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as good as it might seem. If you are00:00:05
going to immigrate here now, a00:00:07
huge number of people are emigrating to the00:00:09
USA, some are forced, some consciously, and the00:00:11
vast majority of people,00:00:13
no matter how many bloggers you watch on YouTube, still have00:00:16
no idea have What is00:00:17
immigration and what really awaits them here00:00:19
in this video I will tell you why00:00:22
in 6 years in emigration I have not00:00:24
achieved anything Why most likely you will be00:00:26
very bored What are the four results of00:00:28
immigration According to psychologists and00:00:30
sociologists, why knowledge exists in emigration the00:00:32
English language does not make it easier for00:00:34
you to adapt What is the best thing00:00:37
to focus on for work and why after00:00:39
immigration your time will most likely00:00:41
stop forever in general I think00:00:44
it will be interesting subscribe to the channel00:00:46
If you haven’t already, click fat00:00:48
fat like And we’re starting bye let’s go00:00:50
[music]00:00:58
you know I remember a year and a half ago00:01:00
I made a video about how many people are00:01:02
now moving to America,00:01:04
mainly through Mexico, and I was amazed at00:01:06
how so many people go00:01:08
to a country that they don’t even00:01:10
know anything about, having never been here, of course. a00:01:11
year and a half after00:01:13
the war began, other crises began. I00:01:16
understand that then very00:01:18
few people came at all, because the flow00:01:20
that is coming now is simply scary.00:01:22
It is clear that a huge number of00:01:24
people are now forced to move,00:01:26
mainly refugees from Ukraine; I00:01:29
myself have already met with several people00:01:31
who directly saw the war,00:01:33
lived in the occupation and fled from there. Well,00:01:35
I can say that this is probably one of the00:01:37
most difficult experiences when00:01:39
you personally see people who tell00:01:41
all these horrors that they experienced00:01:43
nevertheless. Yes, someone is moving,00:01:45
someone is forced to move. consciously I personally00:01:47
moved in 2016, I was 2300:01:50
years old at the time, I moved consciously for economic and00:01:53
political reasons. I’ve already been living here for00:01:55
seven years, I already have a00:01:58
green card, because I have00:02:00
less than a year left to live in the USA before receiving00:02:02
American citizenship and an00:02:03
American passport. I intend00:02:05
to do this, but nevertheless, according to some00:02:07
criteria, it may seem that in00:02:09
fact I have not achieved anything here, for00:02:11
example, I still don’t have00:02:12
any real estate here. It’s not because I00:02:14
can’t afford it. It’s just that my00:02:16
values have changed a lot. here in00:02:18
America and precisely owning your own00:02:19
home, any apartment, as long as you have00:02:21
your own; any house, as long as you have your own.00:02:24
It has changed a lot. In America,00:02:25
already in the first year, I quickly reached00:02:27
normal earnings; I earned00:02:30
around $10,000 a month there.00:02:33
it was very significant then, but then00:02:35
one of the businesses that I00:02:37
launched here with a partner in America It collapsed00:02:39
and we owed $120,000. That00:02:41
is, I had ups and downs, I00:02:43
had all sorts of things. By the way, I have a whole separate00:02:45
playlist where I tell you what I do,00:02:46
be sure to check it out If you haven’t00:02:47
seen it, nevertheless, I can say that I00:02:49
feel quite comfortable,00:02:51
accordingly, I’m working on YouTube,00:02:54
I have several other projects.00:02:56
But honestly, YouTube brings in00:02:58
probably00:02:59
70-80 percent of my income and this allows me to00:03:03
live comfortably. I don’t work anywhere. not at00:03:05
any job and by the way, I’ve never00:03:08
worked here and on average I can say that00:03:09
my income is certainly much higher00:03:11
than the income of the average American and I’m00:03:14
happy with everything. If you’re interested in finding out00:03:16
why I still don’t buy a house00:03:18
or an apartment, I generally stay away from00:03:20
real estate, write in the comments,00:03:21
I will definitely tell you about it Well, also00:03:23
Write in the comments, like it If00:03:25
you want me to sort out my tax00:03:27
return and show how much What kind of00:03:30
earnings Where do they come from and how much taxes00:03:32
I will end up paying the American00:03:34
state, like me, write00:03:35
comments on what this is all about the fact00:03:37
that in general I feel comfortable living in America,00:03:39
I was probably getting there for the first00:03:41
four years of my life here, when it was00:03:43
really hard for me here, and in recent00:03:46
years it has more or less00:03:47
stabilized, well, it seems like the cushion00:03:50
has been accumulated, there is a valuable income and that’s00:03:53
it - everything immediately became clearly00:03:54
clear, clear what to do, this stress disappeared,00:03:57
but on the way to this there was a00:03:59
lot of stress and there were a lot of problems00:04:01
with adaptation and there were a lot of myths00:04:03
that I believed in America when I came00:04:05
here, which turned out to be complete rubbish and00:04:08
untrue like, for example, the fact that I00:04:09
had knowledge of the language, supposedly this should00:04:11
have helped me; of course, it felt00:04:13
easier. But as sociologists say, this is not00:04:15
entirely true. Let’s now look at the00:04:17
different points of what you can expect in00:04:19
emigration. If you suddenly intend to00:04:21
move here, what would you have here? you will encounter,00:04:23
according to statistics, almost 50% of00:04:26
immigrants suffer from various forms of ptsd,00:04:30
this is post-traumatic stress00:04:32
disorder, from which, for example,00:04:34
military personnel returning from the front suffer. And in00:04:36
general, that is, immigration is00:04:38
fraught with many psychological00:04:39
mental difficulties that you do not00:04:42
suspect, it is very stressful,00:04:44
some psychologists even they say that stress from00:04:46
immigration is tantamount to stress from the loss of a00:04:47
loved one, so well, you00:04:49
generally understand what awaits you, but00:04:52
sociologists also identify four00:04:53
results from immigration in general, that is, here’s how00:04:56
it will go for you. Let me tell you about it.00:04:58
So, the first option. What00:05:00
will happen to you in the end? immigration is00:05:01
assimilation, this is your complete dissolution00:05:04
in the culture of this country, this very often00:05:06
happens when people come like this,00:05:08
I refuse the Russian language, I am00:05:10
disgusted that I am from Russia, I will not00:05:12
talk about this anywhere, I will not communicate with00:05:14
Russians, I will not speak Russian00:05:15
I will be completely immersed in00:05:18
American culture and in general I will00:05:19
change my name there and will not associate myself in any way.00:05:22
I even personally know some of these people00:05:24
and well, you need to understand that this is not a completely00:05:26
healthy topic, but nevertheless, this00:05:28
can happen and if this00:05:31
happens to you, you understand what it is Well,00:05:32
naturally the body’s reaction to stress is the00:05:34
second option. What could this be00:05:36
integration? This is when you do not renounce00:05:38
your culture, your past,00:05:40
your name, there are assets from your language.00:05:42
But at the same time, you also acquire00:05:44
some things from the new culture from the00:05:47
American one, you understand its traditions00:05:49
you understand the mentality, some many00:05:51
other strange things that seem00:05:53
strange to you at first, you don’t reject them,00:05:55
don’t say that Oh, wow, the Americans are00:05:57
generally stupid, how can you do this, you00:05:59
treat with understanding and over time00:06:01
you begin to understand, that is, you kind of00:06:03
begin to balance between your00:06:04
culture and the new, you take all the00:06:06
best from your culture, but also the sculptures of the00:06:08
new country in which you just00:06:10
arrived; this is the healthiest00:06:11
option, but at the same time the most difficult.00:06:13
I’ll explain why the third option is00:06:15
separation, which, unfortunately, is inherent in00:06:18
most immigrants. Well, at00:06:20
least those who do I see when you don’t00:06:23
renounce your culture, but at the same time do00:06:24
n’t accept the new American00:06:26
culture? You try to communicate only with00:06:28
Russian-speaking people; you generally try to00:06:30
keep your routine as00:06:32
similar as possible to what it was like in your00:06:34
country; you eat the same food;00:06:36
read news only from Russia is not at all00:06:38
interested in what is happening00:06:39
around you in a new country, you live in such an00:06:41
isolating Ghetto, this is what00:06:44
many nations do and in general Well, as I say, the00:06:45
majority of emigrants Here are all these00:06:47
national areas that00:06:48
exist in America The00:06:49
majority of people live there,00:06:51
divided by corporations this doesn’t mean that00:06:53
they live badly, they enjoy all00:06:55
the benefits of American society, the00:06:56
American economy, they just don’t00:06:58
integrate, this is also a normal00:07:00
reaction of your body, your brain, it00:07:02
strives to lead such a life, this00:07:06
can also be done. You just know what this00:07:08
could be, you just don’t get everyone, as it were.00:07:10
goodies from life in America, but00:07:13
you can live in peace; many live for 30-4000:07:15
years. Well, the fourth option is00:07:17
marginalization. This is the most unhealthy00:07:18
option. When you abandon00:07:20
your culture but also do not accept a new one00:07:21
and begin to live in such a very strong00:07:24
isolation without accepting anything. you don’t00:07:26
like what’s happening in your country,00:07:28
you don’t want to associate it with it. Well,00:07:30
again, you don’t like anything either. You’re00:07:31
starting to experience depression, very severe00:07:34
disorders, this is an unhappy life, but00:07:36
you know that this can also happen and you00:07:39
need to work with a00:07:40
psychotherapist there somehow to understand00:07:42
these, there are four stages and here on00:07:45
topic I want to say that there is such a00:07:46
proverb, it seems to be an Armenian one, that in00:07:48
what year did you move in that year and stayed?00:07:50
This is inherent in this case for many00:07:52
emigrants, even I notice about myself, so I00:07:54
left for In 2016, unfortunately, I00:07:57
can no longer come to Russia because00:07:58
because of my YouTube videos, a00:08:01
police squad came to me looking for me and threatened to00:08:04
put me on the international wanted list. He00:08:06
came to my apartment in Moscow00:08:07
where he was registered and actually made me00:08:09
understand that I It’s probably better not to00:08:11
come, but at the same time I understand that00:08:13
I left in 2016 and for me, really,00:08:16
Russia is like Russia in 16. Although I00:08:18
understand that the country00:08:20
has changed a lot and be prepared for this, that00:08:21
when you leave, that’s where00:08:23
you left from most likely your00:08:25
consciousness and perception of your country will00:08:28
remain at the level of this year, which is00:08:30
inherent in so many migrants,00:08:31
let’s say from the nineties who still00:08:32
think there that they have some kind of passion00:08:34
going on, those who left at the end of the Soviet Union00:08:36
who still think that there are no00:08:37
products no, everything is in line Although they00:08:39
know that this has not been the case for a long time,00:08:41
Nevertheless, their brain seems to be00:08:43
stuck in this time, this is the00:08:44
other side of emigration about which, in00:08:47
my opinion, you should know the most important thing00:08:49
- related to emigration Well in a more00:08:51
conscious way, of course, this is that all your00:08:53
problems will be solved by integrating into another00:08:55
country, but as I have already said many times,00:08:56
when moving to another country, you always00:08:58
take yourself with you, and often as00:09:00
happens if you go to America for00:09:03
better economic conditions so that00:09:06
you have more money so that they can00:09:08
afford more. This will most likely happen,00:09:10
but due to the fact that you will have a00:09:11
break in social ties, you will not have00:09:13
close people nearby, your00:09:14
routine will completely change, then you will most likely00:09:16
become richer but unhappier and this is also00:09:21
normal because we are social people00:09:23
we can’t live without people close to us, without00:09:25
things that are familiar to us, and when moving to00:09:27
America, you’ll have money for this one00:09:29
hundred percent, I say from work there,00:09:31
you’ll find something from hunger, you won’t die of hunger,00:09:33
I’ll also say more about this, but it’s as if00:09:34
your level of happiness will drop a little and you00:09:37
need to understand this, financially everything will be00:09:39
wonderful, but somehow there’s something in the soul You’ll00:09:41
miss something,00:09:43
that’s normal That’s what harmony is00:09:46
When you feel good When00:09:48
everything is familiar to you You know the shops you00:09:50
know there conditionally How to pay for00:09:53
housing and communal services you know how to use banks00:09:56
you know what products to buy you know00:09:57
what products are good What are bad in00:09:59
such places are good What are bad00:10:01
when you come to America all this is lost and00:10:03
your social circle is also lost00:10:06
because these connections are broken and it all00:10:08
causes a lot of stress because00:10:09
essentially you you start living from scratch and you00:10:12
have to learn everything all over again and the older00:10:14
you are, the more difficult it will be for you, the more00:10:16
stress all this will cost you, there’s00:10:18
no escape from it. Therefore, this00:10:20
stress, this dissatisfaction with America,00:10:21
which is inherent in many migrants, is due to the fact00:10:24
that they are torn these00:10:26
familiar social connections, you stop00:10:28
using some familiar00:10:29
algorithms of action in everyday00:10:31
life, this causes a natural00:10:34
reaction of irritation in you, it seems to you that everything is00:10:35
getting worse, that you are used to the fact that you have00:10:37
a store there near your house of some kind, it was00:10:39
always there, I was there I don’t know there’s good00:10:40
chicken And now you don’t know what00:10:42
good chicken is in America in one place00:10:44
it costs 4 dollars in another place it00:10:46
costs 10 dollars 12 20 30 40 the price gap is00:10:49
all incomprehensible to you And that’s why you’re00:10:52
annoyed that’s why Be prepared for this00:10:53
what’s so will be in general, I would generally00:10:55
say that life in America00:10:57
taught me to live a life in chaos when you are not00:11:00
sure of the future, you don’t know what00:11:01
will happen tomorrow, what will you have00:11:03
money there or not there You ca00:11:05
n’t pay the rent This is the first year of life00:11:07
They really put me under such stress because of the00:11:09
very strong house music, you don’t know what00:11:11
will happen tomorrow, but I’m used to it and I would00:11:14
say that it probably made me00:11:15
stronger and more immune to00:11:18
some kind of stress and life00:11:20
shock Well, in America00:11:22
you really get used to chaos and uncertainty,00:11:25
according to many learned sociologists and00:11:27
writers, for example, the same Yu-vali no And00:11:28
Harari, the further into the future, the more often00:11:31
people will have to face great00:11:33
upheavals and, for example, completely change their00:11:35
field of activity, even today I00:11:38
know many acquaintances here in America00:11:39
who worked in one field, for00:11:41
example, in cargo transportation and then00:11:43
wanted to go into the IT field, took courses,00:11:46
trained as a testing engineer00:11:47
because this does not require00:11:49
any programming knowledge, and now they are00:11:51
already working in large IT companies and are00:11:53
building a career in order to master By00:11:55
the way, this profession does not have to be00:11:57
in America and be able to program. For00:11:59
example, the educational platform00:12:01
geekbrains is now launching a recruitment for00:12:03
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controls the quality it-product00:12:16
finds errors, writes them down in a report and00:12:19
passes them on to the developers. Here are some00:12:21
errors, for example. Well, will the site survive if a00:12:24
thousand users come shopping at once,00:12:25
or does the00:12:27
filter and sorting of goods work correctly? The tester00:12:30
finds these Bugs and sends them for00:12:32
modification by the programmer. As you understand,00:12:34
programming skills are not are needed and00:12:37
anyone can really master this profession; many students00:12:39
find a job during their studies and00:12:41
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testing engineers increased by 72 percent.00:12:58
But the number of resumes increased by only 6 percent, and00:13:00
this situation is everywhere, even here in00:13:02
America. In fact, this is all ideal and the00:13:04
easiest way. Enter for beginners after00:13:07
mastering the profession, there are many00:13:08
options. Where to grow next. Well, do not00:13:10
forget that the state creates00:13:11
comfortable conditions for the sector and allocates00:13:13
finances for the prosperity of IT companies and00:13:16
develops special benefits for its00:13:18
employees, for example,00:13:19
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personal opinion in America it’s really difficult to be00:13:37
friends with Americans, it’s especially difficult to be00:13:40
friends at first Yes, I know that00:13:42
many people have illusions that I recommend I00:13:44
won’t speak Russian to anyone, I00:13:46
’ll only speak English00:13:47
please ok you will communicate U There00:13:49
may be a lot of00:13:51
American acquaintances. I communicated a lot with00:13:52
Americans at work, I still00:13:54
cross paths, but honestly, after 600:13:58
years of living here, I can’t say that00:14:00
I have made an00:14:01
American friend, and by the way, what’s00:14:03
surprising is that I have appeared here00:14:04
European friends, for example,00:14:06
there was a family from Iceland with whom I communicated00:14:09
very, very closely until they00:14:11
returned to their home country because they00:14:12
were here for study. But it was with the00:14:13
Americans that I somehow didn’t get such emotional00:14:15
communication and I understand why this is so at the same time,00:14:18
I communicated with various other00:14:19
emigrants from other countries with them00:14:21
much more Connect The thing is that no matter how much00:14:22
you want to communicate with00:14:25
Americans, you will not be able to find00:14:28
this kind of thread that would00:14:30
say that these are your friends00:14:32
because Unfortunately, they don’t understand your00:14:35
problems, it’s not a migrant’s problem, it’s not a problem00:14:37
in general for people who grew up, roughly00:14:39
speaking, in countries that are not the largest00:14:41
economies in the world, there’s no00:14:42
getting away from it. Well, that’s how he understands that00:14:44
American bad people are00:14:45
impossible to communicate with, impossible to be friends with00:14:46
No, everything is possible and they have best friends00:14:48
from Close friends, they can also00:14:50
communicate spiritually, just in person. I did00:14:52
n’t succeed, and to be honest, I don’t00:14:55
know examples of people, even who00:14:57
have lived for a very long time, who can directly00:14:59
communicate very closely with Americans,00:15:01
just as they communicate, for example, with00:15:02
immigrants from Russia from Ukraine from00:15:04
Belarus, unfortunately this is so, again, he00:15:06
may be wrong. This is just my00:15:08
example, but in this video I am sharing00:15:10
my point of view with you. Well, plus00:15:12
you need to understand that if you come00:15:13
there, I don’t know after 30 years, then in general, in00:15:15
general, making friends is quite difficult, making new connections,00:15:17
and most likely all00:15:19
your acquaintances, all your friends are new, they00:15:21
will be the ones with whom you will cross paths, I do00:15:22
n’t know. If you have children, then there are00:15:24
schools in kindergartens. If you00:15:25
work somewhere in an office. then you will have00:15:27
familiar American friends in the office at00:15:30
work and this is normal, that is, in general,00:15:32
as in adult life, because yes, for00:15:34
most Americans, friends are also00:15:36
some people from childhood with whom they have been00:15:37
communicating for a very long time and it is difficult to make00:15:39
such connections When you already in00:15:41
adulthood I’m not saying it’s impossible, but00:15:43
it’s much more difficult, so be00:15:45
prepared for this. The next thing you00:15:47
need to know, especially if you’re moving00:15:49
from large cities, from Kiev, from Moscow and00:15:52
St. Petersburg, I don’t even know, even00:15:54
from Yekaterinburg, most likely where would you00:15:57
or come to America, you will be bored00:16:00
because large cities in Russia in00:16:03
Ukraine are not the same as large00:16:05
cities in America, even there New York,00:16:07
which is probably the closest point in general00:16:09
that American00:16:11
cities are selected for the feeling of a large city, it’s00:16:13
still not the same because that for example,00:16:16
I myself grew up. I was born and raised in Moscow until I was00:16:18
23 years old. I lived there. I took for00:16:22
granted a huge number of things00:16:24
that simply don’t exist in America. There isn’t even00:16:26
such a concept, for example, there are00:16:28
few good public transport. Where is it,00:16:30
even in New York? Yes, it’s big there00:16:32
it’s overloaded, but still it’s not00:16:34
as beautiful, it’s not as convenient, it’s00:16:35
not as clean, it’s not as00:16:37
technologically advanced, no, I don’t know where00:16:39
the wi-fi is. Yes, these are little things that, of course,00:16:41
life doesn’t get00:16:43
any worse without them, and that doesn’t make you any worse. Well It’s not that it’s a bad00:16:46
life, but they don’t exist and you pay00:16:48
attention to them in general, the quality of services,00:16:50
the quality of food for the most part, in00:16:53
America you need to look for really good00:16:55
food. You need to look for some really good00:16:57
places and establishments, they don’t00:16:58
have to be very expensive It’s00:16:59
just the American economy. It’s00:17:01
so strong and people here have so00:17:03
much money and there are so many00:17:05
people that often you can open00:17:08
some cafe or restaurant and make00:17:10
downright bad food and you00:17:11
will still have clients, there will be buyers. So in00:17:14
everything, that’s why it’s more difficult to find00:17:15
quality food here. -it’s a quality00:17:17
establishment that you’re pleased to be in; it’s00:17:19
nice to sit; it’s really not enough.00:17:21
Because when you live. Well, let’s say I’m00:17:23
in Moscow, I knew all the places there, I knew the00:17:25
areas where you can have a good walk, but here00:17:26
everything is different, here you need to learn everything again,00:17:29
figure it out again plus00:17:30
everything closes very early If you are00:17:32
used to nightlife Well, I just don’t00:17:33
know, some programmers like00:17:37
to work there at 2-3 o’clock in the morning in a cafe here Most likely you00:17:38
just won’t be able to do it00:17:40
because there are no such establishments here And00:17:42
what kind there are there won’t really work,00:17:45
that is, everything closes very early;00:17:47
some good areas are00:17:48
scattered throughout the city; if in00:17:50
European cities there in Russia in00:17:52
Ukraine there is a center in which Well, as if00:17:53
everything is clear. The central part is there,00:17:55
everything is cool here. on the contrary, here00:17:56
the center can be terrible, some areas00:17:58
can be dirty, untidy, some00:18:00
can be dangerous, there can be00:18:02
homeless people somewhere, and that’s when it all falls on you,00:18:04
naturally, you compare00:18:05
it with your hometown, where you00:18:07
worked, where you grew up, and it seems to you00:18:09
that damn, well, this is some kind of game,00:18:10
where did I end up, you know that this is normal,00:18:13
you need to adapt to this and it00:18:16
will come sooner or later Well, just be00:18:18
prepared for this so that Yes, at some00:18:19
points the quality of your life may00:18:21
worsen Even despite that that00:18:23
you will have more money in your pocket, the next00:18:26
thing that really chokes me to the core,00:18:28
which you will 100% encounter when you00:18:31
come here, I would call it00:18:33
emigrant or ZM, what is it here? When you00:18:37
come, you will communicate with the locals. Those who have00:18:39
lived here for a long time also with the same people.00:18:40
immigrants from your countries, I guarantee00:18:42
you will find several people who00:18:44
will talk like that. And when you arrived,00:18:46
you will tell us like a month ago. Listen,00:18:50
son, live for three years, live for five years,00:18:52
ten years, then we’ll talk like now00:18:55
you still won’t understand, you don’t understand.00:18:57
You’re too little here. you live here,00:19:00
damn it, how it infuriates me, it just00:19:01
infuriated me from the first day, especially when00:19:04
all kinds of game are like experienced ones00:19:06
who live here for 10-20 years when00:19:08
they rub in you with fierce game, that is,00:19:10
absolute absolute nonsense, let’s say they00:19:13
rubbed me in like that there about credit cards, something00:19:15
that I later found out myself, which is not00:19:17
true about00:19:18
renting apartments there they tell me Oh, who are00:19:20
you and you have to live here for 5 years to be00:19:22
given an apartment there in such a00:19:24
normal residential complex Damn, I00:19:26
really want to say that it’s a spit00:19:27
in general all these words because00:19:29
so people are covering up their00:19:31
worthlessness and complete00:19:34
ignorance behind the screen of the fact that they00:19:36
live here more, which means they00:19:38
know more, you know, there’s nothing00:19:39
like that, a person can live here for 5000:19:41
years and still know nothing and00:19:43
don’t know at all how everything works here, so00:19:45
if suddenly you see something like this right away, let00:19:48
something click in your head, don’t listen to00:19:49
this person. Well, you can00:19:51
listen, but you always double-check00:19:52
something, do something. But here00:19:54
I’ve come across this all the time 6 years ago00:19:57
Now I talked to many people00:19:59
who came from Ukraine and they00:20:01
still face the same thing when they are00:20:03
not considered at all simply because oh,00:20:05
you don’t understand. You just arrived,00:20:06
live here for a little while, then00:20:09
we’ll talk further, otherwise now you won’t00:20:11
understand anything. Damn it’s complete nonsense, don’t listen to00:20:13
this and the most offensive thing is that, in my opinion, this is00:20:15
inherent precisely in immigrants from00:20:17
our region from such post-Soviet00:20:19
countries because I talked with migrants00:20:22
there from Turkey from Iceland from other00:20:26
European countries nowhere there is no such thing, everyone00:20:28
somehow supports themselves, somehow it’s00:20:29
just this type of oh I live here more, which00:20:31
means I’m cooler, so listen to me,00:20:33
I know more than you, only we have it,00:20:35
I don’t know why, but here’s a fact00:20:37
Be prepared for this work difficulties with00:20:41
work they will definitely guarantee I00:20:43
guarantee that every immigrant has a00:20:46
moment such that there is no work There is no income and00:20:49
you are about to owe a lot of00:20:51
money But in terms of housing there for food there00:20:53
even if you are a family there for all sorts of kindergartens00:20:55
there and what -you also have to buy clothes there,00:20:57
it will be really00:20:59
hard and you won’t have to work, you00:21:00
won’t know what to do, or there you00:21:02
will work at some standard00:21:04
immigrant job like moving there00:21:06
or delivering food there and there will be a moment00:21:08
when you you’ll want to give up everything, you’ll00:21:09
sit and think what the hell am00:21:12
I doing here? I don’t know here right now, I’m00:21:14
carrying furniture to some Americans. And00:21:16
although at home there was a lot00:21:20
worse, in what respects? But at least I00:21:23
was doing this there so that you will have00:21:26
such moments, I just guarantee you in00:21:27
short here to advise as I have already00:21:29
said many times in my videos only00:21:31
if you naturally did not come here with a00:21:33
million dollars, there are also such people, but00:21:34
such people also have problems with00:21:36
adaptation sometimes By the way they00:21:37
adapt even worse than those who00:21:39
come Well, with a conditional zero, what00:21:41
advice can I give you? Try not to00:21:43
delay the price of all these immigrant00:21:46
jobs, try to somehow quickly00:21:49
focus on some new area,00:21:51
and I mean focus00:21:53
because look at the observations If00:21:55
you weren’t born here If you don’t00:21:57
know the mentality here very well, then00:22:01
you are here. You can build a career, but it’s00:22:03
unlikely that you will reach some kind of super00:22:04
leadership positions. I know00:22:07
such examples, just enter the community.00:22:08
If you are an IT specialist, there you can achieve something00:22:10
specific to the mentality of00:22:12
programmers. there you can Others in00:22:14
some corporate environment conditionally00:22:16
I don’t know any bank there Well, it00:22:18
will be difficult without local00:22:20
education knowledge of the local culture that’s00:22:22
all, it will be difficult to get to the top00:22:24
to some super top positions you00:22:26
will earn normally, maybe00:22:27
something - such a lower management00:22:29
position will be okay, but most00:22:31
likely this will be your ceiling,00:22:33
focus on your Career only if you00:22:35
have some00:22:36
highly specialized knowledge.00:22:38
For example, if you are a programmer, the00:22:40
road is open, here you can grow and00:22:42
grow indefinitely, or if you are a doctor00:22:44
or if you are some kind of scientist, then there is00:22:46
something that requires a long period of00:22:48
training, the presence of special skills.00:22:49
Here you can build a brilliant00:22:52
career, the main thing is to have the language and such00:22:54
perseverance and00:22:55
determination. To do this for00:22:57
everyone else, if you do not00:22:58
meet these criteria, you need to00:23:00
think about in their business, the vast00:23:02
majority of emigrants who are much00:23:04
more successful than even local Americans, they are00:23:06
engaged in their own business in00:23:08
some way, no matter what it may be, you00:23:09
also want to shoot a video on YouTube,00:23:11
please And so I tell everyone who00:23:14
is coming to me they tell me I also want to start00:23:15
YouTube I give simple advice take00:23:17
copy my videos just shoot on the00:23:19
same topic you won’t be able to say exactly00:23:21
the same thing that I would pass through00:23:23
my filter it will be new content00:23:24
please do it I don’t mind at all00:23:26
If you like it if you’re good at it00:23:28
do it I can you00:23:29
guarantee on YouTube only on YouTube,00:23:31
even without any businesses that00:23:33
can be built around it, I can00:23:34
only say on YouTube you can make money and00:23:37
you can provide a life for yourself and your family a00:23:39
comfortable life in America Without problems00:23:41
The main thing is to just love it, do00:23:43
it for a long time because it doesn’t come00:23:45
right away not in the first year, not even in the second year,00:23:46
but it is possible, that’s why it’s very00:23:49
important to focus here, focus on a00:23:50
huge number of people, these are the guys00:23:52
I talk to, immigrants, who are00:23:53
engaged in different businesses,00:23:55
some in construction, some selling houses,00:23:57
some in renting out cars,00:24:00
repairing cars tuning00:24:01
cars, someone is building some kind of00:24:03
logistics companies there along trucks and00:24:05
so on, someone is opening00:24:07
beauty salons, someone is a flower shop, someone is00:24:08
organizing holidays, just00:24:10
understand, in America there is a huge market, there is a00:24:12
lot of money, but here you need to00:24:13
work, you need to do you need to be responsible for00:24:16
your words, fulfill your obligations00:24:17
and that’s all, the main thing is to focus, this is00:24:20
what I realized that I see many examples00:24:22
before the eyes of people who run from00:24:23
one sphere to another, here they have a00:24:25
little bit of a result, they are00:24:27
not satisfied that it too00:24:28
small they run to another sphere there are00:24:30
a little bit of results they are not00:24:31
satisfied they go to the third sphere So00:24:33
they run but the greatest results and00:24:36
the most stable results, according to my00:24:38
observation, are those emigrants who from the00:24:40
very beginning focus and hit one00:24:42
point and in the end then they have this,00:24:45
you know, like a geometric progression, like00:24:47
compound interest, this is how growth occurs.00:24:49
Think about this right in advance00:24:52
before you immigrate. I don’t00:24:53
know, there’s no need to think that I’ll get there, I’ll00:24:55
figure it out, I’ll go to a moving service, and little by00:24:56
little, or they’ll go cut the grass00:24:59
later. I’ll slowly figure it out What to do00:25:01
No, do it right now00:25:02
when you watch this video Think about00:25:04
what you want to do, start00:25:06
acquiring some skills, start00:25:08
understanding how you can get clients in00:25:10
these areas in these areas and start00:25:12
doing something Create there in a page on00:25:13
social networks, make a website if00:25:15
you look How much money will you need00:25:16
for advertising in order to get some of your first00:25:17
clients? Get involved Because00:25:19
when you come here, you will start working00:25:21
on a moving service or cutting grass, or I do00:25:22
n’t know, sit with other people’s children, you00:25:24
will have money to provide some00:25:26
level of Comfort to which you will quickly00:25:28
get used, but at the same time you will get hooked on it,00:25:30
you will not want to take risks and you00:25:32
will sit like in a swamp in the00:25:34
same area, this is very dangerous. I see a00:25:36
lot of such examples, so you00:25:38
better think about it right now, language none a video00:25:41
about immigration does not pass without memorizing the00:25:43
language, the language is important, it makes your life00:25:46
in America easier, especially in the first stages, it makes00:25:48
you more confident, but according to sociologists,00:25:50
it leads to further difficulties in00:25:53
adaptation because a person who00:25:55
knows English perfectly well In this00:25:57
case, he may have a false feeling00:25:58
that he adapts quickly and therefore it’s00:26:00
one thing when a person00:26:02
without a language comes here, starting here to learn it at the00:26:04
same time absorbing some culture’s00:26:06
peculiarities of mentality in the long00:26:08
term, he will be understood better by the00:26:09
locals than by a person who00:26:11
has completely learned the language outside of this culture, outside of this00:26:14
mentality, outside of some local00:26:15
slang characteristics and which, in00:26:18
theory, should be understood And when he00:26:19
encounters that he is not understood00:26:21
because the cultural barrier can lead00:26:23
to depression and this is often more difficult Learn00:26:26
the language but never do it in isolation00:26:28
from the culture, watch movies, TV series,00:26:29
listen to music, understand the context,00:26:31
watch bloggers in English,00:26:33
watch the Americans, what they do, how00:26:35
they speak, watch some American00:26:36
TV shows, reality shows, because00:26:38
it shows in real life how people00:26:40
really communicate and you can00:26:42
understand what text and not just learning00:26:45
the language. Stupidly, have this in mind I mean, well, the00:26:48
last thing I want to say about00:26:50
immigration is what you will most likely00:26:52
encounter, what a huge00:26:54
number of people face, is with a feeling of00:26:56
second-classness, it is probably much00:26:58
stronger in European countries with their own00:27:00
separate culture with their own language Wherever00:27:02
I don’t know there But if you are not German you you00:27:04
cannot become Germans If you are not00:27:05
French you cannot become French in00:27:07
America If you are Russian Ukrainian00:27:09
Kazakh Armenian You can become00:27:12
American but at the same time you00:27:14
will feel a feeling of second-classness and the00:27:17
older you are the stronger this feeling will be00:27:20
as I am afraid with this feeling00:27:22
for example It helps me a lot to study00:27:24
the contexts in which I am now.00:27:26
For example, I came to Los Angeles after00:27:28
living in Moscow in Los Angeles. Moscow00:27:31
is just two opposites00:27:32
because you are so different from each00:27:34
other. No, from Moscow everything is so00:27:36
central. That is, it flocks to the center in the00:27:39
center is the best thing here,00:27:41
in principle, there is no center here, there are00:27:43
no central areas.00:27:45
Everything here is chaotic, everything is different. And what00:27:47
helped me understand is to actually feel this00:27:49
city and not close yourself off, you know in your00:27:50
such a shell that oh Los Angeles00:27:53
And what in they found it in it, right there,00:27:55
homeless people, it’s dirty, everything is here, you have00:27:58
crazy people walking around in the center of the city instead00:28:00
of hiding in this. I decided00:28:01
to study, I started reading Orthodoxy, I read00:28:03
books about the history of Los Angeles, in00:28:05
general, I called my native films,00:28:06
documentaries, feature00:28:08
films about this city, I began00:28:10
to feel it little by little, I began to00:28:11
feel this, you know the urban fabric.00:28:13
I even know what I did recently, after00:28:15
6 years of living here, I walked from my00:28:18
area where they live from Glintail to Santa00:28:20
Monica, I walked on foot in 8 hours, being00:28:23
sure that Los Angeles is absolutely00:28:24
not a pedestrian city; it’s very difficult to be a pedestrian here.00:28:26
Well, how wrong I was.00:28:28
When I actually walked through the whole city00:28:30
on foot, I saw so many districts, so many00:28:32
interesting places that you00:28:34
just can’t see from a car, and it made me00:28:37
fall in love with this beautiful city again and00:28:39
Yes, there are problems here. Yes, there are homeless people. Yes, there00:28:41
are dirty areas. It’s all there,00:28:44
but there is. And a huge number of very00:28:46
cool places without which Los Angeles was00:28:48
not Los Angeles and that’s cool. That00:28:51
is, you study, look at history in00:28:53
this context in in which everything00:28:54
happens Where do you live I don’t know It00:28:56
even helped me I remember when I rented00:28:58
an apartment This is the first one here in00:29:00
Los Angeles, then I began to wonder00:29:03
what kind of house I live in there is some kind of00:29:04
story there I don’t know I lived on the00:29:05
street Figarovo intersection Figovo and I00:29:09
began to wonder, what is this, well,00:29:10
who are these Streets named after? Why do they have00:29:12
such a name? I started googling. I studied and00:29:14
little by little I began to adapt00:29:16
to understand. And this is how00:29:17
integration happens. So you stop00:29:19
feeling like a second-class citizen00:29:20
who is somehow here superfluous00:29:21
when you begin to understand where00:29:24
you are and this is very, very important,00:29:26
understand that everything I told you is all00:29:28
very typical for emigrants and most00:29:30
likely you will go through this. But despite00:29:32
all these difficulties, first of all, you00:29:34
now know what to do with them how, well,00:29:37
first of all, don’t be surprised that this is00:29:38
happening, you understand that this is normal,00:29:39
and how to solve certain problems,00:29:42
after all, having lived for more than 6 years, I am00:29:45
still convinced that America is00:29:47
for me personally the best country to live in. I am00:29:49
sure that I wouldn’t have even close to00:29:51
anything that I have here if00:29:54
I had stayed in Russia, and it’s not a fact00:29:56
that this is the path for you, but for those who are00:29:58
determined to take this step, I can00:30:01
only wish you good luck, you know that everyone has difficulties.00:30:03
There are no ideal paths and in in any case, you will encounter00:30:06
this, I usually like00:30:08
to think that all the problems that are00:30:10
given to me, they don’t give only when I00:30:13
can solve them, and keeping this in my head,00:30:15
I live on and somehow try00:30:18
to solve everything and it seems to be working out well, not without00:30:20
difficulties, not no ups or downs,00:30:22
but overall I'm happy and don't regret my00:30:25
choice I hope this video was00:30:27
useful to you Don't forget to subscribe to the00:30:28
channel Thank you so much for watching this00:30:30
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The best quality formats are FullHD (1080p), 2K (1440p), 4K (2160p) and 8K (4320p). The higher the resolution of your screen, the higher the video quality should be. However, there are other factors to consider: download speed, amount of free space, and device performance during playback.
Why does my computer freeze when loading a "Жалею, что свалил в Америку из России?" video?
The browser/computer should not freeze completely! If this happens, please report it with a link to the video. Sometimes videos cannot be downloaded directly in a suitable format, so we have added the ability to convert the file to the desired format. In some cases, this process may actively use computer resources.
How can I download "Жалею, что свалил в Америку из России?" video to my phone?
You can download a video to your smartphone using the website or the PWA application UDL Lite. It is also possible to send a download link via QR code using the UDL Helper extension.
How can I download an audio track (music) to MP3 "Жалею, что свалил в Америку из России?"?
The most convenient way is to use the UDL Client program, which supports converting video to MP3 format. In some cases, MP3 can also be downloaded through the UDL Helper extension.
How can I save a frame from a video "Жалею, что свалил в Америку из России?"?
This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.
What's the price of all this stuff?
It costs nothing. Our services are absolutely free for all users. There are no PRO subscriptions, no restrictions on the number or maximum length of downloaded videos.