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I will hate it
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if sma and I can’t be
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glad to welcome all viewers
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listen to the channel today we will touch on
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the topic of attraction and talk in general why there is
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nocturnal attraction in a relationship, first of all,
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with the fact that any questions that are
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related to why should I do this and
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why should I do this why do you
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say this, why don’t you say
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differently and you should mention this,
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they are in
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no way connected with any
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objective essence, that is,
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I see these comments very often, even during the break
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between filming videos,
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comments appeared there very often, so you
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say this I have never
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encouraged anyone to make any changes in my
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own life, I have never
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told anyone how it is necessary to build
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relationships for one simple reason in the
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world there are a lot of formats of relationships,
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they all have a place to be, each of
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them has pitfalls, so this is a
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hobby, the same story attraction
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should it be in a relationship the answer is
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no here I can’t say yes,
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you definitely have to build relationships
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on the basis of attraction very many relationships are
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built when one person
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does not feel any attraction to the
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second at all and
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if we talk about this I would like to
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talk about what one
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relationship and 2 relationships look like, that is, a
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relationship where there is attraction and a relationship
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where there is none, let’s probably start with a relationship
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where the relationship where there is treatment, if there
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is attraction in a relationship, your side,
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what does it give you to the second person,
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it gives it, and involvement gives you it
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firstly, a more comfortable relationship for
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yourself, that is,
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you still understand that the second person,
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if something happens to you, he will come
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to your aid, you will still receive an
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increase in your self-esteem, seeing attractions
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2, you will feel part of this
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relationship and part no way, part of
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the apartment is a rug in the hallway,
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so part of the apartment is one room,
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2 more, this is approximately how you will
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feel attraction in a relationship is not
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necessary, but it gives you a certain
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bonus if we are talking about the fact that there
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is no attraction in your direction and there is no attraction in your
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direction in yours there is also no side to what
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your relationship will look like,
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well, let's first of all, the essence of any
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person, any
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person has a selfish essence, he is an egoist
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and the selfishness of a person, he wants more, that
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is, you bought an apartment after some
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time, you wanted a better apartment, you
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once bought yourself a Muscovite there but
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after some time you wanted
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to buy yourself a BMW why a Muscovite from a
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4-wheeler 4-wheeler what time a Muscovite is driving
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on the road it would be already driving a Muscovite
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you can get from home to work and
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back and you can also buy a BMW why
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spend more it’s a
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question of comfort and benefit for oneself are
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quite selfish in relationships, the
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same story, that is, this is the benefit
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for a person in itself equates
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to an increase, that is, if a person is
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attracted to you, he feels the prospect of
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pleasure from you or there is pleasure,
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yes you talk to him and when you there is
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some kind of communication going on the
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person likes it he likes to
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communicate with you they like to spend
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time with you and why he likes it
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because it is you because you are the person
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who is attracted to women there
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such a simple scheme
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here is what we see we see that a person
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experiences attraction, is not so
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fixated on some such earthly
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mercantile things because
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attraction, in principle, can replace these
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things, but if we are talking about the fact that there
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is no increase in your side, ask yourself
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the question
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what is the benefit in a relationship with you, that is,
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for the second person for it’s understandable for you
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if the second person in the treatment does
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n’t have your side, you quite likely have
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the fact that the person next to you is sitting,
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this is already good for you, there is
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no benefit for the person in principle, but it is also possible
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to create it and how it can be created it can be
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created comfort, that is, you can
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become as
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comfortable as possible for a person, turn into an
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analogue of a genie from a bottle, that is, how you
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need a genie, the bottle opens from there,
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this blue creature flies out and
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says, I’m glad to serve you, my master
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or there is my lady, and the
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person can have his
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own desire declare a tattoo and
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say I want to go
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to this restaurant and
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his faithful genie from the bottle
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will take you to this restaurant. Well, you must agree, it’s not
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bad at all to have such a genie,
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it’s quite comfortable and many
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men,
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trying to earn a person’s attention, become
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these genies and become, that is,
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instead of reflecting on
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what, in principle, I, in itself, do
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not cause any attraction to
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a person, that is, in principle, everything that we
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do and everything that brings a smile on the face of
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2 people is connected with
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some such earthly enough
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moments, namely, I will give
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something there aero dow let's go tower there, yes,
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well, I’m glad that she communicates with you there
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and spends time, yes no,
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because you went somewhere, that is, if we are
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talking about the fact that there is no attraction to your side,
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then the person expects benefits from you
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anyway, and on the basis of this
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benefit, he can tolerate you next to
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him, sometimes it’s not even easy to tolerate,
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to experience such kind positive feelings for you
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that look like some kind of deep
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friendship, but without any special desire to
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continue the banquet, if we talk about
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this very comfort,
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many men end up saying that a
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woman I left when I lost everything,
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friends, so if you lost everything, which one
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of you is a genie, you can no longer make a wish come true,
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and since you don’t know how to
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make wishes come true, then what remains is just a
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used bottle that they take and
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throw in the trash, and
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this is the pitfall of a relationship
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without attraction to your side because it’s not
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this inner filling that
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interests a person, it’s
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comfort that interests them, so there is attraction and, for example,
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you also give comfort to a person, this is super,
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it’s wonderful if it’s primary here in
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treatment, if there is no attraction, well, how to
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diagnose it, see it, what to take
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some steps to a person to a person, so
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that date is not there, that is, either a step towards you or a
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step away from you, but in the center he
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is always in such a more neutral
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position and you decide to somehow
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amaze, create a mind blower, somehow just
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make the person open
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his mouth with this didn’t close for two minutes you
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perform some kind of action that is
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associated with a
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big investment in a person and you
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can really see joy and
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pleasure and it seems to you that she
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has found positive reinforcement after
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that, perhaps you will be tormented by a
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feeling of injustice new
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read the book five love languages and it
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will be written there that for many people their
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love language is gifts and
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it is your gifts that they will give to
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any person, and here you are,
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armed with this valuable knowledge,
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think about this is her love language and
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continue to reward the person
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with all this, you will not notice that in
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communication with you just like that, that is,
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coming there in the entrance to sit does
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not cause any pleasure for a person,
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but going with you to the
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seashore, walking and going to a restaurant,
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it will be super, here you begin to
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give the most comfort here and for the sake of this
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comfort they begin to communicate with you the
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person who communicates with you for the sake of
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comfort sometimes I don’t understand myself, that is,
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his plan entails or does not entail, it seems like it’s
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pleasant to be with you, but it’s pleasant
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because it’s you or because you
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go there as if to a restaurant and some
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other place to understand can’t, and since
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he can’t understand, he continues this
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relationship trying to figure everything out,
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but it’s difficult to figure it out, and since it’s
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very difficult to figure it out, a person
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spends a lot of time on this,
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which can be called a relationship with you,
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so this is what happens when you do not
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receive feedback, that is, when
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one person invests in relation to
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2 feedback does not give
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a relationship, in principle, there is some kind of exchange, that is,
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you do what for a person a person
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does something for you you for a person a
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person for you and thereby everything that you
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you give it back to a normal relationship, it
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comes back to you, that is, in principle, there is nothing to
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lose, no
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degradation occurs, that is, you do not
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experience photo
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disappearance of some of your resources, you
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do not switch to a person, your thoughts
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there are not completely tied to what to
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do so that a person
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can change even better, yes, that is, you
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have the opportunity to develop your life,
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your own resources at the same time,
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you have such a resource as an
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attitude, you have
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this very exchange with a second person,
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everything is more or less normal, but if
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a person becomes a pleasure from
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this person becomes a central
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figure, you begin to give up
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other aspects of your life, why
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because relationships are a
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free high for you, well, drugs, yes, that
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is, spend one and a half thousand rubles there,
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buy a check, and it’s
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normal, that is, here, by giving up
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your resources, you no longer receive
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this income the energy in your life, that is, what is the
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essence, you spend on relationships and
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it seems like they should be returned to you, and you
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even think that someday soon, just a little bit
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more, everything will begin, but
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this does not happen, while losing resources along the way,
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you are losing, let’s call
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it, energy that is vital that is, you
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even lose financial time, you lose time,
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you lose a stable state, and then
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in a relationship without passion you can no longer
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give comfort, and if there is no treatment and
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there is no comfort, then the person, reasoning sensibly,
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absolutely logically
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believes that there is no benefit from you to anyone, there is no use
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either he leaves and
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everyone leaves when you
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can no longer close his comfort and since you
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cannot close this comfort, it
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says a lot about you, it says a lot
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about you, it says that you
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have lost it, that is, it turns out that
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your standard of living has decreased by so much that you
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cannot give comfort to a girl
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leaving you, that is, this in itself is
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gone when I was at my worst and about
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if you understand this scheme, you
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can track how it is actually
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implemented in life, well, and not allow
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this, that is, if you It
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is not allowed to logically assume that
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this will not happen to you, that is,
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separation is also something that happens, and
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if we talk about what effect it has on your
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life, in principle it can be
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quite strong or it can collapse, all a
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lot of men, consultation from on the
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verge of suicide or after unsuccessful
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attempt,
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so this is a very important thing and if we are
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talking about attraction, it is better to have it
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than not to have it, I’m
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finishing today’s video and we
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’ll see you very soon

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