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thank you so much and good morning yeah
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i have always been simply fascinated
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by the topic of communications it is so
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filled with
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puzzles and paradoxes for example how
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many of you have ever sat through one of
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those awful
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powerpoint presentations dozens of
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slides hundreds of bullets yeah all of
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you
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and guess what you absolutely hated it
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right and you know it didn't work
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and yet knowing that
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how many of you have done it to someone
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else
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isn't that funny communication is so
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interesting so what i want to talk about
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this morning is why it's so important
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how it mostly goes wrong and how to fix
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it
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now when you think about
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how important it is i mean i think it's
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proven really throughout history that
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communication is probably the single
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most important if not the most powerful
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tool
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you can put in a human being's hands
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it's not just how we give and receive
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ideas it's how we obtain so many of
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those things that we want right that job
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we desperately need that project we want
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to get funded that donation we need to
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keep our non-profit afloat
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incredibly important i mean history has
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proven this uh history has always shown
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the enormous advantage that great
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communicators have whether that's steve
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jobs or winston churchill
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although interestingly probably the most
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striking example from history is far
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darker the most impressive
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accomplishment of communication it's
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probably adolf hitler i mean churchill
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all what he was doing was rallying
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people against tyranny but hitler took
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the most sophisticated most highly
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educated society of his time
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and he persuaded them to support
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tyranny and madness and barbarism that
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was purely through the power of his
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voice
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so communication is unbelievably
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important and powerful so what's the
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problem
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we're not very good at it most of us
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freely
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admit to struggles to communicate as
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effectively as we'd like and the data
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absolutely bears this out we did a big
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study of communication in the business
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world and what we found was
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less than 30 percent of business
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presentations are ever deemed good or
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better
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fully two-thirds are deemed mediocre or
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worse and a really large number a lot
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worse
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so we have this thing that's incredibly
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important but we're just not very good
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at it
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isn't that interesting so what is it
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that's going wrong well we obviously
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have good intentions right who here sets
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out to punish their audience with slides
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you you don't do that
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i think it's actually more interesting
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that i think what's happening is despite
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our good intentions
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we get lured away we get seduced into
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doing really really stupid things i
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think
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a nice image here is kind of the sirens
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of old um do you remember the sirens
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that would lure away sailors you know
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unsuspecting sailors onto the rocks this
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is a
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painting for a woman called ariel
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burgess this is us this is what happens
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to us so this is you here this is your
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big upcoming presentation your big
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moment
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here are the rocks you're about to crash
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on and sink on
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so what's doing that what's luring you
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away well i would argue it's these three
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deceptions or three sirens the siren of
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slides the siren of style
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with a girl doing her hair i like that
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and the siren of success
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now let's talk about these
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the siren slides i think we all
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understand we just are so addicted to
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our technology when it comes to
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presentations for many of us
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presentation equals slides but that's
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really weird
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so here you've got to do this big
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presentation what's the first thing you
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do you open up powerpoint and you start
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typing and you start typing it feels
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good because you get the illusion of
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progress
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but what's interesting is you keep
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typing and you keep typing and all that
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typing may mean you're not actually
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doing the thinking that you should be
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doing
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and so i'll often what will happen is
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that would lead us to absolute madness
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i'll often liken sort of powerpoint and
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keynote to tequila in the sense that
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they're not inherently evil but given
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the right circumstances they will make
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you do some really stupid things and um
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and you know exactly where this ends up
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i mean this is a slide deck built by one
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of the world's leading technology
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companies they were trying to win a
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monster deal with this deck
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but guess what for a two-hour meeting
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guess what they built 121
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slides
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with just absurd complexity and tiny
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little fonts that only dogs can hear i
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mean it's just madness right
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my wife is a counselor she recently
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attended an online seminar on depression
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and it was it was just one of these
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slide fire hoses and i asked her after i
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said hey honey what did you learn i
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didn't learn anything except now i
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actually am depressed which is
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that's not the outcome that we're
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looking for at all so the first
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deception the first way we are deceived
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into stupidity is through slight
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the second one is really interesting
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it's the siren of style
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because we've been told right great
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communication is this
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eye contact and body language and power
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posing like really
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that is just palpably absurd how many of
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you ever left any presentation and said
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i really hate it i didn't make any eye
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contact with me at all it was
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disgraceful of course you died we don't
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even think about that but there are
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there are companies out there dozens of
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them in fact a whole industry
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that still wants to tell you that that's
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what you need to get right it's lunacy
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i can prove it a couple of years ago
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i was asked to speak at a company's
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leadership conference i was done and
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they said stick around to the end
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because the ceo is going to do this
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closing keynote he's absolutely amazing
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so okay so i stuck around
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and he gets up at the end and he checks
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every box he's got the eye contact of a
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peregrine falcon he's got the body
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language of kramer from seinfeld he's
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witty he's funny
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he's got this impeccable suit there's no
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nerves he's checking every box
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except what i noticed was his subject
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was
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the 10 things we must get right this
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year they were really very good but
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there was no narrative flow or story
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within the ten things i thought well
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that's very interesting anyway so it
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comes to an end
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the crowd goes wild they're throwing
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flowers they're throwing underwear i
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mean it's a bit cultish
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um
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and anyway but then then the meeting
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comes to an end it's true story and i
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grab somewhat well not the underwear
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part but the true story and i just
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grabbed somebody at the end i said what
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do you think he goes oh it was amazing i
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said yeah it was can i ask you a
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question
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how many of the ten things could you
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name for me please
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two
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that is a profound story because what
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that tells is most of what we've been
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told about communications is actually
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wrong
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this guy had checked every box of
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traditional thinking but he had totally
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failed as a communicator and that's what
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happens when you're deceived into
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a prioritizing style over substance
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now the third deception the third siren
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is really the most interesting it's not
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the one we think about very much
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i'm going to call this the the the siren
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of success and what i'm going to argue
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is
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almost all of us do not actually
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understand what success is in
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communication that seems like a strange
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statement so let me just it's much
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easier if i just draw it for you so let
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me just draw it for you
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so hopefully this will appear on screen
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yep great so this is you
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and you're making
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a big presentation to your boss let's
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imagine you're trying to get this big
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project funded it's really important to
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you
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now is that meeting important
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yeah so you want it to go on you come
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out like yeah i nailed it but what's the
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problem is that the most important
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meeting
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no never why because the decision
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doesn't get made there sometime later
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um there's another meeting
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and it's a meeting you don't get invited
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to
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and at this meeting the decision-making
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body is actually going to decide on
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whether your project gets funded or not
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now that's really interesting because
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when you think about it that way what
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you realize is you know is this
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important that this goes well yes but
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actually what is more important
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is that this person
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can effectively
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retell
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your story
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so what i would argue is the single most
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important word in communications is
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actually
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retailability
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or representability
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because this is always true in sales
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this is the buying group in business
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this is the management committee or the
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board if you are talking to a donor this
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is the grant committee it's always true
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now this should change the way we think
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about communications completely because
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the deception is we fixate on the first
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meeting so we think yeah first meeting
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success but no no no no
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is your message so crisp so clean so
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compelling that actually
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you can achieve second meeting success
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now that's really profound
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so those are our three deceptions the
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lies we've been told that cause us to do
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really stupid things how many of us here
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have been deceived by one or all three
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of these things okay all of us so the
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question becomes
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how do you solve this can this be solved
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and that's not an academic question
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because every one of you in this room
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will have many
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many times in your lives
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where you're making a really important
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presentation
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and it really really needs to go well
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so this is personal
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how do you make sure you can do that
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well
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there is actually a tool i want to show
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you that will completely defeat these
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three sirens i know ted talks are lofty
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and they don't always descend into the
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practical but i want to give you a very
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very practical tool here
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the tool
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is called
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the pyramid of planned outcome
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and and it's incredibly simple it's
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cocktail napkin stuff so if i was
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building any message presentation
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anything including a ted talk what would
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i do well i'd start at the top
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and i'm simply going to think about what
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is it that i want my audience to do what
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action do i want them to take what
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decision do i want them to make
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and that's very very important
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but what that raises a very interesting
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question how do we make decisions
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well let me illustrate that
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imagine i wanted you to make a decision
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which was to raise your hand and play a
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game with me we don't have time we won't
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do it
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and here are the rules of the game
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i'll ask you a simple trivia question if
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you get it right you get ten dollars get
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it wrong you owe me one dollar and you
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can ask a friend for help if you want
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now if we played that game
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somebody here would raise their hand and
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the moment you did that the moment you
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raised your hand you would be
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illustrating one of the single most
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important
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principles of communication which is
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this
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in human beings action is preceded by
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belief in other words we take decisions
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based on the beliefs we have about that
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decision so if you had raised your hand
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it would have been for three reasons one
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is i believe i could probably answer
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that he said it was easy
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two is um i like the risk reward ten for
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one yeah that works and three is i'm not
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going to be embarrassed because i can
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get help if i need it right
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and i can prove that so i said i'm going
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to ask you a question from particle
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physics it's 20 if you win 20 to me if
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you lose and you're on your own
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do you still make a decision yes not
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going to play that game why three new
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beliefs i'm not going to be able to
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answer that question i hate the risk
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reward and i'm bound to be embarrassed
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so come with me on this so if in human
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beings action is preceded by a belief
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and if that's true what that means is
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the single most important question you
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ever ask when designing any presentation
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is this
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well what does my audience need to
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believe
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in order to take the action i want them
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to take to hire me whatever it is
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now
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you think that through and you write
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that in the middle of this pyramid and
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what that gives you is a small number of
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beliefs or big ideas
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that's what we want a powerful
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ideas driven narrative
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now once you've got there it's
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relatively straightforward if you know
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what the beliefs are then you simply ask
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a final question
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okay well what would my audience need to
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know
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in order to believe that what sort of
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facts or data or proofs and you just
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write them at the bottom kind of aligned
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under the supporting idea
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it's incredibly simple
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but it's incredibly powerful
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now
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i get that that's totally academic and
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theoretical so let me kind of wrap up by
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showing you a really really powerful
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example of this in in real life
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i was asked to speak
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at a fundraising banquet for a
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non-profit that wanted to raise money
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for an overnight shelter for homeless
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teenagers
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this is a tragic situation and one that
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absolutely needs to be solved
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so i sat down to think about you know
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how would i do this this banquet
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presentation
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well the action obviously is very
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straightforward wanted people to give to
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the overnight shelter
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so now i start thinking about okay well
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what would the audience need to believe
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that's really interesting i spoke to the
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executive director and she said it's
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really interesting
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homeless teenagers will make themselves
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look really scary
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but they do that to defend themselves
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against the many dangers that they face
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because it's such a perilous environment
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but the weird thing about that is the
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donors would look at these really scary
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kids and go i don't want to give to them
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they're just bad kids
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so the light goes on in my brain like
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okay
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there's the first big idea the first big
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idea is guys these are not bad kids
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they deserve our love not our
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condemnation that was in fact my opening
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now that's good but it doesn't quite get
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you there because i also knew the
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audience would know that this
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organization had a daycare center
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so they could easily look at this and go
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well okay they're not bad kids but but
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we already have a daycare center don't
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we yes except
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second big idea
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the real danger comes after dark what
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happens when a kid is put out on the
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street at seven o'clock at night in the
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middle of january
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now by the way at this point you can
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just see a really good example of how
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you can prove any idea how would i have
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proved that idea i do that with one
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picture
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just a kid sleeping in a dumpster it's a
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picture that they had at this
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organization sleeping in the dumpster in
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the middle of winter
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now that's great it's not quite there
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yet so they would they would get that
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they're not bad kids they get that
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they're in danger but they might easily
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be asking well
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okay but but is this the best use of my
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money i mean there's a lot of places i
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can give is this a really good place to
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invest i think that led to the final
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and very powerful idea because what i
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wanted to get what i needed them to
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believe is that this isn't just any old
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fundraising banquet and any old need in
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fact
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you're going to save a life tonight
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your gift will actually save lives
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and there it is that was the
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intellectual argument the intellectual
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architecture of an eight-minute
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presentation now what i want you to see
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is how it completely solves my three
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problems
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not even thinking about slides okay i'll
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get to slides later but what i'm
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thinking about is the intellectual
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architecture and that's what matters so
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the slide tail isn't wagging the content
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dog
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so slides yes but later the second thing
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it completely solves the style siren i'm
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not thinking about how i'm going to
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present this
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i'm thinking about what i need to say
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and why i'll think about how i present
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it later
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and then finally and most importantly
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i've completely solved my retail ability
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problem because a crisp simple ideas
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driven narrative
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is the most retellable story you can
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tell because ideas are so sticky to the
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brain
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and hello isn't that what ted is in fact
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all about
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so this model and tool is literally
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cocktail napkin stuff and it will
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completely transform your communication
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you're probably wondering did we raise
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the money and we did
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it was very successful and that was very
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very important
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but the only reason i'm telling you that
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um
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is is because this is you
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all of you here all of us have many
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times in our lives where we need to make
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a critical presentation and it needs to
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go well and we cannot afford
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to be dragged onto the rocks of any of
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those three problems
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and that's what i hope you can take out
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of this morning so so what was my action
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i want you to commit to being a better
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world-class communicator and how can you
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get there it's three key ideas number
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one communication is vital we need to be
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good at it so beware the three sirens
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two
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retail ability is the standard to aim
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for and it is the key that will unlock
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everything else
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and three
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the pyramid is the tool that will get
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you there
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thank you very much for your time
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Most people understand that communication is a vitally important skill in life and business...and yet most people still struggle to communicate effectively. In this vibrant Tedx Talk, Tim Pollard unpacks why and how most communication goes wrong and presents a powerful tool for the design of world-class communication. Tim is the Founder and CEO of Oratium and author of The Compelling Communicator: Mastering the Art and Science of Exceptional Presentation Design. Throughout a long career in Sales and Marketing for companies such as Unilever, Barclays Bank and the Corporate Executive Board, Tim has almost obsessively sought to understand and capture the underlying “science” of extraordinary communication. The result of this journey has been the development of a unique set of tools and concepts, and a remarkable ability to coach others in the learnable processes of exceptional communications. As a leading thinker in his field, Tim is a regular columnist for Forbes and Entrepreneur, and a highly sought-after speaker in the area of advanced communication skills, with particular emphasis on executive communications, sales messaging and donor messaging. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/about/programs-initiatives/tedx-program

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