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Guys, hello everyone, today my00:00:02
guest is Mark Barton and we have already filmed one00:00:04
episode, it has already received almost a million views.00:00:05
Today we are aiming for a larger figure.00:00:07
Therefore, we will discuss how anal00:00:09
sex affects family relationships, but this is00:00:11
not for sure.00:00:15
yes, initially the message00:00:18
was that we need to collect a lot of00:00:19
views, in fact, in the past, our00:00:21
podcast turned out to be quite deep and00:00:23
interesting today we need to repeat it00:00:24
Thank you for coming, good to see you again Let's00:00:26
start with one interesting topic00:00:28
that I think you can00:00:30
highlight a couple of episodes ago I00:00:33
mentioned in one from his podcasts00:00:34
a quote from Sergei Galitsky where he said00:00:36
that I don’t understand at all why women00:00:39
do business and because it’s00:00:41
hard labor And after that I just got00:00:44
some kind of feminist Roy in the comments00:00:46
I was just unwound there and So I’m00:00:49
interested in asking you a question Are you like a00:00:50
person who constantly00:00:51
interacts with a large number of00:00:52
women at work Why do you think00:00:55
this happened, it seems there is00:00:56
nothing offensive or harsh in this I just00:00:59
said like this, I shared my opinion of00:01:01
how the person thinks and I agree with him00:01:03
that business in general is not00:01:05
feminine it’s because it’s very00:01:07
tough hard work that is00:01:09
exhausting, kills literally, and00:01:12
at the same time I received very ambiguous00:01:13
feedback for myself, I’ll tell you why00:01:15
women react this way the very first00:01:18
reaction was who are those women who00:01:20
really work their butts off, their00:01:23
autonomic nervous system is in a00:01:26
constant state of such anxiety, you know?00:01:28
state That is, if we take our autonomic system,00:01:30
there is a sympathetic department, there is a pair of00:01:32
sympathetic sympathetic ones that are activated00:01:34
when you and I are in work00:01:37
mode, stress, some achievement of a goal, and so00:01:41
on, for women the same thing is natural, in00:01:44
this state everything is aggravated, both00:01:46
aggression and Anger and the hormonal system00:01:48
works in its own way and when a woman is in a00:01:52
state of internal anger, in any00:01:54
case, so that you understand stress is the00:01:56
engine and your engine and mine for a00:01:58
woman is the same, but for a woman,00:02:00
stress is not a natural state at all,00:02:03
she should sit there somewhere on a00:02:05
bench and watch wait for her husband in the distance,00:02:07
but at the same time no one says that00:02:09
she should not develop, this is how00:02:11
the island reacts to women who are00:02:13
exhausting themselves and trying to prove something to someone,00:02:15
but I will honestly tell you that among00:02:18
those clients with whom I interact, there are00:02:21
different women00:02:24
if there are two Forbes lists the young ladies are very00:02:27
cool, very unlucky00:02:32
money,00:02:35
I had girls who went down there,00:02:45
achievers, women who set00:02:49
some unrealistic goals for themselves, everyone00:02:52
faces a personal crisis, as00:02:54
you just said, yes, that is, they00:02:56
achieve results in their careers but at the00:02:58
level of their feminine nature they are simply00:03:00
ineffective, they cannot get high, they00:03:03
do not relax, they are overgrown with some kind of00:03:05
protective psychological mechanisms, and00:03:08
I actually am not against a00:03:11
woman working. Let her work. If00:03:13
this woman is exhausted, if we are00:03:15
also talking about a family woman, she is generally00:03:18
not effective as a wife, she is not effective. as a00:03:20
mother, she comes home, what will she00:03:22
do to restore the resource of00:03:24
energy exchange with her husband? There00:03:27
will be nothing if she does work for her own00:03:29
pleasure, she enjoys it, she knows how to00:03:31
delegate, there is some kind of team and there is no00:03:34
need to work there for some00:03:36
guy, especially since she yells for00:03:38
days and has time00:03:42
with such a woman, it’s interesting, it’s a matter of00:03:45
choice Who is striving for what, who00:03:50
wants to end their life in what way, you know, I00:03:52
want to end my life with my wife,00:03:54
holding hands, looking at my00:03:57
grandchildren, great-grandchildren And someone wants to sit with a00:04:00
Chanel bag on the shore Lake Como, here00:04:03
alone, rinsing my00:04:05
dentures, damn it,00:04:10
what’s interesting to me is something like this. Well, in00:04:14
general, I’ve been in the media space for a long time one way00:04:16
or another, so I generally don’t react00:04:18
quite calmly, but it didn’t hurt me so much00:04:19
as it interested me because00:04:21
for me it’s it was surprising, that is,00:04:23
firstly, by the way, you and I just00:04:26
said I should a couple of times and that time00:04:28
they stuffed us with yours under graduation, like a girl does00:04:29
n’t owe anything, a woman doesn’t00:04:31
owe anything, but the point is not that ah-but how could they00:04:33
start pushing me like that phrases that yes,00:04:36
men and women are equal. Where did you get the idea00:04:39
that someone can do something and someone00:04:42
can do it and I don’t fully understand the basis for00:04:46
this, that is, look in my opinion, what is the00:04:47
idea, what is it when I00:04:49
say that business this is not a woman’s business. I00:04:52
assume that this is like you know, this is a00:04:54
man’s occupation, when a man,00:04:56
relatively speaking, does it,00:04:58
invests a lot, a lot, a lot00:04:59
there, conventionally brings home the results,00:05:01
shares them with the woman and me according to the sensations.00:05:04
Well, that’s how I am with my wife. At least At00:05:06
least I like to bring home my00:05:08
results and share them with her, as it were,00:05:09
and I understand that she gets high from it, I00:05:12
get high from it, but apparently someone doesn’t00:05:14
get high. Yes, many women generally have a00:05:16
ban on receiving pleasure and00:05:18
enjoyment in life, especially a ban on a00:05:20
man accepting some benefits,00:05:23
you understand, that is, she does not allow herself to00:05:25
take this man, what is this and uh, before00:05:29
herself, she deserves the right, uh, to00:05:32
dress beautifully, eat deliciously,00:05:34
to travel, so I’m in Kalva, I00:05:38
put my soul there, you understand, Now we00:05:40
live at a time when,00:05:42
in principle, competition between a man and a00:05:45
woman is such a natural00:05:47
evolutionary state, why does she00:05:49
go out into the street, she is not hunted, she is not00:05:52
attacked by a tiger, the bear does not walk, you understand,00:05:54
of course. That is, if earlier we take this00:05:57
500 years ago, a man was really00:05:59
such a link that provides a00:06:01
security system, but now00:06:03
she can do everything herself, she doesn’t00:06:06
feel stress without a man, she can00:06:08
go to the store to buy herself00:06:10
a dildo, she can pick up a00:06:12
man for money, she can buy herself a00:06:14
fur coat, there are them, you can also understand why he is00:06:18
not needed, and if we look again there is a00:06:20
category of men who have recently00:06:23
come of age, infantile00:06:25
[ __ ] for whom it is quite00:06:28
natural to live there at the expense of women And00:06:31
someone suffers from this,00:06:32
normal mature women00:06:34
who want a family, good relationships and00:06:36
normal adequate men suffer from this because00:06:39
this is the intersection it is in In any case, what00:06:41
happens is a00:06:42
mature man meets an immature00:06:44
woman, it’s not in vain that a mature woman meets an immature00:06:46
man, so when I remember a few00:06:51
years ago, I also had such a case00:06:53
when I was talking to women, they00:06:55
attacked me like, there you are, and today they00:06:58
almost beat me up, it was actually on the set in the00:07:00
dressing room view Here you are, a piece of [ __ ],00:07:04
telling us that we should almost00:07:07
rot in the kitchen, so in the kitchen there is no need to00:07:10
rot there, of course your wife often00:07:13
stands in the kitchen, probably like they do something every day.00:07:16
Well, she’s smelling like00:07:19
death there, I wouldn’t want00:07:21
mine task as a husband, every time I00:07:25
see that my wife is full of something,00:07:28
I don’t like it because she’s00:07:29
becoming toxic, but she doesn’t want to, but the energy00:07:32
that I feel from her I don’t00:07:34
like her, I feel great when my wife is super00:07:36
relaxed, high, joyful, cheerful00:07:38
and so on further, my task is essentially Well, I00:07:40
set myself the task of how to00:07:42
do it so that it is maximally00:07:44
relaxed and on a high all the time00:07:46
so that she understands the matter on this, she is00:07:48
constantly engaged in some kind of00:07:49
activity, she takes00:07:50
pictures there, stylizes, and so on there is00:07:52
a lot of things But this particular00:07:53
plowing is not close to me because00:07:56
I know what happens when I plow myself00:07:58
and I myself don’t like this state, and00:08:00
now I imagine that my wife00:08:01
was also plowed like me, what kind of two bodies00:08:03
will lie on the sofa and suffer, you know? in00:08:06
this format you know in this at the00:08:08
Petrovsky market in Moscow in New Riga00:08:13
in New Riga there is a Petrovsky market and the00:08:16
people who come there have never been00:08:18
there in Novopetrovsky and the00:08:19
Petrovsky market in Novorizhsk Petrovsk00:08:22
this is also in short you stop by the market and00:08:27
immediately what catches your eye first this is a00:08:29
parking lot for women. There's a parking lot there and there00:08:31
are signs for women for00:08:33
women for women,00:08:34
and I take it, so I drive there to this00:08:36
Parking lot for women, there were three00:08:38
free spaces, and all the other spaces are occupied. I00:08:40
park and it means a Land Rover is driving up behind me, and the00:08:45
window opens. and you know,00:08:48
such a00:08:49
kind, kind woman, about 60 years old, and00:08:53
with such earrings she has a huge00:08:55
hairstyle like Borisovna’s koalas and she00:08:58
screams at me, are you blind and don’t see that there is00:09:01
parking here for women, I calmly00:09:04
close the door and go out. I say for equal00:09:07
opportunities, men and women00:09:09
are equal. You're shouting about this everywhere You00:09:13
earned your money for this car,00:09:15
it means you're parking too much in00:09:18
Empty spaces, slammed the door, left, walking through the00:09:21
market So she comes up to me and I recognized you,00:09:24
this psychologist Now I understand that everything00:09:28
you say on your YouTube channel00:09:30
This is not true00:09:31
Let's be honest you go into00:09:34
public transport there are places for women there are00:09:36
disabled children Have you seen somewhere00:09:38
places for men [ __ ] but if you have different00:09:40
opportunities Stand up give me a seat00:09:43
Olympic Games standards there is a difference00:09:45
between men or women with a huge00:09:49
conflict in the States because behind this story with a00:09:51
removable gender change, that men change,00:09:53
cut off their members, become women and00:09:56
swim twice as fast, lift more,00:09:59
you understand, in fact, in fact, I even00:10:03
recently talked to my wife about00:10:05
thunder, some kind of lightning, you know, she’ll00:10:08
crawl up to me under the blanket and00:10:09
snuggle up to me It’s scary, I can00:10:12
tell you that historically,00:10:15
any strong crisis is genetically,00:10:17
and if it’s a spontaneous crisis, it’s00:10:20
some kind of stress, it always puts a woman in her00:10:22
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talk about the humiliation of women,00:10:32
on the contrary. That is, if he doesn’t mind00:10:35
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Sorry, but I ask them where you find00:12:48
such morons, here’s a guy writing there00:12:51
Tells a woman you deserve it, you deserve it, you deserve it, you deserve it, you00:12:54
deserve it, you deserve it, you deserve it, so00:12:56
I literally bought the sausage that00:12:58
you love, you don’t deserve it, and you when00:13:02
you look from the outside feeling that00:13:04
society has been divided into several00:13:05
categories into degenerates who are00:13:09
gradually disappearing into oblivion and there are both00:13:12
men and women into people who are00:13:14
confused, I don’t know what to do about it,00:13:16
we need to somehow change the situation in life and00:13:19
for those who something is already doing And00:13:23
if we are even talking about these feminists,00:13:26
also such a story is very interesting, after all,00:13:29
feminism did not begin. And suffraism is00:13:32
when it was when women began00:13:35
to insist on their political rights, they00:13:37
then mixed all the crap, everything that could be00:13:39
mixed politics, personal relationships,00:13:42
as a result of which this happened Yes, if00:13:45
we go far, far back in history,00:13:50
at some period endogamous marriages were more popular on earth.00:13:54
What is00:13:56
endogamous marriage? This is when a00:13:58
Tribe of Indians lives and they are somehow00:14:00
designated that they are all from the same tribe,00:14:02
they have a [ __ ] lip there with such a ring There the00:14:05
ears are pierced I don’t know and some branch is00:14:07
sticking out in the head and so they run through the forest00:14:09
and always recognize each other and marriage00:14:13
could only be created between these00:14:16
people only within the tribe Why00:14:19
Because there were common traditions there00:14:21
even if paganism there was the worship of00:14:23
some kind of idols, but everything was common And00:14:26
no one even allowed the thought that, for00:14:28
example, a woman from this tribe00:14:30
would run to another in another forest and00:14:32
marry there, meaning00:14:34
another man, another man from00:14:37
another tribe, over time. What00:14:38
happened then there were some kind of political00:14:40
squabbles and at the political level they began to00:14:43
allow intermarriages, that is,00:14:45
when, for example, one people had the right00:14:48
to mix with another people in the interests of00:14:51
so that there would be no war there, and so on And00:14:53
from that moment on it all began All this00:14:57
crap went Why Because when you were00:14:59
brought up on the same values, traditions and00:15:01
culture and you meet a person for00:15:03
whom your culture and values are, in00:15:05
principle, alien and you don’t know how to00:15:08
negotiate and build relationships on00:15:10
some biochemical processes or00:15:12
because it’s necessary. And before, very00:15:14
often families were built because that’s how00:15:16
it is necessary in a00:15:17
natural way there has already been genetically00:15:20
formed such you know, not a completely00:15:23
acceptable perception Partner Now00:15:26
if we look at endogamous marriages, they00:15:29
also exist Yes, if we take the00:15:30
North Caucasus,00:15:32
of course00:15:34
this is very cool, but this does not mean00:15:37
that the exam Marriage is a bad mixed00:15:39
marriage, it can also be strong, he00:15:42
can also be cool But if00:15:44
there are values in this marriage And these values are formed by00:15:47
two partners And can you imagine if they00:15:49
came in a relationship instead of reaching an00:15:51
agreement, they try to prove to each00:15:53
other which of them is smarter Who is cooler who00:15:56
means more00:15:58
developed who has more intelligence tall and00:16:02
so on, of course, problems begin and00:16:04
women, she is a woman cannot00:16:07
by nature be competitive with a00:16:10
man, we cannot be competitors with00:16:11
women, this is generally an unnatural00:16:14
state, this has never happened, in00:16:17
your opinion, where is this balance? That is,00:16:20
she somehow00:16:22
leaves neither one way or the other, not00:16:24
healthy, that is, conventionally, I don’t00:16:26
welcome the behavior of girls there00:16:28
who go in for sports and do nothing in00:16:31
life at all except00:16:33
sell their faces in restaurants Yes, with00:16:36
all kinds of men, and no matter how I don’t00:16:38
welcome this is unhealthy00:16:40
feminist attitude, we are without men and00:16:44
so on And it is unhealthy, there is00:16:46
a balance in order for this to00:16:49
happen, we look, there are different men’s00:16:52
movements that set up00:16:55
male society against women and it00:16:58
really turns out to be a conflict. Like on a00:17:00
battlefield, on the one hand, offended00:17:02
men are screaming women are00:17:05
mercantile [ __ ], on the other hand,00:17:07
unhappy women scream, we are equal to00:17:10
men, this is the lightest thing,00:17:13
most of them What are the men screaming, goats,00:17:14
men Damn freaks, we are such and such there, we00:17:17
can cope without you, you understand that everything here is00:17:21
interconnected And if we take the00:17:23
institution of family as a whole Yes Look who is now00:17:26
raising men boys women00:17:29
Why Because the child has appeared00:17:34
a little grown up has not even had time to00:17:36
grow up dad has disappeared somewhere dad is already with00:17:39
another woman Either dad00:17:41
has disappeared somewhere altogether Or dad is constantly busy with00:17:43
work and of course the woman’s00:17:45
internal fears are also triggered she00:17:47
begins to raise this boy for00:17:48
herself,00:17:49
creates in him infantility, creates00:17:52
in him irresponsibility, forms in him a00:17:56
lack of strong-willed qualities, he grows up00:17:59
in a relationship, they are not looking for a woman for themselves, he is looking for a00:18:02
mother for himself who will00:18:04
wipe his snot. Can you imagine, and here is a00:18:07
woman who would like to, but this is I00:18:10
even Read fairy tales Well, what do they always00:18:12
say about the prince, the knight saved, won, and00:18:16
so on, a woman, by nature, she00:18:18
would like to be around a strong man00:18:20
who provides a survival system00:18:22
and she meets such an infantile00:18:24
as soon as a woman begins to00:18:27
feel unsafe next to a man00:18:30
not only physically00:18:32
financially morally psychologically she00:18:35
herself becomes a man she begins00:18:37
to grow eggs00:18:38
I’m not against these feminists but so that00:18:40
they also understand to some extent I00:18:42
even I also had a video where I00:18:45
talked about the fact that And they have00:18:47
no other option they have there is no other choice00:18:50
if she was deceived there several times,00:18:53
misunderstood, and was brought up in a family where00:18:56
mom and dad didn’t have a good relationship, the00:18:57
girl was so bright, she was00:19:00
a witness of how dangerous it is00:19:03
to be a woman, for example, a beautiful00:19:04
feminine dad walked around constantly cheated on her00:19:07
mom, beat her, and so on and so on. she saw all this,00:19:10
she naturally gave herself00:19:12
the whole psychosexual all these00:19:14
psychosexual stages of uh growing up and here is00:19:18
the result here you need to go back00:19:20
to the institution of the family, you know, you need to00:19:23
introduce into society a00:19:25
healthy mature understanding of who a00:19:28
husband and wife are, who is a man, who is a00:19:31
woman how they learn00:19:33
to interact with each other on00:19:35
How they support each other I can00:19:38
tell you even this topic is a00:19:40
feminist So they very often drown for00:19:43
abortions and organize these various processions00:19:47
But00:19:49
I want this to be interesting by the way there Well, in00:19:53
general, this is such a big topic now, especially00:19:55
in In America there is a lot of exaggeration that a woman00:19:57
has the right to her body and has the right to00:19:58
board, but by the way, I completely agree with this here.00:20:00
Because you never00:20:02
know under what conditions a woman00:20:04
became pregnant, and conditionally, it’s definitely her00:20:06
choice, what’s your opinion on this00:20:07
matter and I don’t agree friends with you in the00:20:11
advice section, I have already told you about00:20:13
business optimization and how to00:20:14
launch a system of regulations now I00:20:16
want to show you in practice How it00:20:18
works using the example of one of the companies in00:20:20
which I invested several years00:20:21
ago, the company produces00:20:23
children's furniture, now it is a top brand on00:20:25
the marketplace in fact what we did We00:20:28
described business processes in words and took00:20:30
control of them by loading them into the00:20:32
Ruslan system Now you see the entire structure of the00:20:34
company in the personal account of the00:20:36
rusquant service, here we have all departments of the company00:20:38
production sales finance marketing00:20:41
logistics for example in the sales department We have00:20:43
there is a responsible manager and the00:20:45
structures of this department with other00:20:46
employees, how does this help? Let's00:20:48
look at the example of the marketplace department.00:20:50
Open the recurring tasks tab.00:20:53
There is a task to check the results for a00:20:55
key request on marketplaces.00:20:57
Repeat every three days at 14:00. A00:21:00
maximum of 6 hours are allotted for the task.00:21:02
Although this is simple but an important task for the company00:21:04
that requires regular00:21:06
execution, the employee analyzes the00:21:08
search results and attaches a report, that00:21:10
is, you set such a task once00:21:12
and now it automatically comes to the00:21:15
employee without your participation; you do not00:21:17
need to keep this information in mind00:21:18
or control the implementation; after00:21:20
completing the task, the employee leaves it00:21:22
to be checked by the manager and the manager can00:21:25
already see the dynamics of the product cards00:21:27
without going into the analytics system, he simply00:21:29
opens the quantum and monitors What is00:21:31
happening on the main sites, it seems00:21:33
like a very simple action, but it radically00:21:35
changes the workflow, frees up your00:21:37
time and attention, but what happens if the00:21:39
manager has not completed this task a communicator is connected to the work,00:21:42
this is an employee of the00:21:44
rusquand company, he reminds00:21:46
the manager that he needs to start00:21:47
completing the task, writes WhatsApp and00:21:49
Telegram If the employee does not respond to00:21:52
messages, then the communicator calls him and00:21:54
reminds him what task needs to be00:21:55
completed If suddenly the process does not00:21:57
move from the point, then the control task00:21:59
goes to the manager department, the result of00:22:01
such a process, any task will definitely be00:22:04
completed, will not be lost and will not be00:22:06
ignored in our company. We00:22:08
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Tell no what it is no everyone has a choice00:22:52
you never know the girl00:22:55
could have sex with whom -by a guy00:22:58
somewhere, once seeing him00:23:00
very much,00:23:02
then you ask questions Why don’t we have something like this in our00:23:04
society? So, in00:23:06
any case, it’s like,00:23:08
look, you know how00:23:10
a man takes actions to make00:23:13
this happen, it’s00:23:15
like a woman bears responsibility And the man leaves and forgets00:23:17
about it the next day, look,00:23:20
if I don’t talk about modern00:23:23
women and I won’t even name countries, there are00:23:25
countries with a high moral00:23:26
culture, there are countries with a low00:23:28
moral culture,00:23:30
of course this is us if we are talking about the00:23:33
environment of a girl who is brought up00:23:36
in family00:23:37
For example, she has grown up to, let’s not throw00:23:42
out any diagnoses now, there’s just a girl and00:23:45
she sits and thinks, I’ll go hang00:23:48
out at a nightclub today, she prepared00:23:51
in advance, she shaved, washed herself and came to00:23:54
dance. She met some00:23:57
strange person there drunk guy00:24:00
not to have sex00:24:02
normal desire okay let's go00:24:05
have sex the00:24:06
guy has dissociative00:24:08
identity disorder in a nightclub he was a damn00:24:10
Galant gentleman in a state of00:24:13
emotional explosion and it happens00:24:16
when a person gets excited he00:24:18
turns into a doctor lecturer or00:24:21
he just has some kind of psychological00:24:22
disorder there is a mental disorder00:24:24
that is, the question now is not moral,00:24:27
morality, yes, that is, I’m not talking about this,00:24:29
that a woman should sit there,00:24:32
it means waiting for her only00:24:35
beloved, no. Of course, every woman00:24:37
at least makes this choice competently. You,00:24:40
when you buy yourself some kind of00:24:42
bag, dress, look at the reviews,00:24:45
read the00:24:47
quality of the materials, lipstick,00:24:51
cosmetics, but modern women I’m not00:24:55
talking about everyone, but a huge number00:24:57
is an army of millions, they treat00:24:59
themselves to their body,00:25:01
to their femininity, like a garbage00:25:04
can, they don’t even understand who they00:25:06
sleep with after that, that’s the question she Why are00:25:11
we now so00:25:13
careful with abortions? She gets pregnant naturally,00:25:17
the guy in general, the story is interesting, he didn’t00:25:20
come to the nightclub to start a family, he00:25:22
found it, went there just to find one00:25:24
that you can there for three cocktails,00:25:28
at best, you know, put him to00:25:31
bed and found it00:25:32
and then she what? does it offended by the whole00:25:35
world,00:25:36
that is, no one needs her. And why does00:25:39
no one need her? Because he has00:25:41
no energy. Because when many00:25:43
women confuse sex and sexuality, and00:25:46
here is the modern society of women, they00:25:48
think that if she shows her breasts,00:25:49
her ass,00:25:52
she will lie with a man quickly to bed, he00:25:53
will say Wow, he will00:25:56
never say that, and here the reasons for these00:26:00
abortions are very often not00:26:02
some common sense, but hatred,00:26:06
lack of acceptance of oneself as a woman, lack of00:26:09
understanding of one’s own importance,00:26:11
low self-esteem,00:26:14
hatred towards male00:26:16
society because we want whether we do it or00:26:18
not, a woman who sleeps with a man,00:26:21
sooner or later she begins to get used to him,00:26:22
this is for you, this one hundred percent, this is00:26:26
already a confirmed fact over the years of my practice, a00:26:28
woman starts just sleeping with a00:26:31
man like for health I always00:26:33
say, Listen, do you want this, I want to00:26:37
talk about this, six months later Less00:26:40
time passes, Mark writes, I’m already00:26:43
jealous of him, I already love him For what reason00:26:45
when it wasn’t invented by me History00:26:48
is truly a scientifically proven fact The00:26:51
female body begins00:26:53
to rebuild You see, it00:26:56
adapts to men And the male00:26:58
immune system begins to work00:27:00
completely differently for a woman to another00:27:02
associative series of sense organs00:27:04
reproductive system00:27:07
biochemical processes00:27:09
biological clocks are formed in common That00:27:12
is, it becomes such a single00:27:13
mechanism if you take the Bible what is00:27:15
written there your father and mother will cleave00:27:17
to your wife Well, cleave this means you00:27:19
will converge on completely different systems of00:27:22
your body women do not00:27:24
understand this And when a woman sleeps from right to left00:27:27
with different men calling It’s00:27:29
like I’m modern, I do what I want,00:27:32
this is the future schizophrenic, this is the future00:27:37
clients of oncology patients, that is, this00:27:40
woman in whom they have become detached from00:27:43
their feminine nature. It’s amazing,00:27:45
you know that a woman doesn’t know herself00:27:47
very much a lot of things that are not of their nature, how it00:27:50
works, sometimes questions Elementary and I00:27:52
ask a woman, he looks with such eyes00:27:54
it And what is it00:27:57
you know what’s in your purse Let’s00:28:00
go back you’re conditional if we00:28:03
take the topic related to the conciliar you don’t00:28:05
consider that there is some kind of male00:28:07
responsibility In general, no, we haven’t come to this yet.00:28:09
I think that I think. It00:28:12
seems to me that there is absolutely00:28:14
equal responsibility for this00:28:17
because a man who must00:28:19
think about what he is doing in concrete terms and00:28:23
bear full responsibility for the00:28:25
result of his actions and vice versa is the00:28:28
same, that is, I don’t devaluation of those00:28:30
on others I’m not saying that one person is00:28:32
of course00:28:36
If a man says a woman I’m00:28:39
pregnant, I assure you the number of00:28:41
abortions around the world will be reduced by 9000:28:43
percent If a man says twice, the00:28:48
problem with abortion will be solved if a00:28:52
man is responsible for00:28:54
his actions but again, you understand that00:28:56
men are also different and anything can00:28:59
happen. Let's put ourselves in the place of a man00:29:01
who decided to just sleep with a woman;00:29:04
he had no thoughts with her; that means00:29:06
building a family there or having children;00:29:09
the condom broke; she got pregnant; I'm00:29:12
pregnant for00:29:14
the first time. Oh what a man thinks and what if this00:29:16
happened again? Think about how they didn’t meet each other there on the first day.00:29:18
He sits and thinks.00:29:21
Listen, if she’s with me on the first day,00:29:23
maybe she was with someone else the day before yesterday and a00:29:25
week ago with someone else, right there00:29:28
this story all with00:29:32
sexual permissiveness in general in society,00:29:33
pumped up sex enlightenment like that, you know, He00:29:36
prevents us from being adequate mature00:29:39
people, you wouldn’t think about it Well,00:29:42
just imagine such a situation,00:29:44
but I kind of have a different view of life, let’s00:29:47
say a little and I generally00:29:51
try take a meaningful approach to any00:29:53
questions, and especially to questions that00:29:55
can fundamentally influence the course of your00:29:58
life. And a child from a stranger00:30:00
is a fundamental thing that changes the00:30:03
course of the game as a whole by 180 degrees. It’s00:30:07
like you’re an adequate person, so00:30:09
I’m just in my head to allow something00:30:11
like this to happen. I can’t do things, but it just00:30:13
seems to me that you know what type of person you are when you’re a00:30:17
man. When to do any actions, he00:30:19
must take into account the risks and that these risks00:30:21
will then have to be carried with00:30:23
him. It’s clear that there are00:30:26
women who are frivolous there,00:30:28
but and Men are the same00:30:29
who do the actions, they don’t wonder00:30:31
about the consequences And what will happen00:30:33
then What if she gets pregnant and you have00:30:35
such a chance, as it were How will it00:30:36
happen next?00:30:38
The man merges, most of the men00:30:41
merge, he tells the woman, listens. It’s00:30:44
your problem,00:30:46
do something. something Here she is, which is why00:30:48
the question arises is what the00:30:50
woman says, I want the right00:30:52
set, look, I still always00:30:54
recommend that women, before00:30:56
doing this, go for the same abortion,00:30:58
consult very well and with a00:31:01
gynecologist, not with the gynecologist for00:31:03
whom the abortion is performed you know, it’s a natural00:31:06
procedure, I cleaned everything there, come on, for now, it’s00:31:09
even a disaster for the female00:31:11
body, the uterus is not intended00:31:14
for something to be picked out there, to be killed,00:31:17
to kill the life that originated there, there00:31:19
is a certain tuned structure, a00:31:21
natural process that00:31:22
performs its functions, a productive00:31:25
system, it works like a clock and in this00:31:29
case, again, if we return to00:31:31
this history of morality and morality of00:31:33
culture in society, this needs to be instilled in00:31:36
women00:31:38
from an early age, from school and as a boy, we00:31:42
also talk about how to00:31:45
develop as individuals in order00:31:47
not to end up00:31:48
divorced, abandoned with children,00:31:50
aborted then, without the function of procreation at all, he00:31:54
also tells the boys that it is not at00:31:57
the expense of women that00:31:58
most men become superheroes there, so that00:32:01
you understand what men say to their00:32:03
wives, these are my statistics that we00:32:06
keep at our place and in the online school at the institute,00:32:09
most of the men whom the wife catches00:32:12
in the fact of communication with other women on00:32:15
social networks correspondence00:32:17
dating sites there are some kind of00:32:21
virtual sex and so on They say there is00:32:24
nothing special about it I just increase00:32:26
my self-esteem00:32:28
but male self-esteem does not grow from the fact00:32:31
that you seduce a woman She will00:32:33
never grow up you can sleep with all the00:32:35
women in the world The maximum that will happen to you is00:32:40
nothing good Memories are vivid00:32:44
male self-esteem what is it growing and00:32:46
achievements So you set00:32:48
a goal A year later you achieved it, you already have00:32:51
bigger testicles you think What a00:32:53
cool guy you set goals you achieved The00:32:56
importance of your personality is00:32:58
growing even cooler and there it’s all a story, it’s not about00:33:01
significance, it’s an evasion of responsibility,00:33:05
neurotic states of women00:33:08
are driven by this, you understand00:33:13
the same way. And what does this relate to in your00:33:16
opinion in one case,00:33:18
and if we talk about male infidelity, here00:33:20
we need to generally consider the structure of sex,00:33:22
and that is, the very nature of sexuality if00:33:25
we are talking about the sexual nature of00:33:27
a man, she is the only man who enters into a00:33:30
sexual relationship with a woman to00:33:32
release energy, so he accumulates it,00:33:34
accumulates it somewhere, he goes and releases it,00:33:36
and a woman has sex to00:33:38
receive this energy, that is,00:33:40
such an exchange begins, and therefore, by the way, to the00:33:42
question of what energy she releases you are a00:33:44
man, you understand, think about it Why are00:33:47
many families where there00:33:50
is no money, no happiness, no love, no00:33:54
understanding, not just such a degrading,00:33:56
degrading family? Look at them,00:33:59
man, what does a woman’s bed come with and00:34:02
what does a woman absorb into herself? It’s00:34:04
always been like this, we don’t deceive ourselves00:34:06
like that will be in another thousand years if00:34:08
a woman sleeps with a drunk, she00:34:10
expects that everything00:34:12
will be fine in her life, nothing good will happen00:34:14
if she sleeps with a drug addict, damn it with a00:34:16
slacker with some kind of abuser, rapist,00:34:18
with a mentally ill00:34:19
person. She will never be happy,00:34:21
he gives her energy completely rotten00:34:25
toxic she absorbs it then they ask00:34:27
themselves the question why everything is so bad00:34:29
in my life and this sexual story00:34:31
It all comes down to sexual00:34:34
intelligence00:34:35
sexual intelligence It’s not about00:34:38
just taking off your panties, we00:34:40
all have different sexual constitutions we do00:34:42
n’t really know ourselves, yes If a man,00:34:45
for example,00:34:47
needs a few minutes there to get aroused, he was lying there eating a sandwich,00:34:51
watching TV, there was some00:34:52
advertisement flashing 25 frames of a woman’s breasts,00:34:55
he00:34:56
left his ass on the sandwich, scratched his ass and00:35:00
rustled into the kitchen with his slippers, and there was his wife.00:35:02
You see, he’s from behind and he has a different00:35:05
story if you grab her00:35:07
breast without warning. For her, it’s like a00:35:09
taxi driver grabbed her, she needs to prepare,00:35:12
she gets excited for sex in a different way.00:35:14
This is a certain ritual, this doesn’t mean00:35:17
that there can’t be00:35:18
spontaneous sex in a family. it could also be00:35:20
when the husband came up, grabbed his wife, sat him down00:35:22
on some bedside table and entered her, and00:35:25
this could happen, but in any case,00:35:27
for this to happen in family00:35:30
relationships, the level of00:35:32
sexual intelligence is completely different, there00:35:34
is care, attention,00:35:36
respect, dialogue between people then here00:35:39
such sudden spontaneous cases of intercourse00:35:42
are quite appropriate And if this is a family where00:35:45
people do not care about each other They do00:35:48
not support each other in any way,00:35:49
of course conflicts will begin and we have00:35:53
women What do they often do? She is afraid00:35:55
that she will leave her or find a00:35:58
mistress or begin to cheat often00:36:01
goes into bed with a man she doesn’t00:36:03
want to, imitating pleasure, showing00:36:06
that she supposedly feels good and wonderful You00:36:08
feel a weak weak wi-fi signal You00:36:11
feel it, it doesn’t load either and00:36:14
here we can’t explain it You do00:36:16
n’t touch the wi-fi also here the exchange00:36:19
energies happen You enter into a00:36:21
woman who, in principle, does not want you.00:36:24
She sleeps with you not because she is00:36:27
high, but because she has fear, because00:36:30
she has grievances, because she has anxieties00:36:32
and experiences, you absorb it all. You00:36:35
also00:36:37
connected to yourself and when the man of such a00:36:40
woman gets out of bed, what happens to him?00:36:42
But in fact, it’s as if he did00:36:44
n’t drink some water with salt and returning to the00:36:49
question: Why do00:36:52
certain people cheat? Why do00:36:54
men cheat? Why do women cheat? How do I00:36:56
lead myself to this, look at the reasons for00:36:59
their cheating can be completely different00:37:01
if people at the level of00:37:05
sexual relationships do not develop sexual00:37:07
intelligence, that is, they do not study their00:37:09
partner sexually, there will be problems with00:37:12
female infidelity, she is still like that, you know,00:37:15
more00:37:16
not even emotionally She is more confident,00:37:19
that is, the woman begins to look for protection00:37:22
there, even more we are not talking about00:37:24
sexual contact about protection to00:37:26
feel needed and important, a00:37:28
man, in principle, also does not cheat in order to00:37:31
support his ass with bills.00:37:34
This is all [ __ ], a man00:37:37
cheats in order to also00:37:40
feel his importance, he wants to00:37:42
feel special,00:37:44
a man comes home00:37:46
and his wife is there, this is Us we return to the00:37:48
beginning of the video which is constantly being plowed00:37:50
on par with what because they think that she00:37:52
should be cool,00:37:54
she is tired and he comes home00:37:57
thinks She is filled with energy, he00:38:00
wants to hug,00:38:02
no need to kiss Well, not now I have a headache, that’s00:38:06
all, that is, he doesn’t feel that he00:38:08
came home in a resourceful state, there00:38:10
is no dick there, there is no woman there, there is a00:38:13
businessman, a woman in a skirt, a man in a skirt,00:38:17
we will feel great, no,00:38:19
he comes to the mourner, as she00:38:22
meets him, she will put on his slippers from00:38:24
that moment on, he begins to feel like an00:38:25
emperor, you know, she takes him00:38:28
by the hand, accompanies him to the bath,00:38:30
dries him away from the children with a blanket and a00:38:33
towel, smears him with oils,00:38:35
makes him very important, you're probably tired00:38:38
today, you're probably working a lot, you're00:38:41
probably thinking a lot, and you're probably like this, she00:38:43
put him to bed, you know,00:38:47
she did all the procedures with him, she filled00:38:50
him with energy, he he was filled with her00:38:52
and gave it to her and with this feeling of high the00:38:55
king leaves from there00:38:58
or takes a mistress who00:39:00
then writes to him in secret I00:39:02
miss you without you I can’t in a man it’s important00:39:05
to feel needed by a woman and00:39:08
modern women are these achievers00:39:10
they can’t give a man has this00:39:12
condition and a man has a responsibility in00:39:14
this too when a man forces00:39:16
his woman to work This is what I often00:39:19
sign Immortal sentence00:39:22
if you tell your woman go00:39:23
work we need money from you as a00:39:27
man you are no longer a man for her the00:39:29
reporting period has begun Why00:39:33
Imagine that what's your wife's00:39:35
name? My wife00:39:38
gets a job at a dairy00:39:40
factory where they bottle super healthy00:39:43
milk and there is Semenovich, the head of00:39:46
the workshop, and he yells at your wife00:39:49
because she doesn't00:39:52
have time to package these cans, can you00:39:55
imagine no00:39:58
home you’re warming up as much as you can imagine00:40:00
This idiot has been yelling at me all day today00:40:04
everything is wrong for him everything is wrong for him and you00:40:07
’re sitting like this In the position you are now00:40:09
Well, damn, of course Well, yes00:40:13
That is, it’s the same thing that we’re stable,00:40:15
you understand Genetics to genetic00:40:18
Memory it is still oriented to00:40:20
a thousand-year history, the same as you00:40:22
sitting in your village A thousand years ago00:40:25
sharpening a method So, in00:40:30
short, I decided to sharpen my weapon00:40:33
Sandra came running,00:40:36
I was there picking mushrooms and a man from a00:40:39
neighboring village said that I was the00:40:42
worst there a woman in the world and pushed my00:40:49
head no [ __ ] understand, what is she00:40:53
waiting for, that you will get up now, go and00:40:56
pack him in this tetrapak And as00:40:58
soon as a woman, she is a00:41:00
subconscious reaction, she begins00:41:01
to understand that besides my man there is a00:41:05
stronger male before whom my one gives in00:41:08
man,00:41:09
her respect for you disappears.00:41:12
Imagine if she works in00:41:14
society, now it’s fashionable, all these00:41:15
business centers are here and there, so she works00:41:17
in a business center where there are more successful00:41:21
men than you,00:41:23
so she goes there for a business lunch somewhere,00:41:26
they all they are sitting in a00:41:29
Ferrari video, she is so beautiful, she came in and00:41:32
took a coquette with some kind of puree,00:41:35
they start00:41:36
and she then, at the level of her morality,00:41:39
morality of love there, will say to her husband, I am00:41:42
married, I am this, but we don’t want it or00:41:46
not, she will think sooner or00:41:49
later about what her man who, instead00:41:53
of developing himself to move00:41:55
forward, uses her as an insurance policy,00:41:57
forces her to work hard work00:42:00
equally with him, then also demands from her00:42:03
that she come home to be a00:42:05
sexy cat, she can’t be a00:42:07
sexy cat, she’s already lost for you,00:42:10
you showed her that00:42:13
there are other males around her and around you,00:42:15
you haven’t marked the territory00:42:18
bye-bye. Well, look at this00:42:22
model, I understood your point that in essence it is00:42:25
largely the man’s fault, that he creates00:42:29
such conditions in the opposite direction, that is,00:42:31
How in your opinion is this00:42:34
Imagine a situation where a woman has there00:42:37
I don’t know Everything is there and the man00:42:40
provides everything and everything is fine and he00:42:43
still goes to change why this is00:42:44
happening he goes to change00:42:47
listen here the reason can be00:42:49
listed endlessly00:42:52
begins for many men for example00:42:56
sex alcohol becomes so stably00:43:00
stabilizing with the mental factor,00:43:03
maybe he has some kind of00:43:05
sexual disorder, we don’t know, but here00:43:07
everything is very individual, we can, in general,00:43:09
we are now talking to you in general, but00:43:11
of course each case needs to be00:43:12
considered individually, there are men,00:43:14
for example, a man and a woman live in a family00:43:17
she needs sex once every two00:43:20
weeks, he has three times a week,00:43:23
he doesn’t try anyway, and so and so, as if, and00:43:27
so she says all sorts of things Well, I don’t want to but00:43:29
I can’t but I’m the fifth ten listen there is a00:43:31
woman there who lives with a deficiency00:43:34
sexuality, they themselves don’t00:43:36
understand it, they do everything possible to not00:43:38
let a man get close to them,00:43:40
somewhere they even marry drunks,00:43:44
drug addicts, for men whose00:43:47
shortcomings are often discovered, so that based00:43:49
on these shortcomings, don’t let him get00:43:51
close to you, that is, She finds a00:43:53
spoiled man and in order not to00:43:56
sleep with him, she doesn’t understand this,00:43:59
she reasons, she goes to her friends, she says how00:44:01
I would like to meet a normal man,00:44:03
why are there normal men, so that00:44:05
this love is romantic and she doesn’t need00:44:07
romance, she has an avoidant personality type,00:44:11
deficient sexuality, if you put all this00:44:13
together She’s the opposite will00:44:15
look for a man00:44:17
in order not to go into00:44:19
close contact, but in order not to00:44:21
go into close contact. But if you were00:44:24
different and we would have a different relationship,00:44:26
you understand And in general this whole story with the00:44:31
betrayals of which we are talking even if00:44:33
talk about women Yes, but00:44:36
you can’t talk in a stereotypical way about00:44:39
women who cheat on a man00:44:41
because they just want to have sex.00:44:45
Well, that’s not all I00:44:48
’m saying right now, these are the statistics of communication with00:44:51
women over the years,00:44:52
which I have been keeping, I’ll say it again In our00:44:55
online school there and at the institute00:44:57
It’s interesting for me as a specialist, it’s00:44:59
interesting for my psychologists, I’ll just00:45:01
tell you one story from my practice00:45:03
A woman comes and says00:45:06
So, so Mark, I’m there in a00:45:09
relationship with an abuser, he beats me and00:45:10
to the point that even cigarette butts I00:45:12
also have cigarettes when I’m sleeping If he00:45:15
tries to wake me up, he says I don’t00:45:16
wake up, he can put out the bull,00:45:19
my whole back says there are burns,00:45:21
everyone didn’t mentally work on what they00:45:23
worked on so that she has00:45:25
the resource to get out of this relationship Just00:45:28
leave this person alone00:45:29
because it is very difficult to leave the abuser.00:45:31
Especially if you already have an addiction,00:45:32
there is also an addiction. Not only00:45:34
psycho-emotional but also00:45:35
very hormonal. Now we have dealt with this matter,00:45:38
she leaves him, I say,00:45:40
Listen, therapy is not over here00:45:42
We now need to work further so00:45:46
that you don’t get into a new00:45:47
relationship in which you will be00:45:49
hurt, no, I already know everything, I already00:45:52
understand everything, I’m already doing great00:45:54
and I left, appears in a year there, maybe a little00:45:57
more,00:45:59
you have to sit opposite me and00:46:01
says mark I have a problem And what kind of person did I get00:46:04
married to? I sit and think maybe I’m marrying an00:46:08
abuser again. She says, well, you won’t00:46:09
believe it. I married a very good00:46:12
man00:46:13
and he loves me so much, he carries me in his arms,00:46:16
he takes care of me, he’s very00:46:19
cultured at the same time. he’s very strong,00:46:21
very handsome, shows him00:46:23
a photo, what’s really there? You know? Well, he’s00:46:26
such a homely Alpha male, just like in00:46:30
the movies, a hefty man, two meters tall, two00:46:32
meters tall, with money, with a business,00:46:35
with such a face, you know, damn strong-willed,00:46:39
what else is needed, she’s just like she described him,00:46:43
but perfect dreamer dream only00:46:45
possible00:46:46
but I have a lover She says00:46:50
this And so she tells a story00:46:53
every time I get out of bed from00:46:56
my lover I get a gag00:46:59
reflex and I can vomit for 10 minutes in the00:47:02
toilet00:47:04
from these sensations that I experience00:47:07
after sex with him she showed me00:47:10
a photo of her lover, the feeling that he had been hit with a00:47:12
shovel from childhood, damn it, in the00:47:14
face and ears, damn it, you eat everywhere and she00:47:17
herself says, that is, in comparison with my00:47:19
husband, this is some kind of rotten, this is some kind of schmuck,00:47:23
I understand that head, but I’m00:47:26
constantly eating and he humiliates, he doesn’t write00:47:28
some kind of SMS, you’re a creature there, you’re a toad00:47:31
there, some kind of complete loser, you’re not a woman,00:47:35
you’re [ __ ], it’s lovers writing and she’s coming,00:47:39
why did this happen, need, she’s00:47:44
been a victim for many years, need00:47:45
suffering, nowhere disappeared here there is no00:47:48
reason to suffer here there is a reason00:47:50
to get high to be happy she doesn’t know how to live00:47:53
such a life this is a very serious00:47:55
psychological problem here we need a00:47:57
psychotherapeutic approach that00:47:59
can last several years and for such00:48:01
women New relationships00:48:03
cannot be [ __ ] at all, they do not ruin the life of the man00:48:06
they meet, they even complicate the00:48:09
situation for themselves and here Imagine it’s cool To me it00:48:14
means listen and I have a00:48:16
question But in general it’s great This relationship doesn’t00:48:19
generally exist, for example, I00:48:20
don’t know the house everything is fine I’m good that is, what’s the00:48:23
key difference I just00:48:26
started listening to myself like this I’m left with a00:48:28
feeling that there is some kind of00:48:30
ill health in relationships everywhere no00:48:33
It’s clear that now even many of your00:48:35
subscribers may think that I’m00:48:37
exaggerating there yes But I’m a00:48:39
psychologist who doesn’t come to me to tell me00:48:41
that they received a salary, both00:48:44
men and women come to tell me about problems00:48:46
and that’s why I’m talking about problems and I’m talking about00:48:49
statistics about this problem too,00:48:51
look, there are different00:48:55
different categories of people Let’s be00:48:58
honest and let’s not lie to anyone I’m00:49:01
not you to me, especially since your subscribers have00:49:03
intelligence, there’s a neural network00:49:07
Imagine a00:49:09
woman whose neural scale is developed00:49:12
there by 70 percent from 100 percent00:49:15
potential, such a pumped-up00:49:18
woman, smart, erudite, educated with00:49:21
values with some kind of00:49:24
internal scale of personality is enough.00:49:25
She meets a man, his neural00:49:28
scale is developed by 20 percent, he is a00:49:30
stupid monkey, he does not have the ability to talk,00:49:33
he does not have the ability to think. dead00:49:36
emotional intelligence It’s just that00:49:39
they are trying to create a relationship for the period of00:49:42
falling in love When00:49:45
the hormones are off the charts they will more or less00:49:47
understand each other,00:49:49
anything will work there and biochemistry the00:49:52
emotional component not only but00:49:55
when it all subsides and they make00:49:58
contact the person00:50:00
where you will need to sit down and say, for example,00:50:02
she tells him You know, it is very important for me00:50:05
in a relationship, that is, this is my00:50:07
love language, I feel significant at00:50:09
this moment when on behalf of you hug there,00:50:13
kiss me, tell me nice words00:50:15
and he sits at him and looks at him [ __ ] there00:50:19
I am who I am, I do00:50:22
n’t like the door, it’s because he’s a00:50:25
[ __ ], he’s not a henpecked girl, a00:50:30
girl is writing to me today. Here’s a man who told me00:50:32
that he doesn’t call me because they’re00:50:33
henpecked. Where do you find it,00:50:36
think about it, how can these people reach an00:50:39
agreement, no way, but no way. What are we00:50:43
talking about? about what if00:50:46
two more or less conscious partners meet00:50:49
Why when a man meets a woman it is00:50:52
very important to study each other not at the00:50:54
level of sexual compatibility00:50:56
Sexuality compatibility is a00:50:58
concept you know that is formed very00:51:00
quickly in a family where people understand each00:51:02
other They will always agree00:51:04
when you you get to know a person, his interests,00:51:06
his values, what he does, what he00:51:10
reads, what films they watch, what music they00:51:12
listen to, to what extent he is generally trying to00:51:15
develop in expanding the scale of his00:51:17
personality, and if you understand that you00:51:20
coincide in this direction, everything00:51:22
will be fine. That is, you will agree00:51:25
If the level development completely different00:51:28
agreements there won’t be any you won’t00:51:30
succeed the question arises that after a00:51:33
period of falling in love everything ends00:51:34
no There new stages begin that00:51:38
are formed and00:51:40
implemented through awareness00:51:43
What is this you just Well, it’s a00:51:47
logical story that you are the first there for00:51:49
about six months three years there there are00:51:52
10-20 months You have hormones00:51:55
that are off the charts against the background of these00:51:56
hormones there is something Like a teenager who has00:51:58
a lot of energy yes Well and then it00:52:01
goes over That is, how about you I don’t know00:52:04
you probably have experience00:52:05
interacting with people who are00:52:06
married there 10 20 there how many dollars is it00:52:08
years that's what I'm forming what's the most00:52:12
look what's happening this is one of the most00:52:13
key mistakes and men and women are our00:52:16
common mistake We00:52:18
tell each other when we're in love I love you00:52:21
Although there's no love there yet00:52:23
you know So we internally00:52:27
perceive interaction with a partner00:52:30
as love, we feel the need for a00:52:32
partner. We need him just00:52:35
during the period of falling in love. And since there is a00:52:37
lot of biochemistry and since there are a00:52:39
lot of endogenous hormones that affect00:52:41
us like drugs, causing strong00:52:43
addiction we begin to confess our00:52:46
love to each other, I love you, the period of falling in00:52:48
love ends, we reach the00:52:51
stage of interaction, person, personality,00:52:54
personality, where00:52:55
satiety and addiction to each other already appear, that00:52:58
is, the touch of my wife on00:53:01
my hand or on my back does not cause00:53:04
this feeling, you understand or00:53:06
on the contrary,00:53:07
and just at this moment people have00:53:10
the thought that love is over.00:53:14
Now we have to run away, we have to00:53:16
part because we don’t feel00:53:18
this effect. Wow, euphoria, no00:53:21
euphoria, no00:53:22
heightened emotionality. No, you’ve00:53:25
landed, is it good or bad, it’s00:53:28
just, it’s natural, it’s fact is a fact they00:53:30
still want it anyway emotions still00:53:33
want this driver gradually But00:53:35
then, my dear, the00:53:37
building of relationships begins from a position of maturity00:53:40
Personality when you are not controlled by your00:53:44
body, your biochemistry and love00:53:48
emotions and when you begin to control00:53:50
yourself00:53:51
relationships with women are used to each other00:53:53
friend and here00:53:55
a lot depends on your development when you get to know each00:53:58
other when you develop yourself00:54:00
become interesting to each other from00:54:02
new sides When you have common00:54:04
values, traditions, family hobbies00:54:07
of some kind, there is an understanding that if there are00:54:11
children in the family, then we are mom and dad00:54:14
here with children, a man and a woman without00:54:17
children, and it’s from such little things from such00:54:19
small bricks that they00:54:23
go through these stages and before they reach the00:54:26
stage of a real declaration of love,00:54:29
this can take 4 5 600:54:33
years so that you can be and it’s more different for everyone,00:54:36
but people don’t even want to00:54:40
understand and study it, there’s a theory that it’s00:54:43
just a lot of people who say that there are00:54:46
some natural impulses, conditionally00:54:49
what you have by nature. If you00:54:51
suppress them for yourself, then it’s bad for you.00:54:54
there you are, like a person who00:54:56
supposedly descended from a monkey,00:54:59
conditionally from an animal. You must follow00:55:01
your instincts, follow them, this is this,00:55:03
this is nonsense, or00:55:05
that a person met a woman, let’s say00:55:11
men, women, they have the first I don’t know00:55:13
35 no energy there, emotions so on00:55:16
then not this sign is passing that the00:55:18
whole cycle has ended and the next one should begin.00:55:20
That is, this is how nature00:55:22
has it, that is, this is what needs to be00:55:25
followed, this is just a large layer of people00:55:27
who broadcast the idea that a00:55:29
man and a woman should not follow00:55:31
their natural instincts, what00:55:33
if not emotions means, as it were, that’s all for00:55:35
you, as if the Game is over As they say, the00:55:37
next stage or is this nonsense in your00:55:39
opinion, I don’t agree with this at all, that00:55:43
is, this is the most understandable thing, this is the simplest00:55:45
irresponsible way to find a00:55:48
legitimate justification such uh for your00:55:52
not being ready uh- e Being a conscious00:55:55
person of psychological evil00:55:58
is understandable that most people come out00:56:00
of the period of falling in love and00:56:02
are disappointed in relationships, sometimes this00:56:04
disappointment can be00:56:05
justified Well, indeed,00:56:07
the expectation from relationships was alone there in00:56:09
relationships in a completely different way, but there are00:56:12
families in which you are all great and00:56:14
wonderful but they don’t feel such00:56:16
brightness and indeed one of the00:56:19
partners may look to the left and find a00:56:22
new psycho-emotional irritant for themselves,00:56:24
thinking that this is my happiness and00:56:28
the same thing will happen there, you will move on from00:56:30
this again Get out of this stage and you will again00:56:33
understand what happens here too it’s not like that and00:56:36
you can run endlessly, jump into00:56:38
a relationship, go through a period of falling in love,00:56:40
run away from there, this does not mean that00:56:43
this is the norm. It means that you00:56:45
must understand, firstly, why this00:56:47
happens,00:56:48
some cause-and-effect relationships00:56:50
have revealed themselves here, the norm is probably not00:56:52
for someone one model of relationship00:56:55
When there are children appeared00:56:58
relative to what relative to the beginning of00:57:01
meeting Sandra and the appearance of the first00:57:03
child got married and a couple of months00:57:05
ago00:57:07
we got married after 7 months of dating00:57:11
[music]00:57:13
people are the same too We didn’t do00:57:17
the right thing with a finger We have Well I think that there00:57:20
is a higher intelligence00:57:23
theory of explosion Well, okay, we can conduct an experiment00:57:25
by the way regarding the theory of00:57:27
explosion somehow for I have done it00:57:30
many times, nothing Well, when00:57:33
you meet people who believe00:57:34
that we are00:57:35
the Universe, people in general, all living00:57:38
organisms were created as a result of00:57:41
gas formation somewhere at the top00:57:45
no one can withstand this experiment00:57:47
everyone gives up I'll tell you later Let00:57:51
it be a surprise so if you00:57:54
just look at the development of a man and a00:57:57
woman So you met Wow it's a thrill00:57:59
Everything is great you have passionate sex there you00:58:02
like each other again Why is this00:58:04
for why is this condition given If you00:58:06
met your wife My wife and I are other00:58:08
men and women without00:58:10
hormonal support You have never00:58:13
been together You know why00:58:16
now go into a restaurant approach a00:58:19
woman who is sitting there eating00:58:21
Caesar salad with shrimp Take her fork Damn00:58:24
savor her like this never peel off00:58:27
Why Because you have00:58:30
certain social00:58:33
norms that limit there are internal00:58:36
barriers00:58:37
Imagine that if someone said something to you,00:58:40
your future wife, you00:58:42
wouldn’t do that either And even if it was00:58:45
Sandra, you would I wouldn’t do this if she00:58:46
weren’t your girlfriend and wife, but the00:58:48
hormonal system is a00:58:50
hormonal surge. You’re starting to00:58:53
turn into a real00:58:54
drug addict, and during this period we easily00:58:58
adapt to each other, that is, this00:59:00
period until we go through the00:59:02
adaptation period. And here you are you are00:59:05
so in love Wow kiss You are already from the same00:59:08
fork and kissing and00:59:11
hugging and yours is there this finger is the00:59:14
dearest you understand the birthmark is the dearest That00:59:17
is, all this connection has happened the00:59:19
next stage the hormones have subsided you are already00:59:22
from the position of personality personality begin to00:59:24
communicate awareness here00:59:26
the kids appear this is that this is a reflection of our love,00:59:30
manifestation in children, this is your continuation,00:59:32
you begin to perceive00:59:34
your woman differently, you develop a degree of00:59:38
responsibility, a man always needs stress,00:59:40
we cannot live without stress,00:59:43
a man without stress,00:59:45
you understand this in a degrading Dodik in00:59:49
family relationships, too.00:59:51
when, of course, this catastrophe We,00:59:53
in my opinion, have already talked about this, and00:59:55
that women often want to keep men00:59:57
close to them so that they don’t go anywhere, don’t01:00:00
communicate with anyone, the problem is actually01:00:03
when a man01:00:05
understands that he is becoming a dad. Remember01:00:08
your feelings,01:00:11
you need all the best we need it, we need it 5 1001:00:15
and it has always been like this and it will always be like this, and01:00:19
these guys are thinking and01:00:22
shouting that we are the best and coolest feminists,01:00:25
we can handle it without you, we’ll talk about it,01:00:28
our children will talk about it and01:00:31
you’ll see we won’t see it anymore But everything will be01:00:36
okay -to another01:00:37
I remember that when we recorded the episode that time there01:00:41
were comments on the01:00:43
topic of the fact that you’re sitting there, arguing01:00:44
from the position of how it should be, but at the same time01:00:47
you yourself have divorces behind you, and so01:00:49
on. That is, and why if you’re so01:00:51
smart As they say, you yourself don’t, but you01:00:53
understand that these people are building them for the first time01:00:56
Yes, if you never hid01:00:58
I, too, was a frostbitten [ __ ], young01:01:02
motorists understand And when I was created,01:01:06
my first family was created I01:01:09
had no idea at all what it was to01:01:11
be a man to being a father at the same time, I01:01:15
even understand all the psychological foundations.01:01:18
Well, I never thought at all that having01:01:22
received my education there, I would someday01:01:23
apply it in my life.01:01:26
Considering the fact that I was brought up in a very01:01:28
religious family,01:01:29
you know, I graduated from missionary school01:01:32
several times and had to be a01:01:33
preacher I shoveled the Bible to the top of my01:01:37
head, not only01:01:38
that’s why01:01:40
listen, well, you can all be in01:01:45
different states in different periods of life.01:01:46
Thank God that I’m not a degenerate now,01:01:50
I’m absolutely fine with that because01:01:53
I had some kind of experience01:01:55
listening there. This is my experience for01:01:57
someone into the house there I say you’re01:02:00
living wrong I’m basically voicing my thoughts do you01:02:03
accept or don’t accept Well,01:02:06
my first marriage fell apart and my second01:02:08
too, so I’m now01:02:11
in my third marriage Everything is fine with me,01:02:14
wonderful, but you don’t have the feeling01:02:17
Look, you’re like that puff pastry is interesting,01:02:19
besides the fact that you are your01:02:23
activity and you see a lot of01:02:24
problems and not much good, let’s say01:02:27
people come with problems this time and the second01:02:29
is just a religious layer,01:02:31
what do you have here? You yourself say this Yes, and01:02:33
religious experience is everything equally01:02:35
lays down certain views and01:02:37
values and a vision of the world and the fact that this, to01:02:41
some extent, can give you a01:02:43
biased picture of some things, that01:02:46
is, one way or another, a big vision of01:02:48
problems plus a conditional relay This is a01:02:51
religious picture, it will come out to you01:02:52
Maybe in work, I’m not not inclined towards this01:02:57
no on psychotherapy this is psychotherapy01:03:00
some kind of spiritual foundations these are spiritual01:03:03
foundations therefore01:03:06
straight No my personal opinion it may01:03:09
be completely something that is your personal01:03:11
it may not coincide with some01:03:13
things it is very important to understand the difference Yes01:03:15
here are the people who see me in the01:03:18
Internet space,01:03:20
they see me from a slightly different side,01:03:22
that is, we are not even01:03:24
here now in the psychotherapeutic01:03:26
process, that is, here I am, well, you can01:03:29
directly speak pop media there is a01:03:33
psychologist who calls a spade a spade the01:03:35
truth Sculpts the uterus expresses01:03:39
his opinion, someone likes, listens to01:03:40
someone, doesn’t like, doesn’t listen, but if01:03:44
we’re talking about work in an office,01:03:47
naturally, it’s a completely different story,01:03:50
professional ethics And not only and01:03:55
no imposing one’s opinion. No,01:03:57
these are actually two big differences. And if01:04:00
we draw a line,01:04:02
let’s take Let's start with, but in your01:04:08
opinion, what format and lifestyle should a01:04:12
man have in order for him to be01:04:16
comfortable with himself, comfortable in a relationship01:04:19
and for everything to work out for him, that is,01:04:21
what in your opinion should01:04:23
life consist of, what elements of creative work I do01:04:26
n’t know family, children, that is, what kind of01:04:28
balance do you see in general? I started to want to talk about01:04:30
men, then about women. That’s how you01:04:32
see it, look, I keep asking, there are, as it01:04:36
were, super successful women who01:04:38
have succeeded in their family and succeeded in their business01:04:40
and have five children there a01:04:42
happy marriage and they are there, well, that’s all I01:04:45
understand, the point is that I am such a picture,01:04:47
maybe I see there, I know such01:04:49
people, yes. From the outside, maybe they have their own01:04:51
cockroaches there, but nevertheless, it’s the same thing01:04:53
that there are men who01:04:54
have succeeded there, you somehow see01:04:57
what kind of balance you make. Look here01:05:00
too. Of course, you can argue in such a stereotyped way,01:05:03
but01:05:06
I have a very simple opinion. I believe that01:05:09
every person should live this life01:05:11
in joy, in pleasure, in the high of pleasure, in01:05:16
contact with some of01:05:18
their inner values without trying anyone to01:05:21
prove anything to, because when a01:05:23
man goes out on such a path,01:05:27
I will prove to everyone that I’m cool, it sucks and01:05:31
ends with strokes, heart attacks at a01:05:33
young age, impotence, and so on and so01:05:35
forth, it’s clear that I’ve already said that01:05:37
for a man, stress is the driving force,01:05:39
but what kind of stress?01:05:42
because01:05:46
no, he lets all the family money go to01:05:48
decorate, then this is stress, this stress will kill,01:05:51
I mean stress, these are the goals you have set, you01:05:54
have set a goal for yourself, you do01:05:56
n’t move, you encounter difficulties, you01:05:58
overcome these difficulties. That’s the01:06:00
kind of stress I’m talking about if he found a01:06:03
neurotic woman, damn it and she has him there01:06:05
Every day I need this I need 501:06:08
Buy me one Buy me a third money01:06:10
spend no love only01:06:13
material such relationships Of course he01:06:15
will go crazy there And if she is an abuser she01:06:18
will destroy him altogether Do you know how01:06:20
many men are in relationships with women who are01:06:23
abusers? how this manifests itself I will01:06:25
now tell you about women’s struggles, it is01:06:27
difficult to calculate because in society it is generally01:06:29
accepted that a woman is weak, she is01:06:31
emotional, you shouldn’t cry, they immediately01:06:32
leave outwardly, close down and the man01:06:36
feels like01:06:37
I’m a bastard, I offended the poor woman01:06:42
and women are not manipulators, very many of01:06:46
them manipulate even themselves they don’t01:06:49
understand Who’s manipulating sex01:06:50
Somebody’s manipulating a man I01:06:53
constantly cause a feeling of guilt like that’s such a01:06:56
disappointment I’m disappointed That is, everything01:06:59
that happens at the level of male abuse01:07:03
There’s also gaslighting There’s01:07:05
gaslighting is very common when a01:07:08
woman tries to01:07:10
convince a Man that everything that’s happening in01:07:14
his life is only an apparent appearance,01:07:16
that is, like01:07:18
you seem to be successful but you are not successful You are01:07:22
sexy but you are not sexy There are better01:07:24
men who destroy their men They01:07:27
deprive them of energy not only of the strong-willed01:07:31
qualities of sexual energy and women01:07:33
who do not benefit at all from01:07:35
having a normal person next to them a successful man and01:07:37
profitable To have some loser next to her,01:07:39
she cannot be in a01:07:43
relationship with a normal man, she01:07:45
will not feel her importance and01:07:47
will die next to him, so it is01:07:49
very important for a man not to deceive himself,01:07:53
not to be afraid of being weak,01:07:56
not to be afraid to show01:07:58
himself from a position the losing side I01:08:02
need to constantly climb somewhere and01:08:04
prove to the whole world that I can do anything I01:08:05
have big balls I can completely handle everyone now01:08:07
as soon as a man allows01:08:09
himself to be weak this is already a huge01:08:12
huge bonus to his health to his01:08:15
strong-willed qualities because strength is what it is01:08:19
ours is formed about such already about01:08:22
moral, moral and volitional qualities. It is01:08:26
formed not only in victories,01:08:27
you understand that in their defeats. And if you are01:08:30
afraid to admit defeat, you will never01:08:32
form a stronger position for yourself,01:08:33
you will constantly be01:08:36
convinced that you are a weakling. If you01:08:39
stubbornly climb like ram to the new01:08:43
gate to prove to the whole world,01:08:45
on the contrary, you will become weaker, the01:08:47
next point is important. This Of01:08:49
course, of course, a woman next to her does not lose herself01:08:53
as a man, a huge mistake of01:08:56
men is that we, as women,01:08:58
begin01:08:59
to abandon what defines us01:09:02
as men, this For example, what Well for example,01:09:04
you have your own resource states, here are01:09:09
your resource states, I have01:09:10
time to spend alone on the Surf, go for a ride, but01:09:13
if your wife starts telling you,01:09:16
choose either me or Surf,01:09:20
imagine the date on the one hand, your01:09:22
favorite person, on the other hand, your favorite01:09:24
activity as soon as you sacrificed part01:09:27
your life, your hobbies,01:09:31
you begin to hate this person01:09:34
because, having taken from you what is valuable to you,01:09:37
he gave you nothing in return.01:09:39
Well, many men do this; they01:09:42
enter into a relationship out of fear that01:09:44
the woman will get angry; they begin to01:09:46
refuse sports and communicate with01:09:48
friends from being infatuated with one’s friends, even from the01:09:52
state of being alone, for01:09:54
example, sometimes I also need to just01:09:56
be alone, am I01:09:59
now some kind of [ __ ]? No, I’m01:10:02
recovering like that. I need to sit and01:10:04
stick to something, think about something,01:10:07
reflect, and for men this is one of01:10:12
those important things. needs not to stop01:10:14
being a man next to a woman, it’s difficult,01:10:17
it’s difficult for many, many men believe01:10:21
that if especially forward Falling in love01:10:23
happens, they begin to turn a blind01:10:25
eye to some important things for themselves, and01:10:27
then when you can’t roll back,01:10:30
promised Why earlier earlier,01:10:36
so you just have to approach to all01:10:39
these questions, more consciously understanding01:10:42
that periods of love end,01:10:45
then you will bite yourself for a long time01:10:56
both01:11:00
in marriage and in motherhood and there in01:11:03
her femininity in everything, that is,01:11:05
in your opinion, what is this woman like? Why do they01:11:07
succeed, that I can just give them01:11:10
good in this state? Well, what does it mean to01:11:13
succeed? This means that she is01:11:15
realized creatively, for example, while01:11:17
earning money money at the same time, she is01:11:19
feminine, she is energetic, she gets high on it01:11:22
Well, it’s great, there are such01:11:25
women that in your opinion or01:11:28
you don’t believe in them. Why not, but this is01:11:31
probably such an ideal balance01:11:34
when a person, when a woman, she and how she01:11:37
develops is engaged in some kind of her own01:11:39
business and she is doing well in her family, the01:11:41
same as men. If a man01:11:42
warned in business that she has no family,01:11:44
it’s like, well, inferior to some01:11:46
extent, and the same thing here if a woman is in01:11:49
the family, but she’s not allowed succeeds01:11:52
in any of its development, not in anything,01:11:53
this is also, as it were, essentially inferior, so01:11:55
I am beauty about a man, you said yes,01:11:57
some aspects that are necessary for01:11:59
him to be harmonious and01:12:01
successful in your opinion,01:12:02
women,01:12:04
in principle, of any of a person Yes, there is01:12:07
internal motivation, there are external ones, due to01:12:09
which a01:12:11
woman’s internal motivation is formed. She01:12:14
comes into contact with her Well, this is01:12:18
the word, female phrases, female nature. It’s so01:12:20
streamlined, of course, she01:12:22
comes into contact with her hobbies,01:12:24
values, what gives joy,01:12:26
pleasure, pleasure,01:12:28
so naturally the need for01:12:31
this arises, dependence01:12:32
in parallel, if she, for example, meets01:12:34
another man who becomes an01:12:36
external motivation for her but also complements the01:12:39
internal motivation, this happens very01:12:41
often when people meet, women01:12:44
meet the right man and they01:12:47
develop together in such a tandem. And of01:12:50
course women will receive events as a mother and01:12:53
succeed in their business and rejoice01:12:55
smile be bright beautiful and interesting01:12:58
if we are talking about a woman who01:13:02
sacrifices herself they are also called01:13:04
wise women a wise woman all01:13:08
wise women in oncology lie01:13:11
sacrifice and being sacrificial is not01:13:14
wisdom therefore it is very important for a woman01:13:16
to be in her resource in the flow in joy01:13:18
in safety in the pleasure of01:13:20
pleasure, this is her resource state01:13:23
if she does everything out of fear, he01:13:26
said to himself today that01:13:28
most of our women are in search of a01:13:30
man out of fear of loneliness01:13:34
due to the fact that their age is already01:13:36
pushing them to get01:13:38
married. when a woman is in01:13:41
joy, high, pleasure, then01:13:44
everything works out for her.01:13:45
Other women don’t like such women01:13:47
because for some people everything is very01:13:50
easy and for others everything is very difficult. It is clear01:13:53
that it is impossible to explain to our parents01:13:55
if I tell my Mom,01:13:57
who has worked all her life01:14:01
[music]01:14:02
and01:14:03
came home, fell off my feet in three shifts,01:14:06
I’ll tell you, you need to be in a resourceful01:14:09
state in the joy of pleasure, it will give me01:14:12
such [ __ ] joy, pleasure,01:14:14
you know, I won’t say that and why,01:14:17
because then there was a different01:14:19
time period, then people lived differently01:14:22
the opportunities developed differently01:14:24
were not like they are now, it is clear that you always01:14:26
know there will be people who work in the01:14:30
kitchen, someone on a farm, someone a businessman,01:14:33
this does not mean that we should all01:14:35
be super rich, but for one01:14:38
woman, realization is when she she started a01:14:42
family with a man, gave birth to children, and01:14:49
sells these beautiful socks for children here. For her, this is her success, she01:14:52
gets high from it, but for another woman,01:14:55
leading a01:14:56
team of thousands of people, success must be01:14:59
understood by the request. We very often do01:15:02
not live our dreams; we set a01:15:05
goal for ourselves only because that we01:15:07
were jealous of someone But she has it01:15:10
So, too, I need men, the same thing, but at the same time we01:15:13
are not doing what we are doing We are01:15:17
generally destined to move away from our01:15:20
purpose and I just01:15:24
tested this on myself many times and the result was very01:15:26
bad multi-million dollar debts01:15:29
In general, you are going down the wrong path. Nothing01:15:33
good, I understand, was recorded, and01:15:36
I probably asked you that time in a01:15:38
slightly different context, but today I would like to01:15:40
comment on this issue, too,01:15:42
for you, as for a person with a lot of01:15:45
family experience and with a person who is01:15:47
constantly like this or otherwise, I’m immersed in the topic of relationships01:15:50
This is how you01:15:51
formulate it for yourself and how you feel What is01:15:54
love01:15:56
if you’ve already said I want to listen01:15:59
over time nothing has01:16:01
changed Look,01:16:04
if you said then I can be myself01:16:07
next to you You can be yourself There01:16:09
next to I am husband and wife and this is01:16:14
actually a superficial look at a01:16:16
meaningless story,01:16:18
neither of them, by the way, after graduation,01:16:21
one guy wrote to me and said, I can’t01:16:24
tell my wife that I want to go to a01:16:25
strip club and say I want to be01:16:28
myself next to you have a01:16:30
completely different story, you understand this is01:16:33
no longer about love.01:16:34
Why did we even talk today01:16:37
about the stages in order to reach the state of love,01:16:39
some time must pass, sometimes01:16:42
life circumstances01:16:44
develop this way for people, they have something very01:16:46
strong in common and love is formed01:16:49
faster for some -longer01:16:52
you are interested in my opinion not yours yes yes01:16:55
Here I am just talking about if we talk about01:16:57
my life01:16:59
Here are my wife and I Yes together not so01:17:02
long ago Yes with Nastya So theoretically01:17:07
theoretically We01:17:10
should approach the period of love in about a year and a half01:17:13
the present is Well, almost everything is01:17:17
different because we went through01:17:19
completely different stages, but during these during this01:17:21
time we buried our son, you know, the01:17:25
first one who lived with us for a little while01:17:27
and died, our second son was born,01:17:31
somehow our life together immersed us01:17:34
in a completely01:17:35
unbearable environment01:17:38
for many families,01:17:40
and let’s say I, as a person01:17:44
who is constantly faced with the01:17:45
tragedies of other people, can say that01:17:47
the statistics, you know, are not entirely01:17:51
encouraging and positive, I’m talking now01:17:54
about families where the loss of a child occurs,01:17:56
where people simply01:17:58
stop interacting with01:18:00
each other, this is a trauma for men, this is a trauma01:18:02
for women, someone retreats into themselves, someone01:18:04
becomes an alcoholic, someone gets drunk, people01:18:06
break up and we somehow managed to01:18:09
overcome this period. Don’t quarrel, on the01:18:13
contrary, become closer over time, was born01:18:17
to crush them. Here you are I saw him like that from afar01:18:20
there for four months01:18:22
Yes, that’s why for me Love is01:18:24
still honesty, sincerity But that’s01:18:26
all And it comes in I can be myself next to01:18:29
you when we hear each other So I come I do01:18:31
n’t have my game anymore you know01:18:33
I flew here in Dubai without her twice01:18:35
and you know I’m going on a business trip I01:18:38
need to do something and it’s clear that there01:18:41
she is somewhere at the level of her inner01:18:43
feelings to let a man go to a city where there are01:18:46
more escort girls than necessary,01:18:50
how many of them are needed is unknown at all But there are a01:18:52
lot of them at least such rumors are01:18:55
circulating Yes, there are super There are a lot of01:18:57
women of easy virtue But I could01:19:01
say No, but I could still say that01:19:06
maturity is Why01:19:10
deceive yourself for me Love is about01:19:12
some kind of inner honesty with yourself01:19:15
when you don’t feel like yourself you come up with the idea01:19:18
that you love a person, I love her, and01:19:21
you think about another woman, or I love01:19:25
my husband, but I myself dream. If only01:19:27
I had a man, what a happy01:19:30
girl it would be, no,01:19:32
I don’t owe each other anything, in01:19:35
fact, more precisely, I owe my wife to buy01:19:38
jewelry -that’s why they care, you01:19:40
do it because you love it,01:19:42
just as she doesn’t have to01:19:44
prepare your favorite dishes, she01:19:47
makes it because she loves you, sometimes01:19:49
I wake up and look at my wife, of course, a01:19:51
stranger’s woman in bed01:19:54
for this person, I only knew five01:19:57
years before that I lived my life with01:20:00
my interests and hobbies, then01:20:03
I and she appeared in my life Appeared01:20:05
This is a very difficult period in general01:20:08
when you need to01:20:11
become family, but in fact you are01:20:13
strangers, but you are family. It wasn’t just that01:20:17
I heard your thought, I made up for it01:20:20
now, but it’s interesting that a year has passed And01:20:23
the idea is yours, it hasn’t changed, it’s been tested by01:20:28
me01:20:29
[laughs] it’s01:20:32
fundamentally inside, I suggest we01:20:36
end our podcast today on this bright note01:20:38
because01:20:39
we said a lot. Thank you very much. Come on for01:20:43
the final, traditionally guys, questions for01:20:45
you, first of all, be sure to subscribe to the01:20:47
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Write in the comments your thoughts,01:20:58
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for yourself Maybe there’s something you01:21:02
agree with that resonated with you, or01:21:03
maybe it’s the other way around what you don’t agree with, but01:21:05
you understand that this is a reason to think about01:21:08
something, this will be your conclusion, your01:21:09
insight, let’s share,01:21:11
and the most important thing, the most important thing, I don’t know, we01:21:14
want to make a little01:21:18
money or something. Yes, it’s not possible, not money,01:21:20
you can contact someone, I’m not cheating or01:21:22
something else or something01:21:23
very useful01:21:25
I have a book girl girl01:21:27
women men01:21:29
men shouldn’t no but if you have a01:21:33
daughter it’s an awesome book Well,01:21:34
okay one book is not too much I won’t have one01:21:37
book for myself look like01:21:40
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The best quality formats are FullHD (1080p), 2K (1440p), 4K (2160p) and 8K (4320p). The higher the resolution of your screen, the higher the video quality should be. However, there are other factors to consider: download speed, amount of free space, and device performance during playback.
Why does my computer freeze when loading a "Марк Бартон. Какие отношения опасны? Про измены, аборты, низкую самооценку и сексуальный интеллект" video?
The browser/computer should not freeze completely! If this happens, please report it with a link to the video. Sometimes videos cannot be downloaded directly in a suitable format, so we have added the ability to convert the file to the desired format. In some cases, this process may actively use computer resources.
How can I download "Марк Бартон. Какие отношения опасны? Про измены, аборты, низкую самооценку и сексуальный интеллект" video to my phone?
You can download a video to your smartphone using the website or the PWA application UDL Lite. It is also possible to send a download link via QR code using the UDL Helper extension.
How can I download an audio track (music) to MP3 "Марк Бартон. Какие отношения опасны? Про измены, аборты, низкую самооценку и сексуальный интеллект"?
The most convenient way is to use the UDL Client program, which supports converting video to MP3 format. In some cases, MP3 can also be downloaded through the UDL Helper extension.
How can I save a frame from a video "Марк Бартон. Какие отношения опасны? Про измены, аборты, низкую самооценку и сексуальный интеллект"?
This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.
What's the price of all this stuff?
It costs nothing. Our services are absolutely free for all users. There are no PRO subscriptions, no restrictions on the number or maximum length of downloaded videos.