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Антистресс
Спокойствие
Техники антистресса
Работа над состоянием
Внутреннее состояние
Альберт Сафин
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a person under stress, I'm like a fly
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hits the glass turning itself into dust
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she turns herself into dust it beats
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glass with your forehead, every cell of your
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his body is exactly the same as a man's
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under stress he looks like a fly
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which hits the glass senselessly
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persistently long and painful
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instead of
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expect a state within yourself
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peace of mind
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calmly fly away from this glass
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see an open window of opportunity and
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fly out smoothly in the best way here
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this is an important metaphor that will
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runs like a red thread through all this
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lesson and so my dear viewers I will help you
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hello you know every cell
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my body is filled with new feelings
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before recording this lesson, apparently something
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very important and serious starts
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happening right now exactly at that
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moment when you learn this lesson
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you start and maybe it’s their first time
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and at all and so
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a person who draws is like a fly that
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glass beats desperately, breaking itself
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your forehead into dust into meaningless dust
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breaking yourself instead of calmly
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fly back see the open window
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and fly out calmly you probably know
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that a person lives not in the real world but in
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the world of their ideas about it is about
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how to construct such
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ideas in your head so that later
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live them emotionally so that later
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they determined those events
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relationships that you
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reproduce and create in life
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physical but this is how it will go
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here about that and this metaphor will be red
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run like a thread through this entire lesson
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what techniques and tools of technology
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assignments may be useful for this
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man being such a fly
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fly off the glass
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calmed down
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see by relaxing your vision open
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the window and calmly fly into the world
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opportunities, so to speak, allow yourself
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this is what you see here on the screen first
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and secondly you can know me here
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watch people on the right who
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fixed in this state beating
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mukhin glass you can look at them
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let's walk through them
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they definitely won’t have to do anything superfluous
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these are the exercises that will be discussed
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to calm down at least a little
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to make it at least a little deeper
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inhale and exhale fly off at least a little
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from glass
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see the opportunities that are right there
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their feet and calmly fly out of joy
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the trap where they found themselves recently
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a large arsenal of tools awaits us
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which may be useful to solve
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wide range of tasks but first
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turn we will talk to you about
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working on your inner state
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you probably know something that person
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can create this question in your life
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what condition it is in
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basically you have nothing but yours
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state
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the world exists for you, the reality of you
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those around you for as long as you have been alive
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it is important to take into account your condition
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determines your perception
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and your perception is that world in
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where you live, this is important
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remember this is where we will talk about
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how to work on your inner
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condition
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so that as a consequence
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had a positive impact on how
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you perceive what is happening inside
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outside, which in turn will change
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structure flowing in Aries and within
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you events
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you know that as above so below
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no one canceled there is empty there is
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solid has not been canceled, kind of
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I invite you to perceive the feminine and masculine
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it's like a metaphor and also here if
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Albert sometimes likes to drown in words and
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the clang of iron can be heard from his lips here and there
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we will not be talking about an invasion of
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the outside world by the need to conquer it
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strength, namely how to work on
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your inner state first
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queue
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And so my dears
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this exciting moment we are with you
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let's start but first we will have a little
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introductory theoretical data is extremely
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it is important that you and I are in
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space of keys understandable to everyone
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words are true so first
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person unconsciously it is important
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On the one hand, of course, take this into account
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so everything that is written here you can
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take it as an axiom okay, I’m just kidding first
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turn all the hypotheses that can be
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really useful although I won't
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I'll be surprised if I find out that it's the one
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a lesson that could save a single one
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life, how many people are with you and head
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in the heat of the moment, losing control of ourselves
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I will come voluntarily and jump into the fiery
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well and drag along squeezed on others
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although it would be superfluous for me to fly away from
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glass like the fly we were talking about
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above calmly see the possibilities
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which are at your feet and not only and
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fly out calmly
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whoever can control himself controls
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you all know I remember such wisdom
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from distant ancient China which
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tomorrow comes that the commander enters
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in a battle won in advance when he
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conquered yourself within yourself and that's about it
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will also be discussed you can
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prepare your notes take notes
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everything can do some of the exercises
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will be especially useful for you
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some of them may be those that
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you can choose to come back a little later
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some of them you might think this
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interesting but that's not quite what it is
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suits me now
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time if even from 41 doses of which
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only one will be discussed here
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extract for yourself to stop
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bury yourself in your palm
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continuing to hate everyone then this will happen
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already victory you don't need
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use each of these techniques though
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just in case, I’ll tell you later
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I will touch on this topic every day
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include ran house numbers from 1 to 41 random
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this means the number is random
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order from 1 to 41 for example and let's say
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you will be numbered today 23 you are in it
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list open these tools
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open reception 23 and smoothly over
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days you practice it, I wonder what
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openings await you, I wonder what kind of random
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and the number will come out tomorrow
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there is no time for the unconscious
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this is also a little introductory data, how
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man lives now is predetermined by that
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what picture does he have in his head?
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the future that I once greedily absorbed
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from the mouths of the parents of significant others in that
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the time has appeared for ordinary people
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when writing appeared like this
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say against the backdrop of the development of life on earth
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development of life on our beautiful planet
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goes on for more than 3
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billions of years time appeared approximately
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100 thousand years ago and just imagine
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if more than 3 billion years is formed
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and our unconscious develops and we
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with you as representatives of the species
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human can be said here
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we are at the tip of this needle, but so here we are
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if practically
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personality although even more than 3 billion
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years against the backdrop of infinity is more
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faster than a moment like this if
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our unconscious is billions of years old
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to our conscious our time although
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what is consciousness? It's just
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conditioned reflex operator true to
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the person didn't think about it sometimes
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I want to consider myself something special, but
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nothing but so what I mean is for
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there is no more unconscious time
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happened already everything will happen and also
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here if you are working on your
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internal state then you are like this
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in this way you edit not only yours
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attitude towards the past but you are editing
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your future at the same time you can
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you have to be surprised now, albert v
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as if in a completely different language with us
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starts talking I always do this
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tongue spoken simply sometimes follows it
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pack in slightly different forms and so on
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there is no time for the unconscious when
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you are working on your condition you
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at the same time edit your
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attitude towards your today
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the past and the future seem to change
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the whole fabric of your life is here but deceit
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is that few people talk about it
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knows and you already know how stuffing it will be
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It’s impossible to turn back later
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when you will be the one who is the material
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You have already studied carefully, you are the one who
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studied it carefully and you are the one who
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didn't do this, these are two different people
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entering different states in different
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Tomorrow is true
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permanently illusory you are for sure
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you know the changes are a real person and that
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water that flows
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I wonder where to choose now for leaks
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and how and so it is important to take into account here from
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said above that for the unconscious
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and you can imagine yourself as an iceberg
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the pinnacle of which is your conscious
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mind so to speak, but unconsciously
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bottomless you are an iceberg going to never
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it's not from where like this for
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there is no more unconscious time
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happened exactly the same as in
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the functioning of family systems is very
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Even the dead have a great influence
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they've been grandparents for a long time, they're like
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are now communicating with each of the members
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family system
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as if exactly the same as now later
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many years of events you lived in
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childhood they still have on you
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influence I mean it when I say
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that there is no time for the unconscious
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the birds are singing outside the window, time is doing its thing
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work and that’s how you and I start
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do like this
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input data a person creates such
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unconsciously events look here
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person unconsciously
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creates such a relationship event
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what does it mean unconsciously he does not give
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report this to yourself
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if you write it out simple
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pencil your magic notebook
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life stories of people caught up in
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broken trough after regular
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unhappy marriages
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then for example this is hardly an example
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some of them will say that he did it on purpose
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I initially surrounded myself with such people
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so that later I’ll be deceived and throw it there
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other no each of them was sure
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then what is the best choice what is it
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this is really the best way
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now I'm truly happy
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but unconsciously a person does everything
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to experience familiar emotions
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confirm your habitual beliefs
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oneself, others and the world if a person is used to
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to be offended and as if he
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returned if in his beliefs I
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I'm nothing, I'm surrounded by bad people
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Amir this is a dangerous place even
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finding yourself in wonderland
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he will start looking for an opportunity to get to the bottom of
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at least to the sky because she is too
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low today
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a person does not live in the real world in the world
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their ideas are what
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reality so to speak he is around himself
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organizes this side effect and he
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hostage to what schemes of his representation
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he appears as if engraved on him
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it on the inner walls of the skull
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you know I remember this phrase now
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What
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human life is a theater whose roles
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it is written on the inner wall
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skull and under which he picks up for himself
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actors who make you happy to play roles
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and for whom he performs the most Tyrol
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you may be surprised to notice next time
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since people who talk to
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they are not talking to you at all
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they use you to talk to the system
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unfinished cycles in your head
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which make themselves felt again and again
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because for the unconscious there is no time
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this will be discussed today
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number
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loosen your grip
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let go
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exhale
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leave the cinema the film in which you
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don't like it even if you paid for it
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ticket
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come face to face with yourself in that
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number
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work on your inner state
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this will be discussed here and done
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it's easy
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the best way
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without forcing yourself without forcing yourself like that
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as if it’s happening on its own and just like that
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a person unconsciously creates such
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events relationships to live
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habitual emotions and confirm
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habitual beliefs about oneself about others and
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world
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you know, I remember this metaphor here
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imagine this as an example
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acceptable
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skateboarder who once again
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perform their trick while playing with their
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peers on the playground when he
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performs some trick and with his jump
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turns the skateboard under him
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with his feet whether he gives himself in this
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conscious report of course no no
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I need to lift my toes like this
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left leg two centimeters higher than three s
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half and a newton press with such force
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with your right heel lower, raise your right
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knee four and a half centimeters
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above no he does it
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performing as if in a dream his body itself
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carry out the necessary procedures, okay?
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that's how a person's life is here
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exactly the same trick just stretched out
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time
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the only thing you can do is
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your life influence this through your work
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over your condition
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no matter what smart words you say
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squeezed out they will mean nothing
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if there is no corresponding one behind them
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inner mood emotions you know
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you can provide a person with the smartest
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words but he will speak so ears
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will wither and
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some ordinary people may speak extremely
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modest but he will do it like this
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as if singing with the energy of life
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because the words appeared in an instant
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back
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emotions appeared a long time ago and
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maybe there’s something else I didn’t have time to do
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appear but will definitely appear anyway
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This is the first point in our introductory part
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what emotions then do I choose to train?
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in yourself and confirmation of which beliefs
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about myself about others and about the world I choose
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search and find
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I'm writing down this lesson, I'm training myself
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what emotion
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calm joy of smooth flow
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time
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calm trust in those born inside
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me in thoughts and image
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confirmation of what beliefs about yourself
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This is how I find others in the world
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please note you see me as
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I give an example of a moment that is
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no one canceled fractal, what does it mean?
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fractal here just like this
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how each element of the system stores
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information about the entire system as a whole and
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influencing one individual
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element we influence the entire system
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in general how you spend your morning is how you
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spend your whole life as an example
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and also here I will be as an example
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of one point or another to tighten up what
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happening right now
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confirmation of what beliefs and yourself
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I search for others and in the world and find what I
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I'm doing now I'm doing what I love
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I say out loud what resonates with me
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I'm surrounded by people for whom this is
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really useful and the world is a place
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friendly who gives me the opportunity
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reveal the abilities that exist in
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to me
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whether this is true or not, we don’t know the world
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none in many ways and in many ways he will
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rely on what you choose
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see and so this is point 1 and therefore our
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the task here is through those techniques about
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which will be discussed further work with
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with those emotions that you train
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there is a fly flying off the glass with these techniques
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will allow us to work on those
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beliefs that you confirm
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search and find others about yourself and the world
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as if smoothly evolving from minus
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positives a fly will rub about it
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flies off the glass
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this is 1 water
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the key part is moving on smoothly second
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you know you can represent the cycle in
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in which the person is located and he
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is three of a kind
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quality is our thoughts, emotions and events
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and again thought thought emotions and events
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thought thought emotions and events thought if
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a person at the level of thoughts and considers
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let's say that the world is a terrible place
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women are fools and men are goats and he will
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what emotions to smell based on these
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thoughts how you think you will feel
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lead so as to create
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relevant events and say later
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but I told you but I said that everything
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women are fools or all men are [ __ ] and but I
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My mother has been telling me about this since childhood
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I only told ours
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confirmation of what you can do about it well
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and besides, such a person and this is by the way
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will be one of the tools about which
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such a person will be discussed further
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usually surrounds himself with such married people
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what kind of night lights are they?
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smoothly pour from empty to empty
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from one mucous membrane to another, complaining about
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everyone, that is, here like to like
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this is important to consider people as a rule
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attracts similar traumas into your life
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injury to health to health that's how I am
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why what depending on what
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the thoughts in your head affect that
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what emotions do you experience and this affects
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directly for that
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what events and
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relationships you create
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I came up with a metaphor for emotion here
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this is how your body experiences your
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thoughts
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but the simplest example is if you
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look something sad and
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a work of art is a visual
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pixel on screen sounds and music
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the picture will be all this together
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it is simply not possible to give birth to the corresponding emotion
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we are aware of all our thoughts
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it may seem that thought is what
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is single layer but no idea they
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multi-layered are at different levels
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each of which performs its own
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program and emotion is a side effect
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thoughts that flow inside you
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events are a side effect of emotions in
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whom you are and who are you
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your body lives about this too
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the discussion will go on like this
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it turns out
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an emotion is a thought experienced by the body
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events are lived through time and
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space emotion you know I remember
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such a parable is life-affirming in many ways
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in which there are two twins
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monozygotic in general monozygotic
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communicate with each other one to another
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says look, you and I are already like this
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large ones, we won’t have enough space very soon
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there will be no place for us to be cramped here
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we are here and you and I will die here
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take it answers everything is fine we
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we'll be born very soon
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and eyes full of love from our mom and dad
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he will meet us and everything is fine, they are both
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born and lived and flourished is good
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history but this is how a common man was born
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still abides in the womb about this
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metaphor that is just like yours
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the body is the womb of cherry you for
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your thoughts also macro organism
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appears in your womb and for your
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emotions are just a matter of layers of which we
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we are in this metaphor
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I sometimes add in this metaphor a
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is there anything in this world
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except metaphors true
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as if a person wields one or another
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metaphors of one kind or another to
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at least make some peace for yourself
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around you has ceased to be a little more understandable
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feel horror really like this if these
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metaphors and models allow us to be
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a kind of shield on one side
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external chaos on the other hand and
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filters and lenses to work on this
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chaos and tools then why not
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it might not be like that someday
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the word from which we appeared appeared
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we have emotions and events we ourselves think about
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tion of the event thought where I can interrupt
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this cycle and influence it in
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first of all through thought they
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they are lightning fast on them for me
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there is control when I know about it like this
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just like your breathing
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breathing is a process that occurs with
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on the one hand, in your own way
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don’t track it every moment
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the time you breathe as if you were yours
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the body breathes on its own, but when you
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fix your attention on this you can
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control your breathing and also
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here, as a rule, it is not the person who thinks his own
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thoughts about his thoughts think of themselves as him and he
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just dangles on the tip of their tongue and
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also here but when you know that you
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you can influence your thoughts, you can influence them
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you can influence and this will be discussed
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and when you influence these thoughts you are so
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influence your emotions and
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influencing your thoughts and emotions
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you as a consequence it will be inevitable
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influence events that
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you are surrounded by relationships
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corresponding ideas will be born
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I would say that
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so from here and we salita live and and
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by perceiving the event as I choose
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extract myself from this cycle as best I can
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influence your thoughts which
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create emotions that create events
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I'm really glad to be here recording this
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lesson for me it is an honor and joy to be
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really useful
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I'm useful
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I thought this thought and created it
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corresponding emotions of calm and
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joy
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of course I understand how large-scale and
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this lesson will be long but what
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no time difference
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doing the best in this matter
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which I do easily and joyfully with
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I enjoy relaxing at the same time
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also with joy and in the best possible way
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see I'm now showing how thoughts
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affect the emotions I felt
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emotionally to the above so I
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as I said above
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we don’t know, but having said these meanings above, I
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I expect the corresponding emotions in myself and
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as a side effect relevant
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events in the form that this lesson you
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you can study at a time convenient for you
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extract for him valuable knowledge that
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may be useful to you and
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exercise I will feel joy
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I know about it
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thought emotion events thought thought emotion
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events think it is important to consider what
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thoughts you choose to create on which ones
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hold attention and so this is very
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important and 2 in the water sense on which we
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we will rely on you, I would even say
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three first person under stress is similar
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a fly that hits someone's cell and
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smashes his forehead into dust
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instead of calming down and flying away
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and see the open window and calmly
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fly out
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further what a person unconsciously creates
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such events so that again and again
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experience habitual emotions confirm
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your beliefs habitual yourself others and
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the world and beyond that a person is his
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kind of hostage to this cycle we salt
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ation of events so on again and again but
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when ordinary people know about it, he can
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influence this cycle through your
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thoughts
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let's look at photos of people
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whom you see on the right are they really like that
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rhinestones comfort for the first time in my life but
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of course not kinda they can
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create such relationship events
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in your life so that these again and again
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experience emotions
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it's like photographs that you can
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speculate are graphic
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material that enriches our lesson and so
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it turns out that for the first time there will be a line
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it's about how to influence our
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thoughts
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in order to, as a result, influence
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our emotions and the events we create
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on this note we end this song
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introductory part but without this introductory part
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everything that will be discussed next will be
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this is completely incomprehensible
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necessary if necessary you can
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listen to the introductory part again and again and
00:27:43
you can come back to it again
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do your research
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research into how people
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around them they pronounce into themselves the usual
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your reality that as a rule a person
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so as not to tell someone else, he says it
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to me another he utters it to himself
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Well, for example, the average person finds himself in
00:28:05
the store exhales with anger but why
00:28:08
these cookies have become so expensive that he
00:28:12
utters to himself so I don't
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capable of creating well-being in one's own
00:28:17
people in my life are hostile and
00:28:20
even the cookies tell me that I am theirs
00:28:23
for example the one on one side is the person
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can tell you if you are together
00:28:28
there were 24 of them in line for these products
00:28:31
but the most important thing is that he didn’t tell you that, he
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there he spoke to himself but if you are near
00:28:36
you stand with him, you yourself through his lips in
00:28:38
say to enter into yourself as a product of something
00:28:40
you are no time you know here
00:28:44
such an interesting moment that there is such a thing
00:28:47
optical illusion what when you see
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in front of a person whose face
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cut with wrinkles and we are not the first
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a dozen can be formed like this
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the illusion that he has some brains
00:28:57
but remember, over the years the brains themselves do not
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come brains wisdom of a kind
00:29:02
the ability to think is what is needed
00:29:05
sometimes chew with bare teeth
00:29:07
granite but nothing
00:29:11
I said above that it is possible
00:29:13
train your ability to observe
00:29:15
what people around say to themselves
00:29:17
life becomes more interesting when you
00:29:20
you stop believing words as a rule
00:29:24
they don't believe in words
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controls those who believe in words
00:29:28
it means not to believe in words it means not
00:29:31
roll away with them pay attention to that
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that a person speaks to himself
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reprimands isn't it a miracle when you
00:29:40
additional eyes smoothly open
00:29:42
so you can see when you look and hear
00:29:45
when you dry it
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We have a bit of a magical atmosphere
00:29:50
Is it really possible without magic?
00:29:52
make this kind of knowledge known
00:29:56
something like this is needed
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something that
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same there behind the blanket and so my dears
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we will smoothly continue what we have for
00:30:08
we have introductory notes behind us
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data based on which I will further
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show you the techniques that will go
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speech
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in addition you can see on the right
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people these are not people these are all flies that
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hitting the glass
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that is, you and I will now rely
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to the metaphors introduced above you see with
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right
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uh who hit the glass breaking about
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glass your loba
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ok I will sometimes ask how you are
00:30:40
do you think this person will do this?
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exercise would help him relax
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at least a little bit, that is, fly away from
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glass at least a little at least
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a little inner peace in yourself
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develop and you will be surprised that you have a thought
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will be born itself yes
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but remember the important topic, don’t change it
00:31:01
other people's doors of positive change
00:31:04
this is what opens from the inside you don't
00:31:07
you can force another person
00:31:08
stop suffering
00:31:10
it's a choice and let a person have it once
00:31:14
the ability to choose suffering
00:31:17
take this opportunity away from him and also
00:31:19
here are these guys in the photos on the right
00:31:23
which you look which is brilliant
00:31:25
played on the corresponding photo shoot
00:31:27
to provide us with this visual
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stuff let's say hello to them
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let's imagine what it is
00:31:34
like real people
00:31:35
remember man creates such events
00:31:39
relationships to live
00:31:40
habitual emotions and confirm your
00:31:43
habitual beliefs of oneself, others, and the world
00:31:45
what emotions do you choose to develop?
00:31:48
first second confirmation of what
00:31:51
beliefs and yourself, others and to the extent
00:31:53
you choose to search and find
00:31:55
whoever searches will always find a way under
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walking steps
00:32:00
the poor get poorer the rich get richer according to you
00:32:03
faith you will know even some
00:32:05
phrases written recently themselves give birth
00:32:08
myself through my lips now when we're doing this
00:32:10
the topic was touched upon
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so
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let's imagine that a person is
00:32:18
I won't talk about you, I know that you already
00:32:20
Nestor suite a long time ago just in case
00:32:23
techniques may be useful for you, I will
00:32:25
let's imagine a person who
00:32:27
the glass is beating like a fly
00:32:29
Let's imagine a man who hits a fly
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and glass Happy New Year, by the way, like this
00:32:35
Let's imagine a man who is fighting
00:32:38
fly and glass and imagine that he
00:32:41
does what is written in point 1
00:32:48
snaps his fingers and says to himself now
00:32:50
time my uniqueness is interesting in what
00:32:53
lies my uniqueness
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well I can create very long ones
00:32:58
educational materials full of meaning I can
00:33:02
I can organize the process so that I can install it
00:33:04
do the most joyful technical
00:33:06
I close the side because I need it
00:33:08
Interesting
00:33:09
I allow myself the luxury of inventing it myself
00:33:12
the world in which I live and do not interfere
00:33:15
I wonder what mine will be like
00:33:17
a step in this direction that can
00:33:19
do taking into account what was said above I have
00:33:22
I have an idea to make an interesting cycle
00:33:24
documentary educational programs
00:33:26
shoes tourists in relationships why not
00:33:29
no, great idea, but it gives birth to itself
00:33:33
flew away from the glass I flew away from the glass I
00:33:37
I will say to myself from the glass
00:33:39
flew away, why are you silent, I flew away from
00:33:42
you see even the motorcyclist demands glass
00:33:46
the need to rev up the gas louder
00:33:48
so you can hear I flew off the glass
00:33:52
flew off it turns out you see and it’s yours
00:33:55
attention attention is the most valuable thing
00:33:58
you exist if you give your attention
00:34:01
you are immediately under the control of other people
00:34:04
you disappear you repaint it's okay to be human
00:34:07
and you become just a side effect
00:34:10
external influences affecting you and
00:34:14
also here a man is hit by a fly
00:34:17
the glass sees the number 1, my time
00:34:20
uniqueness the time of my uniqueness in
00:34:22
what makes me unique and
00:34:24
The tasks here are to formulate the first
00:34:27
meanings that come to mind like me
00:34:30
said above simple heavy long
00:34:33
educational materials about technical
00:34:36
side I like to do myself about what
00:34:39
It’s important for me to get to the point and
00:34:41
understand what I'm talking about with pictures
00:34:43
illustrations and then what it will be like
00:34:46
my step in this direction which is in
00:34:48
in the near future I choose to do it higher
00:34:51
said about an idea that I’m slowly nurturing
00:34:54
I don’t force myself to give birth either by her force
00:34:56
pushing when she becomes such a moment
00:34:58
the fruit will fall from the tree itself, our task is to
00:35:01
catch this technique 1 is called
00:35:05
time of my uniqueness
00:35:07
change your focus
00:35:10
negative component to positive
00:35:13
what makes me unique
00:35:15
what I'm damn good at
00:35:19
if a fly thinks about what it is wearing
00:35:21
damn good and what is it
00:35:24
her uniqueness will be difficult to beat
00:35:25
glass she will be surprised that she smoothly from
00:35:28
it flies off, then some of the techniques will be
00:35:32
dedicated to working on your thoughts
00:35:34
part over your emotions part over
00:35:38
work on your body and pay attention
00:35:41
attention although not here and numbered and
00:35:43
we will have 41 receptions they have no hierarchy
00:35:46
there is nothing internal like the first appointment
00:35:48
more important than 38 maybe some
00:35:51
of which are more for you
00:35:53
will do about something in less that is important
00:35:55
take into account the second shift the focus of attention
00:35:58
from the negative, that is, this glass
00:36:01
which fly beats what is that positive
00:36:04
thought such a measure is beautiful and cozy
00:36:08
place and everyone wants me with all their hearts
00:36:10
it’s interesting to please what’s already good
00:36:13
what's happening in my life
00:36:15
thankful
00:36:17
the world is a beautiful and good place and
00:36:20
everyone wants to please me with all their hearts
00:36:24
Isn't it a miracle I'm in my
00:36:27
business center when I pass along the corridor
00:36:29
I can see the cleaning lady who
00:36:31
love does its job for me
00:36:34
there is an opportunity to get a phone and
00:36:36
order food for example which with love
00:36:39
and taking care of me they will bring it to the indicated
00:36:42
place
00:36:43
Isn't this a miracle now I hear on the left
00:36:45
with your ear and right, including how
00:36:49
The street outside the window is being cleaned, judging by
00:36:51
they're starting to cut the grass a little bit
00:36:54
that is, it turns out the people around me
00:36:58
they are looking for opportunities to please me like this
00:37:01
is it true or not, who cares
00:37:03
knows the only question is how you choose
00:37:06
this is to be perceived therefore if here
00:37:09
let's see his girlfriend on the right here she is
00:37:12
sausage beats she fly and glass and then
00:37:15
then she starts to think what if
00:37:18
the world is a wonderful place where I am everything
00:37:21
they want to please and remember who in
00:37:24
this world makes you happy that good
00:37:27
what's going on in your life
00:37:29
grateful from the bottom of my heart and
00:37:32
you know this is such an important topic if
00:37:35
if you think about it once then maybe
00:37:37
be on the old emotion of this thought and
00:37:40
will wash away without even noticing the task
00:37:43
is this in regards
00:37:45
each technique is four minutes
00:37:49
hold your thoughts to completion
00:37:52
reception is an important component by the way and
00:37:55
also here the world is a wonderful place I
00:37:57
I'm glad that people make me happy with whom I
00:37:59
have to interact with joy
00:38:01
and pleasure
00:38:03
that's what else good is happening in my
00:38:06
life for which I am grateful with all my heart
00:38:08
that is, the task is to
00:38:11
keep your focus on this
00:38:14
thoughts 4 minutes you can for this
00:38:16
set the alarm clock I'm here now
00:38:19
I really thought about this idea
00:38:21
I'm glad it's an honor to work as a rule
00:38:24
with smart outstanding capable nimble
00:38:27
fast beautiful and healthy
00:38:28
happy people who strive
00:38:31
please me with your achievements and
00:38:33
successes
00:38:35
I originally
00:38:37
I decided for myself this way and
00:38:40
couples expect the fabric of reality around you
00:38:43
you sort of compact this one
00:38:46
the thought grabs hold of it and you sow in
00:38:50
yourself with emotions clearly and so for four minutes
00:38:54
means really why about 4 minutes
00:38:58
what if you keep your focus
00:39:00
4 minutes on this thought at least for you
00:39:03
it will be difficult
00:39:05
the fly and the glass continue to fight
00:39:07
you'll really start thinking about that
00:39:09
still good good things going on in my
00:39:12
life and for which I am grateful with all my heart and
00:39:15
people want to please me Amir this
00:39:18
a safe place that surrounds me
00:39:22
yes, so let's move on to point 3
00:39:29
if some situation is problematic
00:39:31
character is standing right in front of you
00:39:33
eyes and makes you think about yourself
00:39:36
it is very important to change your attitude towards
00:39:39
in this situation because your relationship
00:39:41
determines your position
00:39:44
a person does not live in specific events
00:39:47
they are from an objective point of view to him
00:39:49
unknown man lives in the structure of his
00:39:52
relations
00:39:54
to yourself and to others, to anything and
00:39:57
also here so that it doesn’t happen
00:40:00
what an interesting task in front of me
00:40:02
I stand easily and well with her
00:40:05
coped
00:40:06
looking back an hour you can remember with
00:40:10
what changes in a person's life
00:40:13
he faces he may turn out to be
00:40:15
crushed
00:40:16
them or may decide to change to them
00:40:18
the relationship must be so interesting
00:40:21
the task is before me now and I
00:40:24
I dealt with it easily, how did I do it?
00:40:27
did that is the topic is not that
00:40:30
to create solutions with false thoughts
00:40:33
and rejoice at them, and the point is
00:40:36
so that first with light thoughts
00:40:38
create an emotion as if you are already with it
00:40:41
coped and thus you create
00:40:44
the form in which the corresponding thoughts
00:40:47
will begin to arrive smoothly
00:40:48
with a serious face you will only
00:40:52
make your situation worse, remember this
00:40:55
lightness should be so playful
00:40:57
state to be you child first
00:41:00
touching, so trusting and cheerful
00:41:03
so that the gates of heaven open before you
00:41:06
so to speak, we also start with metaphors
00:41:08
here to be scattered stay for at least 10
00:41:11
a little bit and also here we need some
00:41:14
funny interesting problem in front of me
00:41:17
it’s interesting, but I’m already with her
00:41:20
managed to at least understand and not go how
00:41:22
you did it but who cares it's you
00:41:25
you have no idea now but very soon
00:41:27
you will know perfectly well how you are doing with this
00:41:29
coped
00:41:31
I dealt with it easily and that's it
00:41:34
great I'm so good what's wrong with this
00:41:37
coped with that, that’s the question also in four
00:41:40
for minutes, keep your focus on what
00:41:42
you have already completed this task
00:41:45
because there is nothing to call very heavy
00:41:48
complex problem with sour facial expression
00:41:50
you might think how interesting
00:41:52
exciting task before me now
00:41:55
it's interesting that this is happening
00:41:59
on even see before structuring
00:42:01
your attitude starts to smell
00:42:03
you can say it differently here
00:42:05
then turn to the past present and
00:42:08
I understand the future I thank you I
00:42:11
I accept you
00:42:14
whatever it is, what's the point here?
00:42:18
to run away from him from the past, she’s already
00:42:20
what's the point of running away from
00:42:23
of the present it is already happening what
00:42:26
there's no point in running away from the future
00:42:28
happened and may be different
00:42:31
perceive these phenomena although time
00:42:34
you and not you at all so past present
00:42:37
future as your children as yours
00:42:40
allies
00:42:41
as your support so to speak as yours
00:42:45
the tools are even here like this
00:42:47
said if you can change your attitude towards
00:42:51
past to present in this way
00:42:53
influencing the future then why not
00:42:54
I don't do this
00:42:57
thank you I accept you as mine
00:43:00
dear past you think I
00:43:03
thank you and I accept you as mine
00:43:07
dear real think you I
00:43:11
thank you I accept you as mine
00:43:15
dear future you think
00:43:18
you relax this way
00:43:21
gain peace of mind and trust
00:43:25
thus the fly flies away from the glass
00:43:28
of course when a fly breaks the glass when
00:43:32
she blames the past and hates the present
00:43:35
and swears at the future then the fly hits
00:43:38
from glass act act act act act act
00:43:42
if you accept and thank and
00:43:45
past and present and future you can
00:43:49
also 4 minutes at a time to give birth to images
00:43:53
that come to you when you think
00:43:56
about the past to give birth to images that
00:43:59
come to you when you think about
00:44:02
the present also about the future and whatever
00:44:06
the image did not come to me calmly
00:44:09
accept
00:44:10
you can add more phrases like this here
00:44:13
when I see you I let you go
00:44:17
you can accept something with gratitude
00:44:20
you can just see something and
00:44:23
let off
00:44:25
to free yourself in this way from
00:44:29
weights and gravity that is already on your shoulders
00:44:33
freezes out for decades
00:44:36
fabric and
00:44:40
how to perform this technique to give birth
00:44:43
images of the imagination associated with your
00:44:46
past present future and refer to
00:44:49
each of these living beings has a past
00:44:51
you can perceive the present future
00:44:53
like living beings
00:44:55
what do you see it, let it go
00:45:00
if this something gives rise to negative if
00:45:04
something positive neutral you are
00:45:06
see this accept and thank
00:45:12
what other formulations could there be?
00:45:14
are appropriate and what conclusion and lesson to choose from
00:45:17
extract this
00:45:20
fifth appointment I give myself permission to refuse
00:45:23
because I don’t want, I allow myself
00:45:26
voice what I want
00:45:29
look, look at the young man
00:45:32
the person whose right you are observing
00:45:35
it feels like he's forcing himself
00:45:37
swallow and chew what he hates and
00:45:40
is silent about what he wants, so he brought it
00:45:43
yourself before this situation of a fly which
00:45:45
glass breaks really
00:45:47
it's like thinking too which 4 minutes you
00:45:50
you may think I give myself permission to refuse
00:45:53
because I don’t want, I allow myself
00:45:56
make known voice what I am
00:45:59
I want and
00:46:01
what is my first step in this?
00:46:04
direction
00:46:05
when you allow yourself to do so
00:46:08
6 acceptance time
00:46:11
time to take the fly breaks the glass why
00:46:15
because she wants something now
00:46:18
it was different, something had to be
00:46:20
necessarily otherwise it shouldn't be here
00:46:23
I have to break through the glass with my forehead
00:46:26
although it’s hard to imagine how the fly will be
00:46:28
break through any glass it's true
00:46:30
It’s unlikely she’ll succeed considering that
00:46:33
what is her weight but so she’s aspiring
00:46:36
to zero so to speak and she needs to accept
00:46:39
there is a fly there is I there is a flow in front of me
00:46:43
like a barrier I accept that I am a fly
00:46:47
I accept that there is glass in front of me and here I am
00:46:50
precisely with acceptance of what is happening
00:46:52
now in the present and begins from
00:46:58
years ago I couldn’t accept what was happening
00:47:01
I hope this ends very soon
00:47:04
this will never end let her accept it
00:47:07
also the sooner you do it the
00:47:09
it will be easier for you to save yourself
00:47:12
hope never ends
00:47:15
very soon something will end man
00:47:17
doomed to flow and rust from the inside
00:47:20
it won't end and there's a fly here too
00:47:24
I think I accept this glass myself no
00:47:28
where I can go and what kind of place I am there
00:47:32
thoughts didn’t race, warmth didn’t go anywhere
00:47:34
my task of creating a state will disappear
00:47:37
to fly to another place after flying away
00:47:40
see the opportunities that are in front of me
00:47:43
eat and use the open window and
00:47:45
also here I accept everything
00:47:49
it's happening in my life it's already happening
00:47:51
this is already happening so I
00:47:53
I accept how interesting it will be mine
00:47:56
next step
00:47:57
you definitely create emotions with your thoughts
00:48:01
emotions you create an event and of course
00:48:05
connecting this into what an interesting step
00:48:08
you choose to do in this direction
00:48:14
then write yourself a letter in advance
00:48:17
support starting with the words dear
00:48:20
call yourself by name, I know that you are
00:48:23
now you'll be a little chicken, but know that you
00:48:26
great guy, great guy, smart guy
00:48:29
and beautiful happy healthy and in general
00:48:31
your head is full of [ __ ] like this so as not to
00:48:34
happened
00:48:35
know you have I tell you to yourself
00:48:39
you know this story about writing
00:48:42
to myself in advance the letter reminds me
00:48:44
Odessa effect
00:48:46
when Odysseus tied himself in advance to
00:48:49
the mast with ropes and covered it up so as not to
00:48:53
to be seduced by the song of the sirens and also
00:48:56
here you can lay down straw in advance
00:48:59
where there is a chance of you falling
00:49:02
you can formulate in advance
00:49:04
yourself a letter of support so that later
00:49:07
lean on him in stressful moments
00:49:10
take it you can do it beautifully
00:49:13
having completed adding there some important
00:49:15
you values ​​and meanings that can
00:49:18
warm when they can blow
00:49:20
cold winds
00:49:24
8 if me and the virus got stuck in my head
00:49:28
then you can turn to this thought and
00:49:30
say so what so what and so four
00:49:34
minutes, although most likely much less
00:49:37
you will need time for this
00:49:39
the thought of itself will gradually disappear and go away
00:49:42
what and what is the floor what length is the lesson not
00:49:47
need to write down so what am I
00:49:49
resting my favorite department I feel good
00:49:52
it turns out we begin to see and that is
00:49:55
if there is any thought like this he is on me
00:49:57
I looked at the way she looked at me
00:50:00
what was it that was said downgrade
00:50:03
see this importance, lower this
00:50:05
great significance if something happens
00:50:08
super important for you, what's the point?
00:50:11
how much
00:50:13
terrible tragedies happened
00:50:17
traffic accidents due to
00:50:19
need to prove something to someone
00:50:22
how much domestic violence is due to
00:50:24
need to prove something to someone
00:50:26
how many troubles have happened, blood from tears on
00:50:31
history of human life and unfortunately
00:50:33
will be
00:50:35
because someone needs something
00:50:37
prove because you were hooked if not
00:50:41
hook them up with water, so what, so what?
00:50:46
what so what so what
00:50:50
four minutes regarding the thought that
00:50:53
you were caught up in the events of the situation, so what?
00:50:56
so what so what
00:51:00
9 my memories come up suddenly
00:51:04
just because the memory matches
00:51:07
a memory of my life today
00:51:10
pop-ups are not with one
00:51:12
the side is a reflection and on the other side
00:51:14
with the spotlight of my present I change
00:51:18
my attitude towards those who come to me
00:51:20
memories and this way I change
00:51:23
life if a memory comes to me
00:51:26
I accept you, I thank you, and even then
00:51:29
is there if then with what you choose
00:51:32
say goodbye I see you I let you go
00:51:35
I live on in the best possible way 4
00:51:39
thoughts regarding I 4 minutes regarding
00:51:44
of a nascent memory, then here's an important one
00:51:46
you'll catch the idea, that is, look
00:51:49
the way a person lives now is a by-product
00:51:52
the effect of coming to his head
00:51:54
memories precisely because they are like that
00:51:57
they come to him so now and you live from
00:52:01
you can't escape them, but you can
00:52:03
work on work on editing
00:52:06
your attitude towards them
00:52:10
do an experiment
00:52:12
that is, you can even write it down
00:52:14
use this memory to
00:52:18
I got this sense from this and
00:52:21
the events of that I choose to extract this
00:52:25
it provides value to me and
00:52:28
that's how I calmly accept it
00:52:30
thank you for this or do I let it go smoothly
00:52:34
and move on
00:52:37
here is a lesson from this for myself
00:52:40
taking when the teacher has everything
00:52:45
10 do push-ups take a shower
00:52:48
washing up, training in the gym, that is
00:52:50
shift attention through the physical
00:52:53
activity
00:52:54
this might be useful
00:52:57
let's say if you fell like this man
00:52:59
on the right you see kind of fell into a certain
00:53:02
numbness of stress and but so buddy you
00:53:07
you can do one of nine tricks about
00:53:09
which were discussed above and then wash your face
00:53:11
cold water this way exactly
00:53:14
you can switch your attention on this day
00:53:16
go to the gym in the evening and work out
00:53:18
perform physical exercises in such
00:53:21
so you will inevitably switch
00:53:23
your attention from a stressful state
00:53:27
to some positive through physical
00:53:29
activity
00:53:30
and then you can do it
00:53:31
prevention and
00:53:33
exercise regularly
00:53:35
activity and you will notice
00:53:37
How much does the body control thought?
00:53:43
when I forbid myself something
00:53:47
many people love something for themselves
00:53:50
prohibit while they have
00:53:52
opportunity to do this for how long
00:53:54
people who are smart
00:53:55
specialists but themselves voluntarily
00:53:57
forbid themselves from making themselves known
00:54:00
develop your personal brand and somehow
00:54:02
advance additionally but on your own
00:54:04
sphere of professionalism because they
00:54:08
they are afraid of external condemnation that
00:54:10
may not work on the first try and
00:54:12
other things I allow I can because I
00:54:16
favorite son of god
00:54:18
here instead of God if necessary you
00:54:21
you can put in whatever you want
00:54:23
most suitable according to your
00:54:25
traditions
00:54:26
you can put space instead of god here
00:54:30
the universe of wisdom of the life of the universe here
00:54:34
this is a very important topic because everyone
00:54:36
the person is your child who is so
00:54:38
you need to know what he always has
00:54:40
support on which to lean
00:54:43
these could be real parents images
00:54:46
parents it could be all parents
00:54:49
which we have behind us and can
00:54:51
be something so magical
00:54:53
you choose to make yours your support
00:54:56
of course I do the best
00:54:57
lessons are being created that I
00:55:01
I work because I know that I am driven
00:55:04
with a magic hand the universe of wisdom and
00:55:07
crazy
00:55:08
is it true or not true yes
00:55:11
what's the difference the question is
00:55:13
that first of all there really isn’t any
00:55:16
secondly, what exactly are these questions?
00:55:18
internal state we are working with you
00:55:21
over the internal state now
00:55:23
what words will you use your inner
00:55:26
the state of including what is desired is generally
00:55:29
secondary and
00:55:31
so of course I can, I give myself permission
00:55:35
because I am God's favorite son
00:55:38
it's wonderful and
00:55:41
you too
00:55:43
Of course you can change son for daughter
00:55:45
although I won't force you to do it
00:55:47
but as usual we joke and so 12 I
00:55:50
I give myself permission to make my
00:55:52
interest my sympathy my love for others
00:55:55
people without asking anything in return
00:55:59
you know, I’m remembering Eric’s book now
00:56:03
Berna
00:56:05
people who play games where there are
00:56:09
such a paragraph that thousands and thousands of lonely
00:56:13
grandmothers sit in their rooms and think about it
00:56:17
how they would like to have him in their life
00:56:19
someone they would like to take care of
00:56:22
and there could be thousands and thousands of lonely
00:56:25
grandfathers sit alone in their lonely
00:56:28
little rooms and thinking about how great it would be
00:56:31
if we were she would have someone who would
00:56:33
wanted to take care of them and even if these
00:56:36
lonely grandparents will meet
00:56:39
eye to eye, being nearby, none of them
00:56:43
won't find the courage to do them
00:56:45
it is known and even if one side
00:56:48
will find it, the other will not find it in herself
00:56:50
courage to accept it and so they do
00:56:54
remain
00:56:55
each locked in their own test tubes counting
00:56:59
that the test tubes are closed
00:57:02
while there isn't even a lid, but
00:57:04
It's been a long time since they jumped out of this cage
00:57:07
and I don't want to
00:57:09
this is also a very important point
00:57:12
make known not only your feelings
00:57:15
and desires, needs, but also in general one’s own
00:57:17
also has a relationship with other people
00:57:20
important and please note
00:57:22
here asking nothing in return
00:57:25
Truth
00:57:27
let's look at this young one
00:57:29
the man on the right and the girl on the right
00:57:31
I wonder if they'll think about it
00:57:33
direction then being flies stuck
00:57:36
they will begin to smoothly fly off towards the glass
00:57:38
I think yes, this is such a shift right away
00:57:42
focus on something like that
00:57:45
good I invite you for four minutes
00:57:48
think in the direction of this thought and then
00:57:51
decide for yourself what is the next step in this
00:57:53
the direction you choose to do
00:57:57
point 13 remember a positive moment in
00:58:01
give birth to emotion in your life and breathe it
00:58:04
emotions
00:58:05
this is a very important point
00:58:07
you know in many ways a person is
00:58:10
the totality of his memories and if it
00:58:13
so try it with this
00:58:16
argue though I allow you to count
00:58:19
as you see fit my task
00:58:22
do not convince anyone of anything
00:58:24
and create such conditions that a person
00:58:26
Having tried something on himself, he is surprised at how
00:58:29
it might be useful for him like this
00:58:32
Here a person is the totality of him
00:58:34
memories and
00:58:36
if this is so and this is so then in totality
00:58:39
what specific memories do you choose?
00:58:41
you be it's great and wonderful
00:58:45
remember something good
00:58:47
happened in your life at least
00:58:50
at least one significant important
00:58:53
for you victory you can remember you
00:58:56
you can remember her, she will give birth
00:58:58
emotion you can close your eyes and you
00:59:01
4 minutes is enough, that's enough
00:59:04
breathe this emotion
00:59:07
for example, if this is our girl
00:59:10
on the right which you are watching remember
00:59:12
at least something good happened in her
00:59:15
life maybe she will remember hers
00:59:18
victories when she played sports
00:59:21
for example, when it finally turns out that
00:59:24
it didn't work before, here I am now
00:59:27
I remember when I was practicing drums
00:59:30
finally reached such a level that I started
00:59:34
play in click well that is to play with
00:59:38
metronome in a click clearly and accurately and this
00:59:42
you know how much it costs to start playing
00:59:46
click when time ripples so much
00:59:49
is lived by the body, I am sure that
00:59:52
coordination is entirely subject to pulsation
00:59:55
the whole organism that plays screaming
00:59:57
drummer you can watch him on
01:00:01
headphones usually stays in
01:00:03
headphones playing metronome here here here
01:00:07
here here here
01:00:10
here thousand that is, the task of the clique is
01:00:14
is that the feeling is time
01:00:16
subjectively he may have drank coffee
01:00:20
maybe I got excited before that
01:00:22
additionally, the sense of time can
01:00:25
change but the challenge is that
01:00:27
no matter what your sense of time is
01:00:30
your perception is the guideline
01:00:34
metronome click according to which
01:00:37
you have to play your part
01:00:40
with his ensemble
01:00:42
so this is a big victory for me
01:00:45
when I finally started playing click it
01:00:49
it took me three years I think
01:00:51
regular almost daily
01:00:54
many hours
01:00:55
performing training exercises
01:00:56
rehearsals for working with the cops and
01:01:00
of course it's joyful
01:01:02
unless something in life seems to me
01:01:05
now difficult against the backdrop of the fact that
01:01:08
I secured victory for myself, it was important
01:01:11
moment then and also now now I don't
01:01:14
I continue to practice drums
01:01:16
interact with
01:01:18
members of our musical groups we
01:01:21
as comrades and interact but
01:01:24
Now we are music no longer unites us
01:01:27
how then now there are other interests and
01:01:29
about the business there and Vova’s character
01:01:32
about music, I'm already the one who decides
01:01:36
devote oneself entirely to a specific purpose
01:01:39
completely to the point and the drums are not hackwork
01:01:42
endure this way and this experience these
01:01:47
emotions thoughts positive experience of victories I
01:01:49
I pulled it out there, I can breathe with this
01:01:52
supports me in the fact that I seem to
01:01:54
and now I just play the drums
01:01:57
I do this with my speech because it’s a kind of
01:02:00
there is also a certain metronome and a click that
01:02:02
lets me sine rhythmically with you
01:02:06
about father
01:02:08
pay attention as if absolutely everything
01:02:11
what we have behind us we use in
01:02:13
every moment now is true and so and
01:02:17
also here to remember the positive point
01:02:19
in her life, if a girl remembers
01:02:21
some positive moment in your life
01:02:23
some kind of victory and it will be like this
01:02:26
give birth to emotion and
01:02:28
4 minutes imagining breathing this
01:02:31
emotions
01:02:32
then of course she will want it then
01:02:35
no, not that she wants it, of course she does
01:02:39
then you will find yourself unbreakable and
01:02:41
glass is like a fly that does this
01:02:43
meaningless to the person who sees
01:02:47
when they look and notice what
01:02:49
opportunities are nearby right now and
01:02:52
so let's move on 14
01:02:56
I give myself permission to stop wearing clothes
01:03:00
which I got tired of and started wearing it
01:03:03
what I like and what is my first step
01:03:06
in this direction
01:03:07
see the girl on the right looks very
01:03:10
stressful but maybe also
01:03:12
because her blouse is too tight for her
01:03:16
feel comfortable wearing the clothes
01:03:18
she's in a situation right now that's very
01:03:21
important point it matters how much you
01:03:24
feel comfortable directly
01:03:27
affects your condition
01:03:30
so if you insure you think I
01:03:34
I give myself permission to stop wearing clothes
01:03:37
which I’m already tired of and allow myself
01:03:40
wear what I like
01:03:44
I give myself permission
01:03:46
I remember once I demanded you myself
01:03:49
the need to put on a shirt means
01:03:51
different trousers jeans with a belt and
01:03:55
stuff and then I thought to me it’s not
01:03:59
I like it, I allow myself to go to
01:04:02
spacious, loose, comfortable clothing in
01:04:05
which is easy for me to change as needed
01:04:08
to prove something to someone like this
01:04:10
I like it and cheers and you know from this
01:04:13
moment I felt much better in everything
01:04:15
relations therefore let this 14th point
01:04:19
decorates our list with itself the truth may
01:04:22
maybe it's time to throw away what you have
01:04:25
don't wear it for years, I hope you take it to
01:04:27
dacha or ever wear
01:04:30
this is important
01:04:32
what then do you choose in your life?
01:04:35
attract
01:04:37
shift the focus of attention from the crystal of existence
01:04:40
states on the question of your clothes too
01:04:42
can be useful 15
01:04:45
finishing the day remember what miracles
01:04:48
today happened to me to record more
01:04:51
four miracles in your magical diary
01:04:54
a little bit the way you look at it
01:04:57
what miracles happened to me today
01:05:00
I can share with you, well, first of all, I
01:05:03
slept comfortably in the morning
01:05:06
got up
01:05:07
having breakfast with my dear beautiful
01:05:10
wife Mashenka, hello son
01:05:13
We are now visiting our grandparents
01:05:17
along with his cousins ​​and
01:05:20
sisters, isn't it a miracle in the morning?
01:05:23
wake up in good health
01:05:25
mood and then eat
01:05:28
It's like a second miracle happens to me today
01:05:30
Vovka trainer with personal trainer
01:05:32
this is an important point next I will have
01:05:35
on Thursday this directly affects
01:05:37
internal state and in space
01:05:40
this workout gave me some great ideas
01:05:42
According to the format of the lessons, I will start very soon
01:05:45
experiment in this direction
01:05:48
you will find out about this
01:05:50
this is the second miracle, the third miracle is this graceful
01:05:54
detailed preparation for recording this
01:05:56
lesson I am very pleased with how it failed
01:05:59
organize it from the technical side
01:06:02
because for me the main thing is to do it
01:06:04
what I really like is that
01:06:07
I think it would be useful if I were myself
01:06:09
If I were you I would appreciate it
01:06:12
I would accept and wrap something around myself
01:06:14
us but and 4 miracle I'm glad that I took this lesson
01:06:18
I wrote it down of course I write it down in format
01:06:21
live broadcast, by the way, it’s very convenient with
01:06:24
technical side demand yourself
01:06:26
need to do something
01:06:28
valuable important in one take I guess
01:06:31
what if something happens
01:06:33
will prevent you from recording this lesson
01:06:36
Well, for example, the lights will be turned off, but this could happen
01:06:39
be when the lights are turned off right in the area
01:06:42
what will I do in this case? I will think and
01:06:46
that's good and
01:06:48
I'll come back to recording this lesson a little later.
01:06:51
starting again from the beginning
01:06:53
you understand that it’s a miracle that I
01:06:57
managed to record this lesson which
01:06:59
is voluminous large-scale unusual
01:07:01
in many ways I am very different from others
01:07:04
I'm glad and no matter what happens, I'll be happy about it
01:07:07
I'm glad even if I don't write it down, I'm always happy
01:07:09
I can come back to this again and again
01:07:12
write down but suddenly the electricity goes out
01:07:15
I’m ready for this and let it be the best
01:07:17
way true
01:07:21
in the best possible way and so are you here
01:07:24
doing one remember your task
01:07:26
here it ends, don't remember what
01:07:29
good thing happened today
01:07:31
call it miracles and
01:07:33
say four happened to me today
01:07:36
beautiful miracle and remember an important topic
01:07:39
scale is secondary here, habit is
01:07:42
the primary system is not that
01:07:45
to write down something like that you know
01:07:47
especially and large-scale for the planet
01:07:50
saved from a meteorite
01:07:52
no the topic is that the scale
01:07:56
habit doesn't matter
01:07:58
important
01:07:59
In our research we notice that
01:08:02
you can leave you know with telescopes
01:08:04
as much as possible outside both the microscope and
01:08:07
as much as possible inside and this happens
01:08:10
the moment when in different layers we see
01:08:12
about the same thing and also point here
01:08:15
16 leave the losers club communication with
01:08:20
Spock people with a similar problem
01:08:23
will complicate its solution secondary
01:08:26
benefit no one canceled the example with
01:08:28
smoking a person can smoke to
01:08:30
just don't feel lonely though
01:08:33
would be on a shared smoke break ah
01:08:34
you know there are people who are there
01:08:37
deceived in relationships, etc.
01:08:40
abandoned girl abandoned young man
01:08:42
surround themselves with people who are similar
01:08:44
you don’t notice problems that way
01:08:48
make it more difficult for themselves to extract
01:08:50
yourself there are such problems if you
01:08:53
surround yourself with people who have the same
01:08:55
problem don't be surprised it's a problem
01:08:58
lasts your whole life
01:09:00
the thing is that in this case the surrounding
01:09:03
yourself as such people you have many benefits
01:09:06
you get from the fact that this is a problem
01:09:08
your life continues to be what you have
01:09:11
opportunity to feel important and
01:09:13
necessary to share experiences with similar
01:09:16
losers, and compared to them
01:09:18
feel like something is wrong with you
01:09:20
bad, but what about you if you solve this
01:09:22
then there's nothing wrong with them
01:09:24
will not be combined so it is important here
01:09:26
solve this problem at its roots
01:09:28
if you are under any stress
01:09:32
and surround yourself with people like you
01:09:35
crisis stress then you will stay longer in
01:09:38
be in this stress crisis
01:09:41
man is a gregarious creature what is it
01:09:44
inside you is a side effect
01:09:46
who surrounds you and in what
01:09:49
condition
01:09:52
17 buy a rosary and hold it in your hand
01:09:55
rearranging the beads to pronounce the thought
01:09:58
to some positive thought
01:10:00
positive language
01:10:01
at the level be do have for example I
01:10:05
happy person is to be engaged
01:10:07
my favorite thing to do is to do it a lot
01:10:10
I earn it to have it and what is it for you
01:10:14
remember come out I say that man
01:10:17
creates such situations that again and
01:10:19
experience familiar emotions again
01:10:21
confirm your habitual beliefs
01:10:23
yourself others and in the world and also here
01:10:26
rosary beads are like purely material things
01:10:28
reflection of the performed habit and theme
01:10:32
is that there is no need
01:10:33
sit and do this on purpose
01:10:36
you know, focused on these rosary beads
01:10:38
can be done in parallel with something
01:10:41
this can be done in parallel with what to here
01:10:45
for example, by recording this lesson you are
01:10:47
you don't have to notice
01:10:49
but I slowly carefully left toe
01:10:52
I hit the floor this way when I do this
01:10:55
I'm doing the same thing that's clearly what I'm doing
01:10:57
it's like playing with a metronome
01:11:00
tapping, surprised at how good I am
01:11:02
it works out very well for me
01:11:05
I manage to record this lesson
01:11:08
very good at recording this
01:11:11
lesson you understand that is, you can sort of
01:11:14
background include your thought is simple for
01:11:17
start you can clear use and
01:11:21
grind and play with these beads
01:11:25
every time for every bead
01:11:26
pronounce a phrase at levels
01:11:29
be do have you can just be
01:11:35
you can be and do
01:11:38
I am successfully doing what I love
01:11:41
business can be do have I
01:11:45
wonderful person
01:11:46
living in joy and having everything
01:11:49
necessary
01:11:51
the point is that this is not the case
01:11:54
that you roll into this thought and thus
01:11:56
you pierce the outside world like wet cardboard
01:11:59
finger because it changes the structure
01:12:01
no the point is that you are like that
01:12:05
work on your beliefs
01:12:08
so that it’s like editing
01:12:11
filters perceived and emitted by you
01:12:14
information and
01:12:17
you start to see opportunities for
01:12:19
this is what is reflected in specific
01:12:22
actions we move further 18 at
01:12:25
performing complex and responsible
01:12:26
tasks I do what I love
01:12:29
I'm resting and
01:12:31
I think you know that I know what I mean
01:12:35
I say especially when it’s happening to me
01:12:37
for example, even work needs to be recorded
01:12:40
this lesson before starting on
01:12:43
button
01:12:44
start broadcasting and start recording
01:12:47
this lesson may come to my mind
01:12:49
I mean, what a lot of work it is
01:12:52
Waiting for me, I’m recording the lesson in 1 take
01:12:55
a single stream of thoughts and emotions from one
01:13:00
calling now without knowing in advance how long
01:13:04
it will take time but it will happen
01:13:06
definitely not some carat street but a big one
01:13:09
voluminous weighty material and
01:13:12
Of course they can come the old fashioned way
01:13:15
some thoughts it will be so difficult but
01:13:17
no, I shift my focus, I rest, I
01:13:21
doing what I love and relaxing theme
01:13:24
is not about how to relax, but about
01:13:27
how to organize your life like this
01:13:29
so as not to get tired at all now
01:13:33
I'm resting and
01:13:34
also here I do what I love and
01:13:37
I'm resting, the fly flies away from flies here
01:13:42
let's imagine take this girl
01:13:43
on the right who grabbed her fingers into
01:13:46
your hair in your forehead and head now
01:13:49
let's imagine what if she, for example
01:13:52
will exhale and think what if I am now
01:13:55
I'll think the same thought for four minutes
01:13:58
I'm doing what I love, I'm relaxing now
01:14:02
relaxing doing what I love
01:14:05
I relax doing what I love and
01:14:10
I'm relaxing doing what I love, then she
01:14:14
I'll be surprised how she's doing so little by little
01:14:17
not even her
01:14:19
breathing rate
01:14:22
will restore the composition less often the pulse
01:14:26
will become less common
01:14:28
calm even breathing calm
01:14:31
sight
01:14:32
calmly looking around they will see
01:14:34
and what tasks should be worked on in
01:14:37
first and smoothly proceed to
01:14:39
working on them
01:14:41
really the fly flies off after doing this
01:14:46
think this thought I'm doing what I love
01:14:49
business and I'm resting, I'll drink in honor of this
01:14:53
tea a
01:14:59
what a tough guy and so we move on
01:15:03
give yourself permission to show off she is what I am
01:15:06
I will spend money when I have it
01:15:08
there will be so many that there will be nowhere for them
01:15:10
even put how I get used to the ocean
01:15:13
when I have a lot of love
01:15:17
when will I have hundreds of thousands
01:15:21
subscribers how will I have time to read
01:15:24
their comments were once like nothing I
01:15:27
you know sometimes thinking this funny thought in
01:15:30
while I had 10
01:15:33
views per day but that's what I mean
01:15:36
here views and subscribers are not
01:15:39
the purpose is a side effect
01:15:41
activities that you engage in with
01:15:43
joy in the best possible way there and
01:15:46
also here to flirt a little
01:15:49
you can show off with a smile you know
01:15:52
this might be useful, that's interesting
01:15:56
what will I do when I have this?
01:15:58
a lot of that's what you really are
01:16:00
want to
01:16:02
this also shifts the focus, you see
01:16:05
The girl on the right is apparently holding her head
01:16:07
very passionate of this table and if she is with
01:16:10
will place your point of view focus of attention
01:16:13
to such a thought
01:16:15
I wonder what I will do if
01:16:18
I will have a choice in which one to eat
01:16:20
5 star hotels to go for example
01:16:24
the day after tomorrow what will I need then
01:16:26
choose interesting that's what I'll do
01:16:29
rely on choosing a hotel
01:16:32
the theme is that it shifts
01:16:35
focus of attention shifts the focus of attention to
01:16:39
that's what it's all about
01:16:40
stress is the body's reaction to
01:16:43
let's have such a negative external
01:16:46
stimulus and in this case you are in this reaction
01:16:50
you are not cause and effect as if
01:16:54
the body reacts itself and you only
01:16:56
serve his reactions and your task
01:16:58
shift focus
01:16:59
Here
01:17:03
20 when it's time to let something go but it's a pity
01:17:06
I have the courage to refuse even if I
01:17:09
I paid for this, I can leave the cinema
01:17:12
theater with a bad film even after paying for
01:17:15
ticket I give myself permission to be free from
01:17:18
cargo
01:17:20
but for example the girl on the right can
01:17:23
be stressed you know why because
01:17:25
she did work all day and then
01:17:28
without noticing I pressed the backspace button
01:17:31
accidentally deleting everything without first
01:17:34
saving and on this occasion she
01:17:37
worries and swears and this and swearing and
01:17:40
can spend the whole day worrying
01:17:42
instead of much faster and
01:17:44
better
01:17:45
make up for lost work therefore
01:17:48
Here
01:17:49
I let go but it's gone and gone I choose
01:17:55
create something even better
01:17:58
you know I remember this story
01:18:01
when I filmed a series of lessons once my boron on
01:18:05
the film parasites there from several episodes
01:18:09
he is contacted me
01:18:12
copyright holders and a lawyer from them and this
01:18:15
didn't look in the friendliest form and
01:18:17
I can say they scolded me very much
01:18:21
they threatened about it, but in general
01:18:24
apparently it happens maybe they
01:18:26
they thought I was some kind of pirate and
01:18:28
I'm posting a movie and I don't understand it
01:18:31
that this is an analysis within the framework of good faith
01:18:33
use in comments from the point
01:18:35
practical application
01:18:37
movie scene knowledge
01:18:39
I thought perfectly well below was of course
01:18:42
It's a pity to lose such a job
01:18:44
how much work has been done under my belt
01:18:46
hours to create this series
01:18:50
but I could sit and worry about it
01:18:53
about but I thought I'm letting go 1 there
01:18:56
necessity here in this case
01:18:58
positional advantage of course
01:19:00
copyright holder and his representative
01:19:02
I'm letting go of the lawyer, I've already resigned myself
01:19:05
there are still no internal walls in my analysis
01:19:09
everything's fine for parasites everything's fine I'm
01:19:12
I’m letting go, but this release isn’t there and these ones aren’t there
01:19:14
several issues but still cool
01:19:16
I practiced and recorded these episodes myself
01:19:21
I noted a lot of valuable things for myself and
01:19:23
ok it's internal let go and already
01:19:27
internal letting go of internal to us
01:19:31
dear lawyer, very nice by the way
01:19:33
specialist professional in his field
01:19:35
there was just a misunderstanding with them
01:19:37
we found a common language and shared
01:19:40
experience and not recalled means strike
01:19:44
which were sent to my channel here
01:19:47
youtube and restored the analysis to the film
01:19:51
parasites
01:19:52
but you see the premise for this first
01:19:56
to let go to catch you have to let go
01:19:57
first and also here a
01:20:00
you know a 20 year old girl or
01:20:03
20 year old young man says yes to us
01:20:06
so bad in a relationship with a partner but we
01:20:09
I've already been together for six months already
01:20:12
it's a pity to leave
01:20:14
Isn't it funny to be able to do this too?
01:20:18
let go even if they paid and also
01:20:22
here to be able to let go of these analyzes on
01:20:25
the film will amaze even if I put in
01:20:27
fantastic effort to write down well
01:20:31
what happens in 1 here
01:20:34
vacation and then after that letting go
01:20:37
managed to establish a dialogue that you can
01:20:40
study the analysis of the film Parasites it is
01:20:43
on YouTube like all other lessons in
01:20:46
open access
01:20:48
well, what if it was hard for me
01:20:50
let go maybe but it wouldn't be like this
01:20:52
friendly and attentive in negotiations
01:20:54
process later
01:20:56
yes and
01:20:58
so let's move on 21 if it's difficult
01:21:03
refuse requests to save the complainant
01:21:07
this is a popular story you need here
01:21:09
why do you see the girl on the right who
01:21:11
put her fingers right into your eyes
01:21:13
handouts why is she stressed because
01:21:17
that she's a good person
01:21:19
she's like a knight and she constantly
01:21:20
saves other people helps them and she
01:21:25
can't say no to it does
01:21:27
constantly helps other people and
01:21:29
as a result of which he is constantly nervous
01:21:32
about this because completely
01:21:33
take care of other parasites and bedbugs
01:21:37
ticks don't take care of themselves like that
01:21:42
so so that it doesn't happen it's the same as
01:21:44
important and meaning is the task every day about
01:21:47
remembering this, I only do what
01:21:50
It's beneficial for me to say out loud I'll think about
01:21:54
your request and I will answer it and
01:21:57
after tomorrow because I need it
01:21:59
think
01:22:01
that is, if it’s hard for you to say no
01:22:04
right away and you understand that no, but suddenly
01:22:06
it happens that there is not enough for it
01:22:08
courage
01:22:09
take some time it might be
01:22:12
suddenly an important training component
01:22:14
will come in handy later
01:22:17
regarding your request, I will not refuse you
01:22:21
I'll take part in this no if it's for you
01:22:25
pressing, persuading, so I understand correctly
01:22:27
that you didn't hear my refusal
01:22:30
that is, if you can immediately say no
01:22:33
then yes, immediately say no, but in this case
01:22:35
then it won't be yours
01:22:37
problem here which I cover in
01:22:39
twenty-first paragraph, what if with this
01:22:42
there are difficulties then this is the only thing I do
01:22:44
what benefits me, so I’m writing it down now
01:22:47
this lesson I do it is beneficial to me
01:22:52
Of course it's great that it's being studied
01:22:54
is also useful for you, but first of all
01:22:57
turn it's beneficial for me in this way
01:23:00
create additional educational material
01:23:01
which will be useful for the library
01:23:04
educational materials in addition to
01:23:06
in text format this lesson will be
01:23:08
part of my fourth book
01:23:12
besides there may be a lot of people there
01:23:15
will derive something valuable and useful from
01:23:17
this lesson thanks to me
01:23:20
get to know each other better, that is, what it is
01:23:23
is beneficial and useful for you
01:23:25
second, first I put the mask on myself and
01:23:28
you need to take care of yourself, save yourself and
01:23:31
billions around will be saved and also
01:23:34
here is the expression
01:23:37
if there is difficulty in answering some question
01:23:40
request so I will think about your request
01:23:42
I'll answer you the day after tomorrow I need it
01:23:45
weigh all the pros and cons here and
01:23:47
decide never let you be taken
01:23:50
forcing pandas to quickly answer yes
01:23:53
okay, why are you sorry or what?
01:23:55
Hey, I hear your request, I’ll answer you
01:23:57
about this the day after tomorrow so I
01:24:01
weighed the request regarding her no it is
01:24:04
I don’t agree with me, I won’t accept this
01:24:05
participation
01:24:06
if there's pressure on you, then I'm right
01:24:09
I understand you didn’t hear my refusal
01:24:11
I understand correctly you forbid me
01:24:13
tell you no so a second you're on now
01:24:16
push me yes it's a question of how to train
01:24:19
personal boundaries you can use this wording
01:24:20
write them down and practice them
01:24:22
necessity
01:24:24
This is also stress prevention because
01:24:26
our girl on the right look at
01:24:29
her and the young man is here although everyone
01:24:32
we're young, you see, I'm tired too
01:24:34
leaning against the glass like that fly about
01:24:37
which was discussed above because
01:24:38
regularly helps everyone and doesn’t know how
01:24:41
say no, but many people use it to live
01:24:44
many people use this if you think
01:24:47
that you are surrounded by only kind people
01:24:49
good people are not always like that in appearance
01:24:53
man has many parasites shameless
01:24:55
unceremoniously who devour others
01:24:58
people alive
01:24:59
22 if greed begins to consume me
01:25:03
I feel grateful to both me and this
01:25:05
enough I feel grateful and
01:25:09
that's enough for me
01:25:11
especially when greed starts
01:25:13
devour
01:25:14
that's enough for me
01:25:17
I feel grateful to me for this
01:25:20
enough
01:25:21
greed has devoured many people without leaving a trace
01:25:24
may you not be the one who ends up
01:25:27
her on a plate
01:25:30
I'm grateful and that's enough for me
01:25:34
23 I maintain a balance of taking and giving where
01:25:37
the balance is broken
01:25:39
I'm slowly working on restoring it
01:25:42
who cares, look I would write it down
01:25:46
this lesson if you record this lesson here
01:25:49
I would have said it all and that would mean
01:25:52
everything has sunk into oblivion, I would like to know about this in advance
01:25:54
I knew there was no balance in this case
01:25:58
give would be violated I write this down
01:26:01
lesson now because it will be available
01:26:04
then use this lesson on the Internet for a long time
01:26:08
then it will become
01:26:10
the basis of the head in text format then
01:26:14
yes it allows me to maintain balance
01:26:16
between take give on the one hand I give
01:26:19
but on the other hand I take
01:26:22
by recording this lesson I am practicing my speech
01:26:25
your visual control when I speak
01:26:28
I give birth to thoughts making them more flexible
01:26:31
it’s easier to navigate them and, in addition,
01:26:34
as the final finished material
01:26:38
I can use this lesson later
01:26:40
using repeatedly as in face-to-face
01:26:44
working with people and individually
01:26:47
practices with respected clients and
01:26:50
what is right in a corporate format
01:26:53
because the question of working on the internal
01:26:56
state in corporate format I
01:26:58
mainly work with groups
01:26:59
leaders is an important topic that
01:27:03
including they can as additional
01:27:05
material to study something useful for
01:27:07
extract yourself see I'm watching over
01:27:09
by maintaining this balance, take and give with
01:27:12
on the one hand I give and demand myself
01:27:15
need to be useful
01:27:16
care but on the other hand I think about myself
01:27:19
and what prices can I get for myself here?
01:27:23
still such an important point you are sure
01:27:26
you know that I don’t have paid online
01:27:30
lessons I do not have paid online courses
01:27:33
I have all lessons online
01:27:36
open access
01:27:37
I don't do this because I care about
01:27:42
viewers and create
01:27:46
a lot of educational materials open
01:27:48
access I take care of myself in this way
01:27:51
I designed my architecture in advance
01:27:53
its activities in such a way that it
01:27:56
forces me to constantly advance in
01:27:59
this sharpening making stress their
01:28:01
observation language I am in conditions
01:28:04
what I need again and again
01:28:06
continue to dig this well
01:28:08
a needle, so to speak, of knowledge and
01:28:11
not because I'm too lazy to call here
01:28:14
excavator or
01:28:15
hard worker but because otherwise this well
01:28:18
you can’t dig it up just with a needle carefully
01:28:20
clean hands
01:28:22
that is, I initially forbade myself
01:28:26
creating paid online courses once
01:28:30
I thought about it and then I thought no I
01:28:32
I will do all the lessons in the public domain
01:28:34
this is how I organized the conditions for myself
01:28:38
that require me to
01:28:40
constantly brainstorm and think what else
01:28:42
valuable things I can do
01:28:45
because if I can something if I
01:28:47
did something and once and there they dropped here
01:28:51
reads money for example how can I
01:28:54
after that force yourself to create something
01:28:56
something new
01:28:57
many may say well this is a question
01:28:59
your inner attitude motivation
01:29:01
the question is programmable but I'll tell you you know
01:29:05
It's better not to play with this fire, it eats
01:29:09
in 100 cases out of a hundred
01:29:11
so here this question is two
01:29:13
discipline and what is the best seasoning for
01:29:16
food this year what is it about for you
01:29:23
let's move on, it means something about greed
01:29:26
I feel grateful for this too
01:29:28
enough I'm very happy about
01:29:30
balance take give we also talk about this
01:29:32
we talked, yes, that is, jowood cake
01:29:35
I take into account how I maintain this balance
01:29:37
What are these cosmic efforts here?
01:29:42
which I'm investing in recording this
01:29:44
lesson they are subsequently reflected in
01:29:47
additional advantages and benefits
01:29:49
what will I get out of this and what is it
01:29:52
is useful is as a side effect
01:29:55
effect because I myself am not a rescuer
01:29:58
there is no such thing in the game, for your sake everything is for the sake of
01:30:01
you yes no this might be for you
01:30:04
useful ok this might be for you
01:30:06
not quite in tune is also good and by the way
01:30:11
first 150 issues in analysis format
01:30:14
Almost no one watched the films, but
01:30:17
that didn't stop me from continuing
01:30:19
work on them because I immediately
01:30:21
I saw my training in this format
01:30:24
observation skills
01:30:26
development in the format of a personal brand in
01:30:29
Internet and even if not now
01:30:32
many mean the desired exhaust
01:30:36
kind of giving is not a reason to stop
01:30:39
do this is a reason to continue the quantity
01:30:42
always goes into quality and how much
01:30:44
there are people here who, for example, can
01:30:47
here in this topic are recordings of lessons from lesson 2
01:30:50
videos to see that no one is watching them and
01:30:53
Apparently no one needs to think about this and
01:30:54
stop no my dears you 150
01:30:58
remove it and only then draw conclusions
01:31:01
draw your conclusions before then
01:31:02
prematurely
01:31:05
balance to take is another question
01:31:07
your attitude even when I was recording
01:31:11
these lessons are the first 150 which are practically
01:31:14
no one was watching, I kept a balance
01:31:17
so I saw that act
01:31:20
recording these lessons gives me a lot
01:31:23
I train my speech delivery like this
01:31:26
I practice accents in my words
01:31:29
and remember the improvisation of anyone
01:31:32
professional this is a side effect
01:31:34
use
01:31:35
I also speak about my achievements
01:31:38
developments is precisely their presence, what they
01:31:41
on the surface I'm trained
01:31:43
I can feel confident
01:31:45
yourself in speech in your material
01:31:48
that is, this is a training ground for
01:31:51
me and therefore maintaining balance here
01:31:54
it is important to take into account whatever you do
01:31:58
at the same time you give and so that you don’t do what
01:32:01
At the same time, you take this balance
01:32:04
should be and so 24 I'm putting things in order
01:32:09
I let go of the excess and thus I am in our
01:32:12
joy in my life it concerns business
01:32:15
promises of physical things is also like
01:32:18
you see the girl on the right she stuck
01:32:20
it hits the glass like a fly, but it can’t
01:32:23
still can't fly away why is it right
01:32:25
there are so many unfulfilled promises
01:32:28
so many unfinished things so many
01:32:30
clutter and home including what it is
01:32:33
I've downloaded everything so here's what's going to happen
01:32:36
useful to work on the list
01:32:38
unfinished business, unfulfilled promises
01:32:41
and deal with it smoothly
01:32:43
speaking, I let go of the extra ones, I bring in
01:32:46
joy
01:32:48
clarity transparency and precision in my
01:32:52
life is interesting and above the list of yours
01:32:55
unfinished business when you start
01:32:57
work
01:33:02
Do you already have an idea in this direction and
01:33:05
this is great, then I give myself permission
01:33:09
take responsibility only for yourself and
01:33:13
I allow other people to live their own
01:33:17
let's add life and I allow it
01:33:20
other people
01:33:22
living your own life is enough to change
01:33:25
let other people go, you let other people go
01:33:28
stop trying to change them
01:33:30
leave other people's lives to others and
01:33:34
start practicing with yourself first
01:33:37
queue
01:33:38
you can only be responsible
01:33:41
for yourself for your children
01:33:45
minors you can carry
01:33:48
responsibility for parents when they
01:33:50
can no longer take care of themselves but
01:33:53
for everyone else this is not the case
01:33:55
necessary in addition if you will
01:33:57
be responsible for people who
01:33:59
are not included in the categories above constantly o
01:34:01
them to think trying to change them here
01:34:04
you already know enough
01:34:08
this moment is important which is
01:34:11
the premise of your stars being stressed
01:34:14
state I give myself permission to other people
01:34:18
cope with my life I see this
01:34:22
person and people who surround me
01:34:24
able to cope independently
01:34:28
the challenges they face
01:34:31
maybe that's why they were there
01:34:34
forced to demand from you worries and
01:34:35
because you already saw them in the first place
01:34:38
those who are not capable of these we will challenge
01:34:40
it's important to cope with your own
01:34:43
attitude to work in this vein
01:34:45
I wonder what this means to you, I see people
01:34:48
capable of independently deciding their own
01:34:51
tasks
01:34:52
doors of positive change are opening
01:34:54
from within no matter how strong and powerful I am
01:34:58
I didn’t have the mechanism in my hands, I can’t
01:35:00
open them from the outside only from the inside they
01:35:02
open with the wing of a butterfly desire
01:35:06
Truth
01:35:09
think in the morning I wonder what
01:35:12
happy events will happen to me today
01:35:14
happen in the best possible way and
01:35:16
You can keep this even in your mind, here’s a girl
01:35:20
you see on the right it’s probably very steamy
01:35:23
She has no urine at all and no strength like her
01:35:26
such a beauty is tired, really and at the same time
01:35:29
time makes you tired like everyone else
01:35:32
who do we see here on the screen like this
01:35:34
the person you see in the mirror
01:35:37
like this, what if she thought
01:35:39
I wonder what wonderful events happen to me
01:35:42
waiting today I probably wouldn’t sit like that
01:35:45
wrinkling my face, I really thought today
01:35:48
I wonder what wonderful events happen to me
01:35:51
Today they are expecting of course I gave it in the morning
01:35:55
I realized it to myself just yesterday
01:35:56
the report is that today I will be
01:35:58
record this lesson and I always
01:36:01
Do you know what important event I'm expecting when?
01:36:05
I'll think about what else
01:36:08
format can be explored to create
01:36:11
more
01:36:12
educational valuable and useful materials for me
01:36:15
I just really like it with this one
01:36:17
joy with pleasure I do it like this
01:36:20
just like here, some interesting ones
01:36:22
happy events will happen to me today
01:36:25
allow yourself the luxury and your
01:36:27
magic diary to write for their heels
01:36:30
suddenly they will come in handy and if you fight a fly
01:36:33
and glass and you got a random number
01:36:36
26 remember above I talked about it like this
01:36:39
but the day is not over yet and what
01:36:42
happy events await me today
01:36:44
that's what's interesting
01:36:47
27 it’s high time for me to think a thought
01:36:50
thus giving birth to ideas which are already
01:36:53
it's high time to start 4 minutes so me
01:36:56
it's high time it's long overdue
01:36:59
it's high time for me
01:37:03
it's high time I should do something
01:37:06
it's time to write down a lesson about how important it is
01:37:09
work on my inner state
01:37:12
sometimes I do this exercise myself
01:37:14
then ideas come which then smoothly
01:37:16
I’m implementing, for example, the idea of ​​recording this
01:37:20
That's how I came to the lesson
01:37:23
28
01:37:25
catch negative emotion negative
01:37:27
thought and wonder what it is
01:37:29
thought does not give to emotions what for me in
01:37:32
this is the benefit that I choose from this is valuable
01:37:35
extract
01:37:37
for example you see the girl on the right too
01:37:39
stresses like a fly that beats
01:37:41
glass maybe she's worried about
01:37:44
about the fact that she needs her
01:37:47
explain one thing to an employee over and over again
01:37:50
and the same task, but he’s such a brute
01:37:52
does it right, but what is the benefit of this idea?
01:37:55
the emotion gives me thinks she's a charmer and
01:37:59
then it comes to the thought that maybe not
01:38:02
necessary
01:38:03
write regulations
01:38:06
maybe an adaptation program
01:38:10
training may be necessary for me
01:38:14
work in this direction
01:38:15
before allowing the champion to work
01:38:18
is to make sure that he does this work
01:38:21
wants to be able to do and knows
01:38:25
how to do it at the proper level
01:38:27
maybe not then work with him
01:38:29
once again explaining to him how he should
01:38:32
it is necessary to make the OS a system in which
01:38:36
it would be impossible to do otherwise
01:38:41
a tempting thought she might think and
01:38:44
thus shifting your focus
01:38:45
attention and fly and smoothly from the glass
01:38:48
fly
01:38:52
if the emotions are too much I don't have mine
01:38:56
thoughts I am not my emotions I am not mine
01:38:59
events I am the one who chooses thoughts emotions
01:39:03
events and what I allow myself to choose
01:39:06
now yes you are not your thoughts this is not
01:39:10
your emotions and you are not your events you
01:39:14
one who is able to choose what thoughts
01:39:16
emotions events you choose to create
01:39:22
your very thought that you have
01:39:25
the power to choose what thoughts and emotions
01:39:27
you can create events already
01:39:30
is the one who will unstick you
01:39:33
remember this like a fly from glass, and here you go
01:39:37
this way you shift your focus
01:39:39
attention in the direction of what thoughts
01:39:41
and I choose to create the emotions of the event
01:39:44
I choose to create the thought how great it is
01:39:46
I manage to record this lesson and
01:39:49
the equator is already behind us, we are smoothly
01:39:51
let's move on the emotion of joy for this
01:39:54
about and anticipation from the fact that
01:39:57
soon we will come to an end feeling
01:39:59
the joy of a job done and in quality
01:40:01
events beautiful recorded lesson isn't it
01:40:04
it's not a miracle
01:40:06
therefore I am not my thoughts I am not
01:40:09
my emotions are not my events here
01:40:13
thus you get rid of yourself from them
01:40:15
make yourself independent from them and
01:40:17
able to choose them
01:40:20
many people forget that they have a choice
01:40:23
It’s important to remind yourself of this, really.
01:40:26
30 I don't know what will happen tomorrow tomorrow
01:40:29
maybe anything, I'll allow it tomorrow
01:40:32
be a real miracle and I'm going to bed
01:40:36
sometimes a person has already decided everything for himself
01:40:38
that he has nothing good in his life
01:40:40
it will be but it’s not about you to see and young
01:40:43
the man on the right is now scratching his eyes
01:40:45
apparently because I’ve already decided everything for myself
01:40:47
that everything will be bad for him, he is a loser
01:40:50
and life is hard, but he can
01:40:53
tell yourself I don’t know what will happen tomorrow
01:40:55
tomorrow could be anything I want
01:40:58
I allow tomorrow to be a real miracle and I
01:41:02
I'm going to sleep
01:41:04
an important point, that is, before going to bed this
01:41:07
a thought to think about and yes in general it’s possible when
01:41:09
if you think about it, don't do it for
01:41:12
jump to conclusions yourself, you're nothing
01:41:15
you know, I want to remind you that you didn't do anything
01:41:19
you know a person doesn't know a little more than
01:41:23
he doesn't know anything at all or time
01:41:26
neither good nor evil nothing at all but him
01:41:29
the idea that he knows everything as a rule
01:41:32
makes him a fool idiot that's why here
01:41:35
it's never superfluous I don't know anything I
01:41:37
I really have no idea, God knows I
01:41:40
I hope I'm taking care of myself, I'm not making a mistake
01:41:44
perfect but at the same time I don't know
01:41:46
anything can come but I know that
01:41:50
well I'm going to bed
01:41:54
let go if, for example, we are also some kind
01:41:56
salt o tion is deeply embedded in you and
01:41:59
bothers you, I don’t know what will happen tomorrow
01:42:03
something very good will happen tomorrow
01:42:07
be anything and very good in
01:42:09
including good night
01:42:12
31 I forgive myself for everything, it’s high time for you
01:42:17
forgive yourself for everything what what yourself what
01:42:20
Rish, day by day, forgive yourself for everything I
01:42:23
I forgive myself for everything I am filled
01:42:26
I am filled with unconditional love for myself
01:42:29
I am filled with unconditional faith in myself
01:42:32
unconditional hope without conditions is
01:42:36
an important prerequisite for the fact that a person
01:42:38
is at least a little healthy
01:42:40
mentally he is definitely himself
01:42:43
loves he unconditionally believes in himself and he
01:42:48
definitely full of unconditional hope
01:42:52
this is very important not only
01:42:55
know this thought and how to throw out
01:42:57
one corner to another corner of its
01:42:59
consciousness and think about it what a
01:43:03
what does it mean a person lives he is on
01:43:06
a grain of sand that flies from nowhere to
01:43:09
when you think about it sometimes I think
01:43:12
look at the sky in this
01:43:14
once again make sure this song
01:43:17
flying from nowhere to never and in this
01:43:21
peppercorns
01:43:23
happened by chance by another man in the street
01:43:26
his foot can become so important in
01:43:29
this grain of sand even has life
01:43:33
in a moment, even the grain of sand itself, even if
01:43:37
take the solar system for example this one
01:43:39
write cinco even our galaxy
01:43:42
is peace cinco and flying out
01:43:46
from nowhere to never and
01:43:48
when you remember everything you need
01:43:51
all that remains is to fill yourself with unconditional
01:43:54
love
01:43:55
unconditional faith in yourself
01:43:58
self-love and unconditional hope
01:44:03
because there's nothing left left
01:44:06
you can do something else with this
01:44:10
peppercorns are like the only thing
01:44:13
remains if a person at least a little
01:44:15
brains is to take care of yourself and
01:44:19
then about humanity as a whole so that although
01:44:22
I'd like to brighten it up a little
01:44:25
oblivion on this grain of sand
01:44:28
does the best in joy
01:44:30
really that's why I forgive myself for this
01:44:34
all I
01:44:36
filled with unconditional love for myself
01:44:39
unconditional faith in yourself and unconditional
01:44:43
hope without conditions not so I will
01:44:46
love myself when I lose 5 kilograms
01:44:49
I will believe in myself when I win gold
01:44:52
medal, no need for anything, I already won
01:44:55
All
01:44:57
32 I allow myself to be comfortable for myself
01:45:01
and not for others you see this young
01:45:04
a man breaks glass like a fly
01:45:07
because he really forces himself to be
01:45:09
convenient for other people instead
01:45:12
to be comfortable for yourself
01:45:14
of course, if a person demands from himself
01:45:17
the need to be convenient for others
01:45:19
will be constantly stressed and also
01:45:22
here I allow myself to be comfortable for
01:45:24
yourself and not for others
01:45:27
what step do I choose to take in this
01:45:29
direction
01:45:31
33 what I want to receive and intention
01:45:34
receive replaced with and intention to give
01:45:36
what step in this direction will I take?
01:45:38
Today
01:45:39
what do I want to get
01:45:42
knowledge that inspires me and makes
01:45:45
life is interesting but if I want it
01:45:48
get it don't give it I need it
01:45:52
to give I do what I give knowledge
01:45:56
making life interesting, filling
01:45:59
having practical value and when I
01:46:02
I share this and it gives me even more
01:46:06
come see also this is the question
01:46:08
balance and movement of flows
01:46:13
this is a very important point
01:46:15
Usually in the life of a person there is no
01:46:19
love no care
01:46:21
there is no love and no care in that life
01:46:24
a person who does not bestow them himself
01:46:28
other people but only demands that he
01:46:30
gave as much as possible
01:46:32
this applies to everything
01:46:35
replace your desire to only receive with
01:46:38
desire and determination and courage to give
01:46:42
asking nothing in return
01:46:44
34 if I don’t know what to do or what
01:46:48
seems complicated then I think, well of course I
01:46:50
I know that doing it is easy and wonderful
01:46:52
I know it's easy to do and that's it
01:46:55
great I know what to do of course
01:46:57
remember I said about this above that
01:47:00
first the question is to
01:47:02
thought gives birth to the emotion that you will
01:47:06
test by solving some problem
01:47:09
the problem that is facing you and in
01:47:13
by giving birth to this emotion you create a condition
01:47:16
prerequisites and thought corresponding
01:47:19
and they come to you
01:47:20
this lesson seems endless
01:47:23
big complex and long I know that
01:47:26
do it and it's easy and it's wonderful
01:47:30
35 make a list of what is important to me
01:47:34
invite into your life financially
01:47:36
intangible process itself shifts focus
01:47:39
attention from minus to plus and the fly flies away
01:47:41
glass directly physically prepare yourself
01:47:45
a piece of paper and a pen, a notebook and straight
01:47:48
write I choose to invite into my life
01:47:51
from the list everything that comes to mind already
01:47:53
making this face this girl's face
01:47:56
will become less tense than you see
01:47:58
now some young man
01:48:03
36 time for creative ideas what
01:48:06
I can come up with creative ideas and
01:48:09
implement in the best possible way already
01:48:11
Write me a list of ideas soon
01:48:14
this morning was a good time
01:48:16
creative ideas when I came to
01:48:19
head on the idea of ​​a format for creating educational
01:48:22
materials I will keep you informed and
01:48:24
also here look how much
01:48:28
this young man is tense while drawing
01:48:30
like a fly that breaks glass
01:48:32
if he thinks time for creative ideas
01:48:35
I wonder what creative ideas I have
01:48:38
may come to mind now I'll talk about
01:48:40
this thinking he shifts his focus
01:48:42
attention, his breathing begins differently
01:48:44
function and thoughts perfectly
01:48:47
others come to mind and he already even
01:48:49
forgets how it was just recently
01:48:51
so tense that he wanted to crack
01:48:54
his house
01:48:55
37 if I regret what I did
01:48:59
undone I do everything right and everything
01:49:02
inevitably goes as it should
01:49:05
well what's the point of being sorry
01:49:07
if you have already done something have you already done
01:49:09
something you didn't do first you create
01:49:11
internal state I do everything
01:49:14
right in the best way
01:49:16
as it should be because that’s what I decided
01:49:20
because I'm great and that means
01:49:22
that's how you should do it, you know maybe
01:49:25
come to mind about such a lesson
01:49:28
it's so long it's so long
01:49:31
will the viewer think that he
01:49:33
timing tends to infinity and
01:49:36
decides not to even study it, you should not
01:49:39
make it shorter
01:49:42
no I shouldn't have, I do everything as it should
01:49:46
I do everything right, I do it myself
01:49:48
I like it and I decided to move on
01:49:50
yes that is, if you start about something
01:49:53
regret remember regret dooms to
01:49:56
repetition and it is very important not to regret
01:50:00
here and shift my focus I
01:50:02
I do everything right in the best possible way and
01:50:04
then what do I choose in my life
01:50:07
add
01:50:08
what I choose to add to my life
01:50:12
of course some kind of feedback
01:50:15
yourself from your own point of view
01:50:17
improvement can be given
01:50:19
useful that I choose to add on base
01:50:22
this experience
01:50:24
if I feel a negative emotion
01:50:27
so now I feel like catching her
01:50:30
admit fix well and then I
01:50:34
I remember
01:50:35
positive events in which I
01:50:38
felt a positive emotion
01:50:40
I've been thinking about this event for two
01:50:43
you also see minutes, that is, not at all
01:50:46
reflect on not
01:50:49
think about something
01:50:51
no negative emotion caught named
01:50:55
then remember something good and
01:50:58
remember this event in detail
01:51:01
in just two minutes it will fundamentally shift
01:51:03
your focus see the girl here
01:51:06
hits his forehead against the wall I wonder if
01:51:09
at this moment in time she will remember
01:51:11
let's say how she was awarded medals for the first
01:51:15
place in the swimming championship and
01:51:17
how pleased and happy she was
01:51:20
feel this victory
01:51:22
then of course it will be this way
01:51:24
fly away from the glass without dooming yourself to
01:51:27
it be true
01:51:33
39 is obtained in case of loss
01:51:37
it's close that I'm letting go I thank them
01:51:41
insufficient I move on in case
01:51:43
loss, I accept the fact of loss and
01:51:46
I continue to live and not to
01:51:48
happened I will wake up in the morning and tell life
01:51:52
hello my wonderful life I'm single
01:51:55
from loss I am free to create again and
01:51:59
again because nothing ever goes anywhere
01:52:02
doesn't go away I create life further and that I
01:52:06
I choose to create today this very
01:52:10
important point about
01:52:11
why is he interesting to you?
01:52:15
sometimes you know a person is used to it
01:52:17
earns for example x 1000 rubles per
01:52:20
month and started earning 5
01:52:23
percent less and because of this it begins
01:52:26
to get into a loop in the literal sense of the word
01:52:29
look how unprepared he is
01:52:31
take some losses from this very
01:52:35
it is important that this does not happen save
01:52:37
yourself no matter what losses it is very
01:52:41
big question anyway
01:52:44
I invite you to at least have this thought
01:52:46
think nothing ever goes anywhere
01:52:50
everything always exists
01:52:54
energy flows smoothly from one
01:52:57
states to another
01:52:59
everything always exists and nothing ever exists
01:53:03
doesn't go anywhere you are free from losses and
01:53:08
you are free to continue creating and what
01:53:13
you choose knowing it create today
01:53:20
40 thought it can be like a prayer and
01:53:23
you know, from the point of view of attention, I'm the father
01:53:26
I thank you and I am in peace and that’s it
01:53:29
wonderful and mother I thank you and
01:53:33
I am at peace and everything is wonderful
01:53:35
father and mother concern not only yours
01:53:39
this applies to all specific parents
01:53:43
your parents so that you
01:53:46
were in the present moment
01:53:47
imagine how much work it was
01:53:50
done before you by many, many
01:53:53
number tending to infinity
01:53:56
generation so to speak, that is, here you are
01:53:59
you can imagine in your mind you see
01:54:01
the girl on the right is worried about it
01:54:03
that she was not given a discount for which she
01:54:06
I was counting on buying a handbag and so on
01:54:08
way she considers this situation the most
01:54:11
important in life that makes her
01:54:14
be nervous even though it's so very important
01:54:18
the situation is what I'm talking about here
01:54:21
until father and mother you can give birth to images
01:54:24
all the fathers and all the mothers who came before you
01:54:28
were thanks to whom you are here and
01:54:31
on the shoulders of which you stand is very
01:54:35
it is important to draw energy from there too
01:54:38
you understand this is not a factual question
01:54:41
data is your question
01:54:43
relationships that you get energy from
01:54:46
your right-left shoulders
01:54:49
she is endlessly here and
01:54:52
41
01:54:54
if I want something as possible
01:54:57
rather ended
01:55:00
I think the thought will never end
01:55:05
this will always go on
01:55:08
and I'm ready for this what can I do
01:55:11
to make my life more comfortable
01:55:13
you can already see the girl here
01:55:16
nervous she came on Monday
01:55:18
work and thinks it would be Friday
01:55:21
I wish this week would end soon
01:55:23
Saturday has finally arrived
01:55:25
but it’s precisely with this thought that something
01:55:28
rather it's over, she dooms herself to
01:55:31
this is a stressful condition
01:55:34
it will never end it will never end
01:55:37
continue forever
01:55:39
and my task is to think what I choose with
01:55:42
do it as I choose with it
01:55:44
cope and make your life
01:55:46
more comfortable now
01:55:50
this is a very important topic your hopes that
01:55:54
something would end as soon as possible
01:55:57
you know there is nothing more permanent than
01:55:59
temporary I remember the phrase your hopes
01:56:02
and waiting for something to happen as soon as possible
01:56:04
ended will be harmful to you
01:56:08
service and your idea that this is not
01:56:11
it will never end I will continue
01:56:13
Always
01:56:15
smoothly in the best way that's what
01:56:18
can be a support for you like ours
01:56:20
magic horn
01:56:22
I started working on it for the first time within seconds
01:56:25
I might have thought about it sooner, I would have written it down
01:56:28
it used to be like that but now it's not
01:56:31
will never end in the best way
01:56:34
smoothly I see from his timing that he
01:56:37
enough already
01:56:38
long lasting and I'm very happy about it
01:56:41
I don’t even notice how time passes
01:56:43
because in joy I am at my best
01:56:47
I'm relaxing doing what I love, remember
01:56:50
then here I show with my example how
01:56:53
I myself use these techniques about which
01:56:56
the speech went above
01:56:59
Well, my dears, I invite you
01:57:01
think about which of these techniques
01:57:03
you choose to add to your life
01:57:06
not necessarily each of the 41 can be
01:57:10
there was one for you
01:57:12
as loud as possible and remember what
01:57:16
you create in your life this is the question
01:57:18
what state you are in
01:57:21
specifically about our internal state and
01:57:24
discussed above
01:57:27
what state do you choose to train
01:57:31
and let's imagine that each of these
01:57:34
smoothly invites people to his right
01:57:36
life smoothly gives birth to these techniques
01:57:40
positive internal calm
01:57:43
state
01:57:44
which is a prerequisite for the creation
01:57:47
corresponding thoughts, emotions, events
01:57:50
smoothly flies off the glass like a fly
01:57:53
stopping the glass from breaking in desperate
01:57:56
attempts smoothly searches finds beautiful
01:57:59
possibilities
01:58:00
doesn’t move on, that’s the strength
01:58:05
a person is to not only think but
01:58:09
and think about what I think about, choose
01:58:11
manage your condition with your own
01:58:14
thoughts and emotions
01:58:16
my dear respected
01:58:19
viewers, I invite you to finish smoothly
01:58:22
you can safely study this lesson
01:58:25
write in the comments what was for you
01:58:27
here is the most helpful with you albert
01:58:31
Safin I thank you for your attention
01:58:34
I know I wrote this lesson down myself
01:58:37
additionally filled with positive
01:58:40
the state and joy of making water
01:58:43
how do you ask correctly
01:58:46
I'll answer
01:58:47
best see you soon my dears
01:58:50
Bye
01:58:52
we'll go smoothly

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Человек в стрессе подобен мухе, которая отчаянно бьётся о стекло, разбивая себя в пыль, вместо того чтобы спокойно отлететь назад, увидеть открытую форточку и вылететь. Я буду показывать вам техники отлета назад. Введение: 1 - человек бессознательно создает такие события и взаимоотношения, чтобы проживать привычные эмоции и подтверждать привычные убеждения о себе, о других и о мире - какие эмоции я выбираю тренировать в себе и подтверждения каким убеждения о себе, о других и о мире я выбираю искать и находить? 2 - мысль - эмоция - событие - мысль… Эмоция — это проживаемая телом мысль. Событие — это проживаемая временем и пространством эмоция. Мысль — это проживаемое восприятием событие. Как я выбираю извлекать себя из этого цикла? Как я могу воздействовать на свои мысли, которые создают эмоции, которые создают события? Перечень инструментов я раскрываю в уроке с примерами. СОСТОЯНИЕ = ВОСПРИЯТИЕ = РЕАЛЬНОСТЬ Telegram: safin4 | Уроки: https://safin4.ru | https://qcic.ru/

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