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dear

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friends unfamiliar to me or maybe

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familiar

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in part I am very glad that I have the

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opportunity to address you today and the

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topic on which I was asked to speak

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or about which I was asked to

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give some- then specific advice is the

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key to

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Independence This is really a very

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important topic What does it mean and how

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can we become independent

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truly every person strives for

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freedom every person has this

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inner desire for

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Freedom at the same time we can

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see that most of the people are

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captives

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slaves, captives of some of their

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habits, captives of the system in which

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they find themselves,

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and hostages of opinions about themselves from

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other people, and so on, this list

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of what you and I depend on and we can

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continue And in fact,

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in the material world of

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truly free people no Although

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everyone strives for freedom Everyone talks about

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freedom everyone glorifies freedom Everyone

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goes to demonstrations in order to

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gain freedom

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But if we look closely and

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first of all listen to our

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own hearts, we will understand that we are

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connected by a very large number of connections

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This is a contradiction between a desire that is

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actually determined by our

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nature, this desire did not

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arise by chance in us, just as all people

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want to be immortal, although everyone

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understands

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that Immortality is

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impossible here. All people strive for

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pleasure. Despite the fact that we are

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constantly faced with the need

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to suffer in this world, all people strive for

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knowledge Despite the fact that we are

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periodically forced to admit that we are

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immersed in

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ignorance, these eternal aspirations

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actually reflect the nature of the soul or the

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nature of consciousness, consciousness by its

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nature is

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free in itself, the gift of

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consciousness makes us free if we

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look at animate objects we

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will understand that inanimate objects, by

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definition, are deprived of Freedom, they cannot

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manage their lives They wait

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until Well, that is, they don’t even

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wait, they are intended for

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someone to

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use them, but we are living beings

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endowed with consciousness, we strive for freedom

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And what can we say about a person, even a small

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cockroach wants Freedom, even a small

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cockroach will rush around if it is

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placed in some kind of box and will

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try to escape from this box. Not to mention

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other more highly

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organized living beings. Not to mention a

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person. In other words, the desire for

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freedom is a deep need of the soul,

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it is a deep one. the need for consciousness and one way

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or another we must in this life find a

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way to become

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free, the

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same Golden

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Key of Independence that we

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will talk about today, but in

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order to understand how a

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person can really become

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free so as not to just be limited by

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some slogans, give

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freedom How often do people do this, they

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go out into the streets and riot, they say give

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us freedom and in the end they

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end up

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in another prison

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cell without actually understanding what

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freedom is. And we will not be able to find this key to

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freedom and we will not be able to Open that very

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cherished a

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door that can be opened with this key

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to really go out into these very

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spiritual spaces to feel

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this freedom, how all people want to fly,

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this dream of flying

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means a special case of Freedom

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Freedom of movement Freedom of movement

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when no external obstacles are

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scary to me Well and so on That is, in

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other words First we must understand

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what

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freedom is, as one witty person

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said very well, before beating your

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head against the wall, and very often, in order to

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achieve Freedom, people start

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doing some completely crazy

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things, literally banging their heads against the wall,

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so this witty person said

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that before hitting your head against the wall,

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think about what you will do in the next

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cell, that is, we can even hit

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this wall with your head, but as a result we

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will find that we have penetrated this wall and

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ended up in another cell, that is, we

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have replaced one method of unfreedom with another

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method of

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unfreedom That is, you and I

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have established one thing or shown us

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many examples: a person is born for

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freedom, a person seeks Freedom. Unfortunately,

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most people do not understand what

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real freedom is. How do

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most people find freedom if you

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ask

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any of you

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or any person at street

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this, unfortunately, is not our lot, only he

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can do whatever he

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wants, so of course we need to

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think about what other definition

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to give. The Dutch philosopher

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Spinoza gave a well-known definition

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that was transferred from Spinoza to Hegel from

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Hegel, it was taken by Marx and Engel who

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they said that Freedom is a necessity.

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Well, that is, I need to do something. I

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realized I do it consciously, it seems like

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freedom. Well, in principle, not such a bad

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definition. Although there remains some kind of

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unpleasant aftertaste; everything seems to be

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fine, but somewhere I here they are making it

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unclear just

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where, but first, before

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we move on to the real definition of

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Freedom, let's think about

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what is the opposite of freedom and

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why, after all, we are not

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free in human society,

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especially

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and some extraneous

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sounds like this Let's First with you

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let's think about what unfreedom is

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and different forms of unfreedom, let's try to

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understand people, it seems that Freedom, as I

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already said,

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is the ability to fulfill any of our

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desires. Well, let's see

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if our desires are really so

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free.

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some of the desires are imposed on us,

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for example, advertising - This is the

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best way to impose a desire on a person,

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he will be completely sure that he

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wants it himself, he has already completely forgotten that he

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once saw this billboard

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or commercial with beautiful music with

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seductive pictures with pictures of

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happiness but he has this

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feeling inside him that in this way I will be

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happy like this,

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as a rule, this is what people call

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freedom. This is just here in

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this world, this is just

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another form of dependence imposed on them.

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Because people confuse

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freedom with the ability to fulfill their

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desires. and desires have already strengthened

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a person; for this, you can look at

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Wikipedia with one click of a button on the

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Internet and see what

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addiction is,

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and

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addiction, in accordance with the

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Wikipedia definition, is an obsessive

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need to do something, even

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though we understand that the consequences of

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this can be

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accepted by the

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person getting addicted, he begins

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to do something that

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really harms him and, getting

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addicted, a person spends more and more

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time in contact with what

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he became dependent on.

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And in his free time, he begins to think,

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all his thoughts return to this, that’s

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all signs of

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addiction and if he is

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deprived of the object on which he has become

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dependent, he begins

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to be indignant. He feels unhappiness. He

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feels grief. If we look at this

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definition of addiction, we will understand that we are

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all, to one degree or another, dependent on something,

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someone is dependent on the Internet. So

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this bangs

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Interno e life If he is deprived of

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the opportunity

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to surf, he cannot

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spend a single hour without

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thinking about the Internet, someone becomes

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dependent on a mobile phone and

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he constantly sits with his head buried in this

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phone and scrolls through something there, someone

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becomes dependent from social

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networks and he has this obsessive

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desire

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to see how many likes they gave him,

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someone becomes dependent simply on

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someone else’s opinion,

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and social networks in particular are a

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special case of such dependence when

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we constantly need the approval of

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other people when we find Happiness

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is in receiving approval from others;

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someone becomes dependent on an

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unhealthy dependence on

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relationships, and here you need to very clearly

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distinguish between true love, which makes a

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person free from dependence on

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relationships, when a person becomes a slave to

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these relationships and even though

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these relationships are unfavorable for him,

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they cause him suffering, he cannot

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escape from the captivity of this relationship,

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psychologists know a huge number

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of cases already about such gross and obvious

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forms of addiction as

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gambling addiction, addiction to pornography

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or sex, when a person views

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this pornographic content and cannot

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escape or

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stop

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or addiction to drugs

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addiction to wine addiction to

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cigarettes that is, we live in the

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world VM often consists of various

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kinds of addictions

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and again Before I start talking about the

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key to freedom, the real key to

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freedom is not just some kind, but

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invented because of what happened in

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our world, initially if we look at

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history, people somehow parabolize each

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other, this is the same game that people

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constantly play

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in ancient Rome in ancient Greece there were

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slaves and there are many other forms

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of enslavement one way or another

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and for the time being this is a dependence in

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which people placed each

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other trying in one way or another

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to manipulate each other

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to exploit each other was

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obvious in our

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time people are so

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cruel and their ingenuity has reached

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such limits that they forgive other

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people they don’t even understand that they are

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in slavery they think It’s my own

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choice as an example The iPhone or other

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smartphones are, in general, a

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completely

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cold-bloodedly thought-out

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toy or system that should

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enslave a person social networks

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starting with Facebook. This is a completely

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thought-out system that should

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subjugate a person and force him to

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spend as much time as possible

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inside and live there in it. in the virtual

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world, but people are completely

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confident that they are free, that they are

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in control of all this, although those who

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study the nature of addiction, they

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understand that digital addiction is

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no better and, in fact, even

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more dangerous than many other types of

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addiction with all the same

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signs news spread around the world about

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one Chinese who

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died of hunger while playing computer games, he

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forgot about all the other things. And if in

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other cases of addiction, drug

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addiction is, Well, a fairly

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common thing when people simply

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die from their addiction, Forgetting about

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some basic needs, then Well at

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least the first signs of

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this kind

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appear, there are many signs. If the

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first thing you do when you wake up is

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look at your phone, and think about

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whether I’m on a

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hook, am I on this hook?

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I’m using this to become

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free. to help others and

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to feel good

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Or I use it Because I

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can’t help but use it because I

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depend on it all on

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some kind of virtual communication or the

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approval of people that I receive and so

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on, just a few words like

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this how we don’t have much time with you,

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we first said that everyone

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strives for freedom and then we started to

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show how deprived of Freedom we really are,

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I’m sure that many of

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you probably felt some kind of internal

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constraint, but if we

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analyze our situation very honestly, we

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let us understand that the degree of our lack of freedom is

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much greater than we thought or what

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we would like to think, we are in fact

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very dependent on some unnecessary

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things, the consequences of which are

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unfavorable

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drugs,

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porn addiction,

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gambling and many other things, they

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ultimately destroy a person internally, they

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leave a person alone

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shell, I’m sure you’ve probably

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met people

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on

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drugs. And the further a person

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goes into this swamp, getting bogged down in this

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swamp, the less

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human traits he has left. People who have fallen

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into this addiction, one of the characteristics of a

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person who has fallen into this addiction is

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that he becomes cruel in order

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to be able to

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satisfy the artificial need that he

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created for himself, a person is ready to sweep away

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any obstacles and he can kill someone

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who bothers him, there are many cases And

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parents do not allow a teenager to play

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computer games with you and the teenager is out of

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anger from and out of anger who overwhelmed

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him completely kills his parents

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unfortunately this is not a fairy tale this is the

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reality

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in which we live today

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this is the nature of addiction this first

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quality addiction makes a person

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cruel the second quality addiction is

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impossible to saturate a person tries to

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satisfy his addiction but

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becomes even more and more

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dependent the more he is trying to

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satisfy it, especially since he is

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able to saturate this addiction.

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Another characteristic feature of

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addiction, which

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also cannot be underestimated, is that

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any addiction turns off the so-

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called frontal cortex. That is, those

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sections of the human brain that

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make a person

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human, those sections or areas of the

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human brain that allow

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him to control themselves allow him

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to experience the highest emotions, the sublime

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allow him to solve some

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incredible tasks to achieve some

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very lofty goals, that is, in the

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end they turn off a person’s mind the

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more I fall into this

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lowland dependence on some

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lowly things and the less degree I

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become or remain a person and my

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human component or the

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human part of my mind begins

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to collapse the person degrades and this

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applies to everything For any addictions

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depending on computer games,

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addiction to the Internet

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ultimately turns a person into a stupefaction or

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into an addiction to

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shopping from the fact that from shopping I go

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to the store and buy that

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they are all little better, if at all,

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better than addiction to

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drugs or

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wine which

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dehumanize us more cruelly

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making this thirst for pleasure more and

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more insatiable

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that we

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have hopes for

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freedom So all addictions, they all

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work according to the same principle, literally

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two

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words, they are all based on neurotransmitters

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called Dopamine, this Dopamine

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enters the nucleus accumbens, a

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certain part of our brain, and in

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this underlying nucleus a wave of

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joyful excitement arises, or rather,

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certain electrical impulses

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are interpreted by our soul which

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reads these impulses as a certain

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source of joy joyful excitement

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We all know we feel this surge of

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joy or happiness when we

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buy something new or when we see that

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our post has collected a record number of

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likes or when we receive some

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unexpected prize in the lottery or when we

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move to a new level in a computer

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game or when we get a new

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toy, some new gadget and so

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on, or when we just start

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thinking and dreaming about it and in fact

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this is a very characteristic thing Dopamine is

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not a hormone or a neurotransmitter of happiness -

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this is a neurotransmitter that promises us

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happiness

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when we somehow found the same

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button that can be pressed and which

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allows this Dopamine to flow, we

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think I will be happy oh If I

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have a lot of likes I will be happy Oh

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if I win something in the lottery I will be

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happy this is some kind of deception this is the same

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carrot Dopamine is the carrot

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that is held in front of the

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donkey’s face and forced and this carrot

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makes the donkey go and work harder and

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harder, he never receives the carrot itself

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but he lives in this hope

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that someday... Someday he will get it, that

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is, in all these things that I have

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listed, there is no happiness, but there is

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excitement, and which then, giving way to

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inhibition, causes

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completely disgusting feelings,

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and in general, a person feels that he

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has been deceived, but he cannot understand

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how he was deceived, and the addiction is already

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he had this need

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again Get a new portion of dopamine

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That’s what addiction is actually,

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addiction is a hacking of a very important

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system that we have in the

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brain, this is a learning system This

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learning system All animals have it,

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starting with sea

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slugs in general You and I have our

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own brains, in a sense, if

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we only use this

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reward system, we are not much

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different from sea slugs. If you

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think that you

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have reached some heights of Happiness and

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good luck here by hacking this

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reward system and getting some... then there is a

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heavenly experience from using a drug

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or something else. Well, remember at this

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moment that sea slugs also

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feel the same happiness when they

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find some kind of food and thus

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learn to find it faster, that is, in

00:25:36

other words, this in itself the reward system is

00:25:40

good, with its help we can learn

00:25:43

new things, with its help we can

00:25:45

really discover some new

00:25:47

things, do a lot of good things, but

00:25:51

when we start to abuse it, that

00:25:53

is, hack it and take advantage of the

00:25:56

artificial happiness that it gives

00:25:59

or the sensations that

00:26:01

come from it and we become dependent on

00:26:04

this, this is where the problems begin. So, in

00:26:08

fact,

00:26:10

there are four standard ways to hack

00:26:14

this

00:26:16

system,

00:26:18

four standard

00:26:21

methods that humanity discovered a

00:26:23

long time ago. How to get the

00:26:27

happiness that is read to us. How to increase the

00:26:31

very level of so-

00:26:34

called happiness in your life; make the life of an

00:26:38

IS insipid and boring in a very bright and

00:26:42

sublime first - this is illegal

00:26:46

sex or

00:26:49

looked at reading some kind of

00:26:52

novels, and so on, when

00:26:55

we are attracted by the ultimate novelty of

00:26:59

all this or some, in essence, all

00:27:02

love novels, all all these plots, they are

00:27:05

all absolutely the same. But of a person, the

00:27:08

scenery changes a little and the

00:27:10

person thinks, here it is, here it is, here it is, new new New New

00:27:12

New and he

00:27:15

cannot stop until he is completely

00:27:19

exhausted, this is one way.

00:27:23

And outwardly, it seems to be innocent, the second

00:27:26

method is

00:27:28

the most terrible way - this is with the help of

00:27:32

cruelty people who commit

00:27:34

some kind of cruelty also receive

00:27:37

rewards people who commit

00:27:39

murder, this is how maniacs actually arise, a

00:27:42

maniac is not just crazy,

00:27:46

he is a person who

00:27:48

has a need for these, so to speak,

00:27:52

new portions of dopamine that he

00:27:54

receives, commits cruelty when a

00:27:57

person eats meat, especially meat with blood,

00:28:00

otherwise

00:28:03

this is animal

00:28:07

cruelty, in the same way,

00:28:13

beating him into some kind of addiction is a

00:28:18

way, let’s say, to hack this system

00:28:22

through some unexpected

00:28:24

rewards, and this method

00:28:26

is used by all

00:28:29

gambling or computer games when we

00:28:33

unexpectedly receive not always not

00:28:36

every time not

00:28:37

And with the help of the standard algorithm

00:28:40

we get a reward, but sometimes

00:28:43

we get it, sometimes we don’t get it and,

00:28:45

accordingly, And as a result of this

00:28:47

unexpected reward, a large dose of

00:28:50

dopamine, it’s

00:28:56

stupid to use drugs

00:28:59

that will somehow change the

00:29:01

chemical structure of the brain and create

00:29:04

this very illusion of happiness or the

00:29:09

illusion of hope for happiness the fact that here it is, here it is,

00:29:11

here it is, and all these

00:29:15

ways when a person really

00:29:18

feels this surge of energy,

00:29:21

excitement, and so on. This is just

00:29:26

an illusion of the fact that I have finally become an

00:29:29

omnipotent

00:29:30

god, everything is available

00:29:33

to me, and the same thing happens

00:29:37

when someone praises me and

00:29:42

someone flatters me, in general,

00:29:47

completely consciously, but trying

00:29:50

to make me dependent on themselves or

00:29:52

force me to do something else, all these are

00:29:56

different forms of illusions or baits that the

00:30:04

illusory energy of

00:30:07

God catches us with like a hook. this is some

00:30:10

kind of introduction with an

00:30:14

explanation,

00:30:19

neurophysiological, this is happening everywhere,

00:30:22

this hacking of the

00:30:24

reward system and we get very

00:30:27

large doses of dopamine, we get used to them,

00:30:31

we can no longer live without them, and so

00:30:35

we want to repeat this again and again and

00:30:37

again, and gradually

00:30:39

it happens addiction And the so-called

00:30:44

tolerance I need large and

00:30:46

large doses of the same thing And the usual

00:30:50

rewards no longer excite me,

00:30:52

therefore, people who have learned

00:30:55

to hack this reward system

00:30:58

using simple methods which are now

00:31:00

a dime a dozen and every day

00:31:04

new new new ones appear

00:31:06

and they are no longer can be content with

00:31:10

simple joys, the joys of simple

00:31:12

relationships,

00:31:14

but very close ones, and the joys of a walk in

00:31:18

nature, the joys of a good Tasty

00:31:21

dinner, they need something

00:31:26

much more

00:31:28

exciting and in search of these

00:31:30

exciting things And as I tried to

00:31:33

say, people lose themselves, people

00:31:38

begin to degrade their brain begins to

00:31:40

physically degrade; holes appear in the

00:31:43

cerebral cortex and, above

00:31:46

all, the prefrontal cortex of the frontal part of the

00:31:50

cortex,

00:31:51

which give us the opportunity to control

00:31:54

ourselves, call ourselves names, they

00:31:57

fall as the first victims of all these

00:32:02

entertainments. That is, in this first

00:32:06

part, the most thorough after the introduction,

00:32:10

I tried to say in what is the problem with all

00:32:12

these dependencies Why do we need to

00:32:16

try to avoid

00:32:18

them if we want to be free if we

00:32:21

want to realize the deepest need of

00:32:26

our consciousness And if we

00:32:29

ultimately want to become happy because the

00:32:35

bait or promise of happiness does

00:32:38

not make a person happy, on the contrary, it makes

00:32:41

him absolutely completely unsatisfied,

00:32:44

but the need for happiness We have a

00:32:47

need for happiness, naturally, a

00:32:50

need for Freedom, naturally, as well

00:32:52

as a need for knowledge, as well as a

00:32:54

need for bliss, as well as a

00:32:57

need to

00:32:59

live a long, eternal life,

00:33:05

because this is the nature of the

00:33:07

soul. This is

00:33:10

actually the answer to this question.

00:33:12

in the bug gita the whole bug gita is

00:33:14

about

00:33:16

this the whole bug gita is about how to

00:33:20

ultimately become

00:33:22

happy then this specific question

00:33:25

ri chapters what is this force that

00:33:29

makes me act even if I

00:33:32

understand that I don’t need to act like that

00:33:35

even if I understand that the consequences of

00:33:37

this will be unfavorable, what kind of

00:33:39

force is this and Krishna says this force is the force

00:33:43

of desire which is based on the samskaras

00:33:46

left behind by

00:33:48

us on the traces of past pleasures

00:33:52

that did not make us happy but

00:33:55

forgive us

00:33:57

and the analysis that Krishna conducts. Then

00:34:01

he clearly gives us that

00:34:04

very coveted key in my hands is the key to

00:34:10

Independence for this I must first of

00:34:13

all realize my dependence on God

00:34:17

and my

00:34:19

independence soul is tiny by nature you and I

00:34:22

cannot be completely

00:34:25

independent and but we can choose in

00:34:30

this our Freedom we can choose on

00:34:33

whom or what we

00:34:35

depend on we can voluntarily make

00:34:37

ourselves dependent on wise people

00:34:41

by listening to their

00:34:44

recommendations, serving them in this service,

00:34:48

acquiring their qualities and these Qualities

00:34:51

that will pass to us in

00:34:53

the process of communicating with them will make us

00:34:56

more free

00:34:57

Although we began by voluntarily

00:35:00

making ourselves dependent from them And we

00:35:02

can, on the contrary, make ourselves

00:35:04

dependent on low people on people whose

00:35:07

opinion is far from some standard and

00:35:10

coupon or on some even more

00:35:13

humiliating things and make ourselves

00:35:16

dependent on drugs make ourselves

00:35:19

dependent on the Internet from black

00:35:23

black a rectangle that

00:35:25

becomes our life like today

00:35:28

I was in class and the Teacher said that there are

00:35:31

two two types of prana two types of vital

00:35:34

energy one inside the other outside and

00:35:36

showed the phone people cannot live without

00:35:39

this phone this is their prana this is their

00:35:42

key so we

00:35:45

can put ourselves in dependence on

00:35:48

these things

00:35:49

or depending on

00:35:52

some high principles and

00:35:55

ideals, our Freedom lies in

00:35:59

consciously, on the basis of the reason

00:36:02

that is given to us, to place ourselves in

00:36:04

dependence on something that will make me

00:36:08

ultimately

00:36:10

free; dependence on someone else’s mind on a

00:36:12

truly sublime mind from

00:36:16

some high principles and high

00:36:18

ideals makes a person better, cleaner and

00:36:22

stronger, dependence on low

00:36:25

things, things that lead to

00:36:28

decay and degradation of the human

00:36:31

personality Well, it’s clear And what does all this

00:36:35

lead to, a person becomes weaker and this is an

00:36:39

amazing thing Both are

00:36:41

dependence But one dependence makes a

00:36:43

person stronger and more independent

00:36:46

And although he has made himself voluntarily

00:36:49

dependent on this, another

00:36:51

and dependence is

00:36:57

incapable, in principle, of rationally

00:37:00

calculating some moves and understanding

00:37:03

where all this ultimately leads. That

00:37:08

is, the simple message of the bug gita that

00:37:13

ends with the last call of

00:37:18

Krishna says make me dependent

00:37:22

[music]

00:37:25

of

00:37:28

I will free

00:37:29

you I will free you I will make you

00:37:33

free From which free from all

00:37:36

other dependencies from the dependencies

00:37:40

in which you were in the same

00:37:44

slavery that you faced

00:37:48

again and again and again I will free you I will

00:37:51

make you

00:37:55

free Is the recipe for Freedom

00:37:59

to gradually

00:38:02

limit or minimize your

00:38:05

dependence on unnecessary things and, above

00:38:08

all,

00:38:10

from

00:38:13

people from the

00:38:15

opinions of people who themselves, in general, are

00:38:20

not good at anything

00:38:23

and

00:38:25

especially cannot teach us? The degradation of a

00:38:29

person begins with the fact that he

00:38:31

becomes dependent This is especially

00:38:34

typical for young people becomes

00:38:38

dependent on others because he sees

00:38:42

some kind of quality in them, but in the

00:38:44

end these are low people in no

00:38:48

case the first thing if I want Freedom The first

00:38:51

thing I have to understand is I I shouldn’t

00:38:53

communicate closely with people with bad people,

00:38:57

I don’t want to call them something out of the blue, but in

00:39:00

general, with people who are themselves addicted

00:39:03

and

00:39:04

who will only teach me about this

00:39:07

addiction, this is the first thing I have to

00:39:11

understand, in the end we learn everything through

00:39:15

communication whoever you hang out with and

00:39:18

get along with

00:39:20

and then ultimately I have to find the

00:39:24

person from whom I want to be

00:39:27

Why Because I want to become just

00:39:29

like him I want I see in front of me a

00:39:33

man who is free and

00:39:34

happy Even though all the

00:39:37

circumstances are against he was

00:39:39

happy he was happy in spite of all the

00:39:42

circumstances he was happy in spite of all the

00:39:45

circumstances in defiance of all the

00:39:47

circumstances and he does not act

00:39:50

as an ordinary person would act he

00:39:54

acts boldly decisively in

00:39:57

accordance with the highest ideals if I

00:39:59

found such a person saw such a

00:40:02

person I have The mind and it is

00:40:06

not completely eaten up by drugs or

00:40:10

computer

00:40:11

games should run to such a

00:40:13

person and say I want to learn from you

00:40:17

I want to become as free and

00:40:20

happy in my time

00:40:23

this is probably one of the most dramatic

00:40:27

chapters in the history of modern psychology

00:40:30

Victor Frank suddenly discovered in himself

00:40:33

source of Freedom being in a

00:40:34

concentration camp And not

00:40:37

just in a concentration camp

00:40:39

deprived of food, but naked, completely undressed,

00:40:43

thrown into a punishment cell, and in these

00:40:46

circumstances he suddenly realized that even

00:40:49

here I could be happy and then

00:40:52

overcame the incredible

00:40:55

obstacles of the camp alive

00:40:58

Despite

00:40:59

Despite

00:41:01

all that what was there, he taught other

00:41:05

people to also become

00:41:07

free, to find in themselves the Source of

00:41:10

happiness, guided by the highest ideal, and

00:41:13

ultimately this is the highest ideal - this is

00:41:15

God, the highest ideal is the original

00:41:19

spiritual personality who gave birth to

00:41:22

this whole world and who will give us the

00:41:25

opportunity to get stuck in slavery

00:41:28

in this swamp of addictions A

00:41:32

and console ourselves with the hope that in

00:41:35

this way we will one day become

00:41:37

happy a or a

00:41:41

which, with the same generosity, in fact,

00:41:44

with much greater generosity,

00:41:46

provides us with the opportunity to

00:41:48

get out of this swamp of

00:41:52

addiction and steel truly

00:41:54

free, strong,

00:41:57

happy and able to help

00:42:00

others Well, my time is definitely

00:42:04

completely

00:42:06

up now. I spoke

00:42:10

in front of you for more than 45 minutes and now I really want to hear from you, of

00:42:15

course I should

00:42:16

start by talking to you But

00:42:19

our time

00:42:20

limited Therefore it may

00:42:24

be Here the question is

00:42:27

who will ask me to read them or

00:42:29

how we will do this I will read

00:42:32

Questions Thank you very much the lecture is

00:42:35

interesting just for our guys There is an

00:42:38

assignment to do group work on the topic of

00:42:41

how to tell your close

00:42:43

classmates about why

00:42:45

nicotine is harmful and so on further And we were just

00:42:47

talking about the importance of

00:42:50

presenting information not in a mood of pity for people,

00:42:52

but precisely in a mood of compassion and

00:42:54

mercy, that’s how you

00:42:57

can please tell us how

00:42:58

pity for a person differs from

00:43:02

mercy. Thank you very much. Good

00:43:04

question. True, it may not be

00:43:06

related for this lecture,

00:43:08

but nevertheless, a very important question:

00:43:11

pity

00:43:13

is an unpleasant feeling that I

00:43:16

have when we see the suffering of

00:43:18

another person and we want to

00:43:21

get rid of it as quickly as possible.

00:43:35

considered an egocentric

00:43:38

emotion

00:43:40

And I didn’t feel like a different

00:43:44

person, but I feel that his

00:43:47

suffering is poisoning my own

00:43:50

good mood and so that he doesn’t not be

00:43:54

here or so that he’s like Well, so that he feels a

00:43:56

little better, in the end I

00:43:59

think about myself not about him this is the difference

00:44:02

between pity and mercy Mercy

00:44:05

I really understood what a person

00:44:08

feels even if outwardly he is happy and

00:44:13

very often people are bravi I am happy I am

00:44:16

fine I don’t need anything,

00:44:18

but if we understand What is behind this mask and and

00:44:22

behind this smile in reality In fact, there is an

00:44:26

inner torment hidden, this is compassion, we

00:44:28

will feel it, but I don’t really feel pity,

00:44:31

which is what the other one

00:44:33

feels, but I see the appearance of his

00:44:37

suffering, this appearance of his suffering

00:44:39

overshadows me, but I want to hurry up. Well,

00:44:43

somehow cover it all up. That is, I I’m not going

00:44:45

deep, I’m trying to use some simple

00:44:50

recipes to

00:44:52

get rid of this unpleasant

00:44:55

feeling.

00:44:56

Well, at least this is one of the descriptions of the

00:44:59

difference between the two emotions: pity is

00:45:03

focused on me and

00:45:06

Mercy is addressed to another

00:45:09

person and is based on my ability

00:45:12

to empathize to feel that the other

00:45:14

person actually feels Even

00:45:17

if he doesn’t talk about

00:45:19

it doesn’t show it

00:45:23

Thank you very much answer to your

00:45:26

question Next question Can a person

00:45:30

be in a healthy dependence on

00:45:31

spiritual things if he does not yet have

00:45:34

true faith in quotes written by Lau ki

00:45:36

ashraf and if such dependence it doesn’t

00:45:39

lead to anything good, how to get out of such an

00:45:45

addiction

00:45:52

And thank you very much Good question, it

00:45:56

even puzzled me a little

00:45:59

[music]

00:46:01

this is the fact that a person

00:46:07

who has

00:46:10

not very clearly built his priorities or something has

00:46:14

not very clearly understood what

00:46:17

he needs in

00:46:18

life He has some semblance of Faith,

00:46:21

some

00:46:23

[music]

00:46:24

prejudices

00:46:26

to make himself dependent on spiritual

00:46:29

things, they will be a little awkward, this is a

00:46:34

fact, it will seem to him that he has made

00:46:37

himself dependent

00:46:39

on a spiritual teacher or some

00:46:42

spiritual values. But in reality,

00:46:47

various forms will occur

00:46:50

of self-deception it will become clear very soon that this is

00:46:53

no independence OTV

00:46:56

just imitate him and achieve the same

00:46:59

position that he enjoys the

00:47:02

same privileges that

00:47:05

he has, for example,

00:47:07

so of course such a well, let’s say

00:47:10

not very well

00:47:12

or something Not very correct Faith

00:47:17

is probably not the most the best assistant

00:47:20

for na But on the other hand, we

00:47:23

need to start somewhere because Faith This is not bad, this is a

00:47:27

good starting point And even if I

00:47:30

just maybe not quite correctly

00:47:32

make myself dependent on spiritual

00:47:34

things from a society of spiritual people from

00:47:37

spiritual values

00:47:39

And this is already good but a person does not stand

00:47:43

still, he will evolve, especially

00:47:46

if he has good communication, but

00:47:50

they will constantly take him out of this

00:47:52

state of mechanically following

00:47:54

something, but because when a person

00:47:58

does not have conscious faith, then accordingly

00:48:00

his activity will also be unconscious,

00:48:02

he will always be trying to reduce

00:48:05

spiritual life to some kind of stereotyped

00:48:07

programs And as he is used to in ordinary

00:48:11

life, but there is nothing wrong with that, it is

00:48:14

better than some other dependence on

00:48:17

material things or on low people

00:48:20

from low people from low

00:48:23

values,

00:48:25

so there is no need to be afraid of this a

00:48:28

good starting point, there is no need to

00:48:32

try to artificially

00:48:37

abandon it, we start where we can

00:48:40

start, we have gained some kind of faith and this

00:48:44

Faith is better than no faith, but in

00:48:47

fact everyone has Faith. But if it is

00:48:50

Faith in some right things even

00:48:52

if Vera itself is not very

00:48:54

correct This is already

00:48:56

[music]

00:48:58

good thank you very much The next question we have

00:49:01

from Vlada is interesting addiction

00:49:04

dependence on a relationship between a man and a woman is

00:49:06

bad How to get out of such

00:49:08

dependence in these relationships without

00:49:10

destroying these relationships

00:49:12

[music]

00:49:15

Yeah If uh

00:49:17

addiction unhealthy addiction when

00:49:20

we really got

00:49:23

into this loop or this trap,

00:49:27

otherwise it’s not very good because it

00:49:31

often happens that a person

00:49:34

becomes dependent on a woman or a

00:49:38

woman becomes dependent on a

00:49:40

man And at the same time they feel that

00:49:44

they do not grow internally In these

00:49:46

relationships, they are exploited and

00:49:49

yet they cannot refuse it, that is,

00:49:53

any dependence is bad

00:49:56

because any dependence leads to us

00:50:00

losing

00:50:03

ourselves, a

00:50:05

person enters into a relationship in order to

00:50:07

find himself in order to reveal

00:50:10

himself in order to do something

00:50:13

more than he could do, that is,

00:50:15

it is still a process of growth. But if, as a

00:50:19

result of these relationships, He feels

00:50:21

that he is tied, trampled on his hands and feet,

00:50:27

that he as a person is not

00:50:29

interesting to anyone, but he himself However, he cannot

00:50:32

escape from this relationship and he is too

00:50:35

dependent on them, of course there is nothing

00:50:37

good in this, now how to

00:50:41

get rid of this and without destroying the

00:50:45

relationship, but you know this. This is

00:50:49

aerobatics;

00:50:50

to be able to do this, you

00:50:53

really need to have seven pms in your forehead

00:50:55

and probably Well, at first such a person would

00:50:59

hardly fall into this addiction, but

00:51:02

some advice can be given firstly, but I

00:51:05

still need to find some other

00:51:08

relationships that will help me

00:51:11

open up,

00:51:13

but because in order to get out of this

00:51:16

addiction I need to rise above

00:51:18

myself the one that I am now over

00:51:22

myself, who has fallen into this dependence, and

00:51:25

for this I need some kind of source, a

00:51:28

source of energy, a source of reason, a

00:51:30

source of strength, in the end, in

00:51:32

order to transform all this, that is, the

00:51:35

task that Vlad set for us, it is

00:51:39

very

00:51:40

difficult, it’s all the same that I don’t know, we’re

00:51:44

falling there by parachute and at the same time

00:51:47

we’re flying there and we need to get out of it

00:51:49

and generally redo everything, that is, this is going on,

00:51:54

you know, a very serious game, that’s why

00:51:59

we need help

00:52:01

first. We need some kind of higher mind

00:52:05

that will help us do this

00:52:08

And the main thing is that in these relationships we

00:52:10

can transform ourselves,

00:52:14

and in order to change the relationship without breaking the

00:52:18

relationship, we must change ourselves and those

00:52:24

who have changed the other

00:52:27

person and transform

00:52:30

him. That is, if we say so formally

00:52:35

to answer this question, then this is how it

00:52:38

all should happen in order for the

00:52:42

relationship to transform, I must

00:52:44

change transform myself and I

00:52:47

have to transform the other person

00:52:49

then the relationship

00:52:50

is transformed for

00:52:52

me to transform I need another

00:52:54

relationship

00:52:56

by itself this will not happen I have to

00:52:58

enter into some very deep

00:53:01

relationship with someone else Who will help me

00:53:04

transform who will give me strength

00:53:06

to change myself and, moreover, such a

00:53:10

force that will help me influence

00:53:12

another person, too, because the other

00:53:14

person who exploits us, well, he

00:53:17

also suffers in this relationship. Although it

00:53:19

seems to him that this is exactly what is

00:53:24

needed. It is possible, but it is not so

00:53:27

simple,

00:53:29

it is necessary very well understand the scale of

00:53:33

the task I

00:53:35

changed thanks to the fact that I changed

00:53:38

I was able to change another person and as a

00:53:41

result of this our relationship also

00:53:44

changed and acquired a completely different

00:53:54

quality [music] depending on the phone in

00:53:56

quarantine when there is

00:53:59

no way to communicate with people live does

00:54:01

this justify long periods of sitting behind the phone or is it

00:54:04

still the same addiction and What to

00:54:06

do in this case Thank you very much in advance a

00:54:07

pressing

00:54:10

[music]

00:54:11

question Yes indeed a very pressing

00:54:14

question look at the phone in itself

00:54:18

there is nothing wrong with it

00:54:21

but if we feel that our relationship

00:54:25

with the phone begins to acquire

00:54:27

unhealthy character and we can’t

00:54:31

sit for 15 seconds without looking at the

00:54:34

phone We’re reading a book and suddenly we

00:54:37

have some kind of terrible irresistible

00:54:40

impulse Yes, we need to see what’s

00:54:43

going on there, have you sent me

00:54:44

some new message or check

00:54:49

all your 25

00:54:53

messengers listen all these messages

00:54:56

when we can’t think about anything else, otherwise we

00:54:58

need to sound the alarm and Actually, how

00:55:02

not to get addicted Well, first of all,

00:55:06

if we have already fallen into it, then we need

00:55:09

to try to limit our communication with the

00:55:13

phone or something specific

00:55:15

absolutely time and specific

00:55:20

tasks So we need to make sure that the

00:55:25

mind does not split because what is

00:55:26

happening and we are focused on something,

00:55:30

suddenly we get into the phone and we listen to

00:55:33

one message, another message, a third

00:55:35

message and we read, we answer and we have already

00:55:38

forgotten what we were doing before that, or

00:55:40

even forgot why we went there

00:55:43

for sure

00:55:44

And many times this has happened to you: you

00:55:46

go there for something specific And in the

00:55:50

meantime you start doing something there And

00:55:52

you forget why you came here, you forget to

00:55:54

whom you wanted to say something important,

00:55:57

that’s why we need to limit

00:56:01

this communication to some reasonable limits,

00:56:07

so we try to really communicate with

00:56:10

people, but if we communicate, then communicate

00:56:14

deeply because it’s

00:56:16

not the communication itself that’s bad,

00:56:20

what’s bad is the superficiality of this

00:56:23

communication, when our communication takes place

00:56:26

only on social networks, for example,

00:56:29

and all our communication is based only on the

00:56:32

fact that we get some cheap

00:56:34

likes from others and give these likes

00:56:37

to others, otherwise Well, this is not very good If

00:56:43

we communicate on the phone Well, let's

00:56:45

communicate on some deep topics,

00:56:47

talk about issues of life and death,

00:56:50

think about how we can help another

00:56:53

person then the phone won’t be scary

00:56:55

but when we

00:57:02

abuse it Well, we turn this

00:57:04

communication into some kind of a We turn it into

00:57:09

some kind of parody of communication And that’s the trouble That’s the

00:57:14

problem with virtual communication

00:57:17

because virtual communication is to a greater

00:57:19

extent predisposes us to such a

00:57:21

superficial way of

00:57:23

communication, if we are sitting in person, then well, it’s like

00:57:27

he’s it, it’s like it

00:57:30

obliges us to a greater extent to go deeper, whereas he

00:57:36

called Yes, how are you? How are you doing?

00:57:41

I talked, it seemed like I felt

00:57:44

a little better, but in fact nothing

00:57:47

profound

00:57:48

happened. So talk on the phone,

00:57:51

but you don’t have to limit yourself to good

00:57:52

[music]

00:57:53

topics.

00:57:58

I also want to say. We also have an

00:58:00

online school and we also

00:58:03

communicate and you know, thank you very much for the

00:58:05

emphasis regarding the names of deep communication,

00:58:08

we are also discussing this now. The

00:58:10

next question is from Emma, I think that

00:58:12

it is connected, in principle, with the fact that teenagers

00:58:14

very often go somewhere to play and fall

00:58:17

into some kind of addiction, clearly

00:58:19

OH this is free tion

00:58:23

Referring

00:58:26

question Please tell me how to understand what

00:58:28

actually is my true

00:58:30

desire so that there is no such

00:58:36

substitution it may be our desire

00:58:39

ultimately What is our desire our

00:58:41

true desire we want to become

00:58:43

happy and before us there is a

00:58:45

material world with a huge range of

00:58:49

possibilities so to speak, become happy

00:58:52

you can become happy here by

00:58:54

winning a lottery there you can become

00:58:55

happy here by playing a computer

00:58:57

game you can become happy here

00:58:59

by going to some site with not very

00:59:01

good content you can become

00:59:04

happy here by trying a drug and that’s why

00:59:07

the desire to become

00:59:10

happy is

00:59:11

true, but when we

00:59:20

deliberately try something, knowing that

00:59:23

by trying it we will lose the degree of our

00:59:28

freedom. That is, when we buy, not

00:59:32

when, instead of real happiness of

00:59:35

deep inner emotional

00:59:38

fulfillment, well, really of very

00:59:40

great purity, we buy some kind of

00:59:43

fake, a surrogate of this happiness in the form of

00:59:47

narcotic happiness of a chemical

00:59:49

nature or some other kind of

00:59:52

happiness, but this kind of happiness is

00:59:55

not my desire, this is a desire to

01:00:00

deceive, so let’s say the

01:00:03

actual question is what is the right way to avoid falling

01:00:06

victim to deception, but for this

01:00:09

you need to get rid of the tendency to

01:00:12

self-deception, that’s why the Vedic

01:00:16

principle the

01:00:17

first person must be truthful, he

01:00:22

must speak

01:00:23

right, deceive himself, the person

01:00:27

who says that Now I’ll go there, I’ll

01:00:29

try it, I’ll become happy, and I

01:00:31

know that Well, free cheese

01:00:34

only happens in a mousetrap and that I’m entering into a mousetrap

01:00:36

And

01:00:39

by entering into this mousetrap I will be there is cheese

01:00:42

the mousetrap will slam shut at one time there was a

01:00:46

good cartoon such a small clip a

01:00:49

rat approaches this mousetrap sees

01:00:52

this cheese and begins to sing I believe in

01:00:55

miracles I believe in miracles I believe in

01:00:58

miracles in the same way a person approaches

01:01:01

some of this bait sees this

01:01:03

bait and begins to

01:01:05

persuade himself Yes, everything is fine, everything is

01:01:09

fine It’s simple Well, tell stories nothing

01:01:13

special for once try

01:01:15

nothing nothing bad will come from it

01:01:19

Why why does he manage to deceive himself

01:01:21

because he wants to deceive himself

01:01:25

therefore the very first principle is very

01:01:28

important you need to be honest honest with

01:01:30

others and honest myself and this is the

01:01:35

first step towards freedom if I tell myself

01:01:38

everything I don’t lie I don’t deceive anyone I honestly

01:01:42

admit even if it hurts even if it’s

01:01:45

hard and then I will learn not to deceive

01:01:49

myself and this will be a very good

01:01:53

vaccination and a

01:01:56

record of

01:02:00

mistakes I answered your

01:02:03

[music]

01:02:05

question please

01:02:11

answer my

01:02:13

question

01:02:16

SSH she

01:02:18

[music]

01:02:23

asks

01:02:24

Prive on dependence how then to correctly

01:02:28

present and accept praise Thank you very much

01:02:31

[music]

01:02:34

if we are

01:02:36

praised then we must remember in the same way to

01:02:41

pass on this praise to

01:02:44

those from whom we received everything these good

01:02:47

qualities are to some of our senior

01:02:51

teachers, that

01:02:53

is, we owe this to someone

01:02:56

correctly. If we remember in time about

01:02:59

who we owe it to and humbly accept

01:03:03

this praise and address it, even if not

01:03:06

externally but internally to those people who

01:03:10

helped me with these qualities to gain

01:03:13

then this Praise will not poison

01:03:17

our

01:03:18

consciousness too much, but as for

01:03:23

how to glorify

01:03:26

another person

01:03:28

[music]

01:03:30

correctly Well, first of all, it is necessary

01:03:33

not to pursue any

01:03:35

selfish goal while pleasing him,

01:03:39

luring him to force him to do

01:03:42

something -then Praise should come or this

01:03:45

Delight should come from the

01:03:48

heart, this is already good, it’s already

01:03:59

good, then it’s already good. This praise will not too

01:04:11

desecrate those Qualities that should be

01:04:13

glorified or I admire what

01:04:16

should be

01:04:17

admired, then this is completely good

01:04:21

because he understands that it is valuable. And vice versa,

01:04:27

if I value something that perhaps

01:04:32

should not be valued so much or

01:04:35

glorified, and I start talking about it.

01:04:38

Well, probably there is nothing good in this,

01:04:42

that is, in order to correctly accept

01:04:44

praise,

01:04:45

it must be immediately redirected

01:04:48

[music]

01:04:54

To blame, you need to be sincere and you need to

01:04:56

understand very well the real system of

01:05:00

values that elevates a person and, on

01:05:03

the contrary, leads to his

01:05:08

degradation. Thank you very much. Nadezhda

01:05:11

is asking. You, in principle, have already answered

01:05:12

this question. What is the source of dependence?

01:05:15

What is the need? I understand that

01:05:17

people should be dependent. Why? people

01:05:19

are immersed in this

01:05:23

addiction Of course they are like this They want

01:05:26

to get cheap happiness They want to

01:05:29

get happiness on the cheap These are the

01:05:32

simple recipes for this

01:05:34

happiness, the simplest, here is happiness We

01:05:38

must get but we must not try to

01:05:41

deceive and not try to get happiness

01:05:45

happiness comes as a result of work

01:05:47

happiness is work and parts that we

01:05:50

have earned with real good work. This is

01:05:54

happiness that does not make us

01:05:56

dependent. Real relationships are

01:05:59

work and we can get great happiness

01:06:01

if we really worked for

01:06:03

this relationship, but if we try to easily

01:06:06

get some kind of happiness from relationships,

01:06:09

we are deceiving ourselves. in the same way, all

01:06:12

other things that are given to us by

01:06:16

good healthy

01:06:18

work as a reward For this, these are good

01:06:21

types of happiness, easy happiness is always a

01:06:25

deceptive happiness that comes as a

01:06:27

result of our desire to

01:06:31

deceive, our tendency to deceive,

01:06:34

so I said that the main quality is

01:06:36

to get rid of the tendency to You

01:06:39

need to stop deceiving yourself

01:06:41

[music]

01:06:45

deceiving Polina here asks

01:06:47

Polina if you can Maybe with your voice

01:06:49

Please join in Question How to understand

01:06:51

that you

01:06:53

are developing

01:06:56

Maybe you can somehow

01:07:05

expand on this question In principle, this is

01:07:08

not such a difficult

01:07:10

question Well, actually What does it mean that I am

01:07:14

developing The more developed a person

01:07:17

differs from a less developed person,

01:07:20

the more developed a person is in whatever

01:07:22

respect, the more opportunities he has,

01:07:25

the more he has

01:07:28

the ability to influence others on

01:07:30

circumstances on the

01:07:33

environment, he can do more and is more

01:07:37

able to influence others in fact,

01:07:42

so he has great

01:07:44

Freedom Freedom to

01:07:48

do something in this world one way or another an undeveloped person

01:07:52

is a person media abilities undeveloped

01:07:55

abilities means that he

01:07:58

can

01:07:59

do very little that’s why if we feel

01:08:02

that

01:08:04

we are our ability to do something to influence

01:08:07

other

01:08:08

people in some way change something

01:08:11

around you or do something

01:08:13

increases. This means we are developing and

01:08:16

this means we are becoming freer.

01:08:19

When, for example, some pianist, a

01:08:21

great pianist plays, then you

01:08:24

feel the sense of Freedom with which he does it,

01:08:26

he does some virtuosic, absolutely

01:08:29

incredibly complex things, but at the same time, he

01:08:32

does it very easily, freely and playfully.

01:08:35

But every person can develop,

01:08:39

every person has his own talent, his own

01:08:42

abilities and

01:08:45

his own point of growth or space

01:08:49

for growth, you just need to take advantage of

01:08:52

this opportunity,

01:08:56

and this means not degrading, which means

01:09:00

avoiding those things that will

01:09:03

lead to a narrowing of our capabilities,

01:09:05

our abilities, our

01:09:09

talents, that

01:09:11

is, addictions.

01:09:15

Thank you very much. You know, in view of

01:09:17

this, a question arose for me, since I

01:09:19

also

01:09:20

communicate a lot with teenagers now. And the main

01:09:24

problem they have is in the classroom; it’s

01:09:27

really considered very fashionable

01:09:28

to be dependent from something And when I

01:09:31

start promoting some of my

01:09:32

principles of cleanliness or something, it’s a matter of

01:09:35

time before I become a black sheep

01:09:37

and I’ll have

01:09:39

something plastered over my chair, maybe you could

01:09:42

recommend something to the guys on how to

01:09:44

learn to resist That's what

01:09:46

internally I don't know how to be strong

01:09:48

because this Mon Bullying when

01:09:51

someone is a modern problem

01:09:55

now Well

01:09:56

yes yes this is a big

01:09:59

[music]

01:10:01

problem And it actually It has always

01:10:06

existed my time at school people

01:10:08

were doing that Well maybe Not before to such an

01:10:11

extent, but in principle it was the same thing,

01:10:15

although probably not to that extent after

01:10:17

all [music]

01:10:21

Well, look, on one

01:10:24

[music]

01:10:26

side people don’t

01:10:31

like [music] people, of course, don’t like it

01:10:34

when a person tries

01:10:36

to stand out, but even more so

01:10:39

people don’t I like it when a person is also

01:10:42

proud of it. That is, he puts

01:10:45

it on

01:10:47

display,

01:10:49

so of course there is no need to become

01:10:52

dependent on these things, but to become a

01:10:56

victim of fashion or a victim of fashion

01:10:58

addictions,

01:11:01

but to

01:11:06

be one.

01:11:15

And here’s to communicate First with those people and

01:11:20

with whom there is some kind of coincidence

01:11:22

because

01:11:24

when I’m really

01:11:26

alone, completely alone, then yes, people

01:11:30

begin to show their most terrible

01:11:33

qualities, base ones begin to poison

01:11:36

a person, sometimes they lead him to

01:11:39

incredible things. But if I

01:11:46

try create a small micro-Society

01:11:49

around yourself in this way, then I’m probably

01:11:52

more protected from all this;

01:11:56

people won’t attack so violently.

01:11:59

That is, I would

01:12:02

advise finding some

01:12:05

more or less close person to enter into a

01:12:07

relationship and try to Influence It

01:12:11

will be easier for him, then maybe it will

01:12:14

somehow go further. It will go, that is, at least

01:12:17

have such a small social protection

01:12:21

in this aggressive

01:12:24

[music]

01:12:27

Yes, thank you very much, there is also a question,

01:12:31

also from Nadezhda, she asks how to

01:12:33

learn to be honest with

01:12:39

yourself Well, and

01:12:42

learn to just

01:12:44

try to be honest with yourself, that is,

01:12:46

Tell yourself

01:12:48

[music]

01:12:49

the truth. We have this ability to

01:12:53

look at ourselves from the outside, we can soberly

01:12:57

evaluate our actions, our thoughts, that’s the

01:13:02

first thing you need to do for this in order to

01:13:05

have this point of reference or some kind of then

01:13:07

you know the neutral point from which I

01:13:10

look at myself, I evaluate myself,

01:13:14

and I need to communicate with those people who, well,

01:13:20

actually personify some

01:13:22

true values.

01:13:24

Well, or at least read something about them, we will

01:13:28

then form this position with

01:13:32

which we we will be able to

01:13:34

look at ourselves, we need a

01:13:38

coordinate system, a value

01:13:40

system with the help of which we will

01:13:43

evaluate ourselves, our actions, our thoughts,

01:13:46

our

01:13:47

words and If this coordinate system is

01:13:50

correct

01:13:52

ate

01:13:55

[music]

01:13:58

justifying and we evaluate ourselves from some

01:14:02

more neutral and higher

01:14:04

position

01:14:05

A And if this position is clearly established

01:14:09

that yes, it is easy for a person to be honest with

01:14:11

himself and in this case he will

01:14:14

constantly

01:14:16

move to develop to become better,

01:14:20

cleaner, more beautiful internally,

01:14:27

here is the last question, we will

01:14:29

complete the dependence on social

01:14:31

opinion, is it somehow connected with a person’s self-esteem

01:14:33

as a person with poor

01:14:35

self-esteem for lower or higher to come to the

01:14:38

norm Yes, of course, if a person has

01:14:42

low, well, or high

01:14:45

self-esteem, or rather, if he has an unrealistic let’s

01:14:48

say self-esteem that differs

01:14:51

from

01:14:52

reality, he is more prone to

01:14:54

addiction, he will have a need

01:14:57

all the time to impose on people that very

01:15:01

unrealistic the opinion

01:15:03

he has about himself, he has formed some kind of

01:15:06

false opinion, he will project it all the time

01:15:08

Obsessively And if this is

01:15:11

low

01:15:13

self-esteem, then he will be painfully

01:15:16

dependent on the praise of other people And if

01:15:20

it is overestimated, he will project his

01:15:22

opinion Nagi people Impose it

01:15:25

try others Well, as if to make everyone

01:15:29

believe in what he believes in himself in

01:15:33

relation to himself, that is, of

01:15:36

course, any inadequate idea of \u200b\

01:15:40

u200bhimself is not very good. And you need

01:15:44

to have adequate

01:15:46

ideas; they are

01:15:48

formed in close friendly

01:15:52

relationships, and this can be either elders

01:15:55

or equals, but namely in such good

01:15:59

close relationships when we have

01:16:02

Trust in other people when other people

01:16:05

and not

01:16:07

but simply flatter us And but they tell us

01:16:12

the truth and we gave them this right to tell

01:16:15

us the truth and we, in turn, also

01:16:18

sincerely give

01:16:20

some kind of feedback,

01:16:23

that is, in order to get rid of all these

01:16:27

games, which are very harmful and

01:16:31

tiresome, you need to have close

01:16:33

relationships, and first of all with elders, with

01:16:35

wiser people, but also with equals, too,

01:16:38

if they are good. Well,

01:16:41

really sincere, pure people. They

01:16:45

can too Help us a lot in

01:16:47

this regard and feel that we are

01:16:50

truly valuable We We have something

01:16:54

that is

01:16:55

valuable but at the same time save us from the

01:16:59

need to pretend to be someone

01:17:04

else [music] Thank you very much then we are

01:17:06

done for today dear guys

01:17:09

Thank you Thank you very much for your questions and ladies

01:17:12

here they write thanks and I wanted to

01:17:15

especially thank you for the fact

01:17:16

that you so clearly

01:17:19

emphasized this point several times that the essence of

01:17:21

addiction is escaping after it because the

01:17:24

guys really have the

01:17:25

feeling that real

01:17:27

happiness - these are all sorts of drugs, it’s

01:17:30

so expanded, so bright on all

01:17:33

sides, it doesn’t matter that tomorrow I

01:17:35

want even more. The main thing is that now

01:17:37

there is in the moment and you showed very clearly today

01:17:39

how illusory it is,

01:17:41

this Escape How quickly I become a

01:17:43

terrible slave of this And so it’s just that all

01:17:46

thoughts are only about this and this is the

01:17:47

natural result of

01:17:49

cruelty that leads to this, too,

01:17:52

cruelty in the

01:18:00

early days in Germany, they also brought a completely

01:18:02

inadequate child who would become

01:18:05

completely inadequate in connection with the game, he

01:18:08

played for a long time and he was

01:18:11

diagnosed with imbecility, this is exactly what is

01:18:15

connected with

01:18:21

Inter effective recipes that you need to

01:18:24

gradually reduce that you don’t need to immediately

01:18:26

give up everything and then urgently

01:18:28

roll you back But these simple

01:18:31

moments that are very important for a

01:18:32

teenager for this thank you very much

01:18:35

thank you very much thank you Hare Krishna

01:18:43

[music]

01:18:51

Thank you

01:18:56

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