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Good afternoon, friends, let's talk about jealousy,
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jealousy is a witch with green eyes
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or a green-eyed monster, as Shakespeare wrote about
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it. Let's take a little look at
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what jealousy consists of. The roots of jealousy lie
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in our beast in ancient times, yes. And in
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our biology, it is our instinct, the instinct to
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protect our territory.
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I protect my male, my breadwinner, the
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male protects his female, remember in
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animals it is very clearly expressed how they
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protect their mate, just like
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monkeys protect Yes,
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he won’t let anyone near
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his female, his territory, exactly the same thing
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happens to humans at the level
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biology I will now talk about the fact
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that this is a combination of
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biological factors. Yes, jealousy is social, that is the
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environment in which a person grew up and
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psychologically, I will pay more
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attention to this factor, the
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psychological factor, they say
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jealous means he loves. This does not
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mean at all that he loves, this means the fact
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that he is, in principle, a jealous person And
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in general they say that if he loves, he
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will not act like that even as he is greedy, he
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will love like a greedy poet, he will
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love like a poet due to his own
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personal qualities, and some cattle
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man will love like a cattle man. and
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everything is as he knows how, that is, and
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nothing like that happens to him when he
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falls in love, his personal qualities
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do not change because of this, he just fell in love. But
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let’s say, as before, he remains greedy, and
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so on and so forth about jealousy,
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where it is very important, jealousy is important as a
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seasoning in a relationship this is
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completely understandable Yes, it is very understandable and
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jealousy is very important in a family in order to
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maintain this small social group, the
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family and set these boundaries, people are
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jealous of each other in this way they
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outline the boundaries, this is what is allowed and what is
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not allowed in a Jewish family, these
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will be the same boundaries in a Russian in a family, these
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will be other boundaries. And in an Arab family,
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these will be third boundaries, that is, some kind of
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non-nesting
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If we talk about jealousy, then all the
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children are jealous of each other, they are jealous of brothers and
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sisters, of mom and dad, even
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animals are jealous, and a friend of a friend
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is jealous, this can spread
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almost I’m jealous of my car for everything
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Let’s look at the psychological aspect
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What does it consist of and very often I hear
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from a psychologist low self-esteem low
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self-esteem certainly low self-esteem is
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one of the factors in the manifestation of this
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jealousy of occurrence one of the factors is
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not always a person with low self-esteem
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but will be jealous and a jealous person will not always
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have low self-esteem;
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as many times as you like, you can come across a case
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with a completely adequate self-esteem, a
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man is fine, but a crazy person is
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absolutely jealous. Today, by the way, we will not
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consider psychiatry,
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psychiatry, delusions of jealousy, and so on and so
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forth, because this can
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go as far as
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We will consider such serious dimensions precisely at the level of
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such more or less
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adequate jealousy, more or less some
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kind of conditional health, after all, the
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next point is low self-esteem as a
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factor as not some factor of which
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jealousy, egocentrism, that
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is, everything can consist everything should revolve around me
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everything should revolve around me yes the
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person is so absorbed in his own
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person especially one child in the family and
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I am the only daughter in the family and I am so jealous
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everything everything to me all attention should be to me
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my my everything should belong to me
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this I say as personally, I myself am
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the only daughter my mother has a family
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following the garden masochism This is the most
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interesting component in jealousy,
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those who now listen more deeply to this
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information will reach them,
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maybe someone will recognize themselves, I’m now talking about
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those People who are tormented by this jealousy tormented
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by what does She
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consist of such an Sado-masochic Aspect?
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Let's see, but in my work I
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came across a huge number of
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men for some reason, well, men came with this
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who wanted
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his wife to have sex with
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other men, and by the way, this is
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the basis of a swing party, that's all This is That
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feeling I I ask the question what kind of
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feeling is jealousy jealousy This is what
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excites him Yes, remember very often in
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sexual games A man says Oh, you’re a
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dirty [ __ ] That is, he wants
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you to be a dirty [ __ ], that you
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seem to have slept with someone, this excites him,
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what’s in his head there is jealousy Yes,
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he has jealousy and so he writes And besides,
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many men come to correspond Well,
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he’s ashamed, he’s so ashamed to turn on the
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webcam and say that he
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prefers to write, but that he creates
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all sorts of social pages supposedly for his
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wife, attaches these endless
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photographs of her with corresponds with someone on her
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behalf in order to experience this powerful feeling of
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jealousy. Yes, jealousy, he wants to beat her for this,
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but not only to beat her, and he
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also wants to flog Nava. That is, everything here in
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totality, the next man writes that
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here I am, I married a [ __ ] so that without the end of
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experiencing this
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and this passion out of jealousy And now it
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comes I want her to meet
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another man she comes
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sperm flows out of her and I suck this sperm from her
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work with him Perhaps
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this is some kind of latent form of
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homosexuality and he wants And to suck the
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sperm, he is trying to join
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some man through it And I had one
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like this, as if such a hypothesis no no It
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turned out that jealousy is the
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main Aspect in all this passion of theirs,
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that he is constantly trying
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to slip it to some peasant maybe to
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even look into the well and listen in and
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here he is disturbing it, I ask what kind of
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feeling are you Bura, what is this jealousy,
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jealousy, I say at first, he doesn’t
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understand that Oh, this Aspect
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of jealousy here is like a game of two Sado-
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masochists, she’s like a masochist and he’s like a
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sadist, only this doesn’t happen at the level of a
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specific beating. Although now I
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’ll also cite this case as an example. But at the level of
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moral such psychological
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suffering and torturing oneself. So they
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torture each other. This game is also a very
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tight connection that happens between a
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man and a woman, the next one is like this
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moment I remembered a couple I had,
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she tells him I cheated on you, I
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went there to the south in Evpatoria, I cheated on you there,
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she admitted it to him, how
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she cheated on him, and they agreed
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together that she would serve her sentence, the
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punishment was that he tied her with
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handcuffs to the radiator and that means I beat
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her, she had it once a week or
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some kind of ritual, that is, for
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a year or I don’t remember two, they had to
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go through this. This is the punishment And so
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she absolutely could not track her
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interest in this That is, she
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she saw herself that she was simply
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married to such a freak who was making fun of her as a
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friend, she was deprived of this
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opportunity to see that it was her choice,
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her desire to sacrifice herself to
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feel this
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masochism, this mockery of gravity,
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these above herself This is
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jealousy This is what it consists of Why is
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this such a feeling There is a lot of pleasure in it
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in addition to suffering Exactly like
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in depression, in depression there is also a
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lot of pleasure Yes, depression It is
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terrible But there is a lot of pleasure in it,
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just like in jealousy there is a lot of
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suffering in it and if you look a little
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deeper there is a lot of pleasure in it
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because ask a jealous person what you
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want to do with the object of jealousy, he wo
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n’t tell you I want to get rid of him,
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he won’t tell you I want us to
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get divorced, he won’t say I want so that he
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is happy Or that he will say
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one thing to himself: I want him to suffer, that is, there is
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very powerful sadomasochism here.
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But if he thinks deeply, he will
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most likely
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agree with me, so so so so so so I
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told you And now about the main thing, what to do
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here A lot of people ask: Well, what should
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we do, what should we do, in the end with
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this jealousy, what to do means what to
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do here is a very important point,
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firstly, this is happening for real,
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she really is cheating,
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she’s really wagging her tail. It’s really
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worth it to be jealous.
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reasons, if they exist, then here it is important
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to trace where these reasons are because a
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very large number of women do it
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out of insecurity in relationships. This is what
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she flirts with other men very
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imperceptibly and he seems to understand that she is
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not doing anything special, but he
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reads these reasons because if I
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don’t want men around me to
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look at me, they won’t look at me no matter how
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beautiful I am, they won’t But
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if I want men to look at me
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They will all look at
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me I will send them something,
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send something and my man will
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read this and be jealous of me Yes, and I beat you
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for it, that’s all So very often she
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says I don’t know, like she’s not
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doing anything to me, she’s not cheating on me And I’m so
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jealous of her because she broadcasts
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these sexual vibrations of hers because
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She wants her husband to be jealous of her so
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she wants to receive the attention of
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these men in this way she amuses her raises her
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self-esteem nurtures her pride I am in demand I am in demand
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this is a very common one I’m
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saying now The most common
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case here by the way is also about Sado-
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masochism Please note attention, and jealous
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women often take a handsome
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husband as their husband. So she will take him, this
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handsome man, and she is jealous, jealous and
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jealous. Well, you knew, yes, that is, that
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is, this is about the unconscious choice
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to experience this feeling. Why
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was there something like that in childhood? it
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was a traumatic story with mom and dad,
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something like that happened in childhood,
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she pulled it out from there and now she’s trying to
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act out this scenario in adulthood,
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work it out, live it. Yes, so
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she chooses this handsome guy,
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suffers with him, suffers or does not
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handsome and some kind of ladies' man, let's say obvious,
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she didn't take for herself such a
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passive boring man who
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clung to her skirt and hangs on this
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skirt, it's impossible to be jealous, she didn't
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take for herself such a thing, she took for herself such a
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hoho, he ran and twirled his tail, that's
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all, that's hers there was a choice, there was a need for
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some kind of
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suffering. So, as for what
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to do, she said, if there is a reason,
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then we’ll figure out what it is. What kind of reason? How do things need
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to be changed? the
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third family lives, you
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need to look And if it’s much more important
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here if there is no reason there is no reason And
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I’m an insanely jealous person, well, it’s crazy
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what to do about it, firstly, change jobs
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Well, you say, Well, now should I
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change jobs If this is very important for you
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and you jealousy is exhausted, you need
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to change jobs because you work
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in a team where there is a lot of your gender
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and you need the opposite sex. Here she
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works as a woman in this
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endless group of women where she has all the
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teachers, of course she will be
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jealous of this man of hers, of course
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she will think about him endlessly how is he
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there, what is he there, who is he calling? And if she
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works in a male team, then
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this racial jealousy will focus on everyone and
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everything and she will come home
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calmly, plus on top of everything, she will
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receive a bunch of bonuses in the form of praise, she
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will groom or damage her self-esteem yes,
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and everything will be fine, she will be
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satisfied to come there, they told her
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something there, kissed her hand here,
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gave her a gift here, the door was opened, she
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will come home calmly. This is a
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very important moment to dilute yourself with the
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opposite sex so that there are
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a lot of them around, a lot of them, that is, if you
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a man and you are jealous of your woman, then in
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your team there should be many
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beautiful women. You must touch it.
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Sometimes it happens like an attack of jealousy,
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even like this.
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tyry-tyry tyry
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you need to look not thoughts strengthen but
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feelings and sensations immersed, immersed
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your inner gaze deep into yourself and
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strengthened strengthened strengthened strengthened
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even some kind of Scream will go like this, such a heart-rending one
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because it’s really some kind of
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Green Witch sitting this heart-rending Scream
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you can take here so here's a pillow
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here Take a pillow and scream into the
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pillow even press it directly tightly and
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scream into the pillow this heart-rending
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Scream
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And yes, this is what I said strengthen strengthen
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strengthen strengthen strengthen strengthen This is the
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next moment -
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very few people in a couple can do this frankness maintaining
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frankness, openness
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means absolutely, and this needs to be demonstrated
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starting with oneself, so few people know how to do this, you
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need to learn everything, here I am, I
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speak openly, I openly express
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my feelings, I walk around the apartment naked, I
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don’t hide my computers, my phones,
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everything is open. and I’m open I’m
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open and call on your partners
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to show us we’re being demonstrated We’re open
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Because when it starts here it’s closed
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here it’s closed There it’s closed here it’s hidden here there’s a
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pin code here a pin and here we are all
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classified like that then everything
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becomes unclear behind the awnings Yes a
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Mystery appears, some question there shouldn’t be a
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special question, please, everything
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is open, everything is
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open, everything seems to be like this, I
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told you everything quickly, quickly,
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quickly, I told you about everything, I’m waiting for
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you at my consultations on Sky. All the
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best,
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goodbye

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