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每天听本好書,每日感受成长的快樂,變成更豐富的自己。總有一本書能解決您生命中某個問題。 ------------------------------------------------ 📌【訂閱頻道 】 https://www.youtube.com/ @head335 🔔 貼心提醒: 訂閱後记得按旁邊的鈴鐺 ,才不會錯過最新上傳的内容 ------------------------------------------------ 【内容简介】 该书提出“巨婴”和“巨婴国”概念,透视中国国民性、中国家庭与人心,呈现和分析巨婴的全能自恋心理,揭示中国好人、控制狂、无助感等当代心理疾病的根源。 ------------------------------------------------ 【作者简介】 武志红,心理咨询师,作家,北京大学心理学学士与硕士,已出版著作《为何家会伤人》《为何爱会伤人》《身体知道答案》《为何越爱越孤独》《七个心理寓言》《心灵的七种兵器》《解读“疯狂”》《活出你的小宇宙》等。 ------------------------------------------------ 【作品思想】 该书认为,成年婴儿都是巨婴,由成年婴儿组成的国度就是巨婴国。婴儿和巨婴都有三个基本的心理特点:共生、全能自恋和偏执分裂。共生的表现就是大家庭、集体主义、你我不分。全能自恋就是一切都得听“我”的,都得按照“我”的来,不按“我”的来不如去死。偏执分裂就是极端。 该书指出,中国人要走出“巨婴”心理,可以从婚姻关系入手。“巨婴”的形成是一环扣一环的。在婚姻关系中少有高质量的爱情,如果人们能建立以爱情为基础的高质量的两性关系、婚姻关系,“巨婴”的链条就可能被打破。 而从自身来说,人们要建立起“核心自我”,允许自己真实的感受和能量流动。一个孤独的婴儿(巨婴)作为一个孤独的能量体,他(她)会觉得自己的能量都是黑色的。但一旦两个人建立起关系,两个人的能量就被联系在了一起。这时候能量被照亮,黑暗的活力就变成了光明的活力,破坏力就变成了热情、创造力和生命激情。 在作者看来,儒家提出的“孝道”,就是要求孩子听父母的,年轻人听老人的。实际上,“孝道”是用来保证父母的全能自恋的。当“孝道”被树立的时候,就意味着父母可以对孩子为所欲为,他们怎么做都是对的,都是爱孩子,这就是问题。而反过来,也有一大部分儿女“啃老”,对父母总是索取,理由是:“你是我妈,你是我爸,怎么就不能为我着想,为我做这些事情呢……”因此,巨婴症体现在父母子女共生关系中,互相绞杀的事件时有发生。解决办法是活在当下,对一切说“是”。当人真正活在当下,就能真的承认和接受已经发生的事情,放下过去别人对待自身的方式,认识现在的自己,接纳现在的自己。而且,赡养父母的责任不能丢。 ❤️【記得訂閱頻道按哦 按鈕👉🏻】https://www.youtube.com/ @head335
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