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hello, dear friends, today I
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will tell you a not very decent but very
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instructive story, since it
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will serve as an illustration of what I want to
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tell you about, I will tell you about cases
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when it is better to give a treat back, this is
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what they gave you or are trying to give you, what they
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are trying to force on you, so to speak, is this
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treat Let's say a cake with a rose from the river or
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some other disgusting thing,
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take it and give it back, just
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thank me, I'd rather not thank you,
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thank you for nothing, it's
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even some kind of hypocrisy, just tell
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me don't, please take it back,
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and now I'll illustrate this thesis of a
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simple story from my childhood in the
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village where we had a dacha there was a shepherd
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treshechka, he was very unique and
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this shepherd treshechka collected
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excrement, excuse me, and
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met adult children and so, with an absurd, naive
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smile, he held out these
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excrement, these spools, and, as it were,
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treated him He was such a
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unique shepherd and people, of course, felt sorry for him and
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they see what he’s like, he’s poor,
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he’s so wretched, apparently he doesn’t understand well that
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in return they gave him candy,
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always mint ones, were there candies or
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citrus disks, also toffee kitty-kiss, there weren’t
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enough chocolate ones then there was candy
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especially in the village, so they served him
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candy or sweet mint gingerbread, why
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not, they bought them in the village store, here
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comes a man with a candy wrapper of
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gingerbread, let’s assume he bought it then, because
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everything was not cheap, the money was not
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that big among people, and a shepherd met him, a
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three-ruble note and Here's the earring, smiling,
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these things mean, he hands them out to the person,
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and of course the person he meets takes out a gingerbread, hands them over
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and it turned out to be such a not entirely
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equivalent exchange, you know, he gives you
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goat pellets and in return you give you a
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sweet gingerbread, he gives you goat pellets and you in
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return take a risk or mint candy and
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of course The shepherd really liked this and
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he began to literally chase people
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with this treat of his, he seemed to
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treat him with these things, one boy was
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brave enough, he bought himself 100
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grams of pillows with jam for 10
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kopecks more, he didn’t have to go with these
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pillows but to a meeting to him this
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shepherd and such a healthy fist with a
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treat, he brought it to the boy’s face and
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smiles, help yourself to the boy, the boy
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turned out to be brave and says eat it yourself, that’s
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all he said, he didn’t call him names, he didn’t
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do anything bad, he just didn’t
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want to share his candies, he said
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eat it yourself because that it
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was really unpleasant, you will agree how
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angry the shepherd was, he grabbed a log and
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chased after the boy, his
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smile immediately disappeared from his face, such aggression
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appeared to him,
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the offer to eat what he wanted to
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treat the boy seemed unpleasant, this is the scene that
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played out before my eyes in childhood, the scene was
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very instructive you see, if
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the shepherd didn’t understand what he was treating, then of
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course he would continue to smile even in
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response to the offer to eat himself
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correctly, what he wanted to treat
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others with, but he immediately got angry,
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angry, he understood perfectly well that
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sweet candy is better than what he
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offers people what sweet gingerbread is
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better than what he tries with the guests and
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in this situation
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the continuation is quite
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psychological, philosophical,
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you’ve probably met people in your life who
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say oh something, you’ve gained so much weight,
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horror, you’ve gained a little weight, what’s wrong with you,
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oh, you know this is bad you look and
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why do you look so bad are you
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sick or something or for example you
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have aged so much why have you aged so much they
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just look at you sadly and
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they look at you and we have to respond with
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some kind of excuse to
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say yes I’ll try to put
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myself in order and and yes, you know, I
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just had a difficult period, I experienced a
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loss, my mother died, so I
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look bad, and so on and so forth, and the
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person smiles and he accepts your excuse,
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okay, I’ll believe you, as they
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say, for the first time and it turns out that they
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give you these goat
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pellets and in return you give a
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sweet candy or mint gingerbread or something else
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because the justification is this position
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below these attempts will be explained and
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swallow the unpleasant treat they
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give great pleasure to the one who
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tells you such things but try to
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tell the person he told you you
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you look bad,
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why are you looking bad, there are
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people like that, you’ll say, well, that’s why it’s like this,
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but you also look bad,
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look at the bags under your eyes,
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what kind of wrinkles are here, right by your nose, your
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skin is somehow sagging, the
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gray roots are showing through and you have a
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dull look like a lifeless horse, why did
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this happen to you, what happened to you,
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what a hysteria and
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what a scandal they will start, they will immediately make you out to be a
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rude, evil person, and they will immediately
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accuse you of being ignorant, that you are
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responding to concern
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they answered a person rudely about your health like that, although you didn’t
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say anything rude, you said the
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same thing that they told you correctly and did
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n’t add anything, didn’t insult you, you
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just asked the
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women that your son never started
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studying and quit to put pressure on your prestigious university,
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but how much money did you overpay for it,
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and it happens that such things are
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unlucky with children and
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the woman says that everything
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is fine with your daughter, otherwise I remember she
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stole things all the time as a child and there were such
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problems all this it happened in public
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who was a
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rude person who said
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the correct one was the woman who answered
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quite adequately calmly and simply
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also inquired about the adult children of
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her interlocutor and this is
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not at all necessary to do out loud on the one
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hand and on the other hand the examples are
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indicative they prove the aggressive
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intent of the one who tells you unpleasant
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things unpleasant
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they say for a reason, but for a specific
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purpose, these people believe that you have no right
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to defend yourself, that you can violate all
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absolutely any boundaries, you can take
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your toxic opinion, express it
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and write there, let’s assume what kind of
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nonsense this is, I didn’t understand anything, and if you
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write back, don’t please write nonsense, I did
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n’t understand anything in your comment, who
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would be a boor and a rude person is correct, you are
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therefore such a person, he arrogated to himself the
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right to treat you like that and treat
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you like a shepherd to three rubles with what he
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collected from the bins available to him, so to speak,
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and in return he expects your
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humiliation justification for your pain and
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confusion is that very sweet risk
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that can be sucked and chewed on your energy for a long time,
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and therefore if there is no
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opportunity to answer out loud, and we already
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understood that this always ends in
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a scandal, absolutely you are
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now acting as an aggressor, but if there is no
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such opportunity, just mentally
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tell me nothing of yours, I don’t need anything
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good, not bad, let yours stay with
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you, mine is enough in it, by the way, this is an
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ancient folk expression when communicating
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with people like this when you
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receive toxic compliments,
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toxic compliments chimeras, chimeras, this is
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when the head is a conditional compliment,
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good, how good do you look? a
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snake's tail, although you are already so many years old,
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here is a snake's tail, and if such
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compliments occur or a violation of
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boundaries or such statements
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about your loved ones and so on
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about your appearance, you need to internally if
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you do not want to conflict, I just say,
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because for me, what is enough for you is yours for
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me we don’t need anything of yours, and when we
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mentally and internally refuse the
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offering in the form of it’s clear what it
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remains with the one who tried
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to treat us, but it will still make him terribly
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angry, you will see that when you don’t make
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excuses when you say
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that I look like I look like usually
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why are you so interested in my
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appearance and so on, there will
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definitely be a conflict and even if you don’t
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respond to toxic offensive
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comments there will still be resentment and
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just delete yours because it
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was very important to leave it, it was very important
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for others to see it it was very important
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to shake your confidence in yourself, take away
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your happiness,
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destroy your confidence, don’t
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allow yourself to do this, we
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don’t need anything from them and let them keep their gifts for
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themselves and collect them further
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because this is their life, they live by this, and
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if they want to get candy or
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let them come up and ask for a gingerbread or
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just don’t say bad things to him, we’ll be
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happy to treat him, isn’t it, and that
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’s why the story is instructive and don’t
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accept toxic treats, go to words
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in the form of expressions like these and mentally
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put a barrier as the boy said,
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eat it yourself, we don’t need this all the
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best, dear friends and see you again
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and
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remind friends that the best texts are on my
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Instagram and even better useful webinars on the
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website link in the first comment

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