:57

often see a model that the person has

00:31:59

one has a different one has a

00:32:01

different head has hair

00:32:02

something there that is not the same as everyone

00:32:04

else so it's the variation of in Brazil

00:32:07

there's this variation there's this beauty, right

00:32:10

now, just look at it, it's big, so the danger of the

00:32:13

young person looking only at the outside is very

00:32:17

great because the young person, sometimes, now we

00:32:19

have to understand that beauty is

00:32:21

obviously part of it, right?

00:32:25

It's not beauty, something has to tie

00:32:27

the young man, so maybe the big eyes, the

00:32:29

different look, the hair, something

00:32:31

will tie me, I'm just taking a break,

00:32:35

I remember a young girl and I remember

00:32:37

a young girl who she she she was For me, I

00:32:40

always liked these trips, I would really like to

00:32:42

plan a trip as a young person to Bahia

00:32:45

for these missionary trips, so I

00:32:47

planned a trip to Viçosa, so

00:32:49

I couldn't go on that trip, I asked the

00:32:52

young woman, I asked the young woman to go, I spoke to

00:32:54

I spoke to It's good to go on this trip

00:32:56

interesting guy on the trip she went and

00:32:58

she the boy who the boy

00:33:01

who is on the trip also a boy even a

00:33:05

young man a boy from my church, right he

00:33:07

said so, pastor on that trip I, you,

00:33:10

sir, had given me a dream that the

00:33:13

young woman I was going to find this young woman

00:33:15

because of her hair C because of her hair then he said

00:33:19

that he didn't see that young woman, he looked at that

00:33:21

hair, bro, dream, then he went to approach the

00:33:23

young woman The young woman didn't even want to talk to

00:33:25

him at all, he said, okay? You insist, you

00:33:27

insist that you remember the dream,

00:33:29

remembering the dream, I know that a

00:33:30

time came when I think there was an

00:33:31

opportunity. They started to talk, come on, come

00:33:33

on, go on, talk, what a conversation

00:33:35

there was and sometimes the young man Sometimes the young man

00:33:38

has to insist a little too, right, it was there

00:33:40

I don't know what and I had already had some

00:33:42

disappointment in love before but that one

00:33:43

was a dream Lord gave it to him and he

00:33:45

didn't he didn't look at the face just the hair Look,

00:33:48

huh it wasn't the face not the hair

00:33:51

hair too It's important, look, hair

00:33:52

is fundamental for a woman, right? So he went and

00:33:55

started talking to me. I know that

00:33:58

boy, they got back together during the loud conversations and I got

00:34:01

them both married, what a thing, huh, so boy,

00:34:03

look at him, he went, it wasn't for him, he didn't

00:34:06

even look at his face. not hers, but he

00:34:08

remembered the one in the dream that you gave

00:34:09

her, the hair that was going to make

00:34:11

her hair, that he looked

00:34:13

exactly the same in the dream, I said that

00:34:14

and it was and it was because I am, it was designed

00:34:16

here, it was an external beauty, it was very

00:34:19

dangerous just because of beauty because there are

00:34:22

things that young people have that they

00:34:24

will really have to observe, for example, it's

00:34:26

logical that you didn't go for beauty, it was

00:34:29

for the interior, but there are things that

00:34:31

young people have to preserve, be it

00:34:32

their hygiene or something that he's

00:34:35

going to have to be careful, hey,

00:34:39

he's going to have to be careful, hey,

00:34:42

we can say that in his clothes,

00:34:45

in his behavior, so he can

00:34:48

let me see, let me see if I can help you.

00:34:49

That's right, because I was reflecting

00:34:51

on this while you were talking,

00:34:53

firstly, ugly and beautiful, it's all very

00:34:59

relative, it's relative, right?

00:35:11

people will

00:35:14

say that he is beautiful, you know, so

00:35:16

this question of ugly and beautiful is very

00:35:17

relative now, it's

00:35:20

one thing and within this relativity

00:35:25

it's you being

00:35:28

something else, it's you not being ugly, that's right,

00:35:31

so for example, beauty

00:35:35

is often in your intelligence and in the

00:35:38

way you use your intelligence

00:35:39

you are a studious person a person

00:35:41

because love begins with

00:35:45

admiration the first thing that comes

00:35:49

for a person to start liking

00:35:51

someone is a certain admiration for that

00:35:53

person and that admiration Isn't this

00:35:56

essentially aesthetic to other factors,

00:35:59

the way you speak, the way

00:36:02

you carry yourself, and then whoever is

00:36:05

seeking the Lord's blessing

00:36:07

is, I'm going to use an expression here, attracted

00:36:10

by those who are also wanting to seek a

00:36:12

blessing from the Lord, so a young woman likes

00:36:14

to see a spiritual young man who seeks

00:36:18

Revelation, right, who has a

00:36:21

serious attitude because she knows that this will be

00:36:24

reflected in her future life, right in her marriage,

00:36:27

she will have a husband who is also serious,

00:36:30

spiritual, who seeks you, a person

00:36:33

of prayer, so the Beauty is found in

00:36:36

many elements, not just the

00:36:39

aesthetic, now that's what Luí said, don't

00:36:41

be ugly if you're not pretty, don't be

00:36:44

ugly, right? How come I'm not ugly?

00:36:50

that

00:36:52

flashy thing I have an attitude in

00:36:54

my manner I am polite with

00:36:56

people all of this creates beauty Okay and so,

00:37:00

right, and how is it actually

00:37:03

aesthetically harmed, the

00:37:06

aesthetic damage is

00:37:08

compensated So this question, this

00:37:10

question, aesthetics is very relative, right,

00:37:13

ISO, no There is a beauty business like that, there are

00:37:15

people who show it, you see, it

00:37:17

really is a beauty that, but the

00:37:20

majority is not like that, the majority are people

00:37:22

who, when they arrive in the environment, everyone

00:37:24

realizes that beauty is different,

00:37:26

right, but the majority is not that, Maia. It's

00:37:28

also okay, I'm not afraid, everything

00:37:31

has its space in its place, so

00:37:33

now you can't, young people can't

00:37:35

go just for that reason, because this beauty will

00:37:38

end, it will stay beautiful all the time, so

00:37:41

time is everyone's punishment. so

00:37:43

I have to see what's next

00:37:44

Hey, you see the young lady there, everything is

00:37:48

fine, you liked the appearance, that's it, but what

00:37:50

's important is what

00:37:54

you'll get to know about this person later,

00:37:56

that's very good, that's why

00:37:58

dating is a phase of knowledge so

00:38:00

you need to get to know the people get

00:38:02

all the knowledge get the

00:38:04

information there and And you have to work

00:38:07

with the information because the information there

00:38:08

is a statistic that shows the

00:38:11

following that you only know 30% of the

00:38:15

person to marry the 70% after getting married, if

00:38:18

you don't know it, 30% you will be left

00:38:21

alone on the outside, the aesthetics there,

00:38:24

but that there can cause a lot of

00:38:26

trouble for you to just think about that, right, it's going to

00:38:28

be a lot of trouble, come on, Ana,

00:38:31

can you introduce yourself to the peace of Sir, I'm

00:38:34

Ana Luiza from the church of Taquara, Un in the

00:38:36

mountains, with the Ministry of Pastor André

00:38:38

Luí, Pastor, is it right for young people to date

00:38:42

someone their parents chose

00:38:53

? They want it so that you feel

00:38:54

free to talk, let's see here

00:38:56

about the two aspects, dating

00:38:59

is actually the result of understanding

00:39:00

between the two people, you know, who are there

00:39:02

and following a purpose, there are parents who

00:39:05

sometimes want to make His dreams come true

00:39:06

through the children, right? So this is the

00:39:09

big danger, you will see this

00:39:10

course that the father wants his son to take, which

00:39:12

he wanted to do and didn't do, there are

00:39:13

several things and also in this part,

00:39:15

the decision

00:39:18

of the young people's children is also very important. who wants to date,

00:39:20

make the decision without disrespecting the

00:39:23

parents' position.

00:39:32

So now there are

00:39:35

people who got married because their parents

00:39:38

imposed the situation and today they are

00:39:39

unhappy, you know, a bad life because the

00:39:42

young person needs to choose his decision,

00:39:45

it will be his future, he decided, he

00:39:47

makes the commitment, he also accepts the mistake

00:39:48

he made because he chose

00:39:50

It's going to be wrong, it wasn't the parents, they won't be

00:39:52

able to blame anyone, they

00:39:53

chose it, so this could happen, it could

00:39:57

happen anyway, and it happens

00:40:01

in many families where the parents don't like

00:40:03

who the young person chose, so you have to

00:40:05

have the ability to deal with it.

00:40:07

situation getting around the thing is not not not

00:40:09

also wanting to be harsh with your parents

00:40:12

because of that the parents will show their

00:40:14

taste oh I didn't like this boy there

00:40:16

isn't something about him that I don't know what it

00:40:18

is so you can listen to your parents You

00:40:21

ponder with them, oh, dad, it's not like that,

00:40:24

this boy, he has this, he has this

00:40:26

quality, you have that, if you

00:40:28

like him, you already have to consider it

00:40:29

too, and the boy has to consider the

00:40:33

qualities of the girl he sees

00:40:34

The parents didn't see that the parents don't

00:40:36

live with her there, so I believe

00:40:37

that this issue of the parents

00:40:40

choosing to choose is not a good thing,

00:40:42

right, it's not a good thing, now there are

00:40:45

situations in which the parents will be pleased with

00:40:49

that person and the If a boy likes it,

00:40:52

it's the best of all worlds, right, but it

00:40:53

won't always be like that. And most

00:40:55

cases are like that.

00:41:08

who has a resemblance, has

00:41:09

something similar to his father, there's a saying

00:41:11

that goes around in the popular world, right

00:41:14

now you, young man, you have to know

00:41:19

what you mean, you're going to have to fight to

00:41:22

win this battle of the father Being

00:41:24

against the mother being I'm against this relationship,

00:41:26

no, because I don't, because for some reason,

00:41:29

because he doesn't like that person, he doesn't

00:41:30

like it, I don't like it, there's something that she

00:41:33

didn't like. So you're going to have to

00:41:34

convince your parents that it's good that your

00:41:37

parents also understand because if you

00:41:39

enter into the relationship against your

00:41:43

parents are in conflict This is not good so

00:41:46

you have to try you will have to

00:41:49

make a choice You chose that one

00:41:52

so you will have to find a

00:41:54

way to convince your parents that she is

00:41:55

a good person for you you right or

00:41:57

him is a good person for you So it's

00:41:58

worth doing this because you

00:42:01

you your parents didn't like that

00:42:03

person because he didn't choose that one at

00:42:05

all but you have to tell him

00:42:06

that the dark one is yours, it's not theirs so

00:42:08

they have to understanding parents,

00:42:10

many people find it difficult to

00:42:12

understand their children's choices, but their

00:42:15

children's choices are the best ones for them.

00:42:17

For their future, too, because they

00:42:20

will make mistakes, they can make mistakes, but if they

00:42:24

make mistakes, they were the ones who made mistakes because

00:42:25

they made the wrong choices, so Eh, the parents. It

00:42:28

would be good if parents understood their

00:42:30

children's choice, it would be good, but many

00:42:32

will sometimes have to live with the

00:42:35

situation, not accepting it, but fighting

00:42:38

to convince me, I suggest one more thing.

00:42:44

accept, show a

00:42:47

way of being pleasant so that they

00:42:48

parents can see that you are not that Maybe

00:42:51

in a moment the best moments of

00:42:53

our life for You can show who

00:42:56

you are your character everything is in the most

00:42:58

difficult time of life the family is going through

00:43:01

a problem there you are You are living

00:43:03

with that family and you Suddenly

00:43:05

you are a young woman who is joining that

00:43:07

family you are going to put an

00:43:10

opinion you are going to help that person with

00:43:13

something so you are going to win

00:43:14

that family too right you are going to win

00:43:16

that family So this is going to be very

00:43:18

important, so sometimes your

00:43:20

parents don't accept you but you can be

00:43:22

acceptable to them in the way you acted

00:43:32

I understand that the young man has a

00:43:34

more open mind, as he says,

00:43:36

he should have an easier time

00:43:37

understanding this and convincing those

00:43:41

people who don't accept him to accept him, right?

00:43:47

advice you want to ask a question

00:43:50

Débora Paz do Senhor brothers my name is

00:43:53

Débora I'm from the Mata da Praia Church of the

00:43:55

Pastor's Ministry

00:43:56

and even on the same subject

00:43:59

we were talking about, what is the

00:44:02

role of parents in their

00:44:05

children's relationships? the role of parents, in fact,

00:44:09

the Bible says, children, obey your

00:44:12

parents, right, because that is pleasing to God,

00:44:15

right, here it is, Ephesians 6 1 to 3 talks about

00:44:19

this, you please your parents, son, be

00:44:22

obedient to your parents, because if it is

00:44:24

fair, honor your father your mother see the

00:44:26

first commandment with promise so

00:44:28

there are several texts in the Bible talk about

00:44:29

this so the future is your future

00:44:33

and it often depends on harmony in the

00:44:36

family because Jesus said in Luke

00:44:39

12:53 that the father would turn against the

00:44:41

son the son against the father the mother-in-law

00:44:44

against the daughter-in-law the daughter-in-law against the mother-in-law

00:44:46

just a mess Luke 12:53 says that the

00:44:48

family would come into conflict But you,

00:44:51

although I always say Jesus didn't say

00:44:53

anything about the son-in-law just wearing a rope with his daughter-in-law, just

00:44:56

comrade There are some stories that we

00:44:58

know, right now, sometimes what she says,

00:45:02

you know your father, for example, your

00:45:05

father is an unbeliever, but the Bible doesn't

00:45:08

say it, if you respect your father, honor

00:45:10

your father, if he is an unbeliever, your mother is

00:45:11

Believer is accepted if it's not the Bible Don't

00:45:13

say that, tell him to Honor your father, your

00:45:15

mother, being an unbeliever, not being the Bible

00:45:17

Don't tell him, it doesn't make any difference, right?

00:45:19

So you're going to have to be careful

00:45:23

in this treatment for your future

00:45:25

because it is. It's very good that families

00:45:29

get along well It's very bad when you see

00:45:31

weddings that you see a lot in church

00:45:33

marriages of young people who married with

00:45:36

young people or vice-versa but who

00:45:40

don't get along well with the parents of that

00:45:42

family, they have to Understand the following,

00:45:44

young people have to understand their mother, for example,

00:45:47

one of a young girl Oh, she doesn't like that

00:45:49

mother-in-law, that one in her office, she looks, just

00:45:53

pay attention, she raised that

00:45:55

young man, life has until it reaches your

00:45:58

hand, when you have him there to

00:46:00

marry him until he comes to you, she

00:46:02

created her, she lived, you won't tell him

00:46:04

that that young man will dislike

00:46:06

his mother because of you, right, it's

00:46:08

unlikely So it's worth

00:46:10

fighting to win That family there and

00:46:12

there because it's a Whatever you experience, you must

00:46:15

live in this conflict of Luke

00:46:17

12:53 this whole fight Jesus, he doesn't want

00:46:21

this to be a family of Servants

00:46:23

to happen, that's not all this fighting, there's a

00:46:26

lack of forgiveness As I said, I always say there's

00:46:29

a lack of forgiveness, there's a lack of love, you have to

00:46:31

forgive, there's a lack of you have to forgive you have

00:46:33

to forgive someone someone is hurting you

00:46:35

forgive, get it right, let's go, live in peace,

00:46:37

live in peace, which is the best thing, the

00:46:40

best thing, the best thing, the best thing, and

00:46:43

André What do we have now PR

00:46:45

to continue here because the program is

00:46:46

delicious, isn't it, there are a

00:46:50

lot of questions, can you understand

00:46:53

we said that the program Today is a

00:46:54

slightly different program, a lot of

00:46:56

questions We are making the most of

00:46:58

the presence of Pastor Luí Eugênio and the

00:47:00

presence of the young people, so we can continue in

00:47:02

this vein now So Let's go, David

00:47:05

can ask the

00:47:06

question, my question is the following,

00:47:09

my parents discriminate against my

00:47:11

relationship, what should I do in this

00:47:14

situation, well, he's saying that

00:47:17

this isn't happening. Question,

00:47:19

question, okay, it's an example of a

00:47:23

hypothetical case. a hypothetical case, this is

00:47:25

the Truth, it happens. Parents often

00:47:28

don't accept it,

00:47:29

the Bible says here in Romans, Romans

00:47:33

2:11 that God is no respecter of persons,

00:47:35

but man is a respecter of persons,

00:47:38

so the Bible recommends not making a

00:47:41

difference in color of race language of of

00:47:43

nothing, of wealth, the person is poor, none

00:47:46

of that Jesus never did These barriers

00:47:48

but man does These barriers So if

00:47:51

this discrimination has parents who

00:47:54

discriminate, they don't want their child Case

00:47:55

that so-and-so Because that's because of

00:47:57

So, the Bible says Romans

00:48:00

10:12, whether Jewish or Greek, the word

00:48:03

of God always recommends this, right?

00:48:05

So, what happens in this case, as a

00:48:09

young person, you are being discriminated against, you

00:48:11

must understand the following, you will have

00:48:13

to, you will have to overcoming this

00:48:15

barrier you won't get hurt because of

00:48:17

it because it will happen the young girl

00:48:21

is not obliged to like what her father

00:48:24

and mother think you are discriminated against by

00:48:26

his family his family doesn't

00:48:27

accept you because you are poor because you

00:48:28

have money I don't know what and you don't

00:48:31

have an education she has an education I don't know what

00:48:33

there are many things there can be discrimination

00:48:35

so at this time you will win with

00:48:38

prayer you will pray for

00:48:40

this family that is discriminating against you they will

00:48:43

try to see that you are not None of this has

00:48:45

a good side, right? The good side of you is what you

00:48:48

have that will do good for the

00:48:51

daughter or son of that family, you

00:48:53

have character, you are a person of

00:48:56

character, a hardworking person, a

00:48:59

responsible person who, in fact, are the

00:49:01

parents. eh, they want the best for their

00:49:05

children, I understand that parents

00:49:08

are not looking for a person, eh, with

00:49:10

that one, that guy, there is a

00:49:13

person who could, eh, really

00:49:16

be a good person, good PR for his daughter or for

00:49:18

his son, so you have to show this

00:49:20

for the parents, in some way, that this is nothing

00:49:23

like this discrimination that they are

00:49:25

doing to you because you also

00:49:27

have no interest in anything, it's

00:49:29

more the question of are you with the person

00:49:30

because you love that person, do you

00:49:33

like that person, do you? Do you want to have

00:49:34

a future with her? Well, it's a question

00:49:37

that you're going to have to work to

00:49:39

convince because society is

00:49:41

discriminating. There's a way now.

00:49:43

You're going to pray. You're going to ask. You're going to fast

00:49:48

often. You're going to work for

00:49:49

what you want and have to have. a

00:49:51

purpose and I always say the following

00:49:54

oh and be

00:49:58

optimistic what do I ask the

00:50:01

young people here I'm going to ask now I'm going to ask too much, right

00:50:03

Uh, what is it easier to be optimistic

00:50:05

or to be

00:50:06

pessimistic, uh,

00:50:08

optimistic, so what do you do? It's easier

00:50:11

to be an optimist or a

00:50:13

pessimist Why is it easier to be

00:50:15

a pessimist if things are wrong Prime

00:50:17

is because it's like the Bible says the

00:50:19

other one goes to work Oh there's a lion

00:50:21

outside I'm not even going to leave my place I may have to

00:50:23

face it The challenges of life

00:50:24

you are going to be discriminated against

00:50:26

all your life because you are young because in

00:50:28

a little while you don't have this you have

00:50:30

that so you have to fight against

00:50:32

this stigma that may have in

00:50:33

society Where are you ahead you

00:50:35

understand next, you're good, I'm going

00:50:37

to achieve that, no one is going to stop it

00:50:39

and it will and and with Christ with you Jesus with

00:50:42

you you are a servant of God you have

00:50:45

everything to win so It's like the

00:50:47

young man says, being pessimistic is much more F

00:50:49

So you won't, I'll make it No, because

00:50:51

that's what she is, she's very beautiful or I don't

00:50:53

know what she is, that's that, she's rich, I'm

00:50:55

poor, she, brothers, let's win this,

00:50:58

you're the servant of God, he's going to

00:51:00

eternity, so there's him, no, he doesn't

00:51:02

give up easily, no. the believer is known

00:51:05

as the one who doesn't give up easily

00:51:07

once if a survey in Super

00:51:09

Interessante magazine says that the evangelical

00:51:11

has a difference in that he is

00:51:13

persistent in what he wants so the young person

00:51:15

has to be like that, persistent and not

00:51:17

look at the barriers a barrier will

00:51:19

exist if there are barriers it's because the

00:51:22

thing is good Luiz let me ask

00:51:24

you a question, complementing the one

00:51:26

that was discussed here,

00:51:28

well, first of all, the following is the

00:51:32

issue of discrimination, it

00:51:35

is normally involved in a

00:51:37

preconception In other words, it is a concept that

00:51:42

someone has about another person and

00:51:45

that was formulated before meeting that

00:51:47

person and that is why there is

00:51:49

discrimination, so as the

00:51:51

person shows that they are not what the

00:51:55

other person is thinking, that concept changes

00:51:58

this prejudice of existing a

00:52:01

new concept is formed This is an

00:52:02

ex aspect and here this corroborates what

00:52:04

you said but I want to ask

00:52:06

you a question now about one detail is

00:52:08

passion is usually blinding is it exactly right and

00:52:13

sometimes what the parents are seeing

00:52:17

because they are not blinded by the passion

00:52:21

that the young person is having, so the young person must

00:52:24

also

00:52:26

from the point of view of considering to take into

00:52:30

account,

00:52:31

this boy or girl has everything,

00:52:37

right, because of this attitude, this, this,

00:52:40

this. you will have difficulties in the

00:52:43

future and the young man should also take into

00:52:47

consideration what you said that

00:52:48

the father who is the best for him

00:52:50

and take it into account he may even discover,

00:52:53

no, it's not at all what my parents

00:52:55

are talking about, it's the person so that he does

00:52:58

n't get blinded by passion He doesn't end up getting

00:53:01

into a difficult situation because he didn't listen to

00:53:03

what his parents had to say So, in

00:53:05

truth, it's a situation of Balance that

00:53:06

needs to happen in all of this and I'm

00:53:08

correct, I'm right about that There has to

00:53:10

be At Sometimes young people in their

00:53:13

youth have these passions, that's

00:53:16

natural, there's a passion there, there's that one thing where you just

00:53:18

see little stars coming like that,

00:53:21

all in love, that's normal now, that's

00:53:24

it, the parents, obviously, sometimes

00:53:27

they see that there and they get a little

00:53:29

scared about it. what is happening, right,

00:53:30

but what is happening today in

00:53:32

society, there is even a

00:53:35

Brazilian psychiatrist who is famous all over the world

00:53:37

who says the following: parents don't want to

00:53:39

see their children suffer, they want to see the

00:53:42

best of things PR their children do

00:53:43

everything is fine, but the children will have to

00:53:45

suffer at some point, whether out of love or

00:53:47

disappointment, or in other words, suffering is

00:53:50

part of life, so sometimes the next thing

00:53:51

he will go through is a relationship,

00:53:54

dating, which is, but it becomes an acquaintance,

00:53:56

he goes that way overwhelming passion that

00:53:59

comes with everything there is there enchanted with

00:54:01

the business that's normal it's part of the da

00:54:04

da of Youth even as it says

00:54:07

hormones don't convert not the

00:54:08

hormones are there so sometimes you

00:54:10

have to take it you have to take it and

00:54:12

leave it Young people will live a little, it's logical

00:54:13

that the father will guide them, the mother will

00:54:15

guide them, but what happens to them?

00:54:25

harmful it can be

00:54:27

if it is too exaggerated, right because the

00:54:29

Bible says the following in Corinthians 3 it says

00:54:31

so love never fails love never

00:54:34

fails eh Love is suffering it is benign

00:54:38

so love always does good for someone is

00:54:40

n't it now when a passion is there

00:54:41

Differently, people go beyond everything, but

00:54:43

love is good for people, as they say,

00:54:46

love is good, so leave the young person there,

00:54:49

he has that one, sometimes

00:54:51

the parents have been through this too and

00:54:54

I'm afraid what could happen to the child,

00:54:56

no. he will pass but he will overcome that

00:54:58

there he will win there are stages of life right

00:55:02

stage of life right Pastor Luiz Eugênio

00:55:05

now Samuel wants to ask a

00:55:06

very interesting question let's

00:55:08

listen I'm Samuel Lord Jesus I'm from the

00:55:12

Church of Jardim da Penha 3 Pastor

00:55:15

Aníbal and I wanted to ask Pastor

00:55:17

Luiz Eugênio, I'm dating

00:55:20

my girlfriend because I hear

00:55:22

prophecies, how do I do this? In this

00:55:25

case, it's more of a hypothetical situation,

00:55:29

right?

00:55:36

some Dom, right? That's the

00:55:39

question and prophecies

00:55:42

exactly So look, we're not going to

00:55:43

despise the gifts, we're not going to despise the

00:55:46

gifts, but look, there's been guidance to

00:55:50

avoid this neora of gifts when it comes to

00:55:55

dating of the

00:55:56

presbytery not to receive this gift

00:55:58

because the gift is the pastor GTI says

00:56:00

one thing very well the following the gift whoever

00:56:03

receives is responsible for who also

00:56:05

Whoever gave the gift is responsible But

00:56:07

you who received it are also responsible

00:56:08

because you did not discern the gift that the

00:56:10

person delivers a gift eh Gift about

00:56:12

dating for us there is no such thing as a

00:56:14

right gift of dating To deliver a gift of

00:56:16

dating to you you can consider

00:56:17

this gift o guidance from the presbytery this

00:56:20

gift to date someone so-and-so

00:56:22

that's not it we don't, we don't guide

00:56:24

this, so the prophecy sometimes

00:56:26

creates confusion, you don't love the person and

00:56:27

you have to mess with the person because they

00:56:29

have the same gift for you, that's not

00:56:31

how it is, God is a God of confusion, right? That's why

00:56:33

We advise

00:56:36

the pastor not to get into this issue of

00:56:37

dating I don't get into this issue and Did

00:56:40

anyone have a Oh I had a I had a

00:56:42

dream I had a gift that so and so is

00:56:44

dating so and so is not going for it, so this is

00:56:46

These Dreams I don't do anything like that

00:56:48

head of the person, so we have

00:56:49

recommended not to reject this

00:56:52

type of Gift. In the past, I had

00:56:55

this issue in the work of a person who

00:56:56

brought up a revelation with people talking about such and such.

00:57:02

It's just a problem, so, and

00:57:06

you, the guidance from the presbytery is that you do

00:57:09

n't receive this type of owner.

00:57:17

It is a decision

00:57:18

made by the young person and that N And if

00:57:21

someone comes from the church there to give

00:57:23

you a gift of this type, you also don't

00:57:24

take this type of gift into consideration

00:57:26

now. There are things that are in the

00:57:28

person's head, you can receive the gift, take the

00:57:31

pastor because a gift must go through the

00:57:32

pastor,

00:57:34

right?

00:57:46

this kind

00:57:47

of thing doesn't allow you to ask a question

00:57:50

and you already reported here the experience of

00:57:53

that guy on the trip to Bahia

00:57:55

where he had the dream. So this

00:57:58

approach you're taking is the gift from

00:58:00

Fora, the gift that comes from the church in the middle of the

00:58:03

church and such exactly now the couple and

00:58:06

above all The More mature I remembered

00:58:08

you remembered a gift here I remembered

00:58:10

a gift that a young woman looked for a pastor

00:58:12

I was passing by on the street there a woman

00:58:15

a woman gave me a revelation Fi

00:58:17

is it really What Revelation The revelation was as

00:58:20

follows, if I don't stop cutting my

00:58:23

hair and I don't stop using lipstick, these things,

00:58:26

wearing earrings, I won't stop wearing

00:58:28

these things, I won't get married and

00:58:29

other things that the woman gave the

00:58:31

revelation to, I told my sister, you're weaving

00:58:33

the revelation said no the woman passed by on the

00:58:34

street gave a revelation if the way

00:58:36

it is It's difficult I imagine with nothing

00:58:39

to do with it keep these conversations then

00:58:41

the person accepts any Dom that appears

00:58:43

in the street color D is in the body D is in the body

00:58:46

now completing the question for you,

00:58:48

go back and complete the question. Here's what

00:58:50

a couple started dating,

00:58:54

sometimes with an experience of one or

00:58:55

the other like the one you told here

00:58:57

about the guy who had the dream about his

00:58:59

sister's hair eh, but as

00:59:02

this relationship

00:59:04

matures, it is important that the couple

00:59:07

seeks to hear the Lord's voice for them.

00:59:15

That's right, the experience with

00:59:17

you is fundamental, right? That's why the

00:59:19

young person's experience is important, right? Just

00:59:22

showing him his future.

00:59:24

Exactly, it's very good when you

00:59:26

show him. When you give a revelation.

00:59:28

Showing him like this is the best thing. that has the

00:59:29

life of the young man goes towards the

00:59:31

Lord there I say one thing if the young man

00:59:34

prays and asks the Lord he will show you the

00:59:36

Lord will show you will show him

00:59:38

go oh eh eh Sometimes you have a

00:59:41

purpose in your life and you are and you

00:59:44

are diverting that purpose there

00:59:46

sometimes sometimes even you want that

00:59:48

and you and you I remember when I

00:59:52

started dating my wife

00:59:54

I remember the following that she

00:59:57

looked at me like that She said she looked

00:59:59

at me Someone told her she's dating

01:00:00

This guy he said I'm not going to date

01:00:02

anything I didn't want to at

01:00:04

all so I traveled I traveled I went I

01:00:07

worked abroad, right? I traveled

01:00:09

abroad she spoke to me like that and then

01:00:11

something happened something different, I said

01:00:12

what happened, I started to miss

01:00:14

you, and then I fell into the loop there, right,

01:00:17

so here's the thing. Sometimes things

01:00:19

happen like this, you don't want them to, but you

01:00:20

want that and sometimes you

01:00:22

will touch your heart, you You don't

01:00:24

want that boy there, you don't want that

01:00:26

boy, it's interesting that it wasn't

01:00:28

Maranata, no, and she was, hey, look, I

01:00:30

wasn't Maranata, no, sometimes there are pastors

01:00:33

who put forward this conception to this day, the

01:00:35

following is the person, for example, I was

01:00:37

obviously an evangelical and I wasn't It

01:00:40

wasn't Maranato but it was Evangélio, so

01:00:42

it turns out that sometimes she paid a visit

01:00:44

to the church I was there, so it ended up that

01:00:46

the story is a

01:00:49

beautiful story, but look at the issue, the young man

01:00:53

has to remember the following that the young man

01:00:54

he has to I always say

01:00:58

sometimes the opportunity that is in front of the

01:01:00

young man is letting the

01:01:01

opportunity pass by that he thinks I don't

01:01:03

know what, full of things, he's choosing

01:01:05

too much, he's full of I don't know what, look,

01:01:07

with these things you see See if this is what

01:01:09

the Lord has for you Senor wants that

01:01:10

there o Sometimes you don't want it but the

01:01:12

Lord is wanting that for you that

01:01:13

will be a blessing in your life that

01:01:14

there o Amen seek the Lord's will,

01:01:16

right? exactly bus let's continue

01:01:19

let's go mon now Ana do you want to ask

01:01:21

pastor and give some advice to a young man or

01:01:25

woman who loves someone but then

01:01:28

that person starts dating what

01:01:30

can that young man or woman do? It's a

01:01:34

question, will you pray now? pray but

01:01:36

God doesn't force anyone to have to have to have to have

01:01:38

that, right, don't violate the person the

01:01:41

person's soul the person has to that eh now

01:01:44

eh Jeremiah 079 the deceitful heart of

01:01:48

man Jeremiah 17 So you Lord

01:01:50

Sometimes you have to pray Lord do your will Sometimes

01:01:52

Sometimes the person You like that

01:01:53

person

01:01:54

she started dating the other one but

01:01:56

there are some things that she didn't even

01:01:58

know if she was interested in her I

01:02:00

wanted to didn't start dating someone else there she doesn't

01:02:01

even know why maybe now maybe

01:02:04

maybe you can wait since you you're

01:02:07

interested in that person she

01:02:09

didn't show interest in you you

01:02:11

didn't see she didn't see that you were

01:02:13

interested so something that could

01:02:15

happen so you're going to pray Now you

01:02:18

see that you see that there the other

01:02:21

person's relationship went ahead and You're

01:02:23

waiting, maybe it's not something you

01:02:25

get too excited about, not because you've

01:02:27

already gone the other way, right, or maybe

01:02:31

you missed an opportunity. I'm

01:02:33

realizing that Luiz Eugênio is

01:02:34

encouraging you to take action, understand,

01:02:37

this thing is going to be waiting a lot for

01:02:39

everything else. Now try to resolve it soon, right, luí,

01:02:42

I believe the following, I believe that the

01:02:43

young man, you put opportunities

01:02:45

in our FR, we have to see if it is yours, it

01:02:46

is not your will, learn the prayer of

01:02:48

Jesus father, your will be done

01:02:51

Sometimes you, sir It's put a person in

01:02:53

front of you You consult, sir,

01:02:54

sir, is that really it? I don't

01:02:56

want it, but is that really what

01:02:57

Senor has for me? See, who

01:02:59

knows?

01:03:01

I have experience

01:03:03

with you in these things, I asked the

01:03:04

Lord, Lord, and don't look at the face,

01:03:07

don't look at the face too much, you can't get

01:03:09

discouraged like that.

01:03:15

It's a person who's going to be your

01:03:16

future, you know, that's what it's going to be and sometimes

01:03:18

consults you, sir, and is

01:03:21

that really you, maybe you don't

01:03:23

want to say that?

01:03:27

I'm thinking about that one, uh, the soulmate, that

01:03:30

's not it, that's not the one you have for me, there

01:03:32

's no other Soulmate, another one, but

01:03:34

that soulmate is something from Greek mythology,

01:03:36

right, it's the soulmate, that's what

01:03:38

Greek mythology says that there were Four

01:03:42

Arms four legs and two heads

01:03:44

so fandom like that went from the Middle went

01:03:47

to one side one side went to one place and

01:03:49

the other went to the other side the day we

01:03:50

met one Gemma met is a

01:03:52

thing of mythology brother stop with that

01:03:54

So let's go let's go more in the word and

01:03:56

let's go let's go into mythology no just

01:03:58

like the young man arrives astrology there is another

01:03:59

being mology right he goes there goes that young man goes there is

01:04:03

young man who goes through astrology

01:04:05

no I'm going to see if the signs

01:04:07

match ah, the business of signs combining is

01:04:10

this thing Mythology stuff I also follow

01:04:12

has nothing to do with anything, I follow with nothing,

01:04:14

you're going to see the story of c, there's

01:04:15

nothing, so you follow God's direction

01:04:19

for your life, don't get caught up in this

01:04:20

business of these fictional things,

01:04:22

they're not fictional things,

01:04:25

pure fiction, right? we follow Samuel wants to

01:04:28

ask again Samuel Yes, I'm

01:04:32

trying to win over a young woman, but it's

01:04:35

very difficult, right, how would I do it in this

01:04:37

case, right?

01:04:50

environment here

01:04:51

now great achievements achievement in

01:04:54

life has a price to be paid

01:04:57

difficult things are sometimes good see So

01:04:58

be patient

01:05:01

diplomacy Sometimes you want to

01:05:03

conquer Who knows, you can send

01:05:04

her a little flower there maybe she will like it

01:05:06

prudence discretion prayer cannot be

01:05:09

missed so you need to know if she's

01:05:11

making it difficult, there's someone who makes it difficult,

01:05:14

you know, there's someone who makes it difficult even now, or he

01:05:17

's not interested in you, he doesn't

01:05:18

want anything to do with you, so you have to

01:05:19

discern this whole issue and

01:05:22

sometimes the issue is It's just a matter of time

01:05:25

Now things are difficult, you have to

01:05:27

work a little more, who knows, it will

01:05:29

work out Well, sir,

01:05:32

pay attention to the signs she gives, right?

01:05:34

She's how she looks at you, how

01:05:36

she sees you, so look at you now

01:05:39

that the young man is ready, he has to be

01:05:42

ready to be accepted or not to accept you,

01:05:44

you want that person there but

01:05:46

you see that it might not

01:05:48

work out but you can't give up

01:05:49

that easily, no you have to, who knows, who knows?

01:05:52

She doesn't understand when you see

01:05:54

your action on her or she

01:05:57

thinks it's not like that because

01:05:59

there are young people. I observe the following, there are

01:06:02

young people who are sometimes interested in

01:06:04

someone and don't say anything.

01:06:07

Since

01:06:09

she was talking to the young man on the internet, right

01:06:11

then they were there talking to each

01:06:16

other with a friend, everything there, business starts

01:06:18

with friendship, right? There was a friend, everything there, they

01:06:20

went to the mall to have a snack, they both went to have a

01:06:22

snack at the mall, to have a snack, they already

01:06:25

had a snack, everything was fine. he paid for the lunch, the

01:06:27

Knight paid for the lunch for the young man

01:06:29

there, he paid for everything correctly and then she said

01:06:33

that she was going home, he went and said nothing,

01:06:36

just that little

01:06:38

chat and that's okay, there to go

01:06:41

here. So I said and then she

01:06:43

Pastor said I got home I didn't like I

01:06:46

liked the conversation but the conversation didn't

01:06:47

come to any conclusion, right?

01:06:56

dating let's stay S talk

01:06:58

then she said no we're going to date so she

01:06:59

needed to take a stand Look

01:07:02

let's publicize Pastor Luiz

01:07:04

Eugênio's number to every young person who

01:07:06

has no but you know but you know

01:07:09

jos one thing you know one thing oh I

01:07:12

got married H 41 years old, the one who asked me for a date was

01:07:14

my wife who asked me for a date, it wasn't

01:07:15

me, it wasn't, it was, sometimes it's the next thing,

01:07:18

the woman won't be the woman, it can't be

01:07:20

offered like that, But she has to have it, she

01:07:22

has to have it, that thing, that thing

01:07:26

is the Next, I think there's a lack of

01:07:27

decision in these young people. Of course there's a

01:07:29

lack of it. Boy, the young man. Sometimes Ah, but

01:07:32

there's no one, I don't know what, there's no

01:07:33

one. Is there really no one? You

01:07:36

're seeing it right

01:07:38

Sometimes the next thing, oh, you missed seeking

01:07:40

direction from the Lord, you missed seeing what it

01:07:42

really is.

01:07:51

you have to think about

01:07:54

what the Lord has for your life,

01:07:56

sometimes the Lord has a purpose he has already

01:07:58

placed in front of you. You are, eh,

01:08:02

the young woman has to be very careful

01:08:03

with this too, so as not to be offered too much,

01:08:05

not to be there too much So, how do you

01:08:08

say if you offer, the young man can't do

01:08:10

that, not now the young man has to

01:08:12

show some signs, right? The young man didn't see

01:08:15

any signs of her, that's what I

01:08:16

say, the young man didn't see any signs.

01:08:18

But no, he didn't show

01:08:19

anything, oh, pastor, I'm from the old times,

01:08:22

okay, I'll stay in the old days. I'm saying,

01:08:24

now, look, I think you have to have a

01:08:26

certain balance in these things, not

01:08:29

exaggerate anything, but also not be too

01:08:31

young at times. he's shy, right

01:08:33

Uh, the young man is shy then and you're

01:08:35

more like an extrovert so sometimes the

01:08:38

next person you need to help

01:08:39

something also needs to help and you

01:08:41

're not helping anything then you're

01:08:42

making everything difficult so the next person then

01:08:44

sometimes the young person has that young people have to

01:08:46

see correctly and you are a young woman more

01:08:49

like this young woman who she married to

01:08:51

this boy she met by talking

01:08:54

on the internet they talked they went to the

01:08:57

mall then she called come here and

01:08:59

what will our situation be like

01:09:00

we will stay let's go be a friend of mine I don't

01:09:02

know what she was, boy and young, even

01:09:05

spiritual, everything about her, it wasn't that she was

01:09:08

offered, she was decided, right, she

01:09:12

didn't want to stay in that business with no

01:09:13

results. There are young people.

01:09:19

but interested in the other, without anyone

01:09:20

saying anything to anyone, right, then the

01:09:24

other, more

01:09:26

knowledgeable person appears, he lost the opportunity, right, pastor,

01:09:30

Life is made of

01:09:31

opportunities, let's forget that

01:09:33

Henrique wants to

01:09:35

ask, pastor, already making a

01:09:38

point about this issue that you spoke about

01:09:39

the young man demonstrating right interest in a

01:09:42

situation in which the two young people showed

01:09:44

interest but there is another problem there which

01:09:46

is a physical distance, you know, a

01:09:49

long-distance relationship, how do young people deal with

01:09:52

it Raz, but today things are

01:09:55

much easier, right? I have a

01:09:58

young man who I I even met him a few

01:09:59

days ago, there's a young man who has a

01:10:01

guitarist, he plays and he was fine, he

01:10:04

married a young woman, a young woman, I even

01:10:06

met him, I said, boy, did you

01:10:08

meet this young woman, oh pastor, I

01:10:09

started talking to her, the young woman from there

01:10:12

Sergipe, she is from Vitória, here the two

01:10:14

got married, they started the conversation, they started

01:10:16

the conversation, and then they found it and the

01:10:20

thing worked and the two are married,

01:10:22

I said, boy, he looked for this woman from Sergipe there,

01:10:26

Vitória, she looked for her there in Sergipe,

01:10:28

so the next thing is sometimes the distance

01:10:31

today in day is not a problem, not a

01:10:33

past, but today there is not much of a

01:10:34

problem, it really depends on each situation,

01:10:37

the young man will, he will work on it,

01:10:41

then he will just give us a blessing and the

01:10:43

care must be taken, there must be a lot of care

01:10:45

in this matter, right? n We can

01:10:47

even talk later about what care you need to take,

01:10:49

but this has happened to many

01:10:51

young people, you see, a lot of young people,

01:10:53

this has happened now, pastor, and those

01:10:55

young people who have that reputation for being very

01:10:59

flirtatious, how to proceed in this case, a

01:11:02

servant of the master appeared, a young man just

01:11:04

like She's going to proceed in this case, the

01:11:07

young man has to have a certain attitude. There's that

01:11:09

young man called a young man who likes to date

01:11:11

just for fun, right?

01:11:24

This young man can change, he can

01:11:26

change, many young people have changed, oh, they have

01:11:28

changed. As Out says, he can even

01:11:30

convert, right? Why isn't it possible for a

01:11:32

young man to stay in a relationship, a lot of young people

01:11:34

have no commitment to anything, they just want to

01:11:35

spend time, I don't know what, and and

01:11:38

hurting a lot of hearts, right, because you

01:11:41

leave a lot of wounds and it doesn't seem like that,

01:11:42

but you do, so I think that young people,

01:11:45

this young man, have to be a little careful,

01:11:47

sometimes a young man who has dated a lot

01:11:49

of young people, and a lot of young people, he

01:11:51

has no commitment. You know he's

01:11:53

committed, but who knows, maybe he's

01:11:54

really interested in you, but you have to be

01:11:57

careful so you don't be the

01:11:59

next one to be hurt too, right? So

01:12:01

you have to be hurt, right?

01:12:07

so you don't have disappointment but be

01:12:09

another person of disappointment, another

01:12:11

person that he will take time and

01:12:14

not resolve things n not stay there alone na

01:12:16

na na take advantage of your you to

01:12:19

take his time just be

01:12:21

having fun then the work, this young man

01:12:24

has no work, didn't you see, this young man stays in this

01:12:26

business to go here, he doesn't have a work, that's what

01:12:27

God's work is for, the young man doesn't

01:12:28

stay like that, that's

01:12:30

not how it is, you see, the church doesn't work

01:12:31

like that right, it's one thing, one

01:12:34

thing is taking too long to choose due to a lot of

01:12:36

demands, another thing is choosing poorly, right? You have

01:12:38

to be careful, Sara wants to

01:12:41

ask a question, pastor in a

01:12:43

relationship where there are lies, how

01:12:46

can a young person proceed in the face of this, the

01:12:49

question is the following the Bible says that

01:12:52

the adversary is the father of lies,

01:12:54

right? I

01:13:06

don't

01:13:08

know what it is about the young man and it's a complicated issue

01:13:11

so I see what you're going to

01:13:13

marry someone you're

01:13:15

suspicious of all the time. It's

01:13:24

not

01:13:26

worth it because you're going to

01:13:27

suffer a lot and you've already started

01:13:29

dating by lying all the time V lying to a

01:13:33

man, that can even be a lie,

01:13:36

something but lying all the time That

01:13:37

's not good, so I think you have I

01:13:39

want to work with him and say the following,

01:13:41

I'm going to give you more opportunity to see if

01:13:43

you change this issue of you

01:13:44

telling lies, you keep telling

01:13:45

lies, it's not worth it if you

01:13:48

stay in a life of lies,

01:13:51

no, it's not worth it, I don't think that you

01:13:52

have to

01:13:54

rethink whether it's worth investing

01:13:57

in something like this, you know, you live only by

01:13:59

lies

01:14:07

I

01:14:09

think you have to

01:14:11

think about whether it's worth insisting

01:14:13

on this thing that is constantly telling

01:14:15

you lies without getting married without anything already

01:14:18

in the relationship, that's how it is, imagine when you get married what it's

01:14:19

going to be like, right? So it's not good,

01:14:21

you know, I usually say When young people

01:14:24

talk to me, the following is that the

01:14:27

man He marries crazy for the woman not

01:14:31

to change and she changes and the woman is crazy for the

01:14:34

guy to change and he doesn't change he just gets worse

01:14:38

So it's good to know that he's a liar

01:14:40

now he's going to be a liar later okay

01:14:42

There's no right, and it's very dangerous, it's very

01:14:46

dangerous, and the basis of a good

01:14:48

relationship is exactly what Pastor Luí

01:14:50

said here, trust is that you

01:14:52

trust each other, it's better to be

01:14:54

clear,

01:14:55

right, to be frank than, right, this thing about

01:15:00

why a lie today becomes a lie

01:15:02

tomorrow, okay? right, Luiz, there is an

01:15:04

expression of the word that is used a lot

01:15:07

and we are already heading towards the

01:15:09

end of this edition, which is the first

01:15:11

edition, right? Next week we

01:15:13

will continue with this theme here for you

01:15:15

who are watching us, but there is a

01:15:17

biblical expression which is unequal judgment,

01:15:20

the word says that we should not

01:15:23

unite in unequal judgment, right, I

01:15:26

wanted you to explain that, right?

01:15:28

From a metaphorical point of view, that

01:15:30

is, what is

01:15:33

unequal judgment? Why does the Bible use this

01:15:35

expression? this metaphor is and what is this

01:15:38

applied to marriage in the construction of the

01:15:41

Home, what is the application of the word

01:15:45

that we use in our lives, I think this

01:15:47

term is unequal. So there is a

01:15:49

word there in Corinthians, right?

01:15:54

the following thing that 2 6 to 14 says

01:15:59

that I judge unequal, right, don't hold yourself to

01:16:01

unequal judgment, it's like unbelievers, right?

01:16:05

And this text is some of the most

01:16:08

important texts in the Bible for young people

01:16:09

to understand.

01:16:13

the question of mixing the

01:16:16

animals in that question, I think,

01:16:19

was what the animal was, he used a

01:16:22

different animal from the other to pull

01:16:24

the same load, I think, I

01:16:26

normally did this

01:16:28

whole question on the farm, so it's two people,

01:16:30

two different animals. it is a comparison

01:16:32

that the apostle Paul speaks in

01:16:33

Corinthians there so the word is very

01:16:36

important to remember that the word of God does

01:16:38

not support this type of decision you see

01:16:40

that Abraham sent for a wife

01:16:43

for his son from the same family of the

01:16:46

same descent from same faith as us in the

01:16:48

same faith so the word is not a bet on the

01:16:50

young man's decision Someone who dates

01:16:52

someone who worships another God, not

01:16:55

our God, right? This unequal julio that

01:16:59

is a burden that can become heavy

01:17:01

for you later on, you are going to be

01:17:03

dating. then you want to marry the person

01:17:05

with J not the same, it's not the same thought as

01:17:07

yours, you have another thought, eh, what

01:17:09

happens there,

01:17:12

dating an evangelical person, a servant of

01:17:16

God, doesn't have to be from Maranatha

01:17:18

exclusively, right?

01:17:20

I know, I

01:17:23

always tell my experience, I

01:17:24

got married 41 years ago, it wasn't Maranatha, and I

01:17:26

got married in Maranatha, right, my wife was

01:17:28

Maranatha, I wasn't, right, and I, sometimes there are a lot of

01:17:31

people who, even today, say the

01:17:32

same pastor who does, but how

01:17:34

can the brother, he's from the church, he's an

01:17:37

evangelical, he's even a servant of God, everything is there,

01:17:39

but he's not a Maranata, unfortunately, he

01:17:41

won't be able to marry a sister from Mar.

01:17:43

No, there's no problem with that, now the

01:17:46

young man has to decide whether he's in a relationship

01:17:49

with the young woman who is from another church or a

01:17:51

young man from another church has to decide what

01:17:53

they are going to do with their life

01:17:54

first you won't be able to attend

01:17:57

a different church from him oh we're going

01:17:59

to Maran you go to another church

01:18:01

that won't work this marriage

01:18:02

doesn't work out so you Ness, before you

01:18:04

go on, come here if we get married,

01:18:06

you're going to stay in my church

01:18:08

with me, you're going to stay there and get

01:18:11

out of this, huh So look at this, this doesn't

01:18:14

work, this kind of thing doesn't work It

01:18:16

works, so you have to think about the following, the

01:18:17

ideal is that a young man from the Maranata Church

01:18:20

should be a young man from Maranata, but that won't

01:18:21

always be possible. And if it were

01:18:23

possible, it would be good, it would be good.

01:18:29

you follow the same faith no he is a

01:18:31

servant of God she is a servant of God

01:18:33

we are we are following a

01:18:34

purpose here he has some

01:18:37

things that he is coming I am

01:18:40

bringing to my church I I don't

01:18:42

know if you are going going there or going here, I do

01:18:43

n't know, but one thing is,

01:18:45

be careful because the following thing, I

01:18:48

have observed some cases of some

01:18:51

Some young people, eh, even Some brothers who

01:18:54

married people who, for example,

01:18:56

are not unequal interest because the person is a

01:18:57

believer is also a believer and is also from another

01:19:00

evangelical church is a believer too,

01:19:01

but there is a very strong conflict in marriage

01:19:03

because he follows an

01:19:06

evangelical tradition in one way and you follow it in

01:19:08

another way. So although they married, it

01:19:10

is not an unequal judgment but it is a

01:19:12

complicated marriage too, so it's better,

01:19:14

eh, if I judge it to be unequal, the Bible doesn't

01:19:17

allow it. In other words, you marry

01:19:19

someone, you're a believer, marry an unbeliever,

01:19:21

oh, pastor, but she's very pretty, she

01:19:24

's a person of character, she's a person of

01:19:26

this and that, full of compliments. Oh, but the

01:19:28

problem will be the conflict of faith, it will

01:19:30

be very big, so no, the

01:19:32

recommendation we have is biblical, is that

01:19:35

you don't marry a person of another

01:19:37

faith, you are now an evangelical person Good

01:19:42

Shepherd It's not judgment, it's not

01:19:43

unequal judgment because On the other hand, you have to see

01:19:45

what his thoughts are about

01:19:48

his faith, what if there won't be

01:19:49

a conflict, the two of you, in your faith

01:19:51

there will be a conflict because if that's the case, then

01:19:53

reach an

01:19:54

agreement, there's no impediment for you. marry

01:19:57

a person who is from another

01:19:59

evangelical church But you have to reach an

01:20:00

agreement so you don't have a problem

01:20:01

later in your marriage there may also be

01:20:03

problems, see why

01:20:05

first you got married a sister married a man

01:20:09

the man he goes I said I

01:20:11

'm the head of the couple here, he

01:20:13

won't accept you going there and

01:20:15

going here, no, you'll have to

01:20:16

accompany me, you'll have to accompany me or the

01:20:19

woman will want Maro to accompany you,

01:20:20

so it's a marriage that you

01:20:22

have to talk properly so as not to

01:20:24

worry about this kind of thing, because

01:20:26

if you don't talk beforehand, it won't work, it won't

01:20:28

work, sometimes it's even good for

01:20:30

God too, but it won't work, so why are

01:20:32

there people who are

01:20:34

radical from this point of view? So you see,

01:20:36

you have to see it properly because

01:20:39

for that to happen, it doesn't have to be a struggle in

01:20:41

your life, it has to be a blessing that Jesus

01:20:44

has to be a blessing in your house, it's not a

01:20:47

problem, it's a matter for discussion and a

01:20:49

fight in your home, right? Well, Luí,

01:20:52

we already have 1 H20, right, of the

01:20:56

program, it's 1 H20 of the program, we are

01:20:58

here, eh, and I wanted to ask

01:21:02

you to make a final approach

01:21:05

to this edition, eh, and

01:21:08

leave you, you don't need to leave a

01:21:10

message, but a verse that tells you It turns out that it

01:21:13

could even be one of what you already said

01:21:14

here today, right, a verse and make a

01:21:18

final application, a final consideration

01:21:20

for our young people Ah, I, what do

01:21:22

I have to say to young people that

01:21:23

dating, dating is a Blessing, isn't it? Damn,

01:21:27

dating is nothing, now young people have to

01:21:29

evaluate many aspects to date, right? You

01:21:31

have to see if it is in accordance with

01:21:35

God's will. Dating is

01:21:39

something that, although it is not written in the

01:21:40

Bible, but the Bible has no prohibition

01:21:43

against dating now, I have to remember

01:21:47

that the fight is between the flesh and the spirit,

01:21:49

so the fight the young man will face,

01:21:52

dating has to be one thing, it can be, it

01:21:54

has to be good for his life because

01:21:55

dating, the love of the young man who is dating has not

01:21:58

been good for his spiritual life, no,

01:22:00

he enters and deepens a relationship

01:22:02

that harms his life, dating is not

01:22:04

to harm you, you are going to meet

01:22:05

someone now you have to understand the

01:22:08

following And dating is that it can be

01:22:12

a blessing in your life for your family and

01:22:14

for yourself, don't be an Aventura. Dating

01:22:18

at work is not dating for Adventure. It's not

01:22:20

dating for fun. It's dating for

01:22:22

commitment. The work, speaking like this, dating

01:22:24

for us is a commitment, if you can't

01:22:27

make a commitment, which we've already

01:22:29

talked about for the last three years. parameters that are

01:22:32

spiritual, professional and sentimental,

01:22:35

you cannot follow this commitment

01:22:36

of this order, it's better if I don't

01:22:38

follow it, don't you see, follow it, no, this

01:22:39

has no future because I remember,

01:22:42

to conclude here, my word, Josias,

01:22:44

is from a young woman who dated a guy for

01:22:47

10

01:22:49

years maybe there was a young man dating

01:22:51

this whole time so I don't know 10 10 years then

01:22:53

after 10 years He looked at her and

01:22:56

said

01:22:57

oh it's not going to be possible to continue the relationship

01:22:59

no she said what happened no already

01:23:02

you I'm already too old, I'm

01:23:05

dating a younger woman there, I'm going to

01:23:07

date someone else, so sometimes the

01:23:10

woman or normally the women

01:23:13

are very positioned, it's good, the

01:23:15

firm woman is very good, you can't let

01:23:17

something go on for so long without a decision

01:23:19

like that, no. Ah, I like it all my life Ah, I

01:23:21

'll wait, I have the condition, I don't know

01:23:23

what the condition never arrives. So

01:23:25

that's the problem then, Eh, and everything

01:23:27

has, I repeat, everything has a limit. Love must

01:23:31

also have a limit, right, very well, and a

01:23:34

text that Could you leave a verse

01:23:37

of the word I don't think I think the

01:23:39

best verse for young people to remember is a

01:23:42

verse that many young people have faced

01:23:44

is the verse jul unequal according to

01:23:46

Corinthians there is no better verse than

01:23:47

that because you have to think about

01:23:48

your life so as not to enter into an

01:23:49

unequal judgment, don't enter into an unequal judgment, right, do

01:23:52

n't enter into that, not because it will

01:23:53

harm you, don't do that, not

01:23:55

because it is unbiblical for you to enter into one of

01:23:57

those and you will enter into something that the

01:23:59

word does not recommend that we don't

01:24:02

recommend going in, wait, be

01:24:05

patient, wait for the time when God

01:24:07

will, will, will put the person

01:24:10

you want in your life, you're praying

01:24:12

for this, but be patient, but

01:24:15

always look with the eyes of faith, never stop

01:24:17

trusting and looking because sometimes it is,

01:24:19

I always say it, I've said it several times

01:24:21

here today, here the opportunity stops in

01:24:23

front of the young man, the young man lets it pass

01:24:25

because he thinks he doesn't look at

01:24:26

his wishes, he wants to see his wishes,

01:24:28

right, that's the problem. It's very good,

01:24:32

we're going to close this edition, it's a shame,

01:24:35

right, but

01:24:37

next week we're back

01:24:40

with another edition of the program, the days

01:24:42

of my Youth, Andreia, the peace of the

01:24:45

Lord, The peace of the Lord, Pastor Josias

01:24:47

Pastor Luiz Eugênio, our dear

01:24:50

young people who were able to participate a lot

01:24:51

asked a lot of questions, thank you very much

01:24:54

for everyone's presence and

01:24:57

I would also like to say a special thank you

01:24:59

to the young people who

01:25:01

produced this script, which is Karina

01:25:04

Marits Raísa, Thalison and João,

01:25:07

thank you very much Glory to God el Cobra up

01:25:09

there, boy, if it doesn't go the way they

01:25:10

want, well, the young people present

01:25:13

here, it was a pleasure to have you with us here, I'm

01:25:15

now invited to be together in

01:25:17

other opportunities, Amen, peace from you,

01:25:20

Luiz, peace from you, my friend Come on, boy,

01:25:22

let's go, let's go, let's go together,

01:25:24

well, we're coming to the end

01:25:26

of another edition of the program, the days

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