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Hello dear friends00:00:12
to be in the frame Hello dear00:00:16
friends Please write as Sound Do00:00:19
we have a connection at all Now so00:00:36
Instagrammer has Connect Please00:00:38
write as sound as a connection00:00:45
Hello Hello00:00:47
Excellent00:00:49
connection there is Sound there is a sound Excellent everything00:00:53
my good traditional Monday00:00:55
webinar I hope you can see everything like that00:00:59
everything is written well, you can see and hear everything I00:01:04
declare the traditional Monday webinar open and today we are working with you00:01:09
about the fear of loss00:01:12
and of course this is the most00:01:16
tooth-breaking Fear00:01:18
Fear of losing Please write what you are most00:01:22
afraid of losing in this00:01:26
life rank00:01:29
rank in first place I am most00:01:32
afraid lose One second third00:01:35
tenth, please write Because it’s00:01:37
important, it’s important to dive deep and understand00:01:41
[music]00:01:45
what’s going on? What is it that00:01:49
I’m most00:01:52
afraid of losing? And what am I most00:01:56
clutching at? Today we’ll have such a00:01:59
very00:02:01
existential topic. I want you and I to00:02:07
work and put it all, you know,00:02:12
on the shelves now I00:02:15
’m talking, I’ll talk, I’ll be00:02:17
able to outline this topic well, I hope to outline this topic00:02:20
because this topic is very much covered by a bunch of00:02:25
all sorts of magical esoteric meanings. You00:02:28
probably didn’t hear that my God, not00:02:32
if you’re there what -you’re afraid you’ll00:02:34
lose it, you attract some kind of00:02:37
negativity, and so on and so forth, there’s so much of this00:02:39
that I want to tell you right away00:02:42
that there’s no esoteric magic here,00:02:46
there’s no power of intent, we don’t00:02:50
attract anything, it’s absolutely nonsense,00:02:53
we think thousands of thoughts every day I’m00:02:57
telling you about experiment00:02:59
throughout the year, reproduce00:03:01
the thought in your head I want to buy an elephant I want to00:03:03
buy an elephant I want to have a pet at home a00:03:06
big big elephant a00:03:09
big elephant is coming to me I attract00:03:11
a big one Yes I’m afraid of a big elephant I’m00:03:15
very afraid that a big elephant I don’t know00:03:17
will appear there right now and I swear to you00:03:20
that you will not have a pet00:03:23
elephant, no one will give you an elephant, you00:03:26
will not be able to lose the elephant and so on and so00:03:28
forth Because thoughts are not00:03:30
realized00:03:32
No, of course I understand that a lot of00:03:36
research is going on right now, a lot of things But00:03:39
you see this is all absolutely00:03:43
these magical meanings this is not about00:03:47
psychology not about science I am a specialist in00:03:49
psychology I will now lay out00:03:51
everything In the psychological sense as a00:03:55
psychologist and you will understand how it00:03:58
works I called00:04:01
this webinar esoterically specifically to arouse00:04:03
your interest because I understand that00:04:05
It’s easier and simpler for people when they are given00:04:08
some simple formulas, the fear of losing00:04:10
equals losing. I’ll tell you now how00:04:13
it works and how it works.00:04:17
Let’s imagine. Here you00:04:21
write in the chat that money, health,00:04:23
mental health,00:04:25
freedom, so they run away quickly00:04:29
from this contact with love. daughter I’m afraid of00:04:32
losing time health income life00:04:35
health work00:04:39
so00:04:41
health already no housing there is no00:04:44
money left for treatment apparently they are and I’m00:04:46
afraid of losing fear is normal I00:04:49
think living and being afraid Well here let’s00:04:53
dive a little into practice now00:04:57
pretend00:04:59
that you don’t00:05:02
know guy on a date Well, okay,00:05:06
let's not be a guy. You're a girl on a date.00:05:08
Imagine that a guy comes to you on a date00:05:10
and he00:05:14
looks at you like this and in his eyes there is horror in00:05:19
losing you, he's so afraid he's already a coward.00:05:21
Just please don't leave, don't leave00:05:25
me please. just don’t leave me, don’t leave me,00:05:27
honey, it’s not just that I won’t survive00:05:30
our breakup with you, just don’t leave00:05:32
me, don’t leave me, listen, don’t reject me, don’t00:05:36
reject me, please be with me00:05:38
always,00:05:39
swear that you will always be mine, my00:05:42
only mine, my girl,00:05:51
and now listen to what you00:05:54
you feel inside Alyo Everything is fine with you00:05:57
You definitely would have come by now00:06:00
something else would have happened to you you got there yes00:06:03
ok good you got there yes yes write Stay00:06:06
in touch with me talk to me while you are driving00:06:11
oh00:06:13
you haven’t answered for an hour I’m done morgues00:06:18
called,00:06:19
horror,00:06:21
please, please don’t go anywhere,00:06:25
don’t leave the apartment Let everything be guaranteed with you,00:06:28
I want everything to be fine with you00:06:30
Please,00:06:33
I’m wildly afraid of this guy, I’m sure I’ll leave him, I00:06:36
definitely want to leave yes Okay, let’s00:06:41
want to do something with such a guy, I00:06:45
really want to do it to quit this00:06:48
very second too,00:06:52
so my dears, the fear of losing is equal to00:06:55
losing because a person with the trauma00:06:58
of abandonment does the same thing, but00:07:00
he just may not voice it, but you understand, our00:07:03
thoughts are not material, but our face00:07:06
shows everyone if I sit and I’m like this00:07:11
and I’m just literally me I00:07:15
breathe this, I smell this, this stress, I00:07:19
cling, I agree to all sorts of conditions. I’m00:07:23
not even talking about me here. It’s00:07:26
not about my desires, their feelings,00:07:30
and so on. I’m literally there. I’m00:07:32
all00:07:34
for him,00:07:36
and of course, dude. or The dude is next to you in00:07:40
a relationship, she is he, he feels it.00:07:42
Let's give another example, another example.00:07:45
Imagine that you are the employer00:07:48
of a traveler and this little man came to you for an interview. I can00:07:57
do this and I can do this.00:08:00
Take me, I am the best candidate,00:08:03
I will suit you best, I will00:08:06
I’ll also run for vodka and coffee.00:08:09
Okay,00:08:12
I agree00:08:14
Yes, I’m an accountant. Yes, I’m an accountant. I’ll have to00:08:19
do legal work. Well, don’t00:08:21
hesitate to order00:08:23
[music]00:08:26
a rag there. Yes, I’ll clean everything, I’ll00:08:30
do everything, I’ll wash everything. I’ll clean everything up. It’s00:08:34
good to sit here past the cars and00:08:36
figure it out. in trigonometry Excellent I00:08:39
’ll do everything I’ve done everything tell me please00:08:41
just honestly honestly honestly honestly00:08:44
you want to pay this person00:08:46
more would00:08:50
you like to increase his salary00:08:52
pay a lot of money I’ll hire such an00:08:56
employee00:08:58
tell me you’ll take it you’ll want to00:09:01
pay such a person grandma00:09:04
more than a thousand dollars you will00:09:07
I’ll pay him I’ll do everything00:09:10
But I won’t pay any more He already00:09:14
agrees to pay almost everything I won’t have to00:09:16
Excellent my good ones00:09:21
You’ll treat this employee00:09:24
with respect You’ll be00:09:32
good at work Paid Okay I’ll00:09:35
stay the night And only00:09:38
go away on the weekends And there’s nothing good on the weekends I00:09:41
will live here then,00:09:49
but with respect there will be difficulties, it’s wildly00:09:52
scary for 31 years already 7 and 7 it will never happen00:09:57
this fear drives you crazy makes you00:09:59
behave completely inappropriately it’s true00:10:02
Because when you have you And now00:10:06
my dears Here in these patterns substitute00:10:09
yourself00:10:10
That is, you are broadcasting this to00:10:13
people so much you are broadcasting this to people00:10:15
second first Let's give a little more00:10:19
example you begin to mince the first thing00:10:23
you begin to do you begin to00:10:26
give up your thoughts your life00:10:31
your tastes your values your00:10:34
desires so be afraid of losing what you00:10:37
begin to do for the sake of someone or00:10:40
something00:10:41
and you lose yourself, you lose yourself, you00:10:46
lost yourself the very second as soon as00:10:48
you00:10:49
systematically stood on these rails and00:10:53
made it clear to the person that it will be as he00:10:55
wants, he always00:10:58
always And since I want, I don’t00:11:02
have any importance meanings And now look further,00:11:05
you all fit into it and00:11:09
broadcast it with a meta-message to those around you,00:11:14
your00:11:16
employer, your lover, your00:11:19
husbands, your boyfriends, 90 percent of00:11:23
the information is00:11:25
non-verbal and Meta Messages. This is our00:11:28
positioning, how we stand, how we sit, and00:11:31
if I am such a dependent person00:11:35
with trauma abandonment from the trauma00:11:37
of defectiveness, look, a person00:11:39
who is afraid of shame, he is constantly being00:11:41
shamed, you notice he is constantly00:11:44
exposed and shamed00:11:46
because he constantly sits and only00:11:49
God, what’s wrong with me, what’s wrong with me,00:11:51
Maybe there’s a stain here, I’m crumpled00:11:53
here, I don’t have it here I have wrinkles00:11:56
here, my roosters are sticking out. Here they will00:11:59
generally think that I’m like a plucked00:12:01
poor chicken, I didn’t sit down, suddenly she finds out that she’s00:12:04
stupid, you understand, this is how it happens in life.00:12:06
What do you think about it, you have00:12:09
it on your mind and it’s on your face, you have it00:12:11
your habits and sometimes, and most often,00:12:14
people also begin to say00:12:18
Please forgive yours and this is the00:12:22
tender voice itself the behavior itself and00:12:26
the words you don’t need to be a brilliant manipulator00:12:30
to understand that a person we are psychologists by the00:12:34
way a person speaks just00:12:37
pronounces words we should already understand00:12:40
his need is definitely something we check00:12:43
and ask questions of the client, but guys, you do00:12:48
n’t have to be a genius for all this to be00:12:51
traced, and then the00:12:54
manipulator is sensitive. And there are many people who are00:12:59
sensitive to manipulation because00:13:02
most had a difficult childhood and the00:13:04
majority went through these00:13:06
triangles.00:13:08
Blackmail, gaslighting, the00:13:11
majority,00:13:12
the vast majority. of us were00:13:15
blackmailed by our parents.00:13:17
If you don’t shut your mouth now, I and there00:13:21
further in the text, if you don’t00:13:24
do that, then00:13:26
there’s a waiting for you00:13:28
if you want some kind of I don’t know there00:13:31
gift, then you have to00:13:35
fulfill all my desires there, I don’t know, because I00:13:38
there I want it, it’s fixed00:13:42
to go manipulation, we or the manipulators ourselves,00:13:46
that is, we have adopted this experience, we are either the00:13:50
manipulator ourselves, or we are the victims of these00:13:52
manipulations, and it can be so and so,00:13:55
and so and so, both victims and manipulators, we and00:13:59
victims, we and manipulators if you are a victim00:14:02
of manipulation You must accept the fact00:14:05
that you are a manipulator, you simply00:14:07
are not realizing it, maybe it’s your potential00:14:10
or you are realizing it but don’t notice,00:14:14
look what’s happening, you’re00:14:17
doing it, people scan it very quickly00:14:20
and they understand. I’ll give you00:14:22
the technique now. How to understand who exactly is in front of you you are a00:14:24
masochist or a sadist just by looking like a00:14:27
person. So, practice for fun,00:14:30
just walk down the street and look at00:14:33
people or your close friends.00:14:35
Look and Imagine. Can you00:14:38
come up and give a slap to the face? [ __ ] on your leg00:14:43
or on your hand,00:14:47
just fantasize, no need to do this00:14:49
case in reality, just00:14:52
fantasize that it’s possible. So00:14:56
your boss Gennady Petrovich is standing in front of you, I’ll00:14:59
go up to00:15:01
what will happen00:15:03
and according to your fantasies, what00:15:06
will happen Gennady Petrovich will turn around and00:15:09
give me back or Gennady Petrovich00:15:11
we will see each other for the last time in this world00:15:15
I have this or he starts crying and I don’t00:15:18
know he will run away. They will be from this. This is00:15:21
in front of you either a masochist or a sadist, we00:15:24
feel it all and test it on00:15:27
your friends and relatives whom you00:15:29
know well. How a person00:15:32
reacts to dirt depends on what you00:15:35
positions because with someone I will pay and00:15:39
run away and with someone I will answer someone rarely00:15:42
when it hits again, yes, that is, if00:15:45
we are talking about trauma, then most often00:15:48
you understand without these fantasies that00:15:50
most likely it will not come00:15:53
It won’t seem to me at all if I00:15:57
can lose aggression at all, forget about everything,00:15:59
sometime00:16:00
in the fifth year of therapy I met my drug addict,00:16:10
this guy came out with money on Lambie,00:16:13
came out and started00:16:16
pushing me, and my visor just fell00:16:20
because he didn’t say anything. and how he00:16:22
behaved and I told him exactly the same in his jargon,00:16:26
this is crazy Now I’m not you, I’m00:16:30
looking at you there, the concierge has already left, she’s00:16:33
just in a precipitate, she’s already gone to00:16:36
call the police Thank you God And then00:16:40
they tell me you even know who it is who00:16:44
I'm talking about who is this damn killer This is a00:16:48
dude He has a lot of money he lives here00:16:51
he has already killed someone there and he hasn't been00:16:54
tried he killed everyone he drives a lamp he's a00:16:58
drug dealer he's such a dangerous dude and00:17:02
you know what I answered made00:17:04
me00:17:07
so mad and the next time I00:17:10
encountered not a bit of fear, I came to my senses,00:17:13
realized all this nonsense00:17:16
and went to therapy with it. After a00:17:18
month and a half or two, when Well, this is all00:17:22
the time My husband met me everywhere, took me everywhere, do00:17:27
you want to follow me, everything is fine,00:17:31
they have a traumatist the visor falls and often00:17:34
such a reaction is inadequate to danger,00:17:36
so my dear traumatists, it is necessary00:17:39
to analyze that this is this,00:17:43
all of them will basically react like this,00:17:45
so listen to00:17:48
people who have had a difficult past, if00:17:51
they are generally not depressed, most00:17:53
likely there is no need to deal with them Well, that’s all, that is, it’s00:17:57
clear here that you will00:17:59
fantasize, you will understand who is next to00:18:01
you, a sadist or a masochist, what this00:18:04
person will allow, what he will not allow, if00:18:06
you are interested, just even at00:18:08
an interview on a date, just00:18:10
mentally do this technique and you will be00:18:12
stunned by it What’s next for you, in00:18:15
principle, everything is interesting that you00:18:17
can break boundaries with this person But with00:18:20
this you can’t, this person will swallow but00:18:23
this one won’t swallow Yes, this is your00:18:25
fantasy, she is not mistaken, you understand00:18:29
what I’m talking about But now let’s move on,00:18:30
my dear And by the way this there is a very good00:18:34
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so on, but for the fall I am planning a large00:19:05
package of manipulations for you, I don’t know,00:19:08
God forbid I have enough strength, I will issue an updated00:19:11
chronicle of the puppeteers, I will completely update it,00:19:15
I will do it there so that you get straight00:19:18
juice There00:19:21
is no pre00:19:24
-registration yet, nothing, but I plan it00:19:27
will all be a moderator, send a link to the00:19:30
training I see right through you because00:19:34
someone is asking Yes, yes00:19:38
Well, let’s move on. The second thing is why00:19:42
we are losing this, let’s say you00:19:47
are afraid of losing some kind of health. then such00:19:50
a category that It would seem that you are00:19:52
not broadcasting anything, but watch When you00:19:54
start I’m afraid of losing my daughter and now I’m00:19:58
afraid of losing my health You daughters,00:20:00
this message is overprotective I’m afraid of losing you I00:20:05
’m afraid of losing you This is00:20:07
the face00:20:08
that shows that it’s as if00:20:12
you weak, that the child who sees this00:20:15
message, that they are constantly afraid of me,00:20:20
means I’m somehow weak, I’m kind of00:20:24
damn it, well, don’t be surprised later if00:20:26
the child can’t solve some things,00:20:29
he can’t do it on his own,00:20:42
you’re afraid of losing her. you lose00:20:45
because he’s running away because you’re strangling with00:20:48
this of yours you see how it works you’re00:20:50
afraid of losing you’re losing when it comes00:20:54
to health see what happens I have00:20:57
my whole focus of attention My God what’s wrong00:21:00
with my health My God my mole00:21:02
My God when the guns appeared these are old00:21:05
pigment spots I'm getting old urgently00:21:08
checking the00:21:09
horror of the okrschika to the terrible life at Kerchik00:21:13
we're checking everywhere we're afraid of everything we're00:21:17
disinfecting we're thinking all the time there's00:21:21
viruses everywhere I'll get infected I'll get sick with something00:21:23
God forbid I have cancer And what kind of genetics we had I00:21:25
analyze everything and I just have00:21:27
horrors all day long Am I enjoying00:21:30
my health?00:21:33
I’m giving myself anxiety00:21:36
disorders obsessive-compulsive. I’m00:21:38
all poisoned by this. I don’t have any health.00:21:42
I literally lost it. I00:21:45
literally lost it because I lose00:21:48
every day with this condition of mine.00:21:55
there’s a husband there and I00:21:58
constantly think about it, my God or you00:22:01
lost, I won’t lose He definitely loves me00:22:04
and he definitely doesn’t love you you definitely love me00:22:05
You definitely love me You’re definitely faithful to me00:22:07
You’re definitely cheating on me so00:22:12
dude or he’s just going crazy00:22:16
on me every day They are blowing their minds because00:22:19
with their suspicions I’ll go, I’ll at least cheat on you,00:22:22
so at least I’ll have a reason for flying with her like that, so it’ll be why00:22:25
some00:22:27
unconscious dude could easily00:22:29
do this. But basically, it’s just that00:22:32
a person wants to close himself off from you,00:22:35
you know, close himself off and that’s it nothing00:22:39
like that, or Leave or withdraw into yourself,00:22:42
immigration inside and these are00:22:46
my dears, so Well, these are interconnected00:22:50
things, so listen now what00:22:52
is happening,00:22:54
you are00:22:56
killing your dream,00:22:58
killing your potential, killing your00:23:02
personality with this fear of loss,00:23:06
killing relationships,00:23:08
completely poisoning your life00:23:12
and in fact00:23:14
you get You lose something that is so00:23:18
strong I am afraid of losing I will definitely00:23:20
lose00:23:22
because look at the person Even who00:23:24
he is afraid of something For example, I am afraid that00:23:28
I00:23:29
will be called to the board and I have always been called00:23:33
because all the maximum energy00:23:36
I had was just00:23:40
called teacher, it’s very easy for her00:23:43
to identify00:23:44
that [ __ ] who didn’t learn because00:23:48
she sees your signal00:23:51
right away by his posture, even if you look, she doesn’t00:23:55
read this signal. Even if we just00:23:59
remove this00:24:01
message and just take a person00:24:05
who is afraid of something when this happens to him.00:24:08
it happens that he has confirmation of this00:24:11
experience when he consumes this reason00:24:14
because a person who does not think about it,00:24:18
but he does not think all day long about the fact that he will be00:24:21
called to the board, he does not think all day long about the fact00:24:23
that he will be exposed, he does not think all day long00:24:25
about the fact that he there, I don’t know, he’ll00:24:27
meet a terrible fate, he’ll be robbed, and00:24:30
so on, when this happens to him, he00:24:32
says, oh damn, well, they called him to the blackboard Oh,00:24:35
damn, they shamed him and he00:24:38
turns the page Everything is calm Yes,00:24:41
my child outlined a mouse cheat sheet for me,00:24:45
in general, that’s00:24:46
when00:24:49
you get for of a person, this is00:24:52
confirmation of something terrible, this happens,00:24:55
this happens, this can00:24:57
increase fear even more. By the way, what is00:25:00
the tendency of those clients who were so00:25:03
afraid and were so afraid and finally00:25:05
lost relief from them00:25:08
like all my life I was so afraid of losing00:25:11
my status so afraid of losing my00:25:14
reputation so I was afraid there, I don’t know, of00:25:16
losing my position and I was so afraid of00:25:18
losing my own, some kind of this And then00:25:21
a war begins, this is a material war, a00:25:23
war begins, a person loses all his houses,00:25:26
factories, steamships, status, and now in Germany,00:25:29
a refugee or somewhere in Sicily,00:25:33
no one and no way You literally00:25:36
can’t even speak a foreign language00:25:38
Yes, you’re just a child and00:25:42
that’s all You’ve lost everything and you know what00:25:46
clients say that yes, at first it’s00:25:49
very difficult, then there’s such Freedom, freedom00:25:52
from what attention It’s very important00:25:54
to do the right analysis here Freedom has no00:25:57
money Many people think, God, the00:26:00
money weighed me down so much, these00:26:02
obligations, I’m so all Buddhists00:26:05
don’t need anything, in fact, it’s not that00:26:08
expensive, we’re working on it in the course on the00:26:10
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money00:26:39
and you know what is happening people they choose the00:26:42
wrong interpretation That is, it was00:26:45
money that weighed on me so much And now it’s not00:26:47
so good It’s like it was reset No, you00:26:49
felt good and you were reset from00:26:51
fear of loss the fear of loss00:26:55
weighed on you so much it was like that hanging00:26:58
in your head all the time and now you are away from it00:27:00
updated,00:27:02
reset and it’s easier for you, yes, according to the rich, the00:27:04
exchange rate is steep Yes,00:27:06
and in fact Yes, my dears, you are correct00:27:09
in writing that we are losing our lives. Thus,00:27:11
we cannot help but be afraid in general,00:27:16
that is, we cannot help but be afraid of fear,00:27:19
these are basic emotions, you can’t00:27:21
escape it, but we we can’t No, how can we00:27:24
stop feeling it? Yes, and this is00:27:28
normal and good, if we were all00:27:30
fearless, then yes,00:27:33
in my example,00:27:36
fearlessness is absolute stupidity and00:27:39
there is no special resource in00:27:43
it; the truth is, that is, of course, this is00:27:45
some kind of00:27:46
short life that we can do about00:27:49
it, we can realize it, listen and00:27:52
admit it honestly to ourselves because usually00:27:54
people run Well, like I’m afraid of losing00:27:58
and or we latched on to these thoughts and00:28:02
they begin to00:28:03
endlessly haunt us and they00:28:07
become big because if we do00:28:09
n’t voice them if It’s especially00:28:12
scary when we don’t share with anyone00:28:14
because when we start to at least00:28:16
voice I’m afraid of losing my health,00:28:21
getting cancer, well, I voiced it somehow, it00:28:24
sounds so weird, damn it, I’m 38 years old, I’m00:28:27
so unhealthy, I have amazing tests.00:28:30
Why suddenly it will already be easier But if00:28:34
a person starts to say00:28:36
Go away thought Go away and these thoughts have00:28:39
such a00:28:42
trick they it becomes even00:28:45
stronger even00:28:47
Obsessively more this fear increases even more00:28:50
then you need to eat something and00:28:53
maybe drink smoke a cigarette00:28:56
somewhere go away play some game in a trance to00:28:59
distract yourself with something, come up with some00:29:02
way to00:29:04
make this fear go somewhere.00:29:08
Time passes and again this one is bigger.00:29:12
This demon is a thought, this dragon00:29:14
returns and again starts to00:29:17
scare you, you run away even more and it comes00:29:20
to the point that you are generally afraid to be00:29:23
alone with yourself and people when you give them00:29:27
homework to be alone00:29:30
Turn off the phone do not communicate with anyone and be alone00:29:34
for an hour do00:29:37
not watch anything do not turn on the radio do not00:29:40
read the news do nothing do nothing for an hour00:29:42
to be alone00:29:44
with people it starts00:29:47
but it’s just horror because this hour of00:29:51
loneliness will endure unbearably where00:29:54
nothing is playing, it doesn’t distract me from00:29:57
myself to see what’s happening00:29:59
so the best we can00:30:01
do we can’t refuse I’m not00:30:04
afraid of anything This is complete stupidity fear is needed00:30:07
adequate fear needs to be00:30:09
understood and tested reality Listen,00:30:11
this danger is real, yes But this is00:30:14
unreal, there is an exercise in00:30:17
cognitive behavioral therapy00:30:19
called real objective00:30:22
experiences and hypothetical00:30:24
biased ones if I’m afraid I don’t know00:30:27
what, what if something happens and behind00:30:30
this there is a series of incomprehensible00:30:33
incomprehensible events Unrealistic for00:30:36
today's situation, then I understand that00:30:40
these are hypothetical fears You need to work with them00:30:42
as a psychotherapist By the way, download00:30:46
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but that’s why we decided not to be00:32:38
afraid. We can’t,00:32:41
but first of all we have to figure out what kind of00:32:44
objective fear is, and now here we are look00:32:47
where there is objective fear there is a00:32:50
real threat, there is no need for this00:32:54
experience, here we need to solve the problems00:32:58
associated with this fear with this00:33:01
experience if I don’t know, figuratively00:33:03
speaking, I’m afraid that my husband will kill me and00:33:07
he’s really a psychopath, a drunkard, then in00:33:11
reality this is a real threat00:33:14
and I really need to solve this problem00:33:17
I need help from specialists, a psychologist, I00:33:21
don’t know, maybe a psychiatrist, I have00:33:23
severe depression, I need someone who00:33:26
will help me solve this problem, a00:33:28
lawyer, probably first of all, Yes, I00:33:31
need a professional, and so on. That is, there is00:33:33
no need to sit here to be afraid, you have to00:33:35
solve the problem, you see, and we immediately00:33:37
move on to this, this thought of00:33:39
chewing gum that nails us down to a00:33:43
real solution to the problem, a technician in a00:33:46
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there is a problem solving technique, scroll through it, it’s00:34:08
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I use it00:34:12
and look, we can’t completely00:34:15
remove this fear, the fear of losing, but we00:34:18
can give it up00:34:22
and look what's happening Now we already00:34:24
understand with you what to lose to remain a00:34:28
widow with ten cats not a widow Tom00:34:32
not to get married to remain an00:34:35
old maid Lord what a terrible00:34:37
insult damn it didn't come to women00:34:41
not to start a family what horror and look00:34:44
I'm experiencing here What emotions00:34:48
I'm experiencing fear anxiety horror here00:34:51
a nightmare and look what I’m doing I’ve already00:34:56
analyzed that this is my fear00:35:00
which I’m afraid of losing something this is my00:35:04
fear I’m afraid of losing it and this is an00:35:07
absolutely unrealistic fear I do00:35:10
n’t really need to do anything about it I can’t00:35:12
control it how can I00:35:14
control it I have no00:35:17
power over life over the weather on someone else's00:35:21
life I'm afraid that my husband will change me00:35:25
how can I control this, give00:35:27
him a choice00:35:31
and see what I do with these00:35:34
emotions I accept attention my dears00:35:39
I make a conscious decision to refuse00:35:45
this00:35:47
experience00:35:49
I I tell myself,00:35:52
stop, wait, I’m terrified of losing my income.00:35:58
I understand that this horror is realistic. It’s00:36:02
realistic, no, it’s unrealistic, that is, to00:36:07
run and grab 33 jobs through 333 [ __ ], to do00:36:12
everything by exhaustion, killer, I do00:36:16
n’t need all this now, I don’t need it. Everything is fine,00:36:20
all this is unrealistic, unrealistic, this is mine.00:36:28
fear Yes from mine from my fantasies From00:36:32
my childhood00:36:33
okay Everything is fine, that means what I’m doing I’m00:36:36
from these emotions I disconnect them00:36:40
and look at them This is my fear00:36:45
just this is just mine I separated it and00:36:52
here you can visualize if it00:36:54
helps you to visualize please this is a00:36:57
little gnome whose00:37:00
legs are trembling this is a little gopher who is00:37:05
clinging to his legs please this is00:37:07
some kind of beggar who asks for love as an00:37:11
alms Give Give Give this some00:37:14
Well I don’t know there is an obsessive ferret who00:37:18
is dancing on stage pay00:37:22
attention please I am I am you00:37:25
know what the most terrible00:37:32
block for people is for manifestation, I00:37:36
pumped it up in myself and now many people00:37:39
with whom I work with whom I00:37:42
provide mentoring. Lately, psychologists have been00:37:45
asking me to help00:37:47
them promote their00:37:49
personality, teach themselves to sell, and so00:37:52
on, so far I’m like I don’t consciously00:37:56
sell this, but I have a lot of such requests with00:37:59
pleasure. By the way, I dove into this work00:38:00
at night. It’s not interesting for me00:38:03
to look at it, not with my own eyes, but I’m00:38:06
only promoting myself, but00:38:09
to look at it like a marketer directly at00:38:12
another person. It’s so cool that I’ve00:38:15
learned to look at myself like a00:38:17
marketer, like a00:38:19
producer looks at his star. Here’s how to00:38:23
package it the right way so that she00:38:25
looks right,00:38:27
how she is there, what she should say, how she00:38:31
should00:38:32
sound, and so on and so forth, I00:38:35
look at it through the eyes of a producer all the00:38:38
advertising resources that need to be added and00:38:41
so on and so forth I have00:38:42
the opportunity thanks to this skill to00:38:45
sell well and00:38:48
I help psychologists and you know that the00:38:51
biggest thing we are getting to the bottom of is the00:38:54
biggest block in manifestation, that00:38:58
is, to be visible to sell your services,00:39:01
you know what is the biggest one here big block00:39:04
I so want to be noticeable I so want to be00:39:09
seen, to have attention, to be00:39:13
loved that I can’t I’m so00:39:19
afraid00:39:24
Because if I do something wrong00:39:28
someone will reject me,00:39:31
someone won’t like me I’m someone’s- then00:39:35
expectations are not00:39:37
[music]00:39:38
someone’s expectations I’m not you I won’t anticipate I’ll00:39:43
disappoint someone and I can’t get over it00:39:46
and that’s why I00:39:49
’d rather not show up in any way I’d rather00:39:52
not do anything at all I’ll sit in a00:39:55
copy I’ll delve into the obscurity of nothing I00:39:59
won’t sell so as not to lose00:40:02
the sympathy of those,00:40:05
imagine I want it so much that I wo00:40:10
n’t00:40:12
get00:40:15
attention Look, I want it so much00:40:17
These three or ten like it so I00:40:21
refuse attention 100 or 20000:40:25
you know what I mean because I want to00:40:28
sell something In order for me to somehow00:40:31
realize myself in this area, I need to00:40:34
go out into the public space to declare00:40:37
myself and, of course, what I will do,00:40:39
how I will look, this is how I will00:40:41
position myself, someone will like it,00:40:43
someone will not like it, but I can’t I have to00:40:45
come to terms with this,00:40:47
I have to and everyone will like it,00:40:51
that is, somehow, and I understand that this is00:40:54
unrealistic, thank God. Yes, there is criticism and00:40:56
then I don’t do anything at all, that is, I’m00:41:00
so afraid of losing this disposition that00:41:04
I do00:41:05
n’t show up at all. So it’s all00:41:10
just a00:41:11
vicious circle, a00:41:13
labyrinth through which we go out. We00:41:17
literally either we or the person, even00:41:20
worse, he begins to behave not the00:41:23
way he wants, not the way he likes, not the00:41:27
way he feels, he begins to simply00:41:31
cheat on himself an infinite number of times,00:41:34
he begins to00:41:36
wear what something masks to00:41:38
please, this is how I’ll be This is how I00:41:40
’ll be This is how I’ll be I know, I recently00:41:43
talked to a colleague and she says I00:41:45
can’t write posts I say Well, write00:41:48
what you told me Just write on00:41:50
this cool he says you understand yourself00:41:52
I’ll write then this teacher of mine will think00:41:55
this, this is what my friend there00:41:58
will think, this is that one, this is our00:42:00
common colleague. She’ll actually00:42:02
laugh there, this is like this and this is like this,00:42:05
I’m saying and that for the sake of these four,00:42:08
you won’t earn five,00:42:12
you won’t you will sell nothing because00:42:15
someone will judge you, someone will devalue you,00:42:17
and someone will say something to themselves And what00:42:20
Well, they are good at leaving, they will plow well even00:42:22
if you imagine that they will all00:42:24
turn on and just start00:42:26
looking at you Do it to them there’s nothing more, but they’ll00:42:29
just give up their whole lives, they wo00:42:31
n’t even notice the air raid warning, God, what an00:42:34
event she wrote, it’s just horror and00:42:38
here you understand. Okay, so good. Well, you’ll00:42:41
lose, they’ll abandon you, all00:42:44
three of them, four of them. And what will happen00:42:48
and that’s all here, just like that -that's00:42:51
Horror and behind this horror is Freedom because00:42:54
nothing is00:42:57
anything because everyone thinks that00:42:59
after this comes some kind of00:43:02
happy ending of happiness of joy big00:43:06
money is pouring down on your head, in00:43:08
fact nothing happens That's how00:43:11
everyone looks like that this is [ __ ] What to do Yes,00:43:15
what should I do to kill more people, it00:43:17
turns out I need to work seriously You need to turn on00:43:21
advertising from all the dummies so that they can00:43:23
spin there and have cool content and00:43:27
something else so that you will be noticed at all and it00:43:30
seems that you are not really needed and00:43:32
it turns out that many are fighting for this attention00:43:34
and it turns out that you00:43:36
will generally be working with another request, you00:43:38
understand And that’s all Well, when we00:43:42
go here we must What to do We00:43:45
must recognize ourselves we must00:43:48
deal with a constant00:43:54
constant love interest we must00:43:58
sharpen a constant love interest interest in00:44:01
my personality00:44:03
This means that so that I don’t00:44:06
find out about myself It’s interesting, look again,00:44:09
I refuse horror and the fear00:44:13
that I’m not like that,00:44:16
not like that, therapy sometimes I find out00:44:20
monstrous things about myself00:44:23
monstrous things are necessary so cynical00:44:26
Damn, I can I really don’t00:44:29
sympathize too much, and in this strong lack of00:44:33
sympathy I’m great because I can00:44:35
resolve issues when everyone else00:44:37
strongly sympathizes, sobs, rolls around, I don’t know,00:44:40
they deal with00:44:43
mourning and experiencing emotions, but00:44:47
I have such an ability. Yes,00:44:50
it’s good and bad, you know how in the joke00:44:54
about the lieutenant, someone will like someone00:44:58
and eat it, but nevertheless, I have00:45:03
this skill. Well, that is, look,00:45:05
I can do this, I can do this, you can get [ __ ]00:45:09
scared and say Oh my God, I’m not00:45:11
like everyone else00:45:13
And you can already say, well, this is interesting With00:45:17
love from a love interest, everything is like a00:45:20
fortune teller Now00:45:26
all this will not happen So I look and00:45:30
find out about myself, look It turns out that I’m not so00:45:33
kind And I love everyone, you know what00:45:36
else is interesting It turns out that00:45:38
I’m not so interested that they think about me00:45:41
Honestly, I was so00:45:42
afraid of losing the00:45:45
approval of those around me And after working through it, I00:45:49
came to the conclusion that I still don’t give a [ __ ]00:45:51
what they think about me, we’re in the00:45:54
majority and you know Another thing that recently00:45:57
I was in a salon they tell me this, you know, the00:46:00
city has 300 thousand people, it turns out Well,00:46:03
just like in my village, we each00:46:06
know each other something somewhere and when00:46:12
Oh, and to you,00:46:19
Wait, don’t say anything ever again,00:46:21
this is somehow connected. This is a threat to my life, my00:46:25
health there is a strong reputation. Well,00:46:28
thin. Don’t tell me anything00:46:32
like, well. okay, I say, you know why00:46:36
Why Because so that00:46:40
I think about these people I do00:46:44
n’t want these people to pay this00:46:47
money These people will pay me money so00:46:49
that I think about them So then this is00:46:52
how they think Why do they think so and00:46:57
why do they came to this opinion00:46:59
But this whole processing of them00:47:02
psychologically So they will pay me for00:47:05
the consultation No they won’t pay then I won’t00:47:07
even listen I’m not interested in what00:47:10
they don’t think00:47:12
it’s not close people not people No these are not my00:47:15
friends No these are not my subscribers my00:47:18
favorites no00:47:19
but this What is this This is just some kind of Bad00:47:23
girl That’s great look a00:47:26
wonderful resource helps promotion00:47:31
When you discover something in yourself00:47:33
and begin to honestly00:47:36
admit this can be done in therapy00:47:38
with a psychologist who is ready and who is00:47:42
ready to take an interest in you The whole power of00:47:45
psychology You know what,00:47:47
look not in empathy00:47:51
No, well, empathy Many consider it synonymous with00:47:56
pity and sympathy, but empathy has00:48:00
two forms of empathy: when I00:48:03
empathize next to you, what you00:48:05
feel and sympathy when there is00:48:11
emotionality, they understand your emotions00:48:14
And even then And there is also this type of empathy00:48:17
when I understand in general your00:48:21
need and what you are going for, what you00:48:25
want, and here there is a lot of interest,00:48:31
many people confuse this process, even00:48:35
psychologists confuse it with00:48:42
suffering out of Solidarity.00:48:46
If a client comes to me and I start00:48:49
suffering in solidarity, we will fly00:48:52
away. first I can’t I don’t know how to00:48:55
suffer jointly I don’t stupidly don’t00:48:57
like to suffer jointly I just stupidly don’t00:49:00
like it I’m not that kind of person Well no I have00:49:04
so much masochism in me that I can00:49:09
suffer and suffer Imagine you00:49:10
approach a dog, the dog is crooked, slanting,00:49:14
sick, and you’re next to me in solidarity with her,00:49:18
hugged her and lie down with her there,00:49:21
like they sat down, stupefied from hunger, died00:49:25
together, then look further, I00:49:28
empathize, I understand that she feels it, something00:49:30
responds to me, I know what it’s like to be00:49:33
beaten, I know what it’s like to be00:49:35
hungry, I know what it’s like to be rejected,00:49:38
I know what it’s like to not trust anyone, I know00:49:41
what it’s like to be afraid to approach even if you00:49:44
really, really need this food, I00:49:46
really, really need this love, this is00:49:49
human warmth, but you’re so afraid00:49:51
to approach, you’re so afraid00:49:54
because you were [ __ ], [ __ ].00:49:57
constantly at the most open moment,00:50:00
just the moment when you opened your heart00:50:02
and it happened so often that you got used to it and already00:50:05
learned at once that don’t come near00:50:08
people They Bite they Bite they00:50:12
hurt so painfully don’t they are all creatures and you00:50:16
somehow this is understanding this dog This is00:50:19
empathy This is empathy I am able to00:50:22
understand How it feels for her and what I00:50:26
understand will depend on what I will00:50:28
do because in fact I have to00:50:31
feed her take her to the doctor but I understand00:50:34
that she will not go to any doctor she00:50:36
bites me00:50:38
the only thing I can do is00:50:40
put down the food and leave00:50:43
and this dog have you seen these stories? Yes,00:50:46
when I clearly demonstrated to you00:50:48
that a dog with trauma, mistrust from trauma,00:50:52
infringement of violence, she00:50:56
approaches this food, she wants to live, my00:51:01
client wants to live. He came to00:51:03
He takes this therapy Even if he says00:51:07
[ __ ] I don’t care and he’s all defensive and00:51:12
he’s all cold What the hell is the tag in the ocean00:51:14
he doesn’t need my pity That’s00:51:17
very interesting00:51:19
he needs to be understood Understand who he is00:51:24
What he is everyone wants00:51:28
everyone wants it so that someone you know, I00:51:34
once read Margaret Miller I think00:51:36
that this is a brilliant phrase that she00:51:38
wrote, she wrote about a mother’s love,00:51:41
absolutely a mother’s love, she wrote00:51:43
that the00:51:45
most important thing is not how her mother00:51:48
spoke the words and not what she did the00:51:51
most the main thing is the sparkle in the mother’s eyes00:51:55
because she could say, Daughter,00:51:57
you are very beautiful, but in reality00:52:00
feel disgusted, for example, or Come on,00:52:04
dear, get ready faster, but in00:52:07
reality, I don’t know what to experience there, I don’t00:52:11
care, absolute indifference, don’t get00:52:14
involved, she could not offend with words,00:52:17
but she could be absolutely ignoring,00:52:19
she didn’t care what kind of person I am,00:52:22
for example, and then that sparkle in my00:52:26
mother’s eyes, those eyes looking at you.00:52:28
They reflect entirely how a00:52:31
person will treat himself as a whole.00:52:35
Will he listen to his own? Will00:52:38
he have the right to his personality? Will00:52:42
Should he listen to his emotions and00:52:47
figure out what it is for me, how it is for me,00:52:51
what it means And in my opinion, this person00:52:53
exhausts me What I like, what I don’t00:52:57
like, what kind of person am I going to do?00:53:00
This person and this in general is very important00:53:04
because we we acquire it in our00:53:06
parents’ family and then we treat ourselves that way. That’s how00:53:09
we cling to00:53:13
this fear of losing, it means something00:53:16
like this Freedom didn’t exist, the most00:53:19
important thing is the need of people who are afraid to00:53:22
lose so00:53:23
that it doesn’t exist here, put anything00:53:26
you want in relationships, love health00:53:29
children's life everything00:53:31
when we take00:53:34
any here's the wording I'm afraid to lose00:53:37
everything I'm afraid to lose I'm afraid to let go I'm afraid to say goodbye I'm afraid to part with00:53:41
all00:53:43
this here from here there will be a derivative I'm00:53:47
afraid to leave my job quit I'm afraid00:53:50
to spend money I'm afraid I don't know00:53:52
cut my hair this everything about the fear of00:53:55
losing then we will come to this00:54:00
family blackmail00:54:03
you will lose me If you behave00:54:07
differently you it was somehow shown in the family it00:54:10
was somehow shown it00:54:14
was given to you to understand that if Well, either00:54:19
it was Parental behavior or it00:54:22
was circumstances that everything is very00:54:24
unreliable and you have to00:54:27
cling on in general, this fear comes00:54:32
from the fact that00:54:34
freedom has been blocked and Security has not been00:54:37
satisfied, two needs for Freedom00:54:39
and security, it was either overprotection00:54:43
or violence or some circumstances, for00:54:47
example, now there is a war and many00:54:49
children are injured and adults like this That00:54:52
is, the horror of losing can appear from00:54:55
just constant losses and so on,00:54:58
my grandmothers had a constant horror of losing00:55:01
because they went through the Holodomor war, they were00:55:04
constantly buried constantly losing us,00:55:08
this is also all waiting for us, this is already reality, this is00:55:10
happening and we need to somehow deal with it to00:55:13
take it out slowly, well, we will have00:55:17
no other choice, and this00:55:19
internal feeling of constant danger Yes, it’s00:55:25
stocking up on food and something all the time to be in00:55:30
good shape all the time To be ready to00:55:33
run somewhere, that’s all that00:55:35
didn’t allow people to live normally00:55:39
So, I’ll answer a little, I need your00:55:43
questions [music]00:55:50
Good afternoon, I followed the link for working with00:55:52
anxiety, it’s not available, it opens and00:55:54
asks only to buy Anastasia, you00:55:56
didn’t go to Telegram in Telegram,00:55:58
go and opened free access not00:56:01
everywhere, not on the site, you’re on the site, you’re probably00:56:03
looking in telegram00:56:06
moderator Please send people a link to00:56:09
work with anxiety or drop it on my telegram00:56:13
Let them watch00:56:15
So why is it00:56:19
unrealistic to lose your job and00:56:21
be left00:56:25
without income How can you as an adult be left00:56:28
without income? What should happen for you to be left without00:56:31
income? You understand, this is the fear of a small00:56:33
child to be left without income all adults00:56:36
Aunt Lilya, even if tomorrow I don’t00:56:39
know00:56:40
at all, the entire Internet will be turned off and I won’t00:56:44
be able to earn anything anywhere on the00:56:47
Internet, I’ll go and00:56:49
plant rice and I won’t be left without income, I’ll be00:56:52
left without a lot of income, maybe00:56:55
for some gap Although knowing my00:56:57
skills, my skills, it’s unlikely that00:57:00
any kind of poverty awaits me. But even if so, I00:57:02
know how to live by principle, and then00:57:05
what sense can I have here?00:57:08
Look, out of this fear, look at00:57:10
everything with love and interest,00:57:14
treat yourself with love love00:57:18
interest is when I watch this Kaplina00:57:21
it's interesting it's really00:57:23
interesting I know how to live poorly it turns out00:57:27
look at how I had it I know how to eat like00:57:30
that most of you know how to live00:57:33
poorly guys00:57:34
he's like that I even know how to00:57:38
carve out00:57:39
generally beautiful cute things in this state of00:57:43
poverty Yes this not very pleasant But on the00:57:46
other hand, you know, I know how I can I know how to get00:57:50
out of a minus state and get into a00:57:55
powerful Bonus Plus state I knew how I was00:58:00
able to get here from this poverty But00:58:02
if I did it once, I’ll00:58:04
do it the second time guys and the third and00:58:08
fourth and fifth00:58:09
The only thing I need for this is to00:58:12
take care of my little body00:58:16
because guys, well, you know, it amazes me00:58:19
how people generally treat00:58:22
their health without a perk, we are now in courses on the00:58:23
rich,00:58:25
you know what people’s bodies00:58:28
begin to fail, the body sabotages00:58:30
money they broke through the money went the money went00:58:34
and the body fails Because money of00:58:36
course to some extent Well Especially00:58:39
when you break through the ceilings you reach a00:58:41
new level money00:58:44
is stressful stress because Aunt Lucy was00:58:47
jealous the nut doesn’t want to talk to you00:58:52
Tanka wants to constantly borrow Our mother00:58:56
wants to travel to this00:58:59
Egypt at your expense, you are constantly00:59:01
faced with a bunch of different new00:59:03
circumstances that, in principle, you00:59:06
need to cope with, you need to build00:59:08
boundaries and you are so stressed. You draw and00:59:12
people have a hernia, or damn the blood pressure jumps,00:59:15
or something else, and what are we doing now? I00:59:18
did this course on purpose for six months00:59:21
more, for me it’s of course hard to00:59:23
remove such a big course, but I did it00:59:26
because I see, I understand that00:59:29
transformation is quick and this won’t happen, it00:59:32
takes mental time to assimilate00:59:34
everything that I give and I give, God forbid The course is00:59:38
awesome. It seems to me that the00:59:40
price is very cheap. The next course about00:59:43
money is new. When I reach a new00:59:46
financial level, I’ll make it so [ __ ]00:59:49
expensive because it’s just me, it’s00:59:52
just00:59:53
incredible, it costs me so much, I’m00:59:56
pumping it up on myself and pushing00:59:58
others along with it people are01:00:00
interested in everything, well, in general, the trick is01:00:04
that the01:00:06
body refuses And the body why refuses01:00:10
because they ate because they didn’t01:00:13
train lazy to walk on the street01:00:16
walk in the fresh air breathe along the line01:00:18
divorce it’s a pity for the money for a pie it’s not a pity01:00:22
for a cigarette it’s not a pity for the01:00:25
next ports Venzoni shock It’s a pity to01:00:29
go and make a check once a year to01:00:31
check all the holes by visiting a01:00:33
gynecologist and proctologist, take tests,01:00:36
do fluorography and do your body01:00:39
damn it, trace the deficiency and donate iron, I don’t01:00:42
know there’s hemoglobin, see what kind of01:00:45
deficits you have, of course there’s no money,01:00:47
it’s all very, very sorry01:00:50
for this everything is a pity and the body of course is for people01:00:53
35-40 years old they are falling apart01:00:57
falling apart the body is failing the seals your01:00:59
favorite exercise please01:01:02
Because your body is not there there is nothing that you are01:01:06
pumping If the body fails what to01:01:09
pump if they refuse how01:01:12
the calves will disappear01:01:14
and everything and everyone01:01:17
therefore the body is very important choose01:01:21
Any sport that you like,01:01:23
choose at least not to eat some kind of Trash,01:01:25
these are all kinds of sausages, this is all this01:01:28
sugar, this is endless. I’m not saying that you01:01:31
need to forbid yourself. Well, at least there01:01:33
should be some dose, but not every01:01:36
day I have bad habits this is all about the01:01:38
doctors People are kind, go and check01:01:41
at least once a year, it’s01:01:42
pouring out Well, you just really look01:01:45
Now everyone has driven everyone to the rich way01:01:49
Everyone walks with me, breathes fresh air,01:01:52
sleeps for 8 hours, which means they eat well01:01:56
because that because we came to this01:01:58
consciously and why because01:02:01
no one wants to be poor,01:02:04
falling apart like a hoy,01:02:07
you understand everything by the way. Pay attention.01:02:12
Boca you don’t mean happy, again,01:02:15
when I see a sick person,01:02:17
he’s smoking all over there. It’s a smiley face eating. I wo01:02:22
n’t be him. I won’t have any financial01:02:25
success. success, he01:02:28
screwed up his health, he screwed up his body, I screwed up01:02:30
this psychologist from this coach, I01:02:32
won’t learn anything from this super Guru if01:02:36
he has his own body,01:02:38
what can he teach me about anything, I wo01:02:41
n’t believe in any kind of self-love, I won’t believe in if01:02:43
a person Elementarily doesn’t take care of his01:02:46
own health I don’t believe it, specifically01:02:49
regarding any diseases, genetics01:02:52
Well, anything can happen, you know there spontaneously01:02:55
whatever you want It can appear from stress and01:02:57
that’s all And when a person sits, I don’t know, he smokes, he01:02:59
eats, he has this kind of ptosis, edema, it’s clear01:03:03
that he’s just but he got it all from him01:03:06
he does01:03:08
n’t walk around, he01:03:10
lets go, he01:03:14
kills and look further what01:03:17
happens when we all go01:03:21
through interest and through love we begin to01:03:24
recognize ourselves and then this fear of01:03:27
losing behind him is very often what we01:03:31
will see01:03:33
we will see01:03:35
some kind of resource I’m afraid of losing01:03:39
relationship I'm good Why what's in this what's01:03:44
going on here This is my trauma is a01:03:47
trauma I reveal this to a psychotherapist at a01:03:51
psychotherapist and we begin to01:03:54
work with it We work through it And01:03:58
then I gain incredible strength01:04:01
because after working through this trauma I learn to01:04:04
say goodbye to people if the trauma is01:04:07
abandonment I’m learning to say goodbye to people01:04:09
For example, I’m learning to end relationships,01:04:13
it’s the same Incredible,01:04:16
it’s Incredible power Because I don’t01:04:20
let a single abuser into my life,01:04:24
I choose01:04:26
the services that I need, I don’t01:04:30
agree to friendship with people who are01:04:32
not suitable for me, see this way01:04:35
all my life is changing This is only one01:04:37
injury out of 18 diagrams on the hole if you take a01:04:40
berry for example my good ones Go to01:04:43
therapy please Go to therapy01:04:45
Work because it’s an incredible01:04:48
thing to recognize yourself01:04:52
that is, health equals wealth yes And I do01:04:55
n’t believe in any rich people who don’t have01:04:58
health this this is not wealth at all, no01:05:01
psychological health, everything happens in life,01:05:04
and it’s not that I do01:05:07
n’t want to judge anyone in any way.01:05:08
Because everything here depends a lot on01:05:11
genetics, stress, and people have different lives,01:05:13
but when a person, you01:05:17
know, doesn’t feel sorry for himself doesn’t cherish, doesn’t walk doesn’t01:05:21
take care of himself, he kills himself to01:05:24
the bone I don’t believe in that kind of self-love I01:05:28
won’t learn to earn money from him01:05:29
because he will teach me how to earn money according to01:05:31
his own type of stress through01:05:35
some big01:05:37
shocks, refusals through gluttons through01:05:42
alcohol you understand something else But01:05:45
modern currency health cuckoo yes yes I01:05:49
agree completely01:05:52
my good ones Well let’s answer the questions01:05:56
and if in place of what you refused01:05:58
nothing will come01:06:00
Prima Victoria What if you don’t01:06:04
give up this is what will come to you strongly01:06:07
you understand it’s a misconception that if I’m01:06:09
you, this is a childish01:06:13
staging of blackmail in real life, you play01:06:17
Blackmail as if it’s your mother and you01:06:20
say I’ll do it And you give me this,01:06:23
I’ll do it like this, you can01:06:25
even watch cartoons for me, but it’s like life I wouldn’t give01:06:28
a [ __ ] about01:06:30
life, well, all these and you01:06:34
are giving up something consciously and01:06:38
going towards something consciously coming to it. How01:06:42
will it happen that nothing will come and who is01:06:45
responsible for this that nothing will come in the01:06:48
sense that this is what some I don’t know uncle01:06:51
God is sitting on a cloud recording Lilya01:06:56
refused the fear of losing money01:06:58
I’ll send and money from01:07:01
all pockets now all subscribers all01:07:06
favorites will buy01:07:07
everything everything Buy everyone will buy it Straight tomorrow he01:07:12
Keep your pocket wider But is this the same01:07:15
logic or what No my dears01:07:17
I gave up the fear of losing money, what did01:07:20
I do, I will do a project that I01:07:22
like,01:07:24
now I am doing a project that I01:07:26
really personally like about female power01:07:29
without esoteric meanings about some kind of01:07:33
female conscious life about the value of a01:07:36
woman and we will pump up01:07:40
the fear of losing very strongly as a red thread As a red01:07:43
thread, of course, I want every01:07:46
woman to feel free,01:07:48
secure, beautiful, sexy and a01:07:52
lot of happiness from motherhood. That’s01:07:55
what I want to give with this course, both from01:07:58
relationships and family and from motherhood,01:08:01
so01:08:02
somehow here01:08:04
I don’t care. Well, how would I let go of fear01:08:08
because maybe Yes, there needs to be something there, it01:08:13
would be fashionable to sell something else, something01:08:15
about manipulation. I do01:08:18
n’t have the desire to talk about manipulation right now. I01:08:21
have it. That’s it, that’s all. And then I01:08:24
do it, and then as it will be, so it will be.01:08:27
By the way, on the priceless we already have 8101:08:30
people01:08:31
and we have already launched. On the 30th we01:08:35
started and already01:08:37
my participants are doing the techniques very01:08:41
cool. Now on the 8th we will01:08:43
do the first webinars, we will01:08:45
practice and do debriefs. In general, everything is01:08:47
very interesting, so join us.01:08:50
Well, my good one, please write with01:08:53
what do you leave with What are you taking for01:08:56
yourself today, what resource are you taking from this webinar What resonated with01:08:59
you,01:09:00
what hooked you What01:09:06
did the resource give you01:09:08
What conclusions do you take for yourself and01:09:14
what results do you draw for yourself?01:09:17
Summarize the results01:09:20
Please write, I will read and conclude01:09:24
Thank you you01:09:29
[music]01:09:36
thank you thank you01:09:38
inspiration of course Thank you my good01:09:41
inspiration happiness01:09:43
So a couple of interesting techniques01:09:47
[music]01:09:49
you need to calm down accept your fear of01:09:52
loss Yes consciously refuse it I01:09:56
consciously refuse this is a lot of techniques01:10:01
we will do in the priceless and you01:10:06
will have a lot of this in the01:10:08
next training but I wo01:10:12
n’t announce anything yet. I’m just01:10:17
working on a training about changes,01:10:21
about the fear of change,01:10:25
pumping up this fear of losing, about a new01:10:29
life, new stages, and it seems to me that this will be01:10:33
the launch of the training New Life 2.0,01:10:36
but I will give a completely different program,01:10:38
but there are no01:10:40
preliminary recordings yet there are no01:10:44
registrations I’m just telling you that I’m going01:10:47
there with my mind like this I’m01:10:50
thinking about it a lot now, I’m working and I’ve01:10:54
pumped it up for myself today I’m01:10:56
just amazed at the freedom, that is, freedom01:11:00
and this is awesome, really, is it01:11:04
possible to write to the manager on a01:11:06
blind note, of course you can write to01:11:08
the manager that put me on the list for a01:11:11
new training but I want up to 3 You can01:11:15
write to the manager he carries you the list in01:11:18
this will mean that you will have the01:11:19
cheapest price but guys I don’t think01:11:21
that it will be it will not be a great course01:11:23
in any way In any case, it will be some kind of01:11:24
small01:11:26
project for 3-5 hours01:11:30
maximum. We will have two meetings there, but01:11:33
it will be so very01:11:38
cool to raise this energy of change01:11:42
and move it will give you the opportunity to accept01:11:45
change go to change change work01:11:48
relationships country life I I know that for01:11:51
many now this is very relevant,01:11:53
many wrote how to generally digest this01:11:56
reality and we will, I will give you the tools.01:12:00
Therefore, yes, yes, write Ruslan, who is01:12:05
priceless, can’t come up, you can01:12:07
write and ask to join the new project01:12:11
Wind of Change will be called New01:12:13
Life 2.0 Wind of Change prices Bye01:12:17
no, it won’t be expensive, but for01:12:21
those who sign up, she writes to the manager,01:12:23
moderator Give the manager’s contacts, you01:12:26
said so, no, you will have the01:12:28
best price as for your own after01:12:31
registration. You remember everyone who pays01:12:34
then the announcement of the main one, everyone has the lowest01:12:39
price because this is what these are my favorites01:12:41
these are my favorites who are ready01:12:44
to develop at any moment here are01:12:47
all my good ones when the training will be I do01:12:50
n’t know yet we need to complete the projects01:12:52
that we have now we are going through01:12:54
a lot now we are finishing already we have a01:12:57
couple of meetings left and we are now let's01:13:01
start, or an invaluable and a lot of work on01:13:04
it, I want to do quality work for01:13:07
people, then relax and start with a new01:13:09
training, but to be honest,01:13:11
my hands are already itching Well, all my01:13:14
good ones, I hug you very, very tightly, I01:13:18
beg you very much, please01:13:21
write it out for yourself What insights do you have Yes01:13:26
here We caught what you take for yourself, how01:13:29
will you give up your fear of01:13:33
loss01:13:35
and please sign up for therapy and01:13:39
don’t leave yourself with these fears, I01:13:41
hug you tightly bye bye until01:13:44
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How can I download an audio track (music) to MP3 "СТРАХ ПОТЕРЯТЬ = ПОТЕРЯТЬ. Как освободить себя от страха потери?"?
The most convenient way is to use the UDL Client program, which supports converting video to MP3 format. In some cases, MP3 can also be downloaded through the UDL Helper extension.
How can I save a frame from a video "СТРАХ ПОТЕРЯТЬ = ПОТЕРЯТЬ. Как освободить себя от страха потери?"?
This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.
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