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click on the bell so you don't

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miss the next videos hello

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dear friends of Maria's passion good

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evening Mikhail well finally it was necessary a

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film like this six o'clock in the evening after the

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war we have 7

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a lot of information I'll start with the main thing I'll

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tell you what we're going to talk about today communicate

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about how your life has changed after

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quarantine, and I think our

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personal life and work and money will change,

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well, in general, what will I come up with for you?

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You yourself will tell us how

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your personal life has changed after quarantine.

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Yulia for years from Omsk, Yulia writes that her

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life has not changed at all, but the

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life of the boss has changed and her

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boss has a lot of small limits, she

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constantly teases me and

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my small mistakes make them look huge and

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significant, I understand that I can’t

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change my job, I love her, but I understand

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that I will soon start to hate my job, how

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to stop react to it and don’t

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take it to heart, I understand everything

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except for one thing, what happened to the boss during the

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quarantine period and what was Leonard

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teasing, but in general, since many people are

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interested in lifting work, I answer

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immediately they started us, one told us in and

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once they answered, and then you should

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make a decision answered you

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researching I don’t like the way you

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talk

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then she continued laughing to joke

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at you you have two options or I

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already like how you fell on and joke and

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goodbye work the choice is yours

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I would choose goodbye work so I myself

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was in such a situation and

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no one had joked there for a long time, it was just that it

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was the owner of Internet television

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who was simply

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trying to squeeze out with such unambiguous hints both of them a lot of

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money that he earned, we say through

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backbreaking work, tell us about your

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difficulties and difficulties in life, well, in short, such

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as extorting a golem to interfere,

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everything was unpleasant I said straight out,

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listen, I like you, 100 jobs and water,

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and left under the tsars, by the way, a job for

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two or three years, then many people think there, Mikhail,

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you macho wanted to give up on another

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job, found no, I was unemployed for 23 years,

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it was a long time ago, poets, but how

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long ago but about eight years ago

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I lost a sufficient amount of money,

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so I chose this because

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the prospect is that your psyche

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will be healthy and unclouded by other people’s

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how to say injections, it’s worth more than money,

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let’s try again hello, welcome, welcome,

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Olya, you’re finally, what’s your name

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Olya, your name is Alena

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please don’t understand my name is Alina and

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I wanted to ask this question about how to get

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around the coronavirus, but I began to communicate more and more

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often with my mother, and with this,

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some problems arose from not

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working on setting up a dacha so that

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my children can be taken out to the dacha in the summer and

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spent with them summer, but my mother, I have

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a child there, you can’t make it yourself, but

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she wanted to sell it at the dacha and even a buyer

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for a layer and said, and when we

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arrived there to work, it turned out so

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that we had to serve vodka and you

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had to roughly speaking against our

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children, they are there

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We were left to our own devices, we just worked at this dacha,

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plus my mother

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gave me a task to do there, then

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it all ended with my mother

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bled into processing the man’s account in the kitchen,

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he spat, freaked out and said I

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won’t go to my mother-in-law anymore on this he

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put a bold point so that he

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said more and so that I didn’t hear

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drag when

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I’m like this is my mother and I felt sorry for her, she

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wants to mourn the services now how can I now here I have

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devastation here,

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devastation there, I began to do it myself and some kind of

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men’s work, too, but really, I

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went there again with the children, does my husband work there, there’s

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no one to leave them with, and the border guards

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began to stutter,

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and I did it all very slowly there

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because, that is, he would prepare to take the children to

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sunbathe and swim in general

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and you, after all, being a mother also

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quarreled quarreled on this basis

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that the man came to the

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dacha for a swim when we weren’t expecting, including there was no

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and I didn’t turn around the channel didn’t leave her,

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meet you to ask a question like this,

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if I remember correctly,

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the beginning of the story is that woman I wanted to sell

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the cottage, yes yes, why would you go there

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because she’s actually there in the window, the cougar

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smells, I’m in love and would like to

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receive Mon Mothma in this area the

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moment when you changed your mind mom wanted to

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sell you understand correctly yes we

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just knew mom’s character and

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tried although I’m doing an internship and

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so it’s not just me at the restaurant

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to distance myself, you read, come to my

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mother’s dacha with my husband and children, that

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is, to distance myself from America they are leading to

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the previous and

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the most interesting place, why is

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such and such my name is Alice, I’m 32 years old, I’ve

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been married for 8 years there is a son last

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fall, I fell in love with a new [ __ ], he was

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married, it was before the coronavirus, mutual

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love at first sight, we had a

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short affair, a very complex, painful

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relationship, we decided to

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become quarantine and remote work began,

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and all this time we did not communicate, I lost the habit

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of him found myself again enjoying

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life came out of depression question

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leave Lena the job I adore with the

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risk of seeing him again and experiencing the

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same pain which I am very afraid of and don’t want or

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look for a new job on Friday question and

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we hope an equally interesting answer

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imagine Maria what are you something you love,

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but what you love, if you want to

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get it, may be accompanied by pain for you,

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tell me yourself, as a human being,

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you would give up and what you love very much,

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assuming that my path on the

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road to love also hurts, well, depending on

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how much it will be and I passed teenagers

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loves

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well and sometimes this match what is the name of

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our heroine Alissa 30 Alice 32 years old

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only 32 years old look this is the

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same story when I adore my job

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I adore this car I adore this dress I

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adore this person that is, I something- then I

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love and I have to, in order to get what I

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love, but how to decide something for

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myself that this is on the road of blood, I can

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report Mikhail here Alice

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writes that they had a very painful

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relationship, it’s not clear in what way it’s painful,

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as you understand, it’s coronavirus this is

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remotely but wait here this is not

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remotely this is yes yes remotely they had a

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short romance painful from ours but

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then the wheels came not anywhere liters

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look it’s up to you to decide we you must keep

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in mind that if you give up the

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job you adore then you will go to about

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their fear, this is a classic example

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of how people refuse something because

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of fear, by the way, I want to say

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thank you to

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Slepakov Seeds for asking

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the quarantine with his series both

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knee days

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you will choose tal mari and and only bunin and

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chita you can’t help but watch it to agree

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someone has small pearls, we are there, this is a

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liquid broth, I call it, do it, a well-

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educated girl, you will read, and

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simple guys like me, while you are reading,

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Bunina is watching the packaging burn and the series

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Damned Days, this is all described, this is

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love, just other relationships

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between people

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forward pandemic, as far as I understand, there

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was a seed that you were a man hanging out and with

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your mistress, and then

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the guys said to the social ones to attach the

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abbey of dreams was there about a man, a

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man was given a massage, a

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massage is an hour, and we do

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n’t know exactly what you came for a massage, we are editing, not

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just how it was in each of Texas there is a

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happy

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ending with a happy ending, well, let’s not now the

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time is up to 12 at night, we love, he clarifies and it

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turned out that the massage therapists came from

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Italy and that means they were locked in quarantine, and

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since he turned out to be the masseuses at home,

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you know him too, that’s how

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they play Mikhalkova is squeezing something from

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the victim, and there are plenty of all who are

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waiting, as it were, for her husband to come home, or maybe he’s calling

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on the Internet and preparing him for home

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along the path further, but I didn’t see that

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some woman was running next to her husband, what

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happened, he’s a promo chance, tell me

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the accuracy but there are every new series about

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another,

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the last series that I watched

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was Masha Moshkovo calling from America to

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her mother in Moscow there, in my opinion, so it’s a

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pity this show, the more you can

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get sick, I’m very worried about you, and

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my mother’s friend the psychologist says listen to

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your daughter Amarsev but he can’t offer to

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come, too, he’s afraid for you, most

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likely he needs you a little, but when you arrive,

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why are you wearing clothes in Belarus all the way

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through the forest for minutes, then you fly through Kenya and you

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can’t come through this either, from Russia to

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America, the mode of notes and the scheme takes you to

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USA mom has already left the suitcase c

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it turned out that my husband just lost his job to

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several of you if you imagine his

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work in the spring the series Slepakov

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handsome as usual did something

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good

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well, we would be nice to ring the bell

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next server

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hello hello

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hello my name is Denisov tell me

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how we are

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coronavirus

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like this

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received

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while sitting at home during the period someone decided to

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find something to do and began

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to study a new science I write

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programming is very interesting and

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what does a spoiler mean in 2005 Mikhail there is no

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need to spoil what he means you

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said everything you understand and a spoiler is the

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goal those who I didn’t yet know why my mother was going, she

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already knows, but either someone who survived the accident,

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well, there’s a lot of sulfur there, so it’s

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okay, and I also remembered, it’s

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also funny, and about with or who was

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invited, Kurgan Tu Aksa, here he

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mentions me to their program Evening Urgant, we

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did it with the left Alexander live broadcast,

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well, but not important, what was started says

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Slepakov is running, he has an acquaintance who has a

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strip club during the pandemic,

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this is so you were not a butt at work,

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he says there were success

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chicks who have antibodies, it’s

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funny because

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this is the story of his Ivan Urgant in

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Slepakov’s program that Convinced comrade that the

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strip club is so during the pandemic

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and you are here Mikhail and I was just

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looking at my account of the release then the program

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what we thought just now good evening

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hello

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he can be heard on the

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vanilla in Germany I have

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during the coronavirus me and my boyfriend

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for the first time so much we spent time with snakes

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and yes, we should also clone and we have been living

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separately for about 2 years and

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when we were together with work well and

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spent a lot of time, I was happy and the

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bowl when the ride got better and he

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works as a manager in some kind of

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bar and it now takes a lot of time

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for him to

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set it up there again after the crown and

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now naturally he

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devotes absolutely no time to this, that is, we

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see sisters very often making scandals for the fact

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that there is no time and this is explained by the fact that

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well, how should you not accept this? I can

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tell you everything, and that when

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they finish work, they still

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stay there at their job and continue to

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spend time with friends, for example, I don’t

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know how this is a muddy chat for I was

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grateful to the crown on the one hand that

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she planned Petya, I don’t know how to

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imagine being at least not knows which one

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knows you like

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well which one

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you like that we explain this to my

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wife’s job just to touch you time

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as he wants you yourself decided with friends

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stays after work so we kind of

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have two scenarios if you are a masochist I’m a

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victim you will endure and cry and

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this is a healthy woman, you will find another

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guy, all the songs are both explained to you,

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but for some reason it’s time to go there yourself and he kind of

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treats me well when we’re

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really in it and spend time and but

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he’s standing here and so there’s another

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and you know what a wife is called, a wife

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who always knows where she is,

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she’s called a widow, just kidding,

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boy, you should have come running

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because this is your life and that is,

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your relationship; moreover, it’s not in vain that you haven’t been

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living together for two years, you’re

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forced to live

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like your name

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turns out to be Natasha dear,

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now I want to give you some practical advice, don’t

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get in other people’s head, he said he

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promised his circumstances are not the same kind of

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work, what difference does it make to you why he

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does this, many people try to, well,

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somehow justify their own for the season and not

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trying to find some kind of explanation why a deaf and

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mute sea captain

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works in a bar, I

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understood correctly and

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he stays with friends, you will give it when the bar is not

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working, I understood correctly,

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why are you trying and why are you then

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wasting time trying to understand how it

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was when ordering, forgive me Why are you

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wasting time on this, he explains like this, let me

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continue this list, the guy says

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girls, I can’t marry you, I’m not

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ready financially for now, there’s no money

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for a wedding, what difference does it make to you, gaitana,

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okay,

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the date was without love, the separation will be

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without sadness, that’s a good question about

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the coronavirus azhall earthly from Saratov, I do

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n’t know, we’ll have time, in general, where does it say

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that they adhere to the rules of isolation until

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100 and it doesn’t get better, and I’m

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annoyed by people walking around without masks, I have

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friends who don’t believe the virus or say

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not to be afraid, I’m also not afraid of pain, shadow

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but I don’t want to harm others and I see

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that others don’t wear masks of

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indifference to the lives of less healthy people,

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this is what I think is fascism and in general I’m scared

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and I’m starting to not trust people and just

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hate them, but there are no questions here, I’m harvesting

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just solidarity because this

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irresponsible attitude towards other people

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and your own life, too, although the latest

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studies say that the mask is the most

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important, the most correct

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product in demand during a pandemic, but

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it would be nice if we all wore it,

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put on Marie now,

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which by the way, in simple paper,

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hello to the

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basics, a favor from her

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again and again torn Irina panel less

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scary Obama touching mom here is the fact

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that they began to communicate more submissions

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I would like to add will give you a very

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simple person and before that you have to

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wait some distance more expensive

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ma and yes we’ll try it again

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you your mother knows from birth true yes

00:17:43

why did you go to your mom’s dacha and

00:17:45

talk her out of selling if you know

00:17:47

that mom is not an ordinary person, I can’t understand,

00:17:49

but

00:17:52

because it was agreed I’m

00:17:57

selling, father, wait, there’s no need to buy

00:18:00

and sell, mom says I want to

00:18:02

sell further, I understood you correctly,

00:18:04

mom took a

00:18:06

long time at first I was already trying to persuade them to exchange for them

00:18:08

throughout the dried apricots, my mother didn’t

00:18:11

persuade me and went to sell further why did

00:18:14

you change at another stage it was necessary

00:18:17

and we stepped in Snape some then let the

00:18:21

facial expressions feast cooperative is good and the mask

00:18:24

will be some kind of question yes of course the

00:18:26

question concerns the following the

00:18:30

relationship between us has deteriorated in the steppes

00:18:32

this is enough of this enterprise and so they

00:18:37

were honeyz the parts were taken away completely

00:18:39

deteriorated and

00:18:42

I began to think that I

00:18:46

will need your help again, I just don’t

00:18:48

understand, they literally refused me,

00:18:52

even though the club and the situation than she

00:18:55

balls and

00:18:59

I left and I

00:19:03

will cry she won’t sell,

00:19:06

by and large, like you, you won’t

00:19:08

still

00:19:11

need my help;

00:19:17

there will be other ocean events to contact me. and how are

00:19:22

you not a single

00:19:23

mother my opinion on I’m on the air mark you

00:19:26

come slow questions better quickly

00:19:30

in general I don’t understand how they can’t

00:19:33

communicate otherwise they’re constantly

00:19:36

using me to deceive me and how are you doing something

00:19:39

that you used to attack your mother you

00:19:41

say just like I said, I lost

00:19:44

Slepakova when my daughter notes mom

00:19:47

coming buy for your health

00:19:49

actually to no one links to yourself

00:19:52

Polina leave further you want this is

00:19:56

a problem will you solve what you want to

00:19:57

worsen the problems with mom I can’t understand

00:20:00

you yourself what you want because you

00:20:03

understand that you can’t live with your mother, you

00:20:06

said correctly, mother persuaded,

00:20:08

persuaded, but it didn’t work out, it was the

00:20:11

right behavior now during a

00:20:13

pandemic, you needed your mother at the dacha, the

00:20:15

cars were ruined, what’s

00:20:18

incomprehensible here, they’re growing over your mother and the

00:20:21

dacha, and then the attitude towards you will be the same as

00:20:24

but on at a distance, mother and daughter

00:20:27

will be quite good, that’s all, as if

00:20:31

return everything back to its original state,

00:20:33

do it over time, Mikhail there were

00:20:36

messages about Tyra’s divorce,

00:20:38

they warned us

00:20:39

and good evening, Mikhail, after quarantine,

00:20:41

decided to divorce her husband for a long time, I thought about it for a long time,

00:20:43

doubted it and informed the mouse about his decision

00:20:45

children on weekends and

00:20:47

holidays they relax with his relatives

00:20:50

at the dacha and

00:20:51

I just didn’t have time with the children I plan to

00:20:54

get a job file for divorce

00:20:56

is it possible to separate here I have a question on the

00:20:58

one hand I know for sure that

00:21:00

we can live no longer we don’t want to for a long time

00:21:02

We don’t understand each other and we often quarrel with

00:21:04

each other. It’s unusual for me that on weekends

00:21:06

the children are not with me, how to survive all this is the

00:21:09

most correct thing, explain to the children and

00:21:11

build a relationship with your husband, by the way, my husband

00:21:14

doesn’t talk to me and I think he will

00:21:16

ignore me in the future, so he

00:21:18

definitely behaved by the way yourself with your ex-wife

00:21:20

at home with your mother and

00:21:24

not just on weekends and

00:21:26

holidays they go to your dad in July it’s hard

00:21:28

to cope with the fact that they go to your father,

00:21:30

see the following situations I

00:21:34

also worked as a lawyer at one time and

00:21:38

negotiated between spouses during a divorce, I was talking

00:21:40

about the children I explained that

00:21:43

you can’t live like that with children, that it’s all weekdays for

00:21:46

mom and all weekend for dad, this is

00:21:49

wrong, how right there are two

00:21:52

options, I hope someone will write to

00:21:54

us, Yulia, I hear dear Yulia, there are

00:21:59

two options, do your husband want to

00:22:02

take the children to you and Chablis for the whole weekend?

00:22:04

round trip deposit then this can be done every other

00:22:06

weekend speaking in Russian 2 times a

00:22:10

month if your husband wants to take it for one day

00:22:13

then you alternate every week on Fridays

00:22:17

to say on Saturdays your husband has children Saturday

00:22:21

to Sunday you play games in reverse mom is

00:22:23

clearly better than everything - two times the step of children

00:22:26

you don’t run and don’t burn the weekend is easier

00:22:30

especially when school starts so that 1

00:22:34

week off for your husband 2 weeks of you that’s

00:22:37

all I want to offer you

00:22:39

hello

00:22:41

Oleg drasti

00:22:44

Mikhailov can you hear me no yes very good

00:22:47

I was

00:22:48

bothering you please connect without

00:22:50

proud you hurt my name is Arthur and so

00:22:53

about I actually called you already then

00:22:55

they got through to me I’m already an Orthodox

00:22:57

person I don’t know maybe

00:22:58

somehow we’ll let you know somehow maybe

00:23:02

Orthodox people often turn to

00:23:04

your program or something like this, but I

00:23:07

would like to spend your help, your

00:23:10

good advice, what do you think, what

00:23:12

should a person who is closed to you do, he is

00:23:15

so very excessively high,

00:23:20

Martin is very huge, and plus he has

00:23:22

very high self-esteem, sometimes very

00:23:25

contrasting low self-esteem, I read

00:23:28

yours My mother gave me the book on a regular basis,

00:23:30

although I myself saw the desire to buy this

00:23:32

book, although it is expensive to far from psychology,

00:23:34

why is this, but I really love you, I really

00:23:37

respect your advice,

00:23:40

details on you that you are far from people

00:23:43

who are psychology, so psychology

00:23:46

is not always pleasant and it helps me

00:23:47

and your book is a very ambitious book

00:23:49

that I bought this book for an inexpensive amount,

00:23:52

it helped me a lot by offering to

00:23:54

fill in the details and answer your

00:23:57

question for me, and so you asked what to do for a

00:23:59

person whose self-esteem

00:24:01

is jumping or narcissists with pride, he needs to

00:24:05

go to a psychologist but and for other

00:24:08

listeners, I’ll also add that with Mars

00:24:11

service, self-esteem is very low, people

00:24:14

generally confuse two concepts, they believe

00:24:17

that egoists are the realization of their knees and

00:24:20

do not care about themselves or others, or that a narcissist

00:24:23

is the people in love with the

00:24:24

egoist, these are people who live all the time with

00:24:28

their suffering and experiences and

00:24:30

that’s why I don’t do anything to others, they’ve been through

00:24:33

such tough times, they don’t care about anyone, they don’t care

00:24:36

about other people, they’re always precise and on

00:24:39

their own, the problem is bigger, but narcissists

00:24:42

in general have huge black holes in their souls

00:24:44

because they don’t love themselves, their

00:24:47

narcissism stems from the fact that they

00:24:50

need other people to fill this

00:24:53

hole so they live love and other

00:24:55

people, by the way, one of the most striking

00:24:58

examples of narcissists is an actor, but people

00:25:01

don’t understand this, but you dream and all

00:25:03

actors are egoists, then people in love are

00:25:06

just the opposite, they are the most in love,

00:25:09

good evening,

00:25:12

hello

00:25:16

Marine Le Pen and I’m very glad that

00:25:20

you got through to me, I’m launched from

00:25:24

Moscow, I have the following question: how to understand that

00:25:28

[music]

00:25:30

parents need to understand and this relationship is what

00:25:33

dad says, and so on, how to understand

00:25:36

that this acceptance

00:25:39

has already happened because I’ve worked for many years

00:25:43

I will say

00:25:45

and at times that I still didn’t

00:25:49

accept it, well, of course, if you still have

00:25:51

grievances with the slabs and the light accepted it,

00:25:56

well,

00:25:57

global, it seems to me that I have to

00:25:59

convince you that there aren’t any left,

00:26:01

like, for example, I have

00:26:03

some specific situation that I

00:26:05

expect such behavior there will give his

00:26:09

side and dance and so on, it seems to me

00:26:12

that I’m sharing or there’s something wrong, like there’s

00:26:16

no global resentment that

00:26:19

controls

00:26:20

my relationship,

00:26:27

but of course, since this manifests itself on you, then the

00:26:30

items didn’t happen, let’s first of all,

00:26:33

my friends, please have us strong this

00:26:35

topic is not the ancestor of us the topic is how

00:26:37

your life has changed after quarantine we

00:26:40

will forget and so I Lyuba after

00:26:44

quarantine I realized that I want to divorce my

00:26:46

husband this is not Yulia a little different

00:26:48

dear Yulia the name is Lyuba this is ate the name is

00:26:51

Lyuba sorry love

00:26:53

at first such a desire came on its own later

00:26:56

I was helped in the article above, but I want to resolve

00:26:59

everything peacefully. My husband is against divorce and

00:27:01

said that he won’t let go of the situation. How can I

00:27:03

explain to him that I don’t want him? I already

00:27:06

said it to his face, it doesn’t help, how to

00:27:08

get a divorce without suddenly, in an adult way, without

00:27:10

war, well, in an

00:27:11

adult way without war, you can get a divorce by

00:27:16

resorting to the services of a mediator, I

00:27:19

don’t do this now, but earlier, by the way, there was a

00:27:21

family to build a dicom, so it’s like

00:27:24

without a trial, this is a person who

00:27:26

negotiates with both sides, the

00:27:28

American system, well, unfortunately, in our country

00:27:31

it’s not very accepted in general, I

00:27:33

think that until now For now, he’s the only

00:27:36

person in Russia who doesn’t work there anymore,

00:27:37

but did, so I want to

00:27:42

say that everything else is the courts; the

00:27:44

second situation is where with the war there is

00:27:47

indifference, then when you hire

00:27:48

lawyers to write out allegiance for them, you

00:27:51

don’t go to court yourself, that is, you sit at

00:27:54

home calmly and watch out the window and at this

00:27:57

time of battles everything is in court, new

00:28:01

ones are not participating, but unfortunately people can’t

00:28:04

find what is impossible, well, you’re probably still

00:28:06

possible, maybe you’ll be

00:28:09

able to reach yours with a very

00:28:11

simple idea, dear husband, I think that

00:28:16

we all people deserve it so that we are

00:28:19

loved, I think that this is

00:28:23

also unfair for you, for you to live with

00:28:25

a wife who does not love you now you

00:28:28

don’t understand this, this is some kind of their own

00:28:30

if, but over time it will all end, as a

00:28:33

rule, in divorce or you will have to

00:28:36

endure it all your life that also boxes that

00:28:38

don’t love you and don’t want you, here’s the idea

00:28:41

that everyone deserves people

00:28:44

who will love them should reassure

00:28:48

those who cling to a relationship where they don’t

00:28:50

accept and don’t love think about

00:28:53

it

00:28:54

call before evening

00:28:57

hello

00:29:02

please I would like to ask a question

00:29:06

such as how not to be jealous, not to lie to your mother

00:29:10

when she has been with me for three years now,

00:29:15

my mother has another brother, and yes, I am

00:29:21

jealous, they feel some kind of resentment when

00:29:24

attention gets more or less,

00:29:28

and this is why it somehow escalated or

00:29:31

the period when I Mom, something is

00:29:34

being done on purpose that you Ramir

00:29:36

specifically,

00:29:40

it happens that we are going now, we were

00:29:43

going to

00:29:46

buy her a gift, she was going to the dacha,

00:29:52

and in the evening she calls and says that

00:29:55

her brother asked her to leave, asked to go

00:29:59

with her, and there was some business, they ended up

00:30:01

leaving to the dacha and in their dashing spirits, in

00:30:05

general, no a minute has not arrived yet, but

00:30:08

you said that you are jealous of their brother, so

00:30:10

brother Jerome found himself in the same situation,

00:30:13

he also arrived, his mother also at the dacha was not

00:30:19

smarter, it turned out that

00:30:23

this is an example for no, but that she

00:30:26

treats you badly, but maybe where is

00:30:28

she good brother kraplak here’s an

00:30:30

example for

00:30:36

some specific reason, since

00:30:38

you think that I’m offending you and you

00:30:42

think objectively your mother devotes time to you, the

00:30:45

mod will add depending on the situation, we’ll better

00:30:47

understand you came to the dacha to congratulate your

00:30:51

mother and I there was no communication at the dacha you are reading mom is

00:30:54

to blame for this situation

00:31:01

they said about it

00:31:02

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00:31:04

she squeezed that you would come

00:31:06

she somehow explained the communication was at the dacha she did

00:31:09

n’t warn you about it yet she didn’t

00:31:15

warn you about it and she

00:31:19

warned you in the evening we decided to live

00:31:22

equals to go to

00:31:26

but you know, and you try your mom on the

00:31:29

brands of peace to leave you with big

00:31:30

limes and nothing to live with

00:31:34

but

00:31:36

the work of men goes on because you seem to be a deputy,

00:31:39

you run around and

00:31:42

even though she and your mom are like people, they

00:31:44

behave like animals here

00:31:48

auto show as a child, older and younger, that’s why

00:31:51

you run after her. yes,

00:31:54

your younger brother appeared, from that moment

00:31:56

jealousy began and he told you that your mother

00:32:00

loves him more than you less, and the

00:32:02

behavior itself became such that your mother began

00:32:06

to pay more attention to yours, and your brother meant that

00:32:08

you yourself were running to

00:32:11

give your mother the opportunity to love you,

00:32:13

just not touch, let your mother call you,

00:32:15

let your mother come about you, you are not at home

00:32:17

because you went to this brother for

00:32:20

help and your mother warned you too late, your mother

00:32:23

will simply not recognize you, try then

00:32:26

thank you, you will be back in a few minutes, by the way,

00:32:28

there are questions with the fact that

00:32:30

the borders are closed, except go promo

00:32:33

of the motorcycle industry, well, how much is possible in

00:32:35

four minutes, pale might, as

00:32:36

they say, the wife will find someone else and the

00:32:39

mother of the son will never be my mother, we will

00:32:42

talk about today we are talking about the impact of

00:32:45

the pandemic and quarantine on your life, so

00:32:48

Dima asks, judging by the number Ukraine +

00:32:51

38 good evening Mikhail due to the

00:32:53

coronavirus, there are restrictions on

00:32:55

traveling from abroad to your homeland, how not to

00:32:59

lose heart while waiting to return

00:33:00

home because I can’t influence the

00:33:03

situation at the moment, how not to

00:33:05

lose heart look at me

00:33:08

who are simultaneously striving to go to Jurmala,

00:33:12

Ukraine, Israel I did

00:33:32

n’t forget, wait, pull them out in Russia from you here in Dubna, as Bender was looking for business in Calcutta, give it to you, I’m not just striving, but I want to work now, I’m somehow enduring all this, I live with it somehow and don’t forget what I have before you visa

00:33:35

on the rock I think and everything else so I

00:33:39

want to say comrade believe she will rise as a

00:33:43

star of captivating happiness and on the

00:33:46

ruins of quarantine she will write in short

00:33:49

if we end up abroad let's go

00:33:52

further good evening

00:33:54

hello what is it

00:33:57

good evening spent

00:33:59

space this is character how do

00:34:02

you like this message

00:34:07

husband left two months ago there was a quarantine and

00:34:11

no one knows about it, no friends, they are

00:34:13

relatives now I’m slowly starting

00:34:16

to communicate with friends question tells

00:34:18

friends that my husband and I separated, I’m

00:34:20

afraid my husband’s reaction in the tanks maybe he did

00:34:24

n’t warn anything specifically didn’t say you

00:34:26

want to talk and not If you don’t want to say,

00:34:29

I like it, lying with my wife ska,

00:34:34

some kind of erotic story, it’s more

00:34:36

scary that life can end so quickly

00:34:38

and I haven’t really done anything

00:34:41

after everything I’ve been through, don’t

00:34:44

invest water, live and breathe everyone, health

00:34:47

Mikhail, 54 years old, that is, Mikhail

00:34:51

writes to us that he was so frightened by the

00:34:53

proximity of death that he decided how

00:34:57

the quarantine affected her, ha began and not to

00:34:59

be put off here I am right now,

00:35:02

life is short, I agree, Mikhail, one of our

00:35:06

listeners was fired from her job, she

00:35:08

worked in a cafe and she opened her own cafe,

00:35:11

but there are not enough positive examples

00:35:14

my life

00:35:15

good evening probably the last call

00:35:20

I

00:35:27

'll try briefly I'm doing what

00:35:30

I love for now I love my husband beloved children

00:35:33

huber dacha but I don't have time for anything it

00:35:37

just gives me some kind of stupor all the time

00:35:40

I see the room is not cleaned I'm

00:35:43

upset I see this it’s not done, I’m

00:35:45

upset, I don’t have enough to argue about

00:35:48

sports and I’m upset, that is, it seems

00:35:50

like we’re making hearts love but we didn’t

00:35:53

enjoy it, we didn’t understand it and

00:35:57

then it

00:35:59

gradually accumulates

00:36:02

at the

00:36:05

expense of other people like that I was afraid of cleaning

00:36:10

why should you open up

00:36:13

some kind of you strange psyche why do you need to

00:36:15

have time for everything why be torn why burn out you

00:36:19

want to work with the child takes care of

00:36:21

the child 1 time abortions of you some kind of

00:36:25

not

00:36:26

nervous enough

00:36:28

psychology to try to do everything and

00:36:31

at once why well it makes me feel like I’m

00:36:35

somehow accumulating over the past few years

00:36:37

I’m 23 years old and you can let go, go for

00:36:40

a walk, and there’s no need to try to

00:36:42

catch up with everything, you need to let go of the situation, very

00:36:45

good messages from Lisa after

00:36:47

quarantine, I ran to make an appointment with a

00:36:49

psychotherapist, they revealed the symptoms of an

00:36:51

eating disorder, I’m

00:36:54

coming to therapy under the tag of

00:36:55

controlling behavior,

00:36:57

it will help get rid of edema, then a believer

00:37:00

parent, imagine, controls,

00:37:02

of course, is it possible for this because

00:37:05

anxiety looks like this and I ate

00:37:07

a lot before quarantine, you are on time, quarantine

00:37:10

after even walking no one, I like

00:37:13

my eating behavior, my friends, you, I

00:37:15

also love the sea, thank you, I say goodbye to

00:37:18

you until next Tuesday,

00:37:20

but also everything is probably what else to say, the

00:37:23

guards will survive and it’s good

00:37:25

part of it

00:37:26

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The browser/computer should not freeze completely! If this happens, please report it with a link to the video. Sometimes videos cannot be downloaded directly in a suitable format, so we have added the ability to convert the file to the desired format. In some cases, this process may actively use computer resources.

How can I download "МИХАИЛ ЛАБКОВСКИЙ - Не копайтесь в других людях, думайте только о своих желаниях" video to my phone?

You can download a video to your smartphone using the website or the PWA application UDL Lite. It is also possible to send a download link via QR code using the UDL Helper extension.

How can I download an audio track (music) to MP3 "МИХАИЛ ЛАБКОВСКИЙ - Не копайтесь в других людях, думайте только о своих желаниях"?

The most convenient way is to use the UDL Client program, which supports converting video to MP3 format. In some cases, MP3 can also be downloaded through the UDL Helper extension.

How can I save a frame from a video "МИХАИЛ ЛАБКОВСКИЙ - Не копайтесь в других людях, думайте только о своих желаниях"?

This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.

What's the price of all this stuff?

It costs nothing. Our services are absolutely free for all users. There are no PRO subscriptions, no restrictions on the number or maximum length of downloaded videos.