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people over 50 years old who have chosen the
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childfree path regret either their decision I’m
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56 no I don’t regret it I’m just a
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loner by nature and I’m happy living
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with my cats no I found
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a partner who has the same position we are
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cool uncles and aunts about nothing I regret it,
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just today I told my
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older sister, who is also childfree, about this and
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she herself completely agreed that we
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live and have enough responsibilities and
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expenses not of our own free will, but I regret it with
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us if you are married, but I am worried about
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what will happen to my wife when I I’ll die, she’ll be
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left alone, but otherwise everything is
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great, not that I regret
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that I don’t have children, but I rather regret
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that I didn’t have a healthy
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relationship in which I would feel
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that I could have children, I regret that
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that I was weak and could not leave an
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objective relationship earlier if I had
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been stronger I think I would at
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least have had a choice so yes to some
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extent I regret no I never
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had the desire to change diapers or
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lose sleep free time and for the
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most part earning money from other people's children is
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great mainly because they are strangers
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when people ask who will take care
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of you in old age I answer that when
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I am 75 I will install a 40 year old
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child I am over 70 I live happily without
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children I am now 23 and so am I childfree
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I hope I live to be 70 I won’t regret
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my choice I’m 52 years old I’m lying in
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bed with a mug of tea and a book and looking
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at the morning sky over the ocean
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music is playing quietly and no one needs to cook
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porridge or change a diaper no one
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asks for a car and doesn’t climb into I’ll go to
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bed later, I’ll go to the museum, I’ll
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walk around it without a stroller and a lying
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hungry wet baby or an eternally
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dissatisfied teenager, yes there will be moments
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when the children behave well, but
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what is the percentage of this time, and if
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there are two of them, I’ll imagine that you need to
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constantly cook for them food and the
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children will not be vegans, one will
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only eat chicken nuggets all the time and the
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second, if I let him in,
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will not be able to boil water without incident,
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in general, I have never regretted my
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decision, I am 40 and I already regret that I
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still don’t have children I can’t imagine
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how terrible and I will feel for you 50
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my parents were over 40 when they
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gave birth to me maybe it’s not too
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late especially since the child can be
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identified I usually explain this to people
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so you know there is that feeling when you
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can’t wait to teach your child to play
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baseball or in something else, I do
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n’t have that, in fact I just
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don’t have a parental instinct, children are
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not what I always strived for,
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my wife has the same opinion and don’t get me
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wrong, I have nothing against
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children and I hate people who
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harm children harm or mistreatment of them, it
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also took me
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years to come to terms with the idea that I
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completely lacked the desire to have
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children. At first I thought that this desire
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would appear on its own when I got older,
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then I thought that my
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psyche was broken, then I thought that I needed
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just convince yourself or have a
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child and hope that this feeling
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will come, but now I’m already over thirty and
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I still have no desire
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to have children, people always ask
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why I don’t want children, like you know,
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I have a hundred reasons why, but the most
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important reason sounds
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literal because I don’t want them again
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I don’t want children why force me to
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do something that I don’t have a
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natural desire in my opinion this is a
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great way to ruin the life not
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only for yourself but also for poor unwanted children
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I’m almost 50 so I guess I’ll chime in to
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your discussion, I never wanted
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children, I just didn’t have the desire, but I
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began to help raise my niece and
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nephew after their mother, my
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sister, died in an accident, they were 7
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and 5 years old at the time, I didn’t sit with them all day long,
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but on weekends I came to their house
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while their father was working and his [ __ ]
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wife didn't want to be around them for
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years they visited me
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every other weekend and about
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half the summer now they are 21 and 19 years old and
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to them I was more of a mom than an aunt when they were kids
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they were still a headache, so I’m
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glad that I didn’t have my own children to look
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after them even not every day, it
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was quite tiring for me, but of
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course I’m very sorry that their mother died,
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parents who look after children all day long,
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you’re just amazing, I wish I could
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I couldn’t, well, at least their father gave
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me money for the entire time I
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took care of them, gave part of
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my sister’s social benefits so that I
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could feed and clothe the children, hold
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fun events for them, organize
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camps, and so on, I love them wildly, but I don’t
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care I’m glad that I didn’t have my own
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children, they are great guys, I love them to
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death, but at the same time they
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hurt me several times by behaving stupidly and
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making stupid decisions, although of course you
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need to understand that all children are
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characterized by such actions, and in general I
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will kick the ass of anyone who will offend my
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nephews no, I never wanted children and
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now I don’t regret that I don’t have them,
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what do you do with your free time,
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which you have due to the lack of
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children, do you spend money on hobbies or do you
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work even more, maybe you go on
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vacation my great-aunt
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She and her husband have a
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really busy life on the island, they're over
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90 and have tons of friends, they
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meet up with them regularly and have tea. Grandma
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is into fashion and has a passion for vintage
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clothing. She looks amazing
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when I first met her at 70.
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she really destroyed my stereotype
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that all childless elderly people live an
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empty, painful life full of regrets,
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and then I really began to
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think and look closely at people and
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how satisfied they were with their
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choices at every stage of their life, no,
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I knew what I was getting into when I agreed to
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marry my husband, he had
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two sons from his first marriage, after which he
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had a vasectomy,
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he was very worried because I was young in
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comparison with him, he is 10 years older, I
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seriously thought about everything and came to the conclusion
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that it would be better for me to live with than possible
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with a child I don’t have yet, we’re
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doing great, we’ve been together for 26 years, but
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as a bonus I have nine grandchildren, a
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real pleasure, no
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responsibility in raising them, I have
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mixed feelings, I don’t really like children
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and I think that their appearance would be
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a disaster for us, and besides, I was able to
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retire at the age of 52, I’m almost sure that with
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children I wouldn’t be able to afford it,
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so yes, in my opinion, this is absolutely the
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right decision, but I love my
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family and periodically wonder what it would be like to
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have my own to teach my own family
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what I know and at the moment of my
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death I will not be left without a person who
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cares about me, but I repeat, this is an
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absolutely correct decision and for 55 years I am
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very happy that I don’t have children,
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I tell myself this every time when
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I come across other people’s children, I never I
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wanted children, I stupidly don’t have the patience for
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this, and even if I had children, I
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would be very worried about them, I
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would constantly watch them so that they don’t
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get hurt, and so on, besides, I have a
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fear that I will become the same as my
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father and I wouldn’t want to subject my children to
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such a test, my wife worked a lot
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in a nursing home, think about it
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for many years, more than 95 percent of
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old people are never visited by
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relatives, relatives don’t come until the
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old people die and they don’t want to
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get their piece of the pie, that’s when
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I realized that everything these and who will visit
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you or give you a glass of water in old age is
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complete nonsense, after that my wife and I decided
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not to have children, we became friends with great
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guys and saw the world, we don’t
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regret anything, well, that’s what we fought for and
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ran into many of these old people, they
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behaved disgustingly with their
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families and deserved what they got I would
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not visit my father even if they
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paid me a million dollars for it and I
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say this sincerely, but I would never for
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anything in the world send my grandfather
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or mother to a nursing home if they
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needed special care institutions I
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will visit them there every day I’m 55 I
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never wanted children I just
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don’t really like them and 20 plus years of
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motherhood sounded and still sounds
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like a prison sentence I’m not against the manifestation of
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maternal instinct when it comes to
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cats and dogs but little people no
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way, I’m very happy to live without children, I
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can’t imagine my life any other way, but is it
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generally socially acceptable to tell
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people that I just don’t like children?
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This is a really honest answer, but
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it seems like it’s never
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exhaustive for those around me. I
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’ve said this more than once and there was no dramas
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just be respectful don't make
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fun of other people's choices I
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usually say kids are just not my
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kids don't suit my lifestyle my
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favorite phrase no regrets I work in
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retail all day I hear kids screaming
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that's all I can say oh god work
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in retail trading is the best
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contraceptive in the world, and
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flying on airplanes, I work in
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education, so I feel about the
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same thing at work, I raise and
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have already raised enough other people’s children, I don’t
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think I have the strength to even
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think about having more of
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my own, I can’t I don’t understand how my colleagues
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can come home after a long day of work
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and still have to deal with raising
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children at the end of the day, I’m so exhausted that I
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just want to sleep I’m 54 years old for the last
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30 years I’ve lived alone, currently my
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dog ​​and I took a sudden vacation and
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are having a good rest hotel, perhaps I
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could already be a grandfather, you know, I can’t even
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imagine what it’s like to have a family,
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sometimes I imagine a more norma different
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life with sunshine, a lawn, a white fence
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and so on, but then I understand that real
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life is not like that at all, in general, there is it, it’s
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gone, I don’t regret it about the fact that I don’t have
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children and a wife, sometimes in my life I
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get bored, but then I look at all
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this drama that happens in people’s
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relationships and realizing that I can say I
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dodged a bullet, I tried for twenty years to
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find a wife to start a family with her
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later I realized that time has already passed, so
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[ __ ] all the money that I saved for
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my future family, I’ll spend it on myself,
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what kind of gift should I buy myself for
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Christmas, thank you very much for watching, and
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if people over 50 are watching us
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and have chosen the childfree path, write do you
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regret yours solution and don’t
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forget to watch our other episodes
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bye
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