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communicate with those people who make00:00:04
you nervous00:00:05
because of which you have already forgotten when you00:00:07
slept normally because of which your00:00:09
stress level is greatly increased and you know in a00:00:11
good mood you no longer remember00:00:14
when you were in a good mood ladies00:00:16
and gentlemen, hello, I kindly00:00:17
welcome you today in this video, this is a00:00:19
very important topic, an extremely interesting00:00:21
topic, especially for those people who00:00:23
strive to achieve more in00:00:25
life and who have some plans, ambitions, desires00:00:27
for life, and even more so if behind00:00:29
these plans there are ambitions and desires there are00:00:31
real actions because the higher you00:00:34
climb the social00:00:35
ladder and pull the blanket of00:00:37
hierarchy over yourself, there will certainly be a00:00:40
huge number of people who00:00:42
will not like this very much and will put a spoke in the wheels00:00:44
and will spoil your nerves00:00:46
and will come up with a billion one00:00:48
reason why -why do you00:00:50
need to dig into Vanga, of course there will be00:00:52
negative criticism, insults,00:00:54
prying, betrayal, all this00:00:57
splendor and diversity, the honor of their00:01:00
relationship, you will feel for00:01:03
yourself, so you need to be prepared for this,00:01:05
and watch this video, I’m dividing it into two parts, the00:01:07
first part of it, you’ll actually talk00:01:10
about it, it’s worth it whether to respond to00:01:11
an insult or not, and also00:01:13
we will kill some important people who00:01:16
live in the minds of most people, these are the00:01:18
ones for this illusion, they are very00:01:21
disappointed, upset and in00:01:23
certain depression of when you have some kind of00:01:24
conflicts with someone and the second part of00:01:26
this video I will give you00:01:28
certain solutions on how to00:01:30
respond to insults and it is extremely00:01:32
important that you don’t know the rules 1234 to00:01:35
do this because it’s difficult for me to00:01:37
imagine some kind of universal advice00:01:39
that I will give you and that’s it00:01:41
and you will begin to apply it in life and00:01:43
generally cope with00:01:44
insults one or two understand no, I’ll00:01:47
just give you a vector of development I want you to00:01:49
think about where you need to fight00:01:52
where you will need to focus your00:01:53
attention this is extremely war because00:01:56
again if we are waiting for the Soviets one two00:01:58
three four five we don’t want to think we00:02:00
want that for us thought to excuse my00:02:02
good, it won’t be like this, it doesn’t happen that’s why00:02:05
but as they say from the ship to the00:02:07
ball, let’s fasten your seat belts, the topic is very00:02:09
interesting and of course watches00:02:10
to the end and so you’ve probably heard the00:02:12
phrase it’s better to lose with a smart person than with a fool00:02:16
to find the next phrase of the format00:02:20
these people don’t react be smarter be00:02:23
wiser00:02:24
let's figure out whether00:02:26
these phrases of our everyday life have a place,00:02:28
of course they have only one very00:02:30
important water situation that00:02:33
happens to you by certain people, I00:02:35
call it a one-time promotion and a mega00:02:39
one-time promotion, what is a00:02:40
one-time promotion, let's assume you are standing in00:02:43
line at the bank a person comes into the cash register in front of you five00:02:46
people and for00:02:48
some reason they think that they shouldn’t00:02:50
ask and I apologize, who00:02:52
will be the last one here about you immediately put a paper in the00:02:54
cash register, as if the gorillas in general are in the00:02:57
queue to show their00:03:00
disregard for other people who00:03:02
actually they waste time and stand in00:03:05
line at the cash register, this is a one-time event,00:03:07
you can grapple with this person, you00:03:10
can grab him, you dare, you00:03:12
can not react to him, be00:03:15
smarter and, in principle, here even if you00:03:19
don’t react and it’s the right reaction not to00:03:20
react why because in00:03:23
many ways, if you react, you00:03:24
will ruin your mood for the whole day,00:03:26
well, as a rule, there will be some kind of clash,00:03:30
you will start swearing, you will start trying00:03:31
to convince other people to connect,00:03:34
and at night she will start answering you and, in00:03:36
general, they started this verbal diarrhea00:03:39
out of the blue and of course you will be00:03:41
largely in no mood for a certain00:03:43
period of time it all depends on you00:03:45
your sensitivities you can leave the00:03:47
bank and forget but as a rule you will be00:03:49
all day long this is all in your head I’m00:03:51
going through another situation you were00:03:53
cut off while driving00:03:54
this is unpleasant because why are00:03:56
you so scared that you cut me off? I00:03:58
don’t cut anyone00:04:00
off while I’m eating, observing traffic rules. You’re cutting me off. You can go out with your fists,00:04:03
wave the bits, get it, you can do it, or you00:04:05
can just forgive him, send him00:04:07
three letters, look for00:04:09
offer, you will find your happiness and, in00:04:11
principle, you threw off this negative00:04:13
energy, that is, you don’t have to00:04:15
react here, but I’ll strongly say this, I’m00:04:19
strongly against the use of such phrases in00:04:23
the format: be smarter, be wiser in those00:04:27
activities when you are constantly in00:04:29
constant contact with people00:04:31
who sharpen their grudge against you00:04:34
because if in in this case, you00:04:36
will not react, you will be run over, you will be00:04:39
betrayed, you were just00:04:41
like this, we will do it to you and they will be thrown into the00:04:44
dustbin of history. I’ll00:04:45
give you an example right away, but00:04:47
please remember your time at school, there00:04:49
was always one or two characters in each class00:04:52
who were not very00:04:54
different in intelligence. you know,00:04:56
unbridled energy that had to be00:04:59
put somewhere and of course it was spent00:05:01
on what over Anakin some quarrels on00:05:04
some you know constant this is00:05:07
biting another person as a rule00:05:10
it happened in a moment which is as I00:05:14
said social for good reason framework00:05:15
because even at school we00:05:16
felt it perfectly, these bullies are00:05:18
fighters and a little bit of a step in their00:05:21
nature,00:05:22
in fact, they never climbed the00:05:24
side of the strong because they00:05:25
understood perfectly well the bleaching of a strong block when00:05:28
she gets hurt,00:05:29
they are sure to find someone in the class00:05:31
the weak one this weak one was00:05:33
constantly teased bitten beaten 700:05:36
in short they did things that were far from the most00:05:39
ethical and ethical you can00:05:41
say but these are children what can we00:05:43
talk about they have not developed self-control00:05:45
blah blah blah and you also took that the adult00:05:48
world what are you They took that 15 of your colleagues with00:05:52
whom you constantly work are very00:05:54
different from that children's world. They considered and00:05:56
took what you took that the fierce00:05:59
competition for the client for money and for the00:06:02
sweetest place with sauce where the warmth00:06:05
and awesome resources is very different from00:06:09
school time and what’s more, I want you00:06:12
to say this is an even more severely00:06:14
aggressive environment where the weak are not tolerated,00:06:17
so the first thing we need to do with you00:06:19
is to kill the illusion within ourselves of00:06:21
the format that but this is an adult world, here00:06:25
everything will be different, yes here people don’t00:06:28
swear, here people don’t give each other away,00:06:29
here people are friends friend, people don’t00:06:31
sit here against each other, they do00:06:34
n’t set other people up to the point of killing00:06:38
yourself with this, and these myths, these people,00:06:41
because if you believe in them, they00:06:43
will constantly00:06:46
do this to you throughout your life,00:06:47
as if you don’t remember how it00:06:50
was possible with either you or you weren’t at school00:06:51
new, very likely we had00:06:53
the opportunity to observe this, you know, this00:06:57
will always be in children’s and adult00:06:59
society, ban, this needs to be understood, stop00:07:02
educating this morality,00:07:04
morality, because in many ways,00:07:06
Czech society functions according to a00:07:09
strict hierarchy, you know, and strong00:07:12
very strongly defends his place and00:07:15
certainly does not accept if someone is applying for his00:07:17
place somewhere out there, and00:07:20
will do everything in his power to ensure that he,00:07:22
this pretty contender for this place, does not00:07:24
end up in this place, this is our human nature, this00:07:27
needs to be understood and in many ways and from this we00:07:29
will continue to dance with you and dance to00:07:31
develop and well, reconsider how you00:07:33
react to the insult00:07:35
that will certainly be showered on you in00:07:39
your life when you00:07:41
want to achieve something more, let’s talk about a00:07:43
separate situation when insults and00:07:45
negative criticism are00:07:47
they are justified in the case00:07:49
when in Italy the obligations you made00:07:52
a promise other people depend on you in many ways,00:07:55
you00:07:56
and you do not fulfill your obligations, promises,00:07:58
thereby you set00:08:01
other people up, thereby you cause us00:08:04
trouble, nerves, stressful problems in life,00:08:05
you know,00:08:07
they have every right those workers at the00:08:09
enterprises inside to organize some kind of00:08:12
bent will give some kind of strikes when00:08:15
they perfectly see that the00:08:18
management of the enterprise is dissecting there, say,00:08:20
Oleg Mercedes and 4 are delaying00:08:24
wages, they have the right to a remote control and00:08:27
protest has every right because they are00:08:29
humiliated and insulted00:08:30
to let's say this when you are insulted00:08:34
deservedly in the case, but simply people, in a00:08:37
fit of emotion, cannot restrain a00:08:39
sharp word that flies at your address,00:08:42
namely, this is your full right, provided00:08:44
that you really did not fulfill the00:08:46
obligations of the promise that you00:08:48
set them up, that you are someone betrayed00:08:50
what you caused in the hassle and problems00:08:53
of the mix,00:08:54
then it takes place, you know, and00:08:57
if this happens in your life, you need to00:08:59
kind of open your00:09:01
charming strong chest, you know, get some00:09:04
air, take full00:09:06
responsibility, apologize,00:09:09
provide a plan of action on how we will00:09:10
get out of this situations in order to, let's00:09:13
say, neutralize these00:09:14
negative consequences, these must be00:09:17
done because in this vein, let's say00:09:19
as a critic, insults are00:09:21
justified, but as a rule in your life00:09:24
there will be a lot of situations when this is00:09:27
unjustified and now I will give you one00:09:29
very important recommendation which is00:09:31
really practical recommendation what you00:09:32
should never do at all, watch what00:09:35
happens, you come a lot and00:09:40
start doing manicures with new people,00:09:42
start getting acquainted with a new00:09:44
team or you have your own business, your00:09:47
business begins to progress a little,00:09:49
progress to grow, and of course you00:09:52
begin to block the air a little with00:09:54
your closest competitor,00:09:56
imagine that this is00:09:58
certain certain ritual fight between00:10:01
two males00:10:02
is given which is for the purpose of mating with anka and00:10:05
this and mating with a female means getting00:10:08
some resources getting money00:10:09
getting a client getting spheres of influence00:10:12
yes I will give you such analogies00:10:14
in everything with understandable analogies as soon as Samsa00:10:17
starts doing a ritual fight for this00:10:19
resource00:10:20
yes in our case there for a certain00:10:22
position per day and for a client and so on a00:10:25
ritual battle begins, first of00:10:27
all two males00:10:28
seem to be testing each other to the south and00:10:31
analyzing each other with their eyesight00:10:34
initially makes a certain00:10:36
unconscious assessment it’s worth playing the candle00:10:39
it’s worth it to me now fight00:10:41
or and or I will win or I did this00:10:44
mom I’m not saying if they kick me hard in the ass00:10:46
and can harm my health00:10:48
the best now will capitulate healthier I’ll be00:10:51
you such a ritual battle happens then00:10:53
your first contact is your first00:10:55
contact come to a new team and00:10:57
when you know others on you00:11:00
by the ministry with who you are for the children,00:11:02
hello, shake hands, say hello, and someone00:11:04
will sit on you and analyze and00:11:07
look, consider already initially in00:11:09
your head to think a competitor or not a competitor00:11:12
and bessona happens to you 1 contact and00:11:16
of course if someone wants to probe00:11:19
you on strength00:11:20
will begin to hurt you a little,00:11:23
offend you a little with various kinds00:11:25
of manifestations, but if I think00:11:28
about these manifestations now, I’ll write out 25 pages,00:11:30
they can read them out in different ways, manifestations00:11:32
will try to insult you, that you00:11:35
can’t do that, you can’t tell me on00:11:38
what basis you insulted me,00:11:40
who gave you the right insult me in general00:11:43
guys forget about these words because00:11:46
if you say this you are already giving your00:11:50
opponent a signal I’m defeated I00:11:52
lost everything I’m number five I’m on00:11:55
birdie’s I’m not number one I’m not claiming00:11:58
this place for us I’m not claiming00:12:01
more I’m not claiming at00:12:03
number one, everyone would have lost, and then00:12:06
with a possible rope, you can twist further with you,00:12:08
you can do whatever you want, this is as an example,00:12:11
soon the strong begin to tease the weak,00:12:13
as if you know, they let the beast bleed, and for a00:12:18
predator, a predator, all the recipes are infuriating when00:12:21
he feels except for the need to devour this beast, the00:12:23
same the most happens in00:12:25
human society the weak David00:12:27
will overpower the weak and I’m already saying the words00:12:29
please don’t touch me the00:12:31
strong nose will put even more pressure on you00:12:33
which00:12:34
because unbridled energy because it wo00:12:36
n’t put much pressure still sits on00:12:38
what you understand the eyes will00:12:41
roll up in one place you understand and will00:12:44
be crush the weak of the social hierarchy00:12:47
and no one canceled the guys and the extremely00:12:49
primitive channel is extremely harsh, but if00:12:51
you analyze your life, if you00:12:54
drove, analyze where you are00:12:55
working now with whom you are collaborating, you00:12:58
will see this very often at the most00:13:00
banal everyday and everyday levels,00:13:02
this is happening slave psychology00:13:05
you see, and the boss at work00:13:09
presses the man below the plinth, you00:13:11
roll up the plinth and this offended man00:13:13
comes home with him and beats his wife, forcing00:13:17
her to recognize him as the master, admit I will00:13:21
come to recognize some greatness in him,00:13:23
recognize some kind of strength in him, you understand00:13:26
how it is interconnected there we are we can’t00:13:28
because he’s being crushed there, he needs to00:13:30
crush the one who is weaker00:13:31
so that you can recognize in him what kind of00:13:34
strength you recognize in him, you understand, this is00:13:36
how it works,00:13:37
stop praising morality,00:13:40
morality and humanity of our00:13:42
human society, stop00:13:44
human society acts in00:13:46
many ways on extremely primitive animals by00:13:48
law00:13:49
this is understandable, I never say on00:13:52
what basis you should have lost your00:13:55
reactions others, which I will now voice, the00:13:57
next reaction is the reaction to hit hunger, let’s say this is the00:13:59
reaction to hit00:14:02
the globe, this is when I pinch you, once00:14:04
they pushed you open and they00:14:06
took the 2nd by the scruff of the neck they said if you won’t00:14:08
repent, I’ll roll you into the asphalt here right now,00:14:10
or right away without talking, you00:14:12
give them a nosedive, or you00:14:14
were verbally bombarded with a stream of arguments in a stream,00:14:18
perhaps if if, after all,00:14:21
intellectuality when you just have00:14:23
the knowledge of your brain and the ability to00:14:26
formulate a proposal in a cool, beautiful way,00:14:28
crush your opponent right on the spot, don’t00:14:30
you let them take a sip and insert something to00:14:33
counterbalance you, this reaction of the00:14:37
squirrels is immediately rigid in place, that is, don’t00:14:40
take it literally literally, I’m running to00:14:42
approach you head-on, or more precisely, you can00:14:44
crush it with verbal arguments so that00:14:47
mom don’t worry, you should definitely have00:14:49
well-developed speech apparatus and there must00:14:51
be a fairly good00:14:53
intelligence, competence and00:14:55
erudition, this is a must, it’s like a00:14:57
mandatory process00:14:58
that then we weren’t in the comments and00:15:00
what exactly do I need to say, you know, that00:15:03
is, this reaction by and screams for there to00:15:05
be a reaction byob you need to have00:15:07
courage,00:15:08
forgive me, I’m full of courage00:15:10
there must be complete cowards, courage and00:15:12
toughness, some kind of adventurousness and so that there is a00:15:14
reaction of the squirrels, but this is a workable reaction00:15:17
right here and right now, as if to immediately00:15:20
dot the i's,00:15:22
but if you cannot choose this reaction,00:15:26
you can choose two other reactions, yes,00:15:28
because not reactions of squirrels00:15:30
are always justified because00:15:32
you can play with another person, after all, you00:15:34
can if you are a little bored, you can piss him off00:15:37
intellectually and00:15:39
two other reactions such as reactions of00:15:41
lack of reaction, reaction of humor, what kind of00:15:44
reaction is lack of reaction is00:15:46
when you are criticized for insulting those who do not00:15:47
react but a very important point is what00:15:50
it means not to react, you can not00:15:52
react differently00:15:53
if someone insults you and you don’t00:15:55
react, you close yourself off more and more,00:15:57
you know, so they shrink, show me, I’m a00:16:00
small person, don’t touch me, you’re00:16:02
still fighting, you’re not exactly winning00:16:04
react, you remember that then to say you00:16:07
are afraid of not giving something in contrast to00:16:09
this person, you understand, you00:16:11
prefer to close yourself in,00:16:12
they don’t00:16:13
see me, as you know the country, the sand00:16:16
hides your head and your ass sticks out, so remember00:16:18
your ass, oh how good it is for you, Nina, for this00:16:20
ass, they give you a very good kick00:16:22
one reaction00:16:25
no reaction relevant when,00:16:29
let’s say, he insults you face to face00:16:32
and you are simply imperturbable and you are simply00:16:35
imperturbable, your shoulders are straight and your shoulders00:16:38
feel great, you have an00:16:39
ironic smile on your face and you00:16:42
show them with all your appearance that they don’t give a damn,00:16:45
they pour on me what you say00:16:46
because that you know your worth because00:16:48
you are okay with00:16:50
self-confidence because partly and either00:16:52
part of me you are in the right place because you00:16:54
know and come you don’t understand your00:16:57
meaning because you have already done something in your00:16:59
life Damn, this is when you have00:17:00
an argument for your self-confidence,00:17:03
by the way, in this vein, I recommend that you00:17:05
take my author’s training, I’m sure there00:17:07
will be a link to it in the description,00:17:08
this is an excellent program where it’s right on00:17:10
the line that you’re so confident in yourself,00:17:12
how can you influence it, and there and we00:17:15
very carefully touch upon00:17:17
social communication of certain00:17:19
skills, what and how to do, what and how to00:17:21
speak in order to feel00:17:22
confident in communication with other people,00:17:24
that is, when you understand that00:17:26
everything is fine with me, you don’t have to react,00:17:28
I receive a huge amount of00:17:30
insults and my activity is00:17:33
socially oriented as as if00:17:35
the majority really likes someone00:17:37
she is neutral someone learn to do00:17:39
n’t like to know why I don’t like myself00:17:40
I’m just writing someone yes and00:17:42
someone doesn’t like me he is it or00:17:45
there are a billion reasons to like the way I00:17:47
say I don’t like I don’t like the format, I do00:17:49
n’t like the presentation, I don’t like the energy, I don’t00:17:52
like the appearance, I don’t like the turnover,00:17:55
billion one reason that you can00:17:57
get to the bottom of, and people who are extremely00:17:59
dissatisfied with themselves in many ways are not fulfilled,00:18:01
get to the bottom of such banal things,00:18:03
as if I’m glad and everything else is good, and00:18:05
all this is written out to me there on YouTube they have a00:18:07
lot of free time and you00:18:09
know, I don’t react to this at all, I00:18:11
read this,00:18:12
studying this, reacting to this, moreover,00:18:14
some people even get mad when they don’t00:18:16
react, they write, writes and top of the00:18:20
rat reacting to our comment they00:18:23
you them it’s also it’s more infuriating not to do it more and more to do00:18:25
it to do it they write more and more00:18:27
you understand the reaction of no00:18:30
reaction is great only when00:18:32
you know your worth in your place but also the00:18:37
current that the appointment is to react to you00:18:40
talk and talk and create a stir00:18:43
create a movement but only00:18:45
if you seem to calmly learn00:18:48
from pride perceive its logic in00:18:50
your address these arrows of skill do not00:18:52
notice but not in the case00:18:53
when you are afraid to react you know00:18:57
such cramped and prefer00:19:00
inaction the00:19:01
next reaction is the reaction of humor this is the00:19:03
most difficult reaction what we00:19:07
most dislike with childhood in social00:19:09
communication, more precisely, what are we most00:19:11
afraid of?00:19:22
when00:19:25
someone lifts us up when00:19:28
someone laughs at us, remember this such a00:19:31
malicious inner experience when the00:19:33
whole class laughs at you when you00:19:35
just want to fall into the ground00:19:37
so that no one sees or hears you00:19:39
at all they couldn’t have yours so here I am I00:19:42
’ll tell you that the reaction of humor is the most00:19:43
powerful reaction when you are insulted,00:19:46
the most powerful reaction, and if you are able to00:19:50
respond to your opponent with humor,00:19:54
it’s just like hitting an egg of water with Maxima with00:19:59
maximum force, it’s not glossy,00:20:01
it will be accepted right away, this is the most painful point,00:20:05
but there is one very important point I00:20:09
react with humor means being a a very00:20:12
intelligent person b with a00:20:15
sense of humor,00:20:16
fortunately these are skills that develop00:20:18
if you ask me Alexander what00:20:20
to do and first of all I don’t know00:20:22
each of you specifically and I can’t give any00:20:23
universal advice, react like this00:20:25
I can’t give you understand because in00:20:28
many ways reactions humor is pure00:20:31
improvisation to what I can say00:20:32
if you analyze your life you00:20:34
understand somewhere you were infused before and you00:20:37
would like to respond with humor but you didn’t00:20:39
understand how I can give you a00:20:41
recommendation watch more of some00:20:43
stand-up comedian of especially when they00:20:46
are communicating to a live audience because00:20:48
this is a real you know this is a00:20:50
real complex conversation in which they00:20:53
can dig right into banal phrases00:20:56
in such a way that the whole audience will00:20:59
laugh youtube let’s just say this is a00:21:02
great storehouse of information if00:21:03
you know what to look for and look for it correctly and not00:21:05
some crap, watch this, you00:21:07
can actually learn this,00:21:08
because again, I can’t tell you00:21:10
any unique advice on how to00:21:13
do this, I even want to give you00:21:15
such an example, we’ll duplicate00:21:17
the photo for you now, I was recently00:21:20
insulted on YouTube 8 often sand00:21:22
offensive comments00:21:24
don’t react to them at all because my00:21:26
reaction is no reaction, but one00:21:27
woman still raised a laugh,00:21:29
she wrote me comments in fact,00:21:31
you can now see how you see00:21:33
us as a [ __ ] offensive character00:21:34
and I remember it plus or minus I remember, well,00:21:38
as if I won’t quote you, you can00:21:39
read everything and I wouldn’t answer her00:21:42
if you didn’t find out, she00:21:45
offends me, the smile on her face, I’ll answer you,00:21:51
are you so rude,00:21:54
these are for us, I raised her, I didn’t that00:21:58
she has this faith, what she does with this00:22:00
comment, she seems to insult me in00:22:03
many ways, what a person expects when I00:22:05
insult you, what you will answer him00:22:07
so that you will all prove something to him, there will be some kind of00:22:09
verbal spat of your own,00:22:11
verbal diarrhea and I don’t do this I00:22:14
just laughed a little and what do you00:22:17
think is the reaction of this person? She00:22:18
deleted the comments. She hit this00:22:20
comment. Do you think she00:22:22
would have deleted this comment if I00:22:23
had reacted to it somehow differently or had not00:22:26
reacted? It would be like no, but I00:22:29
raised us even though I found it out by this00:22:32
way when you think of another00:22:34
person our to whom you are insulted00:22:36
you show your strength you show00:22:38
your intelligence you show what00:22:40
was before this sense of humor and this is a00:22:41
crazy titanic work on00:22:43
yourself there are no unique tips on how to do this00:22:46
to do there is a unique advice to look for look for00:22:48
what will happen00:22:50
go for you personally look for again00:22:53
look for those who say I can’t find it00:22:54
bad looking for not enough tenacity00:22:57
strong lines you want someone to00:22:59
do it for you I’m speaking directly in the rough and00:23:01
in the face seams we understand that this is your00:23:04
direct responsibility, your direct00:23:05
responsibility is to seek and educate yourself, and00:23:08
you know, I want to be sure to say the00:23:10
leading next thought is that it00:23:11
is necessary to react to an insult in00:23:14
those everyday situations when you00:23:16
understand that if I don’t00:23:18
react now, I will simply be crushed about this00:23:19
community of people00:23:21
if you are an entrepreneur who will not00:23:23
defend your position, who will not00:23:25
try to win in the competition,00:23:27
you will be immediately pushed aside and left minutes to hell00:23:29
and from this from this market, how many00:23:32
stories are there,00:23:33
when they are planted, when they are given,00:23:37
when they are sent to different verification00:23:39
services, and so on, how many such stories are there?00:23:41
why does this suddenly happen because00:23:44
people don’t want to share resources because,00:23:46
again,00:23:48
no one has abolished the hierarchical structure of society,00:23:50
stop praising morality,00:23:52
high morality, high00:23:54
intellectuality, high education,00:23:55
stop, mostly people are extremely00:23:57
primitive00:23:59
and live according to strict animal laws, and00:24:02
so, among this diversity of wild00:24:05
fauna as the actual human species is00:24:07
I give you I think a recommendation, have00:24:10
the courage to defend your00:24:12
positions, have the courage to not be00:24:14
offended,00:24:15
have the courage to give00:24:17
answers on or understand the risks that you can00:24:20
get an even stronger contribution, but have00:24:22
the courage to courage because if you do00:24:24
n’t they will make you go to hell, they will drive you to hell from00:24:26
above, they will also kick you in the head and you will00:24:30
not rise further because the00:24:32
load and pain of the past negative experience00:24:36
will put too much pressure on your00:24:38
already fragile shoulders, so ladies and gentlemen,00:24:40
this video seems to me to be more of a00:24:43
philosophical nature than how some kind of00:24:46
practically applicable character, yes everywhere they00:24:48
were wearing practically applicable00:24:50
advice regarding never say on00:24:52
what basis you offended me and00:24:54
never believe in these [ __ ]00:24:55
illusions because they greatly interfere with his life to00:24:57
howl like a wolf with the wolves00:25:02
said to live with the wolves00:25:06
you understand howling like a wolf, and no matter how disgusting it may be to you, no matter how00:25:10
much you don’t want to live in the00:25:13
illusion that all people are pleasant and all00:25:16
people should help each other only in00:25:18
your dreams and your illusions, and00:25:21
when you set your sights on something - then high when00:25:24
you want to achieve something there will be a00:25:26
huge number of people who00:25:29
will try to hit you bite00:25:31
sting drop many you will be cut off by a00:25:34
huge number of people and learn to00:25:36
defend your positions and respond to00:25:38
insults don’t be afraid of it once it00:25:41
will be scary then it will be normal00:25:43
so ladies are used to it and gentlemen,00:25:47
at the end of this video, I want to recommend that00:25:51
you go through several of my00:25:52
programs, this is pragmatic leadership, I’m00:25:55
sure there will be links to them in00:25:56
the description, be sure to go through them because00:25:58
they are great, that means great, they00:26:00
will give you such a guideline and a motive to00:26:03
develop yourself to act and become tougher because00:26:05
many of you, well,00:26:07
become tougher at the moment and00:26:09
thank you for your attention, I hope that00:26:11
this video brings it together with the Russian00:26:13
character, you found it interesting and00:26:14
useful, that I loaded you a little00:26:16
and you now have food for00:26:18
thought, I hope that for others of00:26:23
you and so there is if so my goal is00:26:25
fulfilled this issue00:26:26
please don’t react like00:26:28
comment subscribe00:26:29
please repost go through00:26:32
my author’s program all the best to you good00:26:34
luck success be persistent00:26:37
be a couple tough moderately and00:26:41
defend your positions let’s leave00:26:43
defend your positions your resources00:26:46
because if you don’t if you do this,00:26:48
someone arrogant and boorish will come,00:26:51
he just takes it and won’t ask permission,00:26:54
thank you for your attention, all the best00:26:55
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