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Christian parenting of children00:00:05
epigraphs00:00:07
all as and whose children God gave me00:00:15
Epistle to the Hebrews chapter 2 verse 1300:00:20
this is the inheritance from the Lord children are a reward from00:00:26
him the fruit of the womb psalm one hundred and twenty-00:00:31
six verse 3 the spiritual life of00:00:37
Christians in the world is in a difficult00:00:40
situation full of temptations and00:00:43
Christian customs00:00:44
far from the bearers of the spirit of God,00:00:47
secluded and from the world, the struggle is also difficult00:00:52
because a family Christian must00:00:55
spiritually fight not only for himself but also00:00:59
for his family, spouse and children, in00:01:05
relation to the latter he is00:01:08
responsible for whether he00:01:11
has done everything possible to guide them along the00:01:14
path to the kingdom of God, some may00:01:18
think that it is easier for two to follow the path to00:01:20
salvation, yes, but only if00:01:25
they are unanimous, then the00:01:30
extracts of the wise Solomon are only justified:00:01:32
two are better than one, but this does00:01:37
not always happen00:01:38
and in life quite often one can see00:01:41
cases00:01:42
about which the Lord speaks of enemies to a person,00:01:45
his family,00:01:48
if there is00:01:49
another feature of life in the world00:01:52
which for a Christian makes it more00:01:55
difficult than life in a monastery,00:01:57
and the latter is narrated by the rich00:02:01
patristic literature which, with00:02:03
Serbian completeness, describes the path of the00:02:05
monks; the spiritual experience of the laity reflected in the00:02:09
literature is00:02:10
much poorer, of course, the Holy00:02:15
Scriptures and, above all, The Gospel00:02:18
contains the fullness of the truth necessary00:02:21
for the salvation of the laity, but the true00:02:24
Gospels00:02:26
and their correct application to the practice of00:02:28
our lives00:02:30
are revealed to our spiritual eyes through00:02:33
tradition and00:02:35
their explanation by the holy fathers. Unfortunately, the applications of00:02:40
the Gospels and Sting, the resolution of questions00:02:42
about the spiritual education of children is covered00:02:46
relatively poorly in spiritual literature,00:02:50
such as should be the main goal00:02:53
of raising a child: some mothers pay00:02:57
the main attention to ensuring that their00:02:59
children eat well and00:03:01
grow up healthy; other parents00:03:04
try most of all to give their children a good00:03:07
education; others make special00:03:11
efforts to develop natural talents in children;00:03:14
they dream of seeing them as00:03:16
talented musicians; artists; scientists;00:03:19
Christian parents do not then the00:03:25
first main goal of education should be that00:03:29
first of all and most of all they should00:03:31
care that children grow up with an00:03:34
unshakable faith as living members of the church00:03:38
so that Christ is portrayed in their souls so that00:03:43
more than anything else in the world they love God and00:03:46
their neighbor as themselves00:03:50
and set the goal of their life acquisition of the00:03:53
Holy Spirit of God00:03:55
from the words of the Venerable Seraphim, if the00:03:59
parents achieve this, then everything00:04:01
else, education and development of00:04:04
talents and health, will all be added by00:04:08
itself, as the Lord said, seek00:04:11
first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and00:04:14
all this will be added to you, the Venerable Seraphim00:04:18
told one mother, mother do not00:04:22
rush to teach children this in French and00:04:24
German, but prepare their souls first,00:04:28
and the rest will come to them later, how00:04:33
to achieve this, how to prepare the souls of00:04:37
children, this goal should be approached through a00:04:42
systematic selection of material on00:04:44
this issue taken from those works from the00:04:47
Holy Scriptures church fathers,00:04:50
biographies of saints and devotees of00:04:51
piety and the experience of pious00:04:54
teachers and laity,00:04:56
when solving any problem, one should, as the00:05:00
sages say, look for an00:05:01
ideal solution; set yourself the00:05:05
ideal as high as possible and strive to00:05:09
achieve it, advises one of the philosophers, and00:05:12
even though such an ideal seemed very00:05:15
difficult to achieve in modern times00:05:17
conditions of life, nevertheless, one must00:05:19
strive for it to the best of one’s strength and actual00:05:22
capabilities. The most important thing for parents00:05:26
in the matter of spiritual education of children, one00:05:30
should also be afraid of that00:05:32
warmth and coldness00:05:33
that is not pleasing to the Lord, and although in this00:05:36
regard the instructions of the church fathers, the experience of00:05:39
pious laity will diverge from00:05:41
modern views00:05:43
Let us not reject these instructions and this00:05:47
experience Let us not repeat the words of those00:05:49
who never spoke while listening to Christ,00:05:52
what strange words who can00:05:55
listen to this? Let us remember the advice of the great apostle,00:05:59
who among you thinks to be wise in the 7th century is to00:06:05
be crazy, in order to be wise, the salvation of the00:06:10
souls of parents00:06:11
most of all depends on children00:06:16
will be saved through childbearing, says the apostle00:06:20
Paul in the first letter to Timothy, chapter 200:06:23
verse 15, there is a brief formulation of the path to00:06:28
salvation given with such Anthony the00:06:31
great, the life and00:06:35
death of00:06:36
our soul depends on our neighbor, but in the degree of service to our neighbors00:06:41
it has its own order and for parents00:06:45
it is obvious in the first place from00:06:48
children are their neighbors and care about their upbringing,00:06:53
in other words, parents have no00:06:56
higher task of how to raise their children so00:07:00
that they become true Christians and00:07:02
can00:07:03
devote their whole lives to the Lord and00:07:06
zealously serve him on the paths00:07:09
where he will put them.00:07:12
The Lord is looking for human souls on earth00:07:15
to the end devoted and faithful to him, and00:07:18
great grace will be poured out on00:07:21
those parents who are able to00:07:23
raise their children in this way.00:07:26
St. John Chrysostom says this about00:07:28
this: whoever is careless towards his children, at00:07:33
least in other respects and decent,00:07:35
will suffer extreme punishment for this sin, and00:07:39
then everything we should do be00:07:43
secondary in comparison with caring for00:07:45
children and in order to bring them up in the00:07:49
teaching and admonition of the Lord,00:07:53
Ephesians chapter 6 verse 4, Holy00:07:58
Scripture00:07:59
in many places speaks about the00:08:01
responsibility of parents for children, even in the00:08:04
Old Testament there are examples of00:08:07
parents being punished for the wickedness of children for this00:08:11
the priest was punished or00:08:13
about whom God says this to the prophet00:08:15
Samuel,00:08:16
I announced to him that I would punish his house00:08:19
forever for the guilt00:08:21
that he knew how his sons did not feel him00:08:25
and did not curb them first book of kingdoms00:08:29
chapter 3 verse 13, while it should be said00:08:34
that00:08:35
or did not neglect00:08:38
there is no raising of sons at all or he denounced them saying my children00:08:42
are not good the rumor that I hear you00:08:46
are returning the people of the Lord but obviously00:08:51
hell or I was required more than one00:08:54
short words from him it was required00:08:58
zeal to impose on us the punishment00:09:02
of curbing them00:09:04
as Saint John Chrysostom says about this00:09:07
because or he didn’t do everything that he lay,00:09:11
otherwise he restored God against himself and against his00:09:14
sons and, sparing himself and the children in a timely manner, he destroyed himself and the00:09:18
children00:09:19
along with the children and his own00:09:22
salvation, except for negligence towards the00:09:26
children, God had nothing to blame the00:09:30
old man for, he was a priest and an old woman00:09:33
of the famous 12 years blameless00:09:35
ruled over the Jewish people,00:09:38
but he died extremely miserably for00:09:41
not taking careful care of the children and the00:09:44
sin of his00:09:46
negligence, as if a harsh huge wave00:09:49
had overwhelmed everything and covered up all his exploits,00:09:52
what kind of punishment awaits us, who00:09:56
in virtue are inferior to him in many ways, and00:09:59
children are not only not we instruct, we00:10:03
act towards them more cruelly than any00:10:06
barbarian, this is not a movement towards the children of which00:10:12
we do not notice, but the mouth explains with these00:10:16
words when you see that some00:10:20
[ __ ] is overpricing your child, you are not a00:10:22
year old, you are angry, they are angry, they are00:10:24
not animals, you jump up to the face of the one who00:10:27
hit you, and when you see how the devil00:10:31
exalts the everyday, how demons00:10:34
lead him to vices, you sleep for a long time, you00:10:38
eat, you don’t get angry, you don’t take your son away00:10:42
from the most terrible beast in the writings of the00:10:47
new testament, the Apostle Paul sharply00:10:50
condemns negligence in caring for loved ones,00:10:53
but if anyone does not especially care for his family,00:10:57
he has renounced the faith and worse than an00:11:00
unfaithful00:11:02
first epistle to Timothy chapter 5 verse 800:11:07
judgment on suitability for the post of00:11:10
bishop the Apostle Paul puts one of the00:11:13
most important signs in relationships with00:11:17
family; the00:11:18
bishop must be a good steward of00:11:22
his children’s home, keeping his children in00:11:25
obedience with all honesty;00:11:28
according to the commandments of the Apostle Paul,00:11:32
material care also lies with the parents about children and00:11:35
spirituality he stands as a condition for ordination to the00:11:39
priesthood if anyone has00:11:44
faithful children; we do not reproach them for debauchery00:11:48
or disobedience. The first commandments for00:11:52
young wives of the Apostle Paul are to love their00:11:55
husbands, to love children, to be their guardian00:12:00
in the home, the conditions for saving a married00:12:04
woman, the00:12:05
Apostle Paul formulates this way, she will be saved00:12:09
through childbirth if it comes in faith and00:12:14
love and in holiness with chastity, also for00:12:19
widows who have children or grandchildren, the Apostle00:12:22
Paul orders first of all to engage in their00:12:25
upbringing [music]00:12:27
therefore it is obvious that by the commandment for a00:12:30
married woman to give birth to a child we must also00:12:34
understand the duty of a married woman to devote00:12:37
her entire life to upbringing these00:12:40
chat these children are sent from the Lord not00:12:45
as a burden or punishment but as a00:12:48
path blessed by the Lord married00:12:51
women as a reward and consolation of life00:12:56
this is an inheritance from the Lord children a reward from00:13:00
him the fruit of the womb00:13:01
but people psalms the prophet David if00:13:04
parents or mother are burdened by children or00:13:07
murmur against them they they are grievously sinning before00:13:10
the Lord, one widow00:13:13
had to go to the monk Seraphim and00:13:16
complained and grumbled00:13:18
about her share of the burden of raising three00:13:21
small children, a week after that,00:13:25
two children died in grief in grief again, she00:13:30
goes to the monk and to her horror00:13:33
hears that she herself was to blame for the death of the00:13:36
children [ __ ] you have offended your children a lot, the00:13:41
monk tells her00:13:44
and orders her to reconcile with them in her soul and00:13:48
repent of her great sins before God,00:13:54
if children are taken from their parents by death,00:13:57
let the parents ask their conscience00:14:01
if they insulted the children and did not00:14:05
anger God by being00:14:08
burdened by the children and grumbling they obviously00:14:11
or secretly did not want to devote00:14:14
their whole hearts to them as an excuse for neglecting00:14:18
their responsibilities towards children00:14:21
cannot serve for other parents00:14:24
and deeds, even such as leaving00:14:27
your honor,00:14:28
in this case the00:14:32
covenant of a savior who will leave children for the sake of00:14:36
my name cannot be applied will receive a hundredfold and00:14:38
inherit eternal life; leaving children is00:14:43
obviously00:14:44
possible only in the case when the children are00:14:47
adults or are in reliable00:14:50
care;00:14:51
leaving children to the mercy of fate00:14:54
without material support and00:14:56
inadequate upbringing00:14:58
cannot be pleasing to the Lord in the history of00:15:02
Old Athos, here is such a case there00:15:06
One Russian landowner arrived, a widower, but who00:15:10
also had full-year-old children.00:15:13
Under the influence of Athos, his soul caught fire00:15:18
and he asked for permission to leave the world, the fasts of00:15:21
which you have not blessed the elder of00:15:26
Athos, his jealousy, and pointed out to him00:15:29
his first duty in life, raising still00:15:33
underage children. and they sent her00:15:37
back to Russia,00:15:38
although there are sometimes exceptions to00:15:41
this general rule, the first capital of00:15:44
Diveyevo and the blessed Pelagia bathtub00:15:47
begin to deform left her00:15:49
husband’s family and the spirit of her young children, but she00:15:53
did this with the blessing of the00:15:55
Venerable Seraphim and such cases00:15:58
are very rare exceptions to the00:16:01
general the rules are carried out according to the special00:16:04
providence of God and for the blessings of the00:16:07
spirit-bearing elders00:16:13
there is the same dependence between parents and children as between00:16:16
spiritual fathers and their spiritual children, and the00:16:21
Apostle Paul says this about this dependence,00:16:24
for who is00:16:27
our hope or joy or crown00:16:31
of praise not00:16:33
you or before our Lord Jesus00:16:36
Christ at his coming at the Last00:16:41
Judgment for parents will not have the opportunity00:16:44
to appear before the Lord alone, and as00:16:48
Cain heard the question where is your brother,00:16:52
so they will be asked where the children are, your00:16:57
happiness and their salvation lies in if,00:17:00
having appeared before the Lord, they could00:17:02
speak calmly and for themselves and for the children of00:17:04
all you and the children whose children you gave to me00:17:10
[music] the00:17:12
influence of the behavior of children on the afterlife00:17:15
fate of their parents00:17:17
is evidenced by the following stories of00:17:20
one priest, the son of pious00:17:24
parents,00:17:25
having entered a closed educational institution under the00:17:28
influence of fellow atheists, lost00:17:32
faith,00:17:33
having left the institution, he began to lead a00:17:35
dissolute life after the death of his parents he00:17:38
went to his homeland and went to visit the graves of his00:17:41
parents, but when approaching them he00:17:45
lost consciousness twice; on the third00:17:49
attempt to approach the graves, he was struck by00:17:52
paralysis,00:17:53
but he did not understand God’s providence over him,00:17:56
then lying in paralysis, he forgets and00:17:59
sees his late mother who tells00:18:03
him your iniquities and your dissolute00:18:08
life, complete unbelief and godlessness00:18:12
reached the Lord, you not only destroyed00:18:16
yourself, but even stained us with this black spot00:18:21
on my clothes, your grave sins,00:18:25
the Lord wanted to strike you,00:18:28
but your father and I prayed before the00:18:31
throne of the Most High to you and he wanted to00:18:35
turn you to He knew to himself that00:18:40
our only grave was dear to you here, and that’s why00:18:43
he didn’t allow you to go to it,00:18:47
striking you with a supernatural disease so that00:18:51
you would recognize a higher power over yourself, we00:18:55
reject you,00:18:57
but you didn’t turn, so the Lord00:19:01
sent me to you, this is the last00:19:04
resort for your correction and as00:19:07
proof of the truth of her appearance,00:19:10
the mother left him his cross, which he had thrown away00:19:15
earlier through the appearance of his mother, the son was00:19:19
saved, recovered, and physically and spiritually from00:19:24
the story it is clear that this was worth the intense00:19:27
afterlife prayers of the parents, despite00:19:30
their faith and piety,00:19:31
their clothes were stained with the sins of their son,00:19:37
however, the parents One should also warn00:19:40
against the deep embarrassment of despair of an00:19:43
unrighteous life and adult children,00:19:47
Elder Ambrose of Optina writes about this as Elder Ambrose of Optina writes about00:19:49
one mother grieving her son’s unbelief,00:19:52
you realize that in many ways you are to blame for00:19:56
not knowing how to raise your son as one should,00:19:59
self-reproach is useful, but realizing00:20:03
one’s guilt one00:20:04
must humble oneself and repent and don’t00:20:08
be embarrassed and despair, and you shouldn’t be00:20:12
very worried about the thought that you00:20:15
alone are the reason for00:20:18
your son’s current situation, this is not entirely00:20:20
true,00:20:21
every person is gifted with free will and is00:20:25
more for himself and will have to00:20:28
answer before God if the wickedness of children00:20:34
is the greatest misfortune for00:20:37
parents both in this life and in the00:20:39
future, on the contrary, their piety is00:20:43
happiness in this and a guarantee of salvation for00:20:46
them in the future life. One example of00:20:50
this is the ardent love that00:20:53
Abbess Arsenia had for her father,00:20:56
let the Medvedev monastery00:20:58
undergo piety, as00:21:00
Matov writes to Arsenia in in one letter about my00:21:03
relationship with my father,00:21:05
you know how I loved my father, that00:21:10
is, my own father, I loved him more than00:21:13
anyone and everything in the world, I prayed for him00:21:18
1 when I went to venerate the00:21:21
miraculous icons and relics, when at home I00:21:24
approached the image to pray to them,00:21:26
I called on help him from all the saints to the00:21:29
icons of whom I prayed when I finished00:21:32
reading the gospel psalter and akathist I00:21:35
prayed first for him let us emphasize once again00:21:40
that those who are00:21:42
getting married must remember the main task of a00:21:48
Christian marriage is to have children, not00:21:53
only to have children, but certainly00:21:56
to raise them as true Christians00:22:00
whose purpose in life is it would be to deny oneself and00:22:03
serve the Lord with all your heart with00:22:06
ardent love for him; this is their main00:22:09
business; their main work is the construction of which the00:22:14
Apostle Paul says: everyone, see00:22:18
how he builds;00:22:31
that which he00:22:34
built will stand, he will receive a reward, and00:22:38
whose work is burned,00:22:40
he will suffer damage, however, he himself will be saved,00:22:44
but since, as if from fire,00:22:46
grief if the parents’ children burn in00:22:50
atheism or vices and in mortal sins00:22:53
without repentance, not much will be asked of the mother at the00:22:58
future trial,00:23:00
unless she00:23:04
bore the cross of childbearing and00:23:07
raising children with love and selflessness; the00:23:09
nun in charge of the orphanage00:23:13
complained to Elder Ambrose about the teens00:23:16
that the tanks and midges did not leave time00:23:19
to open the spiritual book; he00:23:22
reassured her and said that it was00:23:27
caring for the tanks and midges that would save00:23:32
her soul and court she eggs not alone but00:23:37
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This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.
What's the price of all this stuff?
It costs nothing. Our services are absolutely free for all users. There are no PRO subscriptions, no restrictions on the number or maximum length of downloaded videos.