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the meaning of the terms abuse,
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manipulation of insults, how
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manipulation of insults, how can it all
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be called abuse in one word, plus this is a
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fashionable word that means violence,
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it’s like
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violence is always unworthy behavior
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If you don’t like it, let’s say
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you like violence,
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it’s abuse of
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me and Clap me Clap, press, crush
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to the soul suddenly you like it Well then
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it’s not violence, yes, that is, if you
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are in some kind of discomfort Yes 10 of the
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other person, that is, we
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can call relationships toxic, they
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irritate you, this is naturally some kind of
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violence or physical emotional or
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some other kind of violence, maybe
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violence, but the word violence is somehow
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fashionable, let’s say if you come to
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some cafe and they bring you
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buckwheat soup or pea soup with crackers,
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but cool, it’s not crackers, although it’s the
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same thing And if you come in and Tell me
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please, two funny muffins from a collective farmer
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and some kind And if
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you feel cherry muffins Yes, how it sounds right away
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today I was walking around your city and there
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was such an amazing sign
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[music]
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and if you call it something else What is
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cheesecake
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cake this is not a cheesecake cake, this is a
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cheesecake, will
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you come to me please, a cheesecake like
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this
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Well, or you should be made up with
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felt-tip pens
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with kokoshniks in some kind of a little skake
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of this, she’s a cheesecake after all, oh my God, she’s probably
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fashionable, she probably
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went to Moscow to study Well, something
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like that
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so they fight, this fashionable word is usually a
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fashionable word violence violence no matter how it
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sounds, we also call it
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some kind of toxic relationship Because violence
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It is always toxic Why it is toxic
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Because it poisons the life of someone
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involved
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Violent people are dear friends We are
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now here from this letter somehow Let's
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get out and maybe in the end the girl
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will draw her own conclusions There are two
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types of rapists There are two types of toxic relationships
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that is, malignant and
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benign
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Well, have we heard something about all sorts of these
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tumors there, here we all hear these Yes,
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malignant What does it mean
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the ass is full That is, everything is fine, cut into pieces at
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best, and so on and so forth That
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is, no one says, well, you have a
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malignant tumor Try
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Plantain Well, something like that Well, no no
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If the tumor is benign, then
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you can live with it, and by and large
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you can there you can to treat, by and large, something like this is the
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same
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toxic relationship They are conditionally, of
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course, divided into several such things,
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malignant differs from benign in
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principle, concentration concentration we
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can say and In addition, the
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reaction to this is different, using an example, the reaction to
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benign
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is setting boundaries, that is They do this to you
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because you allow it.
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If you Stop allowing a person to
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do this to you, then he
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most likely will not do this to you
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if it is a malignant abuse, then
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no matter what boundaries you set, nothing will
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work out.
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That is, this is not an accident. Now we
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will be with you can figure out what they look like,
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again, these are conditional, some conditional
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divisions can be heard from behind Yes, I just
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moved a little away to fit in the
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division is conditional, but nevertheless, friends,
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I promise you I won’t put too much pressure on you with
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abuse, because if I talk about abuse for half an hour,
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who will - to
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shoot yourself in the back seat, there a
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girl will throw herself out the window,
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so I’ll try not for very long and
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then I’ll tell jokes from the dance to
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make it easier for you. Well, let’s What types of
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benign abuse,
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benign toxic relationships, are
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there the most benign, the
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most harmless,
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these are border violators? who
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violate boundaries
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how people violate boundaries come on
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Tell me how this happened to you
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or how you violated boundaries
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What types of boundary violations does
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he violate your boundaries
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well How to deal with this like
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just keep walking he’s
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against the bottom And how he’s against
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He can’t he’s just sitting there in his
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diary, he wrote to himself, I’m against him, he’s
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somehow acting on
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some methods. Yes, they also use a
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person, he can ask an insensitive
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question, and yes, yes, yes, yes
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[music]
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Well, what kind of rape in a cruel way
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Or let’s say he’s just too close to
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you moved,
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agree There is a
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physical difference, either he beats you or
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just
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pinches you on the ass and so Kisa is my
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slightly different story Yes well Yes I
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agree with you yes there may be some
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physical stories physical stories the
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difference in physical violence between the fact
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that it is
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malignant benign What is the
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difference Do you think that
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physical violence is benign from
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non-benign, you
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don’t understand, yes,
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let’s say when benign when
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malignant
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physical violence check gets high on your
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pain, he likes to hurt you
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and he can’t do anything about it,
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he’s just sick.
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If, let’s say, the husband claps out of habit
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during the day he gives his wife a compliment on her ass,
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she just
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keeps silent and doesn’t say that she doesn’t like it.
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Well, she just endures this benign
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abuse and the difference in reaction, then you can
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say Don’t do that to me please, it’s
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unpleasant for me, that is, you need to establish
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that a boundary is enough to set a
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boundary, no
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boundary we need to protect dear friends
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because,
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well, if he does this, it means he’s
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somehow already developed some neural
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chains, he’s
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getting used to it, if
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we’ve been doing this for a long time, it should
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n’t be so easy,
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maybe he thought that I was just in a
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bad mood today was tomorrow
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5 on her ass, she and he
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will continue,
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so setting a boundary is not enough; you need to protect this
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boundary, that is, assert several times
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that this cannot be done,
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that is, protect it always constantly,
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this is my rule, I don’t tolerate it, but this is
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also not enough; the third stage is what kind of
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violator is needed for violating boundaries, what to
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punish, of course, because impunity
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gives rise to lawlessness If a man
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does this, he was told several times, he was
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warned and then he carried out
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his threat there or the like,
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the man will think, maybe he
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really doesn’t like it anyway
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And if she also says it’s correct, then
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maybe he’s very will quickly move on and
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do things differently if let’s say a
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toxic abuser is toxic and
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malignant, he doesn’t care at all
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what you feel, he likes him so much,
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he’s a sick person,
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we’ll come back to sick people,
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there’s no point in explaining anything to such people, but that’s a
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little later. What violations of the boundaries
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of moral teaching, jealousy Yes, even more
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specifically, what does this mean?
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You are now talking about certain methods. Yes, but
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what does it mean to devalue specifically how he
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devalues
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[music]
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like
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[music]
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What does it mean constantly humiliates
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[music]
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which does not exist? That is, this is a
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border violator who
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does this all the time Well, okay Let it
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be so he won’t argue the difference Then
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we’ll find That is, he may be that such a
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person may be trying to talk you over
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Yes, interrupting there Possibly not listening Yes,
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invading your personal space
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may even physically
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move too close to you yes There and so on and so
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on requires more from you than you
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you can give, again, as they said, gives
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some unsolicited advice, some
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instructions,
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at least waste your time, is late,
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does not promise punctually, but does not fulfill, what
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difference does it make?
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most often he
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does this only because you
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allow it for some reason, it doesn’t matter
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why Why do people allow themselves
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to do something that, by and large, they do
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n’t like you
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need to raise your hand you need to raise your hand you
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need to raise your hand an
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insecure person, yes yes You
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allow people to treat you like this because
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you are not a confident person and if you were
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confident you wouldn’t allow it Well, not really yes
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please
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You can name a lot of reasons now
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How can I explain everything in one sentence
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[music]
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raise your hand because
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we raise your hand
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What does manipulation mean
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I I ask why a person endures
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if he doesn’t like something, he
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continues to endure unworthily,
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incorrectly, toxic, abusive
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attitude towards himself, does
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not know how to set boundaries, everyone knows how to
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set boundaries,
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fear is also
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love, in fact,
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it turns out that a smart woman knows everything, but
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what are these bonuses called? secondary
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benefits actually in fact, a person allows
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himself to be treated this way because he found
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some
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bonuses there, some secondary benefits,
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perhaps financial, perhaps emotional,
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but there is always something like that, there is always
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something like that, but how can I tell him, he
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will take the children, but how I’ll say I
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’ll look like a grumpy woman Well, why
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say that good girls don’t
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behave like that, that is, you want to be good No,
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it’s
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your mother if she behaves like that Mother, it’s [ __ ]
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your mother that’s the main thing is the hashtag of
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rapists
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and what’s the secondary bonus when the second
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secondary Benefit when a person
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justifies because it is a mother who
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corresponds to her own
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ideas of a good daughter of a kind
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person who is not angry, non-standard,
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these are all benefits, these are all secondary benefits,
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all secondary benefits, as long as secondary
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benefits allow you secondary Benefit is not,
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so to speak,
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more than suffering, you will endure
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I agree
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more such characters are like thirsty
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Attention is the second type of
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emotional abusers such
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personalities have one selfish goal to
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constantly be the center of attention even if
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they receive negative comments about
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their behavior
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to be the center of attention to many People
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tend to have
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a lot Of course yes
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and people want to be the center of attention It is
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now again this what increases your
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competitive
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How to call certain competitive
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advantages in the market of relations and
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so on and so on That is, what are you what are
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you dominant the more the more
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noticeable you are the like, well, what are you
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better and people of course try Everyone wants to
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somehow become famous for everyone to appear
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see each other and the like, there are those
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who don’t want to do this. Either they
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do it in some other way or they
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just can’t do it and the like,
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so
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people also don’t quite understand that they are
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harming someone, they consider themselves
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normal, they’re just being
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straight Well, they are proactive, that is, they don’t
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feel that they are causing
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discomfort to anyone. With such characters, you
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work according to the same scheme; you
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set boundaries. Yes, a little. Well,
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depending on the system of violence itself,
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you react a little differently. But it’s all the same. And
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setting boundaries, let’s say, you decide it with
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your attention. You just don’t react to
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it, and yes, and that’s all, by and large, that
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is, either you stop communicating with this
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person, or you distance yourself, or
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you clarify, you speak, and so on and so
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on, very often very often if, uh, those who
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are thirsty for attention don’t get from you what
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they want they need it, they stop
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doing it No, well, it’s impossible, they’re just doing it
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not with you, but with someone else in
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another place. That is, if you don’t
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allow yourself to be dominated, he
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will do it somewhere else. The
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third is emotional vampires,
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emotional vampires. these are people who are toxic
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people who have empathy
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of course everyone is all
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toxic benign Rapists
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They have empathy
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they are not bad people They just behave incorrectly
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they can feel What
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other people feel because toxic
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malignant characters they have
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practically no empathy
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they cannot feel what
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others feel this to them, it’s impossible to explain
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this is their peculiarity of upbringing or directly
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genetic emotional vampires are
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people who
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satisfy their emotional
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needs
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by seeing how emotions are experienced by some
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other characters
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and they are not just
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observers, they provoke these these
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emotions, it is very important for him that you somehow
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experience
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that is, the person He understands, I
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influence him and it makes him feel better, you know, sometimes it happens
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that a woman takes it like she picks a nail,
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she picks her husband, he started yelling and once he felt
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better, she calmed down, the same thing, the
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same thing he fights with them,
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too, setting boundaries when
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interacting, that is, all
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benign rapists are united by
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that that you can fight them by
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working with borders beyond borders, I will repeat,
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set a border, protect the border,
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violate for punish for violation,
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violation is
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another matter, toxic abusers, but how
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malignant are these three characters, they are
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narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths
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That's an amazing story, narcissists are
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very similar to someone who craves attention,
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but
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how is it different
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from simply from someone thirsty for attention
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[music]
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Yes, everyone admires themselves
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to please,
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whoever they don’t notice
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Yes, no, for a narcissist it exists, it is very
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important for him that you are around him
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Yes, all people come first for themselves
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Well, there are those who crave attention Well,
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let’s say even I, let’s say I’m human
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who craves Attention
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crave attention I am doing something like this
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a person can do a lot of positive
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things even he thinks that he
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deserves this attention he did it he became
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famous something he did something good he
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received something He is waiting for this attention he
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demands this attention and the like, it’s
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just that in this process he doesn’t notice
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that he’s annoying someone, he doesn’t
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notice this in the process of being the first, he doesn’t
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notice that he stepped on someone And
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if we report this, he can
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apologize and say I didn’t mean to, I didn’t expect
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If people are silent, he does it
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because he wants to be the center of attention.
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He has a positive motive. A narcissist has a
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narcissist. He notices you, but he doesn’t give a damn about
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your emotions.
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tries to bring
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you down, you understand,
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he immediately he is not random violence, he
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does this on purpose so that the best
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way for a narcissist to rise up is
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to put you down.
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That is, you will always suffer next
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to him because next to someone who craves
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attention, you may not suffer next to a
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narcissist, everyone around you suffers with someone who is thirsty for
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attention, absolutely not everything is because
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someone likes that the person is
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famous, that the person behaves like this,
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that the person dominates there, and so on and
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so forth we will
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continue narcissists They can be very
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dangerous because they have
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much less empathy, we almost no And it’s
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there a little bit but it’s not enough to
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care about someone else
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they can be cruel they
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become furious at the slightest
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slight and they really start to
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get angry and somehow get inappropriately angry
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if someone challenges them Well and so on
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so on and the point is that
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telling these people about their boundaries
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to protect she is not useful
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It’s in his head he’s like that
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they don’t change people don’t change at all
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but
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toxic characters there’s
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no chance of malignancy look people don’t
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change at all but
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benign narcissists They they can
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decide to change themselves,
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that is, they see something. Well, there is something wrong, a
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person can. Well, he behaves this way, but he
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doesn’t understand that it’s unpleasant for him
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if you convey to him that it’s
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unpleasant for you, what you’re experiencing. What and
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especially if you can do he feels
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unpleasant in response, he understands I behave this way
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and get such a result,
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he of course can change on his own, the
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narcissist will not change at all
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because he is a
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benign
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rapist, he does this by accident, he
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simply does not understand, and malignant ones
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do this on purpose and a
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benign character, he can
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even suffer Having learned that he somehow
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acted wrongly and so as not to
00:22:40
suffer like that, he can change his
00:22:41
behavior. A narcissist will never change
00:22:44
his behavior because he does not suffer
00:22:45
from it, he sees no reason to
00:22:48
change anything because he has no problems,
00:22:50
he has everything. well, you
00:22:53
know how to help an alcoholic, he
00:22:56
suffers so much, he does not suffer,
00:22:59
the alcoholic does not suffer from alcoholism, he
00:23:02
enjoys it,
00:23:04
so you can never help an
00:23:06
alcoholic under any circumstances,
00:23:09
so the option What to do with
00:23:15
narcissists is to stop communicating with them
00:23:18
Of course you can’t do this You
00:23:23
can whether
00:23:26
narcissists sociopaths psychopaths can be
00:23:30
socialized, these are social individuals,
00:23:33
you can socialize them
00:23:35
[music]
00:23:38
I can’t hear you hear
00:23:42
Well, how can we give them away in social situations,
00:23:45
but that’s not socialization? It’s
00:23:49
possible. Who can do this?
00:23:55
Which version is it
00:23:57
acceptable that it’s possible? a
00:24:02
psychotherapist works with healthy people; a
00:24:04
psychologist works with healthy people With
00:24:08
people with disabilities,
00:24:11
only a psychiatrist works with patients and he cannot socialize them
00:24:13
very much. The authorities can we
00:24:17
will talk about this a little later if he
00:24:19
knows how, if this is necessary, then these
00:24:21
characters can be socialized and occupied
00:24:23
under strict control by somehow creating
00:24:25
certain conditions about this a little later
00:24:32
sociopaths from psychopaths are asocial
00:24:36
personalities who have absolutely no
00:24:39
empathy and not pathological liars are
00:24:42
sexually promiscuous while outwardly
00:24:45
charming more often lead very often lead a
00:24:47
double life They like to mock
00:24:49
hurt others they like it
00:24:52
they are cunning unprincipled Scammers and have a
00:24:56
colossal high opinion of themselves they
00:25:00
they know how to hide their true face, they
00:25:03
can impersonate someone else. At the same time,
00:25:06
they always lead a
00:25:08
parasitic lifestyle. They are
00:25:10
aggressive, very active manipulators, they
00:25:14
require constant emotional
00:25:16
stimulation,
00:25:20
and at the same time, they are very irresponsible; they
00:25:22
never take this responsibility; they do
00:25:25
n’t need it and they are by and large account, sometimes
00:25:27
they behave just like irresponsible children
00:25:33
You can’t come to an agreement with these people, next
00:25:35
to such a person there can only be a
00:25:37
tough victim,
00:25:39
another sick person who is
00:25:42
next to him,
00:25:45
this antisocial personality disorder
00:25:48
is different
00:25:50
[music]
00:25:52
and we can also say that Sociopaths are
00:25:55
people who are very
00:25:57
[ music]
00:25:59
impulsive differences between a sociopath and a
00:26:02
psychopath a sociopath is impulsive they
00:26:05
can give out something, well, in apect something
00:26:07
unreasonable incomprehensible bright
00:26:11
emotional and the like absolutely
00:26:13
vile but nevertheless
00:26:16
psychopaths don’t act like that
00:26:19
psychopaths emotions are alien to them They really don’t
00:26:23
experience emotions in they don’t have the emotions of
00:26:25
compassion They don’t have the emotions of fear by and
00:26:28
large and so on and so forth
00:26:30
they don’t have a feeling of guilt, no at all, instill
00:26:33
in him it’s impossible to have another difference between a
00:26:35
sociopath and a psychopath, that it’s
00:26:37
not the fault that a person has become a
00:26:40
sociopath, it’s some kind of society then
00:26:42
there is some kind of upbringing, that is, he had Well,
00:26:44
something happened in a person’s life,
00:26:46
some kind of problem arose, or he was
00:26:49
subjected to violence, or he was in such a
00:26:51
society, or there was something else, some
00:26:54
very serious influence, the person
00:26:56
was formed like this and in
00:27:00
childhood, such people bully their
00:27:02
peers. There they can kill some
00:27:04
animals because of such a social
00:27:06
way of life and the like, but a psychopath
00:27:10
differs from a smartass from And in that he
00:27:11
was born like that.
00:27:12
Well, let’s say in a Sociopath. A sociopath from the family
00:27:17
can be understood, well, a dysfunctional, not
00:27:20
prosperous family father mocked the
00:27:23
mother of the child, they were insulted there and so
00:27:25
on. In general, this is the result of the social
00:27:28
influence of some psychopath,
00:27:30
you can be born in an absolutely
00:27:34
normal adequate family, that is,
00:27:37
no one influenced him, he was born this way,
00:27:41
this deviation is so karmic. He is already a
00:27:44
psychopath from a past life.
00:27:47
he will never be cured, he will never be changed,
00:27:49
nothing will work out with him, you can only not communicate with him,
00:27:53
we
00:27:55
can only run away from him, escape, and
00:27:58
so on and so on, remake a psychopath You ca
00:28:00
n’t be a sociopath You can’t narcissists You can’t If,
00:28:03
by some stupidity, you got into a
00:28:06
relationship with a sociopath, a psychopath, a
00:28:08
narcissist is the only one the way out is to run away
00:28:11
as far as possible depending on the
00:28:13
status of the powers of the capabilities of a psychopath, a
00:28:16
sociopath and the like
00:28:18
there is no need to talk to him to explain
00:28:21
there if suddenly you realized that this is all so you
00:28:23
just need to run
00:28:25
looking ahead I will say dear ladies your
00:28:28
husbands are not all psychopaths
00:28:30
in all the cities that I I’m reading this
00:28:33
lecture by women My husband is a psychopath I say
00:28:36
he’s emotions Yes, he’s yelling, he’s screaming, he’s not a
00:28:39
psychopath, he’s not a psychopath, he’s in pain, he’s not in pain,
00:28:45
he’s not in
00:28:49
fear, and so on and so forth, so you and I
00:28:53
will talk about this topic today, you
00:28:55
’ll probably ask questions and
00:28:57
immediately while admiring
00:29:00
this whole story right away, please
00:29:03
don’t. With my help, now recognize a
00:29:06
psychopath in your loved one
00:29:09
as a psychopath. This is not just a word for a
00:29:12
humiliating word. This is the same thing: the husband is a
00:29:14
goat, but we all understand that this is for a
00:29:16
red male, he is not a goat, this is not
00:29:18
artiodactyl horned animal
00:29:20
therefore a psychopath This is not just a malicious
00:29:23
insult this is a diagnosis this is a diagnosis
00:29:26
Only a psychiatrist can make it
00:29:29
Well, or you yourself
00:29:32
but you don’t need to ask me
00:29:34
agreed
00:29:39
well Remember I asked Can
00:29:42
someone
00:29:43
socialize can if there is very strong
00:29:47
power very strong power that has
00:29:50
there is the
00:29:51
Concept of goals resources opportunities
00:29:55
They have such power if they understand
00:29:59
they can occupy such people that is from
00:30:02
psychopaths sociopaths
00:30:05
most often from them from such people they
00:30:08
either turn out to be some kind of criminals all
00:30:11
criminals They are all so severe there
00:30:14
is some kind of psychological deviation
00:30:18
these are social personalities it is
00:30:20
said that psychopaths make
00:30:23
excellent military professionals
00:30:26
[music] they
00:30:28
make
00:30:32
cool cops Well, not the traffic police officers there, but the
00:30:37
harsh ones there, for example,
00:30:40
they watched the film Method with Khabensky,
00:30:44
that is, the man worked for
00:30:46
law enforcement agencies, he was, but at the
00:30:49
same time he was a 100% psychopath, that
00:30:52
is the state was able to take him another
00:30:55
example from literature Let it be from
00:30:58
cinema and the like a
00:31:02
classic psychopath a
00:31:04
classic psychopath Sherlock Holmes In addition, he is also a
00:31:09
very serious drug addict
00:31:12
Well, of course, in the film adaptation of our Livanov
00:31:16
where it softened a little, but if you
00:31:18
read Conandolia you understand he is a
00:31:20
psychopath that’s why moss these things they are very
00:31:23
talented very smart colossal but
00:31:26
at the same time they are not emotional emotions do not
00:31:28
prevent them from
00:31:30
building some kind of gizmos and
00:31:33
logical ones, that is, you know how Wolves are
00:31:36
best
00:31:40
overtaken by wolfhounds just like them in the same way
00:31:45
from ours so that at all I hope no one will be
00:31:48
upset The meeting place
00:31:50
cannot be changed looked Gleb Zheglov is a psychopath
00:31:55
Well, think absolutely not an emotional
00:31:57
person Absolutely brilliant absolutely
00:32:00
not empathetic remember about him Gruzdev
00:32:03
what he said he is a very bad person
00:32:05
very bad He is also
00:32:07
loved by the tall Vysotsky, although it’s not
00:32:11
a fact that Vysotsky is not Vysotsky is not a
00:32:13
psychopath but there are also stories there, that's why
00:32:18
he was such an effective
00:32:22
head of the homicide department because
00:32:25
he adored violence,
00:32:30
mercy, the priest's word,
00:32:34
his fate didn't bother people at all,
00:32:38
the thief should be in prison, let go of the cargo,
00:32:42
but you live, he broke it, and that there are no
00:32:44
guilty people. There is no guilt and there are no cargoes, a
00:32:49
bad person He is a vile person
00:32:53
[music]
00:32:55
he goes after people If necessary, he will go after you
00:32:57
Well, the film itself What is the
00:32:59
difference between genius and two strong men
00:33:02
Sharapov and Zheglov
00:33:04
Sharapov is not a psychopath, he is a tough guy, that’s all
00:33:08
Well, we just watch it and it’s
00:33:12
performed by yes konkin yes He so cute,
00:33:14
handsome, but in general, for half the book, they
00:33:17
were practically
00:33:19
peers,
00:33:20
that is, he is literally several years
00:33:23
older than Zheglov in the film,
00:33:28
he was not so cool, he commanded a reconnaissance company,
00:33:31
he commanded penal troops, he walked across there 21 times,
00:33:34
well, across the front line, he is a
00:33:36
very stern guy, they even in
00:33:39
almost the same rank he was a
00:33:41
professional killer and the like
00:33:43
he is a very nice person
00:33:45
he has a very nice person and his love is a
00:33:49
child and adoption and the like this is
00:33:52
Sinichkina he worries about this for
00:33:54
this for everyone he has a big heart he is
00:33:57
empathetic
00:34:03
[music ]
00:34:10
he would be a hunchback or a Fox Fox is a
00:34:13
classic psychopath on the other hand a
00:34:14
classic absolutely unemotional
00:34:18
vile creature
00:34:20
but they are no different from the point
00:34:22
of view of a psychiatrist Zheglov and Fox who are
00:34:26
absolutely equally absolutely just
00:34:30
one strong state that took in the
00:34:33
service of society
00:34:38
But you cannot do it if suddenly it
00:34:41
occurred to you to remake a psychopath,
00:34:43
keep him busy, you are fools,
00:34:45
if we take 10 random psychopaths and
00:34:49
show you what you think by
00:34:51
gender, who they will be men
00:34:53
or women in which
00:34:57
Well, how many men will there be, how many women will it be? It
00:34:59
seems to you that
00:35:03
everyone is still
00:35:05
50/50 also quite
00:35:08
tolerant
00:35:10
9 to one, most likely all psychopaths are most
00:35:13
likely men,
00:35:16
this is our trick,
00:35:19
this does not mean that women cannot be
00:35:22
rapists, they can, but often
00:35:27
higher than that. Well,
00:35:29
very rarely, women are
00:35:31
sociopaths, more often they will be narcissists
00:35:33
of some kind, but they are very rarely psychopaths
00:35:38
Therefore, if suddenly you are faced with a
00:35:42
malignant rapist, there is no need to redo the best
00:35:45
way to escape

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