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click on the bell so you don’t00:00:03
miss the next videos00:00:05
hello dear friends hello dear00:00:08
Maria good evening dear mechanic we haven’t seen each other for a long time00:00:11
we haven’t seen each other for a long time I00:00:13
’ll tell you why I had a very big00:00:16
tour of Siberia I was in Barnaul00:00:20
Novokuznetsk Kemerovo00:00:22
I was in Novosibirsk, Petersburg, and also the00:00:25
Urals,00:00:26
I was in Tyumen and in Surgut, also in00:00:30
Krasnoyarsk, I even remember all the hundreds of cities, so00:00:31
I returned not of my own free will,00:00:35
it’s like boxing and I also miss00:00:38
home, we’ll cover ourselves easier, as you know, and00:00:42
all the events have been canceled00:00:44
20 me this was the last event00:00:47
after which no one performed anywhere00:00:51
yet and you didn’t get Marie on Mrs.00:00:56
Mrs. I’m hot, took everything away years00:01:00
divorced and also there are these women or00:01:03
married or with children or married and with00:01:05
children of the00:01:06
southern federal district these me this00:01:10
it was unforgettable and they even gave me a picture00:01:13
with the winner,00:01:15
by the way, I don’t remember who won,00:01:19
friendship won, the flowers won’t be drawn here,00:01:22
my friends,00:01:23
that’s why I’m glad, I miss radius 200:01:27
even for 25 jobs, so long00:01:29
breaks also cause melancholy in volume,00:01:32
and today we’re generally friends let's talk00:01:35
today we are talking about what is00:01:38
different about the modern family from the family of00:01:41
our parents, but if I consider the00:01:44
modern family and the family I shields live where00:01:48
having escaped from and what is the most interesting from the00:01:51
family of their parents we see from the00:01:53
upbringing of your parents I invite the00:01:56
youth conspiracy I invite their00:01:58
parents to I have a very interesting00:02:01
observation about the difference between the current families00:02:04
and all of my parents, you will share00:02:07
your observations and thoughts, how is the00:02:10
modern family different from the00:02:12
Soviet parents, these are apparently00:02:16
grandparents and great-grandfathers, they are at the junction of the00:02:19
Soviet regime to look for the tsarist regime so00:02:23
deeply and so that no one drips, so00:02:25
we will limit ourselves Soviet let's say from00:02:27
your memories of the times of at least00:02:31
Khrushchev and Stalin, we are a modern family,00:02:35
what is common and what is the difference,00:02:38
good evening, hello, it’s not enough00:02:43
that you throw out remember what if you didn’t00:02:45
say oh, how joyful until after all,00:02:49
Mikhail, the00:02:50
numbers of the egg and the one set are very00:02:57
large your fan and I'm studying00:03:00
psychology and here's the mustache and beard you00:03:16
have a husband you have a family00:03:18
you can say how you live like your00:03:20
parents and if you know how their parents are00:03:23
let's watch from just yesterday I00:03:27
was talking about the basics00:03:28
on similar topics and she said a we00:03:33
discussed kindergarten, what I wanted was an00:03:37
executive kindergarten, no, it’s not a school of trauma00:03:39
because I was such an anxious00:03:42
child, I have such difficult00:03:45
moods as a child, so I said that00:03:48
well, I felt bad there already in00:03:50
kindergarten and school it was bad in kindergarten, they00:03:54
also laid me down, although Paul is cute, I do00:03:59
n’t have children yet, you will have00:04:04
beaten children, I will look at the00:04:09
child, that is, I see the children there of my00:04:14
brother and the children of the hole, and I see that00:04:20
some children are very good at the factories, that00:04:24
is they are sociable and they even00:04:27
need it a little bit, such a need, they are00:04:30
children who really, really need00:04:32
mom or dad and miss them very much, that’s how00:04:37
sacred they gave me to I suffered there and00:04:40
their mother says and has always been a00:04:41
sunny child, I say, well, you00:04:43
come the main kindergarten, I’m glad00:04:46
that you finally came for me, and in00:04:49
general, my mother tells me, but I,00:04:54
she says, I think that it’s necessary to00:04:57
send children to kindergarten, oh, that00:04:59
is, only I, and I myself never went to00:05:03
children’s women,00:05:04
you’ll figure it out and win back mom.00:05:07
she herself is how old is your mother all00:05:14
three waters when I would say the drive of this00:05:17
60 years ago even my mother walked correctly00:05:21
or who asked myself such a question her00:05:27
mother did not work the vein emulator also00:05:37
just wanted to say about my observations00:05:39
that my parents and all parents all the troubles00:05:43
and they worked, it’s my mother, I could work00:05:47
until my grandmother didn’t work, it’s cool00:05:58
because I’ll tell you something that when I00:06:02
was twenty-five years old we went to00:06:06
see, I remember the name was Sonya for the girl00:06:10
who didn’t work, that is, it was00:06:12
such an interesting thing but this is not a00:06:16
story about your mother, not her for another00:06:18
reason and worked for there was no family,00:06:20
she was the mistress of a heavyweight from Rostov,00:06:24
pull withers, this is a person who00:06:27
worked in the workshop, there are no some Ozheshko, there is no such thing00:06:29
at all, there is a lot of work, but not00:06:33
in the workshop, the00:06:34
workshops of centuries called the people who did00:06:37
this Zhvanetsky was joking, they say at the factory00:06:41
that makes plastic baby dolls, that’s00:06:43
when they make dimples on their cheeks,00:06:46
that’s the plastic that remains from the00:06:48
apple, they made left-handed baby dolls out of it and00:06:52
sold it to the left past the factory, that’s what the00:06:55
Soho physicists did, Wiki did everything, they made00:06:58
clothes, shoes, they made singed jeans and00:07:02
they made burnt vodka00:07:05
and there were serious workshop workers,00:07:07
for example, it was not even a workshop of the century, it was a00:07:10
company parallel to the state, so00:07:13
Soviet times, Mary's00:07:14
company, an ointment from the Armenian who made00:07:17
the boots,00:07:18
so we need to wrap up, how can I00:07:22
tell you to hear or are you standing now,00:07:25
you'll fly on a00:07:26
bulk barbarian, interesting for a second, and00:07:30
now this Avik workshop is rich in more often than not, they00:07:32
were all millionaires, they were good, they made00:07:36
selected materials and00:07:39
stolen materials from Tomsk, they made00:07:42
their products in parallel with the state, let’s say this was an00:07:43
absolutely criminal00:07:46
business in the USSR, the state did not00:07:49
allow allegedly pouring anything in parallel,00:07:51
but the housewives who00:07:54
appeared today for everyone the second family where the husband00:07:57
earns a lot of apple there, the wife sits00:08:00
at home in my time we went on an excursion00:08:02
to Sonya’s home and Sonya talked about how she lives,00:08:06
don’t go anywhere, anarchy to work,00:08:08
tell Sony for the excursions there was00:08:11
no money, but I was fine with the money, he did00:08:13
n’t buy it in Moscow I remember now a three-room apartment in the00:08:15
center of00:08:32
there were00:08:34
women I knew who didn’t00:08:36
work, whose parents didn’t sit at home00:08:39
at all, good evening 731 and good evening,00:08:44
hello Mikhail, my name is Ivan and00:08:48
Maria, it’s a very interesting topic and I00:08:52
would like to say that I have something to00:08:55
compare the family of my parents with00:08:59
my family Estemirova of my own grandmothers and00:09:01
grandfathers, and to learn that my dad is00:09:05
from here, my mother’s graphy is from Western Ukraine and00:09:08
the way of life, in general, was a little different, but00:09:11
in both cases,00:09:12
in both cases, it’s a motorcycle, the role of00:09:14
patriarchy, the role of a man, the media and blah is much00:09:16
higher00:09:17
than for example with my parents, especially00:09:20
than with me family00:09:22
the role of a man in the family to give birth to you their00:09:25
parents was caused00:09:27
more of course the father of men played more in00:09:34
the video I would say the leading and00:09:37
dominant sex we were connected more00:09:40
earned money as a breadwinner he was a00:09:42
breadwinner of course he was a breadwinner he00:09:44
provided00:09:45
income for the world to bake his life he built a00:09:48
house he, well, plus he was very strong, this is00:09:51
liters00:09:52
away from no, it is necessary to be betrayed and00:09:59
the world has changed this, tell us your00:10:02
understanding between you and yourself of your00:10:05
drivers, what is the fundamental difference in00:10:08
raising children, well, for example,00:10:11
you broke it, you will finish it no no no no, that’s not the point,00:10:16
I spent a little time upbringing with me00:10:19
and my brother he was constantly at00:10:23
work there was on business trips he was not often00:10:27
at home when he was what such00:10:30
paternal warmth was very much absent from his00:10:35
children of course in a different way, probably that is,00:10:37
you allocate more time than00:10:40
you did freely your mother earned it for you00:10:44
and both parents took the time for a month, well,00:10:54
in general, yes, it’s working, glue on, so she’s00:10:56
working00:10:58
on maternity leave, she’s expecting a child, no, no,00:11:04
childcare can get caught00:11:06
when according to your child, this is the youngest00:11:09
child, weather, daughter, daughter, and two years old, you are00:11:12
here ascii, and over 80, the finger00:11:16
is dented and with the eldest and as far as he was in prison for00:11:19
three years, the youngest will also be in prison for00:11:23
three years and you will be the youngest too, after all, for three00:11:25
years all the balls are here, I want to say00:11:27
that here we are similar because in00:11:31
Soviet times, and in a year, in my opinion, they gave00:11:35
and paid money for another two years, then God00:11:38
take at your own expense and I was married in the dark years00:11:42
and when you had a child, my00:11:44
wife also sat for three years with the child, by00:11:47
the way it was customary I also thought that in00:11:50
the West they sit on your head where they say until you are 700:11:52
years old you sit for 75 percent of the salary00:11:55
you get nothing00:11:56
on 3 4 weeks, but the third month without any00:12:01
problems at all, French women, I don’t know, German women00:12:04
go to work until Morel, we’re not Mikhail, it’s00:12:07
interesting not so much even the social00:12:09
aspect of the family as the psychological one, to what extent00:12:11
we inherit the psychological00:12:13
model of the family of our parents, and it00:12:16
seems to me that here it’s not the grandparents who00:12:17
need more look specifically at the father and00:12:19
mother, for example, if you were in a single-parent00:12:22
family and your family is like that and whether00:12:25
you started your own family is00:12:27
acceptable or not, or maybe it’s the other way around00:12:29
if you have such a very strong family and00:12:32
I’ll say give this00:12:33
where the value is. in your family, if for00:12:36
example, let’s say you have a big family, your mother00:12:39
was number one00:12:40
and now you are a boy, you got married, this is how00:12:42
things are with you,00:12:44
we answer Ari, my parents, I don’t00:12:47
want anyone, thank you, my parents lived their whole lives00:12:58
instead, I got divorced, I don’t00:13:01
see any direct line at all dependent, that's what00:13:03
you asked, that there are parents who lived00:13:07
like this, you must also no, there is a complete00:13:10
family with parents and not gender, that is,00:13:12
the family appears, it was complete with you, it’s00:13:15
already 5 divorces have gone to let’s be guided as far as00:13:18
you will inherit this installation, as such,00:13:20
we do not inherit at all and not straight things, not a00:13:25
way of life, not like a family once in a00:13:29
lifetime, these are all clichés,00:13:31
we inherit the essence of the relationship correctly00:13:34
curved city, the woman is no longer the husband at the00:13:39
top, you are straight to go deep,00:13:43
of course, with water at the feast, they said in arrest,00:13:45
the woman was the head of the family, this will be00:13:48
inherited so much that the son in this00:13:51
family will choose a wife with a00:13:53
stronger character than his own and he will be00:13:56
born so that she will lead00:13:58
this family and in particular, and I know such00:14:01
serious people, I know such00:14:04
men who sleep and see that there00:14:07
is one strong woman who00:14:10
Like a mother, she forced them, for example, to work00:14:13
or study, and this is true, we00:14:16
honor you, hello Mikhail, my name is Natalya,00:14:18
my mother believes that in the family you need to00:14:20
endure and betrayal would be a bad character and00:14:23
so on, because others have even worse, a00:14:27
storehouse of folk wisdom told me, but I00:14:30
think that to endure I can only do something00:14:32
that doesn’t cause me any inconvenience, that’s why00:14:35
I never share any00:14:37
troubles in my family with my mom because I’m00:14:39
sure that I heard the answer, be00:14:40
patient and don’t get any00:14:42
constructive advice, I really00:14:44
want my mom00:14:46
to support me morally, what would my00:14:47
mom say in such a situation? thank you for at00:14:51
least I put up with you 100 people entering00:14:54
psychology, but in general I often00:14:56
encounter this if I were a00:14:59
woman, I would say, well, yes, but as a psychologist,00:15:02
I will say differently;00:15:03
parents who speak for the sake of the league00:15:05
really say that; there, the husband drinks, beats,00:15:09
cheats, happens and father and mother are just00:15:12
two mouths and so this is your family,00:15:15
you are an adult, this is what you have to endure,00:15:18
this is like your life,00:15:20
go there and figure out why they00:15:22
say that because they themselves lived a00:15:25
happy life, here’s how an example of how00:15:28
hazing is organized in the army comes a00:15:31
young fighter and immediately gets hit on the head,00:15:34
then he becomes higher in status there I do00:15:37
n’t remember anymore 40 years have passed there spirit00:15:40
ladle you continue until he00:15:42
gets into trouble and then the channel00:15:45
becomes a grandfather he begins to lower and00:15:47
humiliate those who just came so00:15:50
this the tradition is absolutely clear in00:15:53
its logic, as if they would choke me, I would have come the time I00:15:57
was Mari parents who lived an00:16:00
infrequent life where the father beat the mother drank the match00:16:04
it endured he walked she cried you were the00:16:07
first of them the children grew up00:16:08
they are offended that they lived such a figure00:16:12
life from this point sight are not happy and00:16:14
they, of course, just00:16:17
go to the children with a poster on their chest, play, the children must00:16:20
endure, it seems we endured, and now00:16:23
your things are just right, I can also read00:16:25
my grandfather, born in 1903, married who is00:16:30
1 46 years old from soup became 56 my mother gave birth to00:16:35
me in 20 was married once00:16:38
developed 23 years old I was married three times00:16:42
now the third marriage the first kind were born in00:16:45
it not 40 years old it would be great to give this00:16:47
answers your question I also want to00:16:50
remember two words here are what we have00:16:53
Viktor Nabutov and Viktor on would be, that is,00:16:56
dads Kirill Nabutov00:16:58
Kira Nabatov made a great program00:17:00
Adam's apple it was called about a00:17:03
man's life there was a brilliant program00:17:05
and there was such a plot of how they came to the registry office in St.00:17:08
Petersburg of a man this is 8000:17:11
20 I’m exaggerating now maybe he was00:17:14
eighty-two she was twenty-four00:17:16
20-year-old bride as it were sign00:17:19
and the registry office employee said I won’t00:17:21
sign you, why do we all understand that00:17:24
you are a fictitious marriage, that you are eighty00:17:26
two hundred and twenty and the only reason00:17:28
you are here is your St. Petersburg00:17:30
registration, the00:17:31
old cat listened from the place, jumped onto the00:17:35
registry office counter, did a somersault in the air and00:17:38
landed on your feet and don’t be silent they were00:17:40
painted, it turns out he worked in the00:17:43
Utesov00:17:45
region orchestra as an acrobat, I suddenly remembered00:17:48
about the family of the00:17:50
family, as well as Engels was called the00:17:54
family of what are you private property00:17:56
work on the call let’s good evening you turn00:18:04
to the left and talk please nokia00:18:09
years I’m very glad again don’t meddle with you here00:18:12
us the best to your captain this is short00:18:16
myself then I’m so big for someone lebron00:18:18
to jump with this I’m working and I want to say00:18:21
about today’s topic that it00:18:24
seems to me that what distinguishes us from our00:18:26
parents was00:18:27
once something absolutely people00:18:29
to be happy about we do00:18:32
n’t know how to live in a completely new life;00:18:51
that it seems to me00:18:54
sonny then to dress00:18:59
never relaxed didn’t really come out00:19:03
you could feel them or books it00:19:05
seems to me you should always start and port00:19:08
enjoy life and then it seems to me00:19:11
and spends it perhaps easier00:19:16
neurotic I want not bad I bought you an00:19:21
interview with some person and00:19:23
persistent Maxim, you said how very00:19:25
wisely it looks like Sasha Malenkov is some00:19:27
person of Maxim magazine,00:19:30
editor-in-chief Maltseva, but here they speak00:19:36
in Europe when a person who cannot00:19:38
relate to them event torment texts that00:19:41
seem to be unable to live the bell we gave00:19:44
good evening good evening Mikhail good00:19:46
evening Marie my name is Svetlana I’m 4500:19:49
years old I also wanted to disagree with the00:19:52
previous girl about the joy00:19:55
that we cannot experience and our00:19:57
parents experienced more I00:20:00
just probably are more allowed in our00:20:03
modern times to enjoy life00:20:06
because the information is available available00:20:10
different trainings are different courses, that is,00:20:13
the soul can learn to enjoy life only through00:20:16
trainings and courses, there is more information00:20:20
and you can get pleasure00:20:23
from each other and joy from each other, but you00:20:25
know what your name is,00:20:28
Svetochka, dear, you are just not a pro aulos,00:20:31
look at the expense of pleasure from each00:20:33
other the quarantine period exploded its00:20:37
sale and was treated by 30 percent at00:20:40
thirty-five to become continue further00:20:44
my grandparents got married when00:20:48
they received it.00:20:50
to find out that my grandmother came to her mother00:20:52
in order to00:20:54
return back, she said that my husband was00:20:57
beating me, my grandmother, my grandmother from my00:21:00
grandmother’s channels, that she got married or didn’t even00:21:07
go, as they say, I’m bad for this,00:21:12
it’s indecent not to tell that such a one will00:21:15
of course give a shock, well, like an electric shock, he00:21:18
jumps but hits we don’t exist, well, that’s about the00:21:22
same thing she said, my mother went to the pub, it’s00:21:25
iron and they still live, my mother00:21:29
regretted that it was only for the sake of the children that you00:21:32
would have spilled it a long time ago, well, our00:21:36
family didn’t protest for a long time, that is, I00:21:39
got divorced because my husband that this is00:21:41
how they received joy from each other,00:21:43
this is how Marie asked about the00:21:45
psychological aspect, you followed it00:21:47
turns out from the grandmother from the mother, this is00:21:50
the story, yes, the first years until the goods00:21:53
to work on yourself, it was terrible, I00:21:56
constantly put pressure on me from this experience, my00:21:59
parents' grandparents now you are00:22:02
not married, no worse, thank God00:22:10
you already know that a relationship is necessary and00:22:13
quite seriously, I’m taking00:22:19
this step here, well, as they say, God forbid, my00:22:21
husband doesn’t drink, you see more, Alexander00:22:24
writes to Dorina, different ones,00:22:29
and at the end, Alexander, good afternoon to me00:22:34
such a situation, I never supported00:22:37
the position of my mother, who worked tirelessly,00:22:39
raised three children and managed to00:22:41
prepare the first second and third for our father,00:22:43
I had a direct disgust for all00:22:46
this, and nevertheless, having entered into a00:22:50
civil marriage at the age of 24, and after some time00:22:52
I I started doing the same thing after three and a00:22:54
half years, I was still able to00:22:56
end this relationship, for which, by the way,00:22:57
thank you very much, Mikhail, there is no question, it00:23:00
will shrink00:23:01
to the side ska, they thank you for the divorce for00:23:05
the wedding, no one was such a funny00:23:08
case when they were amazed at me on the street and the00:23:10
steam from girl rock mikhail thank you00:23:12
so much00:23:13
thanks to you your books we are together couples00:23:17
this is very original not so usually00:23:18
no one thanks well yes he says I00:23:21
usually don’t talk about divorce but before he00:23:23
was already married and at least started listening morons will you00:23:27
get divorced attacks well here he is00:23:28
divorced we now together, are you good to have some tea, are00:23:34
you on the air and just wanted to talk to00:23:40
Peter, they call me a drop, they really respect the refusal of the00:23:43
beans that you are doing, thank you very much, the00:23:48
parents think it’s an egregious situation, mom00:23:55
[music]00:23:56
seems to be a qualified base and00:24:10
dad, she released it, and now00:24:19
it depends on me for almost 40 and my mother’s00:24:25
lover, my father, kicked me out, my mother, so I am very00:24:29
slavery at their age, what other00:24:31
adventures are possible and passions for David,00:24:34
but my mother does not need a calm00:24:41
relationship, and the thing is very correct,00:24:54
say everything, don’t give up, this is not00:24:57
clear to anyone except the psychologist, psychiatrists and the00:24:59
participants themselves In this game, neurotics00:25:03
need adrenaline, they need this suffering,00:25:07
showdowns, often even fights,00:25:09
conflicts and scandals, and they00:25:12
stay in this strange relationship for years, which00:25:15
no one understands, as soon as they00:25:18
separate,00:25:19
part of the team immediately becomes00:25:22
depressed because there are no partners00:25:24
who can supply you with this, like a marriage dealer00:25:26
there were drugs and a package, who00:25:30
called you, why did you come so late00:25:33
three more times for foreign currency, you don’t pick up the phone, and00:25:35
who writes to you to take a check one for one, but there00:25:37
remains a report of lipstick on your shirt, and why did00:25:41
those women call from there at two00:25:43
o’clock in the morning rank00:25:45
and where did you go after work, I was00:25:47
half an hour from home before work, but it was still two hours,00:25:50
it all takes away from a person, the check begins to00:25:53
really bend because this00:25:55
pain is due to him and magic, in fact, is why it does00:25:59
n’t work, here’s an interesting one00:26:01
I have from Tatyana,00:26:04
hello no For 53 years, it00:26:06
was almost impossible for my mother to divorce my father, and she00:26:09
endured his00:26:12
drinking and the ruble all her life, now divorce is not00:26:15
a problem; they give birth to children without a husband; many00:26:18
used to be ashamed; they00:26:20
paid more attention to the opinions of00:26:22
others; so I want to comment on00:26:25
what I wrote; the first thing that will suit you is00:26:26
no one it didn’t occur to me,00:26:28
you know why it was impossible to get00:26:30
a divorce, I’ll admit it for years, in fact,00:26:33
even the party committee is there00:26:34
because you had nowhere to live,00:26:37
my friends, in Soviet times, everyone lived for three00:26:41
generations, lived in the same apartment,00:26:43
sometimes in the same room in a communal00:26:46
apartment, what do I mean, grandparents00:26:50
or maybe one grandmother or one grandfather,00:26:53
because women live more than men in00:26:55
Russia and in the world in general, so usually00:26:58
the grandmother is next to00:27:00
her daughter or her son with his wife or husband,00:27:03
respectively, and children, that is, three00:27:06
generations huddled in one like 0 100:27:10
room 2 rooms and so on, that’s why00:27:12
what it means to get divorced is a00:27:15
terrible story about how you are divorced00:27:17
but we live in the same room or in the same00:27:19
apartment and one of the divorced people00:27:23
brought some woman or00:27:25
brought a man and we continue to live in the same00:27:28
apartment and we meet in the kitchen in the00:27:30
toilet and I’m not kidding00:27:32
because there was no way not to00:27:34
move anywhere, not to rent an apartment, much00:27:37
less to buy now,00:27:39
divorce is much easier, in particular00:27:42
because you can live where you want, as you00:27:45
want and with everyone there is not enough, we are not00:27:48
Italy this waist needs00:27:51
to write letters to the Pope for divorce and wait about three years00:27:54
in Russia please, we are in the USSR if you want to get00:27:57
divorced, then you will live somewhere, that’s the00:27:59
reason for the shame, I would also like00:28:02
to say two words, here I was when I00:28:05
studied at school with us closet00:28:07
of 30 about two children, but they lived in a00:28:12
single-parent family, everyone knew it, it did00:28:14
n’t look very normal, that is, in the00:28:17
USSR the family was in some sense stronger,00:28:19
but because partly due to patience,00:28:22
as soon as freedom appeared, the check began to be00:28:24
chosen, of course, many families in the USSR00:28:27
would fell apart about such freedom there wasn’t a00:28:30
great state and00:28:32
so it’s really a herd of bathhouses a herd of00:28:35
bo but they looked like this today so you00:28:38
know more than 50 percent of children, that is,00:28:42
specifically 54 percent of children both in Russia and00:28:45
in Europe live in single-parent families, that is,00:28:49
and you just won’t surprise anyone a complete00:28:51
family turns out to be a minority in the USSR, of00:28:54
course this didn’t happen, I’m deciding whether it’s good00:28:56
or bad, I’m just stating a fact, and00:29:00
the last thing is that they paid more attention00:29:03
to the opinions of others, not quite like that, in cities00:29:06
it was always the same,00:29:07
but in the villages there was a community and consciousness, and00:29:11
there was a much larger rural population00:29:13
than now and there the00:29:16
whole village really looked at you and for some reason00:29:19
I get along the features have not developed now00:29:21
of course this is not there good evening hello00:29:26
ear and it seemed to me that they very accurately described what the00:29:30
essence is passed on to the next00:29:34
generation the essence of the relationship and this is where00:29:36
everything will happen depends on00:29:38
what essence was conveyed, and if the00:29:41
essence was in love, before in some kind of00:29:44
understanding, accept this, which is now being00:29:47
talked about a lot, then the instructions are transferred to the00:29:50
next families; they, in principle, work00:29:53
and the family lives for fans and raises00:29:56
children according to the rules that were given00:29:58
parents, and in general, they are not00:30:00
stressed and everything is put in perfectly,00:30:03
but if these installations were mayor00:30:05
teaching, simply the very essence of this family00:30:09
was in some kind of conflicts of constant00:30:12
misunderstanding and the decisions that00:30:16
were given, but they were still more00:30:19
standardized in Soviet times,00:30:20
will be accepted it is customary to punish, to beat, it is00:30:24
customary to scold a husband,00:30:26
and then to be dissatisfied with one’s wife, and it00:30:30
seems to me that such attitudes are00:30:33
now rejected by many people,00:30:35
and if people have the strength and00:30:38
opportunity to want to work through it,00:30:40
very00:30:42
serious changes are now being made in such families and they do00:30:45
n’t say that they are easy, they don’t say that00:30:48
you are always successful,00:30:50
here it’s just a very big00:30:52
difficulty for the current00:30:54
generation, that those standards that were00:30:57
not acceptable, the new ones have not yet been created00:31:01
internally because it should take00:31:03
a lot of time, it should be a lot of00:31:06
work mental and physical00:31:08
emotional including00:31:11
you know I absolutely agree with you but00:31:14
I will still have time although the sea00:31:16
looks at me disapprovingly when I00:31:18
talk to Ben more00:31:19
no that the child is falling I didn’t want to understand and I’m00:31:22
not the only one here listeners eat food I’ll00:31:28
scratch out Marie I00:31:31
’ll tell you for two minutes that00:31:35
there really is such a story; in short, at first there were00:31:38
traditions in the Russian Empire, there were00:31:40
some traditions of family life, they00:31:43
were different, they can be divided into 4 categories:00:31:46
separate traditions lived00:31:49
peasants,00:31:50
separate traditions, workers lived00:31:52
separate traditions of housing, commoners, but00:31:56
who is listed? You can include all employees00:31:58
and merchants, and the nobles lived separately from traditions,00:32:02
but nevertheless, each of00:32:06
these social strata had their own00:32:08
ideas about proper family00:32:10
life, for example, working Christians themselves00:32:13
raised children, like we do, and their own00:32:17
folk art and the work of00:32:20
all sorts of poets and writers like Nekrasov's00:32:24
cross, they took children with them into the field,00:32:27
for example, 2 rows of children gave them to the barking and00:32:30
mothers who raised them, fed them and00:32:34
brought them, I don’t know, maybe 1 week after00:32:36
this they were able to show the child, but00:32:40
nevertheless it was clear that these people00:32:42
were raised in a very certain way00:32:45
further the great began, it turned out to be00:32:50
the great October socialist00:32:52
revolution, and then everything changed,00:32:58
as Tolstoy said, everything was mixed up in the00:33:02
Oblonsky house, there are no classes, there are00:33:06
no nobles poking their working00:33:08
peasants, even more so there was a00:33:11
new Soviet man who00:33:14
is characterized by a complete lack of00:33:16
ideas about what is good and what00:33:18
is bad because they immediately00:33:21
pushed God00:33:22
further and the women suddenly went to00:33:27
work, that is, a situation in which, after00:33:30
all, in tsarist times, some of the women I00:33:33
worked especially for the nobles, and even for the00:33:37
employees, many women did not work and00:33:39
commoners and courses, and so on,00:33:42
they earned money here00:33:43
Even the well-known history of the emigration books00:33:48
and the countess worked there with their necks and so00:33:52
on and the situation changed dramatically,00:33:55
the woman began not to raise children but to go away to00:33:58
nail down the railway sleepers, a00:34:01
children's commune appeared, but that is, these are00:34:04
boarding school kindergartens and so on, a00:34:07
completely different life began00:34:09
in the complete absence of understanding what00:34:11
traditions in this life the correct answer00:34:14
is none then gradually in the USSR00:34:17
Soviet traditions began to appear in00:34:19
our country bell good evening hello but the00:34:24
city please dig up no one00:34:28
Nizhny Novgorod ears your program as00:34:32
if there are many opinions about the generations00:34:35
there I love what is happening regarding00:34:39
generations, it’s enough like this and 43 years old00:34:45
how would I get it thank God how happy I am00:34:48
someone will say a couple I’ll go as00:34:50
if I had grandmothers great-grandparents great-grandfathers00:34:53
not long ago but how would promotion days everyone00:34:57
gets yes yes yes yes yes how It’s00:35:00
as if my great-grandmothers had two folders of00:35:02
guides about the species, I’ll say00:35:05
one generation of my great-grandfathers, let’s say so,00:35:08
she was quite more or less so00:35:11
simply not that they were raised, let’s say00:35:13
they had someone to direct their00:35:17
time to, well, educate, let’s say so,00:35:20
they didn’t have such isolation from00:35:24
the reality that here I am at 28, and for example, yes,00:35:26
and as I said in parallel, it’s00:35:28
wrong, it will be like that, that is,00:35:30
they would have an understanding of what it is there, we’ll00:35:34
show it, so what’s the belt you are00:35:36
correct to chat and democratic, they00:35:39
won’t say so, we were democratic above00:35:44
him, more or less, there was still a father00:35:46
who could lead his family, let’s say, in the00:35:50
right direction, but for now it’s not mine00:35:53
about the generation of my species, I just watched the00:35:55
example of myself00:35:57
and his three brothers, well, let’s just say that’s where00:36:00
I’m a pirate, you’re a man who grew up in a village, that00:36:03
is and this and that, how can I00:36:06
analyze this generation, roughly00:36:11
speaking, korra in the thirties,00:36:15
brothers, they don’t know, they were still in00:36:29
the club, let’s just say the Malinka region00:36:32
was the first during the war00:36:37
to be dented that many believe that in00:36:39
Tsarist Russia and in the early Soviet00:36:43
period, celebrity and happen to be full of00:36:45
friends, definitely not moreover, when the00:36:48
USSR began, in general, people went into a rant;00:36:52
it was the famous theory of a glass of00:36:55
water, who invented it, Marie,00:36:58
which must be served or which is00:37:00
half full and this is the balance, kontai, are00:37:04
you missing, am I not Joe sleeping is00:37:08
like drinking a glass of water, it00:37:10
was Kontai’s ideology,00:37:11
she was very famous, well, such a00:37:14
public figure, I know talent,00:37:20
having heard labor and her, and the theory was that00:37:24
sleeping is like drinking a glass of water, there00:37:27
were interesting stories00:37:29
to me, how was Henry Barth, and through them00:37:33
gave it was, according to such a gray copy of the00:37:36
Samara resolution, in my opinion, the00:37:37
Revolutionary Military Council, but only some kind of00:37:40
organization for the use of unmarried00:37:42
women of00:37:43
27 years old by different segments of the population,00:37:48
by the way it was [ __ ] coming out of machines like a00:37:50
robot, the same similar story is described,00:37:52
that is, they could enter into sexual00:37:55
relations, they simply demanded with00:37:57
unmarried and the workers and peasants,00:38:01
first of all, I adore not until lunch, even00:38:04
this is a huge tax for this, come on for this,00:38:06
such a little approach to prostitution00:38:08
was, in short, it was nothing like it was, as it00:38:11
seems to us, in this stupid, sing this line, there00:38:14
was no sex in the USSR and as I already he said00:38:17
when the USSR began, the traditions ended, the00:38:19
old regime ended, well, first of all,00:38:21
they removed God and all this is a family story00:38:24
because the family, in a sense, was00:38:27
structured approximately like a church,00:38:29
but when a woman went to work, the00:38:31
primacy of men also wavered after00:38:34
women began to earn money.00:38:36
also, who was lucky, who got married,00:38:38
as you remember in the cartoon in this guide,00:38:41
he got a wife, an authoritative woman, this is00:38:45
plasticine to tell so that00:38:47
the authoritarian00:38:48
is someone else’s Gleb with one of the creators of00:38:51
this great cartoon, so I want to00:38:56
say what’s next and to this day,00:38:59
families belly as they live00:39:01
National families have more traditions,00:39:04
such as those who came from, say, the00:39:07
Caucasian republics, and in our middle00:39:10
zone, God willing, but more on00:39:12
that some other time00:39:14
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