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hello my dear viewers,

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here is Olga Zinchuk, a practicing

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psychoanalyst, this video is called

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suffering, happiness,

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what begins suffering, suffering most

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often begins with the conviction that I

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can, a person is convinced that he can, and when

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he fails, what he

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thinks he can, he begins to suffer or he

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is trying to achieve what he wants with the

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help of emotional pressure on himself

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and on others, that is, through suffering

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through emotional influence, in his

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opinion, this should suddenly appear to him

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and it will turn out that

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each of us has a certain

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set of capabilities and we can’t come to terms with

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this I want us to be

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able to do what we want.

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This is especially pathological among those people who

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could once now cannot

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admit to themselves that now they

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cannot. I very often come across stories at work

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that at the age of 20 I was in a

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relationship, now I’m not thirty-five it means

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I can be in a relationship for 20 years a person

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idealizes a partner he has much

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fewer claims more hormones that

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intoxicate him and therefore it is

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much easier to create a relationship with 35 hormones are not the

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same already have experience the

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mind and therefore it is much more difficult to find who suits you

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but the person is sure that he

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can and the person does not notice that there are a

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huge number of problems in his psyche, that

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he is quite authoritarian, that he has

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inflated demands on himself and others,

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that he does not know how to conduct a normal dialogue,

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he begins to freak out, he cannot stand it

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when someone has a different opinion and then the

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person invents a fairy tale for himself about the fact

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that everyone is not like that, I haven’t met my person

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who lives like this until

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retirement and never meets the same thing

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happens

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when the [ __ ] a person when you

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earned money he is convinced that now

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he can too he doesn’t care much that

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circumstances have changed that it’s a different

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time and then, with his character, maybe

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now, no, he then fell into some kind of

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stream,

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he could trust more, he was more

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open, he still didn’t have the pain

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that he later received, so he was

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earning money then, or maybe he

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just had more dope, less fear, and

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that’s why he succeeded in these

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risky deals, now everything is different; the

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personality has become different; the personality

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has changed and now I can’t make money like that;

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many are convinced that they deserve a better

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husband or a better wife; we also know many

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stories when people got divorced and then

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it turned out that you couldn’t find anyone at all.

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because you have a rather

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bad character and that previous

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partner

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simply got used to it, or it turns out that

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you are not capable at all, you yourself

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have no goal of not

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making money, or you know how to

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make money from you, you definitely

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needed it from the wife who nagged you

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and I was dissatisfied and only in this

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condition

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can you earn something; there are a lot of

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conventions, but the person still says

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I can, I can, and begins to spread

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rot about himself or the universe about this, let’s

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discuss today the most pathological

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ways of

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achieving happiness through suffering,

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I very often they ask what to do,

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I don’t know what you should do because I don’t

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know what you need, well, what to do in me, I

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can definitely tell you what we

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suppress ourselves with, what we decide to do with energy,

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I know a lot about this, and so

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you can’t do the first thing a person is used to

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comparing himself when a person does not understand

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what kind of person he is, like a child, to compare himself with

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someone reflected as in a mirror and

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then, due to this comparison, he understands

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who is measured, let’s say

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men are more common, they

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are measured by money, machines, earnings, and

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so on, women are measured by others

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usually parts of the body or the number of

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things in the closet when we compare ourselves with

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another we compare round and red

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because you have no idea how

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individual we all are and you

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definitely don’t need to compare with others, it won’t suit you

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what a friend and a roan have,

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a person often starts comparing

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devalue what he himself can do, that is,

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he finds someone who admires him,

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compares, says, I

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don’t have that, I’m bad, so a person makes himself

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depressed, doesn’t solve anything, this

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pathological method usually comes from the

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times when parents compared with

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someone and said, look how a

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neighbor's boy or look how

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my friend's daughter and the person continues to

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do this with himself, that is, he puts

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emotional pressure on you by

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finding shortcomings and badness in himself. A

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similar thing happens when a person

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finds someone worse than himself and constantly,

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for example, goes to his Facebook profile and he does

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n’t maybe like me, and this is not possible, in this

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way a person maintains his

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high artificially created

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self-esteem,

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so the first method of comparison pathologically

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does not bring any results, they only

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lead you along fantasy corridors, the

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second way to be dissatisfied, to be

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dissatisfied, to grumble, you devalue everything,

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it seems to a person that when he is so

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dissatisfied, he grumbles that this

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somehow influences reality, but a

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person, devaluing and looking for everything around him,

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ends up in a situation where everything is

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disgusting around him and he himself is also

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disgusting in this, this is a state

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of dissatisfaction when everything is bad, everything is wrong,

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inability to constructively understand what to

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do with it, that is, a negative evaluative perception

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what is happening also drives a

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person into a dead end, this is another mistake of

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emotional pressure on oneself and on

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reality to be dissatisfied and so the first

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will compare the second to be dissatisfied the third is to

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inflate the drama, that is, this is when

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you are dissatisfied and to an extreme degree everything

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is gone what a horror what a nightmare

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nothing will ever change everything will always be

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bad for the

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person I will blow home, he does this

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only for the only reason because in this

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way he is trying to

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activate himself at the stage, then the logical way of

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activity no longer appears after this,

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but the person is sure that if he

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creates a nightmare, if he creates

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drama, if he creates

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horror-horror then he will want to save himself and

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survive in these conditions, and if a person has

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blocked emotions and in order to

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feel alive he needs

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this kind of thing, then he will begin to

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dramatize and aggravate all the

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problems in order to

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survive in these situations with the matrix and so

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compare to be dissatisfied to inflate hole the

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fourth way to bring yourself to

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despair is to get on credit and

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borrow money to spend everything you

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have to be left without a penny to start and

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survive, that is, a person

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unconsciously brings himself to the abyss so

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that those blocked by the

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blocking mechanisms will let him go and

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he will save himself, that is a person is actually

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allowed to be active when there is a threat to

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his life, a threat to his reputation, and so

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on, and he has to increasingly

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aggravate and escalate the situation in order to

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allow himself that very

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notorious activity that was mentioned

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in the paragraph before this would be to compare

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the dissatisfied, to inflate the drama and bring everything

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to hopelessness

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many people ask why I take out

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loans all the time, why am I always without

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money, that’s why, to the point that

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a person starts to get sick in order for

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us to only aggravate the situation so that

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his activity is finally resolved,

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we go on to come up with enemies, that is, you

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need to find the one who circled you and he wants to

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kill you,

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he wants to harm you, and even if there are no

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suitable people, then you can

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choose anything as this,

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the government,

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some nationality, women,

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men, and so on, that is, due to the fact

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that the enemies have surrounded, there is again a threat to my

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life and a minute to fight to save myself

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I also do the injection this way and

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since it was

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crap, it’s not about my activity, look,

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everything revolves around activity, that is,

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a person, instead of removing these

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mechanisms to unload the car that is

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pulling, he comes up with

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more and more stimulants

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that invigorate him and then he

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wakes up, and so on how buried under

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the boulders lies 6 ways to make a victim out of oneself

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a person begins to come up with the idea that

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he is the most unfortunate thing, that everything is bad for him,

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that he will never succeed, and

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thus he tries to take

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the indulgence of an internal object that

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requires come on, you can at the beginning of this

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video we said I said this I can, that is,

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some part and Hikki says you

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can do it, you must do it, and the second part of

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the psyche is pretending to be dead, sick,

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unhappy, in order to allow myself

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not to be able, that is, I have to be a complete

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zero in order to get rid of my

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own attacks on myself for that that I

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should

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and when a person has an idealistically

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exaggerated demand for himself, then

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he has to pretend to be dead and unhappy more

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and more often because it is

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impossible to bear it and when a person

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can also start to get sick in order to get

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behind himself because when

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I’m lying like a corpse in pain, I at least I have

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no complaints about myself, I can lie down and

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calmly get sick, another point is

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to make yourself a victim, you can use this

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method, the second is to sacrifice yourself for the sake of

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others

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and quietly hate those for whom you

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sacrifice, that is, there is no meaning, emptiness

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inside then I will find someone who will become

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the meaning of my life I’ll start sacrificing for

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him and in this way I will also gain

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meaning and will put

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emotional pressure on myself let’s take care of

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others as usual for us

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they very often get there what to do do

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n’t do this try to find out all

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these seven points that I voiced and

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if you yourself you discover behind these

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actions you understand this is pathological it

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will destroy you and will not lead you anywhere

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happiness to suffer you cannot do

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only a specific action that is feasible for you

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and only they can change your destiny we

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repeat compare yourself with others

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devalue yourself or others

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be dissatisfied look for shortcomings and

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think that in this way you're talking about

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stimulating someone or yourself because

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they can be quite different, inflate

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the drama,

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that is, say that there is absolute hell

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and horror all around, I hope that you become so active and

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begin to save yourself

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4 drive yourself to despair all

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debts get sick owe debt waste all the

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money in order to survive, become

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more active 5 create enemies for yourself with

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whom you are fighting, they surrounded you, you

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need to defeat them otherwise death

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6 make yourself a victim, how unhappy I am,

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get indulgence from that

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part of the psyche that claims that

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mogul come on, and seventh,

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sacrifice yourself in order not to

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look for your own meaning in life

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to serve others and then quietly

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hate them for taking notes this

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positively prominent place recognized them and

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then you ended up

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in one of these seven points and I will invite

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will gain deep practical knowledge and

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I wish you all the best, I wish you do not

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go into these corridors and dead ends from

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which there is no way out where you will destroy yourself

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and that’s it -still strives for the light and the hatch of love

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in the beginning for yourself and then love for other

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all the best to you

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