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hello everyone and welcome to another
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episode of scam fish presented by
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socialcatfish.com on this episode we
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speak to a woman named nancy who was
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contacted by a man named chris adams on
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facebook nancy was taking care of her
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boyfriend who had cancer when one day
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she received a facebook message and
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friend request from a man named chris
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adams the two built a bond and were in
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an online relationship for about five
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months nancy reached out to us after she
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sent countless gift cards to chris who
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is locked out of his bank account on an
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oil rig offshore let's not waste any
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time let's jump straight into it real
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quick guys don't forget to like comment
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scammed let's get into it
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okay my name is nancy um i live in
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florida i'm retired
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i used to be a waitress for about 38
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years i'm reaching out social catfish
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um i was
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friended by a person who uh
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scammed me i met this gentleman on
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facebook he friended me there he gave me
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the name of adam chris
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and i believe he is 38 years old that's
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what he told me
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actually the reason i was online i was
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basically just uh facebook i was not an
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online dating
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but i was going through a rough time
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my partner seven years
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had cancer and i was taking care of him
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and it was more or less of a diversion
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for me because it was very rough here
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but the message he sent me was he liked
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my profile he liked my personality
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thought i had a good sense of humor
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would i please friend him on facebook so
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we could chat
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it started in october when he first
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started talking to me he was very
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pleasant
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his picture actually is what attracted
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me to him
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and then he started you know talking
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about his life
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he said he had his son
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he
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moved
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from
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kuwait city
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he had custody of his son they were on
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vacation then he just briefly kept
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talking to me about his life and we
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chatted back and forth
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then he went and he told me he had to go
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back to work he was no longer going to
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be on
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vacation and he was going to go work on
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an oil rig would i go on to chat
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so that we could talk while he was at
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work he was very good looking has a
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beard dark hair he had pictures of
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himself with him and his son but one
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thing that caught my attention is
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he dresses
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very well everything is designer
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dressing and i did make a comment about
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the way he dressed
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and he says nothing for him and his son
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to spend 500
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on clothes when they shopped
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he's just very clean cut
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he's arabic just very handsome
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i actually was with a gentleman for 14
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years who was 20 years younger
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but
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my last partner was 20 years older
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but
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i discussed with this gentleman my age
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and i said he told me his age and i told
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him my age and he said oh that doesn't
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bother me at all
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and so we just it just went from there
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kind of
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i talked to him about my parkinson's he
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seemed like he understood it
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i told him about my partner who was sick
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and he gave
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you know every time he talked to me he'd
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ask how my partner was doing
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and he was always concerned whether i
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was eating i was sleeping i was taking
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care of myself and just overall in
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general
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interested in everything i was doing in
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a day and he contacted me
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constantly he'd get up in the morning
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and i'd wake up and be a message from
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him saying good morning i was the first
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thing on his mind he just gave me a lot
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of attention at a time that
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it was rough for me so because the
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attention is what i needed
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my partner actually passed away in
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december it was very good to me you know
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i'm sure it sounds crazy to anybody
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as to what i was doing but adam just
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kind of
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came into my life at the right time
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because i took care of
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my boyfriend by myself and it was it was
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a distraction for me
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i believe it was in november he asked me
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for money for data
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he said he forgot to buy it before he
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went on the oil rig
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and i refused to give it to him and he
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got angry whatever he knew how to play
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the game that if he didn't talk to me it
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would upset me well he claimed he was
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working on an oil rig outside of rome
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and the day he flew there and i said
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take some pictures of rome and he said
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he couldn't take any because he was on
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the rig
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on a daily basis he would get up go to
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work at seven
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maybe around nine he would claim he was
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on break relaxing
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then again about 11 30 he was on break
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but he
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he said he worked to like seven o'clock
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at night but every time that he said he
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was on break he was messaging me or
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talking to his son
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i never really asked him in the
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beginning for pictures but his time went
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on i got skeptical where he was
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and he sent me a picture one picture
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and then i asked him to take a picture
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of himself in his uh
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room or wherever he was staying and he
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did take one with him laying on the bed
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with
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his head on a pillow
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i got him more skeptical and he took
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another picture supposedly on the rick
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but that he had to take medication
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for a heart problem and he said briefly
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that he spilled his pills and i just
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said okay
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but then weeks later he said he was
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almost out of his pills
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and he couldn't access his money
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could i help him
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so he could get
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them get the medication
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that was one time then weeks later
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uh he was supposed to be coming off the
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rig in january and he was supposed to
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meet me some equipment
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broke down
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and he had to have before he could get
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off the rig he had to have money
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for the equipment
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then he needed money for
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some medical insurance for him and his
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crew
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that they weren't gonna let them get off
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it was american express gift cards
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and uh of course you can't they don't allow
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you buy them in a big lump sum so i
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would literally go from store to store
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uh buying 500 gift cards to
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get the money together
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then when i got the gift cards i would
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have take pictures for
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him
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of the gift cards
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i was smart enough i paid cash for him
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because i figured if anything was going
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on and he's got any kind of information
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uh
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like the end of my account number my
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address where i was buying these gift
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cards i made sure none of that was on
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because he wanted to see pictures of the
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receipts also
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conversations with him now are very
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brief
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uh he has not asked me for anything
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since the last time and i refused
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uh he would at any point in time when he
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was asking for the money and i refused
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would put the uh emojis that he was
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crying or emojis he was angry that i
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didn't care about him he never
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threatened me at all he would always say
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that i didn't care about him i didn't
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care about his son
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right now again
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he'll send me a good morning beautiful
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or i will always love you um you know
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that that's kind of what's going on
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sometimes i answer sometimes i ignore
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him if i ignore him hours later he'll
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crop up
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the reason i don't want to tell my
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family is they can be very judgmental
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they
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they would not be there to
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support me
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and help me get through it it would be
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more of a nancy made a mistake again and
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that kind of thing because i've kind of
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been
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uh the
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black sheep of the family all my life so
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it was just one more notch in my belt so
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to speak
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i'm reaching out social catfish because
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um i was being scammed and
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i wanted closure on all this
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and i want to make sure other people out
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there do not fall into the same
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situation i did there's a lot of
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scammers out there so hopefully this
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social catfish and myself will be able
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to get that out there to other people
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nancy was just a great person who was
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willing to send money to help her friend
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out unfortunately we knew this was a
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scam just based off the photos that
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nancy sent to us we would like to ask
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anybody that is watching this video to
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please leave a positive comment below to
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help lift her spirits after doing some
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digging nancy and our team were able to
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locate an instagram profile that had all
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the photos that were sent to her by the
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man who claimed his name was adam chris
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we decided to sit down with nancy for
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the first time and try to provide some
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closure for her if you're looking to
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find the identity of your online lover
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you can start with the tools on our site
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socialcatfish.com you can click this
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youtube card or click the link in our
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bio just hitting like comment and
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subscribe helps us build more tools out
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for you to use in the future let's get
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into this i know that you've come to us
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for some answers and in looking into
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your relationship with adam
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so i wanted to start out by saying you
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know last time that we had spoken i
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sensed some hesitancy as far as you
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talking to your family letting them know
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about your relationship with adam and
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sending money i know that there was an
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option for you to talk to your sister
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about it i know that you guys did talk
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about it and i wanted to know how that
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went
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that actually went better than i thought
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it would uh
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she said basically she kind of
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understood the romance part of it
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but um
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she didn't quite get the money part you
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know why someone would send money to
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somebody like that i didn't discuss the
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amount because i knew that wouldn't
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probably be good
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but um
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it went good she she supported me let's
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just say that well that's great news
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that's that's awesome
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so we wanted to get into some of the
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images that we were looking at to kind
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of give you an idea of how we came to
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the conclusion that adam isn't who he
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says he is right off the bat we see this
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image all the time it's all over the
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internet all over romance scams it's a
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guy leaning up against a guardrail on an
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oil rig holding up a paper and
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scammers photoshop the face they
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photoshop what's on the paper they they
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take this image and they just run wild
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with it so we see this all the time and
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whenever we see this picture in the case
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it's a high
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likelihood that
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it's a it's a scam unfortunately
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so nancy i also wanted to go over the
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amex gift cards that were used for the
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form of payment to adam with amex gift
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cards
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they're untraceable because there's no
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information no personal information
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attached to these types of cards so once
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you send them and they're used there's
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no way to retrieve that information and
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there's no way to reverse those charges
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so although we weren't able to track the
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method of payment we were able to send a
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tracker to the scammer so we can find
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out where in the world this person is
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located so we got a couple of hits and
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at first it was kind of all over the
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place because scammers use something
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called a vpn which masks your actual
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location based on your ip address so
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once he clicked it on the mobile device
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we're able to pin down the actual
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location and unfortunately he was
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located in lagos nigeria which is
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another major red flag for whether or
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not it's a scam so it it looks like uh
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that was the result of the tracker as
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well so what we were also able
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to confirm when searching adam we did
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find
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a real profile with his images and the
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name that he goes by is zane which is
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something that you were able to verify
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as well correct nancy yes uh-huh
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and one thing that we always like to
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point out is the person in these photos
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is just as much of a victim as anybody
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in the situation because they're just
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unknowingly posting their photos on
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social media like anybody else and
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scammers come come along and take these
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images and use them to steal money from
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other people so
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unfortunately that's the case here as
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well
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he had nothing to do with the scam and
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this is just an unfortunate situation
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and he's been taken advantage of i
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actually at one point i tried to inbox
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him to be honest as much as we see this
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guy's photos i wouldn't be surprised if
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he has hundreds of messages in his inbox
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unfortunately again very unfortunate
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situation but these a lot of people get
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flooded with with people saying like hey
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i've been in a two-year relationship
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with you i've been dating you for three
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years like and it's just he's just you
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know it's a difficult situation for him
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as well what we found out looking
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through zane's accounts is that he has
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thousands of photos so
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it makes him an easy target
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because he has so much
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so much information so many photos and
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and they're publicly available
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and one of the things we always tell
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people is if you're talking to someone
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online tell them to hold up a piece of
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paper with something written on it tell
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them to put two fingers up so if you if
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someone has that posted on their profile
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it's nothing for a scammer to take it
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photoshop the image and use it as proof
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to say that they're the real person
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so the next thing nancy is
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i want to talk a little bit about your
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relationship
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with adam currently are you guys still
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talking where are you guys at
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yeah he's i've tried to stop talking to
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him but he's still
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messaging and wants money
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and um i try not to talk to him too much
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because i i know he's a fraud
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so it's it's a slow process it's an
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addiction let's just put that way to
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keep the conversation going but i know
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the
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end result is to just stop talking and
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block him
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yeah nancy actually we highly encourage
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that you you block him
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okay
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we do only because the reason why he's
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still lingering and continuing to
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connect with you is because you had
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already given him money he's trying to
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maintain that relationship with you so
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that he could possibly
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get some money in the future one thing
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to note is that now that you understand
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that chris adams is a scammer it's
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important to understand that these
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scammers have tactics and they have a
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system for getting money out of people
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he knows what buttons to press to get
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you
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into the emotional state where you'd be
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willing to send more so as long as you
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have that line of communication with him
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he's going to make your life he's going
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to torment you because he's what they do
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is they collect they collect your pain
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points so they know what to talk about
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to get you to do what they want so
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unfortunately if you do prolong the
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conversation with him he's going to keep
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you on an emotional roller coaster for
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as long as you talk to him how are you
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feeling right now now that you know that
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he's not who he says he is now that you
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know that
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it's best for you to walk away would you
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be willing to block him and wipe your
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hands with the whole situation and walk
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away right now
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um yes definitely and i think what i
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need to do
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is uh get off instagram
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because i constantly
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go to that zayn's
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pictures
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and comment on his pictures
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and that's become a habit every day so
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i've got to get off instagram also
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when do you think that you would
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get to that decision
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of
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getting off of instagram
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probably today
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so since you're since you're making
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changes today would you be willing to
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block adam chris right now
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on this call would you be willing to do
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that
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lead me through it when we hang up i
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promise you i will block them it sounds
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like you're moving on with your life and
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putting this
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in the past so now our question to you
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is how do you feel about online dating
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as a whole and talking to people online
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what are you going to do going forward
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and what does nancy's love life look
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like going forward from this
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going forward is going to be kind of
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quiet
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uh online dating
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i'm not happy with it at all i've been
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on a couple sites and had
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you know not good responses so
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no there won't be any i'm actually
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facebook i used to be on a lot but i'm
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not on facebook much anymore either so
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uh social media is just as crazy
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out there right now
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i'm happy for you nancy
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well i appreciate all you guys have done
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you know like i said i in the process of
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the whole thing kind of sensed it but i
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needed a confirmation and you folks have
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definitely helped me with that so that's
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awesome
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you seem to be in good spirits nancy and
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i'm very we're very glad that you got
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the closure that you needed and you feel
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like you have the strength to walk away
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from the situation
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yes i do definitely definitely
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i just want to say that we think it's
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great that you know you
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researched a lot of this information on
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your own
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and you were able to come to terms with
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the reality of your relationship
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thank you thank you
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your support has helped me too so
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thank you
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you're welcome i wish you well nancy
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okay thank you
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thanks for watching another episode of
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