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Well, in the meantime, we are starting our
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master class, rebooting the past to
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build a happier present
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and future, and the name, well, it
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sounds a little bit magically change
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the past, yes, not much, not little, but we
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can’t change the past,
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we can change what do you think, no
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we can change our perception of this
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past, yes, because the past does not
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exist, just as there is no
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future, that is,
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these things do not exist, that is, we live in the
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moment here and now and only our organs connect us to
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this moment here now
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feelings, that is, I see it, I hear it,
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and feelings, yes, that is, these things
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connect us with reality, but there is also a
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smell, taste, yes, that is, these things also
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help us somehow linger here until now,
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but the past is only in our
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thoughts in our memories in the form of a
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certain model, I
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’ll tell you a little later, yes, in order to
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change the perception of the past, you need to
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understand what model, what
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structure it is organized in, and if you and I
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know this, what we can change,
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my name is Kirill, let me introduce myself a little,
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yes, I’m a master trainer of
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neuro-linguistic programming
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coaching trainer, master of
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business administration, this is a business
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education, and as I already said, I
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spend a lot of time on
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individual consultations, well,
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as I said, five six or seven thousand
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hours have already conducted consultations over the
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past 10 years,
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and
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I also conduct a lot of courses on
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neurolinguistic programming
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and coaching mainly involves training
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specialists in the field of NLP and training
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coaches, and I also prepare trainers
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who could teach these
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programs, that is, I mainly
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specialized in
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certification programs where at the
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end of the training we carry out certification and
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issue a specialized certificate
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that allows
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to consult or become a
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professional coach, yes, that is,
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okay, well, let’s little by little return to the topic,
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I’ll try to tell you
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some cases,
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well, there are cases from my practice, it may be
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similar to this topic that I’m now and I
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went there, so look,
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thinking, the brain is designed in this way, to
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what we we come into contact with the present
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moment only with the help of these
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our senses, we
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understood this, but where did it go then, what is
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there to change at all, look at everything that
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we see, hear her feelings, our brain
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remembers absolutely everything down to every second and Milton
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Ericsson founder of Rex Annensky
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hypnosis Aldous Huxley Aldous Huxley
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is a man who experimented with
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altered states of consciousness,
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including with the help of LSD but also other
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psychotropic drugs, but even without this
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and with the help of hypnosis, in general, these two
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people carried out some experiments,
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but they are one of first, yes, that is, you led
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such a hypothesis, you proved it in practice,
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and that a person remembers
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absolutely everything that he sees, hears and
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feels, the problem is that not everything, for
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example, he can remember, yes, that is,
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this means that everything is on the hard drive,
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but not I can pull everything out onto the top desk in my
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consciousness, that is, I can’t remember everything, I
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have access to everything,
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simply, in fact,
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everyone has access, each of those sitting
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here also has this access, but in order
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to gain access to your
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memories
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that were somewhere far, far away,
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for example, when you were 2 years old or 3
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years old, or just some other
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memory, this requires
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certain skills, that is, the skills of
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immersing yourself in a trance state,
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so look at the search Huxley and Milton
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Ericsson carried out very
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interesting experiments on this topic and
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Ericsson gave Huxley one of his
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books from Huxley’s books from his library, yes,
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but which he read a very very long time ago
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there 15 or 20 years ago, that is, he
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pulled it out at random from his library, you
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just needed to make sure
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only that Huxley read these books,
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that these books were other things, and so
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Ericsson took a book, put
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Huxley
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into a deep trance, opened the book in
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some country of value there in the middle of the
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book, for example, began to
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read the text of this book to him in a trance and then in
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hypnosis asked Huxley on which
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page this text was written, but
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imagine someone can
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remember this consciously, well, nonsense,
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right, so Huxley answered on
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which page without error, without error,
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but when he regained consciousness, Ericsson
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asked him about the same thing, he naturally did not
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remember what page was associated with
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this text and this experiment
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was repeated many times over many times
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Huxley gave out the correct page of
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text as from which he once read there
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10-15-20 years ago, and that is, and here is an
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interesting moment and we can say that this is what
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comes out of
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our past from our memory what am I
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leading to all this, yes it is, as it were, in our
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memory,
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but look, memory is not just memory, yes, that
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is, but I can remember something and
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cannot remember something, yes there is, as it were,
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such a concept as a certain such
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short-term memory, yes, that is, we can
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pull out some elements that
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we need to solve some problems
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here now, and from this point of view,
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look, the following thing turns out that you and I
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inevitably live in the past, well, that
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is, we constantly live in the past then
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there is, in order for
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us to perceive our present today, we need to
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turn to the past, we don’t do this
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consciously, our operating system is responsible for this,
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our brain is responsible, that is, how it works,
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but we don’t track or record all these moments
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in order to, for example,
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read here this text up to
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which is written here
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and on the slides we also need to turn to
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the past,
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what do you think is this true and how
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does it happen, what do you think,
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yes, you once learned letters and you know,
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well, by profession, I do a lot of
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modeling of mental processes and in
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neurolinguistic programming
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there is such an interesting thing is how a
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spelling strategy is used, that is, a person can
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build in a spelling strategy
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to model and someone who, for example,
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writes correctly and the model is very simple,
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in fact, look, in order for us to
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read this text, we need to compare
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these words in general, these letters with
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ready-made images
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of how these words somewhere we saw
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earlier in books in an ABC book
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or somewhere else and for a split second
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images pop up in our head so
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that we can compare what we see
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with what is inside on these images
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we have written this is understandable and that there is a
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recognition system, if we don’t have
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such a system,
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then we cannot read anything at all,
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we cannot recognize a person’s face,
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for example, recognize his voice, and so on, that
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is, here is the brain when, for example, we
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meet with some person, that is,
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he necessarily turns to the past in
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order to recognize it in general, and
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now look further at what I am
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leading to in order for us to solve
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any problem. Now, look, I
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present to you the micro models of our thinking,
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this is a micro model, but there are macro macro
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models that are responsible for more complex
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processes, for example, the decision-making process
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is a very complex process, very
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complex,
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that is, the brain, at the moment of making a decision,
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how to say, sifts through a huge
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database and this database is all
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sensory, that is, these are images, sounds and
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feelings from the past, that is, how
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other people act, as we accepted
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solution in such situations and so on,
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that is, it’s very, but
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that is, let’s say, look at option,
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for example, consequences number one,
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for example, we take up to
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option last number one option
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of consequences, example of solution number 2, we
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are still starting to think about how it
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will be reflected in general in the future, yes, that is
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this is a very large amount of information
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we need to sift through, so look,
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we don’t think about these processes,
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and this macro template is already
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memorized, you remember I said at the
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very beginning of today’s event
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that 80 percent of us are
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robotic, that is, we
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we use already memorized templates and don’t
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change them, that is, we just use what we
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already know and everything is faster,
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simply and simply, and sometimes the situation,
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for example, life consists of the fact that we
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don’t have time, we need to
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make decisions very quickly and then we turn even more strongly
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only to only with a memorized
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template, we no one goes into a book and
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looks for a decision-making model there,
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look for a burry square there and so on,
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yes, but this is unlikely, although it would be
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useful, no one opens a book there,
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the theory of solving inventive problems, no
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one does brain work there by storm
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practically, but although it would be necessary, it
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would be necessary in order to make more
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effective decisions, so all these things are
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neuro-linguistic programming 3
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of the same coaching and and and so on
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and so on, they are all needed in order to
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become more effective,
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first of all, decide some existing
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tasks and, of course, become more effective
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in relation to achieving
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existing life goals, because when a
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person feels bad, for example, yes, but for example, he
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feels some feelings that he
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would not want to feel, for example, a lot of
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fear, a lot of resentment, a lot of shame,
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a lot of guilt, yes, such a slight
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neurotic can be a state of
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situational neurosis, but in
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such a state a person loses in working capacity before in
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efficiency, and I always say
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this thing, I already said today, that
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personal growth is only possible
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if you have serious
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life goals, if there is no goal and there are
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no serious life goals, then there is nowhere develop from
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no vector there is no direction yes why
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change there is no point it is good that is, we have
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already figured out that the model
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of the past
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is just a model and
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we are in the past of our very birth
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in interaction with our parents,
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first of all, but also with teachers, of course,
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too yes then friends and acquaintances
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memorized a certain number of certain
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templates before making decisions about the perception
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of this world, they
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internalized some certain beliefs, and so
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they became some kind of personality in
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the end, so
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this personality consists
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largely of these templates and, as I already
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said, these templates or make us
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effective or ineffective and how
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can we even find these patterns, what do you
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think that hinder us and the task is
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simple, in fact you set
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some goal, start moving towards it
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and understand that, for example, you wanted to
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learn a language but there is no motivation, for example, yes
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some simple thing they wanted a new
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job for these oh there is no such and such
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ability
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and the ability to learn such and such to implement
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laziness laziness or look at another
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point when you, for example, work at
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some job you don’t really
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like it yes but you would also like to
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leave them in order to get more money there,
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work in a better team, but have
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more bonuses of some kind and so on,
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yes, but you don’t believe that they
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will take you somewhere like that, where, for example, is it
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better, that is, I have no self-confidence,
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yes, well, such things oh and come out with such
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a belief, for example, there every cricket
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knows its nest
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inside the floor in absentia of a belief, but it
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turns out that it was regularly spoken to
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you by your mother there or your grandmother or
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your dad and here the cricket
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is sitting on its nest, but it’s like such a
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model, yes, that is, this is an
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ordinary one a simple template, we do
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n’t blame anyone, we don’t want to blame anyone in any way,
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because well, what did they learn there,
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they learned, but the point here is a little
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different, the thing is that from about 18
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years old, yes, a person takes
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responsibility for his own life that is,
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now he doesn’t live in the past about the future, that
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is, he himself must
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set some goals for his own future, but look, there are
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no goals, no development, and then he woke up
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there at 30, 40 or 50 and you’re crying, I want to do
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something like that, but here I am, of course I’ll say
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that it’s never too late to start building
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your different future, yes, that is, it’s
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never too late, good, and thus, look,
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if we set some goal, took
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some steps towards this goal, and we also
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encountered some limitations,
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yes, these could be limiting
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beliefs, lack abilities and the
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absence of some kind of faith to the lack of
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hope, this most often can
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be limitations,
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self-doubt, shame, slightly
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low self-esteem, then only by changing
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these things we can achieve our goal, that is, these
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things are in the past, that
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is, accordingly, for this purpose in order to have a
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better future, we need to change our
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attitude towards those situations that were
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in the past, this seminar is
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only about this and it would seem, well, it’s
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logical, and so,
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thinking in the present, these things are not
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connected, but in what I feel now with the fact
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that whether I will be successful in the future or
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not, but this is exactly how it works, that’s the
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only way it works, yes, because if
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you, for example, come to see a
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psychotherapist and
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deal with the problems of your childhood,
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this does not guarantee you that you
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will become a successful businessman.
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but this will increase the chances, this
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will greatly increase the chances, that is, if
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you have such a goal,
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you understand, yes, the idea, the idea is very simple, that
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is, to implement it too, in principle, you
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just need to just set goals and
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understand what restrictions you have on the
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way to achieving these goals and
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look, this is some model of thinking
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of neurolinguistic programming, and
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here it’s like the world is reality, and
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some events happen in this world,
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and these events, as I say, they always
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have a zero value, a zero value, and
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they themselves don’t mean anything, that
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is, they happen like some fact
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like just some event further through the
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senses I see I hear a feeling this
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information video images of sounds and
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certain sensations of states comes
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to us
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thinking let's say so here
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perception filters begin to work here there is
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removal of information
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distortion of information and generalization of
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information then further we have
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language filters,
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well, look, one person has a
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vocabulary of 3000 words, and someone has
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300, who do you think will understand and
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explain better, but the one who has 300 thousand
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up to some words before the linguistic
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component of language, then look at the
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most powerful filters of perception through
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which all this
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sensory information that we receive is filtered,
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this belief is this belief, that is, if a
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person does not believe in something, then the brain
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begins to selectively show
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him a picture, that is, he does not see
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some things in which he is
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not believes all this is also an already proven
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fact is clear yes the idea,
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that is, he really may not see
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some things in which he does not believe yes no
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says this does not exist and that’s all and the
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concept of such a thing is not invented in this
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these are all values ​​yes this is the basis of our
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motivation yes, that is, what is important for us,
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what is necessary for us, this is also a very
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important thing that works as a filter
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of perception for us, that is, again,
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yes, if we are talking about setting
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goals, then a person’s goals are a reflection of his
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internal values, that is, external
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goals are a reflection of internal values, then
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there are goals that we set outside, yes, that is, to
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get something, to achieve something
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outside in this world, this is all a reflection of
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our values, and these are our
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values, and there are deeper filters
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that are not generally realized by a person.
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I’ll say some so
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as not to delay time, as
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examples, for example, look at one person,
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for example, well,
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give detail or abstraction in relation to information, that
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is, one person pays attention in
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life in general, that is, in his perception
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visually, for example auditorily, to
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kinesthetic physically, he can
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distinguish details and the other cannot
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distinguish details and sees only
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globally. Americans on this topic say
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to see through the eyes of a mouse, yes, that is, this is a
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detailed perception of information, or through
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the eyes of an eagle, and so people are divided into two
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categories, that is, one visit through the eyes of a
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mouse and the other sees through the eyes of an eagle,
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neither that nor then it’s not something better, yes,
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that is, it’s a program that we have,
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that is, and it changes, this program is
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memorized, yes, we can change exactly these patterns,
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that is, but we must
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first catch them of a we catch them as
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some restrictions regarding goals
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and desire that we want to get
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because we can’t catch the program
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just like that, well, as if it is, but I
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want to change it, why should you change it, maybe
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you’d be better off with a set like this, maybe
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you’d be better off, for example, living with a program,
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seeing the details like through the eyes of a mouse
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because you, for example, are an accountant
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and would like to achieve even more in this,
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and there you need details, you understand, and it’s up
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to some editor, that is, they
00:22:26
don’t need the eyes of an eagle,
00:22:28
but if you want to become, for example,
00:22:31
some kind of top manager, top manager
00:22:34
managers need eyes there, but
00:22:36
why, in order to see the
00:22:39
big picture and understand where to lead people where to
00:22:41
finish finishing the company there should not
00:22:43
be a vision,
00:22:44
but now look if you have a
00:22:47
program only through the eyes of a mouse,
00:22:50
can you be a manager now no
00:22:54
not yet change these things, well, if
00:22:57
you have a goal, for example, to become
00:22:59
some kind of top manager or open your own
00:23:01
large enterprise of some kind
00:23:02
international, you will have to
00:23:05
crawl from the eyes of a mouse to the eyes of an
00:23:09
eagle, this process takes, well, if you
00:23:12
consciously learn this, but maybe
00:23:15
half it will take about a year, yes, that is, with the
00:23:17
help of various kinds of psychotechnologies,
00:23:20
this can be achieved, this can be obtained,
00:23:23
that is, you can reprogram yourself,
00:23:26
well, let’s take another such program, let’s
00:23:28
take these things in general, people are not
00:23:30
aware of them, they are simply not realized at all, that
00:23:33
is, if you have never thought about them haven’t read
00:23:35
never knew you don’t see these things
00:23:37
that is look there such an interesting
00:23:40
thing in our thinking that the eyes are already
00:23:44
adjusted to the eyes of a mouse and the eyes are already
00:23:47
adjusted to the eyes of an eagle when this
00:23:50
program works it works 24 to 7
00:23:53
that is, it always works and even thoughts about
00:23:56
thoughts will be connected with these programs
00:23:59
with the eyes of a mouse from the love eye can you
00:24:02
imagine yes, that is, it’s like a
00:24:04
program it’s fixated on itself
00:24:07
the next such program for example one
00:24:11
person visit the similarities are greater and the other
00:24:14
sees more differences the similarities and
00:24:18
differences are two different things but this is the
00:24:20
most important a program for survival,
00:24:22
for example, that is, when you choose
00:24:24
fruits, you, for example, in a store at
00:24:28
the market and so on, this program is turned on,
00:24:30
that is, let’s say you
00:24:32
already have some good fruit, right,
00:24:34
so look, some of you are looking for
00:24:38
fruits by type of difference,
00:24:41
other subtypes similarity, well, that is, you
00:24:44
take two oranges and see what the
00:24:46
difference is between them, this program is the
00:24:50
differences, and another person takes 2 oranges and
00:24:54
looks at what they are similar to or how they are
00:24:57
similar to those that I would like and the other person
00:25:02
is looking for how they are not similar to those that
00:25:05
I would not like to understand the difference to a small thing
00:25:10
like a small thing in fact it’s not a
00:25:13
small thing why because look at the
00:25:18
person who has a leading program
00:25:20
for example searching for differences
00:25:23
yes it will be more difficult for him to communicate in
00:25:26
society with other people
00:25:28
why because he will
00:25:32
constantly look for differences in how you and I are
00:25:35
different, he will think about it all the time,
00:25:37
yes, I differ from you in this this
00:25:41
this this and he thereby moves away from
00:25:43
you knock knock knock knock knock the more I am
00:25:45
different the further I am from you and the more
00:25:47
difficult it is for me in general, to build
00:25:49
a dialogue with you, the more you look, I’m looking for a convergence with
00:25:53
you, but we are similar here, and this is what
00:25:57
we have the same, and this is how we
00:25:59
think together, and so on and so forth, and these
00:26:02
people, for example, if they choose some kind of
00:26:04
profession, then they more suitable is something
00:26:08
related to some kind of communication, but
00:26:10
look further, I personally modeled and
00:26:15
analyzed a lot of people and with the program, the
00:26:18
similarities from the program are the
00:26:20
differences, so look at the people from the
00:26:23
program, the differences, what do you think, where do they
00:26:25
mostly work, what do you think, are the
00:26:32
critics the first programmers
00:26:37
inspectors, for example, quality control,
00:26:40
yes, I need a lot of different
00:26:43
things, that is, basically this is not working
00:26:46
with people, that is, something that does not concern
00:26:50
people because it
00:26:52
will be a little difficult for them to communicate with people,
00:26:54
and those people who have
00:26:57
similar programs work mainly with people that
00:27:00
is, they are effective and communicators or
00:27:02
more effective communicators than 1, this is
00:27:04
such a simple thing, yes,
00:27:07
look at such programs from a person 51 51
00:27:12
and we take this in courses on
00:27:15
neurolinguistic programming,
00:27:16
imagine that well, this is some kind of
00:27:22
lattice, I won’t regret the sheet, this is a
00:27:32
lattice from 51 programs and we look at
00:27:37
this world through such a lattice, and then
00:27:42
we still have beliefs, a language of
00:27:46
generalization, distortion of removal, and well,
00:27:50
some simple patterns of mental
00:27:52
attitudes there, and so on and so forth, yes, that
00:27:54
is, now imagine if you don’t
00:27:57
know everything this at different levels, yes, that is,
00:28:01
you don’t know anything about yourself and
00:28:04
are trying to become more successful, who will become more
00:28:10
successful, what do you think, is the person
00:28:12
who knows all this for himself or the one
00:28:14
who doesn’t know, but the answer is obvious,
00:28:19
probably, that is, the answer is obvious, this is what
00:28:23
neuro-linguistic programming generally teaches
00:28:24
in first of all, know
00:28:26
yourself,
00:28:27
first from here we begin to study
00:28:30
ourselves, then we set goals and begin
00:28:34
to understand where
00:28:35
and what thing is failing and we do not
00:28:38
stop on the path to achieving our
00:28:42
goals, but simply change some thing, move
00:28:46
on, change some thing and move
00:28:48
on and you know what an interesting
00:28:50
thing, every person lives on their own
00:28:54
site at their own level at their own level of
00:28:58
success, yes, that is, we are all
00:29:00
successful in our own way, yes, that is, this is a fact,
00:29:04
but when for example you look at it,
00:29:10
let’s imagine that you live here,
00:29:13
well, lazy and there or someone else before
00:29:16
some kind of subject, let’s say soup
00:29:19
subject n lives for example here and this,
00:29:23
well, let’s say so here is zero, this is
00:29:27
some kind of house devastation in life, let’s
00:29:30
imagine chaos, devastation in life
00:29:35
devastation, yes, and he lives like this for himself here and
00:29:40
with him, in principle, everything is fine,
00:29:42
yes, that is, well, he goes to the store, goes to
00:29:44
work, watches TV speed
00:29:48
where is the hour until like all normal people,
00:29:51
for example, but they read some books,
00:29:53
well, simple ones, some simple books,
00:29:55
some novels, and so on, well and he
00:29:58
lives like this here, he lives and everything is
00:30:00
fine with him and he, for example, doesn’t know
00:30:04
that some people live here, although he
00:30:07
guesses that some live here a
00:30:09
little higher up, well, it’s more comfortable, they have
00:30:12
something else there, a little bit better, there are
00:30:14
cars and something else. so on then
00:30:18
look like this like this and then there is
00:30:20
this level
00:30:21
and there is also this level so this is what
00:30:28
I want to tell you to convey to you and I don’t
00:30:34
consider goals when a person, for example,
00:30:38
tries to realize some of his
00:30:41
desires in the plane of this
00:30:44
step, well, that is, when he doesn’t go
00:30:46
higher, that’s what I want to say
00:30:48
with clear reach, that is, the goals that we
00:30:51
set on the same plane, this routine, this
00:30:56
routine, and the goals that we set to
00:31:00
move to a higher level,
00:31:03
here’s the goal we set here, they
00:31:07
require everything absolutely
00:31:10
personal development personal
00:31:13
development otherwise you can’t get here
00:31:15
why but because you would already be here
00:31:18
well or not in another person there subject
00:31:21
number and so on, that is, not
00:31:24
specifically the right to take and then look
00:31:27
how interesting what happens next is a person
00:31:30
of some kind time you sat down with the supply then the goal
00:31:33
before you start to develop personally is
00:31:38
to upgrade your values ​​beliefs
00:31:40
the filter of perception went to an NLP course there
00:31:43
for example yes well and such a one with difficulty in half
00:31:47
climbed here lives like that walks here for
00:31:50
a year and a half gets used to this
00:31:53
level and he gets used to the person gets used
00:31:55
to for some time he adapts to a
00:31:58
new level of life, in fact,
00:32:01
because life there is always different and
00:32:06
when he gets used to this level, what do you
00:32:09
think happens to him, he becomes
00:32:14
bored, he becomes bored and he
00:32:18
begins to throw his thoughts
00:32:21
at a higher level in the
00:32:23
form of some kind of goals, again about here goals, and
00:32:27
each person has their own speed,
00:32:30
and in fact, this whole ladder of
00:32:34
growth that I described here was not
00:32:38
invented by me before it was described a long time ago by one
00:32:41
of the founders of
00:32:43
humanistic psychology, Abraham
00:32:45
Maslow, remember when he described
00:32:49
the needs then there is the same
00:32:52
pyramid of needs, it’s just that here
00:32:55
you realize some needs and when
00:32:57
you are already full of these needs, you have
00:33:00
no hunger, then the next
00:33:02
level opens, that is, the next portal
00:33:04
opens, the problem is that what
00:33:10
prevents a person from seeing again a new
00:33:14
level of life is that his filters perception,
00:33:19
he may not see him at all, say yes, it
00:33:22
can’t be that people live like that, yes,
00:33:25
well, he hypothetically understands everything, yes,
00:33:27
well, it’s as if it’s not for him and he remains
00:33:30
where he is, and the worst thing here is
00:33:34
that on his deathbed
00:33:37
to he has a lot of regrets
00:33:40
that he didn’t live his life like that, this is the
00:33:44
worst thing that can happen to a person
00:33:47
when he starts to regret
00:33:50
that he lived his life, so it’s understandable, yes,
00:33:54
models of thinking, well, that is, in
00:34:01
principle, I already told you this slide what it’s
00:34:03
all about our thinking
00:34:07
consists of let's say that inside our thinking
00:34:12
in content consists of images of sounds of
00:34:15
feelings that we have ever remembered
00:34:18
that we have ever seen and from all
00:34:20
these images of sounds and feelings
00:34:24
all our patterns of behavior of thinking and
00:34:27
feeling
00:34:28
perception are held together, well, this is what I
00:34:31
told me to look at the world through the eyes of a mouse
00:34:33
or through the eyes of an eagle
00:34:34
to have, for example, a motivation of avoidance or a
00:34:39
motivation of abundance,
00:34:40
this is another program, that is, I
00:34:43
unconsciously believe that the world is a friendly
00:34:46
universe where there are plenty of resources and there is
00:34:50
enough for everyone, so I have nothing to
00:34:53
fear and there is no need to rush that
00:34:57
or
00:34:58
is the world a terrible place where rudeness reigns,
00:35:02
redneckness, and survival of the fittest are
00:35:06
two different types of thinking in terms of motivation, yes, that
00:35:10
is, from and to, that is, from the fear of trouble and
00:35:13
problems, or to values, goals and
00:35:16
abundance, that is, even now, entire
00:35:20
books there is on this topic, you probably
00:35:22
read there thinking abundance there, saw
00:35:24
what books, well, that is, it’s just about
00:35:26
one program, but that is, this is a book about
00:35:29
one program of which 51 were published,
00:35:32
that is, thinking was hammered, it’s just one
00:35:34
program on how to think in which direction
00:35:39
the problem is not in fact, yes,
00:35:45
yes, I am such a person, I am such a person, yes, I
00:35:56
had the total eyes of an eagle, that
00:36:00
is, I didn’t see any details at all,
00:36:02
only this is all developing, the question is how yes,
00:36:06
that is, simple, and in general,
00:36:09
this is accessible to every person before development, well, it’s the
00:36:12
same thing learn speed reading
00:36:14
learn English
00:36:15
this is the same task a task at the
00:36:18
cognitive level, that is, at the level of
00:36:20
thinking, there is nothing complicated here, there is nothing complicated here, that
00:36:23
is, the question is absolutely accessible to everyone here,
00:36:26
I say again, yes for what and
00:36:28
why for what and why that is the most
00:36:31
important thing, so look conditionally or
00:36:38
maybe not very conventionally speaking,
00:36:41
a person perceives time as a certain
00:36:46
line that goes
00:36:49
if you are right-handed from left to right from left to
00:36:55
right in the middle the present on the
00:36:58
left usually in people if you are right-handed is
00:37:02
the past and on the right is
00:37:05
the future how to check this, yes, that is, as
00:37:10
in in general, we came to this before one of the
00:37:14
developers of neurolinguistic
00:37:16
programming at the dawn of this discipline,
00:37:20
so James, whose teacher I
00:37:24
had the honor of studying for
00:37:25
seven years, just proposed
00:37:29
some idea that
00:37:32
but there is just a dependence, for
00:37:36
example, the perception of the past,
00:37:39
present and future in connection with
00:37:42
space and with the left side and
00:37:46
the right side,
00:37:47
look, let’s just experiment, please
00:37:53
remember how you rested like
00:37:56
this 5 years ago somewhere on vacation,
00:38:00
please remember, well, 43 years,
00:38:04
but at least two so that you can remember and
00:38:08
you can just for a picnic or a new hunger of
00:38:11
some kind it’s so nice about
00:38:15
four-five years ago, there was something
00:38:17
nice,
00:38:22
they remembered, well, who remembered, now
00:38:27
look, those who remembered, yes, you just
00:38:32
saw the image, raise your hand if you saw the
00:38:35
image, night, everyone saw the image, now
00:38:39
tell me which side
00:38:40
this image was on, and who had it directly on the left,
00:38:47
you can raise your hand for the majority, for the
00:38:50
majority, the images of the past are
00:38:52
on the left, an
00:38:54
interesting thing, yes, this is the image of
00:38:56
one memory, where the time line came from,
00:38:59
and look, the time line
00:39:01
is hundreds of thousands of images and the past,
00:39:05
let’s say oh, we can see something in
00:39:10
the present or images of the current present
00:39:13
what happened in the context of one
00:39:16
week, for example, and one day before, and
00:39:19
we construct and images are, as it were, superimposed on a line
00:39:22
on the right side
00:39:24
about the future, that is, if I take a
00:39:27
person now and
00:39:29
take him there, do an interview 45 minutes before and
00:39:32
begin to identify these images then we will
00:39:35
identify them, they will stand like this in a stack
00:39:37
and some will stick out, some
00:39:40
will be smaller, some will be
00:39:43
larger, depending on the significance of these
00:39:45
memories, but what will unite them will
00:39:49
they all be strung together or
00:39:51
new will they all be strung on a line on the
00:39:54
line on the left side, and yes, the line
00:39:57
may be something like that, not very straight,
00:40:00
but the idea is that it will be, it will be and
00:40:03
it will be on the left side,
00:40:04
mainly except for one type of people
00:40:07
whose
00:40:08
time line program is not located like this, but
00:40:12
like this there are people who had
00:40:16
in front you had some had
00:40:19
in front the past yes this is another
00:40:23
slightly different program
00:40:25
but for most people it is located like this
00:40:27
but one way or another look the
00:40:30
human consciousness perceives a unit of
00:40:35
time 7 plus or minus 2 units of
00:40:37
information what makes it very linear
00:40:41
and linear and it makes you know what, that
00:40:44
is, if we perceive 7 plus or minus 2
00:40:48
units of information, that is, this is not a
00:40:51
minimum of 5 units of information per unit of
00:40:53
time,
00:40:54
but the maximum in this 9 means that our
00:40:58
consciousness processes a tiny
00:41:01
amount of information per unit time is
00:41:04
scanty and how can you process a tiny
00:41:08
amount of information per unit of time
00:41:11
only in a sequence or roars
00:41:15
sequence hence our
00:41:18
cause-and-effect thinking, that is,
00:41:20
we think like turtles, that is, with
00:41:23
our ordinary conscious mind, we think like
00:41:26
turtles without additional skills, for example, there is
00:41:29
the connection of unconscious resources and
00:41:32
so on further and from here we take the
00:41:34
time line because it is sequential,
00:41:37
that is, we consider events not like, for
00:41:40
example, a holographic volumetric shard
00:41:43
where
00:41:44
you look at the present there, but the past and
00:41:47
the future, yes, this is a single system
00:41:51
fixated on itself, that’s what it
00:41:54
really is,
00:41:55
but we don’t we can understand this with our
00:41:57
consciousness, remember this film on this topic is
00:42:01
very interesting
00:42:04
as I live, but there are actually
00:42:08
a lot of such films inception, for example, remember
00:42:11
Leonardo DiCaprio and filmed where there was a
00:42:14
dream in a dream a dream in a dream and so on, that
00:42:16
is, this is one of these models and here's the
00:42:20
movie interstellar who watched it
00:42:22
before interstellar and about the cookie it's
00:42:26
almost like an itch prosecutor and there
00:42:29
you look and there your brain breaks at the end in
00:42:31
general, that is, these are the films that you
00:42:34
can watch ten times
00:42:35
why because you can't understand
00:42:37
those the first time the head doesn’t pull it out, that’s
00:42:40
all, that is, the brain doesn’t pull out
00:42:42
the idea that time and space
00:42:45
can be curved like you, there are
00:42:47
multidimensional and so on, yes, well, we
00:42:50
can’t comprehend this without
00:42:53
developing our thinking, look, I
00:43:00
would know what I wanted, yes I would like if
00:43:06
any of you would like to take part
00:43:08
in a small demonstration now, I would
00:43:12
do the following thing, well, so as not to be
00:43:16
unfounded, what did I say today,
00:43:21
well, that’s what we have in our
00:43:25
present, for example, the emotional
00:43:28
state we are
00:43:30
but or look at a recurring
00:43:32
emotional state in a certain
00:43:34
context, we find ourselves in some kind of situation
00:43:37
and, for example, we feel some feelings
00:43:40
that we don’t want to feel in this situation
00:43:42
but we can’t do anything, this is what’s
00:43:43
stopping us,
00:43:46
who doesn’t have such a thing, this is it for
00:43:50
everyone there is actually just a question
00:43:52
of context and now look at
00:44:00
the reason for this state, especially if
00:44:03
it is repeated over and over again, you have
00:44:06
it somewhere in the past and it turns out
00:44:11
that you find yourself in some context
00:44:13
that resembles by analogy
00:44:16
because our our thinking is organized according to the type of
00:44:20
association of analogy, and that is, the brain
00:44:25
sees this analogy; the current situation
00:44:27
draws parallels with the past and causes
00:44:31
those emotional reactions with
00:44:33
which you tried to cope with
00:44:35
this situation there and you begin to
00:44:37
feel them here and do not understand what
00:44:39
is happening, but I don’t want to feel this
00:44:41
here and that’s how this program starts
00:44:44
to work and it turns out that because of what
00:44:47
we had once in the past, I cannot
00:44:49
be effective here and now in my
00:44:51
present, and from this, look at my
00:44:55
actions and the decision depends on something in my
00:44:58
future and this is how it turns out that
00:45:02
my past is yes, that is, the model that
00:45:06
I acquired there affects my present ones,
00:45:08
but this present influences my
00:45:09
future, that’s all, and through a change in
00:45:14
those very past models that
00:45:17
we have somewhere in in our past, we
00:45:20
can influence our future,
00:45:26
who would like to start with what you have to
00:45:32
know now, I’ll talk to you now, we won’t say, but it’s
00:45:36
just that time here is already on the status of only
00:45:46
oao what exactly is what feeling what
00:45:49
state in what situations does it
00:45:51
manifest itself strong independent
00:46:01
now
00:46:03
and not everywhere, stop look, we need
00:46:17
some more specific situations, this is
00:46:26
another thing,
00:46:27
another thing cannot be not exactly for
00:46:31
this technology, yes, we are talking here about a
00:46:34
specific program that works
00:46:36
in a specific context,
00:46:38
does anyone have such a thing like this, what
00:46:41
can this do? it could be resentment it could
00:46:43
be guilt it could be lack of self-confidence
00:46:47
it could be shame, well, that is, it’s something
00:46:50
like some kind of emotion to raise, look,
00:46:53
or it could be
00:46:54
from which it’s it’s in general it’s in general
00:47:20
yes, but this is a slightly expanded version
00:47:23
of this will be that yes, we didn’t give this today,
00:47:26
but we go through this in our courses
00:47:28
on neuro-linguistic programming,
00:47:30
why I will say because here we
00:47:34
take the situation without the participation of any
00:47:38
other participants, parents for example, or
00:47:40
anyone else, yes, but there is exactly the same
00:47:43
technology that I want to
00:47:44
demonstrate but with the participation of
00:47:46
parents, why would I do this with you, it’s just
00:47:49
longer, about
00:47:52
minus 40 longer, but we won’t
00:47:53
sit that long, unfortunately they won’t
00:47:57
. but it’s also possible, yes, probably, but this is
00:48:04
what you have, let’s do it like this, and
00:48:21
in order to feel rabies,
00:48:25
it’s great, this is our case,
00:48:28
well, it’s clear, look, but mom can
00:48:31
call regularly, you have such a
00:48:35
function
00:48:36
to call regularly, but look, you yourself
00:48:41
understand that let’s say, well the fact that mom
00:48:45
is calling from a normal person, the fact that she is worried about you there, there is a
00:48:49
method there, this is also normal,
00:48:52
but you don’t like your reaction and you don’t
00:48:54
understand where it’s coming from, whether it’s necessary, look at
00:49:01
the idea, what’s the general idea here, that is,
00:49:05
for now we will think that other people
00:49:08
have over we ourselves will
00:49:11
transfer this power to them, the idea is clear,
00:49:18
we ourselves will transfer this power while we
00:49:21
ourselves react because we don’t want to
00:49:24
react, this is what we are in power, a
00:49:27
program not of people, remember where I
00:49:29
started today, I
00:49:31
never say anything here just like that
00:49:34
look at some things, we have a part of
00:49:36
the personality connected to this person with the
00:49:40
perception of this person and when mom
00:49:44
calls her voice is the trigger for
00:49:48
this program to work, that’s
00:49:50
what’s happening, it’s not mom who’s to blame here, it’s a
00:49:53
clear idea and for now we’ll think
00:49:57
that it’s the fault Grisha Lyosha Zina mom dad
00:50:02
brother and so on we will be at the mercy of these
00:50:05
things and they will guide us all the
00:50:10
best psychotherapy is
00:50:12
retraining these parts of ourselves, we
00:50:17
can’t change the world we can’t change
00:50:19
people we can’t change parents, much
00:50:21
less choose their only one what
00:50:24
can we do to change our attitude towards
00:50:29
this and look, mom calls you
00:50:33
in a certain voice saying you know
00:50:36
why because we are waiting for your such a
00:50:39
reaction unconsciously in this reaction
00:50:42
you give and we get a vicious circle this is the 7th
00:50:47
voice that revolves in most
00:50:50
people with certain people in
00:50:53
relationships and that is, for all people, well, it’s
00:50:55
there and there’s something like that and
00:51:00
something of our own, well,
00:51:02
let’s know what we’ll do,
00:51:06
let’s now take a 5-minute
00:51:08
break, I made special cards and
00:51:10
somewhere this thing will take I’ll try
00:51:13
as quickly as possible 15 minutes will end,
00:51:18
okay, let's take a short break,
00:51:21
then now we'll do it, but you can
00:51:24
just close the wheels like a load,
00:51:26
yes

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