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sat down at the end of the

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first block

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Hello, dear Arthur,

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hello everyone, thank you for the opportunity to

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talk with you

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My name is Olivia and

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my favorite person He constantly watches

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your videos Well, I also

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sometimes listen to you in dashes I really like

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your thoughts, everything you say

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resonates with me in your heart So

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you recently had a retreat here in Moscow, we

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really wanted to come to you with my loved one,

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but there were no places,

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and since there was no such question,

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I just wanted to bask in the rays of your

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thoughts.

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Here it is

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[applause]

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Here it is And after that, events happened and

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this request nevertheless appeared

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some time after, in

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general, my loved one and I want to

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have a child, and

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we found out what was wrong with me and

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it turned out that they found cancer cells in me,

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like

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in situ cancer, and that’s

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how- then it changed

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I didn’t want my parents to know, it

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turned out that way What they told about it,

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everyone started to worry,

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please

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I don’t know

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what to do in this situation I don’t want

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any of me to worry about

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us, my mother has a very good relationship and

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we rarely talk on the phone because there is no such thing

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necessary

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and I usually call her,

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you know, sometimes we hurt

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close people with our actions or

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words

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and you can just change your words or

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actions and it will become easier for your loved ones,

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but I don’t know how to make

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my close people stop suffering from

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this

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and we are a young man He and

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always pays so much attention and now he

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pays it to me even more And this is of course

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good, but I’m embarrassed in general by what’s

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happening.

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I don’t understand what I should do.

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Probably Nobody knows what to do because

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it’s

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probably fortunately, maybe I don’t know, and

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fortunately it’s not While our everyday

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reality

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[music]

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so

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this situation is

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incomprehensible people

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we do not know how to consciously relate to the

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fact of

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dying to the fact of leaving or death

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until we fully understand ourselves the

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reasons for this

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You don’t know who you don’t know why you are

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here

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it’s strange you can whatever

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explanations to speak, but no one knows

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why we are here

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and no one knows what is beyond the threshold

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of death,

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life or not life, no one knows,

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maybe there is some information, but

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this information is not from those who died, who are

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dying, no one returns, no one

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returned, here is Jesus for a long time people are already waiting,

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but he hasn’t returned, they’re waiting for Muhammad, they’ll be waiting for

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someone, there’s a lot of people waiting,

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and we

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essentially equate any illness with going beyond the limits of

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normal life,

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any illness, even if we just have a

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headache,

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I do

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n’t know whether you noticed or not When you have a

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strong headache It turns you off

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from the general flow of life suddenly

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what seemed insignificant and unimportant to you

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becomes bright your room

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when you are lying With a fever

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or a headache or if you are lucky from the

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topic with someone else at the same time

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your blanket your pillow bed

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curtains

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everything becomes so close

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important

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that you have a nightstand right next to your bed

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and you can put tea on it. It’s

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so convenient,

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you begin to appreciate the order on your nightstand,

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people who can make you tea,

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take care of you, you return to

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another reality thanks to illness,

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thanks to

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such

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phenomena in our lives that

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make us think about to ourselves about

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what we live Why we live like this Why

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we live at all

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We will begin to

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love life more after going through these

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trials

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and become wiser

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wisdom is not a sign of old age As we are

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usually told

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wisdom is a sign of a

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consciously lived experience of life

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This is awareness plus experience

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and what they show to you attention

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I think that you wanted this.

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You just weren’t ready,

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just like many

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stars

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are not ready for everyone’s

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attention to them,

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just like many mothers are not ready

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to give attention to a child.

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So you said that you wanted to have a child with your husband,

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but you wanted to have a child with a man

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In such cases, it is necessary that at least one

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of you understands the seriousness of this

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decision

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because it seems to you that this is like a

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toy.

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You can deny this, but we

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already have it, yes, but nevertheless, there is a

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person sitting next to you; there are already two

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children only Now they understand how much

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this is not a toy

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After a while

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When two children have already become adults,

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this is a very important thing to understand.

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How important it is to understand

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many things

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in another person. For the

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man

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in me,

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I am not against, of course, people

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loving themselves

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and others so that after that

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children appear

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you know what I sometimes think about is that we don’t

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know ourselves well, we don’t know how to control

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ourselves, we don’t understand anything about our lives

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and yet we dare to have children, I

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think this to people, it’s so

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strange,

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as if a person doesn’t have a driver’s

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license, he buys a car,

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gets in and drives

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and then children are just as unsuited and do

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n’t understand anything in life,

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just try to be aware of

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what you really understand in

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life

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just now in a minute. Try, I’m

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really sure of this and

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that the Earth is round, at least

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that it rotates around the Sun, I’m

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really sure of this,

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I’m really sure that there is a

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mantle of the Earth

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100 kilometers long

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and then there is a magma

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core of steel

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rotating,

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I’m really sure that’s

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the kind of certainty. It

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just seems to me that we’re not even sure of

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this,

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what are we really sure of when

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we live, what’s right is right whether to play

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computer games or not, it’s

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right to drink alcohol in

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small quantities, in moderation or

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not, a

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huge number of

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recommendations poured in throughout the

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20th century to drink alcohol in

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moderation and then it’s not harmful,

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as if those who became alcoholics

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wanted to drink in unlimited quantities

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they planned

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moderately, so

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everyone planned a little bit To live beautifully,

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slightly tipsy

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and then The bitter truth

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I would like you to think that you

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know about life,

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what you can be sure of

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You can live in your illusions,

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but at least sometimes Think about it,

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you don’t know how to behave with mom with her

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increased attention,

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but that doesn’t mean that you didn’t want

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so much attention,

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you wanted that kind of attitude towards yourself, does

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n’t

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everyone want that kind of attitude, but I

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wanted

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her more No, you didn’t think about her

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calmness, you’re never sure of her We just do

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n’t think about a person doesn’t think about such things, well,

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it’s not built into it,

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it’s like getting on a plane

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and you would like the

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stewardesses to not run out of water

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or the pilot to always have freshly hot

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coffee, you’re not against it, you just don’t

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think about these things, that’s why we

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the peace of our parents, we don’t

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think about it, all we want

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is increased attention to ourselves,

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no.

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Well, to understand yes or no, you

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need time to think,

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I understand this very well, this is

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not what I wanted, I definitely didn’t

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want this, and attention from everyone was enough for me.

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I never suffered. I haven’t met a

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woman who would have enough

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attention I just haven’t met a single

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woman no

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Hello It’s here

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can you stand for a minute

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Stand up well this person says

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that he doesn’t want attention I say that I want

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it I understand what you want

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to think about yourself Sit down Thank you, I understand that you

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want to think about yourself, we all want to

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think about ourselves in a certain way, we

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unfortunately cannot

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see ourselves honestly.

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We want to think about ourselves like this,

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but what is the reason for wanting to think that I have

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enough attention?

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This is me. If enough

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attention means enough everything well,

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it won’t appear in excess quantities,

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then it won’t be a problem, but there

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can be a lot of attention to me or

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little, it doesn’t cause me problems, I

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build my life so that it’s not

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convenient

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because I don’t care whether there’s a lot of attention to me

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or a little, but

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there can be a lot of it, but

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It’s usually just it’s completely normal

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if you do what you do Yes, but in

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my place it’s impossible to be without

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attention and this is the second side of the matter

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but it doesn’t bother me I’m

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worried about the inattention I’m

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worried about the reasons why this

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attention appears

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and what the reason is

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excitement and worries about What do I need? Well,

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the name Well, there’s no way to help in my situation.

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Well, yes, what’s the problem, but she’s worried

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and pays attention to you.

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I’d like to know how to make

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everyone around me stop worrying.

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Well, let him worry, so

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what if she’s worried? What happened to you?

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but she’s worried and worried

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you say Don’t worry you say

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she’s still worried

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But it’s her choice

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Maybe she wants to torture you with her

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attention so that you stop getting sick

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Don’t worry How can I not worry

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while you’re sick what’s wrong with you admit it’s

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not closed there

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I’m serious It’s difficult for you Yes, now

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look at this situation Because you

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think that you understand it perfectly,

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this situation you have no problems, your

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mother is worried about you, you don’t want

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her to worry,

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so love her for this worry, what

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problem is she worried about you, that means

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she has has feelings for you

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That means she's not indifferent to you but love

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her because she loves you what's the

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problem you reciprocate she

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cares about you she's preoccupied with you You

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forget about her

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answer And at least once finally stop

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being preoccupied with yourself You're still

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preoccupied myself, I’m telling you about this,

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increased attention from your mother is not a problem

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Whatever the reason,

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your denial is a problem

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Why why you shouldn’t worry

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there are reasons

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you can’t cope with the attention

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you wanted

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Everyone wants attention, there are no people who don’t

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want attention,

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there are people who feel that they are not

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worthy

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not worthy of attention

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That's another thing,

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then you're hiding

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then you don't want so much attention

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Look at the children For a year now,

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just stand at them, watch them

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play on the playground, one of

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them will say so many people are looking at me,

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so much attention, I didn't want so much

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attention, I just want to play, they get even

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more furious if you look at them, they

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don’t know where they are ready to go if they are

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looked at

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because that’s all the children want, even

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if these children already have a beard,

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they still want it,

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it’s true, it’s the truth of life because

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attention of this energy,

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the energy of life is

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a sign of life

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Love is a sign of life

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We really need everyone, we need

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attention

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and the reasons Well, they are secondary

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and if your mother is worried about you she is afraid

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But that’s cool That means she loves you

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Why don’t you show attention in return,

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you’re just in an exchange in constant like in

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tennis

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she you you

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You have a chance to get closer

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Let your mother worry she should

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worry

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why not let her worry if there is

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something to worry about without

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being sensual Well then

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your mother would be enlightened and even then

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I don’t think that

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There are enlightened people who don’t care about

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their children

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If you care about other people whom

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you know for three seconds,

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then you can’t care about those who live in your house who

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depend on you

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So don’t

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think that

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it’s negative, turn

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it into Positive, turn it

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turn it into a good thing into a new form of your

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relationship play in the hospital she

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takes care of you You are sick

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you don’t know how to do this yes we don’t know how to

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do this but we have to learn

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Well or just stop your mother from

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worrying tell her Don’t worry

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I hate you

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but how else can you stop worrying

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your mother for the health of the child How can you

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stop? Well, I wanted to know, it’s

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impossible to stop, it can

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just be turned into a deeper

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relationship. Yes,

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she may be in pain, yes, it may be.

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But this may make love

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brighter, like when a person is sick. I

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started with this. When to you

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When to you everything gets worse,

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life gets worse,

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simple moments that you didn’t notice

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become more important,

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and here

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for her you have become more important than before

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and enjoy it.

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You can, of course, feel sorry for yourself, but I don’t think you

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need to feel sorry for yourself.

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I mean hiding from the facts,

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fact in the fact that your mother feels sorry for you because it

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seems to her that there is a reason for

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this

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and you have to live with these facts, a

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normal mother cannot help but worry.

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So she is a normal mother, good,

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you are

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weak, you can’t change anything in

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such a situation, you can’t

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change anything, you can to be with her in this,

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to love her care,

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of course it hurts her, but this is the rule of the game, we

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follow them from the very beginning.

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In the life of every

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normal person there is pain,

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ours, as in American films, says

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everyone has their own skeletons in the closet,

00:25:58

besides the skeletons, there is also pain in

00:26:01

this closet there's a

00:26:08

big closet

00:26:14

there, the ego is still nearby, the

00:26:16

skeleton of the ego and the pain

00:26:22

and the

00:26:24

Trinity Yes, they seem to

00:26:28

come out there one by one and scare you,

00:26:34

yes there is something that you hide from everyone about yourself,

00:26:37

it doesn’t matter that it’s completely unimportant,

00:26:41

every person doesn’t physically accept something in themselves there is

00:26:43

something else in

00:26:48

everyone’s body that he hides from everyone

00:26:51

without exception, I won’t say that this is

00:26:54

abnormal,

00:26:56

life consists of this,

00:27:02

each person has his own pain, if

00:27:06

there is no pain, the person will be very

00:27:08

superficial, abnormal, even said

00:27:11

crazy,

00:27:13

you know why, crazy because a person

00:27:15

who is not it hurts and has never been

00:27:17

hurt he doesn’t feel sorry for other people he doesn’t

00:27:21

know pain he will

00:27:24

treat other people very badly

00:27:27

hurt them all he will be a psychopath

00:27:37

like the children of rich people they

00:27:40

often become psychopaths

00:27:43

for this reason

00:27:47

they don’t know

00:27:49

this life anymore

00:28:04

Thank you

00:28:11

yes yes where are you going come on

00:28:28

Thank you Arthur for being there

00:28:31

because

00:28:34

for me you are probably the only

00:28:36

person who has honor left so

00:28:39

dual everyone says they are

00:28:40

dualities When I saw you

00:28:45

I wanted to come

00:28:51

Yes I still have a lot of duality too but

00:28:54

I want to be honest and be myself

00:28:58

it will be honest and very difficult, yes,

00:29:02

being straight is much easier than being

00:29:06

honest. A straight person can tell everyone whatever

00:29:11

they want,

00:29:13

but in his life there may be no honesty.

00:29:19

Such people are unbearably straight, people are

00:29:21

unbearably unpleasant,

00:29:25

they are not liked by straight people,

00:29:28

honest people are loved by an

00:29:32

honest person. always straight

00:29:35

sometimes crooked

00:29:43

I wanted to ask

00:29:45

[music]

00:29:54

What can you do already starting from childhood? Yes,

00:29:58

but

00:30:03

to write

00:30:04

competent teaching aids with the highest quality in this area because

00:30:07

I train teachers and psychologists. So to

00:30:10

build this in an understandable language for them

00:30:13

to teach, but somehow I want to

00:30:18

this foundation was like this,

00:30:21

like an eternity. Well, something very

00:30:24

strong powerful so that

00:30:27

I would be happy with what I do. Well, throughout

00:30:31

all this, like

00:30:32

complexity, difficulties at the same time,

00:30:34

joy. Because when something

00:30:36

works out and it turns out

00:30:40

when the children

00:30:43

in the group are

00:30:45

more friends

00:30:48

with treat each other kindly, that is,

00:30:52

when we can bring into this system

00:30:54

that is now There is even more

00:30:57

awareness for children,

00:31:01

this is very cool I would like to participate in this

00:31:03

process as much as

00:31:06

possible,

00:31:09

this is the development of understanding Yes, and the desire and

00:31:14

I would like you to suggest and if

00:31:17

possible Yes, somehow I

00:31:20

helped to cooperate. I don’t even

00:31:23

know how. Well, here’s how.

00:31:27

At what stage am I? It’s hard for me to say. I’m

00:31:30

observing. I’m learning this. I’ll be

00:31:34

very glad for your answer.

00:31:42

Although it’s scary

00:31:57

when this universal state opened up in me,

00:32:04

as if you’re everywhere and you everything

00:32:08

and as if it’s not quite as if

00:32:16

[music] it’s

00:32:18

very difficult

00:32:21

to decide what’s right and what’s wrong.

00:32:25

Does a person need education or not?

00:32:29

Does a person need to be educated or not,

00:32:34

and as always,

00:32:36

in the end you come to one thing:

00:32:42

what in Buddhism is called Buddhism, the

00:32:45

golden mean

00:32:49

balance

00:32:52

you know what I mean,

00:32:55

balance is needed in everything, a

00:33:01

modern school

00:33:07

does not have balance for one reason,

00:33:11

it only thinks about growth.

00:33:15

That is, I don’t know how much there is now,

00:33:18

what kind of system it is, but we had a

00:33:20

five-point system, from one to five,

00:33:28

any of our actions or participation was assessed.

00:33:41

evaluation system

00:33:44

system of achievements

00:33:49

good

00:33:52

but this is not enough

00:33:56

Why Because it is missed the system

00:34:01

of achievements does not contain

00:34:08

understanding Or rather a feeling Why do I need

00:34:15

this A?

00:34:19

Yes, they promise you something,

00:34:24

but what is it for you, what is it

00:34:28

giving you now And this is a deception in

00:34:32

which we find ourselves,

00:34:34

you are all victims of this deception,

00:34:38

you studied at school for 10 years

00:34:42

for the sake of a

00:34:45

successful future, so

00:34:47

you wasted your time, your mood

00:34:53

was exchanged for seriousness

00:34:55

for tension,

00:34:58

that somewhere in the distant future you will have

00:35:02

some opportunity, let’s

00:35:11

devote this Time, after all, this is your

00:35:14

childhood

00:35:15

Good I I’ll try for a while

00:35:20

Tell me the ability to communicate we need the ability to

00:35:25

communicate we need it we need

00:35:28

the ability to communicate we would get it, as

00:35:32

it seems to me, we would get it just by spending time

00:35:36

quite pleasantly, for example,

00:35:39

Listening and reading fairy tales,

00:35:44

pleasant interesting stories such

00:35:48

huge worlds would open up to us like

00:35:53

fantasy Yes, first small fairy tales

00:35:56

then short stories such adventures and

00:35:59

then entire fantasy novels Yes, there is such a thing, there are

00:36:02

now a lot of fantasy novels,

00:36:06

so so Our speech would develop,

00:36:10

our imagination would

00:36:12

develop, yes,

00:36:15

we could draw these heroes, we

00:36:19

could

00:36:21

Listen to this fairy tale, for example, while

00:36:25

reading it Well, suppose it was

00:36:27

still possible to stage such records and

00:36:30

listen to

00:36:31

some interesting fairy tale And at this

00:36:34

time Whoever wants could draw these

00:36:37

characters And whoever wants could sculpt or

00:36:41

make something out of something that is not

00:36:44

noisy so as not to interfere

00:36:47

Say yes,

00:36:51

yes

00:36:54

this joint journey

00:36:57

would develop imagination

00:37:00

Because when it came to a princess

00:37:04

or a dragon, everyone would blind the dragon in their own way

00:37:07

or draw it, but the children

00:37:09

still can’t force them to draw the same ones.

00:37:12

Nobody noticed that the children don’t

00:37:15

understand what they’ll draw and they say that

00:37:19

Kotya looks

00:37:22

more like a hedgehog

00:37:26

but the children don’t care that it doesn’t

00:37:28

look like a classic cat, do

00:37:32

you understand or not

00:37:34

this

00:37:36

independence and independence from the

00:37:39

opinions of other people was taken away from us

00:37:43

by imposing standards on us

00:37:45

and standards are needed so that we can then be

00:37:48

forced to work according to standards

00:37:52

I’m not against that I’m not rebelling no don’t

00:37:56

think that I deny, I’m just

00:37:59

saying

00:38:00

we would be able to communicate well,

00:38:03

fantasize and something.

00:38:07

Well, I don’t know how to draw or

00:38:11

maybe sculpt with my own hands according to my

00:38:14

imagination already in the first grade, so

00:38:19

what did we spend

00:38:23

our energy and nerves on at that time to

00:38:26

write out beautiful these letters and

00:38:29

then write So, our speech

00:38:32

developed No, it didn’t develop, stagnation

00:38:36

was

00:38:39

our imagination developed, no,

00:38:45

we showed some kind of

00:38:48

activity to create the hero we

00:38:51

want and in the way we want it

00:38:54

would develop, but this did not happen in the first

00:38:57

grade, even if you are what -you

00:38:59

do crafts in first grade, only people

00:39:02

like you will tell you

00:39:05

a pattern,

00:39:07

so first grade, second grade, third

00:39:09

grade is lost

00:39:12

because the child learns patterns as you

00:39:15

said.

00:39:20

I would use this time, I’m not

00:39:23

telling you, I understand that this cannot be implemented, but

00:39:25

I would do it I used time to

00:39:28

awaken imagination

00:39:31

to awaken the ability to communicate, listen to

00:39:34

imprint speech And here What kind of fairy tales do

00:39:41

primitive people read, I read them at the age of four, such

00:39:45

fairy tales

00:39:47

and I was incredibly bored in the first grade in the second grade It

00:39:50

seemed to me,

00:39:56

Well, it’s just that

00:39:58

I don’t even know the primitive, that’s

00:40:10

what is our education,

00:40:14

it does not allow us to simply enjoy

00:40:19

life by how we learn the

00:40:22

learning processes and what we are learning now,

00:40:26

it does not imply pleasure in this

00:40:29

non-built-in pleasure and it is impossible to

00:40:33

change anything in that existing

00:40:35

system, firstly the system

00:40:39

is defective and secondly the content

00:40:42

the programs are inferior, they need to be replaced with

00:40:46

more humane ones

00:40:48

connected with feelings,

00:40:51

that is, connected with feelings,

00:40:55

images, colors, voices, sounds are very important. All this is

00:41:01

important to us;

00:41:03

it is not there; we are deprived of it;

00:41:17

feeling of the body, yes, that

00:41:21

is, there is a selection in which there

00:41:24

Listen to your heart, understand what you

00:41:26

feel, so I didn’t want to accept But they

00:41:29

accepted, that is, they wanted patriotism Well,

00:41:33

judging by the

00:41:34

context, they accepted and it is this

00:41:38

program

00:41:39

And I would like this to continue to

00:41:41

be filled Well, it’s more meaningful,

00:41:44

that is, as far as our system

00:41:47

exists, but

00:41:50

we won’t be able to change anything in the assessment scale and it doesn’t matter

00:41:53

what we intersperse there, it’s

00:41:57

like at school they introduce some kind of

00:42:01

Word of God Or something else, for example Yes,

00:42:04

for already there I don’t know for 20 years it’s all been

00:42:07

introduced somewhere they’ve been introduced somewhere they haven’t introduced it

00:42:11

but for now

00:42:13

this won’t happen in our lives

00:42:21

until we learn

00:42:24

to think What is God

00:42:30

and until we learn to answer this

00:42:33

question

00:42:35

honestly if you ask the priest what is

00:42:39

God,

00:42:41

what will he answer? God is the creator, the creator

00:42:44

of all things, you

00:42:50

need to ask the priest How do you know this, the

00:42:54

children would definitely ask the priest,

00:42:58

you should invite him to the first grade

00:43:01

and he will fail there, he won’t be able to stand it

00:43:08

because he doesn’t know this from anywhere,

00:43:15

and the children will ask Or maybe there is no God, he

00:43:19

will say God yes

00:43:21

they will say How do you know

00:43:30

he won’t have anything to answer he will say I

00:43:34

felt it during the service they will say What kind of

00:43:38

sensations they will say But this

00:43:41

reverence the

00:43:50

conversation will be short with the priest they will

00:43:52

figure it out very quickly

00:43:58

Well of course he can say that

00:44:01

when you grow up you will understand But this is no longer an

00:44:04

answer, this is an avoidance of an answer. If you

00:44:07

cannot explain something to children,

00:44:09

you simply don’t know it.

00:44:21

Children are an indicator of

00:44:25

your knowledge of the world; a

00:44:30

program

00:44:32

that does not also include a non

00:44:36

-evaluative system

00:44:39

will be with God in any case; what does

00:44:44

this mean? On the

00:44:47

one hand,

00:44:49

evaluations can be Important and should be

00:44:53

important, on the other hand, the

00:44:56

same education contains non-evaluative

00:44:59

perception.

00:45:10

But this is difficult to create for people who do not

00:45:13

have non-evaluative perception,

00:45:16

that is, for

00:45:18

example,

00:45:23

there is a game

00:45:25

and the game happens for the sake of the game itself,

00:45:31

and there is a competition and the competition

00:45:34

happens for the sake of winning,

00:45:37

these are two forms

00:45:39

of Entertainment and in studies, studies should

00:45:43

consist of two forms of entertainment,

00:45:48

one form of acquiring knowledge and evaluating

00:45:51

knowledge

00:45:53

and the other form is the application of knowledge and

00:45:57

receiving benefits. That is, this is on

00:46:02

the plane here and here 1 2 3 4 5

00:46:09

these are two types of

00:46:12

perception of life

00:46:19

in essence what we awaken in ourselves

00:46:21

This perception of the second brain needs to be

00:46:23

developed in ourselves,

00:46:26

given if possible to those who can

00:46:29

take it and give it to children. Because children

00:46:32

take it very quickly if the

00:46:34

adult next to them is like this, or rather, they

00:46:37

have it from the very beginning.

00:46:40

Well, how

00:46:43

it should be not for

00:46:48

not focusing on something else, probably,

00:46:52

as I think, we must grow to a different

00:46:56

System, well, that is, it should appear

00:46:59

as a result of the fact that this system, the

00:47:02

evaluation system, is not enough for

00:47:05

people to be

00:47:07

happy from studying at school, that the

00:47:10

learning process is

00:47:12

complete and that the child graduates a

00:47:15

full-fledged

00:47:26

someone who participates in this, we grow

00:47:30

due to the fact that parents begin

00:47:33

to understand the need for something

00:47:35

more for their children

00:47:39

and begin to ask for it and begin to

00:47:41

organize this for their children and

00:47:43

begin to organize

00:47:45

alternative schools where they introduce subjects that

00:47:48

teach what is important for the

00:47:51

parents themselves or demands are made,

00:47:54

for example, vegan parents say I want

00:47:56

my child to go to a school for

00:47:58

vegans, this is another dimension. I want

00:48:02

my child not to sit at school for 45

00:48:04

minutes, but

00:48:08

to warm up and play every 10-15 minutes so that he feels

00:48:11

alive and not 45 minutes. had to

00:48:13

sit on a hard chair, I want my

00:48:15

child to sit on a hard chair for a

00:48:17

minimum amount of time while he

00:48:20

has to write and the rest of the time he

00:48:22

sits on soft bags

00:48:24

and I want to create such a school and these are the kind of

00:48:28

parents who will create

00:48:29

alternative types, these alternative

00:48:32

types will be drag along our regular

00:48:35

school,

00:48:36

reshaping it as a result of

00:48:38

such a competitive situation,

00:48:41

because as soon as

00:48:43

the flow of the

00:48:45

rich or wealthy people into an

00:48:50

alternative school begins to take place, the regular

00:48:52

school will immediately take all this into service and

00:48:55

say, let’s do

00:48:57

this too this is what flows out of us into these

00:49:00

private schools Let's go, all the classrooms are empty,

00:49:06

it's clear what they are talking about, they are

00:49:22

obliged to form their children Yes, I think that

00:49:26

we should look for someone who has the opportunity

00:49:29

to create, someone has the opportunity to

00:49:31

come up with what to create,

00:49:33

one way or another, such groups will be

00:49:36

created and are already being created

00:49:39

Yes, I just made a development center for my children,

00:49:41

well, because I

00:49:44

understood that I don’t want to

00:49:46

convey stereotyped thinking as it is, I want the

00:49:49

development to be not 1 2 3 4 5 until

00:49:52

which step the counting counter will definitely not be learned And that’s

00:49:55

all - so that they know how to ask

00:49:56

questions, think about them,

00:49:59

and imagination is also not like

00:50:03

generally accepted patterns of

00:50:05

imagination after all. Well, I think that

00:50:07

in general the education system with the advent of

00:50:09

children’s access to the Internet should

00:50:12

change dramatically because the Internet gives

00:50:15

much more information to children than

00:50:18

school I’m ready to give the school is just

00:50:20

instantly outdated and needs to be

00:50:22

rebuilt,

00:50:26

so it’s like it’s just

00:50:32

grandma’s records they play there,

00:50:40

everything is already

00:50:43

different and this is not bad and

00:50:46

not good, it’s just that the school should be

00:50:49

rebuilt as quickly as the

00:50:51

life around it is rebuilt, don’t

00:50:54

run after fashion trends, no

00:51:04

But if the school lags behind the development of children

00:51:07

and this is often exactly the case, the

00:51:11

children get bored,

00:51:16

the school becomes a prison.

00:51:27

I don’t think that the school has changed much

00:51:31

since I studied there, there are

00:51:35

some innovations, but in general it’s still the

00:51:38

same. I’m not saying that it’s bad. I’m

00:51:40

saying that it’s It’s no longer enough,

00:51:56

in fact, the way out is only in

00:51:58

creating an environment that is possible at your

00:52:01

level. The way out is possible through respect for

00:52:04

children

00:52:06

and through the fact that you put yourself in their

00:52:09

place.

00:52:11

You’re just looking. And what would I want in their

00:52:14

place? What would I want? What would I want in

00:52:17

perspective And what would I want at the moment,

00:52:20

being in perspective, this means the children

00:52:23

came here to get something in order to be

00:52:26

stronger in the future,

00:52:29

developed, they came to gain knowledge

00:52:32

skills skills to form them,

00:52:36

we give knowledge

00:52:42

Give us the ability to operate with information,

00:53:01

it’s difficult in general, very difficult,

00:53:13

we are then judged by our grades

00:53:16

when we come to get a job

00:53:28

and we can’t say that this is wrong

00:53:43

If I were an entrepreneur, a businessman, I

00:53:47

would also hire only excellent students,

00:53:52

but our excellent students work

00:53:56

well.

00:54:00

Show us your certificate

00:54:06

and let’s see who had what grades

00:54:15

I’m interested in who were excellent students if

00:54:18

we have excellent students are good or not at all

00:54:23

Today I ask I

00:54:35

do It’s not even so much about the

00:54:42

teachers as the system itself everyone

00:54:46

must learn to ask themselves questions

00:54:48

why am I doing this What is the purpose of my

00:54:52

going to the class to the blackboard what do I ultimately

00:54:56

want to receive or give

00:55:01

What can I teach

00:55:04

how will I use this time

00:55:20

in our lives, there

00:55:23

should also be questions, there

00:55:28

should also be two dimensions of

00:55:31

achievement and buzz.

00:55:37

But using the example of the gym, as I

00:55:39

said,

00:55:41

you go there so that your muscles grow there.

00:55:45

But you have to get high. This should be

00:55:47

part of your life and not just for the sake of

00:55:50

the future,

00:55:55

this should all become a way of life, but it’s not that it

00:55:58

should,

00:56:00

and you are happy only when this

00:56:02

part of your life

00:56:05

Well, strength or muscles grow depending

00:56:08

on the goal,

00:56:15

you go to work to

00:56:20

say something to the world,

00:56:23

but I know this

00:56:26

Well, for example, I know how to sew a cool

00:56:30

dress.

00:56:33

I know what the most beautiful dress can

00:56:36

be. This is it,

00:56:41

and you get a kick out of it. Whether it’s

00:56:45

clear or not what I’m talking about is the

00:56:48

teacher who comes

00:56:51

to class, he must

00:56:55

be in love with his subject,

00:56:59

to know the benefits of it; a prophet, what is a prophet

00:57:03

and be able to explain

00:57:08

the system must understand that of those sitting in the

00:57:11

class there are 20 or 15 people or how many

00:57:13

you are still

00:57:16

only part

00:57:18

Can look at life through mathematics

00:57:22

or through literature only Part the other

00:57:26

part

00:57:28

will look at life through music

00:57:31

through physical education

00:57:35

It is clear We must be able to allow this,

00:57:39

grades must be but they should be

00:57:41

significant for everyone and for teachers

00:57:45

for parents and for students and for

00:57:48

employers

00:57:49

it should be a common system you

00:57:54

know how it should work

00:57:56

so you come to the store and see

00:57:59

the price tag for example there is 150 rubles

00:58:04

150

00:58:08

you bring it to the checkout

00:58:11

and at the checkout They should charge you 150, so

00:58:17

for the cashier it is important that you have 150

00:58:20

in your account, it’s

00:58:22

clear That is,

00:58:24

this should be the same for everyone.

00:58:33

If I agree with the assessments, it turns out that

00:58:37

I have an inclination and interest in

00:58:39

mathematics. This should interest not the

00:58:42

one who is standing in the next line. But the

00:58:45

cashier is

00:58:47

clear

00:58:48

not a store security guard, but a cashier. That is,

00:58:52

if I am excellent in mathematics, this

00:58:54

means that I had an interest and inclination towards

00:58:57

this,

00:58:58

I loved devoting my time to this

00:59:02

and this means that by coming to university I

00:59:07

can still increase my abilities and

00:59:10

skills in handling units, crushing

00:59:15

and mixing and then

00:59:21

the employer will get acquainted with this knowledge, he

00:59:24

says Clearly understandable

00:59:28

here you were great with

00:59:30

mathematics at the university

00:59:33

Let's try

00:59:36

[music]

00:59:38

gives you a job

00:59:41

where you continue to enjoy what

00:59:44

you have been able to do for

00:59:46

many years; operating with facts

00:59:54

is easy for you.

01:00:04

Understandable for what is it needed?

01:00:07

Well, this is the definition

01:00:09

of giftedness, which we

01:00:11

say is the interests of the original and helping

01:00:14

the child to get in the direction of a

01:00:17

view of the world that excites him,

01:00:20

that captivates him, he is

01:00:22

such a person comes and says, I want

01:00:27

to be a trainer in the gym, they

01:00:30

tell him, Exactly

01:00:33

I got you in physical education he got a bad mark,

01:00:45

but he just wants to be a coach so

01:00:48

that it’s not so stressful to earn money,

01:00:53

and so they train people, the person came

01:00:56

wants to lose weight or something else,

01:00:59

but he doesn’t care about this person, he doesn’t

01:01:03

like it, he didn’t like biology, anatomy

01:01:06

at school, he didn’t like physical education he didn’t

01:01:09

participate in competitions, he doesn’t like

01:01:12

the body and everything connected with it, he just

01:01:15

came here because he can walk.

01:01:17

There in the gym it seems to say yes, yes,

01:01:21

do it, do

01:01:23

another 20 repetitions

01:01:26

normally, cool. By the way,

01:01:31

let’s go now,

01:01:34

I haven’t seen such coaches there. I saw they

01:01:38

come to earn money and do nothing,

01:01:44

it turns out that the task of an adult who

01:01:46

notices this interest is to support Yes, both

01:01:50

in a preschool institution and at school, here is a

01:01:52

person who is engaged in

01:01:54

such a coach, he will not come after two or three

01:01:56

training sessions,

01:01:58

but if the coach

01:02:01

greets you, you know how his pie,

01:02:05

how chubby you are,

01:02:09

let's go I'll make you a delicious

01:02:12

pie delicious pie Yes, he's happy

01:02:16

Damn, there's so much work ahead let's go let's

01:02:24

say so a client or a patient in this

01:02:28

case He thinks I'm in good hands,

01:02:33

you know,

01:02:36

and then they take care of this

01:02:39

situation together, you both understand well

01:02:42

simple situation

01:02:45

How often do you see this

01:02:47

extremely rarely

01:02:50

extremely rarely this happens

01:02:52

basically everyone just does it for the money

01:02:56

I was looking for a teacher for my daughter

01:02:58

who burns with fire loves lives like that and

01:03:02

found it and the child lit up And in general this is what you were

01:03:06

looking for Is it normal to look for this

01:03:10

should be a fact, you were looking for a dentist

01:03:12

who knows how to treat teeth, you understand

01:03:23

Yes, because even dentists want to

01:03:25

earn money, they tell you

01:03:28

this one, this one, 6 8 17 and 15 and that’s all for

01:03:33

today

01:03:39

because the dentist has a mortgage

01:03:42

on a car loan and wants to go on

01:03:45

vacation And they will give you teeth,

01:03:50

everything is so neglected

01:03:54

because he does not come there out of love

01:03:56

for people and to heal people, he comes there

01:04:03

upsets people,

01:04:07

you understand, we must see this in a

01:04:10

person, that he can do this

01:04:13

when we hire him, that he

01:04:17

wants to do this What he

01:04:19

came to this with passion With love and He will be glad

01:04:22

to every

01:04:24

Patient client guest visitor This is what

01:04:31

grades are needed for To

01:04:34

show that a person loves

01:04:37

change more Perhaps yes, but in general

01:04:40

it needs to be shown to

01:04:44

get oriented to

01:04:47

understand what is in him

01:04:50

and responds to mathematics there Yes what in

01:04:54

it sounds

01:04:55

in it, there are numbers, a melody of numbers or

01:04:58

something else,

01:05:00

he must understand it and give it his time,

01:05:05

that is, essentially the task of a

01:05:07

preschool teacher is to show

01:05:10

what the child likes to play, what he

01:05:13

spends time in for a long time. God should

01:05:16

be like an astrologer you understand how a medium,

01:05:18

as it were, should look at each child like

01:05:21

this, to understand his character, the

01:05:24

structure of his mind, how his mind is structured. But with

01:05:30

us, is anyone really interested in what kind of child is

01:05:31

built? No, the child should

01:05:35

tell you this tomorrow

01:05:38

and the whole point is that it

01:05:41

doesn’t matter what you’re like perceive How you

01:05:45

feel it is important only to learn these words

01:05:48

something is written the

01:05:59

child is not important only what the

01:06:01

teacher gives here He gives it as if it is

01:06:07

interesting for the child whether he can

01:06:10

cope with it this is overlooked,

01:06:13

that is, in essence, we also lack dialogue

01:06:15

there is a dialogue with you for this,

01:06:18

otherwise the Lecturer would come here and

01:06:20

give a lecture and that’s it and leave We have

01:06:25

a dialogue You correct me, guide me

01:06:28

what you need is important when

01:06:37

the microphone works, it doesn’t work now,

01:06:40

don’t press the buttons, talk

01:06:50

at the same time, get busy if you

01:06:53

acquire a state of neutrality

01:06:58

no way

01:07:06

Where did you say that

01:07:09

if you achieve something, then you need to

01:07:12

burn with exactly this? Yes,

01:07:15

burn in the literal sense of the word,

01:07:24

but it was said in the literal

01:07:28

Well, okay, burn

01:07:31

like that, burn with

01:07:33

passion with passion, and at the same time,

01:07:37

when a

01:07:39

state of neutrality occurs, then

01:07:42

you have such a thing, yes Why

01:07:45

everything makes you happy and everything is so good and you

01:07:49

essentially don’t move. You just kind of

01:07:52

freeze in this state because

01:07:53

you feel very good in it. You get

01:07:56

pleasure from just the fact that you

01:07:57

woke up there, drank tea, consciously

01:08:00

walked to work on foot, went in for

01:08:04

sports, worked out.

01:08:07

and everything and everything is good everything turns out well

01:08:10

some kind of state like a swamp

01:08:14

to indulge in

01:08:16

or the lake is beautiful

01:08:19

the lake is very important

01:08:25

Because when you know in the summer

01:08:28

you come to the lake

01:08:30

Mirror clean beautiful calm you

01:08:33

dive into it it’s transparent you swim and

01:08:36

enjoy and the swamp is also

01:08:42

like It seems

01:08:43

only there it’s better not to dive there

01:08:50

it looks like water a swamp just under a

01:08:53

thin layer of water further on the

01:08:56

mud mass is

01:09:00

very dangerous

01:09:03

so

01:09:09

if it’s clean water

01:09:13

That’s already good

01:09:18

what’s your problem Not cognitive

01:09:22

dissonance What’s your problem

01:09:28

This is a question yes that is, you’re asking This is

01:09:32

why because that you don’t seem to

01:09:34

agree with one another, as if I

01:09:37

should from passion, but I feel good as it is,

01:09:40

as if this one thing doesn’t agree here, do

01:09:44

I burn with passion or do I want it so

01:09:47

well, I

01:09:54

just want it, just like you’re a

01:09:59

woman, you don’t you may not want it And

01:10:02

when you say you just want it, it’s

01:10:05

always not easy

01:10:09

So let’s think again how

01:10:12

simple it is what you want is not just

01:10:16

not easy

01:10:18

This

01:10:21

is the World of Women Let’s talk

01:10:25

in general

01:10:30

there is

01:10:32

life life now but I mean you

01:10:35

understand what’s acquaintance so to speak, it

01:10:40

was before So I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll

01:10:44

have to move here, I’ll move here, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this, I’ll do this.

01:10:58

this is this That is, this is a

01:11:01

desire In my opinion, this doesn’t look like a

01:11:04

desire

01:11:05

you just said before you are doing sports you

01:11:08

woke up drinking tea everything

01:11:11

is fine and before that it was This is what you did this this is

01:11:14

this

01:11:16

That is, you even say this

01:11:19

unconsciously you show that is

01:11:22

What they are desires desire

01:11:25

this attempt to escape as if you think,

01:11:28

well, as if you are just trying to make sure that

01:11:31

everything is fine for you What is

01:11:34

desire Why do we want to eat

01:11:37

when we want to eat we want to eat

01:11:41

No we don’t want to eat we don’t want to eat

01:11:46

We want not to want to eat

01:11:49

ours the desire to eat is to stop wanting to

01:11:52

eat

01:11:54

If you are healthy It’s

01:11:56

clear or not

01:12:00

even our desire for sex is to come to a

01:12:03

reluctance to have sex It’s

01:12:06

clear or not to the moment when you feel

01:12:09

great when you’re awesome So after all,

01:12:14

when you want to eat you want to

01:12:17

dissolve in this pleasure of the moment

01:12:20

but you’re hungry And that’s why you think

01:12:22

only about food and you are trying to eat it, you

01:12:28

understand what I’m talking about,

01:12:30

and that’s why our tossing, our desires,

01:12:34

our attempts to achieve something significant in life,

01:12:37

significant or just at

01:12:41

least something,

01:12:44

but to be

01:12:50

there, I’ll figure it out,

01:12:53

this is an

01:12:56

attempt to do so that the anxiety

01:12:59

disappears, so that the tension disappears, that everything

01:13:01

was fine, because now everything is fine with you

01:13:07

without any realizations, that is, not

01:13:11

some desires were fulfilled, but

01:13:13

you just suddenly felt fine, so

01:13:17

there is a need to achieve everything, to

01:13:20

achieve everything as you said there is

01:13:22

a need there is no it

01:13:26

will happen anyway it is

01:13:29

a need there is no so

01:13:32

now Well, let me be like with a child

01:13:34

because Well, now explain further

01:13:39

how your question was generated,

01:13:43

your first question that you asked What is the

01:13:46

reason, where did it come from,

01:13:52

don’t expect an answer from me you'll always be

01:13:55

disappointed because I'll answer

01:13:58

something else You're not

01:14:01

expecting this, that I'll answer like Olivia Just like

01:14:04

you, you've already answered for me in advance

01:14:09

approximately Well, let's just say Thank you

01:14:13

arthurka

01:14:15

no Actually no because I already I’ve been

01:14:18

watching your lectures for quite a long time. I

01:14:20

know how it can be and everything is expected.

01:14:26

I just see this world completely differently and

01:14:30

therefore what you expect does not lie

01:14:33

in the area where you are going to

01:14:36

go,

01:14:39

so I start asking questions.

01:14:44

Well, it’s as if you’ve been living in the world since childhood

01:14:47

Moscow and you walk around it, you all know it and a

01:14:50

man arrives and heads to Khimki and

01:14:53

says I want to see the Kremlin,

01:14:57

you say that you want to see,

01:15:00

say again

01:15:04

Shatura furniture

01:15:08

or the Kremlin is a

01:15:15

dead end No no, I’m just, I’m just

01:15:18

suggesting you make up your mind, this is the

01:15:21

hardest thing for a woman to do,

01:15:26

try understand What is the origin of your question, you

01:15:33

probably still want

01:15:35

to self-realize self-realization

01:15:41

you will decipher that this is completeness

01:15:49

Right now right now while you

01:15:51

are looking at me with the microphone in your hand or in

01:15:54

general do

01:15:56

you think there will be such a moment

01:15:58

when something is completed

01:16:08

good

01:16:10

good

01:16:13

very good

01:16:17

I I’ll now give you a

01:16:20

figurative example

01:16:23

and you will say so or not,

01:16:26

let’s assume you really wanted a dress.

01:16:31

You really wanted to be happy like all

01:16:33

people, so that everything would be good.

01:16:35

I was so aware of this and no, but I really wanted to.

01:16:39

You really wanted to buy a dress. You bought a

01:16:41

dress

01:16:44

and now it’s hanging in yours. closet

01:16:48

and you kind of achieved that you

01:16:51

wanted the dress,

01:16:53

but the dress hasn’t been sold yet, that

01:16:57

is, it’s as if it’s really there, you tried it on,

01:17:01

but you haven’t gone anywhere in it yet, so

01:17:06

this is about your question now,

01:17:10

where are

01:17:13

people?

01:17:20

No, I’m talking about happiness has come to you

01:17:23

now Comfort of your life when

01:17:27

everything is fine with you

01:17:32

and now with this It’s good you

01:17:35

want to do something That is, when you have no

01:17:38

problems there is no feeling of problems Now you

01:17:40

want to take advantage of it somehow Do

01:17:43

you understand me or not I understand

01:17:47

this way or not, I never treat the

01:17:52

problem there are a lot of them, but

01:17:56

if before, for example, I could be

01:17:59

very stressed about this,

01:18:02

now I take it for

01:18:04

granted, we understood it at the very beginning,

01:18:08

we realized that not all of your problems

01:18:11

are solved simply They stopped being

01:18:13

problems for you You became clear at the very beginning

01:18:15

I have no idea that there

01:18:18

is a person in the room or

01:18:20

will ever exist on the planet who has

01:18:22

no problems I have, it’s

01:18:25

just not a problem for me I

01:18:28

never feel that way about

01:18:38

what is accepted call it problems, it is

01:18:40

there,

01:18:47

it won’t disappear anywhere because it

01:18:49

must be

01:18:55

life becomes Well, it’s as if life is becoming

01:18:57

smooth, if there are no

01:19:01

goals, if there are no plans for life, then most

01:19:05

likely the problems with everything will disappear But this is

01:19:08

the kind of life that’s already more than a pensioner,

01:19:13

and if you have a lot of plans, if your

01:19:15

life is connected with many people by common

01:19:19

plans, then there are difficulties

01:19:22

and I

01:19:25

’ll explain this normally. That is, if I play the ball alone,

01:19:28

I kick it against the wall Yes, into the wall,

01:19:31

then there are no problems, there are no difficulties, but

01:19:35

if ten of us play with this sword together,

01:19:37

then problems will arise,

01:19:44

we run around across the field we kick

01:19:47

it turns out

01:19:50

for the person

01:19:54

you haven’t said yet What is your difficulty it’s

01:19:56

as if the feeling of tension has disappeared your feeling of

01:19:58

tension has disappeared further that

01:20:02

you don’t have enough

01:20:05

Few things you want I

01:20:09

want development further development

01:20:13

for example

01:20:17

I really liked it in terms of the profession I

01:20:21

don’t know I don’t have any questions

01:20:25

Just clarifies

01:20:26

I really liked it You’re just telling

01:20:30

me I want something I’m asking what

01:20:32

you want to

01:20:40

assert

01:20:41

yourself assert yourself

01:20:43

express yourself as I say you want to

01:20:46

pay your people to go out and take a walk

01:20:50

I’m telling you about it That is, it was

01:20:53

bought Yes, but no one knows about it yet

01:20:56

no one doesn’t know that you have such a beautiful

01:20:58

dress, you need to go out, you need to go out and

01:21:00

take a walk,

01:21:06

enjoy your happiness in action, the

01:21:09

happiness of owning a dress

01:21:11

is good, but demonstrating it is even

01:21:16

better,

01:21:20

but more probably here comes the desire not

01:21:23

to demonstrate, but

01:21:26

to be useful and necessary. That is, for example,

01:21:29

working not for money, but for the sake of

01:21:33

pleasure and

01:21:35

some benefit bringing

01:21:38

results

01:21:40

is wonderful This is the next stage

01:21:44

at which you will definitely lose

01:21:46

peace and stop being just everything is

01:21:49

fine It was

01:21:51

it already happened to me and when

01:21:57

before I knew you yes And before that

01:22:01

what

01:22:03

was happiness was everything good No, that’s

01:22:06

exactly what it wasn’t

01:22:09

That is, how you moved in life, you’re

01:22:12

still looking for yourself, trying to find something from

01:22:15

birth, in fact,

01:22:17

you had a little fun, then they loaded you up and you

01:22:20

begin to sort of understand the severity of

01:22:24

life, the severity of

01:22:26

la found a

01:22:29

fitness trainer, a fitness trainer, you

01:22:32

fitness trainer and everything is fine just for

01:22:34

fun In general, I like

01:22:38

more group classes, more training for

01:22:39

free, paid Why is it paid because

01:22:44

it was me, work, work, yes, that is,

01:22:48

in general, you are

01:22:49

the reason that you conducted training for

01:22:52

money,

01:22:55

you didn’t conduct group classes on the street there was this in the park

01:23:00

and then we moved on to the gym anyway,

01:23:13

then the move came,

01:23:18

moving

01:23:20

here. What’s wrong with

01:23:24

fitness trainers

01:23:27

[music] the

01:23:32

attitude itself has changed, if before

01:23:35

you wanted to achieve

01:23:40

such a state when it’s so good

01:23:45

I don’t think that the coaching profession is a

01:23:48

development achieve Well, it’s like you

01:23:53

’ll have your whole day planned out,

01:23:55

so I started to get disappointed, so I

01:23:58

started to move away from it Because disappointment set in

01:24:00

and in terms of payment in terms of

01:24:04

time,

01:24:06

you’ll never become a millionaire as a

01:24:09

coach, that’s 150 thousand a month or 200

01:24:12

thousand a month, that’s the bar above which you can’t

01:24:14

jump, you still have to try And you have to

01:24:17

try, but you have to try Yes, well, I’m

01:24:19

saying that’s the limit, you’ll work

01:24:21

18 hours and you’ll have this

01:24:24

amount per month and that’s it, but you

01:24:26

’ll live entirely in the gym,

01:24:30

you’ll give your all, and there is no personal growth,

01:24:36

that is, everything is worth it,

01:24:40

I’m kidding, it’s just real work, there’s

01:24:49

just no opportunity. For example, if

01:24:51

you do something of your own, you understand that

01:24:54

you don’t have the opportunity.

01:24:56

What does it mean to do something of your own besides

01:24:58

this? And it’s not yours to train people

01:25:02

I have I mean, it’s a personal matter to open, but in

01:25:04

terms of, for example, renting a hall there, in

01:25:08

this regard, here, that is, I understand that I did

01:25:11

n’t pull it off in terms of finances, and

01:25:14

accordingly, it’s like here, too,

01:25:15

it turns out to be a dead end, no one can pull off their own hall, there

01:25:21

must be some good reasons for a

01:25:29

full-fledged namely, in terms of

01:25:32

group classes, there is such a thing in Moscow,

01:25:36

such a thing is practiced so much, as if

01:25:39

it’s all the same

01:25:43

Everything has a limit,

01:25:47

this is exactly what we were

01:25:49

talking about when we talked about children,

01:25:54

growth, growth, growth, growth, and there is no

01:25:58

pleasure Because when you you do it

01:26:00

for pleasure Growth is secondary, it is, it’s

01:26:04

not important to you, you get high from

01:26:06

doing it and you don’t expect

01:26:09

growth from yourself

01:26:11

Yes, if it’s there, it’s great

01:26:18

You have children,

01:26:21

you raise them,

01:26:23

of course 19

01:26:25

you pull their ears to the sky No, I’m not for him I give

01:26:29

you complete freedom to choose your plants,

01:26:32

so they grow every day, so by

01:26:35

microns Yes, as if every month, by

01:26:38

millimeter, they grew, grew, grew, You did

01:26:41

n’t pull them by the ears No, you strived for

01:26:44

their growth, no, they just grow on their own,

01:26:48

what did you do? you lived with them

01:26:52

when they wanted to eat and gave them food

01:26:54

when they wanted to have fun from you. You

01:26:57

tried to entertain them, you

01:27:03

helped

01:27:05

raise them, but you didn’t try. No

01:27:08

one tried. There’s no point in it. Even if you

01:27:12

try to raise them, they will grow

01:27:15

exactly as intended by nature,

01:27:23

you need to understand yourself

01:27:26

Sometimes you do something

01:27:30

without balance, you just want from it

01:27:33

only growth, growth of money or growth of a

01:27:36

career or some other growth, that is,

01:27:39

only development,

01:27:42

only quantity,

01:27:46

there is a Second dimension

01:27:49

and this is meaningfulness, this is depth, this is

01:27:53

what we live and do for love

01:27:56

is a relationship is friendship and in the gym there are a

01:27:59

lot of momentary relationships for

01:28:03

a minute to communicate two or three words to say

01:28:06

support smile to encourage someone to

01:28:11

praise someone the

01:28:13

gym is riddled with these opportunities

01:28:16

even we When we work out among ourselves or

01:28:19

there but I don’t work out now just but

01:28:21

when you work out in the gym you

01:28:27

support your friends Yes When you see that

01:28:30

he is doing great Everything is going or growth And you

01:28:32

record it, it’s like you still see

01:28:34

when everyone constantly goes to the same gym you

01:28:37

see how a person is developing you

01:28:39

congratulate

01:28:41

You like that he is growing

01:28:43

real development

01:28:46

this is all this is life, you understand, you

01:28:49

brought pleasure along with

01:28:51

empathy together to rejoice at the

01:28:52

achievements for which people come

01:28:55

here together to be in it all, that’s the

01:28:58

point

01:29:00

and come to the gym Like home being a

01:29:02

trainer there or being a

01:29:05

client of this gym doesn’t

01:29:07

matter Everyone should come like

01:29:10

home

01:29:11

and the cleaner and the girls there or whoever is there at the

01:29:16

reception, everyone should come

01:29:20

as if they were coming to their own home,

01:29:22

it should be like home, desired

01:29:25

because everyone gets what they wanted to

01:29:28

get, that’s what the task is

01:29:31

to get what you wanted in life

01:29:34

to show your abilities as much as possible, you

01:29:38

understand what am I talking about for this, not

01:29:40

only the gym serves everything, work, family,

01:29:45

we form a family. And why,

01:29:49

to record that now there are two of us

01:29:52

and then three,

01:29:58

or because you can’t live without

01:30:01

this person,

01:30:03

you can’t live so much that you want

01:30:06

more of this person and he becomes

01:30:09

more, another person appears, a

01:30:12

continuation of the one you love,

01:30:17

if it comes from love, then family is

01:30:20

Heaven,

01:30:26

but work is also a

01:30:34

question Why do you want something, you

01:30:37

need to sit with it, be with it, you know how to sit with it,

01:30:40

take it and sit,

01:30:44

why do you want it, what do you want

01:30:46

I want it in reality

01:30:49

good thank you

01:30:51

Maybe you want to have fun

01:30:55

or you You want to get something you want achievement

01:30:58

recognition you need to look honestly and

01:31:01

admit it to yourself Because if you

01:31:04

want recognition but don’t admit it to yourself it

01:31:06

will be difficult for you

01:31:09

But if you realize

01:31:14

what you need or what for you,

01:31:16

naturally, your energy will flow

01:31:20

in this direction, you understand in this direction, you

01:31:23

will be completely blissed out by your

01:31:25

goodness, this life of yours is good, you

01:31:29

will begin to flow to where your time will be,

01:31:33

it will disappear, your sense of time will disappear,

01:31:38

this should happen at work,

01:31:49

I understand

01:31:52

you need to love her but you

01:31:55

can’t force yourself to love You need to understand if there is a chance

01:32:00

to understand, if there is no chance to understand, then

01:32:02

you get a job and work And there you will find

01:32:05

yourself

01:32:22

[music]

01:32:24

I disappointed you, the answer is yes No, on the contrary,

01:32:30

I made it for sure The conclusion is that I don’t want to live

01:32:33

like a pensioner, so

01:32:36

[applause]

01:32:41

Don’t dive nowhere

01:32:43

Live well in this,

01:32:47

the energy that you have in you

01:32:49

must mature and understand what it is ready to

01:32:52

express itself in. If you start early, you

01:32:55

will spend it all,

01:32:59

you know, like people who want to deal with

01:33:01

stocks because they have 100 thousand

01:33:03

rubles in their account,

01:33:06

this is early

01:33:08

early with If you go into securities with 100 thousand,

01:33:15

you won’t feel anything even in 10

01:33:17

years,

01:33:20

when you earn 100 million

01:33:22

rubles. Then go into securities.

01:33:33

Therefore, for now you don’t have a certain

01:33:36

feeling that you are bursting with the fact that

01:33:40

you know and can do it

01:33:43

better before that time don’t start, this is

01:33:46

my advice, you don’t have to listen, but I

01:33:49

wouldn’t leave this Quiet Harbor until the

01:33:51

ship is ready

01:33:55

Well, it doesn’t work here.

01:33:57

Act No,

01:34:00

you will act, you’ll just

01:34:03

lose everything that you have now, what little you

01:34:05

have, you’ll just lose you need to accumulate

01:34:08

this peace, this beauty and feel

01:34:12

that moment when you want to

01:34:14

do something Learn to recognize a real

01:34:17

desire, like I want to cook

01:34:19

potatoes now, for example, you go and

01:34:21

cook You need to learn

01:34:24

to feel and then you sit and eat and

01:34:26

understand, damn, I don’t want to eat, which

01:34:29

means

01:34:31

this kind of feeling is

01:34:36

not real

01:34:39

It’s clear

01:34:40

it wasn’t there it wasn’t real, it wasn’t

01:34:44

a desire, it was just out of boredom. You

01:34:47

came up with the idea that I’ll fry some potatoes, of course. And

01:34:51

you will learn to recognize what is

01:34:53

born in you just out of boredom,

01:34:56

and what is real, you understand or not because

01:34:59

it’s real during the implementation. That

01:35:03

is, if you really wanted

01:35:04

potatoes, you will receive the pleasure of

01:35:07

cooking and then when you eat it

01:35:09

will be very cool

01:35:12

You will be very cool and then it will be

01:35:15

great

01:35:19

I’ve even lived through this state

01:35:21

of cool, you know,

01:35:26

so you need to learn

01:35:27

to recognize

01:35:30

being a coach, of course it’s cool,

01:35:34

but it’s great I would, well, it’s very

01:35:39

cool because you have

01:35:41

the opportunity to support people

01:35:46

Yes, only I’m teaching children now What’s the

01:35:50

difference, these are not people No, these are people you

01:35:56

need to be yourself Have you watched such a film

01:36:00

was with Schwarzenegger Gemini

01:36:08

a long time ago

01:36:11

but there are films of the fifties I still

01:36:14

watch them or 60

01:36:20

just in this film

01:36:24

when Schwarzenegger was looking for

01:36:28

Danny devita

01:36:30

of his brother, he came to the Internet where

01:36:34

he lived and says and

01:36:39

here my brother slept Yes, that’s what he says Yes,

01:36:43

how do you know he says, but I would also

01:36:46

choose this place because there is a

01:36:48

fire extinguisher and In case of a fire, you can

01:36:52

turn on the alarm and put out everyone there and

01:36:56

bring everyone out to save She says there

01:36:59

was a fire here only Once it was started by your

01:37:01

brother

01:37:07

he was created to save people he was created

01:37:10

to take care of people he

01:37:14

talks about it with delight and he lived like that in this

01:37:17

film he was himself That’s why he was happy

01:37:24

so you need to understand what you are for

01:37:27

you look with delight what you admire

01:37:30

what touches you what touches you you

01:37:33

need to look Get to know yourself and then you

01:37:37

will find yourself in your place life will

01:37:40

definitely move you to your place

01:37:42

if you don’t understand yourself if you don’t

01:37:45

notice such thinking in yourself in

01:37:48

some situation then you won’t understand where

01:37:51

your place is,

01:37:53

probably in this there are difficulties for many to

01:37:57

see,

01:37:58

learn, I watch while you feel good, this is

01:38:02

the time of observation, then in order to

01:38:04

turn good into excellent, you need to stomp around in

01:38:08

this good, you

01:38:12

can’t immediately, as if well, there you sat down there with a

01:38:16

hundred times, you can’t immediately

01:38:18

Come on 120

01:38:21

let's stomp until this weight is then

01:38:24

moved on to the next

01:38:26

You've just reached a

01:38:28

good stage in your life,

01:38:35

I congratulate you right from the first seconds It

01:38:38

was very pleasant to listen to you, don't

01:38:41

rush to get used to it,

01:38:44

but tell me yes

01:38:47

Hi Arthur, hi,

01:38:51

excellent sentence written there Now

01:38:53

already in the chat

01:38:56

Let's move on

01:39:00

The question is

01:39:03

my life, my feelings about life

01:39:06

have changed a lot over the past year, for the better better better of

01:39:10

course better

01:39:14

remains somewhere she is some small part of the

01:39:17

old clues

01:39:19

that

01:39:21

in Well, sometimes some life situation

01:39:25

can make me for some- then for a short time it will

01:39:27

unsettle you.

01:39:29

Well, maybe for an hour, maybe two,

01:39:34

and there is a desire, as if I were

01:39:39

standing on a diving board in front of the pool and I

01:39:41

just need to jump into this abyss of life

01:39:43

to the end so as not to cling with this

01:39:45

foot,

01:39:48

just get to the end although, of

01:39:53

course, I can’t explain this to myself logically,

01:39:56

I also understand to myself that

01:40:01

I go through life all the time through

01:40:04

understanding. That is, if

01:40:07

Well, that is, I can find out what What is the

01:40:10

abyss of life

01:40:12

in a good sense, let go of

01:40:15

old attitudes and

01:40:19

follow it

01:40:22

like this let's say to the inner voice to your

01:40:25

dream, you can say not quite

01:40:28

probably correctly

01:40:30

and live like this, fully revealed.

01:40:34

Here's how to jump from a springboard into a

01:40:37

pool, but something else like that, just a little bit,

01:40:40

still clinging to your foot. Maybe it's not necessary, but

01:40:45

I'm doing the action,

01:40:47

or maybe you know, you hang on such a carpet

01:40:50

in the Soviet film,

01:40:56

let go until the end, when I

01:41:00

watched this film, I tried to understand what it would be

01:41:02

better for him to do, let go of the carpet, but then

01:41:05

he could fall onto the

01:41:07

springboard, three meters below, it

01:41:10

was unclear, or he could flop down on his back in the

01:41:13

water if he let go if only the

01:41:18

old life no longer exists, that is,

01:41:21

this old life, these old ones,

01:41:24

what was before this is no longer there, well, physically

01:41:26

in every sense. Therefore, the

01:41:31

question is that there

01:41:33

is a piece

01:41:39

from which now,

01:41:40

well, so that it doesn’t cause

01:41:43

any problems, you know old

01:41:46

reactions that will lead me

01:41:48

astray sometimes

01:42:13

we move on

01:42:15

to the next action from the past We

01:42:19

move through the present,

01:42:23

that is, we pass this center

01:42:25

without fail and you need to move towards the

01:42:27

center

01:42:32

you need to move to the center at the

01:42:35

present moment,

01:42:44

that is, from Step into the past it gives us it helps to

01:42:48

group, that is, sometimes I

01:42:53

do this even now, I

01:42:55

go into some situation, that is, for an

01:42:59

hour or two there for a day, I take a step

01:43:03

somewhere, I watch some movie from

01:43:05

the past, for example, I

01:43:10

just sit and watch a movie with

01:43:13

Schwarzenegger, the twins,

01:43:29

you have nothing to understand in the past

01:43:32

it is good or bad you have nothing to

01:43:34

understand

01:43:36

the past We only need it for support in

01:43:39

order to take energy from there and

01:43:42

move forward there is no need to look

01:43:46

don’t think in the past everything was good I

01:43:49

was better or everything was better or don’t

01:43:52

think bad or good don’t think at all

01:43:55

about the past I don’t feel any

01:43:58

energy from there at all in the past I

01:44:00

just need to take some knowledge that is

01:44:02

needed to do this thing

01:44:07

and everything

01:44:12

we did that I’m going into the unknown

01:44:15

That is, I’m doing something that I’ve never

01:44:18

done so it’s very good,

01:44:22

but the throne I feel that this is definitely the

01:44:25

right decision,

01:44:27

it’s not always well, it’s

01:44:31

like in a boxing game, you seem to be going

01:44:35

nowhere, but you feel in your gut that

01:44:38

you will succeed. You just don’t see that

01:44:40

charged blow that is already flying

01:44:43

at you from below.

01:44:45

You I had already thought of everything simply

01:44:48

and suddenly a hand came from somewhere very

01:44:51

quickly, so directly

01:44:53

you didn’t expect it Because you were already

01:44:56

just

01:44:58

twisting

01:45:00

but your hand didn’t even reach his face

01:45:03

Because you were already heading into the past

01:45:17

but it’s better to make this blow than not

01:45:19

making

01:45:20

this a controversial issue

01:45:27

Yes, look at how you look at an

01:45:30

athlete, let’s say if he’s a boxer,

01:45:32

for example, who moves all the time

01:45:34

only backwards all the time just retreats retreats retreats retreats retreats

01:45:38

retreats

01:45:39

the guy is just better Get out of there Get

01:45:42

out there there’s nothing to do right a

01:45:46

person who lives in the past

01:45:51

Whatever it didn’t seem good or

01:45:54

bad, it doesn’t matter the person who looks into

01:45:57

the past or clings to something there

01:46:00

for reliability. You understand in the past that you

01:46:03

like reliability because

01:46:05

the past has already allowed you to

01:46:08

live now, it’s complete, you weren’t

01:46:11

killed there in the past, that’s why it’s already good

01:46:13

It’s stable, you understand what you

01:46:17

like Well, in the past, even a

01:46:20

loser likes it, it’s gone because

01:46:23

everything was stable there Even if it sucks You

01:46:25

sat at your grandmother’s house all day long playing on the

01:46:28

computer and there was nothing else in your

01:46:30

life

01:46:31

but

01:46:33

how stable it was This

01:46:36

boring past was stable,

01:46:39

but if you start doing something now, leave your

01:46:43

grandmother,

01:46:45

what will happen there, maybe you’ll be like Kolobok,

01:46:48

some fox will eat you,

01:46:53

if you were raised by your grandparents, someone will

01:46:55

definitely eat you,

01:46:58

someone will definitely eat you, definitely

01:47:00

because you don’t have wrong

01:47:03

idea about life, all grandparents

01:47:05

give the wrong idea about

01:47:07

life and such granddaughters are eaten very

01:47:10

quickly by the

01:47:11

fox they come across first, which means it’s not a Bear

01:47:14

Not there, not someone immediately in the forest, right

01:47:18

as soon as he rolled out of the yard, the fox is right there.

01:47:30

Therefore, if you feel that something - then you

01:47:33

need to do it, just do it, if you

01:47:36

already feel that you are tired of it, try it,

01:47:38

it could be a mistake,

01:47:40

but it’s Friday and you can’t live in the past.

01:47:43

Therefore, if you feel that you want to

01:47:45

try, definitely try, we don’t have

01:47:48

much time for tests,

01:47:51

I need to think about

01:47:53

one thing When you already have worked on something

01:47:56

Well, for example, you built a building, it’s

01:47:58

beautiful Yes, it’s already a thing of the past, but suddenly

01:48:02

someone offers you to rebuild it and

01:48:05

you only think about building Why do you need to

01:48:09

rebuild

01:48:12

in this case, you need to think

01:48:16

But if the building has not been built yet, you

01:48:19

think about building it, don’t build it, I brought it already

01:48:21

bricks But I know to build not to build What

01:48:23

if the building turns out to be ugly What if

01:48:27

no one needs it no one will

01:48:29

come to live in it maybe it

01:48:34

happens

01:48:38

But if you believe in it if you

01:48:41

love it you live it you have to do it

01:48:45

Elon Musk bought it Twitter Why

01:48:49

would you rather buy a sweater from him

01:48:52

[music]

01:48:54

Well, really He wears ridiculous T-shirts,

01:48:58

they don’t suit him very well,

01:49:05

why did he buy Twitter

01:49:09

and

01:49:10

Perry, it’s

01:49:13

clear that well, it’s like some kind of business plan

01:49:16

But he’s taking risks Well, or the one

01:49:20

who investing in it risks this is a risk

01:49:22

Yes, you can do something else, but

01:49:25

probably could have worked on rockets there, something

01:49:28

else,

01:49:32

just as well, he could have done something else,

01:49:34

come up with something like Khrushchev. Maybe

01:49:38

grow corn there, build

01:49:40

combines, build them

01:49:42

on Mars,

01:49:47

he already has all the ideas something like this he

01:49:50

could start building a bridge to the moon, he decided

01:49:53

to buy Twitter,

01:49:58

but he took a risk and it’s great that he is

01:50:03

condemned for this, many most do not

01:50:06

accept his decision, but he did

01:50:09

it

01:50:10

and we wonder what he will do next,

01:50:13

what he will spend his next

01:50:17

money on, it’s interesting Well, as if in

01:50:20

general

01:50:22

We like it, it’s risky,

01:50:30

perhaps Excitement is just Excitement is

01:50:33

Impossible to stop, like adrenaline, you

01:50:42

have to

01:50:43

understand that you want to move in this,

01:50:47

allow yourself to be yourself, I would

01:50:50

say this because not everyone has to

01:50:53

buy Twitter, you can really just

01:50:56

learn to knit a sweater will

01:50:58

already be a step into the unknown,

01:51:08

learn to do your own thing that is close to you,

01:51:11

I talked to you about this,

01:51:13

no matter what your name is,

01:51:25

understand what you consider important

01:51:29

and invest in it the good energy that

01:51:32

you accumulate during meditation,

01:51:36

good relationships with people that you

01:51:39

accumulate during meditation,

01:51:41

good good goals and plans,

01:51:53

that’s about it

01:51:55

and there you need a lot of energy to know for any

01:51:59

big undertaking you need a lot, a lot of

01:52:01

energy

01:52:07

the more you do the more energy

01:52:11

you should be charged with a lot

01:52:25

Well, that is, you need it right here you

01:52:28

were breathing energy right so that you

01:52:31

were bursting with

01:53:28

a little bit hot in the hall.

01:53:42

Then I need to finish now so that they

01:53:44

come here and do the air conditioning

01:53:48

because

01:53:49

that’s how

01:53:51

we

01:53:53

will now have a dive

01:53:57

and then what and go

01:54:04

home

01:54:14

okay then go home here when

01:54:21

and the

01:54:23

third thing is we won’t get together probably

01:54:27

what

01:54:29

It seems to me that Now we will dive in,

01:54:31

dive in and everything is fine for the third

01:54:35

event We will all die here or the third

01:54:38

is immersed No, do you want something to

01:54:40

continue or something or is it that

01:54:43

simple,

01:54:44

this is serious work, but you can

01:54:47

vote, first of all, what do you want, but this is a

01:54:53

meeting do you want yes Are you sure

01:54:58

All or only Yes there but

01:55:04

not all

01:55:06

almost everything

01:55:10

and that

01:55:16

[music]

01:55:20

we need air conditioning to do it

01:55:22

now make air conditioning for

01:55:24

two hours to do

01:55:27

and he’s in a traffic jam

01:55:29

In two hours

01:55:32

Well then only tomorrow until the air conditioning

01:55:34

will be

01:55:37

good

01:55:55

yes What is the date today we have

01:55:59

Yeah yeah A few days later

01:56:02

it’s great

01:56:09

we haven’t packed our things for a

01:56:15

very long time

01:56:39

here two circumstances already come into play,

01:56:43

firstly

01:56:45

there must be a house for rent Well, as if I had

01:56:49

already paid for the rent But even if

01:56:52

somehow it would have worked out I couldn’t find it here Cancel

01:56:55

where to live for myself Well, that is, I didn’t look for the

01:56:57

guys, they

01:57:00

looked, they didn’t find any

01:57:07

apartments here they want to rent for a year

01:57:11

for 20-30 days there for a month Well, they’re not

01:57:15

interested,

01:57:18

we say Let’s get more expensive They say

01:57:20

no, we do

01:57:21

n’t want to want it permanently At least a year

01:57:30

or Live in apartments

01:57:39

But this is still specific, it’s like a

01:57:42

niche, a specific large

01:57:47

apartment,

01:57:54

but

01:57:57

for a year

01:58:01

I didn’t think about it,

01:58:17

if there’s something in Sochi, I

01:58:20

’ll stay in Russia to live, we’re waiting for

01:58:23

some good information to come from Sochi,

01:58:31

my body is something like that

01:58:35

I had a negative attitude towards the frosts

01:58:39

before, I generally loved it for the winter, but now

01:58:43

everything has turned around after Thailand, it’s just

01:58:45

capricious in

01:58:46

general, it’s

01:58:49

winter Well, how come there’s

01:58:52

no such thing here, everything is fine I

01:58:56

kind of wanted everything beautiful

01:59:00

no body

01:59:11

Moscow is my favorite city

01:59:18

and where are you from

01:59:20

Tyumen But then Moscow is my favorite city

01:59:27

I don’t like it,

01:59:31

but it’s

01:59:34

very beautiful,

01:59:41

it’s good.

01:59:44

We all have a different concept of

01:59:47

beauty,

01:59:53

all these concepts of beauty are invented. We

01:59:57

live in invented concepts of beauty.

01:59:59

We all have

02:00:03

invented something beautiful for ourselves,

02:00:59

so I base all my

02:01:03

work on the principle on which I told you, here’s what we have in

02:01:05

common. knowledge information we

02:01:09

are looking at

02:01:10

here now

02:01:14

there is a format when we dive

02:01:18

inside ourselves

02:01:20

this will now be in a few

02:01:23

minutes

02:01:25

These are the two formats that I said in

02:01:28

training should be Yes and in everything there should

02:01:31

be a right leg and a left leg and

02:01:34

we should participate in this we must

02:01:36

gain knowledge to reveal our boundaries of

02:01:41

looking at something, a judgment about something

02:01:45

and the second. We must learn deeper and

02:01:48

deeper, thanks to these boundaries being opened,

02:01:50

to feel the moment more deeply; it is

02:01:54

easier to free ourselves from limitations then

02:01:56

we feel more deeply, that’s the point.

02:02:08

But

02:02:11

look, you can child tell him where

02:02:14

the tea grows, how it is collected,

02:02:19

yes, can you tell him on the next one, for example, that

02:02:23

is, 15 minutes, you tell him the

02:02:25

next 15 minutes, you give different types of

02:02:29

tea, try to smell, touch,

02:02:32

see

02:02:33

everything that he learned, you tell him

02:02:36

this, we talked about these plantations

02:02:38

in the North the sides

02:02:40

grow here and there because here the moisture is the

02:02:44

most there I don’t know intensely Yes And that’s why

02:02:46

the leaf turns out like this and the

02:02:49

tea that you will drink in it will

02:02:51

contain such and such an

02:02:54

aroma or smell more Let’s

02:02:56

brew and then they brew tea,

02:02:59

try and see the difference, some of them

02:03:03

understand, this is usually done by specialists

02:03:05

who deal with tea, and so on.

02:03:09

But we drink tea throughout

02:03:12

our lives, shouldn’t we be

02:03:15

experts in it? You understand what’s bad about

02:03:17

people eating and buying tea?

02:03:20

knows nothing about it for most of his life

02:03:23

Unless he decides to delve deeper into it, I’m

02:03:26

not saying that this is bad,

02:03:28

but it’s kind of not good,

02:03:32

so devote a few minutes to

02:03:34

something like this in depth, the first part is

02:03:38

the theory, the second part is connecting with this

02:03:41

theory, the

02:03:43

practice of immersion in the subject is what is

02:03:46

needed

02:03:47

and this is how the program

02:03:51

and training should be built. And in general, life

02:03:55

now we have a

02:03:57

break and then there will be just practice

02:03:59

we will dive in how many minutes is

02:04:02

convenient for everyone minutes 15 break no more than

02:04:06

minutes 15 more is needed

02:04:09

15 okay don’t be angry that you are angry

02:04:20

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