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so Good evening, dear friends, let's start00:00:03
FB Life dedicated to the issues of psychology,00:00:07
theology, sociology, history, of course,00:00:10
personal psychology, it is more important and all00:00:13
other questions rest on it,00:00:15
no politics, no war, except00:00:18
from a psychological point of view. So where did00:00:22
you run away where did the picture run away? What does00:00:25
she00:00:26
want? Let's go. So kind evening Alexey00:00:30
Please tell me how to deal with the00:00:32
feeling of loneliness when00:00:35
familiar feelings are discarded acquaintances feel00:00:38
lonely no one00:00:40
needs an ending there is not enough light so that I00:00:43
can accurately answer your question But if00:00:45
this is a question When acquaintances are discarded00:00:48
or acquaintances get rid of you00:00:50
you feel00:00:52
lonely So no one00:00:58
not many people do not understand that the00:01:01
psychological problem of00:01:03
loneliness00:01:05
is subconsciously a problem of unwillingness to00:01:08
break away from oneself the problem of selfishness and00:01:11
look at others or be useful to them in some way00:01:15
Let's Go00:01:20
Please00:01:22
Yes00:01:28
Just so they brought me coffee00:01:35
so here and if these are questions Think about00:01:38
what and when you could do to people and00:01:41
then then00:01:46
Perhaps the problem of loneliness will begin to00:01:48
torment you less like00:01:52
this Hello What is asking What00:01:55
is forgiveness how to sincerely forgive and00:01:56
ask for forgiveness Nazari Korchinsky00:01:58
asks Nazari00:02:01
this is a rich topic, but I suggest you think about this00:02:03
from what side of the fact00:02:07
that a00:02:09
person is a judge maybe only the one who00:02:13
created it, therefore there is no forgiveness - This is a form of00:02:17
pride, this means you think that you00:02:21
know exactly what this person’s action meant00:02:24
in relation to you and how it00:02:26
fits into the whole long, vast00:02:30
history of the world. That is, this is attributing to00:02:32
yourself divine functions If you00:02:33
you will understand that the Lord God must forgive or not forgive00:02:35
a person, then00:02:37
it will be very easy to forgive people, it will be00:02:40
very easy to forgive, it’s just not our00:02:42
business, you don’t have to communicate with this00:02:45
person, you can change your00:02:47
contacts with them forever, but it’s00:02:49
up to someone else to forgive and not forgive. I don’t have00:02:51
a problem with forgiveness I just don’t judge00:02:54
anyone, so think about this00:02:58
topic00:03:00
Alexey How far have we come in00:03:01
deciding to go beyond the boundaries of00:03:02
reality within the framework of the book O spl00:03:05
gods if mo you can voice sects, these are00:03:08
very highly specialized issues Come00:03:10
to class, we discuss them there00:03:16
Alexey Kak learn to rest00:03:19
during an illness and not get rid of00:03:21
symptoms and continue to work Oh Dasha, this is a00:03:23
great story, people don’t know how to get00:03:25
sick, let’s also have a very rich topic, I00:03:28
’ll take a Small Aspect but an important one In my00:03:30
opinion, I once learned to00:03:34
get sick when I was sick - this is very00:03:36
metaphorical the opportunity to burn through the00:03:38
toxins that have accumulated in the body, that is, the00:03:40
garbage that has accumulated in the body, and for00:03:43
this you need to focus specifically on00:03:45
this topic, you need to try to figure out00:03:47
such a psychological exercise for yourself,00:03:48
figure out what you have in excess and00:03:51
focus on the fact that with symptoms,00:03:54
for example, temperature, it all burns out,00:03:57
many people are starving It’s up to you00:04:00
to decide, but when I’m sick, I usually00:04:01
don’t eat and it pops up and00:04:04
goes away, and besides, illness is a00:04:07
great way to train the power of00:04:09
intention. That is, you once Vector is00:04:11
designated for recovery and the second00:04:13
Vector is for getting rid of toxins, mentally00:04:15
hold it and any doctor knows that the00:04:18
psychological mood of the patient is more important00:04:20
than anything00:04:22
else Yulia often happens that00:04:24
they have feelings for a young man00:04:26
but there is no reciprocity Yulia If you often00:04:27
have feelings for a young man00:04:30
this is very similar to me, I will not say that this is00:04:32
exactly the case, but to me it is very similar to00:04:33
psychological dependence and not on00:04:35
falling in love, or especially not on love.00:04:37
Here we need to figure out, by and large,00:04:39
why you are so drawn to lean against00:04:41
young people, not in the sense that you are a00:04:44
nymphomaniac or so on, but most likely00:04:45
this is not true Nastiness in childhood, that is, the00:04:48
trauma of rejection in one form or another,00:04:51
here are young people. They are bastards, as if they were00:04:53
selected, even without psychological00:04:54
education, they perfectly feel that00:04:57
this is not not falling in love, not female00:05:00
feelings, not human feelings, but only00:05:02
an attempt to transfer that trauma of rejection00:05:05
And therefore they not only do not experience They are00:05:07
too eager to see a specialist figure it00:05:13
out Vadim Melik Alexey I'm an employee, I00:05:16
served in a military band until there00:05:18
was a conflict on professional00:05:19
grounds with my superiors. They transferred me to a00:05:21
combat unit, I'll get rid of it, I feel like I'm being00:05:23
sent away, it's00:05:26
unfair. Here's how you can go about00:05:28
this injustice, appeal,00:05:30
for example, like any employee,00:05:31
write a report and appeal, but00:05:34
I can tell you right away that they don’t like the complainant00:05:36
and your new command may00:05:38
treat this very badly here at your own00:05:40
peril and risk, whether you want it or not,00:05:43
the army is a very tough place, the warring00:05:45
army is a deadly tough place,00:05:48
so Think about it,00:05:51
maybe you need to focus not on the00:05:54
question of why this is happening to me, but why00:05:57
it will become easier with me, but for this you need to00:06:01
find a lot of personal Courage. And this00:06:03
personal courage is usually needed much00:06:04
more than00:06:06
storming an enemy trench in order to honestly00:06:10
look yourself in the eye and answer the00:06:11
question. Why to the question Why00:06:14
Ivan Golinsky How to remove00:06:19
neurosis Ivan neurosis if it’s very00:06:24
simple within the framework of such a two-minute I00:06:28
can afford here00:06:30
this is unrealized Will you need to honestly00:06:33
ask yourself with paper and pen what00:06:36
will you have forbidden yourself what you00:06:38
have not allowed yourself to do from what you00:06:41
were striving for But what you didn’t decide on is00:06:44
if you do it for yourself Allow it to not grow into00:06:50
suing a guy of 25 years has never had a00:06:54
relationship Talk00:06:58
to00:07:00
it depends on what kind of00:07:02
relationship you are building with her If you00:07:03
want a relationship00:07:06
that is as honest as possible to be a relationship00:07:08
and in which only great love is00:07:09
born, you must try to be00:07:11
as honest as possible, look, there is an00:07:13
iron00:07:14
rule, the more the relationship strengthens,00:07:17
the more secrets you tell each00:07:20
other, that is, the more frank you are with00:07:24
each00:07:25
other, therefore zeros young Desh,00:07:29
some kind of ideas and so00:07:32
on you are afraid that she00:07:35
will react00:07:36
inadequately, you can try not00:07:38
to tell here, as if equal positions00:07:41
cannot be told, so you00:07:44
make a00:07:45
decision. I can tell you what my00:07:49
opinion on this matter is and I have already told you, all I have to do is00:07:51
add that if00:07:53
you are afraid for the quality of00:07:55
sex there, will she appreciate it? you deserve it00:07:58
there the first second third time, then believe me,00:08:00
very experienced lovers the first00:08:02
second third time is very funny people00:08:04
get used to each other for a long time, so it’s00:08:08
like this for you, even if you were a giant of00:08:11
sex, the first time it would go through the00:08:13
roof, it’s00:08:14
stable, that’s why And for that time while you00:08:17
come to each other Yes Advice and love for you, it’s00:08:21
as if she won’t understand that it’s your00:08:23
first time so you just need to be00:08:25
honest and love your Girlfriend and that’s it Yes,00:08:30
nature will tell you life will00:08:36
arrange it Good evening Alexey I play00:08:39
music I sing I play the guitar definitely00:08:41
I do what I should, but there is no00:08:42
popularity to support myself00:08:44
only with music And life passes This is what00:08:45
happens to everyone who is engaged in professions that are00:08:49
not approved in society right away, and a00:08:51
musician in society is a disapproved00:08:53
profession, the usual way out of this is to00:08:55
work at another job that is00:08:57
more or less00:08:58
similar00:09:00
and engage in music as your main00:09:02
specialty in which you want to00:09:03
work as a hobby, as soon as half of the00:09:05
income in a new profession is from the old one, you can00:09:07
leave the old one if you have a family and children00:09:10
or big plans. Then you need to receive 2/3 of the income00:09:13
before leaving the old one.00:09:16
Find yourself a job, even as a taxi driver Where00:09:18
you will be able to support yourself And at the right00:09:20
time play in a taxi flexible hours00:09:23
work communicate with people travel around00:09:24
the city excellent00:09:27
work that’s what it’s all about00:09:31
or then you’ll have to endure all these very same00:09:33
principles the artist must be hungry00:09:35
tolerate everything no longer much connected with00:09:37
this very interrupt with odd00:09:40
jobs there, it’s your choice, you00:09:45
choose how not to be manipulated by your00:09:47
ex, she left on New Year’s Eve, she reacted00:09:49
disgustingly, but then it became good, cool00:09:51
projects, she quit smoking, she healed herself a00:09:53
month later, she apologized and ended up in a victim’s lump00:09:55
on a cruel one, there is such a rule for00:10:01
boys, it’s good immediately after a divorce, and for00:10:03
girls, then they start to worry very00:10:06
much the00:10:07
girls feel bad immediately after the00:10:10
divorce, it’s very bad and then they00:10:12
immediately and then they rejoice for a long time00:10:15
because boys without feminine energy have a00:10:17
very hard time for them boys usually don’t understand00:10:19
what it costs to have a wife or there are girls there00:10:22
all the time understanding then they split up the00:10:25
way out of this it’s very easy00:10:27
to endure all this with love, it goes away00:10:30
in about a year, well, of course, you can00:10:32
remember it for the rest of your life, but I mean00:10:34
the sausage lasts about a year from 9 months00:10:36
to a year, but if it’s more than00:10:38
a year, you need to go for00:10:41
psychological help, but You’re a year old00:10:44
No, I understand that once on New Year’s00:10:46
you got another 6 months to safely endure it,00:10:48
endure it, it’s like a serious illness00:10:50
that you just have to get over,00:10:58
just what? What is00:11:03
someone sneezing? Who could remember me now00:11:06
during a live00:11:07
broadcast, if any volitional action then how the00:11:11
initial choice happens intuition00:11:12
seems to have disappeared not a single rationality00:11:15
is enough how the heart chooses and not the00:11:16
eyes and the mind the heart chooses When you00:11:19
know how to listen to him These are the abilities that00:11:21
need to be trained in00:11:23
fact Alesya do you believe in life without00:11:27
sex they even00:11:32
say there are a lot of joys that00:11:34
compensate for the absence00:11:36
sex00:11:41
to choose an exchange with the world around us00:11:43
Through the interchange of energies,00:11:45
the transmission of thoughts at a distance,00:11:46
this is actually how it00:11:47
happens with energy You are definitely changing,00:11:50
it’s not even necessary, it’s not00:11:52
necessary for a pre-test proro people are pleasant in the00:11:58
business And the transmission of thoughts at a distance00:12:02
Well, think there’s such a thing when00:12:05
we send00:12:07
two emoticons in instant messengers, this is our00:12:09
standard response to our other half,00:12:10
for example, to some joke or remark.00:12:13
But if you send one emoticon or00:12:15
three of our halves and we ourselves instantly00:12:18
read the whole mood and the whole00:12:21
message00:12:24
that is behind00:12:28
this - practical telepathy00:12:34
therefore,00:12:37
therefore, there is still a little left and we will00:12:39
generally00:12:42
read directly Alexey I am a very social00:12:45
person, interaction with society00:12:46
is not given almost with physical pain.00:12:48
But interaction is necessary to00:12:49
make money, is there a way out? There is a00:12:51
way out. Very many people consider00:12:55
themselves terrible introverts for just00:12:57
one simple reason the reason is because they00:12:59
know how to deal with other people. And00:13:02
when they learn how to deal with other00:13:04
people, they understand that they were super00:13:06
extroverts all their lives who simply00:13:08
squeezed themselves into a vice.00:13:11
This often happens at my school, people thought00:13:14
all their lives that they were extroverts, introverts,00:13:16
what they don’t like people, they can’t communicate, and00:13:18
when I taught them to communicate, right away, more precisely,00:13:22
we taught them together, I and they taught themselves how to00:13:25
communicate, it turns out that they are terribly in00:13:27
love. Human society is terribly fond of00:13:28
communicating, terribly loves to interact, that’s00:13:31
all. Therefore, come learn, and if00:13:34
not with us already module of the art00:13:36
of arguing That is, just communicating00:13:38
to prove your point of view begins on00:13:40
April 4, and if you still don’t come,00:13:43
then I will give you two pieces of advice, more precisely. One00:13:47
remark in the form of advice usually00:13:50
communicates poorly with people, people who have00:13:51
big complaints about people00:13:55
subconsciously, or More often00:13:58
than not, this is expressed in the fact that00:14:02
people are not accurate. And when they are afraid, they are not00:14:06
honest. More precisely, on the contrary, when claims are00:14:08
not honest. And when they are afraid, they are not accurate.00:14:11
Try to be honest and accurate,00:14:12
as honest and accurate as possible. You00:14:15
can, in any human contact,00:14:18
see what00:14:22
will happen unconditionally. or put on disposable00:14:24
glasses too much question then cont Lina00:14:29
Velk Alexey it’s very difficult for me psychologically right now00:14:31
I’m sick of myself from00:14:34
my internal state How to be00:14:35
what what to do think about the topic Where you00:14:39
betrayed yourself00:14:43
look for a change and everything will become easier in00:14:53
place00:14:56
so Alexey What Is conscience an00:14:59
acquisition acquired from nature?00:15:01
Why Some people worry about feeling the00:15:03
fate of others, while others will not care00:15:04
How to raise a child ashamed of a00:15:06
person Raising a child The conscience of a00:15:08
person is very simple, the main thing is not to decide00:15:11
for him what will be better for him, which00:15:13
many parents, many00:15:16
mothers are very inclined to do let him make mistakes all the00:15:19
time, pose a situation of choice so that he00:15:21
himself decides yes or no And the NS itself is00:15:24
the consequences of actions and conscience Conscience00:15:26
is a moral feeling in a person00:15:29
that shows him look, ethics is00:15:30
very simple, it is arranged vertically in00:15:33
ethics there is no right left beautiful00:15:35
ugly there is only up or down00:15:37
Conscience is just such an organ00:15:39
that tells you now00:15:41
you draw from above or00:15:49
[music] from00:15:54
below00:15:57
so00:15:59
uh Thank you, the courses surprised me especially after the00:16:02
homework These are questions from sponsors I00:16:04
read Yes Come back, we have00:16:06
a lot more, the full module is designed00:16:08
for 2 s for a year, a whole complete integral cycle of00:16:12
seminars00:16:13
and modules So you still have five times00:16:16
more to learn than you have already studied Well,00:16:18
with us, I don’t know where you started,00:16:22
but a00:16:23
new new long one-year course00:16:28
starts with us on April 23 and there you00:16:32
can catch up with everyone00:16:34
else00:16:36
so I'm studying in apero On the last question I00:16:41
gave answers to the questions of this week, or rather,00:16:43
which have tormented me for years, but for the last00:16:44
2 days I don’t want to, I don’t know what to do, my00:16:46
interest in life has disappeared, what is it, how to00:16:49
get out of this, this is such a story of00:16:53
times00:16:56
look, when a person studies, bad things00:17:00
begin incomprehensibly, then successes, then00:17:02
major successes, then it seems that God00:17:04
grabbed him by the beard, then there will definitely be a00:17:06
phase of a sharp decline in the00:17:09
inability to apply what was there and00:17:11
complete disappointment It is always there in00:17:13
everyone, moreover, all all good teachers00:17:15
use it on purpose, no matter what you study00:17:18
whether you shoot a pistol, play00:17:19
hockey or psychological00:17:21
things, I can tell you as a consolation that this00:17:24
phase is usually before moving to the next00:17:27
level, weak souls think that this is a sign00:17:30
and give up, strong ones, or stubborn ones stay and00:17:33
move on to the next00:17:34
level Roma Boyka how to develop00:17:37
deep thinking Well, here you go the art of00:17:39
thinking begins on April 23 Roma00:17:41
Come And if you don’t want to come, then00:17:45
again I’ll00:17:47
answer briefly The first thing is that in order to think00:17:51
deeply you need to think not in a stereotyped way, to00:17:53
begin with, outside the box, that is, you need to00:17:55
identify your own thinking patterns and00:18:00
look for your honest answer to the question,00:18:03
pose questions to yourself and00:18:05
answer them honestly, honest questions, the most00:18:08
important thing in the ability to think is to pose a00:18:10
question to yourself, our civilization00:18:12
is a civilization of not so much template00:18:14
answers, that would be half the problem.00:18:23
question and now00:18:25
after the fifth non-standard question you00:18:27
begin to think deeply. If you00:18:30
answer this honestly, what should you00:18:33
do if templates creep in and at first they00:18:34
will creep in then at least rewrite the00:18:38
templates template questions or template00:18:40
answers in your own words Let it be00:18:43
template in the first stage, just00:18:44
rewrite it in your own words, then it00:18:46
may not yet be deep, but it00:18:47
will already be original. And this is the path to00:18:50
Independence and00:18:52
depth00:18:57
of thinking.00:19:00
Why do you want to act to00:19:02
harm yourself Veronica asks because one00:19:04
part of you was taught to hate the00:19:06
other, you need to practice integrity practices00:19:12
to balance00:19:20
so Alexey, what do you think is higher?00:19:24
Will, for example, Agustin or reason, like00:19:26
Uvinsky, I think that the point is more important In the00:19:30
triangle of the Saint, or rather St.00:19:33
Augustine, the mind, emotions, The will in the middle00:19:36
is a point called Saint Crea El,00:19:39
the ability to create out of nothing, a creative00:19:42
ability that is similar to the00:19:43
divine one that the Lord gave us Here00:19:45
she is the most important thing and everything else in the00:19:46
balance00:19:48
to create according to free movement00:19:57
de Rodite without telling them the whole00:20:00
Truth in order to protect them from unnecessary00:20:01
worries mother 73 2 years ago00:20:03
they buried their blood and now I am tormented by00:20:05
this issue parents do not owe anything to anyone00:20:07
and children nothing to anyone shouldn’t00:20:09
it’s always a situation of choice you decide yes00:20:11
or no to my mom 76 I tell her the whole00:20:14
truth she always has the courage00:20:16
to listen to it all so you decide you00:20:19
know your00:20:22
circumstances by the way mom big00:20:24
Hello mommy If you’re watching me I00:20:26
love you terribly oh00:20:41
Alexey you they said that there are00:20:43
three types of destinies; fate cannot be changed, but00:20:45
you can change the quality of its life.00:20:46
Can you tell us in more detail what is the00:20:47
difference between them, how to distinguish them? Well,00:20:49
destinies are divided from a psychological point00:20:51
of view into harmonious, problematic and00:20:54
tragic; harmonious - this means you00:20:56
fit well into the environment around you;00:21:00
problems with the personal social00:21:02
subconscious, on the one hand, this is the good of00:21:05
the Lord, but on the other hand, like any00:21:06
good, it is extremely dangerous. This means that00:21:08
you do not have serious reasons for00:21:11
serious work on yourself, mental,00:21:14
psychological, spiritual, and so on and00:21:16
so on. And here it depends on whether00:21:18
you can whether a person strains himself and00:21:21
works a little deeper than00:21:23
he is provided with, fate is favorable to him.00:21:27
Laziness becomes parasites and00:21:30
gradually loses their brilliant00:21:31
abilities given to them from birth, or00:21:34
their harmony because they think that way and00:21:36
everything is fine.00:21:40
people,00:21:42
as for problematic judges of fate, these are00:21:45
people who are in contradiction, that is,00:21:48
in their subconscious there is a00:21:50
significant tension either between00:21:52
parts of the subconscious, for example, different00:21:54
subpersonalities, or between their subconscious and00:21:57
social consciousness, they00:21:59
strongly disagree about something. Society pays the00:22:01
same coin there. people have tragic00:22:04
fates. This means that they have the strongest00:22:06
tension between their parts of the soul and there is00:22:10
definitely a huge tension with the social00:22:13
soul. The question is what will they00:22:15
do about it? If these people have00:22:17
the courage, dedication and00:22:19
honesty to And there are never too many of them, they00:22:21
will have to save up all their lives to00:22:23
work above themselves they can become00:22:27
large00:22:29
PMI and serious very seriously00:22:32
developed people, including00:22:34
rebuilding in some parts the00:22:36
social subconscious, but for this it is00:22:37
necessary to solve it has a very strong influence on00:22:39
Society for this it is necessary to resolve internal00:22:40
conflicts00:22:45
first00:22:51
like this Good evening Alexey How to deal with00:22:53
injustice be fair00:22:57
to yourself00:23:01
Andrey Kirilenko Hello Alexey00:23:02
I’m 21 years old I’m in Poland but I want to return00:23:04
to Ukraine and even help me go into the army Is it00:23:06
worth taking such a risk now or00:23:08
trying to self-realize where I00:23:10
am sh personal advice00:23:12
look, a person should live his life00:23:15
and not the life of his00:23:18
country It’s up to you to decide yes or no Here’s your nose It00:23:27
can be born in the form of shame Or in the00:23:30
form of a desire to be a hero, revive00:23:32
your country honestly But if you have a00:23:34
real feeling of desire to join the army,00:23:37
not because there is pressure on you, but something that came from within00:23:39
and if you clearly understand that00:23:42
you won’t be ashamed if you don’t go,00:23:45
that you won’t break your existing00:23:48
life plan, that it’s a reluctance to be a hero,00:23:51
to pose in uniform there and have the right to00:23:53
show off a medal And you just,00:23:57
honestly, want to join the army Then you have to00:24:04
go Alexey, I’m planning a pregnancy, I have a00:24:06
teenage son, but I’m experiencing deep00:24:08
fear of losing independence of being00:24:09
tied hand and foot by a small00:24:10
child, I understand that it’s impossible. Well, how to00:24:12
overcome it? Are you married?00:24:17
This is a big essential00:24:23
question for Alesya, how important is the skill of being able to remain00:24:26
silent? When in a conflict, you understand all00:24:28
the facts and the truth is on your side, it00:24:30
depends on your goals, why do you need00:24:33
keep silent or why00:24:35
tell you, look People are divided into two00:24:38
categories: for them, any act or gesture or00:24:41
word is an act of self-expression and they00:24:44
never think about the consequences. And there are00:24:45
people who What do they think and why do I need this?00:24:49
And the latter manage themselves much00:24:52
much better, but it is necessary to be both this and that00:24:54
person a harmonious combination you00:24:57
have to be va or every word and an act00:24:59
of self-expression and what and at the same time00:25:02
you should think why am I saying this to me00:25:05
and what results will I get and look for00:25:07
harmony between these two things00:25:09
Think00:25:10
why but you usually need to speak in a situation00:25:13
which sounds like this I can’t remain silent, it’s better to00:25:17
remain silent, believe every word of ours is00:25:19
superfluous But if you want to speak You00:25:22
need to speak in a00:25:24
situation when a feeling is born inside you I00:25:26
can’t be silent00:25:30
then you have to insert stand up and say00:25:32
something00:25:33
fundamental Lex Alexey I always feel00:25:36
shy and uncomfortable in unfamiliar00:25:38
companies anxiety appears00:25:41
What can you recommend which module00:25:42
can be taken at your school? So you00:25:44
need to go to profiling and there I00:25:47
tell you a very important idea that I will tell00:25:48
you right now without waiting for you to00:25:50
come or not to come, it sounds like00:25:55
[music]00:25:57
that they feel like what it better00:26:00
predicts the behavior of others and the00:26:02
consequences of your own00:26:05
behavior. So you need to think about this00:26:08
topic, ask yourself questions when looking at00:26:11
people, how they will behave and what00:26:14
will happen if I behave this way or that00:26:16
way, this is a very useful line00:26:18
of thought, it must be constantly deepened and you00:26:21
you will feel As00:26:22
you predict the consequences of00:26:24
your behavior well and the behavior of00:26:26
others, you will feel00:26:27
more and more confident00:26:32
assure00:26:36
so Hello Alexey How do you most00:26:38
often recover after00:26:39
interacting with a large flow of people, there are00:26:41
more clients, but the desire to00:26:44
escape to a desert island has intensified00:26:46
it means Lizochka, you are invested, you00:26:48
are investing everything very much in the00:26:53
foam00:26:58
[music]00:27:04
upset the balance Take more money from the00:27:07
client and caught up with us Where to look for00:27:11
consolation and strength when fear comes, well, I do00:27:14
n’t know if you believe in God, but I can00:27:16
tell you00:27:18
the following from my deepest point of view conviction00:27:21
God never eats00:27:24
loni butts,00:27:27
never takes a person for Lard00:27:29
or carrots God never puts00:27:32
him in a labyrinth, does not want to deceive him,00:27:33
set him up and all that stuff Therefore,00:27:36
if you are scared This is not God And since00:27:39
God is stronger than everyone else and everything00:27:41
else that is possible00:27:43
imagine that means you have nothing to be00:27:45
afraid of Ask yourself the nature of your00:27:48
fear, are you afraid to die Ask yourself00:27:51
if God wants to kill you now, honestly00:27:54
God Ask do you want to kill me now, for00:27:56
example, during a Panic attack, he will00:27:59
clearly tell you00:28:00
no, therefore, as if yes, the fear will00:28:08
pass psychological dependence00:28:10
independence is already a mature level of00:28:12
personality. Well, with adolescence,00:28:14
you can already say that the00:28:16
disciplinary00:28:18
society begins; its main method is devaluation00:28:21
and fear, no obs, a person’s way of escaping00:28:25
from the fear of life; disciplinary00:28:26
society is a society of fear and00:28:29
control, that’s why indulgences are00:28:32
fear control indulgences, look.00:28:34
What is a disciplinary society? This is00:28:36
the concept of a person who is considered00:28:38
extremely evil by nature, bad, not00:28:42
because I believe that in a person there is00:28:43
more good than evil, he is simply evil by nature00:28:46
and at the same time00:28:47
sinless, this is such a schizophrenic00:28:50
combination, that is, a disciplinary00:28:52
society, on the one hand, intimidates a00:28:53
person and intimidates a person with other00:28:55
people, it says you kill each other00:28:56
if you are not controlled00:28:58
and are not put in a very strict00:29:00
disciplinary vice. But at the same00:29:02
time, you are sinless and you can do what you00:29:04
want and be whoever you want. A person usually00:29:07
cannot cope with such schizophrenia,00:29:10
that’s why we have just a disciplinary00:29:12
society will be in the near future on00:29:17
March 23, we will have next Saturday. Come,00:29:21
I’ll tell you a lot there, then there will be00:29:24
another disciplinary society in a00:29:26
disciplinary society about how these00:29:28
seals are placed on us. And in the second,00:29:31
how00:29:33
to break them, and00:29:35
also00:29:39
Instagram, obsessive thoughts appear00:29:43
who devalue everything, this concept00:29:44
or obsessive compulsive00:29:47
disorder Well, for the second, it’s similar in00:29:50
description, similar to the00:29:51
second, you need to understand that it’s not about a00:29:54
symptom or a syndrome that you00:29:55
have established for yourself or someone has identified for you.00:29:57
But the point is about the cause of00:29:59
devaluation - this is the fear of in00:30:00
reality, you are running away from something.00:30:03
Find time, sit down with a pen and a notebook00:30:05
and look, think about the00:30:08
topic, as if what you are running from. Yes, if you00:30:13
tell yourself exactly 50%, your00:30:16
problem will go away. How does00:30:18
psychological death manifest itself? What is it? This is a00:30:20
loss; I am this00:30:26
when I00:30:28
myself00:30:30
I’ll describe the signs to you now,00:30:32
psychologically, what it00:30:39
looks like. Well, the feeling that everything is like this is how the00:30:43
syndrome proceeds; psychologists of death;00:30:44
the feeling that everything is glass; that you00:30:47
can’t reach life; no00:30:48
emotions or experiences; you don’t want to00:30:51
do anything; usually just sleep;00:30:54
you’ll have00:30:56
all sorts of feelings of loss of influence; there are vegetative symptoms00:30:59
such as indigestion, aching in the00:31:01
back of the head, loss of the ability to speak, you00:31:04
will understand that you cannot use00:31:05
old techniques and methods of influencing00:31:07
other people on yourself, and new ones, even00:31:10
if you have them, do not00:31:11
work, it is not clear what these New00:31:14
techniques are, as it were, yes that you don’t00:31:17
want to count, read old books, watch00:31:19
old films that inspired you,00:31:21
gave you the strength to communicate with people, doesn’t00:31:23
help, even those who have always00:31:25
helped with depression don’t help, all your00:31:28
thoughts will seem extremely superficial to you,00:31:30
that you are worthless and00:31:32
worthless, and it feels like complete00:31:36
loss of feelings, everything is like behind glass, an even00:31:37
glass consciousness This is the syndrome of00:31:40
how it is experienced, usually there is no00:31:43
need to be afraid psychological Death is good00:31:44
because it takes you to the next00:31:46
stage and gives you a new self so00:31:48
psychological death You should be happy and00:31:50
just00:31:52
endure it Is it necessary listen to00:31:54
other people's opinions about yourself Thank you listen00:31:56
you need to00:31:58
draw conclusions you need but you don't need to listen the most00:32:00
important mistake of a person is the00:32:03
most terrible and only but00:32:05
truly terrible mistake when he00:32:07
admits that there is someone who00:32:09
understands better in his life and in his00:32:11
needs than he does00:32:16
Bogdan himself is now choosing which00:32:19
class to go to. As I understand it, I want to go to school to do what00:32:22
I like; I00:32:23
have a great desire to grow00:32:25
in income. Which direction to choose? Which00:32:27
seminars will help? internal honesty00:32:28
sacred wound sacred wound 2 But if00:32:31
you are like business, then business will help you a00:32:33
model called the00:32:34
art of making decisions strategy and00:32:37
profiling this is for those who want to00:32:39
start their own business00:32:41
physically If00:32:43
you are there you are interested in the purpose then00:32:46
yes this is internal honesty 1 200:32:48
sacred wound 100:32:51
2 you will be00:32:56
rooted there after your seminars on00:32:59
honesty your spouse told you that00:33:00
changed me 10 years ago, now I00:33:02
constantly feel offended. Is00:33:03
such00:33:05
honesty useful? Well, look, first of all, this00:33:07
honesty should be asked to your spouse. Is00:33:10
such honesty useful for her, not you? It’s00:33:12
not you who showed this honesty. Is00:33:15
such honesty useful? This is a question for you.00:33:16
If you told what changed since the00:33:19
second question seems to be that, well,00:33:24
now in a situation of00:33:25
choice you have forgiven,00:33:29
and a person can only be in two00:33:31
positions: the victim’s position or the00:33:33
author’s position, the author’s position appears00:33:36
when a person has a choice, the00:33:38
victim has no choice, she drives herself into a00:33:39
situation where there is no Choice therefore, with her00:33:43
honesty, she made you into an author and00:33:45
put you in the author’s position.00:33:48
Apparently, you are thinking about something on the topic00:33:50
Should I be a victim00:33:52
[music] do00:33:59
you want to save your family after this00:34:01
or not, your relationship with this00:34:02
person has become the author of your life, you00:34:05
need to thank your spouse for00:34:07
this is Olga Davidenko How to support your husband00:34:10
after the war, he serves for you, as I understand it00:34:13
Olechka Well, this is such a rich00:34:15
topic, I can say the following depends on the00:34:19
degree of post-traumatic disorder,00:34:26
if g then in principle00:34:29
it is possible here depends on00:34:32
what state he is in00:34:36
[music]00:34:37
general very general recommendation00:34:40
live as if nothing had happened00:34:42
all initiatives in the style of Tell me how it00:34:45
was there. Are you okay? What are you00:34:46
going to do poorly now? They are his00:34:49
privilege; you can’t pry, you can’t00:34:51
question, you can’t mention anything about it at all;00:34:53
he must decide for himself whether00:34:55
to tell you or not. Which is the best00:34:58
the way to support your husband is to treat00:35:01
him as if there was no war.00:35:05
Look, why am I always00:35:08
against these hysterical00:35:10
screams about how, well, how can you00:35:14
celebrate When there is war? How can you00:35:16
sit in restaurants? How can you get00:35:18
married? fireworks there and so on so on and so00:35:21
on and so on so I’ll00:35:22
tell you, the more a person or a society00:35:25
maintains a lifestyle the same as during the00:35:27
war, the less disorder the person00:35:30
and society have. Therefore, during the war,00:35:32
life still continues and the00:35:35
less the lifestyle differs from00:35:37
pre-war, the more you00:35:39
can preserve it to the maximum, the better for you and00:35:41
for those around you, therefore, behave as00:35:43
if there was no war and00:35:46
adjust the rest along00:35:53
the way.00:35:56
So00:36:01
Alexey, from the point of view of logic, it00:36:03
is natural for humans to hug, this is the science of animals. Those who don’t00:36:04
know the behavior of animals tend to00:36:07
hug into a union or split into00:36:08
smaller groups with an expression of identity,00:36:10
is there a chance for a planet without borders Or are00:36:11
we waiting for gene changes Well, let’s say that00:36:14
humanity has much more of this and00:36:16
people have what separates them than unites them,00:36:19
unification is every time a miracle and00:36:21
every time they revolve around one thing or another00:36:24
sacredness, therefore even00:36:28
some kind of flattery exists there.00:36:30
Therefore, in principle, we have00:36:32
sacredness that00:36:34
can immediately unite us all, for example, the Lord00:36:35
God. But people don’t want to about this,00:36:39
they are trying to unite according to the principle of the00:36:41
Tower of Babel, that is, by saying to God,00:36:43
go to hell and on some then their00:36:46
principles and the biblical plot is mixed00:36:48
if any principle of unification00:36:51
except the rich will be a division into the sun pain More00:36:54
wilder00:36:56
belly sacredness irrational00:36:58
much more than an00:37:07
animal00:37:14
So for a second a question from00:37:22
Instagram so we won’t answer this00:37:26
further uh Good evening they diagnosed with00:37:29
Asperger’s syndrome discomfort in communication often00:37:31
reluctance to talk, even formally, I do00:37:32
n’t understand why my friends immediately call me a00:37:34
mental patient behind my back, how to deal with this.00:37:36
How do your friends know that00:37:39
you have been given a psychological00:37:43
diagnosis? This is a violation of medical ethics.00:37:45
Or do you tell them everything like this? The00:37:51
truth is, to please a girl you00:37:54
need to be like a refrigerator so that she00:37:55
could not stand it and stood with the night in her00:37:58
hands No, this is a common stupidity00:38:01
that was taken out of context from Pushkin.00:38:03
The less we love women,00:38:05
the more she likes us, in order to00:38:07
please a girl you need to have this00:38:09
most paradoxical00:38:11
combination of qualities or behavior,00:38:14
on the one hand you need to be honest00:38:16
as much as possible, and on the other hand, what not to try to00:38:20
please? And you also need to take care of00:38:23
her. If you are honest. If you care about her, are00:38:27
really interested in her, and at the same time you are00:38:30
not in the head.00:38:31
Take children away from screens. Well, that is, you are00:38:34
independent from her psychologically, you have00:38:37
every chance that the girl will like you00:38:39
read my last post today on00:38:40
telegram or Facebook or Twitter and I00:38:43
wrote just on this topic, I suspect00:38:45
your question was born from there.00:38:47
The paradox is to take care to be00:38:50
attentive to be honest and at the same time not to00:38:53
depend on her psychologically boring,00:38:55
your chances are 99%00:39:11
so Good evening Alexey acquaintances often00:39:14
say that I’m like family to them,00:39:16
passers-by on the street sometimes look at me00:39:17
as if they were aliens. I’m00:39:19
not doing anything special, what could all this00:39:21
mean? Uh-huh You need to make all passers-by00:39:24
your acquaintances, that’s00:39:26
all,00:39:35
still making a choice. A person must00:39:37
make emphasis on deep love benefit00:39:40
or deep love love whatever he wants to laugh00:39:42
at Let00:39:46
Daniil of Ternopil put it Hello00:39:49
I am 25 years old tired of my weakness in00:39:51
any potential conflict I feel00:39:53
that it should come from internal norms and00:39:55
strength but in the end a reflex is developed00:39:57
Vaya Sharka really scared you in00:40:01
Dani’s childhood But it’s okay,00:40:05
come to the art of communication, it00:40:09
will start somewhere in June at the end of May, I00:40:13
specifically teach there, I directly teach00:40:15
conflict without aggression, this is a skill00:40:18
that is critically necessary for any00:40:20
modern person because00:40:26
either push into aggression, but00:40:30
calmly defend your position and00:40:31
acknowledge the enemy’s position, help00:40:33
him take this position, looking him straight00:40:35
in the eyes without aggression, honestly, that’s where I’m00:40:37
teaching, but for now you need to somehow00:40:40
live for 2 months, so my short00:40:41
advice to you is to be as00:40:44
honest and accurate as00:40:46
you can in each specific situation00:40:49
you can be a little bit more on track00:40:55
Thank you00:40:57
a lot more how to get along with the endless00:40:59
flow of information in all the cracks stay00:41:01
happy and purposeful00:41:02
it is assumed that the endless flow of00:41:04
information makes you unhappy and not00:41:06
purposeful so stop00:41:08
eating it why do you eat it with00:41:10
spoonfuls except trust00:41:13
me, I suspect the flow of information is much00:41:16
greater than yours from all sides, that’s why00:41:19
Well,00:41:26
somehow I know for sure, but the question is Why And I always00:41:29
correspond to myself and don’t run away from00:41:34
reality Hello Alexey, I have00:41:36
a problem on the cash front, the last nine00:41:38
girls are the same what reporting period00:41:41
Misha with whom I expressed my interest everyone00:41:43
turned out to be busy x busyness is00:41:45
less confusing What is God trying to tell me with this00:41:47
he is trying to tell you that you choose00:41:49
specially busy girls this is your00:41:52
way why do you yourself00:41:58
why do you choose girls00:42:00
who are00:42:03
busy why do you set yourself00:42:05
such00:42:09
barriers Good evening Alexey Can we00:42:11
consider Woland a grand alm master?00:42:14
No, Liza, he is still a figure of another00:42:18
Volan. This is not Satan in the literal00:42:19
sense of the word, like the00:42:25
stories of Nevs Chris.00:42:28
And in general, he creates an artificial00:42:30
reality there because who is who but00:42:32
Bulgakov I knew very well that in Judaism there is a00:42:35
seven-branched candlestick. And yet he described five00:42:37
candles, and00:42:40
so the volant is such an angel, the prosecutor00:42:43
is who Satan could have been.00:42:55
There is too00:42:57
much of a stretch It would seem to me that it is00:43:18
so Hello, how can you explain the00:43:20
desire to bend at the00:43:22
request of your superiors and at the same time00:43:23
the desire to vigorously conflict with him over the00:43:25
same issue? You have complex00:43:28
codependent relationships that need to be treated not by your00:43:31
superiors, but by00:43:32
codependent00:43:34
relationships. If a person is an agnostic, can00:43:37
she pray, any turning of a00:43:39
person’s thoughts to God is good for a person,00:43:41
you can even be an atheist or even an00:43:44
antithesis, you will still pray,00:43:47
prayer will still be of great benefit to you,00:43:55
so Alika00:43:58
Why has my husband been caring for several months now00:43:59
and says that he loves, then00:44:01
aggressively says that I don’t00:44:02
suit him. There are no serious reasons for00:44:04
such changes in mood. Or you00:44:05
don’t see them, think about this00:44:09
topic, I can tell you the truth, but how will you00:44:13
accept it? I think that he very00:44:16
much began to think about not breaking up with00:44:18
you on Su,00:44:20
which is why00:44:22
the IP is terrifying from time to time I'm trying to save00:44:26
the relationship00:44:27
That's why I need to talk to him seriously,00:44:29
take me by the hand00:44:36
[music]00:44:49
Sit down with me, what should I do? I love Doo,00:44:51
but she's far away, and a lot of boys are whining at Varo.00:44:56
Because they're00:44:58
just interested in trying themselves in this genre.00:44:59
And a lot of boys00:45:01
are hanging out. their ears are stupid and they think that there is00:45:05
something serious behind it. And if00:45:08
she sent a leg or a beautiful ass there,00:45:10
then they seem to be. Well, I’ll [ __ ] her, it’s00:45:12
not like that, believe me, they’re just00:45:14
kidding, they’re just practicing, so00:45:16
leave the distant girl, find yourself a00:45:18
normal girl closer so you see, the00:45:22
distant one will change his mind, maybe he won’t change his mind00:45:24
But then to hell with her Vanya00:45:37
How to become a commander they don’t00:45:41
take seriously they cross the boundaries00:45:43
when defending them I push people away I00:45:46
understand that you are in the army Yes and00:45:47
you are a commander00:45:51
look how I’ll give you a metaphor in the00:45:55
dog’s mind A pack00:45:57
jacque is usually not the strongest00:46:01
dog, but the smartest dog and the most00:46:05
practical dog, the dog and the most00:46:08
inspiring dog, the dog that00:46:10
can solve the obvious problems of00:46:13
its subordinates, first, where will they sleep,00:46:16
second, what will they eat, third, how not to00:46:19
get caught, fourth, How00:46:23
to be00:46:25
con people they consider the one who has the answers00:46:28
to these00:46:29
questions to be personal, like people, they00:46:32
simplify it very simply, they need to be00:46:36
fed, they behave well by 51% of 49,00:46:40
we feed and behave badly, on the contrary, but no00:46:42
more, and in order to first00:46:46
allow yourself to put them in your place or00:46:48
force them to complete tasks, you need to00:46:50
take care of them first Ask yourself how much00:46:53
you have done for them and what you00:46:56
have done for them00:46:57
because any personnel,00:47:00
especially in war, have a huge number of00:47:02
practical00:47:03
worries If you are a junior commander, you00:47:05
cannot solve everything, but the fact is that you00:47:08
show this concern and are trying to decide00:47:11
will already change the attitude towards people towards00:47:13
you and you will be able to demand from them only00:47:15
when they see the corresponding00:47:17
investment of yours in caring for00:47:25
them their personnel That’s it,00:47:30
or seriously suffer It’s only such00:47:32
people that the personnel respects This just00:47:35
like children, any children scan00:47:37
their parents while playing in the sandbox on the00:47:40
topic: Will Dad or Mom come00:47:42
between me? Between me, if an00:47:45
angry mad dog runs at me,00:47:47
parents can be very bad. But00:47:50
if children feel this, they forgive00:47:52
their parents have anything they want, the00:47:54
secret is that many children love00:47:56
their parents even who00:47:58
treat them badly and do not like parents00:47:59
who treat them well because there is no00:48:01
this feeling, so the personnel00:48:05
also need to00:48:06
take care, for example, to protect them from their00:48:08
elders from the arbitrariness of senior commanders00:48:11
and from others I was once a cadet we were going00:48:15
to dinner we were stopped by singing a song we were00:48:17
stopped by the head of the deputy head of00:48:20
the faculty or the duty officer of the faculty00:48:21
some [ __ ] Colonel and who started00:48:24
there But we didn’t stop didn’t listen to00:48:26
some stubborn couples he was drunk and yelled and he00:48:29
screamed at our senior lenat00:48:31
Kamyshnikov, who was our commander of the00:48:32
rue, a great man,00:48:35
shouted comrade senior lieutenant00:48:38
Stop your Kozlov, he replied that00:48:40
the colonel I’m not goats But the00:48:42
personnel Go and ran into very serious00:48:46
trouble, so when will00:48:49
your people stop being goats or00:48:52
subordinates and become personal00:48:54
composition of your personnel00:48:57
for which you are ready to suffer seriously00:48:59
to protect then you will have the right to demand from them00:49:03
think about this topic00:49:06
just like you ask them according to the regulations the00:49:10
platoon commander must00:49:11
talk to each subordinate once a month and know his00:49:16
problems ask What kind of guys are our00:49:18
problems And try00:49:25
to solve them, many commanders are trying to00:49:27
achieve the personnel Yes, try to00:49:31
achieve some results,00:49:33
demand something for him without doing anything for him People00:49:35
don’t00:49:37
manage like that and And if you care about the00:49:40
personnel, you fight for them, you stand up00:49:42
for them like a mountain You can demand00:49:44
anything you want, even directly send them to00:49:46
death if people understand that you are00:49:49
ready to die for them, they will go to death on00:49:51
your00:49:53
order, are you ready to ask yourself00:50:02
please advise Peron modules to00:50:04
fight Rania Sergey liu Yes, anyone is00:50:07
healthy right now Oleg Khomyak this00:50:09
Tuesday begins a life strategy like this00:50:11
module, I strongly recommend it to you. It00:50:14
puts this module in its place very much on00:50:17
mine, you can come to00:50:20
any Aza looked at the inner honesty.00:50:23
It’s like a trap, they infuriated someone who didn’t fall00:50:26
asleep. The decision struck me like lightning00:50:28
Thank you for your please Alina why do I always00:50:32
try to seduce men I understand00:50:34
that they I don’t like it, and you’re married, you have00:50:36
the trauma of rejection Alina, you need to00:50:38
work with her with a00:50:41
specialist, you turn on everything, press on00:50:44
all the keys to be liked. Well, what00:50:46
keys can a woman press on? Well, usually00:50:48
on00:50:50
such you are very noh husband tako is still00:50:54
Mida ava right to left and when women00:50:57
respond to these advances for some reason they get terribly00:51:00
scared. So where is the difference between00:51:03
not treating people, not imposing your will on them,00:51:04
or creating your own reality,00:51:05
convincing00:51:08
this reality inside first, but if00:51:13
you honestly ask now whether it was created,00:51:15
then you can hear an impartial the answer is00:51:18
because if this reality is created,00:51:19
it does not need to be demonstrated, there is a good one.00:51:21
Such an Eastern proverb, having musk00:51:25
in your pocket does not shout about it, uli musk,00:51:28
the smell of musk Speaks for itself If00:51:30
you really created this reality inside,00:51:32
you will receive such wi-fi even if00:51:34
you you will be silent That you don’t00:51:35
need00:51:37
to explain anything to anyone Where does depression come from 18 years old00:51:40
because a person is not on his mission Yes,00:51:42
of course Andrey, that’s why you don’t have to work00:51:46
with your destiny, a person on a00:51:48
destiny, even if this00:51:50
destiny is very difficult, tragic,00:51:52
complex, you are still absolutely happy00:51:54
Walking according to your destiny00:51:57
How to learn to ask and00:51:59
sometimes you really need to accept help, but I can’t ask,00:52:01
this is a good question. This is the type of people00:52:07
who were brought up in the paradigm I am the00:52:09
strongest And I can do everything myself. I need to00:52:12
learn to00:52:13
relax myself.00:52:22
here artificially ask ask00:52:25
In writing00:52:28
Good evening All your lessons will be00:52:30
useful for the ordinary man in the street And who do I00:52:32
teach specially selected saints00:52:33
or What do you think is the main00:52:36
mistake of a person in life:00:52:38
lack of education no not lack of education00:52:41
despair and despondency these are the two Main mistakes00:52:44
in a00:52:46
person’s life a she’s educated Yes, she did00:52:49
n’t bother anyone00:52:58
so Alexey, don’t you think Alexey yes00:53:02
What should I do with the fear that I can’t00:53:04
have my own home? I live in the Czech Republic, here is the00:53:05
most expensive housing in Europe where it is00:53:07
generally not cheap, every year it’s00:53:10
impossible to buy something of your own Well, I’m00:53:12
without housing at all, although I have the opportunity00:53:14
to buy an apartment in every country in the00:53:16
world, probably,00:53:18
but I don’t need it inconveniently because00:53:21
it binds me, I’m safely00:53:23
without housing and I rent it00:53:25
consistently and look, I’m alive and well,00:53:27
nothing happens to me00:53:30
Alexey, don’t you think? You00:53:33
dependent people are more00:53:35
purposeful than others. Well, in00:53:37
a sense, neurotics are very00:53:39
purposeful people; moreover, as00:53:41
Jung said, you shouldn’t think that neurotics are00:53:44
weak people or psychotics; they00:53:46
force everyone around them to serve their00:53:47
neurosis. And only very strong people can do this; Are you00:53:53
satisfied with this kind of power, are you satisfied with the power of addiction00:53:56
or the power of Independence? I prefer00:53:59
the power of Independence. If you are satisfied with the00:54:01
power of dependence on your00:54:03
health, so Alexey, every day I work00:54:05
according to your method, I watch your lectures, but I00:54:07
still can’t answer the question Who am00:54:09
I? It’s normal. It’s normal. It00:54:11
gradually comes. and everyone has their own time00:54:13
someone in the first lesson enlightens00:54:14
someone after 2 years00:54:16
catches up with the main stubbornness not00:54:20
to give up Hello I’m 36 years old I’m a00:54:23
full-time student of Novo Profession Negura Why does00:54:26
it turn out that I’m quickly outplayed I00:54:28
’m not interested because you have the00:54:30
attitude that I’m the best subconsciously00:54:33
and if you don’t do well right away,00:54:34
you start to00:54:39
merge here you need to know Tell00:54:42
yourself I’m the best Write to yourself when I’m00:54:44
stubborn and bring everything to the00:54:46
end So proceed from this00:54:53
situation I want to sell my house they won’t00:54:56
hate me I want to change my unloved00:54:58
house to a dream apartment water, although it is not00:54:59
financially profitable, you would also choose00:55:01
yourself, not the past of the family and the memory of your grandfather, but the00:55:04
person, there are only two options:00:55:06
either serve the family and or serve00:55:10
yourself, I strongly recommend that you serve00:55:13
yourself because the family, those who00:55:17
serve it, love to00:55:19
sacrifice this clearly does not include your00:55:22
pla00:55:24
alee sweat at the youthful level, sometimes I00:55:28
understand where approximately I need to00:55:29
move, but after some time a00:55:31
feeling of emptiness sets in and so in a circle00:55:34
to look for my own, I can00:55:37
advise the personality focus of the youthful00:55:40
level of personality is completely focused00:55:42
on finding reflections of one’s self. This00:55:45
level is entirely dedicated to self-knowledge,00:55:48
therefore, look for yourself where you raise00:55:52
your self-esteem Where you begin to00:55:55
respect yourself more00:55:56
That is, you commit actions or not00:56:00
actions If those for which you00:56:03
respect yourself more And refrain from those from00:56:06
whom you do not respect yourself This00:56:07
will be a very clear direction for00:56:09
development of youthful00:56:19
personality Good evening, I noticed that when I00:56:21
automatically condemn people, life quickly and00:56:23
painfully punishes with which court you judge, so you00:56:25
will be judged, he speaks specifically about God’s00:56:27
judgment or about earthly life, too, of course, He00:56:29
speaks about earthly life, too, the Kingdom00:56:32
of heaven is within us if you violate the00:56:33
law of this kingdom inside, then the same thing00:56:35
will happen to you as if they were00:56:37
violated outside in00:56:41
the sky. Why is God needed if the strategy of00:56:44
action of a rational person will not00:56:45
change, regardless of his presence and00:56:47
absence? And that it will not change, a00:56:48
conscious Chemist, it00:56:50
will change very much because for those who do not00:56:52
believe in God there is not a single rational reason00:56:57
ethical and if a person is not ethical then you don’t00:57:00
think he doesn’t00:57:06
exist Alexey has been00:57:08
dreaming of becoming a musician for years I have a00:57:10
talent I am slowly developing but often I00:57:12
have to look for the strength to write songs00:57:13
- Is this mine or induced but 8 years old - This is00:57:15
definitely not00:57:17
induced, so you need to look for forms that are00:57:19
more acceptable for yourself, we are talking about the form, but00:57:22
about the vector, everything00:57:25
is fine with the vector,00:57:36
and Alexey Hello How do I notice00:57:40
some minor physical discomfort, it is00:57:42
very psychologically painful for me00:57:43
to endure this This is my property Mek completely00:57:45
early This is some kind of physical discomfort, this is00:57:48
like a pimple that popped up, clarify00:57:53
the question00:57:55
like this00:58:06
Hello, I’m 19, I know what I want, I00:58:08
wrote it down as goals But I have the strength to change00:58:10
No, I’m addicted to porn, why am I00:58:12
watching, I realized that my00:58:15
irresponsibility is secondary, what should I do?00:58:16
Anatoly has00:58:19
no00:58:20
options here there are such things higher than goals,00:58:23
this is00:58:24
purpose, this00:58:27
is an expression of your general00:58:29
purpose, and you need to work with00:58:30
purpose and not with the goal, goals,00:58:35
goals for you, nikova, until you answer the00:58:38
question about your00:58:39
mission, you will constantly drain your00:58:42
energy into porn or somewhere else - Do00:58:47
I need to engage in those activities00:58:49
without which it’s00:58:55
even promising and not to be myself, but00:58:57
it’s better to be and engage in your00:58:59
activities and be00:59:00
promising, and this always happens if00:59:03
you are engaged in your activities00:59:19
honestly.00:59:25
So00:59:31
why lately have I felt that the world is00:59:33
pressing on me Lilya, it’s like it’s tight it began00:59:36
to seem that around the school of deception it is impossible to00:59:37
breathe easily, your level of00:59:40
internal honesty has increased, rejoice, you will soon00:59:42
move to the next level and the00:59:45
main thing is that the world can lie as much as00:59:46
it wants. The main thing is that you are00:59:55
honest, officially or more simply. Well, first of all,00:59:57
if you are a tutor, an approach to students00:59:59
should be purely individual for01:00:01
everyone in their own way,01:00:05
but the general emphasis should not be on your01:00:08
relationship but on his relationship with the01:00:10
subject that you are teaching him and01:00:13
you will never miss,01:00:19
tell me when profiling will take place at your school01:00:21
Thank you in advance yes01:00:23
Not earlier than months via v01:00:26
take the entry I recently read it there it’s01:00:28
still01:00:33
fresh What is meant by the shadow according to01:00:36
Jung and how important it is to integrate the01:00:37
Shadow in the life of a person who strives01:00:39
for self-knowledge self-knowledge A01:00:40
wonderful thing, but it’s better to strive for integrity,01:00:43
it will periodically01:00:45
collapse and you will recreate it01:00:47
at a new level the shadow is the unconscious01:00:48
part of me that a person does not push out. The01:00:50
shadow is very easy to find. Write down everything that01:00:52
you don’t like in other people. Read01:00:56
this list. After a while you01:00:59
drank coffee there. Turned over the leaf. They01:01:01
came back and you read your01:01:06
shadow, those facets of it that are relevant to01:01:08
you at the moment. let’s say so later there01:01:10
will be01:01:14
[music]01:01:18
others Alexey I’m on the other side of the01:01:20
Barricades if it’s possible Vyra but you are01:01:22
very important as a person our big01:01:24
greetings to you people can be enemies they can be01:01:27
allies then they can be enemies again01:01:28
Anything can be important that we remain01:01:31
human even if we shoot at each01:01:33
other, but it is important to remain human, so01:01:37
hello and mutual01:01:47
respect to you Tell me how you can love and not01:01:49
bring a person to the same time How it01:01:51
works very simply it can be, for01:01:52
example, as an option, a counterdependent01:01:54
relationship is when you are01:01:56
psychologically dependent on a person and try to01:01:58
get rid of this dependence with01:02:00
all your might you have the strength to fight with him, here you have,01:02:04
uh, love gives dependence, a feeling of love.01:02:08
What do you think? It’s possible, but hatred01:02:10
gives the desire to overcome this feeling, this is a01:02:12
very common01:02:17
story. Why are such expensive courses war?01:02:20
Dear Yulia, 50 dollars for classes for01:02:22
such material that I give.01:02:24
for free and only out of01:02:27
my great love for people, this is done because01:02:29
if it were, if I charged a real01:02:32
price for these very things, then you would01:02:34
n’t even be able to pronounce it, probably let alone01:02:53
pay like that01:02:56
Alexey, when I look inside I understand that01:02:58
I see the point only in enrichment by any01:03:00
legal means, but I don’t care about01:03:02
the way business works, investments01:03:04
don’t care how false Alex’s attitude is,01:03:06
this is Alex, you are most likely, firstly,01:03:09
socially induced, and secondly, you need01:03:11
not so much enrichment as a process,01:03:14
but the attributes of wealth. It01:03:16
seems to me that you are very jealous of01:03:19
someone specific social layer01:03:21
and subconsciously focus on this layer01:03:22
if you were interested in01:03:24
getting rich, then you would have been01:03:30
getting rich a long time ago and have not become rich01:03:33
precisely because they are interested in the process01:03:35
and not the result, you just need to figure01:03:37
out what you want, you want the attributes01:03:39
of wealth, you want to be rich or you01:03:42
want01:03:43
to get rich, that’s the difference between a millionaire.01:03:46
What is the difference between a millionaire and a person with a01:03:48
million, you can take away01:03:50
Miln from a millionaire and in six months he will be a01:03:51
millionaire again Ache with01:03:54
Milm01:03:56
is a rich person by psychotype01:03:59
cannot think like God. A million not01:04:01
only does not bring happiness, usually it01:04:03
brings misfortune, read fate everyone who01:04:04
won big money in the lottery in the States01:04:07
and very large ones, they were all01:04:09
unhappy, they all flushed this money down the toilet,01:04:12
so I absolutely bet so wealth is here, this is a01:04:15
way01:04:17
of thinking, a person can be very rich01:04:19
without01:04:23
[music]01:04:24
God’s money, to have the attributes of wealth or01:04:27
to get rich, that’s all very different things01:04:30
very different01:04:39
things What is the difference between self-control,01:04:42
abstinence and self-denial01:04:46
But self-control is when you01:04:48
can consciously limit yourself from01:04:51
passions because you understand the value of01:04:53
abstinence and self-denial is when you01:04:57
say no, I serve, I’m not important, and for01:05:00
example, the Lord is important, this is Heaven’s thing01:05:04
different in level, it remains to choose or01:05:17
combine does not depend Psychologically, this is01:05:20
how and what it means to depend, not to depend,01:05:22
it is very simple to see options01:05:24
for yourself to arrange for yourself01:05:26
in any practical matter on the01:05:28
material level, which is at the level of01:05:30
thinking and choose these01:05:32
options yourself, and to depend is to01:05:34
navigate on someone in the matter of choosing,01:05:36
creating an option to choose or creating01:05:38
options, that’s01:05:46
all Alexey How do you feel about sex before01:05:49
marriage01:05:50
I’m not strictly church-going That01:05:54
is, I don’t belong they01:05:56
say that it’s not in any case, but in01:06:00
any case I can tell you what’s on the topic01:06:03
sex must be approached responsibly Even01:06:04
even in the youngest years when you chew this sex with a01:06:07
spoon, or at least01:06:09
you want it especially If you are a01:06:12
boy, girls traditionally01:06:14
approach responsibly, usually a boy needs to think what01:06:18
will happen if the girl01:06:24
takes it01:06:26
I don’t like this this sa I don’t01:06:29
like this concept I like01:06:31
the concept of responsibility, many01:06:33
people jump into blame so as not to actually01:06:36
bear01:06:37
responsibility. What is the difference between01:06:39
responsibility when it is when you are01:06:41
ready01:06:42
to correct what you01:06:45
did, in general, I’m not saying that you are01:06:47
like that, but think about this01:06:52
one01:06:54
Hello, no children, depression is difficult01:06:56
to hide more often I don’t like it at all01:06:58
sometimes more often I don’t like it sometimes I01:07:01
attach too much importance when it coincides01:07:03
and everything gets spoiled what to do chka01:07:06
well you’re screwed you think that 33 is01:07:09
very old you don’t have a single01:07:10
chance as a person who is 48 I can01:07:12
say that this is not so not so even for01:07:15
women who are over two years old compared01:07:18
to01:07:20
men, you don’t need to focus on relationships01:07:22
because you think01:07:24
you01:07:26
need to get it done urgently. But you need to01:07:28
focus on yourself, as it seems to me,01:07:30
on whether you are happy on your own,01:07:32
whether you are self-sufficient01:07:34
Are you living your life the way you01:07:36
wanted? Are you filled with reality?01:07:39
What is your internal and01:07:41
external state? Are you getting what you want in life?01:07:43
And when you begin to achieve all this01:07:45
to one degree or another, the01:07:46
quality of men will change because01:07:51
intercourse with your partner is01:07:54
going on If you in the acute phase, if you don’t01:07:59
trust yourself, you will be01:08:01
more likely to unravel people. But when you are01:08:02
satisfied and happy, they will01:08:13
reach out, if after death there will be a trial, then01:08:16
is it fair to judge a person01:08:17
who was born in unfavorable01:08:19
conditions?01:08:23
every second If you01:08:25
think that the Last Judgment only after01:08:27
death is a big mistake The Last Judgment01:08:30
every every second01:08:32
second Well, Jesus Christ could have incarnated01:08:35
as a Roman01:08:37
emperor What do you01:08:39
think, but he didn’t incarnate, he01:08:43
incarnated into a Jew and a carpenter As they01:08:45
say, without higher education and01:08:47
in the back of the earth which was Nazareth01:08:49
then01:08:50
and this is even the Gospel reflected when he01:08:54
says Listen, did you hear01:08:56
the news from Nazareth Nazareth he says that that and what01:08:58
could be good from Nazareth01:09:00
another person speaks from Nazareth He incarnated01:09:02
in the lowest dignity that he01:09:04
could except that he I wasn’t a01:09:05
slave because socially, because well, a01:09:08
slave is still a big limitation,01:09:10
but from the point of view of the Roman Empire, these01:09:12
were the days of not the bottom, but the bottom01:09:14
was complete, worse than ever, and yet for some01:09:18
reason they are the number01:09:21
one figure for humanity. Well, think about01:09:24
this topic is01:09:26
how unfavorable Conditions01:09:28
he had and how much this child was01:09:30
shaped by his environment, a life01:09:31
situation that he did not01:09:33
choose, there are things that we do not01:09:36
choose. Moreover, I will say that there are01:09:37
things that should not be the subject of01:09:39
choice, but in general a person has a lot of01:09:43
Free will sometimes you look like that and you01:09:46
involuntarily think that so much has been given,01:09:48
maybe01:09:49
a little bit. Therefore,01:09:51
believe me, you have01:09:54
much more free will than01:09:56
that, so everything depends not on the circumstances of01:09:58
birth and environment, from you01:10:00
personally, you know the medieval in France01:10:04
was like this not the medieval in the 10th century in01:10:06
France it was like this01:10:08
case on Legend Not a legend, I don’t know, but01:10:11
I read somewhere that they tried a man who01:10:14
became a maniac, killed 20 girls there,01:10:17
dismembered him and other horrors, his lawyer01:10:20
says, so what do you want from this01:10:22
man, he was born at the Fish Market and01:10:25
that’s where they kicked him under counter with a01:10:28
fish knife they cut off the umbilical cord and01:10:31
beat him all the way there the child lived with01:10:34
dogs and ate slop Well, who could have grown out of him,01:10:36
just grew up A maniac out of him, how is it possible from01:10:39
him,01:10:42
who could have turned out under such01:10:44
circumstances of birth Well, the whole hall The01:10:46
prosecutor burst into tears, he says, can there be01:10:48
witnesses? Gemini brother comes in to call01:10:52
happy married01:10:55
family man with many children Philanthropist millionaire01:10:57
spent a huge amount of money on01:11:00
charity he is highly educated The01:11:02
prosecutor asks him Tell me how01:11:04
why did you become a01:11:06
millionaire highly educated gave birth to01:11:08
so many children Happy family01:11:10
take care of so many people he01:11:12
says so how was I born on market, they01:11:13
kicked me under the counter,01:11:15
they cut off my umbilical cord with a fish knife, they01:11:17
beat me up throughout my childhood, who could I become after01:11:24
that01:11:27
Dmitry Keith Fox Alexey why do I always01:11:29
choose girls of the same type, they01:11:30
seem to highlight me among the others Is01:11:32
this right Well, is this right It’s01:11:35
not me who decides01:11:37
And you are leading to a certain archetype01:11:40
that was imprinted on you in01:11:41
childhood, that imprint, as it were, and all of you,01:11:45
all women, these same ones are concentrated, all01:11:48
dreams about women are centered around01:11:49
this archetype, I very much wish you to01:11:52
learn to see a person in a woman Yes,01:11:55
not very much an archetype01:12:01
Alexey will greatly help how a sociopath lives 4 4% of01:12:05
people without conscience Well, firstly, they01:12:08
somehow live correctly And secondly, if01:12:11
you suddenly are like this or that, how01:12:14
can conscience be replaced by a rational01:12:17
choice of01:12:21
ethics?01:12:23
So Alexey, what does it mean when you01:12:25
were negligent in a relationship after01:12:27
you left you suddenly fell in love and can’t let go01:12:29
now it’s a neurosis Yes, the typical one01:12:32
needs to be treated, not relationships, but01:12:34
it’s good for yourself that you understand this Pasha01:12:44
[music]01:12:54
Holcroft now or something or appearance01:12:58
Honestly, for example, go to your boss and01:13:01
tell him if you care about appearance, then I I went and01:13:04
sold the knowledge somewhere else01:13:06
for more and better money and calmly01:13:09
left, but I suspect that it’s not just the01:13:10
appearance, most likely there is a certain type of behavior behind the01:13:13
appearance that is not perceived,01:13:15
think about01:13:17
this01:13:18
topic Lele Alexey How can I buy your01:13:20
seminars if I'm not in Ukraine,01:13:22
dear Leleka, people from 6 countries of the world study at my school, they01:13:25
all somehow buy there, there are01:13:29
full details on the website like schools like the Armed Forces, this is to01:13:34
buy Alexey, how without surgery about the01:13:37
inhumane blocking of an ancient01:13:39
program, friendliness who doesn’t let him01:13:41
kill who told you that a person01:13:43
does not have a program of friendliness Malik01:13:46
is a01:13:47
delusion that a person has fear for01:13:50
behavior01:13:51
kill internally and a person has01:13:56
consequences for killings I don’t know if they were01:13:59
in war, but I can say that very01:14:00
many people in war get01:14:02
tremendous pleasure from the opportunity01:14:04
to kill without this self without consequences,01:14:06
many go there just for this and do01:14:09
n’t have a single sentiment at all,01:14:11
they don’t even01:14:13
have to stop sometimes01:14:15
[music]01:14:16
therefore, regarding the commandment todo pori01:14:24
ubm Torah, there is a very clear verb, it01:14:27
provides for a ban on premeditated01:14:30
murder with a prior deceptive intention and01:14:32
with selfish motives01:14:33
goals That is, when you wished for the wife of a01:14:37
donkey, someone else of your neighbor Yes,01:14:40
property and deliberately killed Him so that01:14:43
he so that you could get it all in the01:14:46
war Do not kill in war01:14:50
army Use the correct01:14:54
dictionary do not kill in war for selfish01:15:00
purposes01:15:16
so when I look at your direct broadcasts I see01:15:20
paired numbers on the clock I don’t get hung up on them01:15:22
I don’t know what’s connected with them Well they say01:15:24
that this is a person a sign that a person is on the01:15:26
right path Alexey Why did Europe flourish so much01:15:31
at your seminars due to the disciplinary in the 15th century it’s such an01:15:32
evil when this changed Ksenia Europe01:15:35
flourished thanks to modernity and not01:15:37
thanks to the disciplinary society, but01:15:38
modernity did not have to be01:15:40
disciplinary at all, and it was precisely at the seminary that the01:15:42
disciplinary society I talk about the01:15:44
alternative, how modernity could not be01:15:45
disciplinary, but the fact is that it followed the01:15:47
path of disciplinary, this is the01:15:53
problem01:16:02
with what do you think the scripture of Revelation theologians01:16:05
everything that is happening now is01:16:08
the realization of Revelation Depending on how01:16:10
you count it I think that it is still not yet01:16:13
That now Isaiah is more likely to be realized Well,01:16:17
in general, the entire Bible is symbolically01:16:18
reflected in at any moment So01:16:21
you can say yes In a sense,01:16:23
revelation01:16:27
What to do if I am consumed by thoughts01:16:29
about my failure and01:16:30
incompetence. Well, usually a01:16:32
person rarely has such thoughts01:16:34
because he is successful in something and on the computer,01:16:36
for example, you were able to ask this question and01:16:38
get me to answer it, most01:16:41
likely you have an introject, that01:16:43
is, you someone suggested that you are an01:16:46
undigested part of the psyche, someone else’s01:16:48
opinion, I’ll shove you where you are not successful.01:16:50
Why does it have the power to01:16:53
catch something sticking out of you, the01:16:56
desire to be the best or01:16:58
the most01:16:59
successful, the most competent, and it01:17:02
can be so acute it is expressed that01:17:03
any level of competence01:17:05
and success you consider to be not competent and not successful01:17:07
because maybe someone else01:17:10
needs to stop comparing themselves with01:17:11
others and understand that competence and01:17:14
success are an eternally always variable01:17:18
category, it is impossible in some kind of bridge soup and01:17:21
super even01:17:23
May this continues to improve01:17:26
so there will never be a moment when01:17:28
you can say that I am Now I am01:17:30
successful and competent unless you01:17:32
focus on external assessment Well,01:17:35
this is also a vicious path Because when01:17:36
you become the world champion it turns out that01:17:39
someone is the champion of the Galaxy and that01:17:53
then01:17:55
Alexey What are the reasons for panic attacks and01:17:57
constant anxiety, suppressed will,01:17:59
you don’t realize some kind of will, this is not where01:18:02
this whole01:18:05
story comes from. Ask yourself which one you don’t realize,01:18:07
implement it and everything will be01:18:10
fine Alexey01:18:13
why does my husband like it when I conflict with those around me, the01:18:18
men around me, or those around me in general01:18:49
Youth captivated and grew all your01:18:51
problems at that time are like nuts But over01:18:53
time, all the knowledge gained goes somewhere01:18:55
Why does this happen How to achieve a01:18:57
resourceful state because you01:18:58
grow above yourself The level of01:19:00
problems changes and the skills that you have no longer01:19:04
work or that you had to resend them01:19:25
You will find that they are not there01:19:27
the purpose of Spasa Bogdan How to work01:19:30
with purpose Find it first and01:19:32
then everything is clear with it, just01:19:34
do it and that’s it Nastya What to do if it’s01:19:37
very painful that my mother cannot01:19:39
admit her mistakes My upbringing ORT01:19:40
what’s wrong with me You need to be01:19:42
[music]01:19:45
stricter Depending on how old you are Now if01:19:47
you can already leave,01:19:53
go away that Aristovich said that01:19:57
real parents are those who01:19:59
can admit their mistakes in front of their01:20:23
children.01:20:45
How to correctly replace limiting01:20:46
attitudes in yourself. You see, this whole01:20:49
problem is the problem of a01:20:51
person who has not found himself, then01:20:55
you don’t have any problems with01:20:58
with limiting beliefs and with everything01:20:59
else, there are no problems at all anymore, it’s01:21:01
not a problem but a task, so you do01:21:05
n’t have to work with limiting beliefs,01:21:07
but with purpose, you will find a01:21:09
purpose limited beliefs that01:21:11
limit you will cease to be01:21:16
problems How to stop feeling sorry for yourself after01:21:23
sst there are no reasons, or vice versa,01:21:26
everything can be made reasons to01:21:28
feel sorry for yourself Change the question for what01:21:32
to the question01:21:46
Why What should I do if a girl, when01:21:48
meeting on the street or online, says01:21:52
you’re not my type or you’re not my type in01:21:53
terms of appearance How can I change her01:21:55
choice so that she agrees to my01:21:56
love, well love is you want a lot,01:21:58
to begin with, it would be nice if01:22:00
she stopped rejecting you, but she01:22:02
rejects you not because you have the appearance,01:22:04
no, girls are ready to put up with01:22:05
any appearance and will passionately01:22:07
prove to everyone that this is the best appearance in01:22:09
the world. If you are satisfied with her, you you don’t01:22:11
suit her by and large But if01:22:14
you go with an eye on love to01:22:16
meet a girl on the street, then this is, in principle, a01:22:19
reason to scare off the girl very much,01:22:21
they feel it and are scared, that’s why01:22:25
maybe lower the level of01:22:27
complaints, you immediately want to love her, you01:22:30
even you don’t know her as a person, maybe01:22:33
you won’t01:22:34
like her. Go with the goal of inviting her on a01:22:36
date to chat and set it up01:22:38
right away. Let’s go get some coffee. Let’s go have a drink. You’ll01:22:43
understand right away why you force her to01:22:45
choose and put yourself in the position of a01:22:48
matchmaker. You01:22:52
choose. That defines a smart person,01:22:55
as for me. the one who knows how to live01:22:56
happily in accordance with that Well, the first01:22:59
sign of intelligence, as Pushkin said, is01:23:01
understanding with whom, when and what you are01:23:03
talking about. So many people do not01:23:06
understand with whom they are01:23:07
talking, which means they are simply not01:23:18
smart. What is sociopathy sociopathy is an01:23:20
invented New fashionable01:23:22
psychological crap that I don’t believe in and01:23:26
laugh at it terribly It’s like gender01:23:34
something My paternal grandfather is from Chernivtsi My01:23:37
mother is Russian I always considered myself part of the01:23:38
Ukrainian Russian people Can I01:23:40
call myself a Ukrainian T Call myself01:23:42
even01:23:44
Eskimos I am a population census or01:23:47
They write off the national passport by01:23:50
name itself because no one can01:23:52
tell you who you are except01:23:59
yourself Max Lazarenko I’m afraid to gather01:24:03
training groups but I’m not afraid to01:24:04
consult individually What’s stopping01:24:06
me from being ready for group classes01:24:09
industry of interest marketing or marketing01:24:13
Well, group failure That’s why you’re afraid of Max01:24:15
You are afraid of group01:24:19
performances because you probably think01:24:21
that after failure you can get an01:24:23
individual consultation on the principle that01:24:25
you needed my mistakes and they had a01:24:27
better effect on you, but with a group it may not01:24:29
work. Or maybe the experience is sad,01:24:31
try it, there are no options.01:24:33
Imagine that you are leading01:24:36
10 speakers at the same time in front of a group of01:24:38
10 people that you are simply conducting 1001:24:40
individual consultations Contact01:24:42
everyone01:24:46
per Nikitina Ekaterina How to convince01:24:49
people to listen to you01:24:53
Why01:24:56
can I tell you01:24:57
[music]01:24:59
that let’s do this, the brand is stronger the01:25:03
more slag it01:25:13
discards How to fall in love with reading books You01:25:16
will learn to read them correctly Come01:25:18
to me for the art of reading or01:25:20
now to the literary seminars that01:25:23
are going on and you will understand How you can read books,01:25:26
we will have War of the Worlds On April 6,01:25:29
Herbert, the analysis will begin for you, go for a01:25:31
test, we will analyze the book in two lessons01:25:34
Yes, you don’t even need to walk for a long time and you01:25:36
you will understand that this is the01:25:38
same that how you can read books I think01:25:41
after that you were caught in a good sense01:25:44
of this01:25:53
word01:25:59
Why I don’t feel any01:26:01
national diligence Nick one01:26:02
was born in Ukraine Ukrainian Well,01:26:04
maybe you have a universal level of self-identification01:26:06
like I do, but still a01:26:09
person should have a lot of01:26:10
self-identification The question is what emphasis01:26:13
is placed therefore and folk, that is, what01:26:17
people do you belong to what culture01:26:18
should also be think about this topic01:26:22
That you can’t build a house right away, there01:26:24
should also be floors under01:26:33
this So well, one more question01:26:39
and01:26:48
So01:26:53
far01:26:55
Hello, I admire yours01:26:57
calmness is a consequence of what quality01:26:58
this is And how did you develop this? I01:27:00
was once very restless and very01:27:03
upset about us, but when I found01:27:06
my purpose and realized that I had to honestly01:27:09
fulfill it, all my01:27:12
problems immediately disappeared about calmness, it’s just that01:27:15
Wherever I am, what would not01:27:17
have happened Well, but besides, the01:27:20
Lord God seems to be worried, he01:27:23
sees everything, he knows everything, he turns everything to01:27:25
our good, I don’t see any reason for concern at all,01:27:28
so my friends, thank you01:27:30
very much, I didn’t have all the answers, of course I was able to answer01:27:33
the questions I was able to answer But so there01:27:36
is always more of your attention than mine, the01:27:38
way to answer in an01:27:39
hour and a half But sooner or later, one way or another,01:27:42
all your questions I will try to answer01:27:44
on the next broadcasts, which01:27:46
will definitely be in two to three weeks, we do this01:27:48
regularly Thank you very much for your01:27:50
attention, I work for you I remind you that01:27:53
the school operates there on these issues. We analyze these issues in01:27:55
much more detail than01:27:57
here, not in 2 minutes, but for example in five01:28:00
classes. So I can remind you of01:28:03
the schedule. We have a seminar of01:28:04
the disciplinary society on March 23 about01:28:08
the concept that has shackled all our brains01:28:10
and most spoils a person. Meta01:28:12
concept very deeply on a01:28:14
sitting movie-ser on a train01:28:16
[music]01:28:18
nayu great work and no less01:28:21
Sorry, a deep analysis will be on April 13, I01:28:25
remind you that this is an independent seminar and01:28:27
not just an appendix to the seminar, the01:28:29
art module argues for those who01:28:31
want to feel confident in01:28:32
communication April 4, analysis of the book of01:28:35
numbers which are for people who want to01:28:37
learn to read, understand literature and01:28:39
grow by reading to grow above themselves April 6th01:28:42
module of the art of thought the beginning of a long01:28:45
separate module the beginning of a long 2 and a01:28:46
half year training cycle of01:28:48
seminars and trainings that go01:28:51
sequentially vlogs and01:28:54
sequences one after another01:28:55
April 23rd we are looking forward to seeing you Come visit01:28:58
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📈 Курс Олега Хомяка "Стратегия жизни" с 20 марта https://apeiron.school//life-strategy 👮 Семинар "Дисциплинарное общество-1" 23 марта https://apeiron.school/disciplinary-society 🚂 Киносеминар "Поезд на Юму" 13 апреля https://apeiron.school/310-to-yuma 🗣 Модуль "Искусство аргументировать" 4 апреля https://apeiron.school/art-of-argumentic 📖 Анализ книги "Война миров" 6 апреля https://apeiron.school/book-reading-course-wells 🧠 Модуль "Искусство мыслить" 23 апреля https://apeiron.school/art-of-thinking 🎓 Школа мышления и коммуникации @ApeironSchool ➖➖➖➖➖ ► https://apeiron.school ► https://t.me/apeiron_school ► https://www.facebook.com/unsupportedbrowser 👕 Мерч: https://shop.apeiron.school/ 00:00 Как бороться с чувством одиночества? Когда отбрасываю знакомых, чувствую себя одинокой и ненужной. 01:51 Что такое прощение, как искренне прощать и просить прощения? 03:16 Как научиться отдыхать во время болезни, а не избавляться от симптомов и работать дальше? 04:22 Часто бывает, что испытываю чувства к молодому человеку, но взаимности нет... 05:13 Я военнослужащий, служил в военном оркестре, пока не произошёл конфликт на профессиональной с начальством. Меня определили в боевую часть с целью избавиться. 06:15 Как убрать невроз? 06:49 Парень 25 лет, никогда не имел интимных отношений. Надо ли говорить об этом девушке, с которой встречаюсь? 08:36 Занимаюсь музыкой, пою, играю на гитаре. Определённо занимаюсь тем, чем должен. Но нет популярности, чтобы обеспечивать себя только музыкой. А жизнь проходит. 09:45 Как не вестись на манипуляции бывших? 11:08 Если Любовь — волевое действие, то как происходит первоначальный выбор? Интуиция словно пропала, а одной рациональности недостаточно. 11:25 Верите ли вы в жизнь без секса? 11:44 Передача мыслей на расстоянии реальна? 12:42 Я весьма асоциальный человек. Взаимодействие с обществом мне даётся чуть ли не через физическую боль. Вот только это взаимодействие необходимо, чтобы зарабатывать деньги. Есть ли выход? 14:28 Психологически мне очень тяжело, меня тошнит от самой себя. Как быть? 14:57 Что такое совесть? Как воспитать ребёнка совестливым человеком? 16:00 Курсы удивили, особенно после домашних заданий! Отличная методика! 16:35 Учусь в Апейроне. На прошлой неделе я дал ответы на мучившие меня годами вопросы, но последние 2 дня ничего не хочется и не знаю, что делать, исчез интерес к жизни. Что это и как из этого выйти? 17:36 Как развивать глубокое мышление? 19:00 Почему хочется действовать себе назло? 19:21 Что выше — воля или разум? 19:56 Стоит ли врать родным, чтобы поберечь их, или нужно говорить прямо обо всем? 20:41 Вы говорили, что судьбы бывают трех типов, и судьбу поменять нельзя, но можно поменять качество ее проживания. Можете подробнее раскрыть, в чем разница между ними, и как их различать? 22:51 Как бороться с несправедливостью? 23:00 Мне 21 год, я в Польше, но хочу вернуться в Украину и даже может пойти в армию. Стоит ли сейчас так рисковать или попытаться самореализоваться там, где я есть? 24:24 Насколько важен навык уметь промолчать, когда в конфликте понимаешь, что факты и правда на твоей стороне? 25:34 Чувствую себя стеснительно и некомфортно в малознакомых компаниях, всегда появляется тревожность. И какой модуль можно взять в вашей школе? 26:36 Как Вы чаще всего восстанавливаетесь после взаимодействия с большим потоком людей? Стало больше клиентов, но и желание сбежать на необитаемый остров усилилось. 27:12 Где искать утешение и силу, когда приходит страх? 28:08 Психологическая независимость — это уже зрелый уровень личности? 28:20 Дисциплинарное общество. Его главный метод — страх? 29:40 Появляются навязчивые мысли, которые все обесценивают. Это концепция или ОКРЛ? 30:18 Как проявляется психологическая смерть, что это? 31:52 Нужно ли прислушиваться к чужому мнению о себе? 32:16 Сейчас выбираю, в какое занятие уйти. Хочется заниматься своим делом по душе, реализацией. И есть большое желание вырасти в доходе. Как выбрать направление? Какие семинары помогут? Внутренняя Честность, Священная Рана? 32:57 После ваших семинаров, в порыве честности супруга рассказала о том, что изменила мне 10 лет назад, теперь постоянно чувствую обиду, полезна ли такая честность? 34:08 Как поддержать мужа после войны? 36:00 С точки зрения науки о поведении животных, человеку свойственно объединяться в союзы. Есть ли шанс на планету без границ, или ждем изменения генов? 37:26 Поставили синдром Аспергера. Дискомфорт в общении, часто нежелание разговаривать даже формально — не понимаю, зачем. Знакомые называют “психбольной” за глаза. Как бороться с этим? ... 👇 Продолжение тайм-кодов под закрепленным комментарием👇 ⛑ Допомога дітям м. Костянтинівка Донецької області ➖➖➖➖➖ 🎯 Ціль: 250 000.00 ₴ 🔗 Банка: https://send.monobank.ua/jar/3YYxBZvqkp 💳 Номер картки банки: 5375411216263256 📍Все официальные ресурсы А.Арестовича: https://lnk.bio/alexey.arestovich
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How can I save a frame from a video "Арестович LIVE #43. Ответы на вопросы @ApeironSchool"?
This feature is available in the UDL Helper extension. Make sure that "Show the video snapshot button" is checked in the settings. A camera icon should appear in the lower right corner of the player to the left of the "Settings" icon. When you click on it, the current frame from the video will be saved to your computer in JPEG format.
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