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sometimes tired and
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fatigued no matter how painful the past
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is the past cannot be
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ignored the past cannot be put
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under a rug the past needs to be
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faced staying silent
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eats away at us but many times we feel
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at a disadvantage maybe your parents got
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divorced maybe You have been
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divorced, perhaps
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life circumstances have not been what you thought,
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perhaps you find yourself in a country you
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never imagined you would
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arrive in. Perhaps you have suffered losses that you
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never thought you would suffer in your life, perhaps
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you must be like that. Maybe you want your relationship
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to
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be And
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then life preaches to us the
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following life preaches to us that we are
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victims of our
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circumstances that because of what we have
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been through and what we are going through
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we cannot have
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Victory you look at others and say if I
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had what they They have I could
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but I can't because of my past because of my
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present because of my
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situation And then we feel at
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a disadvantage so there is a phrase that
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I am going to repeat to you today it will be the
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key phrase that I want us to look at
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this morning
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life is
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more your own walk with God and the
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decisions that you make from your walk
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with God that how life and others have
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treated you your life is
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more a reflection of your own walk with
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God the decisions that you make when you
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are walking with God that how
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life and how others have
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treated you no one reflects this better in the
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scriptures than the servant
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José José 17 years old lived in a
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very
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dysfunctional home a father four
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women 12 children all living Under the
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same roof his mother loses her giving
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birth his father has itism His brothers
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are jealous against him in the middle of
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all that God puts a dream in
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Joseph's heart in the middle of all that
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we see that his own brothers were
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so jealous of Joseph that they wanted to
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kill him. An older brother says we
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can't kill him. They end up selling us into
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slavery and what I want to
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imply is that many times when we
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come from homes of brokenness,
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homes of dysfunction or we have suffered
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things that we see in life
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as injustices or disadvantages we think I
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can't, he can but I can't they.
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they can
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but
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impossible and in two weeks I will talk to you
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about this
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but there is nothing in your life that God
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cannot use to
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bless you if you hand it into his
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hands
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nothing absolutely
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nothing And then I return to the
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phrase Your life is more a
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reflection of your own walk with God
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Okay, here I
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go, I don't And you couldn't stop an
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infidelity you can't stop the
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lies that people tell about you
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you can't change your upbringing you
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can't change how your dad hit
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your mom or the
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abandonment you can't You can change the
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harsh words you heard in your
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life No one can change that No one can
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control
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that But you can open the Bible and
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ask God to give you fresh Manna
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today If you can bend your knee and
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cry tears and say I can't
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I need help I
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need direction I need
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wisdom because I believe that our
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lives are more a reflection not of how
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life has treated us not how others
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have treated us but of our own
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walk with God and the decisions
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we make in that walk with God and no one
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reflects that life better than
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Joseph Here is Joseph in Genesis 37 and the
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word gives us an introduction to this
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family once again a family more like
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mine and yours than we think a
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family of brokenness a family
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of dysfunction a family of lies
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a family of deception and sometimes we
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look at our family and we see
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disadvantage despite all of
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José's disadvantages José ended up being
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a man of blessing and that is why I have
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titled the message four steps we
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can take to change from curse
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to blessing in our life here it is la
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la la the family of Joseph Genesis 37:3 to
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5 let's look at these verses together
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and Israel, who is father, loved Joseph more
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than all his children because he had
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had him in his old age and made him a tunic
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of different colors and seeing His
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brothers that his father loved him more than
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all his brothers no longer
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love him as a friend and they could not talk to him
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peacefully, that is, they treated him
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badly with their words and Joseph dreamed a
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dream and told it to his brothers and sisters. The
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dream was that one day you are going to
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serve me, imagine the jealous race
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and now Hey last night God gave me a
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hard time I
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don't know what happened but God gave me a dream
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and you guys one day are going to
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kneel before me well
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The story with his brothers did not go very well and they
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came to hate him more so the
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idea came to them, let's get rid of
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Joseph, they threw him into a well, they were going to
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kill him, they decided not to, they decided not to
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kill him, they sold him into slavery,
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they took the sack that his father They
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had made José different colors,
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they killed an animal, they put the blood of an
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animal in it and they took the bag to the father and the
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father immediately knew that they killed
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his son and his father lived under a lie
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for 13 years of his life. Joseph is taken to
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Egypt and bought by a powerful man,
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Potiphar, in Potiphar's house, something
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interesting happens, but God gives favor to
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Joseph. In order to have favor,
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the woman takes the fancy of Potiphar's wife and
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says, Come with me to bed. I say that
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is better than the novels that many of
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you watch today,
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Potiphar's Cradle instead of Cradle of Wolves, right
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and and and and and then he doesn't want to go
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to bed with Potiphar's wife and
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she accuses him of abusing her and Well,
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he already knows, you don't know what
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his wife comes from, but in order not to make himself
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look bad, they put José in jail, so
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it's like things are going from bad to
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worse. Okay, but there is something very interesting
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and it's one of my favorite verses is
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one of my favorite phrases and I want you to
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look at it with me today in the
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word of God if you accompany me to
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Genesis
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39 and that is one of those phrases that
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hits you like a slap, it goes against
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everything you know He has educated us in the
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Bible and tells us this in Genesis 39. He
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tells you what happens after
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Joseph is sold into slavery.
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Joseph was taken to Egypt. Potiphar, an officer of Pharaoh,
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captain of the guard, an Egyptian man,
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bought him from the
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Ishmaelites only in his twenties.
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years of being a pastor I once heard
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that a stepfather sold his
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daughter I have heard those
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stories here there is a brother whose
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brothers just sold him they sell him into
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slavery and verse 2 is a
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verse that shocks because look what
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the Bible says more read it with me
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Please more Jehovah
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ready I thought that God was with those
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who do not divorce I thought that God
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was with those who have money I
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thought that God was with those whose
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parents had not
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divorced I thought that God was with
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the person whose partner did not cheat on them
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I thought that God was only with
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perfect marriages I thought that God
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was only in homes where there is no
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dysfunction despite
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Joseph's circumstances despite how
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the world treated him despite how his
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family treated him despite how life
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overwhelmed Joseph there was one thing that Joseph
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did not stop doing Joseph did not stop walking
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with God and the Bible says despite
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Joseph's circumstances
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Jehovah
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was with
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Joseph Life is more your walk and the
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decisions you make in your walk with
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God that like life and how
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people have treated you and Well here
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is José they sell him in a good house
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despite how his
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family God is blessing José and
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someone who is not a believer Look at the God's hand
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on Joseph's life prospers him,
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the person in charge of his house places him, the woman
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longs for him, accuses him falsely,
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now Joseph's life reflects so much the
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lives of a lot of you in this
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room, no, no, not the truth, the life of
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Joseph reflects someone who has a
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sincere desire to follow God
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Joseph's life reflects so many of you who
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are trying to leave your past
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trying to leave curse following
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the ways of the Lord walking with God
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Doing everything you know how to do
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well and then Your life is going from bad to worse
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and it's like you get frustrated like no other,
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because that should happen to the worldly people
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who don't, no, now I'm not drinking
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Freddy anymore, I'm faithful, I don't look at this anymore, I'm
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treating my wife well, I'm going to
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the hospital. church I am participating and soups I
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got a bigger slap in the face
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because José goes from that to being a prisoner in
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a
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jail for something he didn't
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do. Imagine arriving from your country like
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many of you arrived with
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difficulty learning a language getting
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ahead and one day A police officer comes and
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tells you we want you for a crime You
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look like someone who just said you
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say No I didn't do it I came from
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work and you are not guilty but they
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falsely accuse you and throw you in jail
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for something you are not guilty of
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you did that's what's happening with
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Joseph and that's how many of you
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feel today
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but sometimes the way up is
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down with God it's interesting
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when I was reading this week in the
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scriptures in the book of Saint John
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come and they bring information to the Lord
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Jesus Christ regarding Lazarus who
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Jesus loved is in the New Testament
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and Lazarus had two sisters Mary and
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Martha and they call him teacher whom you love
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Lazarus is
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sick and then immediately Jesus
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for what he is doing runs and heals
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Lazarus
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no Jesus wait and let Lazarus
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die Have you ever prayed and told
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God now yesterday but not
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tomorrow and God does not arrive when you wanted
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him to arrive Let me make a
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very strong statement Okay there are no
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wasted prayers every prayer is received by
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God and every prayer is answered by
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God but not every prayer is answered
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the way you
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ask it every prayer is received by God
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and every prayer is answered by god
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Jesus waits Jesus arrives when Lazarus
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is dead and Mary and Martha express the
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humanity of man and tell him so to the
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Lord Jesus Christ if you had been here
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Lazarus does not die but the will of God
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was not healing
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the will of God was a
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resurrection the difference between
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Christianity and any other religion
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on the face of the earth is the
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following Buddha is dead Mohamed is
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dead Christ also
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died but Jesus Christ
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resurrected the difference between
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Christianity is that we believe in the power
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of the resurrection but sometimes
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things are going to get
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worse before they get better but this is
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the interesting thing This is the
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interesting thing and and I always tell you and
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I repeat it yourself never read The Bible
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as a
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distant book the Bible is a story of
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us the Bible is a story of
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broken families so Here is Joseph
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like many of you find yourself
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trying to do good trying to
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walk with God it is like life is It's
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going from bad to worse now Joseph is in
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prison okay So what happens in prison
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look what happens 39 same chapter
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verse 20 gives us the process of
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Joseph's life and verse 21 and his
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master took Joseph and put him in the prison where
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the king's prisoners were and he was there
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in the
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prison but I want you to Look at the next
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verse what happens in the prison look
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now but Jehovah
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looked at
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that in the middle of the prison Where is
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God with Joseph in the
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prison but
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Jehovah
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was with José In other words, there is no person who
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reflects more injustices or
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brokenness than José's life, but
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José's life and your life is more a
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reflection of our walk with God and
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the decisions we make to walk
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with God than how people treat you
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now. whether
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you live it, believe it or not, we go through it with
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feelings and thoughts that life
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is unfair, I will never get ahead I
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try and it's like I take one step
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forward, I take three steps back,
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this is impossible, I have pure
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disadvantages, I have been a
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divorced person. I don't have enough money. I'm not
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going to get
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ahead anymore. What if you blame
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your past because in your present
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you are not walking with God like you could
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walk with God? Okay, here
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I go. Once I asked my pastor,
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how many chapters of I must read the Bible
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pastor
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daily Because we want to be good
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Christians
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no How much Bible the more the better no and
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he told me Until your heart
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burns until God gives you something sometimes it
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is in the first verse sometimes it is in
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the first chapter sometimes it is in I do
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n't say the third chapter to be harsh
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on you but there are many of us who get
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lost in here we get lost
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in the past we get lost in our
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mistakes we get lost in a po and that
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well is deep it is black it is
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dark I know what we know how to do That's now
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I'm going to change the question internally
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this week when you opened your Bible on
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Monday what truth what Hope God gave you
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from his
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word maybe the problem is more that
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because we don't
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do it it was the last answered prayer
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that God gave you no such time like you
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asked him but he
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answered you but if you don't
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pray how is God going to answer a
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prayer in your
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life because you are not a victim of
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your
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circumstances you are your own victim
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of having the opportunity to walk with
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God every
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day and not
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doing it you are a victim of living in
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a day where there is not even a Bible if
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you have a Smartphone you can download
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a
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Bible our life is
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more a
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reflection of our walk with God and the
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decisions we make while
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walking with God than our past or
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the treatment of our
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past Imagine the situation of Joseph, who
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lost his mother, his father, his brother, his
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culture, his food, his language, freedom,
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hope, he had lost everything, but in the
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midst of all that there is something that Joseph did not
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lose, Joseph did not lose,
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being a worshiper of
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God, Joseph did not lose. to be a follower of
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god Joseph did not lose to be a Seeker of
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god Joseph did not lose to be a lover of
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God more Jehovah
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was with
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Joseph that is easy to look at Freddy and say
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ah God is with the
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pastor but he is not
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with me and I remember that day in my
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bedroom where I felt so
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isolated so overwhelmed by life and
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I am 14 years old and I am bitter
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in my heart I have and it is against
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God and I fall on my knees there
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next to my little mattress that I had I
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filled my pillow with with tears I prayed
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and God heard my
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cry and I open the Bible and God speaks to me
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sometimes her ease is not
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public speaking and sometimes she
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takes it can take her 40 hours to
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prepare an outline for 25
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minutes and
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Battle But she does it because
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she also wants to be a blessing to the
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women of the church and sometimes she
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looks at me and says, How long does it take you? I
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tell her it all depends on the
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day. Sometimes in 5 minutes I can write
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five pages like that and sometimes
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Sometimes I've read a passage
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countless times and I don't get anything out of it and
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sometimes God returns that passage to me and
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teaches me something that He had never
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taught me before. I can't stop reading. life I
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can't change your
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past But what if my life
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Today is more a reflection of my walk with
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God or my not walking with
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God okay So let's Talk let's talk
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I walk in the flesh I don't open my Bible I don't pray I don't
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ask Him for guidance to the Holy Spirit
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How many of you believe that this will be
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reflected in my relationships in my home
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raise your hand please
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he raised his
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hand But
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what if I am in the word I am
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praying and someone does me wrong
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someone treats me to me
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unfairly but I am walking with
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God and God is opening his word
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God is making light he is making a
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lamp at my feet God teaches me about his
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love God teaches me his mercy God
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teaches me his grace and you treat me badly
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how I am doing to treat him like he
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treated me or how God is treating
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me what if your life your marriage your
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walk today your reflection today is not your
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past and and
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my dad abandoned a womanizer a drinker my
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grandfather was the same one he was like The
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second person in charge of the youth at my
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church tried to sexually abuse me. He
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was a
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bisexual man. I had two. I have had two
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pastors in my life. One ended up in
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jail for messing with a 17-
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year-old girl, but none of that changes that I could. I
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get on my knee
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put my gaze on
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God Juan Carlos stand
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up he had to bury a
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wife He and his wife dedicated their lives
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to the children of this church Guess what
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Juan Carlos does every
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Sunday he dedicates his life to the lives of
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our children of this church because the
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God of Juan Carlos has not
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changed [Applause]
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Why would God give Lilia
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cancer Ah No, I do not have an answer for
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that but he has not stopped walking with
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God his faith but there is someone else who
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can
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bitter But he has to get up
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every day and keep going He
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has two sons who are looking to see if his
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faith is
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true He has two who are looking to see
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if his mother's faith is
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true He has boys who come to
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this church every day Sundays and see
00:23:35
if what he told you in the classes
00:23:37
he taught from the Bible is a
00:23:40
true faith of all the people who impacted
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my life in my church my
00:23:45
children's teachers impacted my life more than
00:23:47
anyone else when I return
00:23:50
to my church at home I always look for my
00:23:53
teachers who taught me as a child and I
00:23:56
always thank them and sometimes
00:23:58
you think they are not listening I was
00:24:00
the I was the worst child in the whole class
00:24:02
Juan Carlos God I had it in me I
00:24:06
knew where to hide no the net no no
00:24:08
no no no I believe that God made me the
00:24:10
pastor because I painted it so much said
00:24:11
Órale Now I'm going to put you d you
00:24:14
can't paint it you know I mean I have to
00:24:17
be
00:24:21
here each one of you could
00:24:24
write to me minimum chapters of The
00:24:26
tragedies of their life of their
00:24:30
background of horrendous things that
00:24:32
have happened to them but that chapter is not your entire
00:24:37
life it is just one chapter the entire book has
00:24:40
not been
00:24:42
written What if your life is more a
00:24:45
reflection not of you past not about how
00:24:47
people have treated you what if your life
00:24:49
is more a reflection of your walk with God
00:24:54
today so What are these steps that Joseph
00:24:57
took with God so that his life changed
00:24:59
from a curse to a blessing I have four
00:25:01
steps We can listen and we finish
00:25:02
and they are going to be selling gorditas
00:25:04
today to finish the service and I already prayed
00:25:07
that not that they do not have fat that not that
00:25:09
our stomachs turn into lettuce
00:25:16
today number one if you want to write them down and
00:25:20
Remember that that is the message that goes
00:25:22
live next week number
00:25:24
one Joseph had a deep feeling of the
00:25:27
greatness of God that is seen in Genesis
00:25:31
458 Genesis 458 tells us like this when
00:25:34
they are ready on the screen please
00:25:37
so it was not you who sent me here
00:25:41
but God who sold him his
00:25:45
brothers who handed him over to
00:25:47
slavery his brothers who put him in
00:25:49
prison
00:25:52
Potiphar God who has made me father
00:25:55
of Pharaoh and lord of all his house and
00:25:57
governor in all the land of
00:26:00
Egypt Joseph understood that God is in
00:26:02
everything at all times and I knew that God
00:26:05
had the power to turn around the evil that
00:26:08
someone had done to him and make it
00:26:10
a blessing if we trust in God God
00:26:13
can change your curse I am going to
00:26:16
put it this
00:26:17
way the greatest curse of
00:26:22
life
00:26:24
José was also the greatest blessing
00:26:35
I spoke with Carla and Brenda a few weeks ago
00:26:40
and they told me about their childhood about their father in
00:26:44
an accident how they lost their father I
00:26:47
mean like I'm there like I'm about
00:26:51
to
00:26:52
cry and then Las Two of them look at me and
00:26:55
say, Oh, but Pastor Freddy. If that doesn't
00:26:59
happen, if that tragedy doesn't happen, we don't believe that
00:27:03
we know the Lord
00:27:07
Jesus Christ. It's like the worst thing that
00:27:10
happened to them is to lose your
00:27:16
father. For them, it also became the door
00:27:19
to knowing. to his
00:27:26
heavenly father, the problem is that many times
00:27:28
we do not have the faith to deliver that
00:27:31
curse into the hands of God and trust
00:27:34
in God and let God be
00:27:38
God and we want to be in control of
00:27:40
our life. In other words, what control did
00:27:43
Joseph have? What control do we truly have?
00:27:46
each of us in our life
00:27:51
nothing Joseph
00:27:54
had the confidence that God was greater
00:27:57
than his
00:27:59
circumstances nothing from your past is
00:28:01
lost if in faith you hand it over to
00:28:07
God every mistake every sin every detour
00:28:11
of life is taken by God and
00:28:13
becomes a gift where God returns
00:28:17
blessing to you perhaps from the same place where
00:28:20
before was your pit of curse Why did
00:28:23
God allow this because God allows
00:28:26
this so much pain so much loss I don't know
00:28:31
but I do know that Joseph walked with God and
00:28:34
that Jehovah was with
00:28:38
Joseph you have to believe that the hand of
00:28:41
God if you give him your curse he
00:28:44
has a way to turn that
00:28:46
curse into a blessing two
00:28:50
oé openly and honestly admitted the
00:28:54
feeling of loneliness I'm not
00:28:57
talking about ignoring the
00:28:59
past I'm not talking
00:29:01
about putting the past down a rug
00:29:05
I believe that every person needs the
00:29:07
opportunity to express their
00:29:09
pain to cry what it takes to
00:29:12
cry to talk about the pain caused
00:29:16
Joseph spoke with his brothers about this and it is
00:29:19
found in Genesis
00:29:21
45 look now Joseph how he acts Genesis
00:29:25
45 1 and 2 Joseph could no longer contain himself
00:29:29
in front of all those who were next to
00:29:31
him and he cried out, make everyone leave my presence
00:29:34
and no one was left with him when
00:29:37
Joseph made himself known to his brothers. Look at
00:29:39
verse 2 then he began to
00:29:42
cry like how many They were the
00:29:46
screams and the Egyptians heard and heard The
00:29:49
sea all Egypt heard these screams of
00:29:52
Joseph imagine 13 years keeping that
00:29:56
pain 13 years an abandonment 13 years a
00:30:00
deception 13 years living under this disappointment
00:30:04
that your brothers abandoned you the
00:30:06
worst thing in the world But José
00:30:09
openly and honestly admitted the
00:30:11
feeling of loneliness, loss,
00:30:14
abandonment of his own family, most
00:30:17
of us resist recognizing the
00:30:19
feelings of our
00:30:21
past, not speaking is not
00:30:26
good, there are things that if you have not spoken
00:30:29
within your family that are needed
00:30:31
speak not because something is going to change but
00:30:35
because something needs to change within
00:30:37
you it is necessary to express yourself if an uncle
00:30:41
abused you and it was never talked about Express that if
00:30:44
there was abuse within the family no but the thing
00:30:46
is that he is already married and this and the rest
00:30:48
and it was 30 years ago Express That is very
00:30:53
healthy that you have to do what
00:30:56
you need to do despite the other
00:30:59
person. God will take care of that, but
00:31:02
we cannot live with things. Joseph could not
00:31:05
bless his brothers until he
00:31:08
first acted on the feelings
00:31:12
that he I carried
00:31:15
inside then Joseph number one Joseph
00:31:18
believed in the goodness that the goodness of God
00:31:20
was greater than the curse two Joseph
00:31:23
openly and honestly admitted the
00:31:25
feeling of loss abandon bitterness
00:31:28
loneliness and anger Let me pause
00:31:31
and a commercial here it is very important
00:31:33
that our
00:31:35
homes let others tell us how they
00:31:39
feel sometimes my feelings
00:31:42
are not the same as my wife's I can last
00:31:44
a little longer than her my upbringing was
00:31:47
different than her upbringing but it doesn't
00:31:49
mean that her feelings or
00:31:52
how she feels or something hurts
00:31:54
her that wouldn't hurt me it shouldn't be
00:31:56
expressed
00:31:58
it should be expressed something else that I noticed in
00:32:01
José's life once he had already expressed
00:32:03
this with his brothers he didn't take it out on him
00:32:05
again because when his father
00:32:07
dies in the last chapter of Genesis
00:32:09
The Brothers come with fear and say
00:32:11
dad died, you are going to kill us and he
00:32:13
says
00:32:15
no, God has already cleaned it up, we already talked about
00:32:18
it, they remember when I cried and screamed and
00:32:21
pissed, that's already in the past, it's not It's
00:32:25
just that he's always blaming him
00:32:28
once something is expressed now and
00:32:30
as I always tell him and I especially
00:32:32
tell
00:32:34
men if he tells you that something bothers him and
00:32:37
they talk about it but you do it again
00:32:38
it's like you're pulling the scab off again.
00:32:41
time and you have to start over again,
00:32:42
trust in a relationship is
00:32:45
given the first time, the second time it
00:32:48
has to be earned and the third time a
00:32:50
little more to the point where once
00:32:52
a person gets tired and says
00:32:55
we don't have it anymore. to be careful with these
00:32:57
things in
00:32:58
life Joseph provided financially for his
00:33:02
brothers emotionally And
00:33:04
spiritually Joseph understood that God
00:33:07
sent him to be a savior and a
00:33:10
liberator Joseph names his children
00:33:14
through what he received Look at
00:33:16
Joseph's testimony in Genesis 45
00:33:19
verse 41 verse 50 to 52 I want to
00:33:23
read these verses to you two
00:33:26
sons are born in Egypt and look how he names
00:33:28
his children before the first
00:33:31
year came which he gave birth to the daughter of
00:33:35
Potipherah priest of verse
00:33:38
51 and named Joseph
00:33:41
firstborn manasseh that carried
00:33:44
meaning God made me forget all my
00:33:47
work and the whole house Joseph names a
00:33:51
son this is before his brothers you
00:33:53
are going to be called
00:33:54
manasseh why are you going to be called manasseh
00:33:57
because my future is bigger than my
00:33:59
past because what God has given me in
00:34:01
Egypt is greater than the pain of my
00:34:03
past the next son is called Ephraim
00:34:05
Look at verse 3 please and he called
00:34:09
the name of the second Ephraim because he said
00:34:12
God made me fruitful in the land of
00:34:14
my affliction so look what God says
00:34:16
look look Look at Joseph's testimony
00:34:19
despite my abuse my abandonment my
00:34:21
broken family my Abusive family
00:34:24
my lying family I am going to name my
00:34:27
two children giving a testimony of God
00:34:29
first God makes me forget my past
00:34:35
two my blessing today is bigger than
00:34:38
my past
00:34:40
how how do you do that How do you do that ma
00:34:46
Jehovah was with
00:34:51
Joseph ma
00:34:55
Jehovah was with
00:34:59
je I believe that your life Today is more a
00:35:01
reflection not of your
00:35:03
past but of your lack of walking with
00:35:07
God or your good walk with
00:35:14
God because you have control over
00:35:21
that you can open a Bible and say
00:35:23
to the Lord talk to me today you
00:35:26
can fold I don't know how to pray I want to ask you
00:35:29
a question how many of you have
00:35:31
carried a baby raise your hand the baby
00:35:34
can speak Do you know when he is
00:35:38
hungry, yes or
00:35:41
no, he is like you know, the father is carrying
00:35:45
the baby, you know, and the child is
00:35:48
throwing blows, you know Talking About,
00:35:51
eh, wrong person, cu Órale, go with
00:35:54
your mother, you What Talking About There is no
00:35:57
dinner here, son, there is no here. muu Let's go
00:36:01
with mom do you understand mumu or
00:36:05
not
00:36:08
you don't understand net you don't understand mumu I
00:36:11
'm going to
00:36:12
explain it to you there were two guys who just
00:36:15
arrived from Honduras and went to Dunkin
00:36:17
Donuts and wanted to order a coffee well the
00:36:19
word coffee and coffee Well that's
00:36:21
understandable they go to the Drive through
00:36:23
true story and he says Órale cousin Let's
00:36:26
order some coffees in the they wanted a
00:36:29
coffee he says cousin but ask mine
00:36:31
with cream but in Honduras it is for milk
00:36:34
and milk and it is not understood he says coffee
00:36:37
coffee okay And well he says with milk and
00:36:40
the girl no understand tells him come to
00:36:42
the window go to the window the mumu and
00:36:46
tells him to see What do you want
00:36:49
coffee
00:36:51
mumu
00:36:52
m
00:36:55
mumu
00:36:57
So if they are paisas and you don't know how to
00:36:59
order cream no mumu
00:37:05
mumu do you understand the mumu Then I have
00:37:09
to give him the baby to mom because I don't have
00:37:12
mumu I don't know what else to say today
00:37:15
I wanted the visitor to understand all
00:37:17
the truths today not to
00:37:19
leave here in
00:37:25
confusion
00:37:34
so imagine in the middle of
00:37:37
curse my son's name is
00:37:40
manaces my present and my future are
00:37:43
much bigger than My past my son
00:37:45
is called Ephraim
00:37:47
I have multiplied in a foreign land
00:37:51
How many of you do not find yourself like this
00:37:54
Let me tell you
00:37:57
what if
00:38:00
God has blessings for you but He has not
00:38:03
given them to you because He cannot give them to you
00:38:05
trust and the reason he cannot
00:38:08
trust you is because he does not trust you
00:38:10
because you have not walked with
00:38:13
him. And God is afraid that if he gives you a
00:38:16
blessing without you being linked to the one who
00:38:18
is going to bless you, you will fall more in love with him.
00:38:20
blessing that the God who has blessed you
00:38:25
three José decided to write his life
00:38:28
according to the word of God José did not
00:38:30
let his
00:38:33
feelings control him he recognized
00:38:36
his feelings tragedies and traumas the
00:38:39
events of his history and his family
00:38:42
there are things that leave things recorded and
00:38:44
marked in our hearts Joseph
00:38:46
recognized his past but Joseph did not let
00:38:49
his past write His future Joseph
00:38:52
walked with God and let God
00:38:54
write a better future for his life
00:38:56
Let me tell you once again maybe you
00:38:59
are in chapter three or four of your
00:39:01
life and it has been a dark chapter But
00:39:04
there is chapter 6 there is chapter 7 but you
00:39:06
can't stay at chapter 3 yes yes if
00:39:10
we could write the title of
00:39:13
Joseph's life I think it would be only
00:39:17
God only God but that should be
00:39:21
the title of the book of the life of each
00:39:24
one of us in this room am only
00:39:28
God that when people who knew you in
00:39:31
your childhood that when people knew you
00:39:34
in the worst of your life look at your life and
00:39:36
today
00:39:45
say to you the religion s te I wash the
00:39:49
coconut You, if you are
00:39:53
a fanatic, here you are, when that
00:39:55
sancudo of Christ bit you, it grabbed you, but
00:40:00
tightly. How do you know
00:40:03
that only
00:40:06
God? Joseph had a wonderful future
00:40:09
because he gave his past to God and let
00:40:11
God write his future. I
00:40:15
said this. several times
00:40:18
I have I am 45 years old and I have
00:40:22
said it for several years of my life if the
00:40:23
Lord called me to
00:40:25
heaven I did more and saw more than I
00:40:28
would have ever thought in my
00:40:30
life God has given me a wonderful
00:40:34
marriage that I would not I deserve a wonderful
00:40:36
wife, which
00:40:37
is the best thing that the Lord
00:40:41
Jesus Christ has given me, the best gift that God has given me. He
00:40:43
has given me children that I do not deserve. He
00:40:45
has given me a ministry that I do not deserve.
00:40:48
My life is a reflection of the grace of
00:40:50
my
00:40:52
God. I could not have written a better
00:40:55
life than the one God has written for me.
00:40:58
Joseph let God write His future
00:41:01
number four. That is very important. It
00:41:04
is not less important because I left it as
00:41:06
number four. It is very important. Joseph
00:41:10
decided not to be a
00:41:13
tool of curse. destruction of
00:41:18
bitterness, they say that hurt people hurt
00:41:23
others, it's not that the one I speak to my
00:41:27
wife is because that's how my father was
00:41:29
with me and that's very true and it's very
00:41:34
true, but it's not
00:41:37
Christianity, it's not
00:41:40
Christ, Joseph became a tool of
00:41:43
blessing and not a curse for others
00:41:45
Joseph partnered with God to make a
00:41:48
blessing Joseph could have destroyed and
00:41:51
killed his brothers he had the power
00:41:53
to do it in Egypt but Joseph decided to
00:41:56
bless those who curse
00:42:00
him why do you think God He trusted Joseph
00:42:04
because God knew how Joseph was going to treat
00:42:06
his
00:42:07
brothers. What if the reason God does
00:42:10
n't give you power is because God knows
00:42:12
what you would do with that
00:42:16
power? One of the dynamics of
00:42:22
Christianity is that God blesses us
00:42:25
to
00:42:28
Others, what if God has not
00:42:31
blessed you because you have not blessed
00:42:34
those who have cursed
00:42:36
you? Jesus says, even the unconverted, he
00:42:39
says it in the New Testament, they know how to
00:42:41
do good to those who do good to them, he says,
00:42:43
but well, that's what anyone does. It is
00:42:45
difficult if you pray for those who
00:42:47
insult you if you bless those who
00:42:52
curse you that is what the word is
00:42:54
saying no no we cannot have No well you are
00:42:58
going to pay me and I am going to pay it
00:43:00
back sad to Sometimes the messages I
00:43:02
receive from social networks Freddy
00:43:04
was unfaithful to my partner is that he
00:43:06
was unfaithful to me and now I feel worse
00:43:09
in
00:43:12
Ah more Jehovah was with who with José
00:43:16
what if our lives are more a
00:43:18
reflection of our walk with God and
00:43:20
the decisions that we walk with God
00:43:23
that the treatment of the past how life
00:43:26
treated us or how others have treated us
00:43:28
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