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There are three necessary conditions for developing resilience. Hello, it's just Roland. It's00:00:12
something for children to do at school.00:00:14
Today, I'd like to share something that happened00:00:16
during my teaching career that I really want to convey to our parents.00:00:22
One year when I was the 6th grade teacher.00:00:27
It was early winter in 1 November.00:00:28
I tend to go to work early in the morning, so I00:00:30
arrived at school a little early that day, but I00:00:33
received a phone call in the classroom00:00:36
before 8 a.m.00:00:38
The person who called was the school guardian who was on duty at the school.00:00:41
Please come down quickly.00:00:44
One or two students were here,00:00:48
so I hurriedly ran out to the central entrance and saw00:00:51
one of the kids00:00:56
shaking with bare feet, wearing slippers and no jumper.00:00:59
It was a kid from my class named Mino. And Minho was my older00:01:02
brother. The meaning of the 6-year-old holding my hand tightly00:01:04
was vivid. Min-woo00:01:12
arrived at school that day without the glasses he needed to wear. He came to school before school time even with his younger00:01:14
brother in tow. That day, Min-woo00:01:17
kept holding his younger brother's hand. The reason I was shaking00:01:19
was because of Jo Ryeong, not Chui. I was Minwoo, a00:01:23
student in Oryu Kang.00:01:25
Minwoo, whom I first met when I was a member of the National Assembly,00:01:30
was a very quiet child to the point where it was difficult to hear his voice in class. He always seemed00:01:32
nervous. He was also extremely polite and during this00:01:35
class. He was a bit00:01:37
out of focus and was always rigid. Even00:01:40
when dealing with his friends, he was very observant and00:01:42
overly cautious, so it must have been00:01:45
very uncomfortable for me and them as well.00:01:47
I tried very hard to help Minwoo relax, but00:01:52
by the time he got to 6th grade, he was very nervous. Only then did he00:02:00
start to have more fun at school by being a little more relaxed with his friends and telling jokes to me. In the 6th grade, at00:02:02
my recommendation, he participated in the broadcasting class and00:02:05
participated in various school events,00:02:07
turning into an active child. Also, thanks00:02:10
to the recommendations of his friends, he became an active child. He was selected as a model child00:02:12
and even received a commendation from the education officer. He00:02:17
was a very, very pretty child. But00:02:21
that day, I found out that he had been suffering from domestic violence for years.00:02:24
That day, after being beaten all night by his drunken father, he took advantage of00:02:27
his father's short sleep and gave birth to his00:02:29
younger sister.00:02:32
What kind of school did you run away from with Minho? I am00:02:34
heartbroken by that situation.00:02:36
I have a huge sense of self-reproach for not being aware of that fact.00:02:41
Why? That little sister named Minho was00:02:44
trying to escape her father's domestic violence.00:02:46
That day, I went to a relative's house who lived in a distant area.00:02:53
That day was the last time I saw him at We Noir, which I loved and cherished so much.00:02:55
More than 10 years later,00:02:59
I received a welcome email. It00:03:02
was Miu, now a college student. Minwoo 4 The00:03:04
teacher I had in elementary school. He said that he was able to overcome the wounds of those times thanks to the praise and trust from his friends, and that he felt at00:03:15
ease when he met his teachers and friends at school. That is00:03:19
how he healed the wounds in his heart that he received from domestic violence.00:03:22
Now, he is with his mother.00:03:24
While living there, he said that he was attending a university in the metropolitan area.00:03:31
What was the secret to Minwoo being able to overcome the pain of his childhood and grow well? It00:03:34
lies in resilience. The00:03:38
necessary conditions for developing resilience00:03:40
are three valuable things. The00:03:42
third thing, as I have said many times, is the00:03:44
experience of failure. But in00:03:47
fact, the experience of success is very important for children.00:03:53
In order to develop positivity, autonomy, and grit, the00:03:56
experience of success is a great nutrient. The00:03:59
experiences that I believed in are accumulated, and the00:04:01
grit is developed. It becomes the driving force for setting the next goal and00:04:07
allows you to consider yourself as a pretty good person.00:04:09
However, what is really important as much as the experience of success00:04:12
is actual experience.00:04:13
Resilience is the power to overcome failure.00:04:17
But in order to overcome it, you need to change your opinion, adversity, 7 losses,00:04:20
hardships, etc. It's necessary. We do00:04:24
n't have it if I fail, and00:04:26
it's so heartbreaking. It's okay to let go a little.00:04:28
But what you need to be careful about at this time is that if you endure00:04:31
a little more and try harder, it should be an adversity that your dog00:04:34
can learn.00:04:38
If it's a mountain that you can't overcome, you'll just collapse.00:04:40
That's why I went too far. I once told you that you00:04:45
should be careful because prior learning can easily become an experience that is too great to overcome.00:04:51
Then, if you fail anyway,00:04:53
will time be your medicine? Just because everyone experiences failure or adversity, does00:04:57
that mean that it will flow naturally with time?00:05:01
If you neglect it, your resilience to stand up again00:05:04
may weaken. The00:05:07
wounds of failure00:05:10
do not heal on their own, and if you do not overcome them properly, you00:05:13
may end up with deeper scars.00:05:15
So, it hurts, so it's a bit of a stretch00:05:18
to think that it's youth and that it's okay to throw it away. It00:05:21
can be dangerous. Our lives00:05:26
are filled with big and small stresses in between joy and pleasure.00:05:29
But this is not just a story for adults. It is also true00:05:31
in the world of our children. There is a time when there is a time when there is a time when you do00:05:36
not want to do something rather than when you feel joy just doing what you want to do.00:05:38
There are many times when you have to force yourself to work, and00:05:43
there are various stresses that come with it. According to a recent survey, our country's00:05:46
suicide rate is the fifth00:05:48
highest in the world, and is especially the highest among OECD countries.00:05:56
Compared to this, a 1-point story is at a high00:05:59
level, and00:06:02
even if it doesn't go to this extreme situation, there are many children who are in various internal and external stress situations such as uncertain future grades,00:06:04
father's friendship, housekeeper, etc.00:06:10
So the00:06:13
second necessary condition for resilience00:06:16
is 50. Children also need to be able to find00:06:19
some sense of stability in the stressful situation of failure.00:06:25
Whether we are adults or children, it is good to allow them to take00:06:27
some time to recharge after a failure so that they do not00:06:34
feel like they have fallen behind due to various failures. You can't rush us because you ca00:06:37
n't rush it. Resting while hitting sheep is a lot of work to do in a day. Even00:06:40
if we don't do anything, we00:06:42
need some time to wait. I don't00:06:50
want you to get impatient because we're the only ones falling behind while the other kids are all moving toward the finish line.00:06:52
When you rest, do exercise or hobbies. You00:06:57
can recommend things like playing with friends, reading, etc. It's00:07:01
okay to go out or travel with your family. It can help people in their 50s00:07:03
find a little more stability in stressful situations. The00:07:06
most important thing00:07:08
is that we can think like this, it's okay to take a break. The00:07:14
last and most important condition is that there are00:07:17
equal parents who believe in the child no matter what the situation is.00:07:20
But00:07:23
instead of trusting parents, Minwoo had a violent father. In00:07:26
fact,00:07:29
not having a reliable parent is a very big00:07:31
deficiency. It could be possible, but00:07:34
Minwoo grew up properly. That's00:07:40
the unconditional trust that Minwoo should have received from his parents during those difficult times. 1 He00:07:42
received it instead from his teachers and friends.00:07:45
There was someone who could make up for his shortcomings.00:07:48
Of course, after that, Minwoo's00:07:50
mother took care of everything. He must have protected you.00:07:53
Also, there was a child once upon a time. He00:07:55
didn't do well in school and00:07:58
didn't get along well with his friends.00:08:01
One day, the child returned home with his report card, and00:08:03
on the report card it00:08:05
said, "00:08:07
What will this student do in the future?"00:08:09
Even if I tried, I judged that I would not be successful. The00:08:12
mother, who saw this,00:08:14
said to the downcast child, “Son,00:08:17
don’t be disappointed. You00:08:20
have a very special ability that is different from mine.00:08:23
How can you succeed?00:08:27
Einstein, the genius physicist we know well.” Einstein00:08:30
could only get a fair cut after a terrible grade, so00:08:33
instead of nagging him, his00:08:35
parents acknowledged his differences and encouraged him.00:08:40
Rationally, he nodded,00:08:43
but emotionally it was a little difficult.00:08:46
Haesong, what is this?00:08:49
However, we00:09:00
must remember that parents who just support our children are much more helpful than parents who act as guides and tell our children to do this or that.00:09:06
Rather than having their children look for support somewhere else, they need to rely on us. So00:09:08
that you can find it within your family. Well,00:09:11
I hope today's video was helpful. Then,00:09:13
I'll see you again in the next video.00:09:17
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