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Позиционирование личного бренда

Позиционирование личного бренда

Channel: Марина Павлова

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I am a psychologist, image maker, Master

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of Psychology at MGIMO, and I provide

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psychological support in

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building an image and personal brand.

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Today I would like to discuss with you a

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topic that may not be very obvious

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in the context of my professional

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activity, this is the topic of personal boundaries in

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business,

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image, and in personal building. personal

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brand where did this topic even come from The

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fact is that I noticed a certain

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tendency when working with clients That

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they do not return

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fantasies regarding the

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presentation of themselves regarding their

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self-presentation regarding their self-presentation as some kind of fears of anxiety and image formation and that’s

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all that is connected with this This is some

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fear associated with the loss of personal boundaries,

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as it sounds. For example, if I

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somehow present myself, present my

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product, present my product, some kind of

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intellectual Yes,

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the result of intellectual activity,

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then I will then

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have to somehow compensate for

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this. That is, as if self-presentation.

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This is something to be ashamed of that I experience

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very different feelings, for example, there is something else to blame,

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that is, this is something

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wrong, that is, I do something that is

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not very accepted or something that I am

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ashamed to do, respectively, in order to

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cope with this feeling I

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strive somehow

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compensate for this and offer the client

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better conditions or somehow

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means

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I can’t

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clearly formulate my financial

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position or some conditions under which

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I work, I can’t defend my

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boundaries if we’re talking but in the language of

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psychology

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or but what else could it be,

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again, fantasy or some fear

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that if I

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present myself especially in the Internet

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space, then my personal

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boundaries will not be erased at all. They are no longer

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clear, but where am I, where am I as a

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professional, where am I as I’m just

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a person, that is, I no longer seem to feel

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these personal boundaries

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when, for example, I’m a doctor, I’m sitting in an office,

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it’s all very clear. There are the walls of

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the office, a client came to me and after

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15 minutes he left. All this is very clear.

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What if I go out, as it were Into this

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boundless space, it’s as if

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all these

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norms have been erased Yes, all these rules that were in

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the office conditionally

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I would like to

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talk about this today, perhaps today I will give

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some recommendations yes Or I will help you

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look at this topic a few sons of

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the point perspective, if you again have

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similar beliefs If you have

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similar fears, first of all, I would like to

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draw attention to the fact that when

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you are an Expert, when my experts

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who come to me for consultation

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interpret the act of self-presentation

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as something shameful, something bad, we

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understand that this is a limiting

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installation, in general, not particularly

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connected with reality, but

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nevertheless at this moment he puts himself

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in a kind of minus position or more not such a

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lower position in relation to his

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client, because he also did not declare himself, he

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also did not declare himself said and I did

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something shameful Of course, we

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strive to interact

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with our clients from the position of plus And I

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plus I’m okay and you plus I’m

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okay with you with you

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means with the world

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Therefore,

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first of all, we we are talking about the fact that

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everyone has personal boundaries, if we proceed

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from the concept of partnership relationships

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that

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are implied after your presentation,

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what we strive for,

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we understand that there are personal boundaries,

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just like I have, so does my partner. My

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client

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will give you examples from my personal practice.

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I work in such a concept you are a concept

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concept And you are a concept That is, I

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address my clients as you and I also

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ask you to contact me as you for me

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it’s just about personal boundaries and about

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respect for personal boundaries and It happens

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that my clients

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strive like this I would like to test these

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personal boundaries or push them in some way,

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and I respect both my

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personal boundaries as well as the personal boundaries of

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my clients and, of course, understanding the

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client’s desire to somehow probe

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the space, I voice what

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I would like. That is,

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I would still like save

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Yes, this is your concept, it can evoke a

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variety of feelings in my clients. In

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general, I allow them to do this. I am ready for

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these feelings of theirs. I am ready for these

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manifestations. We certainly discuss them in our

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work. We encounter them, we somehow

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explore them. Yes, these feelings that

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my client

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naturally encounters in his work and what we

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see as a result or in the process

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of work, my clients

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return ingratitude to the fact

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that I respected their

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personal boundaries, they are finally starting to

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see the value in it not a threat They are that

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important something valuable that is in our

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relationship The next thing I would

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like to voice here is Awareness of

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boundaries

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boundaries should be conscious Do

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you know your boundaries Do you know

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your limitations Do

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you know with whom you would like to

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work and with whom, for example, not would like to

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or with whom you cannot work for

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some personal reasons,

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professional or so on, do

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you know your clients at all, do

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you know the conditions of your work, do you know

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how you would like to work, how

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comfortable it is for you to work, do you know

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when you will definitely not to work,

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that is, that it is important, here it is important to

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explore your boundaries, there is a very

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good exercise that we

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do with clients

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in individual work, this is a multifaceted

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interest. This was originally a tool

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that was proposed by Igor Ryzov, the author of the books.

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Yes, and a personal trainer, a

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group negotiation trainer, I will

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immediately say that this I

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adapted the tool for myself for my clients

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by asking questions about the tasks we

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work with, but nevertheless, I indicated

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the author. You can also read it in detail and

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see

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what the essence of this tool is to

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understand, firstly, what interests I

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solve with interaction with his

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client and What interests

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the client satisfies when interacting

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with me

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very often we focus literally

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on one or two interests Yes, this is

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money and money and something else there, everything that

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they except money is very difficult, tangible,

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very difficult, so we feel for such a word

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unusual Well ok, the next thing I

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would like to say is that

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boundaries should be flexible.

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Why. Because on the topic of personal boundaries,

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there are very often two such extremes.

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The first is blurred boundaries, it’s generally

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unclear what they are, how this

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manifests itself, some kind of uncontrolled

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discounts,

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conditions change, the format of work changes.

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yes, that is, it’s always some kind of

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very flexible something, well, it’s as flexible as

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possible, very blurry, and the

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second thing is some kind of reinforced concrete,

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you know, four meters high, if you don’t drink,

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some kind of borders Well, these are the ones

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you can hurt yourself in a pancake That is this is

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some kind of inviolable Expert

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specialist with whom you feel like it’s

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impossible to come to an agreement at all. Therefore, it’s

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the combination that’s important. What

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personal boundaries are, this is a

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balance between meeting the

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needs of society and meeting one’s

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own needs, and it’s important

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to find this balance, that is, it’s important to know these boundaries and

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be ready to adapt Be prepared

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to be flexible And the last thing I

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want to say for today is

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safety,

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you heard right, boundaries really

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give a feeling of security, just remember

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yourself as a child or how you are raising

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your children now. For a child, it is

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extremely important to know these boundaries, where

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they are, to see them for a child. means

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care, a feeling of a basic feeling of

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safety, boundaries give a feeling of

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safety, like you and your client,

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remember yourself, for example, at

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sporting events, you are

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invited to some kind of advertising,

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for example, sporting events, and you

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come and you clearly know the rules of

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behavior, you clearly know what

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will happen now and there plus or minus, that is, you

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will come, it means you will be scanned there, they will

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look at your personal belongings, did you bring

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any cutting and piercing

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objects with you, you will pass through, it means there is no

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sector there, what kind of place Yes, that means you will sit there, there

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will be some kind of security, and so on That

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is, there will be certain clear rules

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where everyone knows where they can, where they

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can’t, and there What, what in general needs to be done here

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That is, if there is some kind of inspection

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before there are some borders, you will be

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safe in this space,

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again, when there is complete chaos when there

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are no borders at all Of course we we feel

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unsafe Well, I hope that

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the topic will develop in the comments,

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please write your feedback on how you are

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doing with personal boundaries. Are

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you interested in this topic? Is it worth

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continuing? Perhaps you will ask some

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questions. I will be happy to make a video for you

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with the answers. Marina Pavlova was with you

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Until we meet again Bye everyone Well, I

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confess to you frankly. I’m filming this

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video for the second time, so I shot a great

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video from the first take, and what do you think,

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suddenly my microphone didn’t work, so I’m

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filming for you now for the second video

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already if the light sits behind you and is not turned on,

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it will not be as perfect as it was

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the first time. And here you go behind the scenes

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video blogging and presenting yourself as an

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expert as a video expectation

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reality It happens and I hope this does not

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spoil the viewing experience for you

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